1: What Men Want More Than Love |

[@bettycarmella1127]

Such great stuff!! I just came across a definition of respect that said "respect means seeing your partner as a whole person not just a way of getting what you want". This is beautifully confirming❤🌹

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Thank you for sharing this with us all!

[@vibekepadkjaer5724]

Op

[@xochitlleon1265]

Omg yessss!!!!

[@coachadina]

Adrienne is an Angel on this earth. Has helped me for almost three years now. Great timing...💗

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Thank you so much, and I'm honored to be part of your life.

[@missygee6155]

Yes she is!!

[@itsceza]

Hello girls, yes I agree with Adrienne! I have accepted my man's no when he wanted to end things, I accepted his opinion and things magically went better afterwards.... now we are better than ever!!!

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Thank you so much for sharing! I also hope your boundaries are spoken clearly, and your needs are met?

[@marah3298]

Wow, that’s interesting 🤔. Thanks for sharing how this has helped you.

[@TeaRoseLover]

Men crave respect but it needs to be reciprocated.

[@laundrybasket2689]

💯💯💯💯💯

[@freshstrt3140]

Yes. Lead by example. Respectful = Respectable

[@AdrienneEverheart]

I love this because goodwill begets goodwill. One of us has to be the bigger person to get the ball rolling. Hugs to you!

[@laundrybasket2689]

@@freshstrt3140 Men are the leaders. They need to be the ones setting the examples.

[@freshstrt3140]

@@laundrybasket2689 My comment can be interpretted in either direction 😉👍🏼

[@hollybalcom9765]

Hi Adrienne! A couple of months ago I went through breakup number 3 with a man I had been on and off with for over a year. One day he told me that he had gone out for drinks with an ex girlfriend earlier that week. This was someone he had actually left me for during breakup number 2! I knew that he had been talking with her on the phone as well regularly. He claimed he was just helping her talking about her work problems, etc and that he actually disliked her as a person anymore. I told him my boundary that I felt very uncomfortable with him going out for drinks and talking on the phone with an ex girlfriend. He declined my boundary. I accepted his no and said if he can't respect my healthy boundary I was going to move on. Which I did. Not even a week later I found out he had lied and was actually actively pursuing this ex girlfriend. Thank you for your life changing help Adrienne!!!! ❤

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Oh honey, I am so very sorry. The fact that he was telling you all of this, ew, just ew. Sending you all my love.

[@hollybalcom9765]

@@AdrienneEverheart Thank you so much for your support!!! ❤

[@marah3298]

In the same vein, I have found if a man is talking about how “annoying” a woman is, but you didn’t ask lol and he’s not cutting contact with her. Usually, he has feelings for her that he is explaining away or just now realizing he has.

[@JustUsSystemInc]

Adrienne. You have outdone yourself with this episode. Not just because I needed it but to see you relieve these women of the pain in their heart.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Thank you so much, Natasha. I treasure your comment.

[@laurengraymckay6583]

Adrienne this new video style with live callers and getting to have a real audio conversation with them is EVERYTHING. This is what I loved most about FEMM was the recorded calls with fellow goddesses, so helpful to have them in these live videos! When you were answering 1-2 sentance typed comments before, it felt pretty easy to see my situation in them and even easier to discount your response sometimes by saying to myself "well, this person sounds like they're going through something like I am, BUT my situation is different because of x, y, or z sooooo I don't have to listen to adrienne about this one" but now that the question askers are able to input their additional info and nuances as well it's easier for me to understand why your response usually stays about the same and really how clear cut and simple this stuff is - my situation isn't special enough to not get to follow the "rules" lol. Thank you for this vid!

[@mariamcbean8335]

Omg You are absolutely the best teacher!!! So generous with your time and knowledge. Thank you, Adrienne ❤️

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Happy to help!

[@psalm913]

Words, sweet talks and flattery

[@MsActor2009]

Yes, when a man says “no” or “ I can’t”, he means it! Walk away! You’re too good for breadcrumbs 🥖

[@AdrienneEverheart]

If that topic is about you, yes. 🥰🥰

[@MsActor2009]

I generally find it has something to do with the conditions of the relationship and how serious he really is about you. You gotta grab your dignity and go!

[@ashleybriones2445]

A mans goal in life is glory.. a woman’s is admiration

[@amrvida]

Girl, you are heaven sent, you’ve helped me so much! Felt like I always had to show I could get just as mad or as stubborn, I didn’t want to seem weak, but it always got me nowhere. I started watching your videos and using your advice into our relationship! The way he unraveled with me as soon as he saw me get into my feminine energy!!!!💓💓💓💓💓 we were intimate after and he was sooo much more affectionate with me, constantly grabbing me the whole day, telling me how much he loves me and how beautiful I am, caught me by surprise because he isn’t too affectionate but now I see he slowly is💓

[@AdrienneEverheart]

So happy to help!

[@suriyamohd]

Everyone deserves respect. Respect for others and for self. To think that someone doesn't want or deserve respect can come only Street you know them very well. Even when you're getting annoyed at your spouse or even strangers, we are no one to disrespect someone.

[@PricelessDes]

Wow a lightbulb just went off lol i had a man give me a whole speech on how he hasn’t thought about taking things to the next level with me and he asked me if it made sense? At the time i said yes and I did feel a level of rejection and disappointment but now I realize no it doesn’t make sense I’m a great woman and I deserve someone who is sure about me. Why would he not want to take things further? It Doesn’t make sense!!!!

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Amen.

[@sharhful]

Adrienne you’re gorgeous inside and out. I absolutely love watching and listening to your wisdom.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Thank you so much 🤗

[@sigridj9459]

Love this new interview/ podcast format!

[@marah3298]

Me too!

[@maysaraali5772]

Adrienne💗You look and feel amazing. Your speaking from a much deeper place than just feminine and masculine energy. You are much more aware of a lot of spirituality. Love and really enjoy watching you.

[@GypsyInThirteen]

Right?!! It’s been slowly building it’s a beautiful journey to behold. Tantrika!

[@judiann1229]

Adrienne you are so right, my life has change in so many ways, just listening and applying these techniques, we connected so much better.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Love this!! ❤️❤️😘

[@vittoriaidara]

Amazing podcast! Thanks 💜💖✨🌸✨

[@sarahhale2519]

This is such a fun one Adrienne!!! I love hearing from fellow feminine energy ladies! The voice chat is a great addition.

[@casperinsight3524]

So many Golden Nuggets Adrienne 💥 Discussing expectations, verbalising boundaries is Paramount, Essential to a successful Mutually Respectful relationship 💥 TY 4 keeping it Real 😎😘 If I want to be married versus common law, how do you bring it up If you change your mind throughout the relationship or you realize that going along with them is keeping you hanging on....fearing upsetting him or fearing the inevitable. These fundamentals should be discussed at the onset so neither of you waste your time, become emotionally invested or think they will cave over time. Fantasy magical thinking is detrimental and can complicate the situation. Before discussing our deal breakers we need to know ourselves and what WE really want. Our priorities may change in life based on individual circumstances, and that's okay. Keeping it real keeps life copasetic cuz life is complicated enough .

[@yokoustudio6255]

Thank you Adrienne for speaking the truth to us

[@AdrienneEverheart]

I appreciate your comment! Thank you for joining.

[@maddyhall7264]

You are so loved and appreciated! Thank you, Adrienne 💗

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Thank you so much!

[@deborahkilpatrick8572]

I'm loving these podcasts! 💕 Thank you x

[@marajohnson8013]

You are so good at this💗💫

[@Reapercr33p]

This episode had helped me so incredibly much. It was made in passing to check you out and I’m grateful that I get to add you to my arsenal of teachers!

[@2wyn379]

That was great . Really helpful. Thanks Adrienne 💗

[@colleenmariebeautiful1897]

Love Your Channel, and Your Content~💖 Thank You for how Real You Are with These Topics etc... 🙏💓💎

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Happy to help and much love to you!

[@xokay9152]

Love this podcast format! Always always here for you going into detail about what you teach😘❤️

[@maricelg777]

Thanks Adrienne 🤍

[@marah3298]

Another great video, Adrienne!

[@mzsierra2u251]

Oh my goodness this was the most informative podcast and more relevant to current dating climate. AE material include group chat but a bit outdated. Hearing new content and follow-up questions to AE response is extremely helpful. Thank you Thank you Thank you

[@Dorothy47]

Tina Turner sang " What's love got to do with it".

[@zakiyaboujdi8344]

I loooove listening to you, you kind of know already the question that comes across my mind during every struggle, and you give guidance for it. Please keep up the good work, and more content for solving conflicts between married couples 💕

[@rianashlee3528]

This was so good and so needed. Thank you Adrienne

[@Scorpio12348]

This was the best talk ever! Thank you for helping me!

[@dancingappaloosa8926]

Hi Adrienne, what is a good way to handle it when you are good at board games? I am really good at board games and word games - I'm not at all competitive, but games are just something I'm naturally very good at and enjoy very much. Men don't seem to like it when I win or get a better score than them. Women don't like it either. What am I supposed to do? Tone down my light and always just pretend to lose? Like I say, it's not a competitive thing for me, word games and board games just genuinely bring me joy.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

I really love this question because you’re ultimately the superior player, but you want to have friends and people to play with. There is a great book I recommend, called the 48 laws of power. I think it is OK to let other people win once in a while. I am also good at some games, even when I let other people get ahead, I somehow win by a twist in the game. 🤷🏻‍♀️ You can walk away knowing that this other person feels good about themselves by winning. And You like having someone to play a game with. So if you enjoy your company and you understand that they might become a better board game player by gaining confidence, this tactic may serve you. But in general, no don’t suppress your superpowers unless you stand to gain something more valuable.

[@dancingappaloosa8926]

@@AdrienneEverheart thank you so much for taking the time to give me this thoughtful reply :) It's good to know I don't always have to supress this talent, but I can once in a while let someone else win if I want :) Thank you!

[@newlifenewme7316]

But women need respect too. I lose respect and desire when a man doesn’t respect my feelings

[@AdrienneEverheart]

YES. The concept is goodwill begets goodwill. :-)

[@psalm913]

Being dependable

[@casperinsight3524]

That makes sense once you explain it. I did not realize that respect trumps love in a mans brain....I wonder if that subconsciously applies to women without us realizing as I despise being disrespected. Its a good reminder to not assume we think the same, men are from mars and women from venus right. Truthbomb💥 Excellent advice to accept a mans " no " versus going head to head or challenging him. His no is a NO just like our no means NO. Accepting his no is a silent boundary, respecting his decision is Honoring and Validating his feelings. He may decide to change his mind if his feelings change but he has to reach his own decision. Its not a debate its accepting and acknowledging his feelings 💥

[@jenniferwilliams8649]

This was the best most direct....help for woman. Awesome

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Thank you! Please subscribe to my podcast : open.spotify.com/show/2a8WmOUqfqv1S8agQJDAfv

[@missygee6155]

Great advice and yes, it also works with my teenaged boys.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Yes it does!

[@juliarose0417]

Wow…that was fantastic!!! Thank you Adrienne!!! 💋

[@AdrienneEverheart]

So happy to help! ❤️❤️

[@MsActor2009]

Adrienne, I’m not sure if this is in your VIP library 📚. Another great way to meet men is to go to an international ski resort for skiing lessons ⛷. I didn’t do it to meet men. It’s something I’ve always authentically wanted to try, so I made this year the year to finally knock it off my bucket list 🪣 Also, I did it because I wanted to make more friends. I occasionally like doing things that make me feel alive, but some of my friends are a little bit repressed. They even think doing aqua aerobics is a little bit too sexy??? When learning how to ski, you tend to fall over a lot and get stuck. Lots of men will come to your rescue 😍. An innocent way to pick up arrows 💘

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Love this! So happy you stepped outside your comfort zone. I will add it to the 100 places to meet men - in VIP Library. Also being added, any fast-food Mexican restaurant at lunchtime will be loaded with men!

[@MsActor2009]

Love Mexican food! 🥑

[@shantiyah]

Love love love this!

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Thank you beautiful.

[@honeybunnybunny1958]

Oh my gosh Adrienne I am reading that book!!! He’s a Christian Arthur and the book is called love and respect

[@Houndlover10]

I once read in the book men are from Mars women are from Venus the importance of accepting a no occasionally. It said it's important for the man to know that you can accept a no . And to ask the man to something even when you probably already no the answer is no anyway to ask and then accept. Now this can be for little things like oh can you pick up take out tonight..etc. (an easy no ) that he will be more inclined to say yes to other things when you are ok with a no here and there...

[@marah3298]

That actually makes a ton of sense. It really ties into respecting him ultimately and respecting his decisions.

[@psalm913]

Be curious , accept his no .

[@astridniels4314]

Hi Adrienne, what's the name of this researcher? I can't seem to find this book. Such a lovely podcast. You are such an amazing teacher!!!

[@sincerelydrfaten3777]

When he promises to do something and change his mind says no, and that should be acceptable!

[@AdrienneEverheart]

No one ever said the word acceptable. This is about accepting. Meaning you cannot control that person if they change their mind. You will not gain anything positive through force. So you learn another way. My e-book 500 Ways shows you other ways to handle this. Go deeper with “500 Ways,” ebook and 2 day video classes. bit.ly/500waysbook

[@geraldthethird8082]

So true even with my sons

[@marianleonard7866]

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[@marianleonard7866]

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[@Hadria7777]

So helpful thank you 🙏

[@aylex1974]

Everything yes yes yes yes

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Happy to help! ❤️

[@Zamstein]

I guess I must be a man then because love and respect are one in the same to me.

[@twistedproductions8563]

Wow the timing on this could not be better! I've been practicing the respecting the no... And it seems it backfired just yesterday. Me and my partner had a tiff because he felt I didn't really want to do something because I did not ask him repeatedly is what it all boiled down to. I explained I was trying to respect your wishes and not pester you since you had already said no you did not want to go, And he came back at me with well I didn't realize it was very important to you since you mentioned it the one time. I am very interested in advice here.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

I suggest you respect his no, but not necessarily turn your back on what is important to you. You could ask differently, or express: This is significant to me, and I know you've said no yet, I'd like to discuss it for a few minutes. What do you think?

[@dianneciresi6324]

Right, accept when he's blocked u, is done & moved on to someone else & u ended up 💔. Whatever...

[@AdrienneEverheart]

🧰 Time for my Femm Tools for Dating Program. Learn from this man and move your beautiful self onward and upward.

[@lizlilliston7993]

I’ve found this to be very true, but it all depends on his definition of respect. Their definition is not the same from man to man.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Anyone can distort words to mean what they need, but only you can ask for clarity and express boundaries. xoxo!

[@Adhara740]

Really great

[@Dorothy47]

If you don't get what you want it makes you sad , you cry and get headaches.

[@casperinsight3524]

We say we totally get it or that we understand as a way of showing that we care/support him... but if that's not what they hear and its not well received by them what would you suggest is a better response to let them know we are supportive? TY

[@shaineze]

Ahah I am the 1000th like , how satisfying 🤣🤣🤣

[@shellyh4467]

Food and sex. They are not complicated, just a houseplant with an appetite for stuff to go into and to come out.

[@Dorothy47]

I know a guy who has been engaged to a woman for 5 years and she is not on his social media and his mother doesn't know about the woman and his mother expects him to go on family vacations with her . He wants to travel and do things on vacations but, winds up holidays traveling with his widowed mother. What is his problem?

[@babyxox949]

His mother is obviously a priority to him

[@MelissaRebecca123]

❤❤❤

[@argentinaindubai8149]

True

[@BluieBeth]

Adrienne Is there an email or something where we could send you a question? I am someone who dealt with different types of trauma/abuse. Because of this, I've noticed it's hard for me to get our of my masculine. I am a 45 year old divorced mom with older kids. I would love to be more in my feminine energy , but after being single for 4 years now and losing the one man I thought was "safe" and was my man that id eventually marry, I feel hopeless How do I get it back when I have to live both roles?

[@flightforlight157]

Actually real love implies respect, but the type of love you mean is affection or sex

[@savannahjohnson5615]

How do you "accept his no" when he threatens to take your only child from you? No job... stay at home mom... no vehicle, but he offers you a vehicle but wants full custody of your only child because he has full custody of his older children and "I can do it again". I cannot and will not leave without MY daughter. Insight???

[@nathalian.7209]

Find time to learn a new skill and get a new job. Lots of possibilities out there. If you can’t support your girl it makes sense he wants the custody.

[@bellabriggs1393]

Is dating other guys if he does not commit , a form of disrespecting him ?

[@AdrienneEverheart]

More like dishonest! If committed you do not date new men. Take the guess work out of dating & relationships with my 🛠️FEMM TOOLS courses everheartcoaching.com/femm

[@bellabriggs1393]

@@AdrienneEverheart if he Does Not commit , and just one a booty call ?????

[@Dorothy47]

Some teenage daughters or sons don't want their parent to date and get married.

[@yokoustudio6255]

Adrienne i have been liking a guy for years now and he likes ne back as well but he can't make a move. I started using your tips and they work but not all the way. He is in his feminine energy and he has some financial problems rught now. He told me it's not the time for a relationship but it's been a minute already. We are 23 so being young can play the role. Overall i would say he is too shy and fearfull of commitment but i haven't liked anyone so much, i would really love to be with him.

[@yokoustudio6255]

Can you please give me advice?

[@yokoustudio6255]

@@aminaadam3617 thanks alot Amina

[@JeremyPezzeca]

He wants loyalty and respect. He doesn't want an attention w****. Your physical beauty means nothing to him and has no power over him and if you're still a little girl and use that to try to seduce men then you will continually attract weak men. Strong men care about what's on the inside not the outside

[@k_r1809]

Find you a guy that only says yes to you 😍😂

[@alisonl5127]

Ok so he dumped me last month. I was IN LOVE! He’s calling and messaging now. I haven’t replied. What to do!?

[@alisonl5127]

@Ina Aliu yes he’s calling and messaging. I haven’t replied. Do I reply with boundaries?

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Do you have the ABCs Program? Look carefully at the roadmap and how to rebuild during this vital time. www.EverheartCoaching.com

[@alisonl5127]

@@AdrienneEverheart yes I’ve purchased all of the programs.

[@Adhara740]

@Ina Aliu this

[@alisonl5127]

@Ina Aliu I have all of Adrienne’s programs and have watched every video multiple times. I know what to say when I speak with him. Do I call him back is the question. I know I have to go within and decide for myself….

[@igobyjazz]

they crave respect, but how come they barely ever give it back in return 😶

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Don’t be distracted by the power play. Give the ship time to turn around. Consistency is key.

[@yazzy1979]

I practice accepting no with alpha females in the business world.