Red Flags Men Do & What You Can Say | Adrienne Everheart

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Adrienne Everheart

Adrienne Everheart

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@sue-ellendouglas6891
@sue-ellendouglas6891 2 жыл бұрын
3:04 Lack of Intimacy 4:18 Boundaries 5:45 Projecting Feelings 8:01 Talking about the Crazy Ex 9:17 When Should I Commit to a Guy? 10:53 Violence and Anger 12:13 Distance Relationship 13:09 Lying 13:55 Disguised Criticizing 14:58 Last Red Flag
@AdrienneEverheart
@AdrienneEverheart 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!
@WayIntoDarkness
@WayIntoDarkness 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for taking your time! That's really helpful 😊 People like you make me smile
@nalecejones2791
@nalecejones2791 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for taking time out of your day to give us great advice/content! I look forward to you uploading new informative videos🎀
@loganross4774
@loganross4774 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@stephanielee1792
@stephanielee1792 2 жыл бұрын
Great video! I'm working on teaching my teenage son about boundaries with me, his sister, and the girls he will eventually date 😍 I've talked to him many times but now my focus is on respecting the girls he will eventually be dating.
@AdrienneEverheart
@AdrienneEverheart 2 жыл бұрын
Love this! I really wish boundaries were taught in schools. Hugs to you all.
@marvimalik304
@marvimalik304 2 жыл бұрын
We need more parents like you!
@marah3298
@marah3298 2 жыл бұрын
“A guy who breaks boundaries can do so in some nice and subtle ways.” This is the thing that has happened to me, but I feel like I’ve done this too. Trying to help people even when they want space, and not understanding (I was so young and inexperienced then) that they set a boundary and I ignored it. I needed to hear some of these things for myself too.
@laundrybasket2689
@laundrybasket2689 2 жыл бұрын
Too many people make excuses for men who act like that as you described in the #1 red flag. People think you should just understand that men aren’t emotional, blah, blah. Well, that experience deeply hurt me. I was with that boyfriend (who did just that) for 5 years. I felt so alone and emotionally starved. I finally couldn’t take it anymore. Also, the 3rd red flag you mentioned often coincides with the first red flag.
@naushadahmed7903
@naushadahmed7903 2 жыл бұрын
Hi good morning 😘🌅
@tee5096
@tee5096 2 жыл бұрын
Agree. I know what you mean
@AdrienneEverheart
@AdrienneEverheart 2 жыл бұрын
Five years is a long time to be mistreated. Be sure you try these tips and if they don’t help, you walk away. Read my blog on Why Walking Away Works (Space & Commitment at ANY Age) diamondgirl.me/walk
@laundrybasket2689
@laundrybasket2689 2 жыл бұрын
@@AdrienneEverheart Well, I didn’t know I was being mistreated first of all. And it certainly didn’t start off that way. We met via long distance (that went on for 9 months). Then came the real getting to know the person when we finally met in-person. I always gave the benefit of the doubt. I didn’t see these as red flags at that time. Again, it’s socially accepted and pushed as a disclaimer that women shouldn’t expect a man to be emotionally open, expressing feelings, etc. so I just tried to adapt. As in any trial and error, over time I realized I needed to stop trying and accept that I have needs that weren’t being fulfilled, even when I spoke up many times about it. I have always had a tendency to be very patient and often, too patient. Some women can adapt to a more emotionally closed off man and others cannot. I found out through that relationship that I am the latter type. So it wasn’t like I was not trying and just allowing myself to be hurt. Not at all. I just grew more and more frustrated. So I wasn’t compatible with him. Relationship development and really knowing someone also takes time. You can’t always see every single red flag, especially if it’s a narcissist you’re dealing with who can be very clever in their behavior. That is yet another lie people love to say to someone who was unknowingly being mistreated.
@amberstephens1287
@amberstephens1287 2 жыл бұрын
@@laundrybasket2689 I read what you stated and I can agree there’s hurt all over this. At one point I was in the same situation but it wasn’t until I identified what I needed to do, when I was in faced with situations like this. it takes a lot of looking in the mirror because yes he did , what he did… but also just make sure that you equip yourself, restore yourself and heal, so that way things like this won’t happen or you can nip it and remove yourself . I learned life is such a teacher, and it’s not until after the assignment things click. This took me 3 years after to the fact to grasp. 😮‍💨
@sterlings4860
@sterlings4860 Жыл бұрын
THANK YOU for bringing up playful banter. I just spent 6 months dating a guy who thought it was ok to call me names I didn't like and "take me down a notch" especially in front of his friends, and even during intimacy. When I said I didn't like it or asked him to stop he would call me too sensitive, and I always felt like I was the crazy one! I finally ended it after a day where things went too far and I felt humiliated and insulted beyond repair. I want to be with a man who builds me up and makes me feel like a million bucks, not someone who makes me feel small and stupid! Thanks for the reassurance Adrienne, I love your videos.
@sarbanighosal7845
@sarbanighosal7845 2 жыл бұрын
1.lack of intimacy with or without sex 2.does not respect boundaries nicely or not nicely 3.projecting his feelings on us instead of solving his problems HIMSELF 4.cant forget his ex es and labels them as ' crazy ' , 'desperate ', 'too much make up ' etc 5. Demands instant Commitment, ' yes or no ..' ' sign in immediately! ' 6. Angry young man .... bad dad actually 7.cant find a girl in his own city , ie long distance 8. Lies ... white , black , Gray , colored , HD 9 .criticize, by name calling , passive aggressive, ( ur child may use that with u !..) 10. Scoff , make face , roll eyes ...non verbal disdain
@sarbanighosal7845
@sarbanighosal7845 2 жыл бұрын
Sue Ellen has it sorted 👍
@carolineketer2494
@carolineketer2494 2 жыл бұрын
OMG Adrienne so with you on the smirking....major trigger for me and I thought I was overreacting.
@AdrienneEverheart
@AdrienneEverheart 2 жыл бұрын
It’s contempt! Soooo triggering. But it’s about them feeling tiny. So sad that shame is a debilitating emotion for many.
@Anja92ful
@Anja92ful 2 жыл бұрын
So good to see another video from you Adrienne! And this one couldn't have come at a better time. I was thinking about you the past few days and how I was missing your videos and here you are delivering new content, thank you!
@LOVELY-dv6oq
@LOVELY-dv6oq 2 жыл бұрын
I can totally sense your passion behind this message. I appreciate that you yourself have walked threw these scenarios!! Thank you for the work you do 🙏🙏🙏💖💖💖
@sumari972
@sumari972 2 жыл бұрын
I watched so many relationship coaches giving advice and I find Adrienne is the best.
@AdrienneEverheart
@AdrienneEverheart 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! ❤️❤️
@casperinsight3524
@casperinsight3524 2 жыл бұрын
Great advice Adrienne ! Boundaries, compatibilty and effective communication are neccessities. Those soft spoken subtle boundary breakers are insidious ....people can break your boundaries nicely if you let them, its how to nicely enforce your boundaries back, like tennis. Stand your ground firmly but nicely, I'm sorry you're feeling this way, I'm not feeling it, shut it down, pull away. Don't let them suck you in or pull you in, pull you down.... I would luv to problem solve with you when you're ready. Femme tools 4 communication is life changing, empowering, enlightening, I really appreciate your scripting, ty. I feel statements speaks from your heart so he can hear you 💥 When compliments turn to subtle criticism thats a red flag for me, and lying is also a deal breaker, honesty builds trust & safety.
@xokay9152
@xokay9152 2 жыл бұрын
Your timing is always impeccable
@mistyespinoza7735
@mistyespinoza7735 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! I really needed to hear this. I appreciate you and your work 💜🙏🏼
@naushadahmed7903
@naushadahmed7903 2 жыл бұрын
Hi good morning 😘🌄
@AdrienneEverheart
@AdrienneEverheart 2 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome!
@gladisisneidavalenzuelamel5774
@gladisisneidavalenzuelamel5774 Жыл бұрын
Gosh! I was so overwhelmed due to what’s going on with the guy I’m dating but every time I open KZbin and watch your videos they help me ground myself and they are so full of enlightenment. Love your channel.
@annaelizabeth7546
@annaelizabeth7546 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Adrienne. I love your videos so much. I had my heart completely shattered a year & a half ago. Then I stumbled onto you looking for self improvement videos. I would listen to you every morning on a walk and implemented so many of your tips. So well to the point that my life is so full I don’t really even think about dating anymore! When the time is right I know he’ll come along. But for now I’m truly enjoying being on my own, a feeling I thought was not possible. Thank you for all you do to help women. You are an amazing one and make such a difference with your work 💜
@AdrienneEverheart
@AdrienneEverheart 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for commenting. It’s great that you fallen in love with yourself & in your life but remember we don’t continue to expand into our greatest potential without getting triggered by other people, learning, growing and loving. I suggest Femm Tools for Dating bit.ly/femmtools
@MsActor2009
@MsActor2009 2 жыл бұрын
Happy 2022, Adrienne! Looking forward to focusing on living more in my feminine energy for the 6th year in a row! It’s been an illuminating journey. Addictions are a huge, big red flag for me. Doesn’t have to be drugs and alcohol. It can be too much TV or internet or food addiction. Could tolerate a partner being a bit overweight, but not morbidly obese. All of these would feel like living with someone with a disability.
@marah3298
@marah3298 2 жыл бұрын
Excellent food for thought. I have femininity goals for this year too, and I also consider internet, tv and food to be addictions when used the wrong way.
@MsActor2009
@MsActor2009 2 жыл бұрын
Mara, there are a lot of men out there who are hungry for a balanced woman. One of my feminine energy goals for this year is to not squeeze too much out of every day - some things can wait until tomorrow. Overloading a day with activities and things to do can masculinize my energy and there’s no room for magic to happen in between the gaps.
@elianaj.3373
@elianaj.3373 2 жыл бұрын
This is great, thanks so much! I’ve reacted to these instinctively before but having you explain it so clearly and giving me tools in the process is just amazing.
@AdrienneEverheart
@AdrienneEverheart 2 жыл бұрын
Let me know how it goes. Lots of love!!
@AdrienneEverheart
@AdrienneEverheart 2 жыл бұрын
💍Dear Diamond Girls ➡️ 👉🏼Subscribe bit.ly/everheartYT 🌟READ “500 Ways” WATCH 2-Day Video Class 👉🏼 bit.ly/500waysbook ❤️End dating and relationship confusion: Download 🛠Femm Tools for Dating bit.ly/femmtools Much love, Adrienne Everheart ❤️
@helenmoses5
@helenmoses5 2 жыл бұрын
This video, like the many others I've viewed, is so spot on. You're amazing. So clear, such an outstanding coach and voice. You make absolute sense. I needed to hear this. It's back to your wonderful programs!
@Powerskaty
@Powerskaty 2 жыл бұрын
She does have the best voice of any youtube coach for sure.
@AdrienneEverheart
@AdrienneEverheart 2 жыл бұрын
Love you guys. Thank you. And hi Helen!!
@nicole4258
@nicole4258 2 жыл бұрын
Adrienne you are an angel! Your videos have helped me learn to be feminine and receptive and I see a total difference in my husband. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge on relationships, men and femininity.
@AdrienneEverheart
@AdrienneEverheart 2 жыл бұрын
So happy to help!
@maijacriner-harrison5161
@maijacriner-harrison5161 2 жыл бұрын
It's sad that I related to many of the red flags.🥺 I was aware of most of them, but you have really confirmed some for me! I learned some helpful tips from you.. Thank you for making this video. 🙏When I can afford, maybe middle of next month, I can check out the course you spoke of. I am trying to save money because I know that I pretty much that I have to start my life over. My son and I will be leaving my narcissistic husband..
@marah3298
@marah3298 2 жыл бұрын
Will you keep this section updated?
@blueseptember2174
@blueseptember2174 2 жыл бұрын
We are in the process of the same. He's covert so he was sooo nice when we dated. 3 months into the marriage and BAM! But I didn't know what hit me. Now we all have to start over. It's horrible.
@marciflanagan5829
@marciflanagan5829 2 жыл бұрын
I too am divorcing a narcissistic husband at this time and ignored so many of the red flags. I wish I had seen this video 13 years ago. I would have RAN.
@madisonnedvecki6102
@madisonnedvecki6102 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Adrienne! Loving your videos. My person and I have had an on and off relationship.. he’s made such a huge deal with social meadia in our relationship. He was always sketching on who I followed and followed me. At the time, I never even thought about that or experienced that kind of jealousy. He always wanted me to dress and represent myself in a respectful and more conservative fashion. He didn’t want me posting things too “sexy” even though I didn’t really post anything like that. Even though he’s so conservative about things like that, when we get into fights and break up, he goes and follows all these accounts of girls posting sexy photos and likes photos. When we start communicating again, we talk about that and he goes and unfollows and unlikes. A specific girls account that has been an issue, he just went and re followed her again. This relationship has been sabotaged because of his insecurities and most has stemmed from social media. I have never gone out of my way to do the same even though I’ve been really triggered and upset that he could ruin a relationship and instead of trying to fix and understand and do right, he does the opposite and does the exact thing he was always sketching about me doing and doing so much worse. Please help! I’ve been doing no contact and am starting to feel his energy pretty intense like the shift is starting to happen. I feel like this is an act to make me jealous bc he knows I’ll see that stuff. He knows exactly that I’d be aware of this specific account that he refollowed after it’s been a huge issue. I want for us to be able to heal and to be able to build a new and improved romantic union with each other but it’s so hard for me to feel good when i feel like he’s playing these mind games.
@AdrienneEverheart
@AdrienneEverheart 2 жыл бұрын
There’s a power play here! Don’t create more drama. Learn how to GET the man you love BACK 👉🏼bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack
@a.b.2405
@a.b.2405 2 жыл бұрын
Block him
@julietroberts1385
@julietroberts1385 2 жыл бұрын
Very good! Full of strong, sensible information and clear examples. Thank you for your insistent encouragement for women to look after themselves and stop trying to please or put the man first. This still happens far too often in many subtle ways which you have helped to point out.
@thepearl6087
@thepearl6087 2 жыл бұрын
Great video. How you have learned all of these techniques and rational common sense responses to a wide variety of situations is beyond me. But I want to thank you so much for your logical treatment of relationship issues/situations.
@womenwhodate7643
@womenwhodate7643 2 жыл бұрын
What a great, truly inspiring stories you have ❤️🙌 I wish there were more KZbinrs like you. All the best 😇
@Nayaniify
@Nayaniify 2 жыл бұрын
Last red flag - it is about being not respectful. You can disagree but still be respectful
@maricelg777
@maricelg777 2 жыл бұрын
Love this . Thanks Adrianne 😊🤍🎀🌸
@SS-in1ts
@SS-in1ts Жыл бұрын
I used to roll my eyes, I didn’t realize the seriousness of it and now I talk through it saying “I’m practicing not rolling my eyes right now because I care about you”- that way I don’t use my eye reflexes but use my verbal skills to release the feeling haha!! I’m a woman though, might be easier for me to change.
@AdrienneEverheart
@AdrienneEverheart Жыл бұрын
Yesss!
@didoufree
@didoufree 2 жыл бұрын
so life saving Adrienne!! thank you!!
@AliM-nl7gj
@AliM-nl7gj 2 жыл бұрын
You know. I keep looking at your videos and thinking "my God, she's so gorgeous." You radiate beauty and warmth, it shines through you. Thanks so much for these helpful videos, I'm on a journey to unlock my divine feminine.
@AdrienneEverheart
@AdrienneEverheart 2 жыл бұрын
Very kind. Thank you. ❤️❤️
@micaelalottering6922
@micaelalottering6922 2 жыл бұрын
This is so helpful! I appreciate the work put in that you bring to us Adrienne. Also, i missed you and your videos. Hope you've been well💕
@adrianacarrillo8007
@adrianacarrillo8007 2 жыл бұрын
This is great info
@isabeldever2019
@isabeldever2019 2 жыл бұрын
Long distance is hard but the conexión is totally special.
@taceybaskett
@taceybaskett 2 жыл бұрын
Awesome advice! I love your shirt. Where did you get it?
@AdrienneEverheart
@AdrienneEverheart 2 жыл бұрын
I can’t remember! I’ve had it for years!
@Playfullprincess24
@Playfullprincess24 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Adrienne, these video was helpful to have actions/red flags be put into words.
@shalimar29
@shalimar29 Жыл бұрын
What about dating separated or recently divorced man? Here is my story. Sorry, it is a bit long, but someone might help me to find the answers. I do not have much success in finding a man who respects my boundaries. I believe in friendships before any physical contact. The problem is that men that I’ve met do not want to be friends first and try to kiss me pretty soon (1 or 2 date even). I always refuse the kiss, and it always ends there. Recently, I’ve met a new man and he invited me for a coffee. He is a cop and has a 14 year old son. He picked me up from my place and I asked where exactly I would like to go out. I said I prefer if he chooses a place. At that moment, he proposed his apartment. I refused and proposed a coffee place on town. Then he said that he can’t show me in public as he is not yet divorced. My heart sunk. He can only invite me to his place for coffee as his reputation is important for him and people might see us in public. Apparently, there is only 1 week left till divorce. I did not know how to react. I was really disappointed. I proposed a short walk outside of his building, but he insisted to visiting him. After a long convincing and promise that he won’t be forcing me to sleep with him, I went to his place. He seemed nervous and smoked a lot of cigarettes. Did not want to talk too much about his divorce, although I asked a few questions. Anyways, he tried to touch and kiss me but I told him that it should have a meaning for me and for now it is too fast. I also added that we can stay friends for now and get to know each other, but he replied that he wants cuddles and fun and that he is afraid of women. We ended our meeting on a friendly note with a big hug. Then he brought me back home and we parted. It’s been more than 2 weeks and I haven’t heard from him. I texted him yesterday, he red it and did not reply. I would really appreciate your advice. What would you do in my situation? Would you react differently? What should I do next? Is it ok to call him now to find out if he got divorced? Also, I know that when dating, we should wait with sex but what about a kiss? Sometimes, I feel that I am too strict and overthinking. Please help me to figure this out 🙏
@Powerskaty
@Powerskaty 2 жыл бұрын
Good job Adrienne! This was a good one- fresh. I've been seeing lots of cute heart/valentine clothing and thinking of you extra. 💗
@AdrienneEverheart
@AdrienneEverheart 2 жыл бұрын
That’s so sweet!!
@2wyn379
@2wyn379 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Adrienne! Such a super video and the examples are so helpful. Thank you
@felicitygrace5113
@felicitygrace5113 2 жыл бұрын
Fabulous video, Adrienne!! ❤👌👏Love it! Have it saved in my listen on loop folder! 😆
@AdrienneEverheart
@AdrienneEverheart 2 жыл бұрын
So happy to help! Hugs!
@JayKay-zt2bo
@JayKay-zt2bo 2 жыл бұрын
regarding #9 AE reply would have also worked for joke in bad taste that i experienced a few weeks ago.
@jamiemorrison5032
@jamiemorrison5032 2 жыл бұрын
David does the projecting, scoffing (rarely), and lies. He also tried to tell me that he was always one year ahead of me in my personal development - just so I wasn't quite right.
@catherineesam691
@catherineesam691 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this, I really needed to hear this!
@tianiemitchell5692
@tianiemitchell5692 2 жыл бұрын
Ladies listen to her regarding texting in relationships there's a lot of con people out there their Ploy is to sweep lonely women off their feet by flattery and acting like they want a relationship a real man doesn't talk like that only con artist do so be very careful and any wise man man doesn't want to put his heart out there too quickly just like a woman doesn't want to put her heart out too quickly it's foolish you need to look before you leap
@LeafsIn2025
@LeafsIn2025 2 жыл бұрын
Definitely one of your best messages, Adrienne! 💐 Thank you. 🇨🇦 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
@Monkey-oy1us
@Monkey-oy1us 2 жыл бұрын
Wonderful video Adrienne! Thank you for posting this. I appreciate you and what you do so much!
@avgonyma1
@avgonyma1 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Adrienne, for this video! I'm giving you a thumbs up and i am only at the begining. The way you started it abd everything you said i k ow it's going into the right direction. 👍👍❤️🙏🙏
@anaa9042
@anaa9042 2 жыл бұрын
this video was great thank you!
@tianiemitchell5692
@tianiemitchell5692 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah regarding the comment about making a guy feel somewhat certain way. Guys can be triggered buy something a woman says by something a woman wears by something a woman smells like regarding perfume but that is not her fault
@ParisTNT
@ParisTNT 5 ай бұрын
Very helpful. Thank you
@AdrienneEverheart
@AdrienneEverheart 5 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@lunamorena390
@lunamorena390 2 жыл бұрын
As always THANK YOU for this revealing information. I personally DON'T like the "special effects" in the takes, I do understand you might feel the need to be "modern". I feel us not necessary. Love & Respect LM
@WayIntoDarkness
@WayIntoDarkness 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, Adrienne! I feel really supported ❤ I got a question about the projecting feelings part! You teach us feeling statements and I really enjoy using it! But I mean, it can happen to us women too that we project feelings because of our lack of self-awareness. There is a subtle line between talking about feelings and projecting (trauma, inner child wounds etc.). How do you handle this? 😊
@AdrienneEverheart
@AdrienneEverheart 2 жыл бұрын
Ask yourself if you’re trying to make something happen or someone do something by saying/speaking your words.
@superpoodlehead
@superpoodlehead 2 жыл бұрын
Fabulous video! Thanks so much! More please! ♥️
@michelle4439
@michelle4439 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Adrienne, I wasn't sure how to reach out to you so I'll try here: My long time boyfriend and I broke up recently, we no longer live together, and I have followed all your guidelines and he wants to get back together. He keeps asking me questions like "what do you think about such and such place?" And "I've been thinking of selling the place [where we used to live together] - so what do you think?" He hasn't asked me to move back in with him, and he hasn't made plans to do so... but it's obvious where he's getting at with the questions. I've told him that I want to be in a relationship with someone who really wants to be with me and that means planning on living together (at least in the context of our relationship). After living together for 4 years, I don't see why I should allow us to live apart for very long, since we've revived our relationship. So my question is: how do I continue to follow your guidelines after separating, moving out, living separately but getting back together? How do I keep my feminine energy open and get him back on the same page as me?
@coleb4991
@coleb4991 2 жыл бұрын
Powerful talk thanks!
@stephaniebenoit788
@stephaniebenoit788 2 жыл бұрын
Very happy to see a nee video 😊 Thank you so much ❤
@xhottestpink
@xhottestpink 2 жыл бұрын
these are some very valid points!
@2240shyo
@2240shyo 2 жыл бұрын
Love what you said about boundaries ❤️
@NA-gb3xr
@NA-gb3xr 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video, Adrienne! Could you maybe do a video on how we should respond to these types of behaviors, and especially the one about lack of intimacy. I always feel like leaning back doesn't seem to help me connect as well in these settings, but maybe it is me trying to control the situation? Is this the man's job to lean forward here? Is there anything a woman can do?
@amandagarcia9022
@amandagarcia9022 2 жыл бұрын
Great job, Adrienne 🤩
@bantuprincess777
@bantuprincess777 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@ashleyoverholt449
@ashleyoverholt449 2 жыл бұрын
What are your tips, on how to connect with a guy, on a emotional level. Could you please do a video, on how women, can get there guy to connect with them emotionally.
@stacyfelton5588
@stacyfelton5588 2 жыл бұрын
helpful thank you
@nattybumbum2
@nattybumbum2 2 жыл бұрын
Yep anyone who speaks badly about their exes is a huge red flag
@brittanysouder1154
@brittanysouder1154 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the new video Adrienne!! I have a question about boundaries/preferences. I may not know a clear difference. Also can our boundaries change? I think I had a preference but it’s moving to a boundary. It’s about my husband drinking often. How do I discern if that’s my preference or boundary?
@AdrienneEverheart
@AdrienneEverheart 2 жыл бұрын
I speak about this in another video. I believe it’s also about boundaries. 👉🏼example, if you drink tonight, me and the kids will be staying at my mothers. Or if you drink more than two drinks we will be taking an Uber home. Those are boundaries regarding drinking. Boundaries are for your emotional and physical, & mental well-being.
@sunkissedbydrksknhypergamy3347
@sunkissedbydrksknhypergamy3347 2 жыл бұрын
When it comes to lying, I don't see color 🤥🤷🏾‍♀️
@jokergirl4351
@jokergirl4351 2 жыл бұрын
Can you talk about guys bad habits what we should do about it
@simplyjane92
@simplyjane92 2 жыл бұрын
I feel the same about lying having trouble with this not sure what to do st this point it's exhausting...
@AdrienneEverheart
@AdrienneEverheart 2 жыл бұрын
You cannot trust a liar at all. Read my blog on Why Walking Away Works (Space & Commitment at ANY Age) diamondgirl.me/walk
@simplyjane92
@simplyjane92 2 жыл бұрын
Okay thank you. I do find sometimes the reason behind a lie is very telling. I'll have to check it out thankyou
@lugm1034
@lugm1034 2 жыл бұрын
Ok, about number 10, I am guilty of eye-rolling myself. It would be nicer if I did a little eye-brow gesture or something sublter, I know. On the other side (the one being eye-rolled) after explaining yourself, if it happens again I would stop speaking and leave the room at the first eye rolling -that´s an action boundary. Let him do the talk to persuade you back.
@blueseptember2174
@blueseptember2174 2 жыл бұрын
So hard to remember in the moment
@foxparader
@foxparader 2 жыл бұрын
"Still single at 40" Adrienne, I'm single and 45. Choice of words please. Thanks!
@shannonoverland64
@shannonoverland64 Жыл бұрын
I luv your wrk but 12:13 can work...with work...
@xXXPrinceszzXXx
@xXXPrinceszzXXx 2 жыл бұрын
Love your videos !!! I recently had a crush/friend from work drunk text me his feelings and shower me with compliments all i did was say how I felt so flattered and left it at that.. He is now not talking to me and is pretty much avoiding me ..he made our friendship awkward as he could’ve simply apologized if it was something he regretted ..should I simply forget about this friendship and not speak to him as well?? I’m feeling confused
@mirand0la
@mirand0la 2 жыл бұрын
Some people have a very hard time being vulnerable, especially when they see it is not reciprocated. I say having an open discussion about the situation, where you assure him that whatever he is feeling is valid for him, even if you're not interested in him but in a friendly way, may help your friendship. I noticed men have a hard time appologizing(yes I am generalizing, but that's my experience), especially when it comes to hurting their ego.
@AdrienneEverheart
@AdrienneEverheart 2 жыл бұрын
#diamondgirls get clarity. “I’ve noticed we aren’t speaking.. would feel good to connect.. what do you think?”
@a.b.2405
@a.b.2405 2 жыл бұрын
He probably feels embarrassed and is assuming you might not have feelings for him.
@jc20241
@jc20241 2 жыл бұрын
The content is great, yet I feel worried and uncomfortable when Jeff is discussed without knowing he has consented.
@AdrienneEverheart
@AdrienneEverheart 2 жыл бұрын
Don't you dare worry! He encourages me to share anything that will be helpful. In the VIP Library, there's a great interview with us.
@tianiemitchell5692
@tianiemitchell5692 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah when a guy invades your boundaries he's not showing much respect and he's being a little selfish
@mumilia1
@mumilia1 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Adrienne. Do you think that a guy not seeming very interested in sex is a red flag? After being intimate just a coupe of times, he prefers to cuddle, falls asleep, finds it hard to be "ready"...my attraction diminished. Kisses from Argentina.
@AdrienneEverheart
@AdrienneEverheart 2 жыл бұрын
If sex is important to you, and he’s behaving this way early on, it will not get better. Sex is a big part of any relationship. You need to match energies. Hugs to you too!
@mumilia1
@mumilia1 2 жыл бұрын
@@AdrienneEverheart thanks!
@tianiemitchell5692
@tianiemitchell5692 2 жыл бұрын
You probably shouldn't call it making love to you when he was avoiding intimacy what he was having was sex. I think when men love someone and they're literally making love to them oh, they do want to stay a few more minutes they need it they want that deep connection also. Now granted they won't do it each and every time but yes in love and time with the woman they love.
@LisaGemini
@LisaGemini 2 жыл бұрын
Most of this sounds like emotional immaturity. Run from these guys, ladies. Run and don't look back.
@AdrienneEverheart
@AdrienneEverheart 2 жыл бұрын
So much of it is, that’s true. But before you fight or flight, you have the option to respond. 🥰
@laundrybasket2689
@laundrybasket2689 2 жыл бұрын
For sure.
@stephaniekalisz9062
@stephaniekalisz9062 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Adrienne! I have a question for you that’s not quite related to this video, but I’m wondering your opinion on it. Does it seem to you that femininity under attack right now? M&M changed the green M&M from heals to now sneakers, and Minnie Mouse is now out of her signature dress and is in a pant suit! Why is society trying to change classic ways of being feminine ? I was just wondering if you have any insight into what’s going on, after all you’re the expert! thank you! Much love ❤️
@blueseptember2174
@blueseptember2174 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah it's happening
@AdrienneEverheart
@AdrienneEverheart 2 жыл бұрын
Yes non-gender is a hot trend. Let’s see how it works out for humanity as a whole. Until then, understand we all have masculine and feminine energy. How are you dress can outwardly convey some of that, but it’s really about an energy that emanates from you.❤️
@gwendolynn7314
@gwendolynn7314 2 жыл бұрын
Mine didn't have any of these red flags, but turned out to be a DA. Smh
@blueseptember2174
@blueseptember2174 2 жыл бұрын
What is DA?
@cindyriehm7411
@cindyriehm7411 2 жыл бұрын
My husband has started ranting it ccx an last 10 15 minutes. When i bring it up he says i have t hurt you why are you scared! :thats it run upstairs!! You bet im not vfc a punching bag!
@AdrienneEverheart
@AdrienneEverheart 2 жыл бұрын
Very good you go away. Do not engage with him during this time. Stay away.
@betinacarlson1928
@betinacarlson1928 2 жыл бұрын
❤️
@caramelfrappuccino234
@caramelfrappuccino234 2 жыл бұрын
🌷💕💗🌸💕🌺
@IqraKhan-vc7lo
@IqraKhan-vc7lo 2 жыл бұрын
For some of us long distance is the only way to go cause of cultural reasons. What then?
@MiladeOliveiraGaia
@MiladeOliveiraGaia 2 жыл бұрын
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@SS-in1ts
@SS-in1ts Жыл бұрын
👍
@naushadahmed7903
@naushadahmed7903 2 жыл бұрын
Hi good morning 😘☀️ my life 🌸🌻 diyar Frand
@tatjanabarat3399
@tatjanabarat3399 2 жыл бұрын
My ex had 8 of 10. He broke my heart
@blueseptember2174
@blueseptember2174 2 жыл бұрын
Mine had all but the crazy ex since I was his first relationship/marriage. I'm sure if he ever dates again that I will be the "crazy ex" and then he'll be all 10 lol
@AdrienneEverheart
@AdrienneEverheart 2 жыл бұрын
Hugs.
@prettyshield5070
@prettyshield5070 2 жыл бұрын
Uuu betcha ×××--->>> red flag 🚨🚨🚨 they say " ur to sensitive "....😂😂😂 Peter Pan bye ✌🏾👉🏾🤙🏾
@ashleybriones2445
@ashleybriones2445 2 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@joudisall6474
@joudisall6474 2 жыл бұрын
lying 😔😔
@foziaafzalbhat4911
@foziaafzalbhat4911 2 жыл бұрын
I get you are trying to be funny and cute. But it's lost on me, and I don't feel comfortable with this. I don't think this is playful.
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