10 Baby Essentials for Your Registry! Postpartum Must-Haves! | Sarah Lavonne

[@jenniferrush8231]

They heating pad is soooooo true!!! But also to warm up babies bathing supplies before you put them in it. Like bath towel & new change of clothes. I live in MN and had my first when it was very cold out. We have a four level house so using the dryer is not gonna happen and frankly our house can feel so cold upstairs when its -10F outside. So glad I had that heating pad. Made bathtime so much better❤️

[@nursegrow8349]

I never sterilized my bottles or pump parts. Just hot water, soap and a scrub brush. Also if you have a dishwasher that is literally a dish sanitizer.

[@tamaralikecamera]

right-O on the dishwasher tip!

[@rnbowman94]

I love this! I'm 23 weeks and expecting my first baby. This is so incredibly helpful (as is your other videos).

[@FreckledFoxx]

For those who want a slightly more cost effective monitor/cannot get the one she mentioned, the Summer Infant video monitor is great. Great cameras, large screen, shows room temp and has lights on the side to show if baby makes noise (for when you have the sound turned down) and I love that you can monitor up to 4 cameras on the same parent unit. Great for folks with multiple littles. Also! Thank you for mentioning NON-MUSLIN swaddles!! When I had my first thats all everyone recommended and they were absolutely useless for swaddling my little escape artist. Also you can make your own by buying the jersey knit twin sheets sets from Walmart and cutting the elastic off the fitted sheets and trimming them to size. Cheap and lovely.

[@leticiasantana5675]

I’m only 14wks and my grandma just bought me a potty training potty. Her reasoning “I’m just ready to buy your baby things and I don’t know the gender yet” 😂 like come on you can wait another month. I’m not going to be able to use this potty until a few years later UPDATE: It’s a BOY 💙

[@olyvianjoroge2264]

I love grandma gifts hahaaaa

[@waikarerekatiana2981]

Almost had the same situation with my auntie😂, it was my grandma that calmed her down

[@autismenlightenment]

That's adorable

[@bosslady1914]

So cute, sweet grandma

[@ladyofnoxus6733]

Lmao that is funny. My grandmother did the same thing 🤣 she bought us a playmate and some gender neutral clothes. We are having a baby boy 💙 in January 2021!!

[@peejaybrown1483]

Save on the sound machine by getting the basic model of an Echo Dot 👌🏻

[@sonshenshomestead7668]

I just had my 3rd baby. I wish I would have watched this one a couple weeks ago. Absolutely love your postpartum information as well as everything you put out, but postpartum care is rarely mentioned anywhere other than sleep when the baby sleeps. Thanks for the information, love, passion and fun videos!!💝

[@littlehouseinthebigwoods9968]

Girl what tanner do you use? Your tan looks amazing!! 🌞

[@emilycraig7948]

A video about the Haakaa would be nice! I bought one because it was highly recommended to me. I am 37 weeks pregnant, and I do plan on breastfeeding. I don't have a pump because they are expensive. I am a young first time mom so any tips for breastfeeding would be great!

[@lboyd5862]

If you have insurance check with them. Some insurance will cover a pump. Or a hand pump is cheap🙂

[@catherinenava4777]

Thank you so much Sarah! I haven’t had a baby in my house in almost 7 years and it feels so overwhelming to create my registry. My son has been very excited about picking baby clothes, but of course he says yes to everything lol. This video is so helpful ♥️

[@daniellew.8109]

I used prefold cloth diapers a burp cloths. They're cheap and super absorbent.

[@Wife14Mom17]

Medela quick clean sterilizing bags are $5 for 5 bags that can be used 20 times each so 100 times total. They sterilize items in 3 minutes in the microwave and don’t take up counter space.

[@JessicaMacKlein]

Hey Sarah, thanks for this! I LOVE that you have minimalist lists as I hate having extra "stuff" around. One item I'm on the fence about is a swing. What are your thoughts? I like the ones where the seat portion can be removed and function as a baby chair on its own.

[@FreckledFoxx]

Hi and congrats! I'm not a doula or nurse, but I have an 18 month old and newborn twins. My oldest would only sleep in the swing or wrap for his first 5 months in spite of alllll our best efforts. We bought a used Fischer Price swing for $40 and eventually transitioned him to the crib by gradually using less and less speed on the swing till he was sleeping in it turned off and then moved him to the crib. My twins are also motion junkies and sleep so much better in the swing or a wrap. I'm absolutely no expert and all babies are so different, but I'm so glad we had a swing ready to go. All the best to you!

[@JessicaMacKlein]

@@FreckledFoxx thanks! That's great feedback. I really like the idea of a safe place to chill out when I need to be truly hands-free.

[@Mary-pr4kx]

We tried 3 different swings and my baby didn’t last longer than 5 minutes in any of them. For that reason, I recommend buying used if possible that way you’re not spending $$$ on a product that doesn’t work for your baby.

[@mrs.228]

Gosh, cramps happen waaay before getting pregnant, while implanting & becoming pregnant, & after?! It never ever stops! Oh, while babies sleep also you could get a cd of lullabies and put it on repeat while they sleep in a little CD player/boom box.

[@jenniferrush8231]

As for sleep time my favorite is a sleep sack, not a swaddle. Maybe this next baby will be different but my first hated being swaddled in any kind of product.

[@jenniferrush8231]

As for baby monitor: get a WYZE camera off amazon. I think they are like 29$. Works with ur phone so u’ll have ur monitor with u always without having to carry something else. And when your kid gets older u can set the motion detector and use the speaker system. It’s amazing. When people come to take care of ur kid u can just add them to the app too so they can just use their phone and it is seriously around 30$$$$$$$$ Wowow!

[@mrs.228]

Sound machine definitely on my registry, and they come with lights too. I mean, looks like an awesome blue gentle nightlight that’s gentle on eyes and could help you navigate through to baby without stubbing any toes! I am going to take the multi- use and most functional minimalist approach. Burp cloths can be washed and later down the road used as wash cloths for baby as they grow.

[@MelanieDChrisman]

I know you touched on this in a different coffee and questions, but I’m having multiples and a lot of timeline stuff usually correlated with people having single babies. Like in the “hospital bag video” you recommend that we pack at 37 weeks or so. If you’re having multiples, it’s likely you won’t make it to 37 weeks. So if you do a whole video on multiples could you talk about an adjusted timeline for things like that? I can’t remember if there was anything else that should probably be done earlier.

[@mrs.228]

Thank you sooo much! I definitely already scoped out warmers and sanitizers! You can get them for 1- multiple bottles. I saw the haaka when I looked up breast pumps, and was like this is so affordable and Sarah recommends it! I can’t wait and I feel so educated and prepared! I am lucky to know bout swaddling because I worked at a daycare. Moby wraps are in a lot of places. They are awesome but you could use anything as a wrap that is stretchy. That’s why I love them. No burning arms for this mama struggling w/ a baby carrier!

[@simabennifla8650]

For the sound machine I’ve thought about just using my phone for nature sounds.

[@MommyBee1589]

That works if you NEVER use your phone- im not on social media and don’t use my phone often but do get texts etc from family so having to leave it there and not being able to use it at all sucks. I’m a mom of four and say it’s totally worth it to buy one. Even if for no other reason than there is no blue light keeping your kid awake and u don’t have to kill your battery/data using your phone for white noise. I don’t recommend the hatch bc it has terrible reviews and so many KZbinrs recommend it I don’t understand why it’s the most expensive sound machine you can buy and is NOT highly rated if you check Amazon reviews past the first page.

[@dvo1060]

Until someone calls you and wakes the baby up

[@kylennpetersen4407]

Lol it's not hard to silence your ringer or put the phone on do not disturb. And to turn the blue light filter on. And to put your phone down and find something else to do with yourself. Like nothing lol idk justmy opinion 🤷

[@Asharoo89]

You mention 4x4s for healthy circumcision... do you have a video for total care for this and belly buttons? Not a new momma but new daddy finds you very easy to watch and learn from. We love you

[@sarahj717]

I didn't wear my first daughter but did wear my second and it was a lifesaver!! I cant wait to wear my new baby when he arrives!!

[@bearsears5066]

I would love a video on car seats.... so many choices out there!

[@janelldarleene6721]

Not even pregnant yet but I love watching your videos!

[@shelbysanders9747]

Hi Nurse Sarah! I love all of your videos! I'm 24 weeks pregnant with my first baby and your videos have helped me so much during pregnancy, especially during this crazy pandemic. Your sister seems like an angel too. I even took notes and typed up myself a binder from your advice so my husband can make sure I follow your instructions when I'm in labor and losing my mind. I was wondering if you could do a video about tearing? It's my #1 cause for fear and anxiety during pregnancy. I'm planning on getting an epidural and so many videos out there on it assume you're going epidural-free. What can the women with epidurals do to help avoid tearing if they can't feel the "ring of fire"? Thank you so much!!

[@sarahlavonne]

Shelby Sanders you're so sweet!! I already have a video on tearing! Good luck!! Xo

[@TheChubbyDoe]

thank you for choosing items that are affordable and accessible for anyone in any economic situation

[@christinasalguero6738]

Thanks for all these awesome recommendations! I do have a question about the monitor though. I was under the impression that we should avoid monitors that function over WiFi because they can be hacked. Thoughts on this?

[@mkain006]

I avoided them for that reason! Protect the baby at all costs. I know you can secure them with certain measures, but anything online is hack-able

[@marinaguillen321]

I won’t ever use a Wi-Fi monitor, I watched a special on how often they get hacked and how creepy it is😖

[@lboyd5862]

"If you live in a winter" 😄😄💜💜☃️☃️

[@sarahlavonne]

hahahahah

[@candicewiggins166]

My favorites that others were like you don't need...wipe warmer, i will take it to the hospital with baby #2, it made changes so much less fussy for mine, he hated the cold wipes, no more terrible changes with the warmer lol, bottle warmer (unfortunately my body failed to produce anything breast wise for baby, no colostrum or milk so not an option for me which broke my heart, worked for 6 weeks with a lactation consultant, pumping and nursing then supplementing) and my diaper genie. #1 love is my butt paste silicone spatula that applies the cream with no mess! cloth diapers instead of burp cloths they are huge and fabulous, we also used little wash cloths over the penis so we didn't get covered in pee during changes, we had the little "tee pee's" my hubs loved them for when we were out but i found the wash cloth worked better. things I used the least were the mittens and swaddles, my little one hated being swaddled so we just did freedom lol he was a strange youngin, but I have to say he didn't stay all tucked up when I was carrying him, he was spread out then too

[@tymom9313]

I just warm wipes with my skin

[@WordsPictures997]

This was such a great and helpful video. Thank you Sarah.

[@eneidayg]

Love this! Also would you recommend the willow breast pump or the elvie breast pump?

[@shadi031]

This is so great Sarah! Thank you. I reached out to you personally for this for video 😂 so it was much needed! Thank you for all the great info!

[@sarahlavonne]

shadi031 there you have it!! I bumped it to the top! Xoxo

[@shadi031]

Sarah Lavonne thank you!

[@elizabethengel4809]

I would love a travel essentials video because we are going on vacation after she’s born she’ll be between 2-3 weeks depending if she comes by my due date November 8th

[@kelseycourtney4761]

Oh me too! That's a great idea

[@cassidybennett1225]

I would not have made it without my baby wrap!!!

[@sonshenshomestead7668]

I prefer to put a few baby wipes in my bra and skip the drying of the wipe warmers. I had one with my first baby and it seemed to dry the wipes out. But yes babies do appreciate having less shock to their system.

[@mollyconnolly1859]

I'm sure your sister knows this, but she is SOOO lucky to have you!!!!

[@bellafiga5999]

If you are looking for a cooler more breathable baby wrap check out solly baby or tuck and bundle. They are amazing!

[@maryjaynebarber1774]

I love this list! It is so so informative and a lot of stuff I haven't thought about! I have been going back and forth between wanting to put a wrap or a more supportive baby carrier on my registry because I know I will go on walks and such with baby but the wraps don't stay tight enough. Should I pick between the two or get both? Any recommendations?

[@nicoleagostorodriguez5007]

Yes please a Video about the hakka

[@lelamyrick6343]

I can not find that warmer and sterilizer anywhere and I need it! Do you have an updated link?

[@Kim-cj2fl]

As a nurse I’m really interested to hear what you think of the Owlet sock that monitors HR and SPO2. I’ve heard it can be a huge relief to mommas especially if they’ve experienced a loss before. Have you ever tried it out?

[@LifewithKrystle]

I’d personally ally avoid them at all Costs. They aren’t always accurate and can also induce stress. The biggest thing that turned me off them though is that many babies have been burned by them. As well as there shouldn’t be anything in the crib with baby except for a pacifier and swaddle or sleep sack. The owlet isn’t safe at all

[@Kim-cj2fl]

@@LifewithKrystle I am not sure we are talking about the same thing. The Owlet is a pulse oximeter that secures over the babys foot, similarly to how they measure blood oxygen in the hospital setting. The reason why you don't want extra things in the crib with baby is because of a suffocation hazard. The owlet is velcroed on and can be used even under a swaddle. It is not a suffocation risk because it is not loose. Studies have actually shown it is highly effective (as all other pulse oximeters on the market are) and has saved lives by alerting the parents to a problem (such as impending SIDS) while they baby was asleep. As always, it could come loose and set off a false alarm but all you would have to do is look at the baby to see they are clearly breathing and the device just slipped off

[@LifewithKrystle]

@@Kim-cj2fl I know exactly what you are talking about and as I said many babies have had their foot burned by them which is more than enough for me to say no to them.

[@tymom9313]

Please, no

[@naomiefabius2776]

heyyyyy love your videos

[@CB-jv6cj]

I don't think it's very clever to advice people to chuck a swaddle blanket over the stroller to keep the sun of tbh 🤷🏼‍♀️ A pretty dangerous suggestion since it gets it so much hotter in the stroller. Besides that I definitely appreciate this video since I'm due in 3 days with my little one and it's very useful to see what others consider essential

[@kem5029]

Minimalist? Yes🙋‍♀️🙋‍♂️ my husband and I

[@MamaQpons]

Yes Hakka video please 😍

[@Rachel.Taylor]

how do you feel about the owlette?

[@alinawood8338]

Uhmm... Full-time pumping mom here - you do not need to sterilize your pumping parts every time you use it (past the initial getting the pump)... I was told that by the hospital - just hot water, soap and thorough air drying. Also, we always just ran hot water in the sink and let the bottle warm up naturally and always to the right temperature for the baby. So, that machine is completely unnecessary, especially for the $$ you pay. Also, if you sleep train your baby from the start, you don't need a baby wearing wrap. Cause your baby sleeps in the crib, which is proven to be better for their physical and emotional development, becoming independent and being able to self soothe faster. Hatch Baby - totally worth it, we got the Plus and connected it to Alexa for commands. Get a regular good resolution baby monitor that is NOT connected through your phone: 1. privacy and concerns about hacking. 2. you're using your phone ALL the time and you won't have to flip to the app back and forth to see your baby. 3. if you are out of power (think, thunderstorms) you will inevitably lose connection. 4. it won't drain your phone battery. Besides, the Nanit is worthless without their membership, which is like another $100. We got a Vtech video monitor from FB Marketplace for $30 and it's meeting all our needs.

[@jill9606]

I am so glad I had already put a bunch of these items on my registry before seeing the video! I keep wondering if I should get swaddle blankets, but my sister already gave me a bunch of stretchy ones with Velcro. I’m assuming those will do?

[@sigrid797]

As I understand it, it is not protocol to swaddle the baby here in Sweden were I live (we didn't with our oldest). What do the swaddeling do and what are the pros to doing in? Is it something i should do to my newborn when it gets here?

[@kelseycourtney4761]

Dear lovely community, I'm trying to make my list of essential things to have when you get home from delivery. Any suggestions? For instance, how do you know the right diaper size to get and quantity you have at home? I'm due in December and in Canada, so it isn't always easy to go out to the store to pick something last second (plus, I'm sure our hands will be full, lol!)

[@lizybaby00123]

Diaper size will be on the front of the box. In the US you can take newborn diapers from the hospital so I never bought any. Size 1 are 8-14lbs. It will all say on the front of the box.

[@LifewithKrystle]

Start with newborn size diapers. If you find your baby is leaking through the diapers a lot then it’s time to size up

[@MorganEileen]

Please do a car seat video and a bassinet/dockatot type video!

[@LifewithKrystle]

Do not use a dock a tot. They are a suffocation hazard and are not meant for sleep. For sleep use a bassinet, crib or pack and play only for safe sleep

[@MorganEileen]

@@LifewithKrystle never said the docatot had to be used for sleep 🤷🏼‍♀️ They definitely are against the ABCs of safe sleep, but they still have their uses outside of sleeping

[@LifewithKrystle]

@@MorganEileen Yes they can be used for awake time for sure but unfortunately many people don't read the instructions with them and do in fact have their baby sleep in them.

[@JamieACoop]

What do you think about the owlet?

[@LifewithKrystle]

Don’t use it. Many babies have had their feet burned by it

[@ericawalker9541]

For the haakaa do you have to be breastfeeding or electric pumping for it to work? Can you just use the haakaa

[@sarahlavonne]

Works best while breastfeeding one side

[@eminiqa]

Hello 😊 You can just use the hakaa. İ bought 2 and pumped my milk supply. İ fully exclusive pumped my son.

[@priscilladaniels6773]

Car seat video please!

[@mrs.228]

Oh gosh, please invest in motion activated nanny cams if you have anyone else watching your baby! They are tiny, easily hidden, Motion activated, and I believe they are smart. People are surprised and heartbroken by what they find sometimes, you always hear horrible stories on news as well. Yes I was paranoid before I got pregnant 🤷🏻‍♀️ There is a smart sock called Owlet, for like $299! It monitors baby’s vitals and app goes on phone.

[@LolaDelMarCaribe]

I thought it was ilegal to record people without their consent? I am all for cameras but I would let them know hey we record and if they have a problem with it than that’s a red flag.