03 Types Of Marriages | Love Marriage , Arranged Marriage And One More Type

[@divineray7822]

Aaj ki generation ki ladkiyon ne agar apni maa aur dadi ko khush dekha hota to shadi se itna bhagti nhi.

[@arushichoudhary8198]

True

[@ankitagupta108]

shadi na kar ke bhi koi khush ladki nhi dekhi ...

[@ankita9117]

Ture

[@RohitMehar]

Now thigs are getting changed...

[@sixteen9199]

@@RohitMehar hn ab thighs patle hone lag gaye hain.. sad reality of our society

[@vss1656]

In one video u were saying don't marry a girl who's not working. Now u r saying job can happen after marriage. And let me tell you no one tears the books after marriage but not everyone supports too. After marriage most of the in laws treat the girl as a working machine. Forget about support. This is my personal experience. Some support & some don't. So, it's better be self dependent before marriage if u want to.

[@varunmittal3617]

Career is really important both for men and female. Completely agree. Marriage nhi hui tho bhi koi badi baat nhi

[@sultanqureshi2766]

so girls and boys should not waste time scrolling social media and waste time in other things during 15-25 and get their carieer set (earning atleast) till 25 and get married before 30 anyhow. also girls and boys should marry each other of same capabilities and and same age approxx. more the diffrence more the issues. if boy is earning good (upper middle class )and wife is housewife then they two will not understand each other life and fight forever , also if their is age diffrence then they will fight because at diffrent ages people think diffrently, A 24 year girl will be thinking of a price charming and fairy tail life after marriage and if they marry a 28 year old man he will be thinking of a more bigger carrier money success work and wife will think he does not love and will be busy with random strangers on social media while husband will be busy with future goals and all is destroyed and just formality and misunderstanding cheating , husband will think wife does not care about his career and family etc. so always marry someone who is earning approx same as you and are of same age. girls who are jobless should always prefer boys who are earning below 50K around 30k if he earns higher than that then his dreams are diffrent and also you are not earning means you are also doing something wrong . and also approx same age. same applies for boys.

[@varunmittal3617]

@@sultanqureshi2766 Nobody waste their time scrolling social media unless you are son of Ambani or very rich farmer in Punjab/haryana or a UP/bihar politician. Everybody goes to work based on his/her intelligence pay differs. And Marriage should not depend on Age and earning alone but also on personality,values, aspirations of that human. You love a human not his beauty or money. If above things are taken care no problem with age difference. Main thing is to judge thinking levels and values of a human before marriage. you can marry person of any age

[@komalverma4113]

He has about studies after marriage in pre - marital counselling video i.e you should clarify in detail about your expectations after marriage. So only one video syllabus is not sufficient.

[@deepshikhasonkar8370]

80%-90% Parents want their children to marry within caste , difficult to find bride and groom within caste with all qualities is the main reason for delay

[@rajeshkumargurjar570]

Strongly agree 👍, Amit sir kindly try to clear this issue of marriage within caste, qualifications.

[@KAMLESHSUTAR78]

when u want to keep cast ..janmkundali matching...plus it nature ...looks ... economic level ..........marriages are delayed ... either 1 or 2 of this 5 has to be has to be sacrificed

[@er.anjalijaiswal7975]

Sabse badi problem yahi h

[@utopiancity8138]

Exactly...

[@ukdave472]

Thoda upar niche tolerate karo to best scenario milega

[@jaspreetkaur1466]

Marriages have become so practical these days, so many strategies , so many stats to follow, all about money, financial stability.... Nobody is marring for love and compatibility which i feel is the only factor which can help to sustain in a married lyf even in the worst times.... trust me i married for love and hit by the worst of circumstance still never got a feeling of giving up on us.... Love and compatibility is important

[@KAMLESHSUTAR78]

great to hear from you... u r a genuine human being Madam.. God Bless You in abundance

[@jaspreetkaur1466]

@@unknownnumber6083 i agree

[@jaspreetkaur1466]

@@karmatruth8698 True but it depends upon person to person.... If the boy will show a completly different pic to girl before marriage to impress like taking out on expensive dinners, spending lavishingly , setting unrealistic expectations then the girl is not at fault... Most boys do this and after marriage they will suddenly start thinking of money and will start counting the expenses

[@jaspreetkaur1466]

@@karmatruth8698 thanks for sharing your story.... i believe at 30+ age one become too mature and independent along with that if you are unmarried due to peer and family pressure people rush into marriage and sometimes miss the red signs.... Once you get married then other factors comes into picture like in laws expectations, been judged at every single point in life due to which all the frustration of women is directed to man and thus the things get change .... Not sure if you could relate to this

[@anonymous-yt8jq]

People don't want explore anything , they don't even know what is right and wrong for them , what kind of life they want , they just watch movies , web series and set unrealistic expectations about love marriage and in most of the cases it is not going to fulfilled by either of the partner

[@nikhilmehta7911]

People don't want to marry at age 23 to 27 because they don't want to take responsibilities early part of their life.

[@Corruptionbureaucracy]

Yeh to kuch bhi ni world data dekhlo kaise japan corea mein 50 years ke unmarried log ghum rahe bcs of job culture. Bohat jald woh chiz India mein lagu hoga.

[@sushildadwal7768]

Absolutely right yahi soch ha aj kl bachon ki responsibility lena hi nahi chahte

[@snehalchoudhary5092]

​@@Corruptionbureaucracy

[@nagratna793]

27 m baccha paida nahee ki toh pher kab? By the time kids grow people tend to grow way older

[@ayushmanbhalla8737]

aisi chutiya responsibilties kyu he le shadi karke kya fayda hua hai batana bhai

[@qwe56110]

Late married is better than early divorce...

[@crimsonhue33]

Eldaam sahi

[@yourstube6235]

Not an urgency to get married at 22-23. Girls should have a job/business exposure for 2-3 years before getting married to see where they actually stands. Getting married at early age will make them not to learn value of money as they would be papa ki Pari at 22-23 age and will expect the same from husband and his family. As a girl barely completes her degree at 22-23, they should get married when they have atleast 2-3 years of job/business market exposure.

[@yourstube6235]

@@Hemant81Kumar Yes, you are correct aiming for good career takes time for some and they will learn the value of money as conveyed in my comment earlier. Just to clarify, jobs/business exposure relevant/irrelevant to their dream career will surely move girls towards practical living.

[@utkalakalinga1270]

science has changed, earlier life expectancy was also very low, it was difficult to run a family without the male, now the science has progressed and the life expectancy is more almost double, family can still survive we even after the partner's death in a worst situation. earlier the better but marrying late is not all that bad

[@amitjoshi6792]

I think 22 is too early to get married... I think 27-28 is good for a guy to get married..

[@explorer7913]

Oh Bhai sex drive Kam ho jati hai 27-28 mein

[@Raythelightlife]

26-28 is good for both boys and girls 22 me padhai complete nahi hoti shadi kaise hogi Babaji ko lag raha hai unka jamana hai

[@Raythelightlife]

​@@explorer7913😂😂😂ek teenager bata hai hai sex drive ke baare me. Jaa kar Pokemon dekh

[@techpoint7537]

30

[@Supriya318]

I know all who got married early ...they have so many regrets from life...early marriage is not the key to happy marriage but the right mindset.. We can not say anything in absolute sense...life don't go that way

[@nidhikhurana6746]

I agree to u. Can u pls share few instances

[@productivegenes4755]

It's not important to marry early its important to marry RIGHT

[@renuka5502]

East facing plot?!! Business hi chal ra hai kya hr jagah? Ye concept hai toh na hi Karo bhai 🙏

[@green.frugal.minimalist1316]

Sir, I liked your thoughts on videos you shared. However I totally disagree with this. I saw many of my friends (girls) who married early, before 25, and have very bad married life. Jab tak wo larkiya sahas kar ke divorce le pati hai tab tak to 30 ke upar ho jat hai...32, 33 or 36.... and they don't have experience of job, professtion or outside of house, wo duniya dekhi hi nahi hoti hai. Kyuki shadi tak ghar me hi thi ma baap ki under me and shadi ke baad sasural and pati ki protection me aa gayi. So most of them don't have personal opinion, no confidence of decision making even for simple things. And to start life from scratch profationally and personally after 33-34 with imotionlal scars are huge work. Isiliye so many girls gut gut ke jiti hai. Divorce bhi wahi larkiya le pati hai jisne shadi se pehle thori bahut duniya dekhi hai aur family ke bahar bhi duniya sundar hai iski anubhab pehle ki hai.

[@green.frugal.minimalist1316]

@@chandranem unlogo ne shadi karni hai bus isiliye shadi ki. Jiwan ka to do list ka ek kaam niptana hai isiliye gharwalo ne bhi de diya. Mostly arranged marriage. Shadi kyu karni hai, kaise nibhegi etc ka koi dhyan nahi tha... to jo pati mila wo ekdum bekar ya opposite tha jiske sath kabhi koi compromise wala rista bhi nahi ban paya. Jyadataro ne physical violence ke baad ye decision liya.

[@pratibhauniyal8328]

True

[@green.frugal.minimalist1316]

@@pratibhauniyal8328 thank you.

[@green.frugal.minimalist1316]

@@chandranem mere comment ko ekbar phir se parhiye. Wo ladkiyo ki 21, 22 ya 23 me hi shadi ho gayi. Mainy early marriage likha.

[@sowmyasureshkumar3641]

True, women should at least work for 2-3 years before marrying.otherwise she will be ground every where and by 35 she is fit for nothing but wait for husband or in-laws for every silly decision and even financially weak

[@jbringjoy]

I have no child shadi hui h 28 ki age m now I am 30 and ab sasural m bhi pdai hi chl rhi h. Sb bs nokri chahti h .kisi ko hmse mtlb nhi h.

[@rakheek4010]

In case of girls who want to do masters from USA or abroad it is not possible to get married at 22-23 as it’s very tough to find such boys who will educate girl abroad spending so much money. By the time they finish studies and start working they are already 25-26. And then it takes another couple of years to find someone and get married.

[@Krishna-hk1dl]

Kismat bhi to hoti hai sir.log height Kam hone se reject Kar dete hain. Sabko tall slim ladki chahiye.

[@kapilsetia3822]

Following you from last 2 years when you had very less subscribers. Look at the pace of subscribers increased in last 4 months sir. They have grown like a multibagger stock… and its just a beginning! 💚🙏🏻 People have started realising your wisdom and what a gem you are.

[@ANIME_LITE_29]

@@YPSS-UTube yes truth

[@ThallaLaxmiRajam]

Nice Narration, Facts and effect of Jyotish,caste, Religion,Region, Language , profession and money in present marriages.

[@payalgupta4953]

Zindagi ki sachiyan baya kar di sir apne is video mein kash 2003 aap jaisa koi mentor mujhe or meri family ko guide karta to aaj life kuch or hoti

[@payalgupta4953]

👍👏👏🙏🙏

[@lazycat8946]

KZbin recommended it late

[@Riya_BeU]

Sir make a video on wife that is earning more money than husband and taking equal responsibility of expenses. What could be the future of there marriage.

[@yogitapandey3942]

Before marriage you get ample time to prepare n get into job of your liking. After marriage you have responsibilities (of which you were not used to before marriage), thus reducing the time to prepare for the desired job.

[@seemadagar1792]

But if u get a decent entry level job , then start looking for a partner.

[@pandasurajify]

One scenario you missed Let's girl married early age and she doesn't have job and marriage life didn't go well she gets divorced. Then girl has to depend on her parents and parents think this will be burden that why all parents think that girl should be financially independent before marriage. As divorce Rate is high now a days parents are scared

[@rahulmukherjee2884]

Indian parents don't like love marriage, kyuki unki nhi ho payi

[@midfielderlounge2592]

Bete Teri jaise aachi sakal bhagwan ne sabko nhi di Abhi

[@anitakotvalourlifeingermany]

Marriage should be a personal choice and not as per age..I am glad woman are giving their education and work important...As far as getting married goes it is better to get married when you are well set in your career and are able to employ a full time nanny rather than expecting family members to run after your kids.. Biological clock is not as limited as it made out to be .. Maybe woman are the east facing plot.....

[@firdosmanawar1674]

Say it again Women are east facing plot.

[@Raythelightlife]

Right 👍

[@pinkypal7849]

Early marriage is not solution, getting a right partner for whole life is the key. Don't worry who crossed 30 and finding their soulmate through matrimonial site, it's not that bad....it is just that u have to cross check and meet people properly...trust Hanuman ji....you will attract your better half if u have faith in God.... otherwise marriage kiski kb tak tikke it's all luck 😎 Bdw late marriage is always better than early divorce

[@utkalakalinga1270]

getting a right partner, no one can guaranty that , science has changed, earlier life expectancy was also very low, it was difficult to run a family without the male, now the science has progressed and the life expectancy is more almost double, family can still survive we even after the partner's death in a worst situation. earlier the better but marrying late is not all that bad

[@TanveeMantri]

Really ?

[@rggrrggr290]

agreed

[@growwithvibin6739]

Liked you view . But Marriage is a very personal concept there is no fixed formula .. ppl getting married at 22-25 and 25-35 both are happy and sad equally .. so personally speaking i would not say marrying Early gives u high probability of happiness.. but yes body structure looks n personality are at its best till late 20's if that's the major criteria for you getting married

[@asha1537]

Uncle is right but its really necessary to make your own career and then get married. Atleast get a decent career. And marriages are not some deal jisme pros and cons dekh k kar liya. You have to consider a lot of things before choosing a person. Especially for girls, you have to see if your husband and in-law support your career and education or not. Bs uth k shaadi nhi kar sakte. I genuinely believe that the right person comes at right time and the person is predestined by God and comes in our life when we are fully ready for marriage. And matrimonial sites are not bad. You get to date, choose and decide according to your preferences. The only thing is you have to do a Good background check and try to find someone whose hometown is same as yours so that you can easily do thei background check.

[@hiraeth5574]

Not disagreeing completely, but Sabki life alag hoti h aur sabke life ke expectation alag hote hai. So ek hi formula sabko suit nahi karega. Main aese logo ko bhi dekha h jinhone early 20s me shaadi ki aur 30 tak pahuchate pahuchate wo mentally drain ho chuke hote hain. Aur main aese logon ko bhi jaanta hu jinhone time leke shaadi kia, aur fir bhi sab changa hai unki life me. Upar se har koi marriage k lie bana bhi nahi hota. Kai husband aur wife aese h jo literally ek torture hote h ek dusare k lie. So koi formula hai nai. Apni jindagi h, apne hisaab se jiyo. But ladka ho ya ladki, make sure ki apne paanv pe jarur khade ho kyonki aapko kesa partner mil jaaye iski koi guarantee nahi. Love marriage me bhi nahi.

[@technodushyant4512]

Hope of light is coming from this man. Everytime he posts video, he shares his experience and knowledge.

[@kaido4026]

28 and unmarried as struggling with parents for love marriage ( 8yr long relationship). Still fighting and will make it through hopefully.

[@devashishmishra8913]

All the best

[@anamikas227]

That's sad.

[@TomJerry-bp9ig]

❤

[@BaliramHari-h6h]

Parents tumhari choice ko toh mana kar denge aur phir waisa match khud bhi nhi la payenge and fir haath khade kar denge...toh bhai kar lo...kal ko kuwanre reh gaye toh parents bolenge humari toh koi galti nhi, ye wala woh wala match achha tha par tum ussi k piche pagal the

[@jashanbhatia]

Shadi aur bache ke baad couple itna mature ho jata hai k mil kr apna kaam bhi setup kr skte hain. Field same, maximum time ek dusre ke saath, same goals, same motives, same challenges, true companionship, aur life above excellence ho jati hai. Believe me, I am living example. Sir ki baat mano life poori bdl jayegi jaise hmari bdli. Thoda mushkil tha initially mindset bdlna pr jb himmat kri to sir ke margdarshan se sb awesome ho Gaya. Can't thank you enough sir.... 🙏

[@balamsingh3755]

Sir, has explained the reality, which is happening in society. But, in today's world marriage is not the ultimate aim of life if it is so then it's ok. Generally at 16-17 yrs boys/girls complete schooling. Then 4 yr graduation/BTech etc. Next, min 3-4 yr jobs. Arnd 25 yrs an average boys/girls start earning about 25-30k. If they r staying in metros then rentals & pers expenses else no fin independence. I personally feel as life span has also been increased. Hence, 28-30yrs is ideally rt marriageable age. Else early marriage early kids then get involved in jindagi ke taane baane mei aur bojh dhone mei. Attain fin independence first no burden on parents apni jindagi k khud Malik.Parents should give freedom to children for selecting their life partners of course with some conditions.

[@priyankachoudhary628]

Sir you are so right . I got married at 25 and had my first child at 27 and we are 37 now and so happy and settled. Now my husband is planning to complete his master's from renounced University.

[@priyankachoudhary628]

@@eate7721 I am a homemaker

[@priyadsilva4582]

Renounced University 😅

[@Raythelightlife]

But you are a housewife and dependent on husband. Khud ki koi identity nahi hai

[@Raythelightlife]

Aapke jaisi life kisi ko nahi chaiye that's why people are delaying marriage

[@priyankachoudhary628]

@@priyadsilva4582 it was a typo dear

[@arnabghosh4731]

U r very correct, I also married late,now I understand what is coming

[@umaganesh1198]

Well..sir ji...mai apne 18 saal ke chote experiences se yeh zarur kehna chahungi ki life mei insaan kabhi bhi "settle" nai honewala 🤣...life always floats...so better to float with the flow , try your own ways to float and even if r about to sink no worries...bahubali baby ban zarur jayenge.. maa roop mei koi saver aa hi jayega 200 percent 😃😃 😍😍🙏enjoying your channel sir ji lage rahiye🙏

[@ashu7010]

Sir, i think - all these factors like delayed marriages , Divorces, having no cild or one child, not marrying at all ...would lead to big population fall in next 100 years.

[@ashu7010]

@@somdebdas3591 mujhe to koi problem nahi hai...tumhaare jese log jeeke karenge bhi kya...dharti pe bojh hi badhega.

[@ashu7010]

@@kocengineering769 you will remain unemployed always.....holding degree doesn't give common sense. Did i say in my comment that fall in population is not a good thing ?? Also population explosion is there in bunch of countries only- China, India, Bangladesh, Indonesia etc. There are many & many countries who have population less than Indian cities. Agar abhi bhi samajh nahi aaya to jaake apna checkup karwaa.

[@ashu7010]

@@somdebdas3591 🤣🤣🤣🤣 tujhe bohot experience hai. Is this your family business?

[@jacksonripper-mp8dr]

then it would be good. At least India desperately needs this thing.....

[@HemantShete]

Sir, you're very right.. you are showing a mirror to the educated society prejudices and false assumptions.. Kudos to you for bringing every apt reality with astute & practical solutions... thanks 🙏🏼

[@indianlifeinsaudiarabia]

Nice topic as expected.. Indian family together never discuss about all this topic...

[@deepalazarus2399]

Complete factual sense in your unique style is required for all generations in India. 👏👏👏

[@yojo619]

Late marriages always have a disproportionate negative impact on women compared to men, As a successful 40+ man i have no desire to get married as i have several options open to much younger women, the same cannot be said for women who after 40s have a low threshold of choices.... Unfortunately this is the bitter truth

[@yojo619]

@@t33554 Women have it much worse in case a marriage goes downhill, there i a alarming rise in the number of single mothers, I think somewhere our society needs to support women more in case of failed or dead end marriages, and not blame them, Indian society needs to free women from family,societal and peer pressures and let them live on their own terms similar to men

[@yojo619]

@@t33554 Unfortunately whatever you have said is true, And that too in a best case scenario, where a woman is educated and living in a city...I shudder to think what happens to women in villages and tier 3-4 tier cities....Our media needs to stop portraying that it is ok for married men to engage in affairs....it is subtly even displayed on family shows like Tarek Mehta where extra marital flirting is normalised...in India unfortunately the onus is still on the women to maintain a healthy marriage...the only safeguard I see for women is a high degree of awareness of the Laws and education regarding this matter inorder to see the signs and avoid pitfalls in a relationship... Sadly I dont see anything drastic happening until attitudes towards women and single mothers change in India

[@Ss-hn5rf]

I'm 30 y.o. male. Had a pretty bad breakup at 25. Realised money is not just important but at the topmost priority for securing a good life partner (in 90-95% cases). Never looked back since. I'm unmarried right now, but I'll be damned if I even approach a girl without making my 'aukat' first. Thank you for the wisdom sir. It's good but I won't be able to face that burn again. 🙏

[@Deb_deCoder]

same thing happened to me.. she left me for money.. i decided not to get married.. will use surrogacy for child.. but won't become workhorse, atm of any wymn

[@utkalakalinga1270]

why surrogacy, you can have normal baby even at this age (I am not against Surrogacy), I got married when I was two years senior than you my wife was 26 and we have a normal baby and things are still going fine, earlier the better in every aspect of life including marriage but everyone has different purpose in life, enjoy it, you have not lost everything, those days they were marring early because life expectancy was low now a days people are living longer. So take it easy, you might be little late but still will reach your target.

[@rakheek4010]

Online marriages are good and common in USA for husband and wife. Especially if both well educated and working abroad. But problems occur with in-laws family they are not happy but cordial 😊

[@devanshsingh4959]

Sir aap jaise rishtedar sabko milne chahiye, itni samajh sir maa baap ni de pate bacho ko itni sachai sir aise hi samjhaye rhena hume. Thank you so much.

[@poojanandan1072]

100℅ true sir I had planned like this for my daughter Hopefully it works 🙏

[@Vikram_8621]

I had a rough patch of 15 years due to which it restricted me from marrying, I feel It is the mindset and the inner tenacity of finding the right partner.

[@luckycharm1611]

Very interesting and real world examples. You have the gift of explaining convincingly

[@anubhajha3222]

आपके उठाये गए सभी विषय बहुत जरूरी होते हैं।साथ ही आप problrms का solutions भी देंते हैं,मुझे आपकी vedios से बहुत सही दिशा मिलती है।धन्यवाद ।

[@raunak3486]

Sir please make a video on how a middle class teenager should have a mindset to become rich.

[@suravibehera2246]

This video is the most needed video for me.. What you said about parents of girls are actually true.. Now a days girl's parents are not hurry for marriage of their daughters.. When their daughters turn 28 or 30 then the parents gets hyperactive but then it's too late to find a suitable guy for their daughter.. They are just destroying their daughters life.. And the demand of the girls' side is also very high... High salary, government employee blah blah blah... For this reason the marriage of girls gets delayed... This is happening with me right now.. If this goes for few years I will have definitely no option rather than stay single forever.. I pray to God that no girls means no girl will go through this toxic behaviour of parents... Thank you 🙏

[@RajeshKumar-vr2lm]

Sir u r doing great job. Anxiously waiting for ur next...

[@aaysha16]

Meri 23 yr me shadi krwayi 30k kamane wale 29yr k bande se meri government job chhut gyi is shadi k baad.

[@arvindmaheshwari6549]

I appreciate the subject you have broadly covered. 👍 all the best for this initiative

[@shilpayadav6145]

Sir this is the reality of today's society👏👏

[@xavierrozario7451]

Very informative video. Bring out the real issues faced by the younger generation and their parents.

[@jayanthiswaminathan6210]

100% correct sir. I agree with you completely about girls not ready to get married early and waiting to 'become someone' in life. Also the biological clock keeps ticking, even having a child becomes more difficult with age.

[@Corruptionbureaucracy]

Yeh to kuch bhi ni world data dekhlo kaise japan corea mein 50 years ke unmarried log ghum rahe bcs of job culture. Bohat jald woh chiz India mein lagu hoga.

[@Tryambkeshwr]

Very valid points raised, practical thinking

[@renuchauhan9140]

Your daughter is soo blessed

[@AmodJoshi]

Good one sir, requesting you to make one for divorced people in middle age as well.. especially financially independent people with travelling jobs and that type of prarabdh.

[@AnkitSingh-qr5ig]

वाह गुरु जी,मजा आ गया।👌

[@GurpreetKaur-z4f]

Sir you are doing a great job....society need these things .

[@bebugeeta361]

Perfect video sirji, totally agree with you, keep rocking

[@asmitadahiya]

Jai mata di 🙏 you have very practical approach of life. I am 32 now .I was married at the age of 22. I have two kids .I think everybody will like your way of talking

[@ruhilbulls2312]

Thanks a lot sir for this type of clearity about marriage🙏🙏🙏

[@neetakakkar6075]

Sir ji buhut badiya video Plz make more like these

[@VivekSir90]

Media, TV serial, movies are the main factor affecting the emotions and expectations of young people and parents of current generation

[@ShubhamSahu-vl9zd]

Sir i am facing the same problem, you are totally right

[@dollyjhaom]

Premarital counselling should be made as compulsory as the saat phere 😁

[@ritupandey7485]

Aap bolte ho ki koi kitaab nahi faadta But sasural main ladki ko kai baar itna kaam karate hain North main up main aapko pata nahi Bahu aate hi saas boodhi ho jati hai Ladke maa ke bhakt ho jate hai Kai ladke biwi ko maa baap ki seva ke liye hi chod ke doosre City main job karte hain bahut kharab hai haal up ki nanad kuch kaam nahi karti hain

[@DaljitSingh-dv7dm]

Its nt only in up Delhi is no less . mentality yahi hai almost sabki kuch log hain jo alag soch k hai .

[@Stranger66724]

​@@DaljitSingh-dv7dmplzz find a educated family then ,

[@psjoshi20]

Very nice information. We will definately think over it for our daughters.

[@MrAMLRETAILS]

बहुत बढ़िया विश्लेषण

[@ruchanalgirkar]

You are doing great job..

[@radharaghavan2033]

Well said sir. My junior who is also Dr is dilly dalyying wedding from 5 years for flimsy reasons-wants to settle in Bangalore-Her fiance wants to settle in small town as he has settled hospital there.She gives vague reasons and is postponing wedding.

[@nikitamishra3408]

Sounds vague to you . You have see it from her perspective. Men do not have restrictions in small town. Women do . What she wears , how she lives , at what time she works .. EVERYTHING IS JUDGED IN SMALL TOWN .

[@saumyatrivedi3940]

I am just passing through this thought. My girl child is 22 and she want to complete mbbs. I also agree with her.

[@JD-vl6xz]

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[@ritavaishnav6123]

Saumyaji please support your daughter fully and give her the freedom to have friendships….. in course of time she will surely find a compatible partner while pursuing her MBBS ….seen so many doctors marrying doctors …they both will understand and complement each others specialised areas of work

[@anamikas227]

I m glad someone is speaking out n shaking people into awareness

[@akshayarora5784]

Sir iska matlab ye nikalta hai ki 33,34 valo ko shaadi nahi karni chahiye🤔🤣🤫

[@rahusphere]

@The Life Explorer absolutely.

[@Neo-u3h56]

Bohut hi sahi aur timely video hai

[@frc_sc9114]

Abhi ulta ho raha hai. Love se start. Then after 2-4 yrs heart break or breakup for whatever reason. Lost all faith in love, and then parents start to look for a girl/boy, another 1-2yrs gone. Now out of desperation, and age, end up in desparate marriages. Best case is if a relationship works and the couple gets married in their late 20s(post maturity). Such marriage are less likely to fail.

[@ajaykumar-banker]

Your comments about desperate marriage through online portals is perfect. I have seen most marriages through this medium based on lies and having disastrous consequences.

[@menandboricha2361]

I cannot dare to refuse your realistic views,

[@LongevityProsperity]

Very nice topic. Need of the hour. People are keeping unrealistic expectations in the marriage market from both sides. Aur ladki walon ko toh ladka aisa chahiye jiski salary 1 lac ho per mnth car ho apna ghar ho. Mai ek ladke ko janti hu jiski age 29 hai 2 bhk ka flat hai versova mumbai mei parents ka usko ek choti sister hai jo ki married hai.father bank mei kaam karte hai aur mom home maker hai. Village mei bhi inka ghar hai fir bhi is ladke se koi shadi karne taiyar nahi wo isliye ki iski salary 35k per mnth hai. Due to covid uski salary appraisal nahi hui 2 yrs se. Sabko apni ladki ki shadi raja se karwani hai fir baad mei wo ladka ka nature kharab nikle chalega inko

[@swatisharma260]

Sir your absolutely correct ,this is scientifically right ,we all need a partner after certain age ,all young ppl have numerous relations just becoz of delayed marriage , romance ,comfort and adjustments requires a young age .

[@rohittivetia9662]

Bilkul sahi sir, your videos are actual mirror of current society.watching since last 1 week, and very happy that somebody actually summarizing these things by making such videos.

[@sanketsarode]

Exactly.. urgency nahi hai... Thank you for making this video on this... I can relate to this as I am currently in this phase.

[@alkaniroola6243]

Sir most of the indian families donot support studies after marriage but yes one way it is good to have early marriage for medical reasons

[@prateekrajput7096]

It is a very nice topic for society now a days. If we really want to maintain society for a better future then these things needs to be discussed more openly. Very nice sir

[@lineshshah5272]

Good topic. Need to be covered

[@rameshnk2548]

So true..Request you to keep creating such videos. It will really bring out change in society.

[@RahulVerma-ud1rr]

Very good discussion

[@Raythelightlife]

Fact hai ki shadi ke baad padhne nahi dete. Aajkal competition ke jamane me koi 14-15 ghanta padhna hota hai. Saas bolti hai teen time kahna bana kar ghar saaf kar ke 10-12 ghanta ghar ka kaam kar ke padhne jao .. Ohhhh bhai this is trap Jub tak settle na ho shadi mat karna Dingle rehna is better than ti be unsatisfied and unhappy like our previous generation

[@sunitasuraj7569]

It is exactly what happened with me ....i wish someone like you were there to guide me...i remained unmarried

[@khwaishaggarwal4926]

bilkul sir aisa hi hai ryt topic hai

[@icverma1695]

I liked the contents. I started listening to your videos last week. Find them practical and informative. Thanks

[@monikasharma9923]

Dont get married till u are financially independent....orelse life will surely be hell.

[@parthn-musicforwork4789]

Nice video! Sangwan sir I would like to know your opinions about men going single, without marriage. It’s becoming more popular in the west, and coming here to India soon as well I think.

[@JD-vl6xz]

God damn ,east facing plot, simran stuff. Epic n True.

[@VandanaSharma-jy6mo]

I want early marriage but parents ko kaise explain kru sir you are absolutely right ki career bnane ki koi age nhi hoti but parents ko kaise convince kru

[@jyotsnamaradia4743]

Very useful vidio.... We are really face this type of situation sir....

[@nikhilsatamkar7532]

Very informative video..👍🏻

[@vivekkaushik5832]

Isse better video nhi suna aaj tak, amazing n true analysis❤❤🎉🎉

[@kiransharma7848]

So true! Each time I come across your valuable videos I'm confused which one should I see. Each one is so worthy of listening. I love your style of saying..' I want to become something ' 😀

[@green.frugal.minimalist1316]

However the problem is true Sir. Aapne jo kaha ki larkiyo ki shadi nahi ho rahi hai that is true. The reasons of not having marriages or delayed marriages are true also. However we have to know why delayed marriages. I try to explain from girls side. Maa baap larkiyo ko education and degree to dilwa rahe hai but in actual life decision maker nahi bana rahe hai. Kitni larkiya hai jo education or job ke liye ghar se bahar jati hai aur jati bhi hai to hostel me nahi rehkar khud house rent pe lekar rehti hai? When you rent a house, pay your bill, cook your own food and take your financial decisions, you became not only independent but also wise. True independence make you wise kyuki tab aap realise karte hai ki sab kaam aap khud nahi kar sakte and you start to learn to let go things when necessary. Girls started to feel unfulfilled when get married just after college. And its make them cringe. They start to fantasize the life with without marriages or how single women are happy soul, as grass is always green in other side. So what is the solution? I have same view on the problem as you state. However I have a different solution. Parents should start tell thier daughters as they turn out 19 or 20 that you also have to earn your own money as early as possible, save for your retirement, have your own medical expenses, and if possible try to buy your own house, just like boys. From 20 to 30 age you are not getting married but you have to be financially free or at least not dependent, have to stay alone for some years, pay your rents, cook your foods, pay your bills, handle health issues single handedly if not very serious, travel inside or outside country alone, just make sure that girls take not only their own decisions, but also take responsibility of the outcome of those decisions good or bad. After 30 jab un larkiyo ki shadi hogi tab wo shadi rarely tutegi. Kyuki wo achievements ke liye pati pe nirbhar nahi hoti hai and let go karna sikh chuki hoti hai. Jab log akele sabji khardite hai, akale bartan dhote hai, akele doctor ke paas jate hai aur akele money investment bhi karte hai, wo log jiwan me flexibility ko bhi sikh lete hai and wo flexibility marriage me bahut kaam ati hai.

[@green.frugal.minimalist1316]

@The Life Explorer Thank you😊

[@green.frugal.minimalist1316]

@@kankartata2501 🙏

[@green.frugal.minimalist1316]

@@shekharkapoor9208 Thank you.

[@seeker6965]

Aap bhut sach battein real practical solutions ke sath haste haste batate hai....thank you for making me laugh and also aware..i agree with your mind set completely...🙏

[@cgupadhyay]

Sir your thoughts on arrange marriage are right on some extent... though it also depends on region (in India especially), most of the girls may be a gold diggers {when comes to arrange marriage and especially if girl is pretty (pretty= depends on societies toxic beauty standards)}. But their are also many men who are not only gold digger but also insensitive, though dowry might not be asked directly these days but there are many indirect ways they demand it. You said "2 lakh kamane wala ladka ready hai ,to marry a house wife" (maybe in some society).... but what I have seen in todays society. If guys is earning 2 lakh per month he wants a wife who should be earning at least 1 to 1.5 lakh per month (I'm talking here people in private companies), Similar case with guys earning 30 k per month . And a guy who is in Govt. Job he ask for bride who is also in Govt. job. (Here, one more thing I want to address. In both cases these so called eligible groom wont bother about character or good natured girl... only thing matters for them is how much money they bring at the end of month to pay their EMI's etc.). In this scenario only girls are in loss, 24-30 age ki ladki kahan 2 lakh kama pati hai, ladko to phir 32 ki umar me 24-25 ki ladki mil jati hai. Now, here a 30 or 30 + girl either has to compromise (married off to man who are divorce or not well educated enough, in simple words settles for less) or decides not to marry at all. I understand that in today's time , it has became important for both husband and wife to contribute in house expense But don't you think people sometime become insensitive and selfish in the process. I mean they don't want to take responsibility for wife's expenses and also, want them to contribute equally in house expense. What most women left with is responsibility for both family(house chores, baby making, taking care of in-laws) and making a decent earning to help her husband in expense. What will be your advise to girls and boys here???what should a girl do in such situation? And Do men needs to change their views on expecting for a girl to be equally contributing in terms of money??

[@AnkkitKumarr]

Aaj bhi majority Ladke housewife hi dhund rhe hai mam . Ye bade bade seher walo ke chochle hai bs ki ladki kamane wali chaiye.....lekin aise bhot km log hai Majority aaj bhi housewife chahte hai

[@cgupadhyay]

@@AnkkitKumarr I don't know which region on India you talking about...(where majority wants housewife ) What I have witnessed when comes to marriage what people (man) demands in a spouse is... education, good looks... fair... slim and working girl but she should not be a ambitious person...she should earn enough to pay her own expenses and put some money into everyday's expenses like electricity bill or groceries... and this mostly happens in middle class family... though they do not ask for much dowry during marriage but they see it to be a life time investment... also depends on your generation to generation...and educated in laws will not ask for dowry but surely do ask a well educated and we'll earning babu...

[@AnkkitKumarr]

@@cgupadhyay ye sb bs bade sehro me hota hai Aap ho kaha se?

[@Deb_deCoder]

don't shoot for the 2 lacs earning guys.. select based on your earning.. problem solved.. but hypergamy prevents you selecting men at your level Wymn wanted equality.. now men are awakening.. they are giving wymn equality in everythung including money.. why are you complaining.. i think wymn like you want equality in all aspects of life except for money 😅

[@cgupadhyay]

@@Deb_deCoder Bhai Sahab aapne video ka Taatparay samja??? Aur this comment konsa issue related hai Samaj pa rahe ho??? ya sirf issiliye comment pe reply kiya ki koi ladki hai chalo gappe hi lada le time pass ke liye ??? yahan pe ladkiyan select kare ladko ko ye baat nahi ho rahi... yahan baat ho rahi jab ladke ladkiyon ko reject karte hai on the bases of money.... sab ladkiyon ko gold digger bolte ho.... jab ki dahej laki wale nahi ladke wale mangte hai... and apna doglapan apni gf ya wife ko dikhao.... yahan pe random ladkiyon ke comments pe reply karna chodo... timepass karna hai to koi aur platform dundo jese tinder ya facebook.

[@komalverma4113]

Tau ji , your video is amazing. I hv watched it 5 times 😅. Best content with harvanvi humour 😉. 😂

[@latifashaikh7534]

Sir aapki baat sahi hai lekin dowry jo lakdke Wale mangate hai woh kaha se laayege maa baap A+ ladake ke liye.