10 Most Common Mistakes Unfaithful Partners Make

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@yoolee1010
@yoolee1010 Жыл бұрын
My spouse did and is still doing all these things. It makes me think that he's just forcing himself to stay with me. I wish I could tell him to go, if that's what he really wants. He's not the person I used to know, and I don't feel that our relationship is still important to him, anyway.
@josephsnearline2022
@josephsnearline2022 Жыл бұрын
This resonates a lot with me. My wife makes it seem like she thinks she’s being heroic for simply staying in our relationship after her multi year affair ended.
@jaydixson1731
@jaydixson1731 2 жыл бұрын
Dude. I love it. I think you are super sharp. Talk about dead on
@hrae63
@hrae63 5 жыл бұрын
I was told by 2 strangers that I had never met before that my wife cheated on me. I did not get a name of the man, but both strangers who were also strangers to each other had stated that my wife was close with a man, in the same location, (an apartments complex around the corner about 1 block from my house) The strangers who told me had told me about a year apart. She denies that she has chested and she says she would sure like to know who these strangers are. I can't provide the answer, it was 2 different people that I met through 2 other people who don't even know each other. I know it sounds ridiciolous but I'm trying to keep the comment short. The bottom like, it's eating me alive, I could probably forgive her if she did but only if she admitted it, I obviously don't want it to be true but I'm having a hard time believing that she didn't, almost to the point I would rather her lie and say she did so I can (forgive her) and have closure. How can I find out for sure whether she chested on me or not? There are other reasons and situations that make me think she did, that also doesn't help. But please someone. I need advice. I've been married 15 years and have 3 kids. My wife and I are 36 and 37 years old and we have been together since we were 12 years old. I never woukd have questioned this 3+ years ago because she was NOT THE CHEATING TYPE, BUT now, I just dont know anymore. Someone please help. Thank you
@tinaanderson1061
@tinaanderson1061 5 жыл бұрын
Trust you intuition on this one. What does your gut tell you? Has she lied to you?
@chaucerparks5941
@chaucerparks5941 5 жыл бұрын
I CAN SO RELATE TO YOU ON THIS ONE. I HAD A SIMILAR SITUATION WITH MY WIFE OF 9 YRS. WE ARE STILL MARRIED BUT THE TRUST IS ALMOST NON EXISTENT..🤔..✌💨🏃
@jake8748
@jake8748 3 жыл бұрын
I know it's a long time since but get her to take a polygraph test. If she refuses then you know the answer anyway. If shes honest she will willingly agree and take it.
@upendrapasi1234
@upendrapasi1234 Жыл бұрын
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@efthimios
@efthimios 5 жыл бұрын
My wife fell into infidelity sad the worst experience in my life the worst pain the worst feeling my Brian felt foggy constant headaches - because I never imagined she would do it I stayed patient and stayed by her side and loved her and trying to mend things - it’s crazy I didn’t want to leave her but I love her and want tonsave my family and the pain my daughter would have frlm a broken family I see it as a cross I can carry to forgive and love her if she decides to be faithful
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@lisalisgarciavillegas1178 4 жыл бұрын
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@soniakorang1783
@soniakorang1783 4 жыл бұрын
God bless u
@mljrotag6343
@mljrotag6343 4 жыл бұрын
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@redmarilynn
@redmarilynn 5 жыл бұрын
I listened to every word of this video. To realise your partner has lied and has cheated on you is devastating. Betrayal is the worst hurt and the shock of it destroys the soul.
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@fredrickbenedict6869 5 жыл бұрын
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@epicjourneysbritainireland9474
@epicjourneysbritainireland9474 6 жыл бұрын
Signs you are being cheated on: (from someone who has been cheated on.) 1. Coming in at silly hours during the night. 2. Leaning away from you whilst texting or going out to make phone calls. 3. Finding strange email addresses u previously new nothing of. 4. Deleting internet history. 5. Waking up to find your partner texting in the middle of the night. 6. Getting dressed up to just go to 'friends' 7. Pulling the power from the dashcam in the car. 8. Partner comes in from work to just eat something like a sandwich after a full day (this tells u he/she is going to fast food places with the person he/she is seeing.) 9. Debit card statements - transactions you arent aware of. 10. Buying clothes, hair is done regularly and buys shoes/boots every week. 11. Finding excuses to be always out...even ridiculous excuses. 12. Bathing/showering after being out all night. 13. Wanting to wash and hoover the car all the time - (this is a dead give away) 14. Keeping away from places that he/she is going even though u were always at the places previously. 15. Stories not adding up.... one week he/she tells u something and then the next week the story changes. 16. Ebay/Amazon transactions that you arent aware of. 17. Your partner wants to try new moves in the bedroom, when he/she previously didnt want to (this is a dead giveaway) 18. Accusing you of cheating. This is to deflect away from themselves doing it...to lessen the guilt. 19. Wanting a break, or wanting 'Space' .....if your partner suggests this..walk away..they are still cheating. 20. Constantly changing passwords on email/FB etc etc..... 21. Changes in tastes....Music,Films/ ETC ETC .....The person cheating will change tastes to match the person they are cheating with. 22. Lying about their whereabouts.
@MrsBryant1024
@MrsBryant1024 6 жыл бұрын
Why is 13. Such a dead giveaway? I clean my car every week...I just like my car clean. Lol. Doesn't mean I'm cheating on my husband...
@epicjourneysbritainireland9474
@epicjourneysbritainireland9474 6 жыл бұрын
@@MrsBryant1024 Having sex in the car..think about it.
@MrsBryant1024
@MrsBryant1024 6 жыл бұрын
@@epicjourneysbritainireland9474 Well I did think about it. & as I said, I clean my car weekly & I don't cheat on my husband...but thx 4 ur response.
@timemachine5494
@timemachine5494 5 жыл бұрын
Dude all this research for what?, to get more hurt, tbh I think you want her to cheat, you might have some fantasy as well. psychology states that all this research and some private time is going to make you go nuts. They are going to cheat no matter what, try to be the best version you can make ever, if mistakes were made, make sure its not coming back again. One more advice don't just try to use WIKIHOW.
@tabflint9660
@tabflint9660 5 жыл бұрын
Mrs Bryant if you wash your car every week that’s normal for you. I believe it’s for individuals that use that as an excessive excuse of whereabouts
@Purple_911
@Purple_911 6 жыл бұрын
This is absolutely amazing. I have goosebumps, tears, im standing for some reason, i havent blinked...
@sthokozoduma8002
@sthokozoduma8002 5 жыл бұрын
Me too
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@gunjandevi649 3 жыл бұрын
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@jamesdouglas2427
@jamesdouglas2427 5 жыл бұрын
she is my world my life and i love her more then anything. she cheated on me 3 times and lies. i dont trust her at all. everytime she leaves i worry where shes going whos shes with what shes doing. im going insane. im a good person and i deserve someone who doesnt cheat.
@sarambithi8564
@sarambithi8564 5 жыл бұрын
Get out
@monilove920
@monilove920 5 жыл бұрын
I'm on the same boat
@hovaallen8006
@hovaallen8006 5 жыл бұрын
james Douglas file for divorce take the kids and house and make her pay child support and alimony for hurting you
@michellenorman7798
@michellenorman7798 5 жыл бұрын
Yes you do.
@williamrobinson7555
@williamrobinson7555 5 жыл бұрын
Best thing to do is move on by leaving and never looking back
@larryhughes3971
@larryhughes3971 3 жыл бұрын
The best way to learn something about a person is to expose a fake one...i didnt think people like that existed..
@mgaddi
@mgaddi 4 жыл бұрын
Lastly, you may want to add how important that both unfaithful and betrayed have a support system (therapists don't count). Being alone on the journey to recovery is not a good thing.
@ضياءضياء-ش3ص5د
@ضياءضياء-ش3ص5د 2 жыл бұрын
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@friedrizzimmusoptic7673
@friedrizzimmusoptic7673 5 жыл бұрын
You hit the bulls eye there!
@chikamogbo
@chikamogbo 2 жыл бұрын
Truth!
@nunya257
@nunya257 5 жыл бұрын
Excellent video. Just subscribed.
@charlesolson5101
@charlesolson5101 6 жыл бұрын
One other mistake, 'don't hook up with the other once you've been outed'. Otherwise your relationship, if it isn't over, it might as well be.
@KR-ev5vd
@KR-ev5vd 5 жыл бұрын
Just happened to me
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@MdShamim-jp1zw 2 жыл бұрын
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@Purple_911
@Purple_911 6 жыл бұрын
Mr. Pettiford, I have watched hundreds of relationship videos but this one has given me the most valuable and helpful advice out of them all. Im in awe. Thank you so very much.
@CharlesINTEL
@CharlesINTEL 3 жыл бұрын
Totally agree. I watched others 2-3 times and I've replayed this one about xx times.
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@eyadmasry4883 2 жыл бұрын
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@teriawilliams3594
@teriawilliams3594 4 жыл бұрын
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@dr.c.d.3994 5 жыл бұрын
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@nelaswanjiru1209
@nelaswanjiru1209 Жыл бұрын
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@gorgeouswales9635
@gorgeouswales9635 4 жыл бұрын
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@kristine8338
@kristine8338 5 жыл бұрын
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@nunya257
@nunya257 5 жыл бұрын
Other reasons people lie: They’re cowards. They want to avoid confrontation because they know they are in the wrong. They want to avoid confrontation because they are so emotionally stunted that they can’t have a mature conversation about tough topics. They are selfish and want whatever is easiest for themselves. I will never again tolerate a liar. I can finally say that with full confidence.
@jonathangrabban912
@jonathangrabban912 4 жыл бұрын
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@WilliamGMedinaGIO
@WilliamGMedinaGIO 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. I'm in the middle of a divorce because my wife cheated on me. I'm not interested in maintaining a marriage with her, she messed up bigtime. She's trying to not answer my questions and hangs up on me when I ask her questions about what happened. I've decided I don't care anymore and I'm just ready to find a better woman than her. She didn't exactly set the bar too high, so it shouldn't be too hard to find a decent woman. Again, thanks for the video, you provided some sort of closure that my ex-wife didn't want to help me with. Keep up the great work.
@dwdw9325
@dwdw9325 5 жыл бұрын
William G. Medina I truly understand William, my husband doing the same thing and I just want to find a great man and be happy.
@redmarilynn
@redmarilynn 5 жыл бұрын
William G Medina... Did you find your soulmate? I hope so. If not, you go for it and much good luck! I hope you found/find a beautiful person inside and out and love and happiness.
@dwdw9325
@dwdw9325 5 жыл бұрын
@@redmarilynn no I haven't just living my life. Yourself
@redmarilynn
@redmarilynn 5 жыл бұрын
@@dwdw9325 Well, I hope you do one day. As for me, I thought I'd found true love but after 7 mths found out he isn't so true. I know I have to break it off but so difficult when you love someone so much. It hurts like crazy.
@dwdw9325
@dwdw9325 5 жыл бұрын
@@redmarilynn after being with a narcissist breaking up is not so hard to do anymore. No your worth and most importantly never dishonor yourself. Stay true to self cuz GOD knows the truth. Stay in touch Bluebel.
@jeanettedavis4240
@jeanettedavis4240 5 жыл бұрын
Where were you when my husband cheated on me. You walked me though that hurt beautifully. I left i could not take anymore, my husband was a liar. Thank you
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@pl3a8a
@pl3a8a 5 жыл бұрын
he did it and exhibit every single points mentioned in the video... It's still so hurtful until this day T_T. I don't understand why he had to give up on an almost 12 years long relationship... rather than pulling me even closer to him and man up to face any issue together with me... it's just very heartbroken 1. Not Supporting Your Partner's Recovery 2. Leaking Out Information Over Time 3. Being Defensive 4. Believing Everything The Hurt Partner Says 5. Defending The Affair Partner 6. Avoiding Talking About Your Partner's Feeling 7. Pointing Out The Flaws Of Your Partner 8. Continuing To Tell Lies 9. Not Answering All Your Partner's Questions 10. Not Keeping Your Commitment/Agreement To Your Partner
@jonathangrabban912
@jonathangrabban912 4 жыл бұрын
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@nileshsingh295 2 жыл бұрын
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@gegobless1
@gegobless1 5 жыл бұрын
Love brings respect , and if a person has no respect for you then they have no problem cheating. It’s human nature.
@meehmeeh2969
@meehmeeh2969 6 жыл бұрын
You hit every point Correct
@Webbgurl2000
@Webbgurl2000 6 жыл бұрын
Trickle Truth gives you Trickle Trust. How can the Betrayed Spouse forgive you and you tell part of the truth and sometime later some more “truth.” After awhile of this, The Betrayed Spouse May Never Believe the Unfaithful is even capable of telling the truth much less changing. So go ahead, you’ve cheated and lied now you want to control the outcome. Should’ve thought about that before lying and cheating.
@themusicpolice5269
@themusicpolice5269 6 жыл бұрын
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@originalceo
@originalceo 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I'm thinking whose side is this guy on?!? Amazing how ppl who cheat forget your rights on them whilst cheating but after will try and claim their rights expectations and demands on you...... Oh no.... Well said sis
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@mostthegames3723 5 жыл бұрын
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@stephanieduncan9023 5 жыл бұрын
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@kirandevi7923 4 жыл бұрын
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@keyannamcgowan8700
@keyannamcgowan8700 5 жыл бұрын
Facts... He does not get it so I don't say much and care less.
@goldeylockss
@goldeylockss 5 жыл бұрын
If he gets in a random mad anger and hits you? Is he guilty or mad because u are falsely accusing him? He say he mad I'm accusing him.
@esthercomice
@esthercomice 5 ай бұрын
This helped me so much ❤
@pb5038
@pb5038 6 жыл бұрын
Nice video. The best way to avoid it: Don't start it. If you think about doing it ask the question: after that act, then what.
@jonathangrabban912
@jonathangrabban912 4 жыл бұрын
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@guchi65ify 6 жыл бұрын
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@jonathangrabban912 4 жыл бұрын
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@buenohombre3333
@buenohombre3333 Жыл бұрын
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@dingcalma54
@dingcalma54 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video. This is a big help for me.
@aaryanroy1751
@aaryanroy1751 2 жыл бұрын
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@omarkoubeah8791
@omarkoubeah8791 3 жыл бұрын
This is a perfect explanation to cheaters way of telling lies, thank you for confirming my thoughts ......
@alexhutchesion4562
@alexhutchesion4562 5 жыл бұрын
I need to hear this... My wfe is doin all this damn thigs .. excellent content brother... It open more my mind with whar i dealing with THANKS
@karrenmadrid4307
@karrenmadrid4307 5 жыл бұрын
you really nailed it. Everything you have mentioned is so clear and true, I hope my husband could see this, because I am so hurting until now because of his consistent denial and lying.
@meenmeen1578
@meenmeen1578 3 жыл бұрын
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@meenmeen1578
@meenmeen1578 3 жыл бұрын
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@hamisjkkkly4189
@hamisjkkkly4189 2 жыл бұрын
@@meenmeen1578 ؤصصصصصصؤ2ض٢
@prafullakolhapure872
@prafullakolhapure872 2 жыл бұрын
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@keisharoach185
@keisharoach185 5 жыл бұрын
Best advice I heard
@annahkimani344
@annahkimani344 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this vedio,that is what am going through after my husband cheated on me more than twice.
@stephaniewillis1816
@stephaniewillis1816 5 жыл бұрын
I was wired to know and God showed me more than I ever wanted I know. He’s still doing all this back peddling. Lying, deceitful calling me his friend to his “friends”. We were all being played.
@milomazli
@milomazli 6 жыл бұрын
Amazing video! Thank you so much! For me, who is going through this right now... this was very valuable to hear!
@freethinker7832
@freethinker7832 4 жыл бұрын
Since your comment is over a year ago....are you still in the same relationship? I'm going through it right now..... I'm crushed inside but I'm trying to work it out because I have three little girls and I don't want to put them through this . I'm just curious how things are working out for you? Thanks
@gangadhardalaidhar6423
@gangadhardalaidhar6423 2 жыл бұрын
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@gangadhardalaidhar6423
@gangadhardalaidhar6423 2 жыл бұрын
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@doecolorado
@doecolorado 6 жыл бұрын
You have to be a REAL man to take 100 percent responsibility for being unfaithful. In this day and age few will step up to the plate .
@kattorre522
@kattorre522 6 жыл бұрын
doecolorado not only a real man, this goes both ways.
@themusicpolice5269
@themusicpolice5269 6 жыл бұрын
or woman, !!!!!!
@erikasolorioo8302
@erikasolorioo8302 5 жыл бұрын
doecolorado fr my partner was trying to blame me for it like really bitch I didn’t put a gun to your head and said cheat
@justme-rt2cc
@justme-rt2cc 5 жыл бұрын
No actually it takes a real man or woman to be faithful
@cacheofchetoonz
@cacheofchetoonz 5 жыл бұрын
but women NO WOMAN Takes responsibility for cheating, they ALL have the same WEAK ASS EXCUSE......U WERNT THERE FOR ME,AND HE WAS....CORNY AS FUCK...LOL THE PROGRAMING IS REAL
@melina1337
@melina1337 5 жыл бұрын
this man is so on point about everything
@vive-ama-suena4367
@vive-ama-suena4367 6 жыл бұрын
I wish I had found you before, my relationship is a mess due to all you have mentioned!
@MrsBryant1024
@MrsBryant1024 6 жыл бұрын
Did you cheat?
@backup4490
@backup4490 4 жыл бұрын
My wife chead Ang got pregnant and we have three kids together we been married for 13 years and left me for the man she cheated with and moved him in the house with my kids with. No remorse I'm so heart about this we are still married what do I need to do I can't stop thinking about this I'm so heart I never cheated on her I all ways been fatiful she's happy
@هشامالضبع-م4ص
@هشامالضبع-م4ص 2 жыл бұрын
عهعععغغفض
@amitpatil3818
@amitpatil3818 2 жыл бұрын
Yhhhi
@amandasmith8327
@amandasmith8327 6 жыл бұрын
This was good info. Thank you
@SH-ux5ij
@SH-ux5ij 6 жыл бұрын
Find out What is causing YOUR partner to need Someone else ,could it be BECAUSE YOU ARE lacking In showing affection for YOUR partner AND I wish you people would give it a rest, YOU can't judge Until YOU walk in THAT person shoes
@jonathangrabban912
@jonathangrabban912 4 жыл бұрын
If you suspect your partner's sincerity and you have to confirm whether or not he or she is cheating, especially if you have a distant relationship, I recommend you send email to info@spymie.com. You can also check out their website at www.spymie.com. They can hack Whatsapp, Instagram and any other social network by cloning his/her phone. They also do other type of hack like university grade hack, Gmail, Yahoo mail hack, wiping/upgrading of credit score and any other type of hack. Their services are trusted and guaranteed also affordable. Have a nice day.
@teachersikhumbuzomoyo5419
@teachersikhumbuzomoyo5419 5 жыл бұрын
Getting to know you now...! How is sexual starving dealt with?
@JulandaHarases
@JulandaHarases 5 жыл бұрын
Teacher Sikhumbuzo Moyo I’d like to know about this too
@teachersikhumbuzomoyo5419
@teachersikhumbuzomoyo5419 5 жыл бұрын
Yep someone help
@Jules-zn2bo
@Jules-zn2bo 5 жыл бұрын
I just wanted to say, you're the only other Julanda I've ever met!😍
@teachersikhumbuzomoyo5419
@teachersikhumbuzomoyo5419 5 жыл бұрын
@@Jules-zn2bo meaning?
@Jules-zn2bo
@Jules-zn2bo 5 жыл бұрын
@@teachersikhumbuzomoyo5419 sorry, I was replying to Julanda
@jenniferc3165
@jenniferc3165 6 жыл бұрын
So True!!!
@ec6166
@ec6166 5 жыл бұрын
Honesty will usher in the healing process. Until there is total disclosure, trust cannot be rebuilt.
@istekaralu6107
@istekaralu6107 3 жыл бұрын
Uyyuý
@anandmanisemwal5423
@anandmanisemwal5423 3 жыл бұрын
@@istekaralu6107 Ki
@ianlaing8065
@ianlaing8065 5 жыл бұрын
Number 2killed me. They underestimated him leaking info playing games not realising they were playing with my life. ;-(
@jovelynlucera7489
@jovelynlucera7489 3 жыл бұрын
. Swap U 653109 If mk
@mojabid3811
@mojabid3811 3 жыл бұрын
is a I ie
@mojabid3811
@mojabid3811 3 жыл бұрын
Honor and
@awomansstory.2019
@awomansstory.2019 2 жыл бұрын
Almost 3 years past my D Day. It still hurts like heck.
@katrinagarnett3256
@katrinagarnett3256 Жыл бұрын
Did you ever go to counseling?
@lisalee2885
@lisalee2885 5 жыл бұрын
I had a boyfriend whom I broke up with cuz he cheated. Then he came back to try AND wanted to keep the girl he cheated with as a friend.
@mrs.mitchell4951
@mrs.mitchell4951 5 жыл бұрын
Same here....im like yeah right
@sonicfoxxmusic4281
@sonicfoxxmusic4281 5 жыл бұрын
"HA HA HA HA HA...HA HA HA HA....HA HA HA HA HA HA....... ....NO F*CKING WAY...and THERE'S THE DOOR YOU FOOLISH DUDE"..... This should be a standard answer...in the Dictionary.
@tpradhan6379
@tpradhan6379 Жыл бұрын
@@sonicfoxxmusic4281 ĺ1
@Abrilgee
@Abrilgee Жыл бұрын
Yup that’s my exact situation rn. I have kids so I’m trying for them but I can’t trust him and I think imma fall out of love or just be too hurt to fix this since he still talking to her as a friend 😒
@lisalee2885
@lisalee2885 Жыл бұрын
@@Abrilgee I understand you have kids....how about showing them what Love looks like. Having their dad there just shows what your version of love is..distant, cold, tension and suspicion. I'm a single parent and glad my kids didn't grow up in that yucky feeling. Love you...do it for you and your peace of mind 👍👍
@omeccaasep8045
@omeccaasep8045 5 жыл бұрын
Now I see how smart you are do you do lectures or treatments in New York?
@faithhope4701
@faithhope4701 6 жыл бұрын
Best information I’ve ever heard on this issue!
@jonathangrabban912
@jonathangrabban912 4 жыл бұрын
If you suspect your partner's sincerity and you have to confirm whether or not he or she is cheating, especially if you have a distant relationship, I recommend you send email to info@spymie.com. You can also check out their website at www.spymie.com. They can hack Whatsapp, Instagram and any other social network by cloning his/her phone. They also do other type of hack like university grade hack, Gmail, Yahoo mail hack, wiping/upgrading of credit score and any other type of hack. Their services are trusted and guaranteed also affordable. Have a nice day.
@ادهمنور-ط8ظ
@ادهمنور-ط8ظ 3 жыл бұрын
ض11ضذشض
@dhanrajkumar2819
@dhanrajkumar2819 3 жыл бұрын
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@rehalreallife872
@rehalreallife872 3 жыл бұрын
Nice bro
@cutiesweedee
@cutiesweedee 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video. You make me feel so much better already just knowing someone there read my broken heart.
@adamtaylor7412
@adamtaylor7412 5 жыл бұрын
Wow, this video is spot on, well done Sir.
@MdSohag-ee7wi
@MdSohag-ee7wi 3 жыл бұрын
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@andranise90
@andranise90 6 жыл бұрын
This video has is what I needed.
@iloverevaughn1
@iloverevaughn1 6 жыл бұрын
What do I do when my husband want give up his best female friend. That he is in love with. We separated for two months. Because of this. He came back it's been 1yr n 3 months now he back sneeking and talk to her on a phone he as hided in his car.
@Mtwoody957
@Mtwoody957 6 жыл бұрын
The reason you're excepting this is because you dont value yourself enough to be with someone that chooses you. You should be with someone who loves you and will always choose you above anyone else. He just doesn't want to be alone. Stop excepting this behavior. You're beautiful, smart and caring. Don't sell the love you deserve short. Moving on is more difficult than anyone will ever understand. But it's worth it after you heal.
@MrsBryant1024
@MrsBryant1024 6 жыл бұрын
Why did you marry him knowing he has a female best friend? Idk if I could deal with that... He's gotta let that friendship go if it makes you feel uncomfortable. If he's not willing you may have to walk away. I know, harder said than done. But with prayer you can do it. Best of luck to you...
@cryan1287
@cryan1287 5 жыл бұрын
If he's choosing someone over you male or female that isn't acceptable. You deserve better girl.
@stephanieduncan9023
@stephanieduncan9023 5 жыл бұрын
Lies and Infidelity is a very serious issue to deal with and it has become a major threat to most marriages and relationships.Scars left behind from a narcissist husband is hard to erase from the mind. I was reluctant at first about finding the truth about my cheating husband but I’m glad I finally took the courage for it .I got help from Cyber Hack Solutions as he helped cloned my cheating husband’s phone and I got access to all his phone call logs, emails, text messages both deleted texts and also social media chats; whatsApp , Facebook, Instagram without having access to his phone because he is mostly out of town due to the nature of his work , all I provided was his phone number to this wonderful hacker. This was very revealing for me as he’s a serial cheater until I got into his phone and ended things.I’m glad to uncover his, lies, secrets and Infidelity. You can contact this great Hacker David via gmail (cyberhack003) or text and speak to him directly on his phone and WhatsApp : +15303784744
@ameeralmeer9487
@ameeralmeer9487 2 жыл бұрын
@@Mtwoody957 ض
@spabitc7357
@spabitc7357 4 жыл бұрын
What bothers me the most as the betrayer is that it seems that some therapists give the betrayed a carte blanche to shame and gas light the betrayer. If the betrayed is still angry after 5 months, they need to suggest options for them. I was pushed away and not allowed to have a support system, whether it was my best friend or close friends. I was made to live in a box and when I told my ex that I am being pushed away, I was called a sensitive p***y! You can't force the betrayer to push their feelings aside through the recovery process, it will not make them want to fix the relationship. We are both hurting and need to take the walk together to healing.
@djeson214
@djeson214 8 ай бұрын
Wow! Deep!
@titaandaya9677
@titaandaya9677 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing the most important things that both partners must to compliment each other.
@linettathomas6932
@linettathomas6932 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for that information I really needed to hear that I'm going true a simpler situation as we speak and everything that you said is food for thought knowledge is power
@syedjaleelBukhari
@syedjaleelBukhari Жыл бұрын
Good 👍
@backup4490
@backup4490 4 жыл бұрын
Please help me
@anitaharrell1399
@anitaharrell1399 5 жыл бұрын
what if the unfaithful partner says it wasn't anything?
@mljrotag6343
@mljrotag6343 4 жыл бұрын
I'd leave and say it isn't anything.
@naomifavor2887
@naomifavor2887 3 жыл бұрын
My husband cheated severaly with different women , became defensive denied never discussed it with me but went to comfort affair the partner because I confronted her .my hubby went to gossip me. I was so hurt after one year waiting for him to remorseful I discovered other affairs 2 months ago I quoted the marriage and blocked him now am no contact
@carlmarch9591
@carlmarch9591 5 жыл бұрын
Great vid makes total sense 👍
@mrwill1779
@mrwill1779 5 жыл бұрын
They cheat because their heart led them to sin against their spouse...I thought about reconciliation but when saw the repetitive compulsive lying ,i told myself it's not worth perusing...everything he said reminds me of my ex-wife
@skalip2515
@skalip2515 3 жыл бұрын
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@AshaYadav-li4ei
@AshaYadav-li4ei Жыл бұрын
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@rosecucina9005
@rosecucina9005 6 жыл бұрын
I’m crying while watching😭😭😭 hope he can hear this 😄
@mrs.mitchell4951
@mrs.mitchell4951 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah me too
@KR-ev5vd
@KR-ev5vd 5 жыл бұрын
Me too, worst pain ever
@monilove920
@monilove920 5 жыл бұрын
Same here
@ladyfree3492
@ladyfree3492 5 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@kafuikadijah9867
@kafuikadijah9867 5 жыл бұрын
Is the worse pain anyone can go through.
@DDavis-mi2cg
@DDavis-mi2cg 6 жыл бұрын
Brother you are sharp. Great video.
@travispowers1704
@travispowers1704 6 жыл бұрын
Wow, these videos are great. My Wife has been unfaithful. We are separated and I have been having difficulties in trusting her with the children for the consistent lies and deceiving. She just deceived me about her new boyfriend now living with her and being alone with the children while they are visiting. We're not even divorced and guess no longer going to need to worry about making the effort to rebuild. But these video's really explains and helps with me understanding the mistakes she is making and the ones that I make, and am sure will make. Yet, blaming me for not trusting her does not help and I have not yet been able to help her understand why I am not trusting.
@cryan1287
@cryan1287 5 жыл бұрын
I am not sure what your wife is like, but to say you can't trust her making decisions for your children based on what she did to you is not right. If she has given you reason to question her parenting prior to then sure, but if not then you really have to let that be. I know it hurts but if she's moved on you deserve better
@stephanieduncan9023
@stephanieduncan9023 5 жыл бұрын
Lies and Infidelity is a very serious issue to deal with and it has become a major threat to most marriages and relationships.Scars left behind from a narcissist husband is hard to erase from the mind. I was reluctant at first about finding the truth about my cheating husband but I’m glad I finally took the courage for it .I got help from Cyber Hack Solutions as he helped cloned my cheating husband’s phone and I got access to all his phone call logs, emails, text messages both deleted texts and also social media chats; whatsApp , Facebook, Instagram without having access to his phone because he is mostly out of town due to the nature of his work , all I provided was his phone number to this wonderful hacker. This was very revealing for me as he’s a serial cheater until I got into his phone and ended things.I’m glad to uncover his, lies, secrets and Infidelity. You can contact this great Hacker David via gmail (cyberhack003) or text and speak to him directly on his phone and WhatsApp : +15303784744
@bokim1061
@bokim1061 5 жыл бұрын
Thank u for the video. U are very good.
@MoDarkNFine
@MoDarkNFine 6 жыл бұрын
This is very informative! Thank you so much!
@jonathangrabban912
@jonathangrabban912 4 жыл бұрын
If you suspect your partner's sincerity and you have to confirm whether or not he or she is cheating, especially if you have a distant relationship, I recommend you send email to info@spymie.com. You can also check out their website at www.spymie.com. They can hack Whatsapp, Instagram and any other social network by cloning his/her phone. They also do other type of hack like university grade hack, Gmail, Yahoo mail hack, wiping/upgrading of credit score and any other type of hack. Their services are trusted and guaranteed also affordable. Have a nice day.
@ali-es2ye
@ali-es2ye 5 жыл бұрын
Nope, not the phone. The liar would love that. Spent 9 months with 8 completely different versions unrelated. Glad he didn’t have the first lies recorded...
@youwearitsowell
@youwearitsowell 6 жыл бұрын
Really great and informative video. Thank you!!
@qwertuiobbv3360
@qwertuiobbv3360 3 жыл бұрын
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@rameshworthapa2041 3 жыл бұрын
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@oyirpaboh583 3 жыл бұрын
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@prophetshepherdbushiri5395
@prophetshepherdbushiri5395 3 жыл бұрын
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@prophetshepherdbushiri5395
@prophetshepherdbushiri5395 3 жыл бұрын
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@olivagarciasalazar3381
@olivagarciasalazar3381 Жыл бұрын
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@cesgenato179
@cesgenato179 3 жыл бұрын
Not KEEPING
@sianmegginson8110
@sianmegginson8110 5 жыл бұрын
Anyone who cheats mean they dont love you enough The unfaithful partners are playing a psychological TA game called 'kick me'. they enjoy being punished as all behaviour has a payoff.
@حموديالجبوري-ق4ت4ر
@حموديالجبوري-ق4ت4ر 2 жыл бұрын
يصص يا سسيبڛلآ
@cjjohnyvlog5147
@cjjohnyvlog5147 2 жыл бұрын
Nice 👍👍
@valarieford8417
@valarieford8417 5 жыл бұрын
Some people don't need to be in relationships
@florexil1
@florexil1 6 жыл бұрын
Very informative.
@lifetips6757
@lifetips6757 5 жыл бұрын
Love this video 🌺🌺He is amazing
@sylsyl2745
@sylsyl2745 6 жыл бұрын
So on point
@purplemoon3264
@purplemoon3264 5 жыл бұрын
I understand being unfaithful was wrong, however why is it no one looks at some of the things that may have happened in the marriage that contributed to me taking this action in the first place. I was hurt by things my husband had done including ridicule, abandonment, psychological abuse. Why is it ok for him to be even more abusive after he found out, “even though it’s just a reaction to what I did. Me having an affair was “just” a reaction to all the things he did up to this point in our marriage. Since when is abuse considered to be not as big of a deal as having an affair. There needs to be some serious rethinking on this subject. Not everything is so cut and dry.
@gdolphy
@gdolphy 5 жыл бұрын
Because it's easier to rally people behind "cheating" and emotional decisions. When you ask people to look into contributing factors they have to think. It may also reveal their own issues. Not many really care for why things happen, they rather find who is at fault and will go for the most easily identifiable situation that makes them appear in good light.
@gdolphy
@gdolphy 5 жыл бұрын
If you were someone who did do this "cheating" then be very carefull as there are those who have done other "bad things" and will harp on the chance to focus all attention on you to make you the "bad one" to make a power move on your mental.
@rayofirst8885
@rayofirst8885 5 жыл бұрын
No excuse to cheat...leave if you are unhappy...
@stephanieduncan9023
@stephanieduncan9023 5 жыл бұрын
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@mljrotag6343
@mljrotag6343 4 жыл бұрын
If what you are saying is true it sounds like a very unhealthy relationship. You need to leave those relationships, not cheat. That is never the solution.
@-SimonRiley
@-SimonRiley 2 жыл бұрын
I don't know why I feel this is important even tho I am just 15 lol
@blankbear782
@blankbear782 Жыл бұрын
But best to knowledge these before you get in relationship even you realise it late
@engkayrokayah8572
@engkayrokayah8572 Жыл бұрын
Aaaaaaaaaaav
@MackDeville
@MackDeville 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@fastvmax1
@fastvmax1 6 жыл бұрын
Very well said. All points are very accurate.
@aschlamishowsup
@aschlamishowsup 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, sir.
@theresakeys1660
@theresakeys1660 5 жыл бұрын
👍👍👍👐👏👐👏👐🙏 Mr. Pettiford!!
@TeddieBear1968
@TeddieBear1968 5 жыл бұрын
So on point..said so well
@terrywade3696
@terrywade3696 3 жыл бұрын
1) Not supporting your partner’s recovery 2) Don’t leak out information over time. Give full disclosure all at once 3) Don’t be defensive 4) Don’t pay attention to every hurtful thing the betrayed says 5) Don’t defend the affair partner 6) Don’t avoid talking with the betrayed partner about their feelings 7) Don’t point out the flaws of the betrayed or the marriage as a reason for the betrayal 8) Don’t continue to lie about anything 9) Not answering all of the betrayed’s questions 10) Not keeping your promises or agreements with your betrayed partner During our recovery process, my unfaithful husband did all these destructive things ( I was going to say except #5) but in his omissions and drip feeding the truth, continuing to keep secrets also is a form of defending his affair partner! It not only protects him from “fallout”, but her too! Because of his continued unsafe behaviors, we’re now in the 4th year of our recovery! Nothing is moving forward at a healthy pace. The longer this drags out, it causes me more pain, more disillusionment & the more I’m inclined to getting a divorce. We’re now in our 33rd year of marriage and in our 60’s & don’t have a lot of years left to save our marriage. So, unfaithfuls, if you want to save your marriage and speed the process up, LISTEN TO HASANI and DON’T DO THESE 10 THINGS! If you still love your wife, help her heal by OWNING what you’ve done, focus on the total destruction of her life that you caused & develop real remorse and real compassion and work on your integrity, become trustworthy again, do whatever she needs to heal! Make amends, make restitution, pursue her consistently, make earnest apologies, be accountable for your time, become dependable, make her your priority! You ran over her with a Mac truck, left her bleeding and dying on the side of the road for dead with your affair. You destroyed her reality. You stole her choices just to build your ego! You betrayed her trust in the one person she loved & believed would never hurt her! If she’s still trying to save the marriage, count yourself blessed and learn to measure up! YOU MUST TAKE ACTION NOW! This is your ONLY chance to win her back! If you don’t value her, then leave & stop hurting her with your BS! If you don’t value how much she loves you, then you don’t deserve her.
@pratap251
@pratap251 2 жыл бұрын
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@اميرامير-ش9ك4ر
@اميرامير-ش9ك4ر 2 жыл бұрын
تالاعععص
@SaystheTruth3
@SaystheTruth3 2 жыл бұрын
🙄
@mljrotag6343
@mljrotag6343 4 жыл бұрын
The problem with recording the conversation is it facilitates and therefore encourages trickle truething. The cheater does not have to consider what lie or omission they may have already told the betrayed partner.
@priscillaroberts46
@priscillaroberts46 4 жыл бұрын
I cheated and am not proud of it just recently, and the info is very useful. I hope to get back together and he will trust me again
@MrsBryant1024
@MrsBryant1024 6 жыл бұрын
1st mistake. Being unfaithful to begin with😳
@amybattles8561
@amybattles8561 5 жыл бұрын
Amen!!!!
@frankwhite1290
@frankwhite1290 5 жыл бұрын
PREACH!!!
@pamelaclary5869
@pamelaclary5869 5 жыл бұрын
Dee Dee never believe it’s a mistake. An unfaithful partner is already aware of what he or she is about to do. If they make plans to meet up with someone else it’s not a mistake it’s planned. The only mistake is being caught.
@emokiriemiabednegoabed2844
@emokiriemiabednegoabed2844 5 жыл бұрын
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@taniachara77
@taniachara77 5 жыл бұрын
Mrs Bryant Exactly. That’s the only mistake.
@RedVelvet236
@RedVelvet236 3 жыл бұрын
Wow, this was powerful! Thank you so much for this vital information Hasani.
@MO-zl6xj
@MO-zl6xj 4 жыл бұрын
OMG! So true. All of them
@cesgenato179
@cesgenato179 3 жыл бұрын
Leaking out
@damnatiomemoriae1894
@damnatiomemoriae1894 5 жыл бұрын
That's a nice sweater
@nadzalln
@nadzalln 5 жыл бұрын
The accuracy! Sad anyone has to go thru betrayal.
@SunilKumar-um4sy
@SunilKumar-um4sy 2 жыл бұрын
I see Dr he
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