18 Reasons WHY Rebound Relationships FAIL!

Rebound Relationships fail because they are built on false foundations and expectations.
People in rebound tend to think they should be able to escape the pain and loneliness caused by a break-up and use someone else as an emotional crutch until they can move on again.
In this video, you will find 18 reasons why rebound relationships will always fail!
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#rebound_relationship #cheating #monkey_branching

[@victoribanez7154]

"be better for your next relationship"

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

@@victoribanez7154 amen to that!

[@millyardopeacecraft9778]

Never take back an ex after they have slept with someone else.

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

@@millyardopeacecraft9778 hell no!!!!

[@revrevvonvon123]

never ever take them back again, know your value and respect yourself

[@Realmccoy-wb1sx]

Nope but you could have sex again with them once and be a porn star than just stop talking to them again lol!

[@bodhi9464]

💯

[@golf1diesel]

@@millyardopeacecraft9778 mine kissed her coworker at a movie while i was abroad studying. Long story short she keeps reaching out now pretending it doesn't matter and they are just friends. After she wrote the email she put a nice picture of her on Whatsapp after dying her hair. It won't work anymore with me. Guess what, haven't replied to her since our final breakup, 3rd of July.

[@brendadean9291]

You gave 18 reasons and every single one was correct. The rebound relationship lasted for about 4 years. They had a son. But I divorced my ex husband as soon as we separated. I knew I would never want him back. But I did not want to remarry either. I moved on with my life and raised 2 wonderful sons. He was a good father.

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

I’m so happy to hear that my friend thank you so much for sharing because it helps and inspire others, stay blessed 😇 🙏🏽

[@VictoriaHannah-xx1qe]

Why ex boyfriend want me back I am so happy

[@Flufero23]

OMG. Best video on the subject. I was monkey branched after a four -year mostly good relationship with a fearful avoidant. I am secure. He was aided by her family and couldn’t say no. He wanted to remain friends. I said “Nope”!! and let him go without a test. No questions, no complaints. I wished him well and walked away. NC forever for me. I deserve better. There are mature ways to end a relationship He chose the blindside. I am happier now without him. I am healing and becoming the best version of myself.

[@Flufero23]

Without a”tear”.

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

Thank you so much for you kind words and for sharing your experience! This is so valuable !!!

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

🙏🏽

[@Randallmaultsby]

My ex came baby while still in the rebound relationship an she wanna to chat in her new relationship now she pregnant by the new guy an still going out with her friends

[@Flufero23]

You are welcome.🙏💕

[@joeydrakeward4077]

Best video about rebound relationships I’ve seen so far. I’m currently in the thick of something uncomfortable at work. There was at least a 2 month build up before we went for it. Even though it only lasted a month we couldn’t agree on certain things, She went right for another coworker. Unattractive guy. Desperate guy. He had no place to live, so he had to move in with her within 3 weeks of dating. Showing off their new relationship at work. Absolutely codependent of each other. Her and I were the complete opposite together. If she walks by, he literally comes running.

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

Thank you so much for you kind words! Her relationship will fall apart quicker than you think :)

[@TamaraMilam]

Great video, my ex laughed when i shared that he was in a rebound and takes her where "we" used to go, or flaunts her in my face, all the things explained here...

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

Of course, your ex would laugh at that. He does not understand how this works. Just sit back relax grab some popcorn and watch the train wreck!

[@gabrieldimancea7065]

Really the best clip so far about rebound/monkey branching psychology why it wouldn't work out . Your clip helped me a lot. Thank you !

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

Thank you so much, Glad it helped! Please let me know what kind of contact you would like to see on my channel, I’m here to serve you 🙏🏽

[@CitiesOfAsh]

A cheating woman is the most disgusting thing in my eyes, my body physically recoils if im around a cheating partner or ex.

[@adimasturd]

Is rebound cheating?

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

No, monkey branching is cheating. Rebon relationship means that your ex got into another relationship AFTER the break up.

[@JEMANF]

agreed and same here

[@lover3308]

A cheating man is just as disgusting 🤮

[@Cornelius1212]

Best video I've seen about Rebound-relationships :)

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

Thank you so much brother! I did my best to cover EVERYTHING, glad it came through 🙏🏽

[@Angel-lm6cj]

Best video i ve seen. I like it a lot. Thank you so much. Good information. Especially when you said that if your ex kisses or sleeps with that new person.Not to take him back. A month ago my boyfriend of 10 years left me for a 21 year old cheated on me hurt me so much in so many ways. I hope they are never happy. They don’t deserve it. God don’t bless a relationship based on when you hurt other people and I really hope they dont stay together.

[@hanyyusof653]

The best video ever. After 2/3 months he went out with another girl. And what gives me the ick is that she is his distant cousin & she likes him so much 😂 having the same name as me and might be another version of me. And i knew from her recent tweet that she is also going through a breakup before being with my ex. So that really shows she is my ex first option. For me its quite hard to move on as we’re classmates but he blocked me everywhere. But i am trying my best to look good everyday and focus in class and trying to make him see that i have new goals.

[@dariussackor8440]

I appreciate the advice, Iam going through exactly what you just digested

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

Thank you my friend, it’s not an easy journey, but when you’re going through it correctly, you become SO MUCH BETTER! in all areas of life 💯

[@Brittaba]

Amazing. Loved this video. Great work. I feel so much better.

[@aireenvallesfin3125]

I really need this .thanks..it helps a lot...

[@devii5728]

He was my first love and I was just a rebound for him. It hurts like a truck crash

[@SpyOnDeck]

🙏

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

We can all feel your pain, my friend. because we’ve all been there! first heartbreak is the most painful. You will get through it I know you will, and we are all here to support you🙏🏽🤍

[@thatsmysherman]

If I would have known earlier that I was a rebound, I would have taken things a lot slower with him and asked tons of questions. Number 6 was downfall of our relationship. After being loved-bombed by him for three months , he broke up with me (last month) and ran back to his ex-fiance/husband (whatever they were). I'm not sure who reached out to who, however he did tell me when it happened which was a week or so before we broke up. After doing some digging, I estimate that he was broken up with him for roughly 3 months before he met me.

[@princeofsaiyans1076]

Loving your channel man 🔥 keep up the great work 💪

[@gabrielalomelicasanova6595]

Amazing video!!! Thank you!!!

[@bodhi9464]

G’day Coach Paz. 18 months after (11 year r’ship); thank goodness we were never married or lived together. had many overseas and travel adventures together. long story short ~ abrupt ending which tells me she’d prepared her exit and then dumped me. I trained incredibly hard (er) than what I was already doing (watched all Tate’s videos). Still took its toll on me as I did it all alone. The journey has been a head f&:k, but I’ve now been watching your videos realising many truths. Much appreciated. Sub’d. ☀️🏄‍♂️🏄‍♂️🏄‍♂️💦✌🏽😎🇦🇺

[@sandrabell1999]

Best video I have seen....my EX was loolking for help not love....6 mos after our break up...he moved in an ex Tennant who rented from him &exwife....I predicted that he would would perue her and he did....she was looking for a place to rent in town and of course HE had the place(her need) and he now has an income w a relationship...too! Yr video validation as he said right to my face...he won't change A bit Narcissistic imho Thks again ..excellent video!

[@inuvik491]

Really nice content,answered a lot of questions .

[@sheenam5743]

I have been married to my husband for 18 years and we were together for 25. He left me for a coworker, said he hasn’t loved me for years. He was good at pretending to love me. He has known this woman for years and immediately moved in with her. Makes me think he actually is happier with her because he stopped loving me a long time ago and did get to know her over time. I am crushed, I never saw this coming, so much pain.

[@cerico76]

I am with you in this, kind of same story. 4 months are past for me, I started now to understand that she (in my case) won’t come back. Let her go is the only thing I can really do for myself, it is tough but I / We must do that. Become a better person for us, focus on us, live for us,, not for someone else. Let them live with the pain that they caused us, not the opposite.

[@Champman543]

Funny the thing that you mentioned about engagement. I was engaged with my fiancé that left me. She met a dude 2-3 weeks after separation, one of the first things that she said to me was that he immediately spoke about how much he wanted to marry her😂😂 Of course she fell for it.

[@sgood1995]

How is it going now pal?

[@Champman543]

​@sgood1995 Well, actually, I've had a bit of a relapse over the last few days. But I'm doing much better now. It's been six months since the breakup, and I have a new job that I like. I'm working out and spending my time improving myself by reading a lot of psychology and philosophy and going to therapy. Some days are still hard, though, and sometimes anger and disappointment resurface. I don't know what my ex is doing, and I don't stalk her. I assume she is still with her rebound.

[@Shakafashion-u9i]

My boyfriend of three years cheated on me and has left me soo broken hearted... now he's bread crumbing me and I do want him back!!...how sick is that... now I know my self esteem is at rock bottom for wanting the decieptful bastard back!!...why did I attract Betrayal??❤🎄

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

He didn’t really do anything to attract it, but you did allow it to happen. I will make a video for you on this specific topic in the next few days, as I want to give you a more elaborate perspective.

[@recoveringsoul755]

Actually they often DO work. Men who lose a spouse especially, are known for either dying within months of their spouse. Or, they get into a new relationship in weeks or months. And stay together long term. You're speaking as a young person with options. Some rebound with someone they knew in their past.

[@kaylarose3833]

Best video about this topic!

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

@@kaylarose3833 thank you for your acknowledgment, my friend 🙏🏽🤍

[@kaylarose3833]

@@PazGoldmanOfficial No thank you for making videos like this! I just discovered them and they are a great help.

[@a.m.8895]

Very very good upload ❤

[@a.d.b535]

How do I know I wasn't the rebound? We broke it off and on over our 2 years together, a couple times from him getting back - reinvolved with a former GF. Its selfish for a person to use another for their own personal comfort.

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

I need to know a little bit more information to give you a definite answer, but it sounds like it Since he was revolved with his former girlfriend, and you guys were on and off for two years

[@a.d.b535]

​​​@@PazGoldmanOfficial My prior boyfriend died 6 months before I met the one above. With the new BF, I avoided a physical relationship for a couple of months. Not much, I know, but trying to slow it down. I also think he's an avoidant. He's been reaching out to me since he broke up 3 weeks ago. I was partly to blame for the break up, due to disrespecting him. He ran hot cold often and a couple times he left for weeks, he'd be on vacation with her in Costa Rica or 'helping her out' . Not sure why they just hadn't stayed together

[@FatalHammerHead]

Dated her for 4 years living together with 2 kids. Relationship got super toxic, broke up 7 months ago. Now she’s dating the guy she was talking to before we met and continued to talk to while we were together. She’s having him call me at night to threaten me and act tuff. Is it a rebound?

[@rashidarowe7882]

I would say after a year it is no longer a rebound relationship by that time feelings are developed speaking from experience

[@miguelmastache462]

Excelent advice thanks

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

Glad it was helpful!

[@JameSmith2013]

Love this.

[@canelabascolo4016]

I rebounded off my four year toxic relationship, and of course it didn’t work out! lol, I made a lot “too perfect, too easy” oops, I got obsessed over his rejection and some weeks or a month later he got with someone else. But it was never meant to be

[@Sevoflurane2014]

One other thing.. what about a rebound with a family friend or just friends I general? This is what happened to me. They weren't close friends but had been family friends for years. She has some sort of interest in him for while obviously. But very low hanging fruit. Low motivation guy, like I said previously.

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

Yeah, family friend or just friends in general when they get involved romantically they very soon realize that when the dynamic of the relationship is changing, they all of a sudden feel different and it’s just a matter of time before it’s over.

[@mekkomekko8964]

Update?

[@Sevoflurane2014]

@@mekkomekko8964 they got engaged in 4 months and will be married Saturday. So in 7 months they dated, got engaged and got married. Unreal. Was the worst pain I've ever felt. We dated 4 years. I had an engagement ring for her. To say the last few months has been absolute hell would be an understatement. She went on a date with him the day after we broke up. And even after a few weeks of being with him still came to me saying she loved me and missed me and wanted to have sex. She never gave me another chance. Even though I was higher level male on all levels. Rarely you are a girl level down but she did. BUT..... God was protecting me. I found out recently she had been talking to her ex boyfriend during the 4 years we dated and even met up with him for sex to keep him on the hook just in case we didn't work out. But in the end she lead him on too. So he got hurt again also. She hurt 2 people . So I dodged a bullet. Now I'm finally getting some confidence back and starting to date. It still hurts at times and I still love and miss her but it's getting easier.

[@VictoriaHannah-xx1qe]

Thank good advice if take my ex back when back to my ex all he want from me is money

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

Don’t take his greedy ass back

[@jdee9844]

Good video Paz. I’m interested in your perspective of this: My bf of 9 months went back to his ex (without communicating with me, stating they had unresolved issues) I had no idea, experienced some distancing, which he said was due to work stress. We had a drama free relationship. We developed a friendship first and became close. I’m not sure therefore whether I was his rebound, his ex, or both of us?! I immediately went NC. I believe he’s a dismissive avoidant and I’m fearful avoidant. He recently blocked me on WhatsApp. It’s been over 6 months now and I’m moving on, with healing. Not looking to get back, but curious and here to learn.

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

Seems like he have many unresolved issues with himself and he probably played both fields in any case. I'm glad to hear that you're moving on and not looking back. This is the right thing to do. Also watch my video on why not getting an ex back I think you'll find it very helpful.

[@Kopite19877]

Just curious how long after the split with the ex did you two get together?

[@jdee9844]

Thanks Paz, I was really hurt and it’s been difficult but I was determined to focus on myself and remain in NC. As much as I had genuine love, I can see this man has some deep issues; fear on so many levels, lack of emotional maturity and very poor communication. I have watched what you recommended and realise now (therapy has also helped) that without doing inner work he is likely to never change. I think he definitely played us both (was very reluctant to tell me, despite my attempts for open and honest communication) I probably have some lingering feelings, but also feel ready to date. Taking my time, as I would hate to use someone as a ‘rebound’. I was curious of my exes actions, considering I hadn’t contacted, or bothered him in any form. He likely blocked me for his own reasons - not indifference!

[@jdee9844]

I have no idea. He had been single for a while before we started dating. He never once mentioned her (spoke about some others) I actually caught him with her in a public venue. Even then he was being extremely ‘avoidant’ when I asked him to explain himself

[@anthonybrown1431]

Hey coach I listen to your video. So let me give you a little background on my relationship. First I moved in her house after I went through surgery I stayed a week and then went back home. I never said we broken up but she assumed we did and now she wants nothing to do with me. She doesn't even want me back she doesn't even wants to talk to me and she block me. Now I don't know for sure if she has someone else but ee are not together and to be truthful I miss her bad and I want her back but I don't think she wants me back. She said that I was a good man and I was. I believe I mess up because I left but I'm regretting it every day. I been doing the no contact and it's been almost two months and I haven't heard from her. So do you think I have a chance on getting back with her.

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

Hey my dear friend, please watch my video on why you should not take an ex back after you watch it. Let me know what you think. Okay?

[@FarrukhKhan-v4k]

Paz is pretty sure that ALL rebound relationships will ALWAYS fail. That is far from the truth. 10-20% of such relationships survive as well depending on how intelligently the partners handle it.

[@keyhansaldjoughi9613]

Dude, u r awesome

[@Freudster21]

Coach Paz, can you comment on when the rebound is an old family friend that they have known as an acquaintance for a long time?

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

@@Freudster21 yes for sure, it’s the same my friend… the same rules apply. Watch some of my other videos on the topic and you will find all the answers you’re seeking 🙏🏽

[@Freudster21]

@@PazGoldmanOfficial Got it thanks, and thanks for all you do!

[@IKTXIII]

Old family friend = easy person to get with = low hanging fruit nuf said.

[@katogojira7223]

I was a rebound 2 weeks ago N she calls me saying everything I wanted to hear but nothing was right

[@No-hopes-given]

Can it be a rebound if your ex got into a rlship 7 months after you two broke up but has still been messaging you even after she got into a new rlship?

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

Yes my brother, if she still have emotional connection with you it is. You can watch the video I made about the difference between rebound relationship and monkey branching,I believe that you’ll find it helpful as well

[@No-hopes-given]

@@PazGoldmanOfficial well she’s sending me texts every couple of weeks and pics looking for sympathy whilst being in another rlship. But I’m not responding I wonder what will happen next will she stop and focus on the new guy or try harder?

[@Kopite19877]

How long do rebounds usually last?

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

It really depends, but all of the relationships will eventually fail as you saw on this video, but I will make a specific video for you on how long do rebound relationship usually last I will post it tomorrow so come back to the channel to watch the video and let me know your thoughts 🙏🏽

[@kungpowchicken78]

my ex met a guy salsa dancing the day after we broke up. they dated for a few weeks, she introduced him to her parents. Then he had to go to the UK for 5 months. So I'm assuming their doing long distance for now until he comes back. would this actually strengthen their relationship because they are forced to get to know each other better because they have to talk on video phone? or would this separate them more. my ex is 40 years old with a 5 year old kid. the new guy is 30 years old. He has so much options I feel like he could cheat in the UK.

[@remyd1984]

He’ll not stick a single mum! Holiday romance at best for him

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

yup!

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

My best advice for you my friend is to move on and not look back. He sounds like a very unhealthy person for you.

[@a.m.8895]

Thanks

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

Thank you so much for your support my dear friend 🙏🏽🤍

[@kowserahmed1086]

How much pain did you feel or your ex girlfriend feel as dumper's remorse? Was it even close to when you were cheated on?

[@ladyd1631]

My ex got his rebound pregnant and give his new baby the name we was going to name our baby when i was pregnant i had a miscarriage and it hurts!!!

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

@@ladyd1631 that is horrible! I’m sorry to hear that my friend. Take your time to heal now and watch his relationship crash soon!

[@brittneylee951]

Together 5 years. Have a 3 yr old. They started dating 3 weeks after i moved out. And posted their relationship status on facebook

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

Sounds like it time for you to move in and heal my friend! Educate yourself and do the work to heal! Feel free to check out my course “The Rise Of The Phoenix” this is a online healing coaching program that will guide through this challenging times my friend, in any case know that I’m here for you if you ever want to talk or simply as me a quick and where you story, much love and healing 🙏🏽🤍 pazgoldman.com/theriseofthephoenix

[@sarahmoses1910]

Coach paz. Who jumps from one person to the next and not think about diseases, trust, do you know this person. I find this guy to be a sociopath who may have had a child hood wound and never seeked any kind of help, he dislikes women but uses them as a cover for his fault. He may even be on the DL , in this day and time it is common sense that karma always hit quick . Refuses to grow up, and take accountability for your actions Lusting = Never satisfied that's a problem within itself you will lead yourself to your own demise.

[@jedwin4491]

Please more videos about hot and cold behavior

[@vionor2665]

What if my ex is in a secret rebound and i dont know about it because she is not posting on social media (because she is posting rarely and never avout relationshi), i dont speak with mutual friends and I work in different city and I am coming home just in weekend and the chances are very low to see her with someone else on a date. How to know or what to do to know if she had been in a rebound during no contact?

[@BiancaGanda-yo1ec]

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

@@BiancaGanda-yo1ec thank you for your acknowledgement my dear friend! Always here for you. 🙏🏽 Please let me know if you have any questions or video suggestions so I can serve you better on your healing journey 💯

[@ivanbrankovic1628]

My ex gf is dating with rebound possibly, she told me all the time she loves me and its everything my fault. And after I manage to make her to say truth that she is dating someone from work, we ended our communication. She send me long message while very drunk and then I tried to call her and she didn't want to pick up my calls. I send her my last massage with a lot understanding she gived me big SEEN. Now she is dating him but without any pictures or post nor stories on social media. Even her status is single. Could this rebound going to last?

[@andrewhudsonthegreatest9923]

🔥🔥🔥

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

🙏🏽🥊

[@marianaguzman2932]

Mi ex novia a las 3 semanas empezó a andar con una clienta que también se acababa de separar de su esposa.

[@raphaelroo]

My ex got into a rebound but she still got feelings for me

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

@@raphaelroo the best thing for you is to move on my friend

[@wingman4644]

I was in an 8 month relationship & 3 weeks ago, she said she had been seing her ex the last month & 1/2. Long story short I was betrayed and blocked her on all Social media platforms, she said she wants to be friends and I said nope! She then said well how do you and I expect to be more in the future if we cant be friends now smh. Long story short, I told her best friend we were done & she said me & her dont talk anymore, we went our seperate ways??? Ive been seing her friend watch my stories alot..opinions please?

[@LL-jd5mn]

Comedian on stage doinb his stand up: So, a new divorcee, a unknowing rebound partner and a whole lot emotional damage go in to a bar..... 😆😂🤣 That was funny when you were making a statement comparison...lol

[@Spiritof48]

Why even care if it lasts or not . She went with another guy , right …

[@rishavghatani3511]

we were in a 4 year relationship and we were distant someday her sister came and told that i was cheating which was not it was all misunderstanding between us and in the meantime as i was having my exams we were not talking good sometimes we did but she got with a guy who is 4 years older than her which her sister found for her and she was happy to and they dated and began a relationship ship in 1 month of time that we had fight and then she was gone out of my face saying i hurt her to much and the new guy told her that us talking just uk makes her uncomfortable and saying those things she left me and at last i begged her to stay but she didn't even show any emotions towards me and blocked me everywhere and i was left with all the pain and was so depressed and used to cry alot ,now it has been almost 1 month they being together and yes the vacation thing was so accurate as she was making plans with me and now someday in this month 2 of them are going and yes i have been in a no contact from then and now if she comes i will accept her but im scared of that happening with anyone so yeah this video helped me alot to co-op and i love how you explain things thanks man love from india ❤️

[@sgood1995]

What happened now?

[@dr.sourav7516]

Thank you for this video......I needed this so much.. my story is similar I was about to get engaged when my ex cheated on me with her friend who is 6 years younger to her and plays music in restaurants whereas I'm a doctor with the highest medical degree nd she is a doctor too ......she said she doesn't know what happened she just clicked with the guy she was so heartless.......just waiting for the day when karma bites her ass and she comes back to me for a 2nd chance.....I can kick her butt then..😂😂

[@sgood1995]

Did she ever come back begging?

[@dr.sourav7516]

@@sgood1995 no …… maybe she is happy in her life.. or too soon to say….. I have moved on in my life.. nd I hv progressed.. I’m happy for myself 😇😇

[@aerynstormcrow]

lol I married my rebound and we’ve been married for 24 amazing years. 😂😂

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

So why are you watching this kind of videos if you’re so happy?

[@thomasthetankengin7722]

Please answer the man

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

@@thomasthetankengin7722 😂

[@jas2429]

More than 10 years in a mutual rebound relationship, lol.

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

And How’s is it going?

[@jas2429]

@@PazGoldmanOfficial Pretty good, I'd say. 😁 But also aware that it's an anomaly. People should be solo after a breakup.

[@askquestions1236]

i dunno, men date me and marry the next girl usually 😂

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

@@askquestions1236 what you don’t see is how their relationship looks like… You don’t know how toxic it is

[@askquestions1236]

@@PazGoldmanOfficial thank you

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

@@askquestions1236 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@nehalsharma6656]

Can rebound last for year?

[@joejohnson5870]

My ex girlfriend who broke up with me 3 years ago married the rebound. She moved him in a week after we split. However we have mutual friends and their entire relationship has been extremely toxic. He’s been arrest twice for drugs, she started using drugs again, and she looks 10 years older. However, our relationship was also very toxic. I wasn’t good to her at all because I wasn’t over my ex wife’s affair a year prior. However, I also do know that a lot of their fighting at the beginning was because of me even tho I was in no contact. I knew I wouldn’t get her back so I actually enjoyed what happened to her. However I am a much better version of myself now. I am currently 13 days NC on my most previous ex who we had a great relationship but we had a fight at the end to end it due to miscommunication and she really just lost attraction for me. It does suck but I know whatever happens I’ll be okay. Just keep your head up and focus on self growth. Many people get chances with their exes again but don’t do the work.

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

Watch the video until the end and find out ;)

[@machinedrum17]

Bro if you’re gonna make a bunch of fake profiles to comment you should at least make it less obvious 😭

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

Are you okay?

[@eyeamphree3337]

@@PazGoldmanOfficial 😹😹

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

@@eyeamphree3337 😂😂😂😂😂

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

@@eyeamphree3337 he never answered lol I don’t think he’s okay

[@tinkerbell003]

“I was waiting for a cab and he opened the door” 😅😅

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 this is too funny!!!!

[@tinkerbell003]

@@PazGoldmanOfficial ahahaha

[@FrankiesFire]

My ex is dead to me. That person died when she monkey branched/rebounded and cheated on me. She means nothing to me. I was reduced to a pile of ashes, but rose like a phoenix - lost 50 pounds, bought my first home and getting a puppy 💪🏼👊🏼

[@RellDefinition]

I'm on track for something similar hopefully

[@Tom-lt3hq]

She did the exact same thing to me, 4 years we were together and it was gone like that. How did you get to the point where she means nothing anymore, I'm struggling to move on, it's been about 2 weeks so far and I can't forget who she used to be

[@RellDefinition]

@@Tom-lt3hq I think that's exactly the key. She's either changed or is afraid of the person she was with you. I would argue that she's looking for a high with someone else since things had calmed down in ya'lls relationship

[@Bloodsport1337]

My ex’s rebound just failed after 12 months. Thought they were gonna get married for sure. So weird

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

@@Bloodsport1337 Yup!

[@sanjanagrover7436]

*Loved the line"They put a band aid where they needed stitches"*

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

Thank you my dear friend, I felt this one too! 💯

[@sanjanagrover7436]

@@PazGoldmanOfficial ❤️ur welcome friend

[@sandral2261]

So many broken people out there

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

This is so true, this is why I’m making this videos to help people heal and be kinder to each other.

[@lilywashere_]

He certainly went with the first option available - his neighbour, three weeks post breakup. And the pictures he shared on social media were what we said we’d do together. It was so obvious that he was trying to make a statement. She even looks like me and we have the same name. It’s ridiculously funny yet so damn tragic.

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

Yeah I can see the humor in this ridiculous situation, just wish them well and move on with your life. He’s clearly not a healthy man.

[@LetsGoPips]

@@lilywashere_ he set himself up and he will never heal 🤣

[@Invictus1970]

They always look like us. When they show pics or move so quick it just shows their desperation. Can't wait till she falls on her face and the mask comes off.

[@jorgereyes84]

“You can’t make the right decisions based on the wrong reasons” Bingo

[@ladymay7789]

AMEN!!!! This is sooooo true in everything we do. Thank you for sharing...stealing and quoting this.

[@garrettklinck9127]

Bro my ex left me saying she was depressed and needed to work on herself. I didn't fully understand it, but I gave her the benefit of the doubt. So that I wouldn't look like the bad guy in this situation. I just said ok whatever, just do whatever you have to do. She would come back and say I wanna make this up to you. Just to change her mind again. Next thing I know she's posting all these weird stories on her instagram and I can tell that they weren't about me. After I confronted her multiple times she finally admitted that she started liking someone else. And I said so you cheated on me, and she denied it and blocked me. In my eyes monkey branching is cheating. But regardless what she thinks, thats on her. And it's her problem now. And I learned not to persue a woman after she breaks up with you, no matter what. If anything I hope she gets the help she needs, because she made me feel miserable playing with my emotions like that. And all I did was treat her how any man should.

[@magdalenag5046]

My ex-fiancé did the monkey branch about 3-4 weeks after the engagement. Basically, even during our relationship, he started arranging his life with her (to make it funnier, she's a married woman with a two-year-old child, who did the same thing to her husband). Ending the relationship with me, he had already been in a relationship with her for some time. Immediately they moved in together. Now they play house. He plays the husband - just a clumsier version, she plays the fiancée - just a better one. They work together, live together, spend every spare moment together. Concerts, parties, outings - she behaves as if she were a teenager, and he as if he were fulfilling all her dreams. I found out that she even wears things I got from him as gifts. And he's so tired from the pace of life that he sleeps at work because he can't cope, but he tells everyone he's happy. He cut himself off from his friends and family. But most importantly, he thinks he's a happy person. Finally. The best part is that she had a weak marriage, and our relationship was very good. But she got into his head so much that he decided she's the one. He completely replaced his feelings for me in 3 weeks. We have no contact. He's happy, and I'm trying to pick up the pieces after all of this

[@digidrum2003]

It hurts like hell....take care of yourself and start doing things that make you happy and feel good. People like your ex will never be satisfied. I am currently going through a similar thing....my ex left me for a coworker and they moved in together just 2 weeks after she left us,me and my daughter,now I heard through friends that her man is becoming a mean drunk . Good luck to you...keep your head up!

[@magdalenag5046]

@@digidrum2003 take care 🫶 one day it will be ok, we will be ok

[@Guritalks]

@@magdalenag5046 similiar story married to a polish girl and she got new job got into rebound there and 1 week tadam😆

[@errolsantosjr.9114]

Me and my ex broke up and like more or less 2 weeks he's already in a relationship. I beg him to comeback after I knew he's with someone but I failed. It's really easy to think that he is in a rebound relationship since according to the stages they are in the Honeymoon stage, they would post all about their relationship even though my ex is fresh from a break up. But now I'm silently waiting of what's gonna happen to them while I stay single for a while to heal what have been lost and damaged.

[@IrnBruXtra]

An ex stop doing what caused you to break up with someone and thinks it's all good. If they come back to you they will do the same and annoy you on purpose. Once your ex has slept with some else 3 weeks after the break up it means they don't love you, have no feelings and trying to replicate sceneries of people's around them break downs etc.

[@slickperfect333]

So i got one for u man look i love ur videos btw man but look my ex is a narcissistic person i blocked her on fb got a new phone number but in my heart i do miss her or the person she portrayed to be but she got a new guy but she drives by my house never did that when we were together like she trying to make me hurt but it just makes me think childish bullshit i show no reactions i have been following your advice and thank you so much brother man fr you say all the right things i truly want to get past this its been tough and u helped so much thank you again

[@hennehlovesyou]

My ex had a rebound relationship with his colleague 2 weeks after we ended our 3-year relationship (he even used to ask me to marry him one month ago before we broke up). That relationship went so fast and seemed so easy for him because that female colleague had a crush on him first and tried to meet his needs in every way. They cuddled and hung out as a real couple right after he accepted that he also liked her. But he hasn't admitted that they are a couple or wanted to establish a romantic serious relationship with her because deep down he knew that his emotion was unstable. The fact is after 1 week he's with her, he still came back to meet me and say that he still loved me. After I refused him, he came back to that girl again and said that he liked her and no longer loved me anymore. He even tried to keep his distance to avoid skinship with me. But whenever I approached him, kissed him, or hugged him, he still accepted it and showed that he enjoyed it. He cuddled and hugged her but still dreamed of getting married with me. He also slept with me several times this month (most of the times I'm the one who turned him on because I still loved him and wanted to test if he still had feelings for me or not, but he admitted again that he still loves me but didn't want to love me anymore). And now I know that he obviously still had something for me but had feelings for that girl at the same time. I know that this is unhealthy and I don't really want to let this unstably emotional boy into my life. This morning, I decided to end this complex relationship, accept that he doesn't relate to me now, and just focus on myself now to attract a better man with high standards into my life. I I transfer my love for him by wishing all the best for him every single days and hoping that he can get out of the relationship with that girl to focus on his self into the wish for him to do well.

[@ajimadnan]

Holy shit!!! Why is it so relatable??!!

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

Cuz that’s the TRUTH! 🙏🏽

[@ajimadnan]

@@PazGoldmanOfficial can this kind of people really change, aware and take accountability? Or they need a reality check first in order to realize?

[@golden7033]

Thank you. This was an excellent analysis/breakdown. So thorough and so insightful. Helped me tremendously!

[@antoinettebulatao2299]

Hi there, I am a new subscriber to your videos and in my healing journey of my break up to a narcissistic ex that I was living with for three years. I was one of the rebound relationship and after three years definitely destroyed gave him my all time, patience, and dealt with his toxicity and bad energy, he cheated and was talking to his ex old girlfriend from years ago, and they have always stayed in touch while I was in the living relationship with him. He befriended a lady on TikTok. When I found out of his cheating ways, I decided to split up with him in December. It was hard in his rental house , just packing my stuff on my own and putting it in storage so by February 15, 2024 that was my exit to freedom went no contact and blocked him. Focusing on my healing journey. Thank you.

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

Thank you so much for sharing your story, my dear friend you’re definitely on the right track moving on and healing yourself, just wanted to let you know that I’m here for you if you need to talk! Sending much love 🤍

[@antoinettebulatao2299]

Thank you for your acknowledgment and replying. That means a lot. Thank you for offering to talk when needed. I look forward to your videos to help me heal. Some days are hard

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

Please share with me what you’re going through and what type of videos can help you! I GOT YOU 🙏🏽❤️‍🩹

[@problemslayer3538]

Hey Paz great to see that youve grown stronger following your break up and heart out to others going through the same. ❤

[@Mari-wc6jo]

We planned the night out had a fight and he left the bar with her and never left her again. Never came home! I went no contact and he is doing all of the things we had planned with her. All over the place and partying every night dinners concerts trips and what ever. Never knew her and went full on. Speed of light. Omg

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

I know that the fact that he’s doing everything you guys planned hurts your soul, but just understand that he’s doing this because he lack the emotional strength of dealing with what U2 had together. He’s using her as an emotional crotch. He’s trying to sweep his emotions under the rug, but they will come up to the surface sooner or later, and it will hit him like a Mac truck. Please stay true to yourself. Don’t look back. He will come back, but don’t take him because if he was able to do this to you once he will sure will be able to do this again. Continue to work on yourself. Learn from this experience and become the best version that you can be , use this pain to grow because these two shall pass. Much love 🤍

[@Mari-wc6jo]

@@PazGoldmanOfficial I am focused on my physical mental and emotional strength. I am learning through this that I have traumas to heal and that I will continue with the cycle unless I change my attachment and co dependency. Thank you for the encouraging words. I’m getting stronger. 🤍

[@sanjanagrover7436]

​@@PazGoldmanOfficialu got a new subscriber 😊

[@vangelis3b]

On 21:55 Coach Paz says something wise about the "stain".

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

Yeah that one ☝🏽 is huge! Glad you found it helpful 🙏🏽🙏🏽🤍

[@angelinesampaga9858]

He no longer loves me, moved on, and found someone better that gives eveything to him. They both love each other also. It's not a rebound relationship right? or yes?

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

It depends on when they got together after your breakup?

[@angelinesampaga9858]

@@PazGoldmanOfficial they got together 3 months after our breakup..

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

Usually a rebound relationship is less then a week or two… so I wouldn’t consider this case as a rebound relationship, but anyway I would advise you to move on - HE IS NOT THE ONE FOR YOU.

[@angelinesampaga9858]

@@PazGoldmanOfficial Thank you so much 😊 I also just finished your book and its exercises, it has really helped me a lot! Thank youu and God bless! 💕

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

@angelinesampaga9858 You’re welcome my dear friend! Thank you for you kind words I really appreciate it, god bless you 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@alexandrasandraspiteri315]

What if he left and then end up going back to his x girl he left her for an affai r which he got engaged with her inn3 months also to be married in 8 months then he left her and met me I was with him 6 years living together they where 7 years and was engaged within 3 months too he just ended up living with her now straight away Is this still a rebound ?doing all the adventures together everything please advice ???? PleasDO A VIDEO ABOUT IF ITS AN X HE ENDED UP WITH ???? And what if he got over me when he was with me as we never fought only last 6 months as I was stressed as my dad dying and renovating otherwise we where so good please advice ??

[@montserratpuebla4629]

Yes. My ex--husband jumped quickly into a rebound relationship (he said to me he needed to share a flat and she was his flatmate 😄). They've stayed together for years now, but the main reasons are convenience and the need to prove he (they?) was right... He always needs to be right. He never seemed to experience grief or any emotion after the divorce, maybe a some relief.

[@efthimios]

Here I am trying to save my marriage and family after my wife had a long term affair, on top of that she was very abusive during the affair until the end when we seperated .. just was sad and felt like shouldn’t of happened

[@Louceee]

Great video and one I wish I had earlier! Question for anyone - while not technically a rebound, what do you think about an ex getting into a relationship immediately after divorce papers are signed? They didn’t know each other before, they were set up by his only friend’s girlfriend. My ex does nothing for himself and now has a new person to organise fun things for him to do. Thoughts on having another realisation moment?

[@DJChubio]

Well my ex has BPD lol. Most of this don’t apply cause unfortunately their mentally ill

[@calvin-coohey2112]

It's ok to swear but using God or Christ in your swearing may turn off Christians, not that I am one.

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

🙏🏽

[@mute8153]

Now i have a question what if me and my bf was long distance for 6 months and then 3 months when he moved in on his 2 month he cheated on me with a coworker and moved in will it last ?

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

100% it will not last. The fact that he cheated on you and moved in with a coworker, he will cheat on her too , most people don’t change and they just repeating behaviors. Grab some popcorn and watch the train wreck. It’s just a matter of time.

[@mute8153]

@@PazGoldmanOfficial even though he monkey branched to the coworker and they been together for 2 months ?

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

Yes!

[@mute8153]

@@PazGoldmanOfficial now if they going on 3 months after monkey branching is that a serious relationship ?

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

No, it will never will be a serious relationship. I will release a video in two days about how rebound relationships always turn toxic make sure you watch that

[@JayJay-ou9hu]

Thank you brother..I needed to hear this

[@brookeasmr2205]

Love this!!!

[@scottyrivers6973]

Good advice.

[@timmy5948]

My ex got into another relationship 4 months after our twelve years of marriage. 4 months later we started sleeping together again. She started love bombing me. Then we broke it off when she went thru my phone and found out I was speaking to other women. She got super upset and I moved out. I miss my kids but it was for the best. Now whenever I pick up my girls she's always upset, stressed, depressed. It's so strange.

[@IKTXIII]

Nothing strange about it, you were the rebound of the rebound in other words the 3rd choice. These people does not like it when the same is done to them.

[@lucasgarcia_01]

I can give other perspective, I’m the one that bring in a rebound relationship with a girl who has cheated on her ex to be with me, and of course I can’t do this work, i was being crazy at this time LOL, I has to breakup to stay in peace.

[@thomasthetankengin7722]

Sorry, so you are the person this girl rebound to? Why was she crazy? And did you know her for a long time while she was dating the other guy?

[@EyeBelieveSo]

What if your dumper left and got into a rebound 3 months later and are with them for almost a year now?

[@cliffdenis144]

@@EyeBelieveSo I think it's not a rebound went back to ex

[@EyeBelieveSo]

@@cliffdenis144 it’s not their ex. New person

[@MissBaghira]

What if his rebound is a long distance situationship from three years ago, that he didn't like too much, but she was still around and telling him she would do everything for him?

[@IKTXIII]

it didn't work once, what would make you think it will work the second time, especially if he's using her as an emotional crutch? Not unless they never did disconnect any contact during your relationship, then that is worse, he does not deserve you.

[@MissBaghira]

@@IKTXIII he said he wants to marry her. Also he says, he still doesn't have feelings for her, but she is convenient. It's so weird. He really wanted to meet up with me, which we did a few days ago and he said that. In the end he drove me home and hugged me for a long time. I really don't get it!

[@IKTXIII]

@@MissBaghira we don't know what he's telling her about you, you sure you want to be an option? Think about it.

[@MissBaghira]

@@IKTXIII he really insisted on a selfie together for some reason, which I found weird. You are right, I can't know what he is telling her and if it's true what he tells her. Who knows why he needed that selfie. Maybe to send it to her, so she knows he has other options. I never had a situation like that, I thought this guy and I would marry..

[@IKTXIII]

@@MissBaghira we all did at one point, that's why we are here, trying to get answers, to get advice and support from people like us who was blindsided by our significant other's rebounding. We all thought that they were the one, that they would never leave us to dry, never devalue us, and always be our forever. My ex GF monkey branched/rebounded (very thin line to distinguish) 2 months ago after 10 yrs to someone she met for a month, but still wanting to be friends, and asking advice when they fought. Nope walked away, unfriended. It hurt I know, can't eat, can't sleep, anxiety attacks, feeling like the world crumbled in itself, good thing I myself is a professional therapist, made all the things to do, like journaling, listing all the negative and positive traits the person has, all the negative and positive experience we had, and you'll eventually see the truth for yourself, now I'm healing NC for 2 months, ex greeted me on my bday 3 days ago, was gonna ignore but sent a "thanks" as a reply anyways. You have the power to control yourself and what your journey in the future could be, you can't control someone who just want you to be an option. Best wishes.