I watch Goths, I love Goths and what I wear is often labeled as 'Goth' or 'Gothic' but I don't call myself a Goth. I'm Alternative and Goth Adjacent, but I will always stand up for Goths when they feel like their subculture is being used inappropriately. Us weirdos need to stuck together and live our best spooky lives 🖤🦇
@victorianorth7720 Жыл бұрын
Hello. I am 18 and am heavily interested in the subculture and really like the music. Thank you for so much for sharing. Personally, I feel as if my generation doesn’t owe people like you and Angela the respect and support you should have for help to maintain and grow the subculture that we all love and know. Obviously, there are individuals who do understand, such as myself, however I think that as a whole we should ask more, and not be so quick to judge. Thank you so much! This was very important information to keep in mind!
@SquishyMain2 жыл бұрын
Yes. There are multiple things that go into it. Music did became a big part but we shouldn't forget everything else.
@80snostalgiafan792 жыл бұрын
I'm an 80s chick, well more like my older sisters 80s chicklet, but loved 80s Synth music New Romantic and now Dark Wave music which reminds me of that kinda of music, I appreciate Sisters of Mercy too. I've always liked Goths, studied Vlad at one point as I had to know the real Dracula, unfortunately not as romantic as the films. I'm dipping my toe in the beautiful clothes world of Goth. Thanks for your good talk!
@meaganoneill72932 жыл бұрын
haha what would Siouxie's perfume smell like or Bjork? hahah sorry I just came up with that I'm 47. And actually was trying to find a great video on what foundation to use as you're getting older because all the damn foundations are oddly cakey when your skin starts to shift. AndI found this awesome video.
@WyldwychsRamblings2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, its been a while since I posted a video... mainly these days I rarely use foundation during the day, and only use it during the evenings.. currently using Boots No.7 in ivory, it doesn't go cakey on my skin, and isn't too heavy. I mainly prefer a fairly light coverage and also find a powder that is iridescent more flattering than flat as I find that helps to disguise wrinkles... always use a primer too, as it really helps to smooth out pores and fine lines before putting on a foundation. :-)
@sabreenasnow1192 жыл бұрын
hi I hope ur doing alright
@reganv.83092 жыл бұрын
I keep doing the eye-shadow thing on my lips 😂😂
@oooSPOOKSooo3 жыл бұрын
You truly are the voice of reason in a sea of people who don't understand the culture. Elder goths are our greatest resource as younguns
@yasminemesliart3 жыл бұрын
I appreciate older women goth like you, you speak gently I'd like to listen to all of your stories about goth back then, I never searched what is goth but I discovered goth music when I was 14 now I'm 21 and always liked the old bands now I'm following ppl like you and the others🖤 thank you so much really
@WyldwychsRamblings3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your lovely comments. I do plan to do more videos soon, I'm currently re launching my business and setting that up, so once I have a few spare hours I'll upload another video. :-)
@MadMorti3 жыл бұрын
Good to see you back online again 😁
@ademcanvaner25673 жыл бұрын
How wonderful to hear from you! I've been wondering about you for the past couple of weeks, and surprise! Some intense, witch stuff happened, and that's why I was thinking about you. And, I got some new albums, and I ordered a few more. 🦇🦇🦇 I am VERY sorry to hear about your father being in the hospital and about the ladies' stuff. Both can be a challenge. I am not a vegetarian, but I love vegan foods! I eat at least one plant-based meal a week. Take good care of yourself and of your family. May your business flourish with abundance. We'll see you in the next one. Xoxoxo 🦇🖤🦋
@honestalex57903 жыл бұрын
Definitely not elitist to want to preserve the music of goth. The very root of the subculture, the core piece that defines goth. Yeah theres gothic architecture, literature, films, fashion but the music is what brings people together. Someone can go all out in gothic fashion whilst hanging with a group of people who aren't dressed up at all yet they are all together enjoying the very music they love. And yes ofc people can listen to other music aside from goth since theres so much music out there to enjoy. I just truly agree that the music is most important and must be preserved. Lol what is a movie, where all the characters present this certain aesthetic, yet there's no soundtrack
@nothankyou2223 жыл бұрын
I wasn’t planing on watching the whole video. But I was just so captivated. 3 minutes became 5, 5 became 10, and then I found myself at the end. You ma’am, are truly a terrific public speaker and speak nothing but the truth. What a pleasant video!
@WyldwychsRamblings3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much :-) I need to do more videos too!
@urgay16584 жыл бұрын
awesome! im 12 and planning on being goth for a long time i really enjoy the music and subculture in general xx
@WyldwychsRamblings4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Michael. Welcome to the Goth world. Enjoy.
@darkfaerie-no4kj4 жыл бұрын
What? How? :(
@WyldwychsRamblings4 жыл бұрын
No idea... I thought I'd set my phone up correctly...hey ho... lol
@Kerosene.Dreams4 жыл бұрын
I'm having beyond a hard time. I loved him. Do we know what he passed from? Because I haven't been able to find that out. Blessed Be.
@WyldwychsRamblings4 жыл бұрын
I've not heard what he passed from, other than he passed in his sleep. Sorry to hear that you're struggling at the moment. He's definitely leaving a big hole in the community. Blessed be x
@suzannemcgowan62304 жыл бұрын
So sorry to hear that, he seemed like a lovely person.
@WyldwychsRamblings4 жыл бұрын
I don't know what he passed from, other than he died in his sleep.
@WyldwychsRamblings4 жыл бұрын
So sorry people... thought I'd filmed myself talking...instead I filmed my fingers....Gah!! So sorry people... Don't know what I was thinking!! Mind you it was impromptu and I didn't set the shot up, which I normally do.
@LadyLecter4 жыл бұрын
I’m glad your back even if we couldn’t see you x x
@WyldwychsRamblings4 жыл бұрын
@@LadyLecter Thank you lovely... I can't believe I didn't check the video before I uploaded it!! Lol..
@midnightwitch6064 жыл бұрын
Hello lovely, so glad your back, I was shook when I hered about Trevor, KZbin is so empty without him 😥
@WyldwychsRamblings4 жыл бұрын
@@midnightwitch606 Hello lovely.. Thank you.. not a great video, but just an update. I do have a few plans for my channel. Oh I agree...Trevor has left a large void in the subculture.
@pumpkinpepsi4 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad that Sophie Lancaster is still remembered and her story is still told. I was a baby bat in the late 90s early 00s and it was very dangerous going out as a goth in the UK at that time. I was physically attacked on multiple occasions by strangers, and had things thrown at me and insults yelled at me every time I left the house by teens and adults alike, even if I was with my dad and walking past some 40-something year olds. Knife crime was rampant at that time and huge gangs of teens would congregate outside McDonalds everywhere in particular and would attack people. Living in the US now, Americans are very surprised when I explain how it was.
@pumpkinpepsi4 жыл бұрын
Wow no idea why my name and pic isn't showing up, maybe because this is my new channel?! Can you see it?!
@i_tell_u_hwathill80894 жыл бұрын
Gothic people really are like the Addams family
@WyldwychsRamblings4 жыл бұрын
So true...
@Filerboy4 жыл бұрын
Yep
@lucillepannell1064 жыл бұрын
I love those earrings!!!!!
@gothicattitude96974 жыл бұрын
www.gothicattitude.com/women-pants
@_GhostFox_4 жыл бұрын
Ha! Your'e awesome! And your hair is amazing! Loved the talk. (And I love the Picture of Dorian Gray.)
@abisonyt4 жыл бұрын
Love your intro!! It’s mystical and fascinating. I hope 🤞 you’ll post more videos
@abisonyt4 жыл бұрын
You’re so beautiful and authentic!! Very interesting to see your journey, you’re very well spoken! Could you share your paranormal experiences or thoughts in that field? Would be nice to see! New subbie!!! 💖🙏💜💜💜💜💜
@WyldwychsRamblings4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Anouska. I do plan to do more on my channel :-)
@cybergod094 жыл бұрын
well done lady!... well done!! thank you for these words
@christopherluvspeter6664 жыл бұрын
This is why i believe goth is what you make of it its an artistic movement. Its mysterious, and odd. And its not just about music its about whatever you make of it. I believe people need to let people define as whoever they want without being Interrogated on whether or not they like the music or not or of its just a fashion thing for them. Also it's black Friday made a beautiful video on why she doesn't talk about the technicalities of goth
@earthbruja52684 жыл бұрын
Nope. It's about the music. Unless you listen to it then you arent goth. Being goth yes is more then just music but it's a big part of it. You wouldn't call yourself a metal head unless you listened to metal. Pretty sure I've seen you trolling some other alt fb groups. Yep, you are a poser.
@christopherluvspeter6664 жыл бұрын
@@earthbruja5268 I'm no poser. The music is a big part for me as well just like any other goth. But I believe it is what you make of it. There's no rules and also this subject is something noone is going to agree with. Goth is not a set thing its a social thing. Goth is an umbrella term anyways there's no set definition or its this way or that way. Its a mysterious subculture. I believe talking about what goth is and isn't kinda spoils it and looses its beauty and uniqueness and becomes more of a competition of I'M MORE GOTHER THAN THOU. The fact you state I'm a "poser" confirms that goth has become a competition and has lost its beauty, is pretty sad and that is why many avoid labels because of such pettiness. Anyone can be who they want, besides the average person whether someone is a "true goth" or "darkly inclined" is not gonna be able to tell the difference anyways. Anyone who dresses in black and wears strange makeup and hair and takes in interest in darker aesthetics, literature and architecture or anything of that nature is gonna be seen as a goth by society anyways. At the end of the day who cares. There's no need to even label ones self if one chooses to. If people are gonna make a big deal about it and get butt hurt wheres the beauty in that. This is also why people don't find very many local goth nights in your area is because of the drama, elitism and people just being shitty to one another. None wants to go to nightclubs or goth nights is because its become more of an exam of how goth you are rather than just enjoy the music and whatnot. This generation is probably the reason that goth is dead. Our subculture is a dying subculture and with peoples behavior and attitude is why were never gonna preserve our subculture. By the way your only calling me a poser is because you want to validate your own low self opinion. You feel the need to come at me like Gothic border patrol and call me a poser is because you are one yourself just to make yourself feel better. So go and write a head Mr keyboard commando type all your b.s all you want.
@MysteriousAsteria4 жыл бұрын
The music is the one thing that really ties everything together to form the movement - it gave rise to the ideas, sentiments and aesthetics of the subculture, without it what one calls a Goth scene would never exist. During the times when the music scene was pretty dead, so around the late 90s until mid/late 00s, Goth almost became just a commercialized commodity and a fashion fad. Since the music had an upswing in early 10s the people have finally come back together to form a community. It's therefore not really as dead as you think as we have gotten hordes of new bands and releases the last years. I agree though, that since music is the main and common factor it allows the culture to be way more heterogenic and individualistic, and maybe that's what you are referring to - there are no rules outside "enjoy the music and have fun taking part of the scene". Ok, there's also maybe the anti-commercialism and anti-capitalist sentiment, but that's mainly expressed through attitude and not as loudly as punk did. So yeah, it's not just the music, but a wild and individual mix of what people personally draw from said music and how they interpret and then express it through their creativity, fashion or lifestyle. In a sense, goth as a music genre may be very narrowly defined and limited, but the culture that grew around it is much more vast. That's especially noticeable in the club scene, where playlists have always been playing a mix not only of goth, but also industrial, EBM, Darkwave, Minimal Wave and other related genres. For me, I can live without really being called the G word though, since it is way too narrow of a word. I def call gothic rock what it is and recognize that goth is a musical genre and style, but I refrain from labelling my fellow peers. Since we all also love other alternative music and stuff it's often easier to just use very overarching terms (of necessary), like "Schwarze Szene" (German term for the "dark scene"). I know some call themselves Wavers or Grufties too, rather than Goths. And honestly, most of the debates about what is or isn't "goff" happen online. People really do not care as much about it in real life situations, at least where I am. They just want to have a good time and dance to music and meet their friends. Tbh, most of the events I went to, even big ones like Gothic Pogo for example, were very welcoming. There was no elitism whatsoever, no one acted "Gother than thou" and no one gave a shit about how many old goth bands you know about. Maybe it's different in your local scene, I don't know. People are certainly coming less to events, but people in general go out less in these times. Guess it's more the lack of money and everyone listening to music online.
@christopherluvspeter6664 жыл бұрын
@@MysteriousAsteria I just dont think there's any point in talking about goth with other goths it gets boring after a while. Its like yeah yeah we get it already. Why ruin the mystique of the subculture by constantly talking about the technicalities of goth. Noones ever going to agree its not a set thing with rules and regulations. Thats when goth stops being unique it seems like it becomes more of a following rather than an individualistic ideology. The beauty is gonna be dead for good if this pettiness doesn't stop. And if you read my comment. You should know music is important to me but at the same time I don't have the right or power to tell someone what they are or aren't Also. I don't think it achieves anything by talking about goth period. Just like the number one rule of Fight club is never talk about Fight club same applys to the goth subculture. Why cant we just let it be it. But we don't need to talk about it. Ps. If people make goth about fashion go for it. Who cares as long as no one is hurting each other who cares let them be. People are so against people who make it about fashion now its really silly. Like really. Only this millenials generation and after that have made this subculture turn into capitalism/socialism. This stuff only happens behind a keyboard and not in real life.
@dj-jn7qs4 жыл бұрын
I wasn't going to watch since I have a short attention span, but I watched the first 8 min or so. I was pleasantly surprised... Oh what memories you evoked, and you're correct, we never called ourselves goth in the 80s and 90s (shreek if anyone else dare call us that), half the scene did not look "goth" (they had regular jobs), when "fashion" shops and mags came out we gasped at the horror since we all made our own clothes and made sure we didn't look like anyone else. It was a 100% DIY culture that was very inclusive yet very proud to the point of being snobs. To this day I've never purchased any garb from a retail joint except for the basic black base of all outfits. I still love the clubs and scene, but I do miss the magic, when going to clubs was like going to a formal ball with the vast eloquent flowing movement that swept across the dance floor (kind of like the haunted mansion ride), I sigh and long, but I look forward to what the future holds as my next first experience... Thanks for the video
@cindigonzalez73505 жыл бұрын
I know this is an old video but I literally used black/purple eyeshadow for lipstick too. I love it so much and I have more in common with this subculture than I thought. I just wish ppl would relax and stop thinking we all have to look a certain way because it's a music based subculture. I LOVE the 80s and new wave....so I've been incorporating that and darker make up into my wardrobe but mostly I've been trying to respect the subculture and learn more about the music and history. I've only been out twice looking darker because I don't wanna be a fake.
@markhall66015 жыл бұрын
Mind numbing tripe.
@WyldwychsRamblings5 жыл бұрын
Why, thank you for sharing your informed and intelligent opinion, however, I could care less what you think.
@munk79175 жыл бұрын
It looks like Marnia now has a fairy Gothmother !!
@MidnightOwlOfficial5 жыл бұрын
I love the Siouxsie earrings! And the Cure!!! Ahhhh my fav.
@ronsbury5 жыл бұрын
Like your spine
@ademcanvaner25675 жыл бұрын
Those are beautiful!!! I love those bands!!! I like the story attached because after coming back from the bin, they're practically UNDEAD! If he starts a shop, you let me know! I am so happy that you are well. You were on my mind, so a new video from you is great. Cheers! P. S. I'll be going to see Dead Can Dance in May!
@necromancy61425 жыл бұрын
First!!! x
@Enigma77Reviews5 жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed this and I totally agree with it all, Haha you are so honest you made me chuckle. Yeah so many brands now inc Killstar, Spiral Direct, Emp, Dolls Kill, I agree on support the smaller businesses I have made so many friends from small businesses I love boosting what they sell cos they are fab. I am doing a 4-week review come back to see how it all washes and dries. I don't call myself Goth but I do call myself a Metal Head simply cos of the music I come from a very musical background and music is just a way of life for me. I do buy from such sites but I do like to buy from small businesses too. I really liked this tag and thank you for the add xxx
@terriemariehoy-recio17165 жыл бұрын
Thank you for that last comment at my age of 64 I go much lighter on the makeup, my skin is naturally white because my nationality is 77% British Wales and Irish/Scottish the other 23% is Swedish🖤
@terriemariehoy-recio17165 жыл бұрын
Wish there were more Elder Goth's around I'm 64 and am still Victorian Gothic living🖤🦇🖤🦇🖤🦇🖤🦇🖤🦇🖤🦇🖤🦇🖤🦇🖤
@FoodNerds4 жыл бұрын
Amen! I'm not sure I could hold a conversation with any goths who are under 30? Maybe I could if they were mature enough.
@kotatombs77335 жыл бұрын
Yea it's quite literally true
@christopherhindle83715 жыл бұрын
Like many Gen-Xers, I was also there for the origin of the bands that are now considered the fathers of goth music. Fans of the music did not (yet) identify as goth, because the term came later. Goth was not (yet) a style of dress. Many of the original fans loved the music genres that we considered edgier than mainstream rock, pop, and metal. What the original community shared was a sense of anti-establishment/anti-mainstream/counter-culture. Today, Generation X is known for an anti-establishment attitude that has somewhat been passed down to younger generations. A lot of the community borrowed bits & pieces from the punk music movement that preceded it, such as the makeup & alternative fashion. It was easy to connect the anti-establishment elements of fashion & music, many of which already existed in other music genres of this period in time. I strongly believe goth is the name of a community, not a style of music. As such, anyone who wants to belong to the community can do so, regardless of music tastes and/or knowledge. The elitism comes when people try to tell other people what music is goth, what music is not goth. Goth music is whatever music the community listens to. In Buffalo, NY & Toronto, ON, I remember the earliest "goth" parties in smokey basements where everyone was listening to Sisters of Mercy, Violent Femmes, Ministry, Adam & the Ant, Trans-X, Pink Floyd. Again, goth music is whatever the community listens to. Another note about elitism. If elitism exists in the eyes of the person using that term, then it is real. The community should just remind everyone that we are all family. Sometimes we need to agree to disagree.
@flaturth15165 жыл бұрын
Wyldwych, are you a Flat Earther Goth?
@breannalarose98115 жыл бұрын
I just want to say Thank you so much for this. I was really hating the gate keeping that people are doing in cultures and sub cultures. And even though I don’t do the goth looks and listen to every goth band out there I do consider myself as a goth because I enjoy the old literatures, art, and architecture. If you don’t mind can I use what you say in this video for a video I’m miking on community’s? It’s mainly focused on the art community but I feel like you hit the mark of “don’t be a jerk.” In this video.
@TrevorParkerTheKiltedGoth5 жыл бұрын
Awesome video love it. Fantastic project and charity . Project getting bigger yearly which is an awesome help for the foundation. Thank you for this 😊😊👍🏻🖤
@WyldwychsRamblings5 жыл бұрын
Thank you :-) Isn't it? I'm so proud to be part of this :-)
@karolyngrimm5 жыл бұрын
why are you pink?? i actually only clicked on this thumbnail because i thought you were painted pink.
@WyldwychsRamblings5 жыл бұрын
No... well I'm kind of pink...pale pink/beige...irl.
@shanesarabia03185 жыл бұрын
Hell no hell no. The customers is always right. They get what they ordered. Just leave it at that cuz we nasty
@adamarkgaming5 жыл бұрын
yeah I have never called myself goth but whenever a regular person sees me than they think that I do... my xGF called herself "vintage goth" which was pretty cute but this was recently and I know that back in the day she would have been harassed for not knowing who Robert Smith is or something.. she has been in the scene for years going clubbing or whatever but as far as the 90s went, she would still be considered a baby bat until she recognized most of the music. I thought it was pretty funny that she was the hottest goth girl that I could find but she didn't know who Robert Smith is... and yeah "vintage goth" has never been a thing... that is HER thing.
@adamarkgaming5 жыл бұрын
people usually don't want to identify as goth back in the day because that made em a poser
@Vampkitty-vt2go5 жыл бұрын
Hi loved your avon haul i buy tons of it too try the magix perfector its wonderful
@TrevorParkerTheKiltedGoth5 жыл бұрын
Nice car 😊😊😊😊
@pebbles258695 жыл бұрын
Hi, I suppose I'm an elder Goth as I've been goth since the early eighties , I agree with a lot of what you say,Although I do think it's great that's it's easier for people to buy alternative items though, not everyone is creative. I myself own a mixture of clothes, some Killstar, some I have made (I studied fashion design in the mid 80's to improve my dressing making skills) a lot of my clothes are bought from charity shops. I tend to make my own jewellery but when I was younger I used to buy a lot of jewellery from Indian shops and stalls. I lived in a small town outside of Oxford that didn't really have a lot of goths, I hung around with all the punks, skin heads, rockabillys and all the alternative kids in my town, but would go to the voodoo club which was a goth night held once a week in a gay night club in the city. I think it's sad that some are falling out over deferences of opinion, we should all be encouraging each other. I look forward to viewing more of your videos Amanda x
@WyldwychsRamblings5 жыл бұрын
Hi Amanda, Thanks for responding to my video. I agree, we should be all encouraging everyone. Enjoy the videos. x
@jessicawood77825 жыл бұрын
This is lovely and very good balanced advice from a more experienced perspective 😊 thankyou