I cried. This is what I needed. Thank you

After struggling to find a girlfriend and all rejected me i understood that maybe my destiny is to be alone and it works i feel good😊😊

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@Cara, this is absolutely beautifully done. Thank you. Could I kindly ask what equipment/camera and software/apps you used for production? I would like to try my hand at this someday, sharing stories, too. Thank you. Sending light.

Amazing content sis, can you pls tell me that the cinematics you use between these videos are old one, orNew just edited a bit ?Those old looking one,

Hey, please make more videos i love it a lot

i love this. thank you for making this video.

I felt this video like if I had filmed it myself. Thank you so much for your sensitivity ❤

Thank you so much. I really needed to hear all of this ❤

Dear Cara, I really hope you read this. I'm literally typing this with tears rolling down my eyes. The past year, I had very rough time emotionally and mentally and since new years eve I've been in hospital fighting for my health. I've no friends and over the past fee days I've been feeling way too overwhelming to the point where I want to disappear. But your videos have always been so cozy and warm, this whole evening I rewatched all your vlogs to feel the feelings of having a friend by my side. I hope you are doing well. It's been so many days since you uploaded any vlog. I am really waiting patiently for you to post a new piece of your art and I'm really looking forward to it and I'm sure just like me a lot of us who love you are waiting for you. Much love to you Cara ❤

I have to make it thru this.. I have to..

Cool video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

Hey Cara, iam here to tell you that not everyone can express these emotions in words and you do it so beautifully . I can keep on listening to you for hours... Thank you♥

At chapter 3, you said everything i am out of this damaged heart. A perfectionist. I think now that i never was a perfectionist. Maybe that was the "old me" trying to say to stop refusing my pain. Well, i think i'm not the only one who was trying to refusing this and just believed beeing this person that i actually never was. That was just my pain talking, not me. Sorry if my english is a little bit confused, i'm still learning. By the way, great video! Hello from Brazil!

Thank you for content you make, you've made such a difference on my life <3

A couple of weeks agow ive been really feeling alive, here in the moment and loved but these past few days have been rough and that last message about how growth takes time and how its okay to want love from others really helped. This video is very calming and well edited btw :) ❤

I really miss your videos ❤

NOT THE AFTERSUN CLIP 😭😭😭

I don't know what to say. I have been going through the exact same thing. Except to give time to repair, I have tried forcefully speed up by distracting myself from pain. But It's just temporary and the moment I try to do something deeply within myself, I feel that pain! What you said is so true!

An incredibly vulnerable and beautiful video. Thank you for sharing this with the world!!!!! :)

To allow ourselves to feel... To be as we are ... Sad... Knowing theres a time and its beautiful and okay.. essential... Every bit of our seasons need our allowance...

Empty castles Walking in the rain
 Walking fast-head down
 No castles in Spain
 No pretty flowers, no night on the town Don’t look up-don’t look around Can’t lose if you don’t play So many moments denied
 No precious gems - no rings of gold So many tears uncried Stories untold No need to take back what wasn’t said Can’t lose if you don’t play So many words unspoken So many letters unwritten Unsigned - unread Empty enveloppes instead It’s the hurt of a stare that you do not own Can’t lose if you don’t play Walking in the rain Walking fast-unkind weather No champagne
No pretty flowers, no forever It’s the pain of a word that overreached Can’t lose if you don’t play No castles in Spain No dreamy fountain No kneeling down for you Head down - I loved you Play, laugh, love, hurt, cry, touch, kneel Never lasts longer than forever

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7:24 _ "Chapter 5: in their presence" Arriving quite late in this video, but it came to me at a time when I really needed it. I'm 19 years old (Brazilian, so I'm sorry for any typos) and in 2020 I decided to start this same journey of self-love and confidence, It's been five years and now I feel just as broken, sad, anxious, frustrated and lonely as I did several years ago. I marked this specific chapter because for me this has been the biggest obstacle in loving myself, there is no way to love yourself in isolation, but I don't have a support system to lean on at the moment. I have some college friends, but I can't talk to them about my vulnerabilities. I have a best friend, but I don't want to overwhelm him with everything I have to say. I feel lonely, even though I'm not really. My challenge this year will be to learn to accept the parts of myself that I've tried to ignore for so long, even without the support system I wish I had. Maybe one day I'll have it.

This was beautiful to watch. Thank you.

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THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I NEEDED

This video means a lot to me. 6 months ago every stilt that I propped up my self-confidence on was swept out from under me in the course of an hour. I've spent the past months in this period, the one of self-reflection, isolation, learning to love myself in ways that I now see may be somewhat shallow. I still harbour resentment, still feel venomous comments that'll never be spoken bubble up inside me though I tell myself it was for the best, that they did me a favour. I haven't broken the hermetic seal on my self--improvement journey yet and this video makes me realise breaking that seal will bring on a whole new set of trials but, screw it. I might not love all of myself, but I love a lot more of myself than I did before. Who can ask for anything more?

Thank u

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thanks for this yo. needed it.

You are not alone sister❤

i'm looking for the videos like yours to help myself navigate in this whole new situation two months ago I was still in my group of apocalypse riders- four girls surviving high school together, as a tight clique that never had any changes, any big arguments, and when there were any, we'd bounce back to the start settings asap at some point it really felt like a comfort place, as going out to the same city to study, shattered but together, always choosing same options with what to eat or what to do in general and as long as safe it was, it was also triggering me, cause why not change sth once in a while? so sometimes i'd ask them if they want to try out sth new or talk with them about sth different than the same things, same story about this boy and this party or whatever for the 100th time let me tell you, i felt ungrateful, but also misunderstood, despite telling them directly but i guess this comfort aspect had a drawback- lack of being ready to shake things up, argue and regulate our emotions and minds, instead of puttin it under the carpet short story, after 5 years i called each one of them separately to tell them that's the begginning of the end of our relationship. i still like them, still think that each one is a good person, but the vibe of the whole group turned against my need for sth different in relationships so it finally happened, two months ago i spontaneously left every chat we were in together and i rarely think about it, and don't regret it. sometimes i do, cause the hell it was five years, but i'm happy and i feel free- kind feel that for me it ended a lot earlier to anyone who read this, thanks❤ i like reading the stories as well and it's good to share

😢 i am going through the same.

lindo video

You are not alone. I am not alone. We are not alone. ❤

I felt empty these past few days, and I thought seeking for just random guys could swiftly change my current situation. In fact, I’m only making things worst and worst. Thank you for this video. It helps me to realize that you don’t have to depend on your happiness for someone else, a true happiness starts within you.

Ok it made me cry

I just love how exquisite your content is. I understand every word too well being that I am an introvert.

That void ends with me

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I really really needed this, thank you

starting 2025 i want t spend time alone at school and i think this will definitely help me until i find my people. though im still scared when there’s others in bigger groups and im alone. but maybe i’ll figure it out idk. i hate lunch 💔

Thankyou ✨

Maybe this channel is not famous but it gives much more than we can be grateful for and so I feel that things are perfect, thank you, sorry for my English, I am Mexican.

Its hard to comprehend for me how someone could be so similar yet so different from me? Its been a year since i have missed the self i created for me, the one i was really proud of and its been two years since i last saw her. And you made me realise, especially the part where you spoke that i didnt realise what i made for myself was so delicate, that perhaps that delicate self was due to partial acceptance of me, because i was shy of my shameful parts. Obviously life is a process and i might reach there or higher or lower someday but I'd always crave that feeling of being happy with myself. Its a meek feeling for me these days, but still its the best i have ever felt.

Can't afford therapy, but so grateful for such videos on The internet

thank you for this video.