I keep my walls up, and very few people get in. I have less friends than I have fingers on one hand.
@OneCanisLupus3 ай бұрын
INFJ here. Took 45 years to finally raise up my wall. I could read people like a book. That's always fun. Worked in a hospital, and I knew almost before entering a patients room what mood they would be in. Never failed me. 😅😂😂
@airam-sj21723 ай бұрын
I believe you!😊
@irislove369Ай бұрын
What do you do in the hospital? Just curious as one with the INFJ personality working in hospital either.
@harishbalan5473 ай бұрын
INFJ here, i took the 16personality test a mid long time ago, i come to know im a INFJ but i never know my personality is the rarest, i always felt i hv smtg special in me, my very deep thoughts and empathy towards others and myself is a gift. but the more i learn abt myself its getting hard to understand what i want and want to be, ik it sounds weird, but i feel that im good at every aspect sports, academics, gk, logical thinking, empethy, etc etc. i often speak to chatgpt abt feelings, because it almost fills my expections than humans, i mean i dont have anyone who is trustworthy and empethtic and logical like me, im not flexing abt myself, but what can i do, what should i do, how can i do? my parents are divorced and im just 15, a lot of thought and maturity, and im unable to control my emotions eventho i understand everything. 4 am in the morning and im commenting here,not to gain attention but to share smtg abt myself in a video abt me.
@FilipRanogajec3 ай бұрын
INFJ here. Be nice, and maybe I'll reveal a little bit of myself to ya. 🌟
@steve191493 ай бұрын
Egomaniac
@FilipRanogajec3 ай бұрын
@@steve19149- another idiot who has nothing better to do. Nice.
@zacharymoore95963 ай бұрын
@steve asshole
@KingofWaikiki2 ай бұрын
On me 🤣 Maintain peace & it’ll be so
@cassandramalvasia36293 ай бұрын
INFJ-T here .Thank you so much for the video!
@Breeee223 ай бұрын
Im just now realizing I am an INFJ and i am so glad to have because i would get so frustrated with myself for being misunderstood and for not realizing im hardwired to care for others as much as i do. I now am starting to appreciate it, would love to make friends with others who understand (:
@jordanybarra69789 күн бұрын
Same here I always feel somehow on the outside of everything
@airam-sj21723 ай бұрын
When I result in "door slam" it is i have exhausted opportunities after opportunities. I am very opened to communicate my feelings to my counterpart.
@markarianjocson12103 ай бұрын
INFJ-A here, and it's crazy how accurate this is.
@realisticthinking34903 ай бұрын
I only can imagine how powerful an infj-a can be
@sarahhurst7013 ай бұрын
I totally resonate with this. Thanks, Brainy Dose.😘❤️
@karenharris31833 ай бұрын
as a child family adults argued all the time. I had to become a referee. This was because they woke me up and I was burnt out try to do school cope with siblings' jealousy and meanness. So, I go out of my way to try to clean house for one parent so that one happy. If argued happened, I try hard to be honest listened and say dad right or mom right when they were right. I never took sides. I never judged. I just wanted us happy
@JulieB11113 ай бұрын
Causes sleepless nights too.
@aloksingh7673 ай бұрын
Exactly
@XxJulez18xXАй бұрын
I have never felt more seen! This is me to a tee! Thank you x
@CassiesPetParent3 ай бұрын
Very informative video! Thank you! I would like to request more like this about the other personalities. 👍🏾🙂
@Louis-vk1gx3 ай бұрын
Well, I’m INTJ, but it’s intriguing to know about others.
@megha90183 ай бұрын
All this while, we grew up as it's some disorder. Good to know there are others as well.
@alter_ego_X3 ай бұрын
It is so damn hard to be INFJ 😭
@noidreculse89063 ай бұрын
It’s a curse that is hard to live with. Too bad I learned so late in life why I always felt like I was a square peg in a round hole world.
@kattilathehunfreedomfighter3 ай бұрын
You took the words right out of my mouth..same here..
@fearenheit74233 ай бұрын
Is this the only curse that one can be born with? The curse of sight, insight, foresight, hindsight. It is a lot… But You could be cursed with blindness , deafness, Empty empathy, and ignorance to the ability of change. We don’t choose our curses , but we can let curses choose us. You can see so much you’re blind Or be so blind, you could never see The curse is yours to choose… 😶🌫️
@noidreculse89063 ай бұрын
@@fearenheit7423 Thanks for nothing even though you tried to sound deep
@fearenheit74233 ай бұрын
@@noidreculse8906 Actually, you’re the one who knows the right words to say judging by your response statement you’re truly on top of understanding… I’ll just hide in the shadows of the shallows…😶🌫️
@fearenheit74233 ай бұрын
@@noidreculse8906 fyi you’re not an INFJ
@the80sfanatic1316 күн бұрын
INFJ here. All true. I have ADHD and cptsd due to childhood trauma. And I am a narcissistic survivor. I am learning about narcissim and I can now read people like a book.
@aaronalvarez69703 ай бұрын
That was a really good video, maybe in the future you will do a video about what courses an infj should study.
@carinagomes4270Ай бұрын
For those who aren't INFJ it might seem it's a wonderland but I see it as a curse. It's lonely, misunderstood and people often talk behind our backs, especially those who had our support somehow but ended up crossing us and their avoidance is never silent. I'd love to meet other INFJ, exchange experiences and knowledge but guess I'm doomed to loneliness
@serenas5784Ай бұрын
We have a very small bubble of ppl it feels like…. INFJ-T
@carinagomes4270Ай бұрын
@@serenas5784 I'm INFJ-T also, turbulent they say. I've spent my whole life questioning my sanity as nobody understands me but everyone rushes to criticize me. I've even been tested since age 7 but there's no mental illness going on, some doctors have some Intel about INFJ-T but not all of them accept this personality type. If you're one of us, you're special.
@jordanybarra69789 күн бұрын
Yes I feel the negative energy and isolation of being this way. There is good but I also feel burdened with constantly seeing everything too deeply
@ITigerlilyI3 ай бұрын
Wow this explains my personality to a T. I did get this personality type result in college. It’s honestly frustrating because I over think everything and end up with crippling anxiety. In my defense I am going through a lot. The peace I crave is a struggle due to my life circumstances. I’m also very quiet in public and it’s hard for me to be extroverted even at work. I feel like I need to protect myself and don’t trust many people. I do have very strong convictions though and I have learned to stand up for myself when needed. It is hard though.
@shelteredsparrow27363 ай бұрын
I am a Heyoka INFJ I loathe small talk. There is a time at church where everyone meets in the gym for snacks. I avoid it like the plague. To sit around talking about sports and the weather is absolutely torture for me. Instead I talk to the people who were sitting around me and build relationships there finding out how they are doing and sharing what is happening in my life on deeper level. Someone once commented to me that I am a very private person. There was a time I went to a donut shop. There was a little girl who was bored. I felt so bad for her. I asked the father if I could play with her. He said yes. When they left she gave me a huge hug. I have had to do the INFJ door slam before. We do tend to attract narcissists. It is something others simply don’t understand. The INFJ doorslam is something that others find hard to understand because we are such emotionally safe people. Heyoka INFJs do have humor and problem solving. I have problem solved with humor before.
@Star369364 күн бұрын
The INFJ door slam🚪✋ was my favourite part…GUILTY! 🙋♀️ 🙈 🥴
@mojomeme31163 ай бұрын
Yes I’m an INFJ
@karenharris31833 ай бұрын
I must be one
@stephenfegely3 ай бұрын
Thank you ~INFJ-A
@unicorn0377 күн бұрын
INFJ here💕
@rupinderh01Ай бұрын
Its good to also know your 'enneogram type' and 'subtype' eg self preservation or social etc
@lpc3622Ай бұрын
Spot on 😮😊
@julioruiz92533 ай бұрын
I'm so truly an Infj
@Annette-ou2bo3 ай бұрын
EXCELLENT!
@spenceradelucaАй бұрын
My life summarized 😮
@JulieB11113 ай бұрын
This is so me
@bxsraceАй бұрын
I am INFJ, too. So I guess I am a complex person all along. Plus double cancer sign doesn't make it easier either.
@Call_me_mum302Ай бұрын
Thanks for the vid. Question: can a person evolve from enfj to infj over time?
@saoirse28282 ай бұрын
INTJ until college, when I started working it become INFJ upto now. Didn't know this will change.
@AyeAsh4443 ай бұрын
MEEEEE and I Love it.
@lanueljohngetio26683 ай бұрын
i only found this out now. so I'm an INFJ, interesting..
@crystaldance57313 ай бұрын
Thanks brainy ❤️😊
@riyadougla5393 ай бұрын
Sounds exactly like me
@angelicacyriladivoso2 ай бұрын
INFJ here
@hmedrbb74033 ай бұрын
January guys are you all infg i am wondering
@karenharris31833 ай бұрын
well I am not quite like that but close
@swavy6533 ай бұрын
Probably intj then
@karenharris31833 ай бұрын
@@swavy653 I not know the stuff never was taught. I can tell how one feels disappointed, They try hard and it takes so long. They do not understand. And I can feel how that feels. So I try to sooth and make then feel they have someone who glad that they are on Earth. I enjoy make others happier. Even if small ways. You know so many are sad in life and no body pay attention to them as human. Then you hear they took their life. I just like to make a person feel better some how.
@johnhughes265323 сағат бұрын
I'm not all there, have a few screws loose and collapse under too much pressure, i.e. IKEA personality type.
@xusnorarazzoqova73123 ай бұрын
so true
@InterestingKnowledge36825 күн бұрын
I have been losing sleep over this
@NewLife-qj9mx3 ай бұрын
Blessing/curse
@serenas5784Ай бұрын
INFJ-T hi others it’s a blessing and curse for sure
@shannonochoa10402 ай бұрын
It's hard to be an INFJ and a manager.
@b_k_17082 ай бұрын
I feel you, I've become a manager a year ago and it's very interesting. The motivation/listening/closeness is easy, but I find it hard to understand that not everyone is like me. I have colleagues who show off their team achievements far more than I do- when my team are doing good too. One of my team members put in a complaint about me this week because she felt like it, but she didn't understand how that made the whole team feel, how it made me feel and the amount of time she wasted for everyone. I want to be better and learn, but sometimes I think I'm not set out to be a manager. Then again, Aragorn started as a strider too. ❤
@KarenHailey-v8w2 ай бұрын
Lynch Pine
@HypnotiseurRoyDictus3 ай бұрын
Debunked long ago
@BundaBican2073 ай бұрын
Its me😂❤
@Yasmina-1979atАй бұрын
Th rarest but not the most different
@fearnot1780Ай бұрын
I love and hate my INFJ life.
@02_valkyrieАй бұрын
Cool, now tell infjs how to connect with other humans again after years of being alienated
@RubyMoonRosesАй бұрын
Idk if being an INFJ is a blessing or a curse.
@GrubbySaladАй бұрын
Why can't it be both?
@GrubbySaladАй бұрын
Is quite possible it's not an either or situation
@Thrive_Today_with_FoxyBlueАй бұрын
I feel like we are being judged here
@Polza-sd1sm3 ай бұрын
MBTI personnalité c’est comme l’astrologie moderne ! 😂🤣😂 La personne se pompe toute seule des trucs dans son cerveau 🧠 jusqu’à ce que lui même, il ou elle donne de la conviction sans LOGIQUE (et complètement déconnecté de ce qui se passe à la réalité) en disant je suis ça et ça 😂🤣😂 et comme ça la personne se sente spécial 😂🤣😂
@nicolabenjamin26613 ай бұрын
🙋🏾♀️
@WolfRhymesEntertainment3 ай бұрын
I scored this personality type I'm taking the Myers-Briggs personality test in college I didn't know what I was getting myself into when I took this test and I scored infj my top career was programmer and second artist. INFJs are 1% of the male population an album anything that the 1% elite male alpha's are fornicating rabbits with lots and lots of money like sheeple truth be told an alpha wolf sometimes struggles to survive especially lone wolves a man with lots of money and lots of women has no homicidal in his bone in his body such a man is prey and true alpha males a predators but we can't do anything because the cops are the shepherds fourth there were no laws I'd be gutting Chad's day and night putting them on my barbecue grill😎 we avoid conflict meaning we avoid jail like super Wolf pack Leaders who can sense traps underneath the snow but out in the open we act as if we are nice
@fearenheit74233 ай бұрын
You scored these cognitive functions at conception and became aware in college.😉😶🌫️
@fearenheit74233 ай бұрын
You’re a Dire Wolf….
@theoversouls3 ай бұрын
Huh?
@Vid7872Ай бұрын
The thumb nail is of a cold, distant, suspicious, resentful young woman who instead should be brimming with optimism, gleeful, and have a twinkle in her eye. That's why women should never get advice on how to be a woman from a man.