10 Bizarre Things Narcissists Do

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[@RebeccaZungEsq]

Do you want to know more about the bizzare things narcissists do and how to respond? Join me in my free webinar where I offer tips and tricks. Reserve your seat here. icanslay.com

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

I'll see you all there!

[@whereisyourhumanity7557]

Could you please enable the Search function on your Yt channel? I want to watch the one about Stop Defending Yourself!

[@whereisyourhumanity7557]

Oh I found it! watching now.

[@chrisman3965]

Don't forget they're masters of double standards. They'll hold people to standards they'd never even consider holding themselves to.

[@dianelee3896]

Mine lied constantly by omission

[@yellowdotje6278]

Another odd thing some narcissists do; when they see you or call you, they don`t greet you, they just start `vomiting`all their stress out onto you.

[@gigi9301]

Yes!! I've also noticed they will not acknowlege your jokes or your sense of humour, but you're expected to laugh at all of their jokes

[@HeyokaCat_8]

10 Bizarre Things Narcissists Do 1. Walk Ahead Of You 2. Value Opinions Of Others Over You 3. Body Shame You 4. They Hate Gift Giving 5. They Hate Holidays 6. Traumatize You Before Important Events 7. Interrupt You Constantly 8. Lie Pathologically 9. Don’t Want You To Initiate Sex 10. You Are Either Their Friend Or Their Enemy

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

Thanks for taking notes! Which one have you experienced?

[@SJHsolutions]

Never clean up after himself but always has a reason. “I left it out thinking someone else will be needing it.”

[@SuperChicagoDude]

They expect you to do a perfect job cleaning but they do a half assed job because they are better than you and do less so when it's your turn again you will have to clean sooner and harder.

[@Elviladia]

That’s Weaponised Incompetence

[@StarSide40]

Yesss. Lmao. ALWAYS- a, reason… to justify their, crappy behavior. A justification. Because well- they just can’t- be lazy. Or, a jerk. Lol

[@gigi9301]

My former husband would say, Oh you're good at it so I thought I would just LET you keep doing that (laundry, cleaning the kitchen, bathroom...). I said oh well Thank You so much for Letting me keep doing all the crappy stuff around the house!! That's Great!

[@joygriess2591]

Yes I never could understand why they lie about things that don't need to be lied about very bizarre

[@cindyh-s4432]

You just perfectly described my narcissist husband to a tee. He always walks ahead of me, especially when we are out in public. His excuse is I walk to slow due to me having had multiple back surgeries.

[@hhsg11]

I got that but I was told I was just lazy.

[@grammys02]

I have a handicapped placard ( because of bad knees and back) but my husband will park far away from the store saying the exercise will do me good then walk way ahead of me!

[@martyvirtue4051]

His dog is pulling him too strong.

[@jasont2105]

My former girlfriend was a Malignant Narcissist. She would constantly walk ahead of me and when I would confront her she would say I just walk really fast, I can’t help it. I’m 6’3 and she was 5’3 what does that tell you. It’s all about a need for dominance and control which nullifies their ability to truly bond or love. It was a year long relationship and after it ended I felt like I came back from a war. My advice to anyone is that if anyone ever walks ahead of you, run for the exit!

[@paulbporter1090]

Great Job Rebecca! So sad that its a stranger on the internet who bests describes my father and sister. Not my father, sister, mother, family, doctors, politicians or teachers. Nope! 50 years later and a Lawyer on the Internet has the balls to tell me why father and sister act a fool. Rebecca, you go girl!

[@waltergroover5282]

In my experience, there is no such thing as a "negotiation" with a narcissist.

[@joshuaanzalone2060]

Nope Walter and this is why I avoid narcs at all costs.

[@waltergroover5282]

@@joshuaanzalone2060 that's not negotiating that's self preservation.

[@karentaylor5775]

I would agree w/ this statement

[@taraarrington2285]

Game players basically. Everything they do is a power play.

[@breakthroughmoment1647]

They value others’ opinions over yours to devalue YOU. It’s a form of devaluation.

[@duromusabc]

Yes - constantly interrupting- they constantly highjack conversations 🤦‍♂️ I had a covert narcissist do this to me at a party 🎉

[@terrancemcclendon456]

" i dont mean to interrupt"

[@joshuaanzalone2060]

Yes Duane they always say stop interrupting me. It's always about you,projection at its finest

[@dianelee3896]

He would always tell my story or ideas as his own!

[@duromusabc]

The covert narc stood in front of me and talked to the person whom I was talking to cutting off our conversation and cutting me off and the narc started a new one ! 😤😤😤

[@terrancemcclendon456]

@@duromusabc yup center of attention

[@elizabethhopkins7582]

Nailed it! The only one I had never thought about before was always walking ahead as though you aren't even there.

[@mdh8884]

So oddd! Can you make a video about financial abuse during the relationship? 🙏 ❤

[@melissawentlandmoreno4559]

How to naviGte that one would be important

[@joleneenns9049]

My eyes have been opened… so now what do I do.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@izawaniek2568]

Yes, These are the weird things narcisists do. Their end game is to drain our energy from us so we should not Let it happen. Ignoring them, going no contact and behaving as If they are not there are helpful strategies. Thank you ❤

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

Yes, It's essential to protect ourselves and set healthy boundaries when dealing with narcissistic individuals to prevent them from affecting our mental and emotional well-being. Thank you too Iza! 💪

[@izawaniek2568]

@@RebeccaZungEsq Thank you so much for your help and support Rebecca.

[@Bianca-sw5id]

They value people who don't know them well enough , because that person is easier to lie to and manipulate

[@taraarrington2285]

They'll also try to exclude you on holidays and then they'll do things like make a big deal out of your siblings birthday every year but you're lucky to get a happy birthday out of them

[@jennifersinclair8325]

The trauma ... definitely!

[@lucybraun8969]

They walk ahead of you in case new potential supply walks into the scene

[@gigi9301]

YES!! Just in case another woman of interest happens to be around or even inside their own condo or apartment complex. I have even called them out on this and they can't help it they are so used to just being alone. Big Red Flag! So disrespectful

[@lucybraun8969]

He couldn't stand it when I wore shoes that made me taller than him, because it EXPOSED just how short he was, so he would punish me by not walking with me. Like I gave a damn! I wore those taller shoes on days when he had been the most disrespectful - just to piss him off! Payback was a bitch for him. No hiding Mr. Short Man. So glad to be free of that narc. Free of the heartstrings is just the best!

[@pattifairbanks5782]

So true with traumatizing when I have a special event...telling me I'm interrupting them...lower your voice when I try to talk

[@andreatalsma4660]

All soooo true! Lived with it all. Thank goodness I’m finally free.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

Happy to hear that Andrea! Tell me more about it. 😊

[@andreatalsma4660]

@@RebeccaZungEsq words can’t describe the hellish nightmare of trying to divorce a narcissist! But after over 3 years, it’s over. This week my daughter and I are going to Vietnam for a month , using the airline points I got in the divorce settlement 😃. And finally, I’ll walk through the airport with my travel partner by my side - not 10 feet ahead of me 🤣

[@dianelee3896]

Would never open the car door for me even in the snow - would let himself in & I would have e to knock on the window to "remind" him I needed to get in!!

[@cristina-beatrice.nica96]

What about psychiatrist or therapist that are narcissist? They exist! I know one, it was my therapist. Please, talk about this subiect. They are dangerous too. Why no one talks about that?

[@kryptorust2091]

#6 Traumatize before important events. I've seen my covert narc. dad almost sabotage my little sister's graduation by not showing up. He had to drive me there too, so I almost had to beg him. My sister is usually one of his flying monkeys, weaponized against me. Just wanted to share this knowledge. They don't care about their minions and will do whatever it takes to steal the show, so to speak. True thieves. Killjoys. Recently I told myself to never share good news or moments with narcs, ever again. I always end up with regret.

[@whereisyourhumanity7557]

I used to make up "problem stories" tell them, so they could gloat over my fictional unhappiness. And leave the Real Me alone so I could stay in my room and read The Bobbsey Twins and Boxcar Children, to feel like I had family.

[@terrancemcclendon456]

Allergic to everything to complain about it and " i love my family" then triangulate

[@susandemille2520]

They shut down when you are positive with them and show them they can’t manipulate you anymore.

[@skellingtonmeteoryballoon]

gaslight is similar right ?

[@gerardokeeffe9640]

You have described my mother-in-law to the last detail. Well done Zung!

[@silviacardoso99]

Oh my Lord! All of them checked! Unbelieveble! The walking ahead... so bizarre

[@DeAnn909]

I don't have issues with holiday's. I just got tired of the bad behavior from certain family members. So I just stepped out of spending time with them on the holiday's

[@iamhere3442]

The graduation gift from my mother was a suitcase, because she needed one, and she used it before I could.

[@ladylanark2773]

So spot on! When I went in to labour with my second child (with my current partner) my Narc ex knew of this because I texted him in the morning saying I won’t be at the exchange location. He decided to keep messaging me all day AND “accidentally” send memes (joke pictures through texts) to my current partner and saying “oops! How utterly embarrassing, that was meant for my brother.” My current partner and Narc ex haven’t texted in a year about, so that was on purpose. The day was not about him, so he made sure to annoy us so we could think of him.

[@whereisyourhumanity7557]

Sometimes I forget how old I am, and how many battles I've fought and lessons learned. I wish I could do something to make it easier for the younger ones, to not have to re-live those events in their time. Damm the Narcs and the bullies. America was built by narcs, to benefit narcs.

[@willkraus4233]

MY FATHER HUNG OUT WITH MY ENEMIES, ALWAYS...

[@robertladue7647]

My niece states that especially when my brother and I discuss politics, which we enjoy, but my Brice will takeover the conversation with criticism towards my brother, her father. I am frozen out. Thank you Rebecca.

[@CynthiaSchoenbauer]

So odd! You make me laugh with recognition and you are the first I have ever known to COMPLAIN about what we have all had to put up with all our lives if we had narcs for parents. I feel a bond with you when you complain so well and take the words right out of my mouth.

[@karentaylor5775]

including lies about restaurant

[@yellowdotje6278]

You so nailed it!

[@joygriess2591]

One weird thing I always noticed he always had to take a shower first before any other person they also will hide things or move things the dishes could never go back in the cupboard the way they were in the cupboard before everything always has to be different or left out or moved

[@SJHsolutions]

#10 SO TRUE!!!!

[@CynthiaSchoenbauer]

I think they lie, Rebecca, because they suddenly become an authority about something with arrogant judgement. So they make something up and pass it off as real in a god-like power they feel they have.

[@Lyndsydypyty]

All of these!! I could probably count on one hand how many sentences I have finished on 22 years! People have Literally asked if I could talk cuz I quit trying.

[@dianelee3896]

I remember 1 Christmas- my adult son laughed because I bought my own presents! I guess I didn't act surprised good enough anymore

[@daynapeterson9033]

My narc brother showed up to Christmas empty-handed for 30 yrs. Never bought our narc mom a gift ever. I would buy her gifts and a week later she was complaining about it. Guess my brother was smart afted all lol.

[@katkollies6986]

Every single one of these! Every box checked! So odd!

[@alonzomosley7]

No 4 the cheap gifts I got from my narc friend dollar shop sweets ,nylon sheets ,nothing over $10 .

[@marykathleen4671]

when I was getting to know my now ex narc, he would walk next to me at my pace. once we became a couple, he started walking ahead of me and claiming it was because he's use to walking so fast and I just walk to slow for him.

[@DJMLAFOY]

My sister, the narcissist, has does every single one of these things my entire life!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

I'm sorry to hear that you have a narcissistic sister who has been exhibiting these behaviors throughout your life. It can be challenging. You got this! 💪

[@igozi5728]

I have a older sister too, the narc, has done every single one of this. I'm going through "no contact" phase right now, cause I was literally losing my self to a demon and I can't take it any more. My whole life since early teenage to this day over 20 years I have been violated physically and mentally. I have done transaction to her which take from me everything (time, money, energy), but gives nothing back except gaslighting, lies, called out being bad person / unworthy man, smear campaign, etc... Latest thing what I heard from her current man (flying monkey) is that I am a women hater, women beater and I have tried to choke her in a past.. This accusations are so outrageous that I can't believe that she is saying those things. I'm too kind person to get physically against anyone and I have never assaulted anyone in my life, not even bugs.. But she has done that to me multiple times since I was young kid.

[@haskellw2]

Yep, so true!!

[@ttaylor2938]

They walk behind you

[@lushgreenbean]

#1 so bizarre yet so true !

[@theyellowshoe]

So how would the narcissist react when they figure out I just don't care anymore. Like he fell over dead, tonight tomorrow, whenever! I could care less! I just started my retirement, I do plan on leaving, got that part of my plan going. In the meantime I'm having to care for a toddler, & I'm not a fan of kids! There are times where I feel like screaming & yanking my hair out!

[@martyvirtue4051]

OWN a gun

[@conniepatterson7215]

If you do not like children ie “not a fan” you should relinquish being around a toddler who is beautiful, sweet, innocent and needs unconditional love and kindness. How could any person talk that way about a tiny child they have been around for a significant amount of time? The answer is: they would if they are a narcissist or one of the other dark triad disorders. Sad.

[@nancynathan3034]

Bewildering, bewitching 😠

[@angelrose2669]

SO ODD !

[@DaxFlyingwoodHunter]

My extremely toxic narcissistic fiance intentionally ruined (after promising not to) winter solstice, christmas eve, christmas morning (she took my cell phone and caused a huge scene because a very close friend from highschool texted me Merry Christmas etc..) ruined new years eve and the first day of 2023 and ghosted me on my birthday 3 days later and this is just the tip of the shitberg! I LOVE YOU REBECCA ZUNG!

[@grantaugustyniak6667]

They call you & then the entire time they’re talking to their dog. I just call them out now right away or I just hung the phone. 😂 They tell you they’ll be home at a certain time & then not be there. I do not call or wait - I just go home & don’t answer my phone 😂 They ask you a question , you go to answer & then they interrupt & change the subject. I now tell them - don’t ask me a question that you don’t want to hear the answer to. I could go on forever - I see this in covert narcs more

[@SmittyInVegas]

Dear Lord, I am so happy and grateful. The narcissist supervisor on my swingshift. Did something stupid two weeks ago. He now got bumped onto the dayshift for observation as they call it. He’s not taking it very well. My coworkers on the dayshift are all peeing their pants. I wish the management would just toss him out. Let the Sun shine. Smitty.

[@ilonaandlivia]

They are very cheap, sickeningly cheap, my narc can not give. He hates holidays, he can never think about a surprise gift, he waits until I say something hopping that I forget it and he doesn't have to spend a penny. This is so weird. He likes to tip people but only with my 🤑 money.

[@CP-ho8to]

They are very un-generous. They don’t like giving you anything … gifts, compliments, anything. If they HAVE to give you something it will be something that doesn’t fit or something literally from their house that they don’t want anymore. The gift will have nothing to do with you. They will not walk with you. They are always trying to be separate from you. They will make a scene in public to try and get strangers attention. They will say something loud and shocking to get strangers to notice them. They use shock and inappropriateness to offend people and then suck up that power that they had over people. They give complete strangers attention. They interact with strangers as if theyre close friends. They inappropriately don’t behave differently, they dont seem to know the difference. They will refer to someone as a friend when really it was someone they just met at the grocery store. They dont know how to react when you hurt yourself or are sick. They physically dont know what to do and will not react. They will freeze up or just ignore it and act like its not happening.

[@rllght]

I'd like to add a little of my personal observation: some of the narcissists I had the "pleasure" of meeting LOVE to touch or nudge me with their bodies or limbs from behind or any of my blind spots unexpectedly; they also tend to stand extremely close to me unsolicited that I could literally feel their body heat and smell, and the texture of their clothes. It was utterly gross and repulsive, literally like having a human-sized leech trying to latch onto me! Narcissists absolutely enjoy the sight of their targets being stunned, feeling unease and caught with their guards down. Some narcissists become excited and get a kick out of initiating advances like this with a sexual undertone, regardless of their sexes. I have experienced this kind of behavior from both male and female narcissists more than once. If you call them out, fight back or simply warn them not to, the narcissists will get mad and deny any wrong-doing, then blame everything onto you. Disgusting cowards!

[@karentaylor5775]

I haven't ever seen this behaviour

[@carlab1748]

One thing I learned about a Narcissist is, if they can't see you, you are not there, Out of Sight, Out of Mind. I think when they are walking ahead of you, for that moment in time, you don't exist. My Husband walks ahead of, or behind me, all of the time, never with me. Another strange thing that he does is, after we go on Vacation, and he is talking to his Friends about it, he'll talk about the Vacation as though I wasn't there with him, My name is not mentioned at all.

[@breakthroughmoment1647]

They can’t stand back and forth conversation. They tell you you’re “interrupting” when you’re just adding something to the convo.

[@SuperChicagoDude]

You're a true asset to our community, thank you for your service.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

Glad I could help! Sending you love & light! 😊

[@slayqueen5996]

My mother walks in front of me always. She’s about to visit and I’m going to at least keep up lol

[@ericdoan9949]

They have odd behavior in public and in private

[@karentaylor5775]

Interuptive, blaming you...... That just happened with the woman at HealthNet in the issue of pain meds I need, though

[@breakthroughmoment1647]

The walking ahead is them taking the “lead.” It’s their impatience. They act like: “Hurry up, I’ve got somewhere to go!” They think they’re the only ones that have stuff to do. It’s just plain rude! They gotta “snap you up” cuz you’re walking “too slow.”

[@robertladue7647]

I hadn’t realized my brother and his family are indeed Narcissists.

[@martyvirtue4051]

Your brothers family must be your family, right?

[@ravenel2]

One thing they do that’s odd-if you call them out on something, they are stunned, but they pretend it never happened. And then at some future point they will shore up that thing you noticed, as if manipulating you to prove you’re wrong. I actually called out a narc point blank that golly gee, his words never matched his actions, isn’t that funny? He pretended that never happened, but a few days later, began this elaborate hoo-ha about how he was going to bring me some trifling thing. I saw right through it-he was going to bring me this trifling thing, just so I would think that he followed through on something. It was so weird. They try to shore up when you point out a red flag-they don’t address it directly.

[@wahoumu]

1. They watch you constantly and try to find something to dunk on. No matter how insignificant. Extremely creepy. 2. They will try to “help” you to establish their delusional “superiority.” 3. Very two-faced. They literally feel no shame. They will try to get on your good side than talk 💩 behind your back. 4. Extremely jealous even over the smallest thing. Will covet whatever good thing going on in your life no matter how humble. 5. Will suck-up to “whoever is in power” and agree with them on literally everything. They will of course obviously contradict themselves and don’t see anything wrong about it. 6. Will openly bully you but act like they are the victim. They will blame their bad behavior on you. Completely demented. 7. If they choose not to like you, they will negate everything you say. Conversations are literally impossible, a complete waste of time and horribly uncomfortable. 8. If you are their “enemy” they will not engage with you because they think they are “above” you but will get angry if you choose not to engage with them. 9. Knowingly denies reality. 10. Highly aggressive. Their rage seems inexhaustible. They are not going to change. Don’t waste your patience on them. Keep track of how they treat you. If you work with them, report them. It’s probably best to prepare to leave too. They are unsafe and untrustworthy.

[@Shasha8674]

They may wash their car/take the long way to come let to a holiday to make the time there short.

[@MelodyT78]

This list was spot on....Id like to add a couple odd things. My narc will verbalize out loud and it instantly becomes his truth. lets say for example. (made up scenario) Me~ Why did you leave your shoes in the middle of the floor? (after I just watched him kick his shoes off in the middle of the floor and walk away) Him~ I didnt Me~ ??? I quite literally just saw you kick your shoes off in the middle of the floor and you saw that I saw you Him~ Youre crazy, I never did that. One of the kids must have left them there Me~WOW!! Ive noticed, whatever he verbalized becomes his truth. I think he actually believes it. All he has to do is say it out loud. He lives in a false reality he has created. Also, I have never ever ever seen this man clean. and I dont mean clean like run the vacuum or wipe down the counter. which is also true but I mean like. take for instance. This one is a true example from just the other night. We got fast food, were sitting at the dinner table. We finish. Our young children 10 & 5 throw their garbage away and leave the table. I see my husband leaves everything of his on the table (btw, the garbage from his seat is an arm length away). The next day, he leaves for work before everyone gets up. He took his garbage from the night before and puts in in one of the kids spots. keep in mind, that spot was MORE then an arms length away???? Theres so many WTH with this. like, is he actually trying to get OUR child in trouble?? Is he so much in his own bubble that he doesnt grasp that we both literally saw the kids throw their own things away the night before??? I didnt throw it away, i put it back in his spot and then asked him about it. and he said, I didnt do that. Dude, you did. Theres quite literally nobody else who could have. You find yourself have the most stupid of conversations you could have never imagined having. Its all dizzying and I thinks part of the point. I couldnt fathom at this point in my life having an intellectual conversation with partner, Id likely faint.

[@MelodyT78]

oh oh....remembered another thing i think is odd. He does not text so he calls (you know, have nothing in writing..cant leave proof), anyways. He will call me just to stay silent on the phone. There was no purpose to the phone call. Im left sitting there in the silence and ill be like. "Soooo" "Uhm, did you have something you called about" and then he gets mad at me and goes on about how awful I am because I dont ever want to talk to him? What the What??? Now, I have witnessed him do this with his mother, they will call one another without words and listen to each other breath for an obscene amount of time. Its so strange. Reminds me of when I was 16 with my first boyfriend.

[@LOVEtoPLAYdrums]

SO ODD!!!

[@kaydenlego4653]

My walks behind me

[@darina2166]

All 10, especially walking ahead of me

[@melinda1566]

I watch this to remind myself to never go back. I hate the trauma bond.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

You got this! 💪

[@danaklibert5372]

So ODD!!!!! WOW!!!!

[@jl9769]

So odd! I have experienced all 10 and more. I’ve known so many covert narcisstic trait people throughout my life. 17 years of him valuing his friends’s opinions over mine. Especially when it came to his substance abuse of alcohol. He enjoys walking behind me usually, and he’s texting or even talking on his phone. I have to turn around and talk to him. Ruining event’s important to you, not just holidays. I have so many more experiences!

[@peggydietz6148]

Lol This was so so funny He would say , you just walk slow on purpose , if I called him out on walking ahead of me .😂

[@debbiecarleton2101]

My problem is finding a place that I can go I would leave in an instant it's money I'm in Arizona and my family is in California I keep praying for a place to move to hope soon

[@pattifairbanks5782]

Regift gifts given to them after they have worn it...

[@peggydietz6148]

Oh yes , they go last minute Christmas shopping so you get what everyone else doesn’t want … like a salad spinner , oven mitts . Or gifts came from duty free AC catalog , cud sit in cockpit and shop . Thankfully they had nice items. It’s really a night mare when you finally know and understand truth …

[@julieytuarte6557]

My 80+ yr old Mother gifts me items that were my fathers, he passed in 1980. Anything to extract any emotions. After all, his passing ‘happened’ to her. So twisted.

[@chriswalls5831]

So odd

[@maxinesenior1549]

Omg , all true , my ex husband of 30yrs to a t 😤

[@dortheelisabethpedersen3464]

So Odd 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️😁

[@ravenel2]

I saw a narcissist husband once practically sprinting off an airplane, walking a mile ahead of his slow, disabled wife hobbling painfully up the ramp. I knew exactly what was going on and that he was abusing her, so I turned around and glared at him so hard he stopped and pretended to be attentive. I’m sure her life never got any better as long as he was in it. I also observed the worst narcissist professor I ever knew hurrying through the halls of a university with this poor confused foreign student struggling to keep up. I’ve been aware of this phenomenon for a while, and if anyone did it to me to display that they didn’t want to be seen walking with me like that, I’d be gone. Such total humiliation.

[@DidiyogasalsastudioTM]

so true my father was doing this all tthe time 😂

[@mariascoma7718]

My kids didn’t get to spend Christmas with me because their narcissistic father said it was his day. They both told me it was the worst Christmas ever.

[@switchbackimage5966]

My MiL has ruined so many of our holidays. No matter how much we try. We were no contact with in laws for 3 years and they were very happy and great holidays. I tend to gift experiences like concert and show tickets and that way we can make a great memory AFTER the bs the in-laws have thrown our way. Lol

[@debraclark9216]

My husband does all 10 things. First thing I noticed was walking ahead of me. He has done this for 52 years. He never cleans after himself. We have 3 bathrooms and he uses 2 and never cleans them. I am disabled and I do everything inside the house except clean his bathrooms and the basement. He is not allowed to use mine and it is always clean. He controls me with fear of his violent temper and frequent outbursts whether alone or in public. He always wants me to pay if we go out to eat. He gambles but won't pay for a gallon of milk. He ruins every holiday and blames me. All 10 things.

[@tee57449]

I'm told that I either raise my voice , which I'm not , or I'm whispering , which I'm not , I have a very soft and calm voice .. 🤷 six of one , half a dozen of the other

[@skellingtonmeteoryballoon]

i didn’t experienced number 1 or the holy days thing, but the other 8 am definitely privy to. the desire for keeping up appearances or some kinda respect or honorary gain from strangers i definitely still finding quite bizarre. Thus far, i’ve never met a narcissist prove they can accurately complete a logic truth table, or even accidentally worship El shaddai in spirit/truth. yeah, not even on accident.

[@leanbeankelliqueen]

What do you do when it's your own son,who is 32 yrs

[@slappathehutt]

Omg! The guy I dated back in 09/10 used to walk ahead of me and I thought it was so no one would know we were together! And he was extremely horrible to me throughout the on/off few months we were dating. Since learning about NPD I've realized I think he was a narc. I unfortunately got emotionally abused by another one since him but I only learned about npd recent years. Both of then called me fat too! The first one put a nasty facebook status calling me a fat virgin even though he had taken my virginity! And the more recent told me in a text that he despises me and that i'm fat😔😔

[@angelagardener2141]

Everything 😳😳😳😳😳

[@LadyDaisy97]

I am so confused if the person I keep having come back in my life over the span of 8 years is just a jerk or if he truly is a narcissist. I've watched so many videos on narcissists, and have somehow managed to think I'm the narcissist?? This has been the messiest relationship I've ever been in with someone....

[@parishah7494]

Sounds like my mother