10 (More) Things We Should Stop Wearing Over 50 | 10 Items That Age You

[@NadaManley]

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[@bboyd9727]

Is it available in a blog format? I miss your group, but am traveling and would prefer to read the blogs….

[@susanhoward2305]

Preach on, Sister 🎉🎉 Thank you for addressing the issue that women over 50 aren’t old! I’m 81 and don’t plan on being old for at least another 15 years 😂❤

[@dammar117]

I'm in my 50s, and I'm most certainly old. I'm not in my teens, 20s, 30s, or even 40s. I've gone through menopause, I have less energy, I have osteopenia, I need a facelift. But I've also lived. What is wrong with saying we're old? I hate delusional statements that seek to keep me in a state I no longer identify with, because I'm no longer in it.

[@pamostman516]

@@dammar117 Aging is a way Mother Nature reminds us that looks are unimportant and makes us delve into our true self and develop that to its full potential.

[@gillianchoo5980]

@@dammar117 I think age is a number and we are as old as we feel

[@dammar117]

@@gillianchoo5980 Age is not a number. Age is the amount of years you have lived on this planet. It's the accumulation of our experiences, and also the wear and tear of our bodies. I'm not in the same basket as a 30-year-old.

[@dammar117]

@@pamostman516 That's very nice, and surely something we should be doing by all means, but the truth of the matter is that aging is the deterioration of our bodies. Everything in nature deteriorates. Plants, fruits, even minerals erode.

[@gloriamadaffari5404]

Please remember many older women have painful finger joints from years of toil. Elastic waists and pull on slacks are not a fashion statement, they are essential.

[@NadaManley]

I have a bunch of adaptive styles in my catalog we are always going to have to start with what works for you, but there are elastic waist pants that do not look like elastic waist pants and I think those are a great option

[@gloriamadaffari5404]

@@NadaManley Thank you! Truly at 82 years old I have freed myself of attempting to looking more youthful or fashionable. My best outfit is a healthy body, trim and flexible. I am 5ft. tall and stay fit from decades of a vegan diet. I wear timeless clothes, jeans and knit pants, skimmers and shorts. I have fun as well with the fun T-shirts that display messages with an attitude! 🙃

[@victorialehmann6879]

@@NadaManley Where is your catalog?

[@alomaalber6514]

pair the elastic pants with an edgy black top and no one will notice. I like getting pants in a length that fits, that too is important.

[@garmtpug]

I notice in ads for these types of "old lady" clothes that the manufacturers show younger models wearing them! It's meant to fool us into thinking it's a style that younger people wear too! When the opposite is true.

[@marycottee2259]

This is so true! The ads reel me in because those women are at least 20 yrs younger than me so I think I'm in the right ball park for those clothes...well said !

[@elaineheim6477]

Agreed😅

[@garmtpug]

@@marycottee2259 I find shopping on line or at stores geared towards younger buyers will allow me to find clothing that doesn't look like something great gramma would wear! And I am a great gramma!! LOL!

[@janetstraw191]

I have noticed that too! But what is even more annoying, are the elderly products catalogs that show 30-year old women modeling seniors’ support aids. 🥵

[@bboyd9727]

There’s the Fact! I like youthful styles, but the determining factor of ‘do I look nice’ or ‘do I look bad’, is made by checking my face when I am dressed in a style, For my wrinkles show more, and that makes the difference to me…

[@1234OopsyDaisy]

I am a plus size woman of 59.75 yrs and I refuse to set foot in the over 50 stores.I would rather poke out my eyes than being seen in any of the frumpy things they aim at us 🤬

[@lisacarter6886]

“Geranimals for adults” caused a head thrown back howl of laughter! Thank you for that perfect analogy that had never occurred to me before!

[@PatBackPatBack-x4n]

Thank you! Some of these "styles" were out of style as soon as they appeared. If all else fails just remember: simple, yet elegant.

[@NadaManley]

Agree! Thanks for the comment!

[@susanalexander7990]

I always learn so much from your videos. So many “over 50” influencers are so obviously pushing us to buy from their sponsors. I never feel like you do that and your content is A+. Thank you.

[@mischbrannock6163]

I remember on my first position as a buyer our office manager had to be 70 years old...She was one of the most stylish women I've ever met....Classic...and she wore 3 inch heels... It's a lesson its not age its taste...

[@elmamorales7527]

So true !! I go shopping and all I see is clothes that make you look frumpy… and yes I can’t stand when people say “wear what you want, shouldn’t care what people think” may be true for some people, but you’re representing yourself. How you look is what you attract!!

[@janetyamashige9573]

Agree!

[@brendadrew834]

At age 75 and having had a career in the fashion industry as a fashion illustrator in NYC and then a fitness trainer in my 40s I have a pretty good idea of what looks good on me. I've eliminated a few things as I've gotten older. 1. no heavy makeup esp foundation or any heavy eye makeup, no false eyelashes! I've always loved the natural look since I was in my late teens. Am going for those Boom sticks! Renown makeup artist Bobbie Brown said women over 50 should ditch powdered makeup and we shouldn't be wearing the same makeup we wore in our 20s and 30s, makes sense! 2. I love drawstring pants or cropped pants more than just elasticized pants, it's a more youthful look than just elasticized. Hate wearing sneakers though with cropped pants, a horrible look that ages a woman! Along with tops that have a scooped neckline with gathers. Nothing makes a woman look older than that, imho. 3. no more bikinis or shorts! I ditched bikinis/two pieces a long time ago, a one piece is so much more flattering. I was wearing medium length shorts recently, but decided I don't like wearing them at my age, so I'm going for great looking drawstring cropped pants! 4. No more lethal looking high heels that look like weapons of mass destruction! There are so many stylish flats or sandals these days and they're way more comfortable! I wince at some of the high heels today that have really super high heels, not good for the feet! 5. Nothing too frilly or ruffles! Simplicity rules! 6. You can be in the greatest shape but as you age, your skin gets old looking! Older women have wrinkles esp in their neck, their arms etc. if not their face! And on their chest, so it's best to cover up the best you can, which also protects against skin cancers! 7. I go for two things now, comfort and style! Thanks for the great tips~

[@alomaalber6514]

This year Pamela Anderson is without makeup and on the cover of Better Homes and Gardens in her garden and has a book! A lot of us are living in a happy, healthy natural way!

[@jeanettevandiver8934]

Awesome content! It would be awesome if you showed do and don't pics side-by-side so we could see the comparison. Looking forward to more valuable information to keep us looking our best. Thanks!

[@janinebate1272]

I absolutely love your refreshing take on the stuff thats aimed at us midlife women and why it doesn't work. It gives me lots of food for thought and no offence whatsoever as it makes me rethink some of my own looks, and maybe some of my pieces are aging me. I find these videos so helpful, please do more of them, there are so many items pushed at us that are truly hideous and it's not what we want. Xx

[@NadaManley]

Ahh! Thank you Janine! I’m so glad you like this. Kind of video and understand why I’m doing them. I will definitely be doing more!

[@mikki3961]

Why do the stores/buyers think women who are 50 and over will settle for outdated, frumpy junk? We have money to spend, and we want to feel and look beautiful for US. I don't care what others think, but I am offended by the absolute garbage major retailers think we deserve. I require well made, quality, fashionable clothing and accessories. Love your content.

[@NadaManley]

@@mikki3961 totally agree! It’s so frustrating. This should be the time when we can find the best style of our lives and we have to really search for it.

[@zamar2158]

We went from being the fashion queens on one day to being bizarre overnight because of a birthday - that's what the buyers for these stores imagine. From wearing power suits to large flower printed polyester messes? Who wears that?

[@LittleRockVol]

The struggle is hard enough to find affordable quality!

[@NadaManley]

@@LittleRockVol agree!! I do love Quince for affordable quality clothes. But it is truly hard to find nice clothes at reasonable prices.

[@tealkerberus748]

This part. They need to stop thinking "worn-out housewife" and start thinking "CEO." At our age we should have our life in order and be in charge of what's happening around us - and if we're not, we should at least be allowed to dress like we are!

[@dammar117]

My style has always been ageless, so I haven't felt the need to give up much (except for my beloved high heels, due to painfully aging feet). I've had pretty much the same style since I was 16, just tweaked to weed out very specifically dated items (e.g. shoulder pads, lol). Classic, feminine pieces. No trends. Since i started dressing like an elegant adult at 16, not 45, I never had to give up anything.

[@delilah1479]

I understand your comment about giving up the high heels and felt I had to do the same thing not that long ago. My compromise on that now is that I wear a kitten heel.

[@TermiteVideo]

Tankinis are very handy if you are tall and long bodied. I have eyed up so many cute bathing suits only to need at least three more inches in the length

[@ReneeMartin-p1z]

These are awesome ideas for keeping us classy! I’m 60 and I like dressing up to date! And I’m not sure why anyone would be negative about any of these suggestions. Why watch, if you are gonna wear what you’ve always worn. 🤷🏻‍♀️ and that’s ok to wear what you want. But why stop by this channel just to be negative? I know most of us watch because we appreciate a fresh perspective.

[@NadaManley]

Thank you SO MUCH! I truly appreciate the comment. My goal is to help us all look modern and stylish. :) So glad you found my channel.

[@tbell1698]

Nada, thanks for the honest, no-nonsense, straight talk. So necessary, as the offerings in stores aimed at middle-aged women are truly hideous. “Granimals for grannies” 😂! I’ll add that to my repertoire of mantras from you and other style advisors that serve as reminders while shopping.

[@MollyStraight-r1k]

I'm 69 and recently lost 64 pounds. So I needed all new clothes! I have been having fun shopping the basics and also the Trends that look good on me! I dress professional as I am still working but I also dress modern and up to date. Enjoyed your video!

[@BeautynerdSkincare]

QVC is the major fashion offender of all fashion no no's! I'm always shocked when I see their clothes.

[@NadaManley]

I need to take a look for inspiration lol. I haven’t checked that in a while.

[@dianeinmi3819]

Exactly right. Funny, I was thinking of QVC while watching this.

[@PatriciaHain-uw8vx]

It's all large baggy shirts & cropped pants & clunky sandals

[@marystine3934]

Spot on! I has occurred to me many times that much of the clothing you've highlighted is pushed by clothing manufacturers because those styles (elastic waists, loose layers, ugly florals and prints) require less skill and time than well tailored or true to size clothing. And it is harder to find clothing to fit older bodies well. It pays to have a good alterations person on hand.

[@paulafierro7596]

I loved this video. Just turned 69 and a fashion nut! It took me a long time to learn not to wear all of these bad choices! I was laughing because I’ve worn practically everyone of them in the past and even look at old pics of myself much younger in my 40’s and 50’s and see what a bad idea it was! I actually think I dress younger and more tasteful in my present wardrobe thanks to all the tons of you tube videos I’ve watched in the past. Also get so many more compliments on my outfits than I did back then!! ❤️ you are an angel for helping older women!!😘

[@valeriecoopet9897]

I need to trust my first impressions. Almost all of the items you spoke about I was confused about, maybe appalled at, when they first came out or were popular. Thank you for this video. You have really changed the way I think about fashion and clothing.

[@KarenKrupsaw]

Always love your straightforward talk and passion. Your years of experience as a true stylist, not KZbin salesperson, show through!

[@EG076]

As a petite woman I’ve always been frustrated by all the stretchy pants and decal /embroidered tops …that my 80 year old grandmother liked when I was 25. Now that I’m 50+, it hasn’t changed. Thanks for the other tips too.

[@JustineBourassa-x7m]

Oh I just really live your videos.. Yes, in regards to shrugs, glitter probably should be ket go of ???

[@royalnavarre1673]

Nada, it's true that you won't see those styles on the younger women because the majority of them are running around town in athletic wear. I do agree with you that the styles you gave as examples, are out of style.

[@judym2676]

When it comes to bathing suits, and u know this is true, we can’t feel cute and confident in something that we are totally self-conscious wearing. So if others think we are just trying to hide our bodies (my body) they are 100% totally right! Love your videos though.

[@rebeccaaugustine8628]

I am glad that you did not include "shawls"! Even if they are associated with "old ladies," I have worn them since I was a little girl! As for the rest of them, I NEVER wore them -- even as a teenager, in my early 20s or 30s! However, I DO have a printed hoodie that my daughter suggested which reads, "Mermaids are born in November!" that I wear with great pride and panache!

[@mikeevans3607]

I am 85 and have a hard time buying clothes on line. The only stores in town where I buy clothes are JJill and Talbots. I have always liked clothes with the idea of looking put together. Starting in my 80’s it has been more of a challenge, but it is a good challenge for me! Your videos have been very helpful. This last one showed me that I bought a couple of items from JJill that are too frumpy. Before I give them away, will go to a tailor. I am going to suggest your videos to my daughter, we can always learn something new! Thanks for these videos. Carole Evans❤️

[@NadaManley]

@@mikeevans3607 thank you so so much for this Carole! It means a lot to me that you would share my channel with your daughter. I’m always cheering you on and love. Your intention to put together.. I think it makes such a huge difference in how we feel!

[@happygoluckyme6926]

You know where else I've seen these clothes? In a store for women who are vertically challenged like my 5'1 self. 😂 always with those little tiny flowers or the matchy-matchy. 😅 ❤ the vid! Brand new sub here!

[@cathygregory9014]

You are correct about every single clothes category you mentioned! I am finally going to donate my expensive Athleta elastic waist pants. Thanks for the encouragement!

[@NadaManley]

Thank you for the comment! I’m so glad you found it helpful!

[@mariabettega3513]

Wear what suits you, don't be a slave to fickle fashion. Stay true to your style your colours and your personality.

[@alomaalber6514]

The shrug or wrap is not meant to be worn all day, but they are good to have for hotel events it can get cold in those banquet rooms and this is true for younger women too! If you have a small wrap keep it for those occasions.

[@elizabethpetrie2732]

I agree with just about all of your comments. One exception I am making: I am attending a summer wedding in southern Europe next year, and I will be packing for three different events (according to the customs of the country). I am definitely taking a dress which is in a soft chiffon print, midi length in front, floor length in back, as this will transition well between afternoon and evening. I will be taking another cocktail length dress as well. I am also taking a “shrug,” as (a) the church requires women’s shoulders to be covered, (b) old churches are often quite chilly, and (c) I can pop it on and off as the temperatures change between afternoon and evening. All of these are very “packable” and will not wrinkle easily.

[@pianodiva30]

Thank you for the clarification on shrugs! Within the last several years, I have to have arm coverage & have just gone to the shrugs because it's what I wore in the past, not even thinking about whether it was a current style or not. I'm still struggling to find alternatives for all my dresses & sleeveless tops. But when I wear the shrugs now, I see how dated it looks. Thanks for all of the suggestions! Really helps to narrow things down.

[@antoniahicks320]

We were knitting these as beginners back in the 50's! Hideous then and now.

[@cmonell1]

Same here, but this video helped me to make the final decision to part ways with my shrug!

[@Kate-lk6tw]

Gosh I think they look timeless and elegant. They are so slimming, too.

[@SIMARSONG]

@@Kate-lk6tw Yes. Eventually a classic, depending on the cut and style.

[@KathyAOver60]

Sad about the cut out booties. I love mine, but I totally get it. Im 66 amd feel modern. Thank you for your work and for sharing helpful tips! ❤

[@cindybrown9191]

Have to say with my body type, style dial orange, I find pants with elastic waists are typically the easiest to find a good fit, because waist is often too big if it fits on my hips.

[@patriciawhite9668]

And visa versa.

[@SIMARSONG]

@@patriciawhite9668 Yes, the waist is almost always too tight if I want the hips and legs to fit right right! I'm an apple!

[@dswportland]

Been keeping those rarely worn peep toe booties forever! Every summer I think I’ll wear them and I don’t. They were on sale when I bought them at The Rack and no doubt past their prime then! Into the donation bag!

[@Katrn30]

Every time I watch your channel you help me purge more stuff…thanks!

[@MaryG-vt2lm]

Helpful video because you give examples of what not to do. Thanks

[@NadaManley]

Glad it was helpful! Thank you so much for the comment!

[@Julie-lx6fe]

Another great lesson in this video! I don't own any of the pieces you mentioned but somehow I receive catalogs that contain these "mature" styles. Maybe you can't call out the names of these retailers but I can! Ladies, avoid Chadwick's, Signals, L.L. Bean, and Blaire because that's where my 80-something mom shops. Along with your focus on" Is it cute?" and "Is it cool?" we should also ask ourselves "Is this something Mom would like?" and if so RUN in the opposite direction. I live in AZ where it will be 113 degrees today so I also understand the overly air conditioned setting! Thanks so much for your work and for being the voice of reason in my fashion world!!

[@tbell1698]

Well said. 😉

[@garmtpug]

Chicos and Talbots too! LOL!

[@rags3901]

Love this video…very complete list…agree with most all of these! I agree completely with your comment that the offering of embroidered items being basically insulting. The fact that many of the items you listed are offered is insulting. Why do people suddenly decide to leave any sense of style behind?

[@janedelaney4327]

The Brooklyn pant from Athleta. I have four pairs at least. So comfy, elastic waist but way good looking, lots of positive reviews.

[@kimberlyschreder2046]

Thank-you! I've been looking at my outfits wondering what doesn't work, but couldn't put my finger on it, though I shop at expensive stores (yes, aimed at the over fifty crowd). My wardrobe has at least three of these mistakes, so those items will go into my donate box. It's frustrating that as we get older we have more disposable income, but look less stylish!

[@garmtpug]

I shop at stores that are higher end but don't aim for the older crowd. That way I won't end up getting something that will date me or make me look frumpy.

[@karyannfontaine8757]

I would never wear any of those things. I am small and slim, no big prints, yards of huge printed fabric, no huge jewelry. I am 74 and certainly not ready for nursing home clothing yet. I love small fine jewelry, tailored classic clothing, natural fabric. You have shown a picture of my Nana's bathing suit, it was the blue, green, lavender colours all mixed together. Nana used to get in the shallow end of the pool, hold on to the cement edge and walk herself around the pool. She never learned to swim, but it cooled her down. I like you channel, very entertaining.

[@GhostofMrsMuir1443]

Good memory of your Nan. Glad she was part of the fun.

[@Beener713]

Nada, I'm so happy to have found you. This is the second video of yours that I have watched and found it very helpful to be warned what to stay away from. I'm in my mid-70s and look younger than my age except for the crepey skin that has developed on my underarms (in the last year) will be a dead giving away of advanced age. Everything in my summer wardrobe is sleeveless and I'm at a loss as to the best way to dress now. Elegant clothing for my age group is already very difficult to find and I really don't look forward to always be looking for sleeves. As someone else has said, we are of the age that can afford to purchase quality clothing for our age but it's difficult to find. Oh! what to do? I hope you can counsel those of us with the "creeping crepey arms". Speaking of crepey, our knees are getting there too! With capris and bermuda shorts out of style, are crepey knees IN?

[@dammar117]

Capris and bermudas are so aging. All the dowdy ladies wear these. You will never catch me in any of these. I was 14 last time I wore shorts. Maybe it's because I'm European, but i never understood the appeal of shorts on adults. If it's hot, I wear linen pants. I couldn't stand sweaty legs rubbing against each other, anyway.😆

[@deedivas8603]

Nada you are 500 percent correct. Glad I found you!

[@helenmarsh-sj8kn]

Great video, Nada! Your points and examples make your style tips come to light. (My shrug is going in the donation bag right after dinner!)

[@bethl]

I got some great pull-on pants at Chicos this year. They look slim and are so comfortable!

[@thepilotswife333]

Tonight I am going thru my closet & getting rid of some clothes!

[@Imagesforsuccess2019]

Advice is great!!! Here’s a bit of advice from a licensed cosmetologist- lose 10” of your long hair. That’s dated, too, imho.

[@suzannelawson9215]

I agree about the length of the hair. Doesn't have to be short but maybe cut to shoulder length would be more flattering.

[@bboyd9727]

On the other hand, those older women in their 60’s & 70’s with gray or white hair wearing their jean shirts or jean jackets or boho blouse outfits look AMAZING. Pinterest has a lot of pics of beautiful older women with beautiful long hair ….- I like those better than medium or short hair….- I’ve worn/done them all…..; I get huge compliments on my hair by professional people, like my doctors, as well as by complete strangers…; and my husband loves my hair. I am Age 68, now and A natural Platinum blonde. Had been a brunette when young. I have Curly, frizzy long layered hair that I tame.

[@audreyandrea460]

Everybody knows that long, beautiful hair is timeless. Long hair is the ideal for women.

[@johnbyrne760]

I was thinking that as well

[@MoonFairy11]

And that extremely loud lipstick is horrible on those thin lips. Her arm movements are obnoxious. Hard to watch.

[@toniweston4330]

I so agree with everything you said. Great video!!

[@shannonalwaise8398]

I used to have a few of those tiered ruffle tops and peep toe booties. I had 1 or 2 big plastic necklaces. I don't know what I was thinking.

[@mariacastro2682]

Thank you for giving a great comprehensive and overall look at what to avoid… I agree with your advice.. you wouldn’t believe how many times I look at various clothing catalogs and say to myself” that is god hideous “..ugly..nobody will look good in that!..

[@NadaManley]

I’m so glad you enjoyed it! There is so much out there that is bad. Trying to help us make good choices!

[@patmuscarella8279]

Thank you for this great info. Iam 81. I have always been into minilest style. These videos will always make sure iam on right track. You are so right that there are many options with stylish vibes.

[@NadaManley]

Thank you so much Pat! I am so glad you are here! Yes, there are better alternatives for everything on this list :)

[@kathyfavila8397]

Love this channel! I am new and am 69 years old. So glad you are addressing these issues!

[@NadaManley]

Thank you so much! So happy you are here!

[@janewasson4845]

No loud flowers, jungle prints, polyester, clumpy shoes, old lady handbags,, leggings (unless you're slim) or short, cutly, old lady hair, ugly wire glasses, cheap slacks, slick fabrics, sleeveless, or graphic t shirts, electric polish on long acrylic nails, red or hot pink lipstick, too much eye makeup, false lashes or junk jewelry.

[@janewasson4845]

Just learning by observing others! 🙂

[@janewasson4845]

NCD. Not. Caught. Dead. Look at a Ralph Lauren runway show, those looks, and you'll get the idea.

[@INKOSK4114]

Nada’s lipstick color is not pretty. It makes her look way older than what she may be.

[@jens6754]

This was fun! Can we add those stretchy fitted button downs with the sleeves pre "rolled" with the little button on the side of the sleeve to keep it "rolled"? My mother wears those and I'm always begging her to let me remove that silly sleeve button! Thankfully, she does because she trusts my opinion. Probably because she's my mom. 😊

[@NadaManley]

Omygoodness yes!!! Totally adding those to the list! Thank you so much for the comment!

[@marycottee2259]

Oh dear...im going to remove those buttons TODAY !!... you're right of course..x

[@bboyd9727]

Lol! When young, She probably wore Banana Republic tops ( like I did/do)… it’s ageless…

[@GhostofMrsMuir1443]

I’ve been using denim shirts, classic white shirts, and a bold stripe from Rag and Bone as third pieces. To me, less frumpy than cardigans and I just like the colors! Not afraid to show my arms just get hot then cold due to air conditioning, etc.

[@cynthialockhart6127]

I absolutely agree with you! Refreshing to find you.

[@dinapawlow1622]

Agree with most of your comments…….and love your sense of humour.❤

[@NadaManley]

Thank you!! We have to be able to laugh at ourselves and at some of the crazy clothes out there. I so appreciate your comment!

[@cajpasc8501]

Hello Nada, always love your perspectives. Many times I follow your advice. It’s true no one has to wear what they don’t want but the more insightful information that people like you share the better. IMHO

[@NadaManley]

Thank you so much! I appreciate the comment! I will keep sharing these so we can all try to make the best choices for our wardrobes.

[@shargilman]

Great video Nada. Sometimes your comments just crack me up. Thanks you made my day.😄😉

[@dynamicdiana333]

Great tips! Thank you!

[@NadaManley]

Thank you so much! I am so glad you enjoyed it!

[@cathykrueger4899]

Some advice: Don’t buy clothes at Cracker Barrel.

[@quicklykay]

😂

[@RomayPM]

Hey Nada. Another great video and again, I disagree on one point, the chiffon top. The one you showed is horrendous but i have a chiffon, semi baggy, pink and white chiffon shirt which i wear over a white spaghetti strap west and tucked in to the front of white jeans. I love it and i get comments, complimentary ones, whenever i wear this outfit. Other than MY chiffon shirt, I agree chiffon is hideous lol 😊

[@vickimeehan431]

I LOVED this video and glad it was recommended by the YT algorithm! Can't agree more about the stores for mature women. I scratch my head at the frump mixed in -- and women do buy it.

[@kristinesmith6567]

Yay! I feel like I'm catching on. I purchased 3 of those exact Everlane pants mentioned at the beginning of the video and I really do love them. They are wonderful winter office pants.

[@michelemichael8922]

Thank you for this video!! I am moving so its a great time to clear out clothes, jewelry, etc..

[@bridgetmarrotte8204]

Thank you for great advice! What are the older stores you refer to in this video?

[@nabilarahim5911]

Well said: Fashion pieces should be either classic or trendy.

[@gaelquilts]

Ya, I completely disagree with the shrug evaluation. I make most of my garments and am very careful about the prints, size of stripes etc. I’m not worried about looking older no matter my age. I notice PEOPLE, their attitude, their countenance not if the clothes are dated. I’d rather have a kind, compassionate friend who dresses in any era than an up to date flake.

[@OnePoetWanderer]

NOTHING says 'grandma' quicker than those embroidered sweatshirts.

[@adromano6]

What is wrong with grandma?

[@MoonFairy11]

As an European we stay simple with no prints. Well fitting jeans (when you find the right designer) and a T shirt, tailored that is, again no prints, stripes only solid colors.

[@eileenternullo8077]

This is great! I recognize so many of these things. The stores really keep repeat offenders coming, so sad. Keep up the great work!

[@Sharylanne]

I love the dress or top you are wearing. Can I ask where it is from?

[@alomaalber6514]

I wear wonderful clothes that fit, most are new, I plan to stop a lot of previous shopping! The cowgirl western boot and shoes are great at any age. Fit is everything!

[@elizabethharalson7903]

Those classic cowboy boots have been around for 200 years.

[@PaulineEvans-r5j]

I have a few shrugs that I never wear. I will definitely be getting rid of them now.

[@Roni90317]

EXCELLENT video Nada! I loved and agree with every point you made. By the way, you look beautiful today and as always, I just love your hair!

[@NadaManley]

You are so kind! Thank you! I’m so glad you found it helpful and I so appreciate the comment!

[@wyntahsummah9547]

Imma wear whatever I want it's all about feeling

[@j.p.p.1964]

oh my gosh, so boring🥱🥱🥱

[@doreenevans5945]

I agree with all your choices. I run into an issue with my clothing. I am still a size 2 in jeans and well over fifty. I go the opposite direction for many of the clothes are overly youthful. I weed out my closet every season with clothes that look foolish on me. Thanks for your video.

[@shawnasomers9127]

“No, Just no! “ 😄I would agree on all 10 of your points.

[@sharon6571]

I just cleaned out my closet….two large bags full going to donate. And ordered a pair of Everlane miracle pants to try out. I work in IT and sit at a computer all day, I have to be comfortable in the waist. Thanks for the common sense, great advice! :)

[@gillmolony6781]

Some really good points. Oh dear, I think I may have to start a wardrobe cull 😂

[@virginiaquinones-rogers3412]

Shrugs no! But what about cropped short sleeve sweaters? I and petite and these seem to work for me.

[@NadaManley]

On petite also and those can be great. I would just be careful to stick to neutrals in those and not match them to the color of your outfit.. in other words don’t pair a pink sweater with a pink and black dress like the example in the video. If that was black, it would be so much better.

[@Pubslife]

Granimals for grownups😂😂😂 so true!!

[@alexandracummings2852]

I agree with all of your advice however I have seen ladies who are large and their options are matronly! The fashion industry can be cruel to women who are heavy. I salute those who “find a way” to be styled !

[@sharonmeredith7106]

I appreciate your opinions and guidance…Thank you

[@glendahannings6066]

I recently found your channel and absolutely love it!! It is quickly becoming my favorite fashion resource. The information is realistic, useful, and totally relates to me. The format is perfect. Lots of information in a short time frame, well presented with examples and specific suggestions. The information is different from other channels yet very applicable to me and other women. Please keep making these great videos!

[@NadaManley]

Thank you so much Glenda! I truly appreciate it. My goal is to give as much useful information as I can in each video. I am so glad you have found my channel!

[@wendyspiesman992]

One good, flattering to your body, denim jacket is a must if you like to cover your arms.

[@NadaManley]

I agree! They are an essential!

[@deborahmichele]

You totally hit the nail on the head! I especially agree with the elastic waistbands which I've detested almost my entire life! I cannot stand the feeling of being squeezed around the middle! (Not to mention they're hideous.) It's the reason I returned the tank dress with the wide skirt that is sold my Quince and Alo Yoga. Love the silhouette, but I could not stand the feeling of that elastic around my waist! I do disagree on shrugs - or at least my shrug. I have a black one from WHBM with fitted sleeves which I love in summer to go over my ubiquitous cami tops! And yeah, if you think "wear whatever you want" why watch a fashion video?

[@delilah1479]

Agree with you on the shrug. I have one in white and black and they are so darn handy especially if need to cover shoulders a bit in too air conditioned restaurants --cold air blowing on me from above.

[@Sharylanne]

I also think the scooped hemline on tee shirts. I don’t know what it’s actually called.

[@KathyRohlman]

I didn’t know what I would find here…always suspicious of people telling me what I should and shouldn’t wear but I was pleasantly surprised! I agreed with everything you said. Now, if only I COULD find polyester pull-on slacks for my 91 year old mother. The slim leg styles and mid-rise just won’t work for her.

[@angelakeep5238]

Interesting, the Everlane Dream Pant / Have to check those out. Was {a little bit} surprised to see shrugs/Shrugs-of-any-kind listed as a Should Not; but I suppose it was more of an, "Oh, please!" wishful thing on my part because I think they're so cute, and bc I have multiple shrugs/boleros made from varied fabrics. I do-understand the Garanimals comment (always make me L O L!), since there is no femininity/sexiness to those combinations. Thank you, Nada! Blessed Friday and weekend to you ❤️ 🎵 🇺🇲

[@NadaManley]

Thanks so much for the comment Angela! Shrugs are one of those things that go in and out of style so I suggest saving a couple of favorites particularly neutral ones for when they come back. But they rarely really add much to an outfit. And yes about the Garanimals for sure. Thanks again and have a wonderful weekend

[@djperry1138]

Thank you for showing me the way on printed Ts. Now I know why I didn't have a good day when I wear them. They make me feel frumpy! Time to throw all of them away! I'm only 52 and need to feel younger!

[@marycottee2259]

Just happened on your video, and intend to keep following...such hard truths! But can only agree 100 percent..i bought an elasticated skirt recently , it's dire...aged me years(and made my backside look huge) ...i agree with every single criticism on that list...

[@Eyesofthebeholder214]

I think that there are some really cool ways to cover your arms. And if your petite shrugs are not a bad option. I have some from Amazon that look great. Aso bathing suit cover ups work really well sometimes especially in hot climates. Dont get bogged down in thinking because it is in a certain catagory that's all it is good for. Use your imagination. I wish I could share a pic. Cheers

[@NadaManley]

There are definitely exceptions to all of these rules. I’m talking about a very specific type of shrug here but if you found a style that works for you, you should go for it

[@SIMARSONG]

That reminds me of a country concert I attended. A gal was wearing a crocheted long kimono type coverup with her denim shorts and boots, and my male friend said --look, she's wearing a tablecloth and he and his buddy had a good laugh! Sometimes you just can't win!

[@Eyesofthebeholder214]

@@SIMARSONG haha ...if we took a mans advice we would never look cute.

[@LJ-xr5th]

Some hair stylists recommend women over 50 not wearing their hair very long but rather cut it to a lob, bob etc…Given that she was telling the viewers what to not wear over fifty, I’m surprised she didn’t mention her choice for a “younger hairstyle”.

[@Eyesofthebeholder214]

@@LJ-xr5th I don't understand this obsession with scoping out "what not to wear" Should we write a book " Dressing over 50 for dummies?" Omg so over it here on You Tube. Let's just dress for ourselves and call it a day.

[@michellesapp7867]

I completely agree with everything you’ve said. 😊

[@rosemarybanner]

Yes, totally agree…all old lady clothes for sure!