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@SummerBrouwer Күн бұрын
This is so hard for me. I watch your video about a week ago and it made me feel a lot better. The holiday is really hard. Thank you. Sincerely.
@mymentorjane6705 Күн бұрын
@@SummerBrouwer I am so glad we are now connected. Let me know what topics or questions you’d like to cover. I’m starting a new series about HOW to heal which practical steps. And I’ll be using Facebook and KZbin live in case you want to connect. Please subscribe to my channel and it will keep you posted. In the meantime, I’m also glad the holidays are almost over because I still get triggered too! Let!s make 2025 our best year yet!
@fredrik8685 2 күн бұрын
What scares me is that videos like this one is still necessary in some parts of the world that refuses ro leave the dark ages behind.
@mymentorjane6705 2 күн бұрын
@@fredrik8685 thank you for watching and commenting. No matter what someone has done, I am not in the position to judge them. I want to help them. Just to be clear though, I am not in favor of abortion, and as a believer in Jesus, I believe my three abortions were sins against God and my 3 children. As a Christian I also believe and have experienced His forgiveness. I don’t think it would be fair to you to give you the wrong impression.
@WhackBytch256 2 күн бұрын
No amount of rationalization will change the fact: you killed your baby
@mymentorjane6705 Күн бұрын
I honestly was not trying to do that. What I did was wrong. No rationalizing or denying. No need to remind me. I remember it almost every day.
@ImAshlynMars 3 күн бұрын
You’re doing a great service ❤❤❤ thank you so much for offering this much needed support 🫂
@mymentorjane6705 3 күн бұрын
@@ImAshlynMars thank you for watching and commenting. It means a lot to me. That’s exactly my goal, to help women and men find the healing and help they need after abortion. Take care and God bless you my friend.
@joshuagenes 3 күн бұрын
Yeah there are natural consequences to murdering your own child. The kid who will take care of you in old age, the genius, the helper, the biggest blessing in your life.
@mymentorjane6705 3 күн бұрын
@@joshuagenes I appreciate that you watched and commented on my video. It seems your comment is meant to be sarcastic and intended to hurt and shame me and others who have abortions. You listed some of the real consequences and there’s far more than you could understand. I read but don’t accept your condemnation because I believe that Jesus died for us too. That God’s promises of a future and hope still apply. My goal is to share the love and hope of Christ so that someone who’s suffering may believe and choose new life in Him.
@toghyoo 2 күн бұрын
@joshuagenes What a horrendous person.
@StonieTark 2 күн бұрын
The world will be better for our children without the spawn of immoral people like this.
@BasketballTall 6 күн бұрын
Forgiveness is a choice.
@misssherrie-may1041 7 күн бұрын
I had 3 full term pregnancies when I was young. They where great when they where little. But I've been living with grief since they hit puberty. You made the right choice lady
@mymentorjane6705 6 күн бұрын
Thank you for watching. I can only imagine how hard it is to raise teenagers. I hope you’re connecting with other women in a similar spot or older women who’ve survived that time who can give you support. Please take care.
@cornerstoneteamdevelopment7777 9 күн бұрын
Thank you.
@LiezlSwartz 14 күн бұрын
Hi Jane❤. It's so hard because the pregnancy happened 2 days before Christmas. 😢I'm crying right now, it's just hard.
@mymentorjane6705 14 күн бұрын
Oh my! I understand. It IS hard. I’m praying for you.
@adrianoribeiro1074 20 күн бұрын
My partner aborted my daughter and made me believe she had a miscarriage. I later found out it was an abortion. Hard to forgive
@mymentorjane6705 20 күн бұрын
Oh, I am so very sorry about what happened to you. I understand why it's hard to forgive. A double betrayal. I hope you would consider an abortion healing program, perhaps just for men, if you prefer. You have a lot to grieve and might benefit from some support. If you need referrals, let me know. I'm so very sorry for the loss of your daughter. Thank you for watching and commenting.
@sereneboon4890 21 күн бұрын
Babies and old people trigger me. Babies trigger me because of my two abortions. It hurts alot …..Seeing the joy of their parents with them. Old people trigger me because they look so happy with the babies enjoying the babies. Meanwhile I feel like I am going to die alone lonely. I would advise other people to avoid shopping malls!just don’t look... if you can’t do that then embrace the christmas joy of Jesus who was born to bring Peace to you. Peace be with you even though its hard . Merry Christmas.
@mymentorjane6705 20 күн бұрын
What a beautiful, heartfelt comment and suggestions. Thank you so much for watching. I understand loneliness. That’s why I’ve been diligent about making some good friends at work and church who are unmarried and/or no children. Merry Christmas and take care.
@mymentorjane6705 21 күн бұрын
What triggers you over the holidays? What suggestions can you make for others to help us enjoy rather than dread this special time of year?
@nafunababra 28 күн бұрын
Up to now i have failed to share this uncident with anyone....i hope i get courage one day....
@mymentorjane6705 28 күн бұрын
@@nafunababra I so understand. If I can help in any way please let me know. It took me over 20 years and that bottled up hurt really damaged me and other people in my life. I’m so glad you’re watching the videos. Just think though, you just told me and that’s a big step. I’m proud of you and will be praying for you. Please take care.
@paulalarson8885 Ай бұрын
Really good
@mymentorjane6705 Ай бұрын
Thank you for watching and commenting.
@305heat_ Ай бұрын
This was good advice. Ultimately disrespect does ruin your reputation in the workplace.
@mymentorjane6705 Ай бұрын
Thank you for watching and commenting. I really appreciate that!
@TonySoldo-ul6ic Ай бұрын
I sometimes sit and think What if the innocent... unwanted child Ended up finding the cure for cancer Becomes the wealthiest man or woman On the planet... instead of sitting on his or her fortune... ended global hunger Provided housing for the homeless.. There's always other options 😢 A child is precious...
@mymentorjane6705 Ай бұрын
You are so right about that. In my book, Where Do Broken Hearts Go? Healing and Hope After Abortion, I acknowledge: "Imagine the human potential that is lost because of abortion: teachers to shape a new generation; scientists to discover cures for deadly disease: and leaders to bring about a safe and peaceful world. I paid a huge price for my mistakes, and so did my children. Yet what the world lost and continues to lose, with over one million abortions occurring each year, is colossal." Thank you for watching and commenting.
@-beTHEchange-123- Ай бұрын
Did you learn about birth control??? Why is it you people act like murder is the only way to not have a baby???
@jordanarango3692 Ай бұрын
Had a buddy go through this... scary accurate
@mymentorjane6705 Ай бұрын
Thank you so much for watching and commenting. If you think you can respectfully share this with him, please do. There’s a lot of good private help for men available now. Take care!
@jordanarango3692 Ай бұрын
I wish I could it's been hurting him for over a decade
@mymentorjane6705 Ай бұрын
@ I understand. If there’s anything can do or you want to talk it over. lmk. One thing we both can do is to pray for him that he has finds healing.
@josemelendez6860 Ай бұрын
Thank you!
@mymentorjane6705 Ай бұрын
@@josemelendez6860 if I helped you I would be most blessed. Thank you for watching and commenting. Take care.
@kaylaarroyo4978 Ай бұрын
im an 18 yo young adult whose grieving over an abortion. ik i wasn't ready to be a mom, but i feel so guilty.
@mymentorjane6705 Ай бұрын
I understand. I felt the same way when I became pregnant at 22. What you're feeling is normal. And painful. If you'd like to talk about it, I can be here for you. Email me at [email protected] and I promise to offer a compassionate, kind ear. Thank you for watching and reaching out. If you don't feel comfortable talking with me, I have put good resources in the description to this video.
@elkekirkpatrick6481 Ай бұрын
Very kind, gentle, sound advice that I hope thousands of downtrodden women will find out and internalize. I am not who I was when I gave in to my husband's pressure and went through my abortion. Praise God all they found in their vacuumings under the dissecting scope was placenta, which quickly regrew. I carried my baby to full term and she's a vibrant young lady who works with children with special needs. No matter what we've messed up, there is still another chapter for us where we get to write a new script.
@mymentorjane6705 Ай бұрын
Thank you for watching and sharing your beautiful story of healing and blessing. I’m not who I was either at the times of my abortions, thanks to the love and mercy of Jesus Christ. I pray others will discover my channel and read compassionate comments such as yours so that they can find hope too.
@elkekirkpatrick6481 Ай бұрын
@@mymentorjane6705 agreeing with you before the throne!
@MaryReed-t5p Ай бұрын
Thank you and thank you God
@mariaaraujo7587 Ай бұрын
Dear Lord. 3 abortions?
@mymentorjane6705 Ай бұрын
@@mariaaraujo7587 yes. I’m not proud of it. I mention it because about half of women who have an abortion have more than one. It’s referred to as ‘repeat’ or ‘multiple’ abortions. We can be so horrified and ashamed that we think we’re beyond help and that Jesus could never forgive us. It’s not true and I want women and men to know there is hope and help. Thank you for watching and asking.
@kevinmoore5053 Ай бұрын
@mymentorjane6705 If you are truely sorry and realize the True impact and was forgiveness, you just have to accept Christ and ask him, Christ WILL forgive you, you'll still have to deal with those feelings of regret & sorrow but your soul has been made clean. We still have to live with our internal punishment and some, like criminals have to live with the punishment society gives them, but becoming a believer & asking for forgiveness make ALL clean, but I'm sure you know all this, but others might not. I wish you peace in this journey. May the Lord bless & keep you
@TrustGodDaily Ай бұрын
This is so true and never talked about
@mymentorjane6705 Ай бұрын
Thank you for watching and commenting. If there’s a question or topic you’d like me to cover, just let me know. Take care!
@MsDrientje Ай бұрын
I think you messed up abortion and miscarriage.
@julietmoraa5106 Ай бұрын
Thank you for this.
@mymentorjane6705 Ай бұрын
@@julietmoraa5106 you’re so welcome. Thank you for watching and commenting. Let me know if there are any questions or topics you’d like me to cover in future videos. Please take care!
@ReviewWarriorplusraihan Ай бұрын
Hello, how are you? I am a regular viewer of your KZbin channel. I came here to say that- "I always learn something new from your channel-so valuable!" Good Luck to You
@mymentorjane6705 Ай бұрын
@@ReviewWarriorplusraihan thank you very much! Let me know if there’s any questions or topics you’d like me to cover. Take care.
@ReviewWarriorplusraihan Ай бұрын
I like your video very much. Looking forward to your next video
@brittany_nichole Ай бұрын
This is my first Christmas post-abortion. My 5th baby was due Dec 16th. My kids are all ready and in the Xmas spirit and so I’m trying for them. I decided to try and listen to Xmas music and it’s just made me so sad and I’ve spent hours crying. I’m scared this is how every Christmas will be from now on. I have moments of peace, but I think of this baby every day. I wish I could change what I’ve done. I know I can’t but I hope if this finds anyone making this decision, I hope it gives you the strength to choose what is truly best for you. God will get you through anything. You have to choose your hard and I have to say, for me this is way harder.
@mymentorjane6705 Ай бұрын
Thank you for watching and for your heartfelt comment. I understand how painful this must be for you and I admire how you’re loving your children by doing all you can to hide your heartbreak for their sake. I highly recommend you (and your husband?) consider attending an abortion healing program asap in the new year. I have a recent video about those support groups. In the meantime, I’ll be praying for you and holding you in my heart, especially around your due date.
@brittany_nichole Ай бұрын
@ thank you so much! I am so grateful for you and for your videos 🙏
@mymentorjane6705 17 күн бұрын
Wanted you to know I’m thinking of you today, December 16 2024. This will be a sad day and I am praying for comfort and peace. Take care and if it would help to talk, just let me know.
@brittany_nichole 17 күн бұрын
@@mymentorjane6705 thank you so much ❤️ You’re such a kind soul to remember me today. I appreciate you so very much 🙏 God bless you!!
@josemelendez6860 Ай бұрын
How does one forgive themselves?
@mymentorjane6705 Ай бұрын
I can tell you that, for me, forgiving myself has been a process and it’s taken many steps, over some years. I believe the only way I could do it is because and through my faith in Jesus Christ. I choose to believe that he’s forgiven me because I am truly sorry for what I’ve done and have accepted that I was wrong. I’ll be dropping more videos in the next few months on forgiveness and hope they might help you. Thank you for watching and commenting. Take care
@RuthBradley_101 Ай бұрын
This is so sad.
@janeabbate531 Ай бұрын
How do you mean? I’d like to clarify if it would help. Thank you for watching and commenting.
@georgeannk7678 2 ай бұрын
Look at the situation the mother is in while pregnant. Mothers need support not judgements.
@mymentorjane6705 2 ай бұрын
@@georgeannk7678 yes! This is so true. Thank you for watching and commenting.
@Intrepiddabbler 2 ай бұрын
Good for you for making this public to free yourself and help others heal.
@mymentorjane6705 2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for watching and for your encouragement. Take care.
@josephinetolentino724 2 ай бұрын
Amen!!!🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
@mymentorjane6705 Ай бұрын
Thank you for watching and commenting. I appreciate you!
@rajibahmed.19 2 ай бұрын
excellent but video not getting much attention from the audience. This could be due to an SEO issue, resulting in low views and subscribers.
@MdRafi-wu6is 2 ай бұрын
Hello, My Mentor Jane I am a regular viewer of your KZbin channel. Your videos are very nice. I noticed one thing while visiting your channel. So I checked the SEO score of your videos and found that your videos are not properly SEO optimized. Due to this, your videos are not reaching the right audience and are not showing on KZbin, Google, and other search engine search results. I hope you'll expect more views or organic traffic than you need for your video's proper SEO optimization. I can help if you want.
@Intrepiddabbler 2 ай бұрын
Rachel's Vineyard is a great ministry/healing retreat. God forgives.
@mymentorjane6705 2 ай бұрын
Yes, it is a wonderful ministry! Thank you for watching and commenting.
@Intrepiddabbler 2 ай бұрын
Courageous! Thanks for sharing. Rachel's Vineyard is a great ministry/healing retreat for women who have had abortions.
@mymentorjane6705 2 ай бұрын
It is a great ministry for women AND Men who’ve experienced abortion. Anyone who’s been impacted by abortion is welcome there. Thank you for watching and commenting. Please let me know what topics or questions you’d like me to cover in future videos. Take care!
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@davidholtz6590 2 ай бұрын
Couldn't you just speak with reformed murderers? Not trying to be heartless, but how does the executed child recover?
@fivetwoparenting6305 2 ай бұрын
This was so well said and such practical clear wisdom. Thank you Jane for sharing truth and hope that every heart needs.
@mymentorjane6705 2 ай бұрын
@@fivetwoparenting6305 thank you for watching and supporting me . It means so very much.
@rajordan777 2 ай бұрын
First of all women and men traumatized by abortion? Maybe because men would have liked to kept the baby while the woman is being selfish and getting rid of the baby that could be what traumatized them. If you were traumatized by your abortion, why the heck did you have two more? I’m blown away by these abortionist think this OK to take a child’s life. Yes the person who didn’t know. Better needs to heal from it and forgive themselves. but let’s not make light of this fact that I’m gonna get for five abortions but I’m gonna forgive myself and be over with it and continue to do this insanity over and over and over again. This is messed up commercial or video.
@mymentorjane6705 2 ай бұрын
@@rajordan777 I hear your anger and frustration. I know it’s hard to understand having multiple abortions. I’m not looking for your sympathy. Or your understanding or approval. I am not minimizing in any way that abortion is wrong. I’m hoping to help women and men who think God will not forgive them if they are truly sorry. It’s not the same thing but I would ask you to think about some of the worst wrong things you’ve done. Did you ever make the same mistake twice or 3 times or 5 or more? Why did you do it if you knew if was wrong or you hurt yourself or someone else? Do you want me to judge you for it? I won’t. Yes, some men are traumatized by abortion because some women don’t tell them about it till it’s over or don’t listen to them if they did. I do appreciate that you took the time to watch and comment on my video and I hope you’ll watch more to perhaps better understand my heart about abortion. Take care.
@ItsAsparageese 6 күн бұрын
OP, if abortion were trivial to prevent with 100% success rate, it wouldn't be a big topic. Birth control methods fail. This is a fact. I had two abortions (personally wasn't traumatic for me at all, but of course it is for many and that's valid) despite using multiple normal preventive methods with educated consistent use. You're being awfully harsh condemning people for something you're clearly ignorant about
@mymentorjane6705 6 күн бұрын
@@ItsAsparageese thank you for watching and commenting.
@georgeannk7678 2 ай бұрын
Society is still shaming women for being forced to make this decision.
@mymentorjane6705 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching and commenting. I hope you’ll come back for more videos.
@marymac674 2 ай бұрын
Forced?
@elizabethwilkinson2635 2 ай бұрын
Abortion is murder full stop. Yes murder is wrong. Think before getting pregnant
@mymentorjane6705 2 ай бұрын
Yes it is. And Jesus said to “love one another.” He didn’t add exceptions. So I’m trying to love those of us who’ve been involved in an abortion and help them seek and receive the love, mercy and forgiveness of Christ, even when others choose to attack and condemn us.
@ROCKDIVA85 2 ай бұрын
This video is not what I expected because I've never met a woman who had an abortion and was filled with grief or shame. They usually feel pretty good about it and are glad they did it. Or they are just putting on a brave face and hiding their real feelings. Idk.
@mymentorjane6705 2 ай бұрын
I understand. I can’t say that I’ve ever met a woman who feels pretty good about her decision. They often feel relief and that can be confused with feeling good. The emotional aftermath can be complicated. I really appreciate that you watched my video and commented. Thank you.
@genesiscastaneda3386 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for this!🙏
@mymentorjane6705 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching. And commenting. I hope you’ll come back for more videos. Let me know if there are questions or topics you’d like me to cover. Take care.
@lusiaatalifo8825 3 ай бұрын
Say No to abortion . Youre a murderer for killing an innocent baby
@mymentorjane6705 2 ай бұрын
If you’ve watched my videos you’ll see I have confessed and repented of my abortions. So, what’s your goal in condemning me?
@WilliamAbbate 3 ай бұрын
You are the bravest person I have ever known, and I am sooo thankful for you!!!!! Praying you help countless people!!
@mymentorjane6705 3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much. That means the world to me and so do you!
@WilliamAbbate 3 ай бұрын
@@mymentorjane6705 ❤❤❤❤
@ZaweriaWangari 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for this
@mymentorjane6705 3 ай бұрын
I hope it helped you in some way. thank you for watching and commenting. fIf there's any topic you'd like me to cover in a future video, please let me know. Please take care.
@debbiescrimgeour5108 3 ай бұрын
Three abortions? Why? Surely you could have prayed for peace and forgiveness after the first abortion. So it’s ok to keep having abortions so long as you pray for peace and forgiveness each time? I don’t think so. Go on the pill lady it but some strong condoms.