Why Being Sweet Doesn't Work On Women

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@LFA 2 ай бұрын

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@myrtistaylor5759 2 ай бұрын

Explain what "taking charge" entails. Because my last relationship every time every time I'd say no to something I wouldn't get listened too. Like I said no to dogs and I come home from work and there's a dog. Or I said no to painting the house and come home from work and the house was painted. And getting upset and yelling didn't do shit.

@MeditationalState 2 ай бұрын

*This man has an extremely rare gift of being able to take such a complex subject and break it down into something anyone can understand. If I was wearing a hat I'd take it off to your Sir.*

@ZaidIsm007 2 ай бұрын

Well said.

@AnkyPank 2 ай бұрын

Yes, he's really good!

@BlackBoyKingTV 2 ай бұрын

Its not complicated

@BelieveInJMH 2 ай бұрын

@@BlackBoyKingTV And yet he has a following for a reason. Most things can be broken down simply, but that navigation is what's key.

@ModernDatingMastery 2 ай бұрын

*Being sweet without confidence often comes across as trying too hard to please, which can undermine your attractiveness. Pair kindness with self-assuredness, and it changes the game completely.*

@DanielBice 2 ай бұрын

Women expecting men to always feel confident and have zero insecurities 24/7 is unrealistic, and they should lower their standards a little bit. Nobody is confident 100% of the time, not even a narcissist.

@Oneulchikinmukgeosseoyo 2 ай бұрын

Moral of the story: don't get emotionally invested under any circumstances. Eventually you're going to get burned and have everlasting regret

@SweetCandy-x4j 2 ай бұрын

Women are definitely moving like this in 2024.

@aDionisss 2 ай бұрын

It's too late..

@peezieforestem5078 2 ай бұрын

Mate, you're saying this to preserve your fragile ego. That is weakness, and the price for it is losing meaning. True strength lies in getting emotionally invested, but then having boundaries and the resolve to withstand the loss of a person you care about, and not becoming resentful afterwards. All those you care about will pass away sooner or later, including yourself. You will lose everyone, no exception. That doesn't mean you have to stop caring about them. On the contrary, this means you should cherish the time you have with them. That is true for your relatives, friends, and a romantic partner.

@devries3 18 сағат бұрын

@@peezieforestem5078 Relationships only works when the woman loves the man and the man likes the woman.

@Arabdude2007 2 ай бұрын

Been in many relationships just on my experience you treat em like garbage they become clingy and your her whole world.On the other hand I've treated a few like Queens and those will smash your heart into pieces and take the utmost advantage of you There is no in between .

@rayrwyr 2 ай бұрын

Sad but true.

@mrnice7570 2 ай бұрын

Sadly true

@cs.8821 2 ай бұрын

facts!

@akoyisangpinoy4705 2 ай бұрын

so can you give me advise to become an a-hole so a girl will like me ?? 😅😅

@dat868 2 ай бұрын

I knew a guy who seemed to have success with the ladies. Once day I asked him how he did it and he looked around to make sure nobody was within earshot and said "I just treat them like crap and they seem to like that".

@HomeGrownPyro1 2 ай бұрын

Women always give Alfa male treatment in the beginning for a while… but they will always revert back to treating you like shit or a beta male. Usually it just means she’s bored and the relationship will be coming to an end soon

@BlackBoyKingTV 2 ай бұрын

Thats when you tell her to kick rocks and get another chick and watch them come back begging

@Big_talks. 2 ай бұрын

And this is all woman right?

@mrnice7570 2 ай бұрын

@Big_talks pretty much, modern worlds reduced their attention span like a goldfish whilst social media has spiked her narcissism.

@maitregab4997 2 ай бұрын

Exactly they have no human value! The seek control over you at one point are another... its not worted... its always a game.... And you are like a pusher to them, you guive them emotional high, and when wath you do is not enoufgh for them, you get discard replace are watever... you end up being nothing... the game is that brutal.... They are never in love with you, its always wath can they use from you...... The bul....it they have been feeding us with love is a piece of crap lol... Work on yourself your personal growth forget about them

@hoedemakerbart 2 ай бұрын

Woman are always bored. They want thrills everyday

@Brandon-t6k 2 ай бұрын

Im 41 years old LFA makes my life easier .thank you

@basselalkhatib1324 2 ай бұрын

Guys it all comes down to how much she likes you in the first place ( I mean physically ) If the girl's really into you and has high interest in you, then you don't have to worry about how she perceives your personality as long as you're neurotypical in fact being sweet to a girl makes her like you even more if she's that attracted to you ( I'm speaking from experience myself ) Besides, when you like a girl who likes you back or probably more than you do her, you won't get attached in a weak, obsessive way no matter how much you love and desire her

@godsbruh 2 ай бұрын

initial high attraction is lust. which always wears of over time

@chez0788 2 ай бұрын

@@godsbruh you got that right

@AnkyPank 2 ай бұрын

@@godsbruh , Oftentimes, yes. But not always. Sometimes initial high attraction can be partially physical, partially cerebral/cognitive (digging the intellect and/or the wavelength). And that's what can make for longerlasting relationships.

@mike-we8pb 2 ай бұрын

A pimp said the same thing

@symboIiq 2 ай бұрын

“As long as you’re neurotypical”. Why’s that?

@tedknight1676 2 ай бұрын

You just have to learn to let shit go.

@witchreturns2263 2 ай бұрын

Whit experience you learn this and why

@henrya1347 2 ай бұрын

Nothing matters as much as it seems in the present

@mrnice7570 2 ай бұрын

Absolutely 💯 it's trying to hold onto a cat that gets you scratched up, be the one to push away first , keeps em coming back for more

@bassamal-kaaki3253 2 ай бұрын

When you ignore, they come to you. When you show interest and throw yourself all over, they run away 😊 Women want strong men, being a sweet man is a weak sign for a women. Women don’t want weak men!

@zacharylewis2764 2 ай бұрын

Faccts g…noticed the same….set em free know your worth….if they do they b with u

@paulclinton6414 2 ай бұрын

I don't care what they want. Even caring enough not to care is weak and try hard.

@JJ-vp3bd 2 ай бұрын

@@paulclinton6414 caring not to care is weird and week in my opinion

@bobbybilly-xn4ch 2 ай бұрын

Being sweet to a woman is not weak in her eyes .. how you interact with the world determines that to her. The toughest guys in the world act sweet to women, obviously lol

@bassamal-kaaki3253 2 ай бұрын

@@bobbybilly-xn4chout of experience being too sweet does not attract a women. Women feel a strong, semi sweet person is the right mix.

@shanecle 2 ай бұрын

Choose a woman that chooses you. Marry her. Then, stop thinking about women.

@nananyantakyi1549 2 ай бұрын

@@ModernityDailyWhat?😂 how? He asking men to get "married "

@kalprao 2 ай бұрын

LOL... it ain't that simple buddy. From the moment you marry her, she will start to look for reasons as to why she's with you and why she's submissive to you. as soon as you let your guard down and get comfortable , she will start to look for reasons to leave you or reasons to cheat on you... My point is this, never think that you have her, that she's yours just cause you're married or in a relationship her, because her shit testing you never ends and it will only get worse once you're committed to her.

@aDionisss 2 ай бұрын

You have to also choose her. If you don't like her it's exhausting and it will never work out

@shanecle 2 ай бұрын

@@AngelofJustice412 Let me clarify, of the few women that choose you, choose one of them. She doesn't have to be 10/10, but attractive to you and preferrably, has a compatible lifestyle to you. Being in a serious, comitted relationship with a decent woman solves 90% of your problems in life. When I was single, I used to stew on my past mistakes and think about women and dating almost everyday. Now, I am married and I just focus on my job, hobbies and simply enjoy quality time with my family. I spend 0 minutes worrying about the intracies of dating/female psychology. Good luck!

@radeknosil2950 2 ай бұрын

wrong, women can be a hella confused about you

@ScallywagArtist 2 ай бұрын

Often you will get a girl because you acted alpha and got the alpha treatment but then once you get into a relationship with her and start doing relationship behavior she starts treating you like a beta and then loses attraction and breaks up with you

@humanerror7 2 ай бұрын

so true

@SPACEDOUT19 2 ай бұрын

Everything works on women if you are attractive and tall

@williewill1237 2 ай бұрын

Not necessarily I am below average in height, but I got a big sword and I put to shame those over 6 foot and I’m attractive. If a woman likes you and she’s attracted to you, you have power over her.

@A.I.N.A.C.. 2 ай бұрын

not true

@SPACEDOUT19 2 ай бұрын

@ here we go with delusional men coping

@williewill1237 2 ай бұрын

@@SPACEDOUT19 Karen !

@dubledee777 2 ай бұрын

5 7 I hit all height ranges lol they love it

@martinTouffe 2 ай бұрын

The truth is most woman nowadays are full of problems. If you're a attractive all these woman will come up to you with their problems. They need a dad, they need money, they need protection from their crazy EXs... etc... All trouble. Being attractive is not what everyone think it is. Quality is rare. Very rare. Men and woman. I've being approached by a lot of woman and it's sad. Every girl on my street tried to get with me and they all have huge problems. My current ( or ex) GF started to follow me out of jealousy. I'm sad for them that they've been sold a dream. There is no finish line, there is no golden egg or princess... Being alpha or beta won't matter. But that's right. It's the treatment you receive. Drop the glasses man, you speak from the heart. You speak Truth with a capital T. I'm not here because of the advice. I'm here because you speak from the heart.

@BrutalOrc 2 ай бұрын

At least you got to hit

@martinTouffe 2 ай бұрын

@@BrutalOrc Yes, you're right. What i'm tring to say is even if you're attractive and you hit, the feeling of desire remains.

@dat868 2 ай бұрын

Most women are emotional basket cases with money issues despite outward appearances to the contrary. Most are perpetually 12-13yr old girls in adult bodies.

@user-or9cj3vk6t 2 ай бұрын

Watching on a black and white eink phone. I cant tell but assume he wears sunglasses as its sunny?

@troobix_s 2 ай бұрын

Even if a girl is really into you, she loves you, she is attracted and your relationship is still on a chemical stage - if you are too sweet (I speak from my experiecne), they actually become more like men. What I mean by that: during this period girls might don't understand why they are not attracted fully (in a way of giving themselves like they do to chads on a first date), yet they feel they are in love, so they logically supress that contradiction. The main flags you can see during this period in a woman - she can be extremely sweet with you, extremely horny to you in one time, but at some other time of day - they can look grumpy, unresponsive, not laugh from your jokes, but when they talk with some friends - they do look happier. This period can be as long as chemical reaction still working, up to half a year even. So you during this period of time actually have an opportunity to change anything without damage to yourself. Most guys can't change anything, they don't experiment, they just continue to be sweet and when chemical reaction is over, girl no longer can supress the feeling of love towards you, contradicted with not enough attraction and love will start to fade, she will start to distance and try to end the relationship. So if you see those flags in a girl: use this time to your advantage, change, you basically have an unlimited amount of trials of errors during this time.

@christopheperron-martel4089 2 ай бұрын

Today, women will never admit they want a men who is in charge so instead, watch who they go for and you will see for yourself. Actions never lies.

@BlackBoyKingTV 2 ай бұрын

They go for losers and betas so they can be in control

@Trisof88 2 ай бұрын

This society is a disaster

@Damesanglante 2 ай бұрын

Of course it is. A society based on greed can only lead to alienation.

@dragorn3212 Ай бұрын

@@Damesanglante Every society is based on greed. What makes us special is we allowed womens greed to run completely rampant.

@dend1 2 ай бұрын

14:26 Logical explaination on why it makes sense to work on improving leadership. Thank you for this

@ndndndnnduwjqams 3 күн бұрын

100%

@ndndndnnduwjqams 3 күн бұрын

Thanks for remarking it

@dend1 3 күн бұрын

@ndndndnnduwjqams thank you for replying. A gem from the past, I needed to be reminded of

@noahortiz7032 2 ай бұрын

Thanks for the chat & content sir!

@sonicxis4ever 2 ай бұрын

Brother your video quality has been amazing lately

@recklessnotion1899 2 ай бұрын

9:45 holy shit thats a 💎 just had to hear it out loud to realize it. This is true with not only women but men as well. Alot of my experiences from the past and what i experience now regularly make alot more sense now

@delorenzo47 2 ай бұрын

LFA 🐐 ALL GOD DAMN DAY 👊🏼😎

@-glitch-8195 2 ай бұрын

You’re definitely right that looking good only gets you so far. Just recently I had a female guest who was not a U.S. citizen play two chads back to back. One was the ex who she smeared as the “cheater”. The other was a rebound. She literally had the rebound less than 24 hours after I checked her in. They had a whole date in the dark cause we got hit with storms where I live. She was trying to lock down a man so she can stay in the U.S. Hell she tried to blame me for information she shared about her location with her ex. Called her out to her face. Dudes be assuming looking good is somehow going to prevent you from being manipulated. It will not. They were both dying to be “helpful”. Sometimes women act nice for the circumstances. It’s best to look for consistency than highs & lows. Extreme highs & lows are usually a bad sign.

@geekiepooh 2 ай бұрын

Yup. Looking good alone won't waive you from being taken advantage of, friendzoned, cheated on, manipulated on, shit tested.

@CindersTreasureMtg 2 ай бұрын

Good video. Once I started to not care about others name calling me once I started taking control nearly everyone either good super mad or I just let them go. Only my 2 good friends are left. All the ladies told me I'm horrible.

@cain6981 2 ай бұрын

Props bro. I've listened to a decent amount of dating advice content and you do a better job than most of explaining things. Appreciate the video, keep up the good work

@dalewhite4759 2 ай бұрын

LFA is the man

@Seekingsophia00 2 ай бұрын

Pure facts brother 👊🏽

@HemedyMustapha 2 ай бұрын

Bro you saved me thenx it's true a man when you catch feelings you become weak

@AlphaChadBricks 2 ай бұрын

What's up brother men, I hope everyone's feeling like a chad tonight.

@alex14111 2 ай бұрын

Tyrone actually, but sometimes after the gym and a few drinks I feel like Chad.

@sonicxis4ever 2 ай бұрын

As a black guy, I feel like a Tyrone🤣

@VADemon 2 ай бұрын

Feel like whoever you want to be today, my fellow brethren. Just don't choose the other gender.

@user-ju6zx3rm8d 2 ай бұрын

doesn't matter how you feel, it's all about LOOKS

@nikhil8892 2 ай бұрын

Nicely explained bro thank you

@burnedoils 2 ай бұрын

excellent video

@ColleenGallagher-b2i 2 ай бұрын

Excellent. I am submissive to an alpha and it’s fantastic.

@derekluna7700 2 ай бұрын

oooga booga does he hit your head with a stick? 🤣

@MeYup-wb5sx 2 ай бұрын

Something came to my mind "You're a sweet guy but..." 😂 Heard that before? I have lol

@smartengineering8934 Ай бұрын

So true, much easier to be harsh on a girl a couple weeks after she breaks up with you, time for the oxytocin to wear off likely.

@davidcoppotelli3957 2 ай бұрын

LFA, GOOD TOPIC. DIFFERENT WORLD OUT HERE. FOR SURE YOU BETTER STAY IN YOUR OWN LANE. NEVER TAKE THE FOCUS OFF OF YOU. SEEMS TO ME WOMEN ARE GONNA COME AND GO. YOU CAN"T COUNT ON ANYON E TO MAKE YOU HAPPY AND IF YOUR ALWAYS BEING MR. NICE GUY AND YOUR NOT GETTING IT BACK IN RETURN. IF A WOMEN ISN"T ALL OVER AND YOU DOING THE CHASING YOUR BETTER OFF CHASSING YOURSELF. ALONE DOES NOT MEAN YOUR LONELY.

@sophie8466 2 ай бұрын

I rather use emotional intelligence, empathy, and the respect of the boundries instead of dominate or letting me dominate by others. Dominating someone is one of the most obvious sign of lack of respect. I just leave the person who tries it and laugh at him/her in my soul. Its for children. Where domination is present there is no compromise present, where no compromise, no harmony, no love, is doomed to fail.

@LFA 2 ай бұрын

That sounds a lot like what I recommended! Great minds think alike.

@cesardelgado6821 2 ай бұрын

No contact is the best solution

@TammyJones-y2u 2 ай бұрын

I have the best man ever, he is always in charge and I love it. Here to please him and only him;but I also love him being nice nothing wrong in being nice just don't take advantage of it. I'm happy knowing that he knows I'm always here for him. Love means taking care of one another and that is what we do. He has never asked me for anything that I didn't drop what I was doing and do what he wanted. He is my life forever ❤ Good video, hope it helps some of these women that thinks they need to be the man or don't need a man. I wouldn't take anything for my soulmate.

@weskerEverKnight 2 ай бұрын

Cheers man 🍺

@KristopherStidd 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for the video LFA! Man I'm learning so much ❤

@hellybeans4480 2 ай бұрын

REAL SPILL

@shandi4868 2 ай бұрын

Im a woman and I can tell you that being sweet, if it truly comes from your heart (im not talking about the fake sweetness), is the most beautiful and appreciated quality ❤

@LFA 2 ай бұрын

But just like anything else, if it’s not balanced out by its opposite, it will lose its effectiveness.

@JJ-vp3bd 2 ай бұрын

@@LFA Its like too much light without the shadow. Need a good balance or its one sided

@JackReacher-d6x 2 ай бұрын

@@JJ-vp3bdshe littery just debunked the manopshere

@adam-v7w-w9i 2 ай бұрын

@@JackReacher-d6x Her whole comment is a giant shit test. If you ever see a heart emoji from a woman, you're either in the friend zone or you're a "sweet", "cute" side squeeze to give her a boost when Chad won't reply.

@JackReacher-d6x 2 ай бұрын

@@adam-v7w-w9i you incel

@initiatorhater0688 2 ай бұрын

if a woman thinks of a guy as sweet and kind, that is a sign he is in the friend-zone, but at the same time, a woman thinking of a guy as sweet and kind, is better than the woman thinking of the guy as creepy and weird, uncomfortable.

@gusevening4910 2 ай бұрын

it came from D&D . chaotic neutral

@AnkyPank 2 ай бұрын

Oh the calming noise of a leaf blower

@jesusmorales1480 2 ай бұрын

I have enjoyed your teaching technique, LFA. It's simple and straightforward.

@theincredibleharry151 2 ай бұрын

Okay but what if you're " sweet " because you're LEGITIMATELY a good man. Not a push over but a good man. And you dont only treat her with kindness and compassion and etc, but you treat EVERYONE that you love and respect with that same brotherly love. What then lol. I'm not gonna change my fundamental moral values because a woman thinks I'm simping ya know lol.

@Insight-music 2 ай бұрын

I’d agree, being a man is really all about your integrity and ability to affect those around you positively. Being a “bad boy” is an ego trip guys feed into that caters to exalting sexual symbol as the highest priority. That being said, gotta be careful not to confuse being a good man with being too emotionally open and delusional by treating others well who don’t deserve it. Be good to those who are good to you, don’t try and compensate for a woman who doesn’t reciprocate that good energy back to you.

@LFA 2 ай бұрын

Being sweet is doing what you think others want, which's means they're missing out on all the awesome things you have to offer when you're being the real you.

@martinTouffe 2 ай бұрын

WE need to operate on principles. If you want to be nice, then be nice brother. Use your wisdom to spot those who only want to take and not give in return. If sharing or... community are your values. Then act on them. We need more of that in this world. What do you want ?

@AnthonyManzio 2 ай бұрын

@@LFA Sure take charge into prison these days.

@frankdrizzo3528 2 ай бұрын

Then your leaning into feminine energy. So for polarity you would need a more dominate female. Theres plenty of happy betas out there lol.

@PaulaW-wq1kh 2 ай бұрын

It does it's genuine.

@nocaptainmatt3771 2 ай бұрын

Yeah this video is definitely a splash of ice cold water for me

@Cinnamon535 2 ай бұрын

Bro there's was this gurl at work who I was always mean and acted like she didn't exited them I started giving her a little attention and she would get all pretty for my validation, but then I broke and confess my feelings told h3r I liked h3r she turned into a complete b towards me after, never doing that again

@Lenny-zn8hn 2 ай бұрын

yeah from what i can say, "telling her you like her" is the mistake in the first place. ive done it and many of my friends did - dont tell her, let her know by action.

@JohnStea7 2 ай бұрын

The best advice I recieved about this topic: was 'Paul Varjak from Breakfest at Tiffany's is the role model you want to be.'

@silentwalk1768 2 ай бұрын

Mint👌🏼what's up brother😃😂 thanks 👍🏾

@TJ-wt9op Ай бұрын

4:28 i believe the science shows that love is comprised of three different systems within the brain; romantic love is a separate sort of feeling than sexual attraction. Since they are independent, they can both be felt at the same time, OR felt alone without the need for the other

@hunterxangler 2 ай бұрын

Tales From The Crypt! HBO! You’re 38, IDK. Definitely nostalgic, I do recall the episode.

@alexgeld7173 2 ай бұрын

Yeah, LFA. Apparently, now even cuddling after good sex, gets you disqualified these days! After you experience that couple of times, you just turn it off and move on!

@ndndndnnduwjqams 3 күн бұрын

**Summary with Timestamps: "Why Being Sweet Doesn't Work with Women"** --- ****00:00:39** - Common Dating Issue** - Many men struggle with a woman losing interest over time. - The pattern? They were overly sweet and accommodating. --- ****00:01:15** - Alpha vs. Beta Treatment** - Women make rules for "Betas" and break rules for "Alphas." - "Alpha" and "Beta" aren't personality types; they're the way a man is treated. - **Alpha treatment:** She prioritizes you, makes effort, and is eager to please. - **Beta treatment:** She sets the terms, controls the dynamic, and isn't as invested. --- ****00:03:38** - Why Men Become Sweet & Weak** - When a man catches feelings, he gets emotionally invested and softer. - Oxytocin makes men more docile, leading them to act "nice" instead of confident. - This shift causes women to take control and set rules. --- ****00:06:42** - The Opposite Dynamic in Women** - When men get emotionally invested, they become weak. - When women get emotionally invested, they become excited and energetic. - Women naturally respond to dominance and leadership in a man. --- ****00:08:03** - Why Women Make Rules for "Betas"** - When a man is overly sweet, the woman feels in control. - In control = setting rules, which makes her lose attraction. - When she's attracted and excited, she breaks rules instead. --- ****00:09:33** - Establishing Dominance in Relationships** - In any relationship (romantic, social, business), someone leads, and someone follows. - Men need to establish dominance naturally-not forcefully but through self-confidence. - Pickup artists try to mimic dominant behavior, but true dominance comes from knowing what you want and walking away if you don't get it. --- ****00:11:06** - The Mindset Shift** - **Stop accepting a submissive role in relationships.** - Women want a man who takes charge, leads, and stands firm in what he wants. - The key is to maintain your standards and not chase validation. --- ****00:14:05** - A Woman Wants a Man in Control** - Historically, women found leadership and decisiveness attractive. - Being in control doesn’t mean being aggressive-it means having a clear direction and sticking to it. --- ****00:16:21** - Breaking Free from "Beta Treatment"** - If you're already being treated as a "Beta," reversing it is difficult. - Best options: - Walk away. - Go no contact. - Re-enter with a new, more dominant energy. --- ****00:17:53** - Final Advice** - Communicate directly and on your terms. - Lead interactions instead of following rules she sets. - Women instinctively respond to a man with "big daddy energy." --- That’s it for this one. Hope this was helpful! Let me know your thoughts below.

@BamaTony73 2 ай бұрын

I mean what kind of sense does it make to be nice and sweet to a woman and that will ruin the relationship every time. 😂 You're right!!! Sad but true. That's the times we're living in people. I'm 51 and I've been through this more times than I care to mention. Just remember the nice guy finishes last. It has got me not even dating anymore. I have stepped away and taking a break from all of it.

@fegermany2413 2 ай бұрын

I pray that men are being sweet , just a flower and talk over life . But its just a dream today

@droidgunner3840 2 ай бұрын

Weak docile and sweet also talks to her in a higher pitched voice and his eyes turn into precious moment eyes

@pyramidhead138 2 ай бұрын

a month ago i gave up MY game console. VGs get boring after a while, they just seem like a waste of time, and they add no value to your life

@akoyisangpinoy4705 2 ай бұрын

video games are better than wasting time with women... Trust me... video games wont play with your feelings and steal your money... women will 😅😅

@jadizm 2 ай бұрын

11:37 FAXXX!!

@user-ju6zx3rm8d 2 ай бұрын

what if she has BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder), is preggo with your child, and has broken up with you and is now no contact? what then...

@WokeMindVirus25 2 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@shnoopydoopy6707 Ай бұрын

LOL

@user-ju6zx3rm8d Ай бұрын

@@shnoopydoopy6707 🤡

@symbologee Ай бұрын

Congrats

@user-ju6zx3rm8d Ай бұрын

@@symbologee thanks man. first warm reply

@C7stray Ай бұрын

I literally have switched alpha treatment to beta from this it's true. My ex like that sweet stuff but I'd throw in some mean stuff bantering sometimes and balanced it.

@EbikeAdventures667 2 ай бұрын

Right

@BlazingNChilling7s Ай бұрын

I wish more women had a mindset like Pearl or Sara Eaton.

@MarylandGuy-ey3st 2 ай бұрын

I come in and the like counter is at 304 😂

@CompleteControl99 2 ай бұрын

5:41 real talk

@geniusproductions2888 2 ай бұрын

LFA, love your channel bro. Quick question. I’m being forward here but I’m currently beta bc of a PMO addiction, but I know deep down that being Alpha is who I am. What one piece of advice would you give on my transition to becoming a better man and leaving PMO behind? Bc enough is enough of that $&@T.

@desireerice3699 2 ай бұрын

IS THERE A MIDDLE GROUND

@ricosreport Ай бұрын

I would like to know your thoughts on the 'Sigma Male'

@zacharylewis2764 2 ай бұрын

I could hear the leaf blower lowkey 😂….u preach facts my man…missin the brown jacket for a cold evening. im 25 I know the chick I’m seeing is seeing other guys….we’re not exclusive but I’m fine w that….does that mean im submissive? A beta? I’ve also noticed that….in social settings the girl I’m seeing tends to use other guys to test me (initial stages when we ain’t exclusive) shed talk to them when we go to bars but if I conform to this I’m a beta? She set that rule to talk to other guys….ive noticed when I’m truly focused on having a good time ie not concerned bout her talking to other guys she comes back to me…..almost like she lost the game 😅….but is that a beta move tho? Would an alpha tell her he doesn’t like that? Does that not mean he’s being insecure/possessive? Coz all the chicks of my generation do that…you can say I’m seeing the wrong girls but it’s been like 95% of my experience….. Do I just accept the situation coz they say if u truly like someone set em free but by this videos definition id that beta? Am I misunderstanding? Definitely consider u to be an alpha n other bros out here thoughts guys…sorry went on a rant

@vitorpereira5461 2 ай бұрын

I'll anwer that for you. Yea girls that age do this commonly. Your girl is not "bad", shes just damaged by todays society. You accept the situation because she will not change, unless you mirror her behavior naturally. If you date a 10/10 and she gets to know it, she will stop I guarantee you. She's attracted to you, but does not respect you as an alpha obviously. You are probably attractive physically, but too quiet and weak on behavior around her. What to do: see other girls as attractive as her. Talk to other women as attractive as her when shes around. Dont do it to piss her off, make it naturally. I dont know flirt with the cashier... yes your behavior is beta and you know that.

@MrPatrickmjames 2 ай бұрын

@12:08 legit viral meme template opportunity hahahahaha

@JeffRamblin 2 ай бұрын

" You're the reason God made Oklahoma " by David frizzell and Shelly West

@RomanDiaries 2 ай бұрын

Normie behavior is appalling. Normies are appalling.

@kathyguinto4585 2 ай бұрын

What a surprise!.JMG

@humanerror7 2 ай бұрын

It's true. Guard your heart, gentlemen. Even if she seems like she's EVERYTHING YOU EVER DREAMED OF, do NOT allow yourself to fall for her. Make her work for that. Make her REALLY work for it. Otherwise, your love will have no VALUE to her. And even when she does eventually earn that love, you must not allow it to make you soft. If you're a god fearing man, an easy way to do this is to say "god above all" and remember god > man > woman > child. This is the heiarchy; never forget it. ALWAYS follow god's will over your wife's. She is not the leader and never will be. Never submit, and always have her submitting.

@Damesanglante 2 ай бұрын

Submitting to fairy tales is the most beta thing mankind ever faced.

@TheFlareMind 2 ай бұрын

@@Damesanglante yeah that has poisoned society as well, people want to follow disney films, music and TV shows regarding "love". I see lot of people just rushing into relationships then it exploding, then jumping to another person. The number of people on my social media feed who are now suddenly "dating" is crazy. I think some of them need the money for Christmas and when New Year rolls by, poof, they split up. By early Feb, people get into relationship for Valentine Day. Don't get me started on that.

@marcmeinzer8859 2 ай бұрын

Being treated like a so called “beta” cannot occur unless you submit to it willingly. So to me such treatment is most commonly involved with situations where you’re stuck somehow, and for whatever reason cannot get free. But if a female acquaintance starts refusing to take my calls or whatever then I’m immediately done with them permanently nor will they be getting any explanations either.

@ralphthomas7868 2 ай бұрын

When a man is in love, his testosterone levels go down. Perhaps women can smell that on him as well as his beta behavior. The lesson to be learnt is you can't love them how you want to.......love them without loving them, commit without committing.

@inker1972 2 ай бұрын

Sad state of affairs

@will.davlin 2 ай бұрын

socks to bed = best sleep possible , if you say no and havent tried that makes no sense cuz your experience is the base

@BravoBravo51 2 ай бұрын

Coming from a dude that wears boots daily Being barefoot after the day is up is something great that can’t simply be explained any other way. Even when we would be out in the field in the army, and I was in my fart sack for the rest of the night, socks were off. And that might as well have been law.🤘🏼

@Lenny-zn8hn 2 ай бұрын

FACTS dude. everytime i try without, its not the same.

@witchreturns2263 2 ай бұрын

To not catch feelings for them and become needy, is to see each other at least regularly and later to move together. Just keeping like this not moving forward, she might leave for a man who wants something with her so you'll sure have some feelings (when you see you loose her). Like FOMO Yeah, ladies are true to their feelings(and to what they want out of life) than to reasoning. The reason: life goes fast, we don't have time to waste with things that don't eventually work. Again, another year has passed, so it feels shtty to not move forward as much as you wanted. And 2 years are also nothing, they'd be gone fast... so know what you want than wasting time

@witchreturns2263 2 ай бұрын

All the rest are just distraction that will take you nowhere, waste of time