10 "ROUGH" Sex Moves Women Secretly Crave In Bed (9 out 10 Women Want These)

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Here’s the deal. Soft, slow, sensual love making is wonderful. And it has it’s place in the bedroom. But sometimes, women just want it to be rough, wild and intense.
In fact, studies even show that the vast majority of women actually love rougher sex. Because it’s connected to feeling overwhelmingly wanted by the man you want. Which is totally arousing.
And in today’s video, Marni will show you 10 of the best rough sex moves that women secretly crave in the bedroom - but might not tell you outright.
With these amazing moves in your arsenal, you will be ready to rock any woman’s world in bed and keep her coming back for more.
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[@robertjohnmarcella263]

is she going to piss on me Marni?

[@mcfishyfirst253]

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[@marnikinrys]

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[@rhyswaterman37]

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[@White-Rino]

Great Video Marni. As others have said, yes you need to have had some conversations prior and know that she would be into a "rougher experience". At +40, I've found that a woman will basically tell you this in not so many words if she is into it and you, and if you're not sure than ask beforehand. Knowing that she's into it, I start on level 3 (stuff Marni talks about here) and ratchet things up from there based on her response to light BSDM, blindfolds, hands tied ect. This is work guys, like walking, chewing gum, and playing the guitar at the same time. You have to be doing multiple things at once and not get too lost in your own head while doing it. It's not as easy as it sounds, especially since you've been taught your whole life to be gentle with girls and the line/look and sounds of pleasure and pain can be thin. Once I had a woman start crying as in visible tears and crying sounds during an intense session in just missionary. I stopped immediately thinking something was wrong and asked if she was OK, and she was like YESSSS...DON"T STOP!!!! Since this was the first time this had happened to me, it took me a few seconds to re-calculate and get back to where we were before I stopped, but just when you think you've seen it all. If we were in a public place like a hotel, someone would have been calling the cops for sure based on what she sounded like, so that's also the part that messed my head up for a few seconds, but we were not in a public building, so it was ok. Game on.

[@brucebraddock]

Incredible as always Marni!!

[@lofreeq]

I'm just so grateful for having known this channel. It's a shame that I only knew now, but still... only gold stuff! Using all of the content and applying with my wife. Big fan from Brazil.

[@jeffreybrooks8643]

Thanks for the great tips, Marni. Can you please provide additional info on these techniques?

[@johnsojka92]

Good List of Moves, Marni. I won't "Choke" of course, but the rest in the right measure, you bet! And, Always lead with Passion.

[@randyteich3054]

One of your best videos yet 👍👍👍

[@leelewis445]

Mastering these beginner tips, was crucial for me. In doing so, allowed for the playbook to really open up. Once that thrill, trust and pleasure are all there, very few limits present themselves and things get nasty quick...in a good way lol.

[@josetrevino4975]

Great work, keep rocking 👍

[@andrewcarlson2178]

Pro tip: if you are going to choke, STAY OFF THE WINDPIPE. Do not put pressure on the front of the throat. Any pressure should be on the sides of the neck, similar to a blood choke in MMA. If she wants you to squeeze a little bit, it can induce light headedness (lol I know, it's not a word) without restricting oxygen. I would not suggest anything more than light contact for beginners. Never squeeze for mor than 10 seconds Second pro tip: if she enjoys this type of contact, put your hand on her neck after you push her up against the wall and then kiss her. Bring your hand up under her chin to raise her face up for the kiss or on the side of her face. You can also grasp her face by the jaw on either side of the chin, but be gentle. This drives women crazy. Most of them fantasize about being thrown against the wall and just kissed.

[@redhorse6652]

A gentle but firm hold of the back of the neck might be even better. With a little tug her hair at the base of the neck like Marni says.

[@l3lackoutsMedia]

It's like a neck muscle massage. Feel and balance with the tension in the muscles.

[@jeremygrimes9006]

Strictly speaking, you are cutting off oxygen to the brain with a blood choke, but yes, your info is solid. My own pro tip to add, if you learn how long your partner can be choked before passing out, and learn to tell when she's nearing orgasm, releasing a choke right before she cums can create a headrush that magnifies her orgasm significantly. Think assisted auto-erotic asphyxiation. And for women with much more advanced daddy issues, choking them out is also an option.

[@IntimateCuriosity]

Communication with your partner is key in all this. Let your partner know what you like for future scenarios, and listen to your partner. Liking it rough one day does not mean liking it rough the next. Learn to read your partner. ❤

[@isaacakindemowo2328]

Atimes ladies don't tell men all their secret desires and l don't know why

[@LisaHack-hq3dv]

Dog not allowed ect

[@LisaHack-hq3dv]

​@isaacakindemowo2328 suicide not allowed

[@cathymacdaddie]

Agree 100% to everything you said.

[@anthonydilligaf823]

My ex wanted the whole relationship to be rough, apparently.. 😂

[@legaleagles3654]

😂😂😂😂

[@marnikinrys]

ha. That was funny!

[@DT.2024]

Haha!

[@user-op8ps1hj2e]

Guess you didn't LOVE her enough...oh well... there's LOVE out there for everyone they say... hmmm... love works in fucked up ways.

[@andrewcarlson2178]

Winning ! I feel your pain 🤣

[@stevenmorris495]

Love the videos

[@garygrist7146]

More gold ... Love you, Marni ...

[@karellt2355]

OMG! I'm shocked......gonna try this! 😁

[@Citizen-by9vw]

This was a great video.

[@spearce133]

Great vid! I do most (my wife's not into choking), but the being verbal is the most difficult for me.

[@1Whitetail]

My wife doesn't like the choking either but she loves the take control and do whatever you want, and the dirty talk. She loves to be told what I going to do to her and as hard also loves being told what I want from her to do to me, she loves dirty as it can be and she responds. Got a good one 😊

[@jovangaltic]

I do most of those, a few times made a girl come just by roughing her up. Even left a few light bruises, but they loved it. Biting inner thighs often works miracles, but that area is also very sensitive so don't overdo it. But don't "ask her if it's OK', that's a mood killer... Try a little bit and see how she reacts. With the choke, just put your hand around her neck and pay attention, if she lifts her chin up, kind of "opening her neck", that means she likes it. Then go ahead and put more pressure. But be reasonable, you don't want to hurt the girl... just make her happy. 😄

[@Cre8tiveOne66]

Marni is 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@paultravis3249]

Thank you for sharing

[@thinman8621]

Thank you, Marni.

I guess I’m ahead of the game because I’ve been doing all these things and more. I get the most flattering feedback so I know I’m doing something right!

[@drshnutslol2917]

Thought I would learn something new but I noticed I already did all of this apart from choking which im not even gonna try, it kinda all just came natural for some reason

[@paulmorissette5863]

And then they call the police. No thank you.

[@alexanders4911]

Exactly. Cud I refer to this video if I get in trouble 🙄🤔??

[@FlappyBelly]

You basically have to film every sexual encounter these days...for court.

[@ZygonesBzygones]

No, just like you cannot demand that God heals you just because you bought into a quack's snake oil cure. @@alexanders4911

[@mikerobinson9168]

Make sure before practicing these tips you are in a state that allows conjugal visits. LOL

[@derekjp6043]

Notification Gang in the HIZZY, especially for a title like THAT, Sheesh. - and I LOVE being rough tbh and usually expect girls to need time before I even begin to introduce that side of me... I'm always spanking them light at first since this one time she said "ow" lol.

[@mattriddimlove]

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[@JP-iq7pu]

The kissing and hair pull are ones I have gotten a fair amount of resistance in trying to do. Choking definitely requires talking to her and through it before just doing it.

[@jeremygrimes9006]

Part of the fantasy of rough sex is the loss of control, of "being at the mercy" of somone else, and the implied danger that entails. Discussing everthing takes away from that somewhat. I'm not saying throttle your next tinder date til she passes out, but pay attention to what her body is saying. Put your hand on her throat right at the base and do just a little more than rest your fingers on either side of her neck. If she moans, leans into your hand, or any other positive reinforcement, add some pressure to the side of her neck. Just watch her body cues, she'll let you know when enough is enough. Honestly, the number of women who dislike choking are so low, it is statistically unlikely for you to find them. And by you just taking her as you want, you feed into that fantasy of being dominated. You will become that guy she tells her friends about who just did it without her having to tell you. But again, pay attention to her body cues, so hot doesn't become traumatic.

[@JP-iq7pu]

@@jeremygrimes9006 Can't you accomplish something similar in engaging in Dom/Sub or Dom/Slave types of kink/relationships?

[@investigativeoutcomes9343]

dude, get a life bro.@@jeremygrimes9006

[@h.sowandegray2913]

Na, that's ez. All you have to do is a "soft launch". Put your hands there when you are generally making out. See the response.

[@investigativeoutcomes9343]

if she's good to go, she's good to go@@h.sowandegray2913 .

[@Mastergentleman]

I would love a video with more advanced moves and lines, Thank you Marni!😁

[@marnikinrys]

On it!!

[@Shipdacheese]

Yes and graphical representation so we truly understand how to do it.

[@hollowaycaroline]

You got everything on point here! 😂 As a woman, I 100% endorse everything in this vid

[@texas_germanic7073]

exchanging each other's mutual turn Ons and turn offs ,,communicating certain fantasies and favorite positions before, during and after to basically dial in the exact pressure and interaction between both persons ,,,turning a fantasy into exact reality requires exact specifics and or timing.......knowing your own body and each other's body and various environments and having the same drive to turn each other really drives everything while sharing total open communication. and it all should feel natural and mutual enjoyable between both

[@jacksonknox5029]

Excellent❤

[@KKB4.O]

All tips are good 👍

[@Fashion-Meets-Fantasy]

Good advice

[@peterhaywood4111]

Phenomenal!

[@Galatorm]

Been there, done that. It's true, when the mood is right, it is very effective at rocking their boat, even someone with whom it's your first time. But honestly, sometimes, I'd want the girl to act with that same animalistic " I need you now and I'm taking you, like it or not" vibe instead. Or just both do it. Enthusiasm generate enthusiasm. 😂

[@paultravis3249]

I would like more videos of how to talkvdirty with examples of good versions of talking dirty to know what is ok vs not ok and hurtful or too far

[@cathymacdaddie]

Your number 10 is sooooooo what I want! Exactly as you described. Exactly.

[@kylewilkinson6975]

Where do you live. I might can do it for you

[@gazoontight]

Beautiful Marni.

[@clanger93]

In Wisconsin United States, there is no choking in any way, shape or form so guys don't trust your women. My friend did, and he got two years.

[@Rshen11]

What if she chockes you

[@clanger93]

@@Rshen11 doubt she would get years IN NO WAY SHOULD U EVER CHOKE OR STRANGLE A WOMAN man up an walk away

[@cheguevara3392]

Forget it, I had a new GF and I was still talking with my ex! When I told her that "she" asks me to slap, grab, bond her and..... And my ex (thanks) knocked at my head, she want you to bind her, beat her and take her forcefully? You understand that she just have to call the cops and you "ARE FUC*ED" (the girl was hot, but you immediately got that she is not 100% right)! I was young so I didn't have the social skills to sit down with her and talk, what did she lived through as a teenager, or what is going on! So, yes, hard and "the woman" is what you want the most (leave weird and creepy sh*t out)

[@toadman5184]

No 7. I don't think you provided enough safety information about choking. The pressure should be on the side of the neck, NEVER the windpipe. Done wrong choking is extremely dangerous.

[@lenifoster5360]

Ok thanks for the great advice now how about we go try this together and you can demonstrate if I’m doing it properly or not. 💯❤️‍🔥⚡️⚡️⚡️

[@patwalsh2868]

Hi Marni, I already left a comment yesterday, but had to be sure it wasn’t a different video, but it didn’t matter because you are so Amazing in how you describe things so almost anyone can understand ; I get you n your way of teaching , it’s So Cool watching you get all Cute ,when you get into what you’re talking about ❣️ I just wanted you to know that I’m so glad I chose you to learn from, I didn’t even know how many try to do what you do So Well ❣️ Thanks Hun ❣️😊❣️

[@grahambuckingham7295]

What is wrong with you?

[@timpeterson2425]

i accidentally found your channel...SO REFRESHING!!! Of course I subscribed! Although sometimes can feel what it would be like to be a woman, thus being able to do what she might like or not like, I know there is more to learn. I love the expression Jean Auel uses for sex in her books (sharing pleasures) and have always felt that way since grade school even! LOL Thank you Ms Marni!!

[@doctorpete1]

This women is awesome!

[@jamesfigueroa382]

That’s how marni likes it..!:)

[@katemiller5990]

Lots of fantastic tips there Marni! ❤ I love going to the surf and diving just under the big waves and popping out the other side. The power is incredible, it kind of compresses your body like a roller. I think this is what good, rough sex is like in a way. You get to feel the power of your man, and of course, as Marni said, his intense desire for you is such a turn on. I draw the line at choking, I personally think the premise behind that is dark and coming from not a good place. Spanking can also be cool when done playfully or to enjoy pressure but again, it can come from a dark place that I don’t think is healthy or beneficial for anyone long term. My personal opinion is that motivation and intent is key. You want to feel your man’s strength and passion, but not that he is trying to harm you.

[@jeremygrimes9006]

Think of rough sex like riding a rollercoaster. There is a thrill from the perceived danger, but you wouldn't ride if you didn't trust the operator to keep you safe.

[@katemiller5990]

@@jeremygrimes9006 exactly!

[@1Whitetail]

💯 correct, I don't like the choking either but I love to be controlled and dirty talk. I want to feel the excitement in sex I'm a slut but thats the only time they speak to me like that.

[@nathanmanley4203]

All of this works lol. Been doing it for years

[@retrojay86]

yessir

[@marnikinrys]

;). Lucky ladies!

[@xileets]

It's also WAY more fun for both (or all in some cases). Marni once made a video about giving a woman control, and the chocking, spanking, slapping thing is one of those things where you have to walk that line between actually choking her out (hint DON'T), and just starting to get there and seeing how she (or he, hey I'm not singling anyone out here) responds.

[@tylerwilcox2384]

Robbed! Man I feel for you. I was raging for you! Great tournament. Very entertaining

[@tonybartonemusic]

Can you use Joy Mode if you take blood pressure meds ? Will it raise my blood pressure ?

[@scottmctear6282]

How often do you yourself? Explaining this to the media? Do you get turned on or what does this happen to you? I've seen your eyes and I believe so I'm pretty good at what I do as well. Thank you much, you always my winger. Scott

[@Farhaan_Enigmatic]

Thank you 👍

[@abraynor84]

I agree with her the first 15 seconds of her statement. I have been with my wife for 13 years, and I knew from the beginning that women sometimes just want to be screwed. They want to be vulnerable. Soft is great to build up tension, but then she wants to be taken. Women don't want to be caudled. She's not like a piece of fragile glass. It's about the build-up.

[@patrickmurf8743]

All of that is good advice and helps me feel more relaxed and confident about a romantic partner, but it's just performance phobia and the fear that she will leave me coz I've no experience because I haven't done it before, I don't have any position memorized unfortunately and it seems every middle aged lady expects you as a man to know a lot of these already and have had experience doing them... And so many ladies don't want to have to teach a man how to perform well in bed these days :(

[@RichardSmith-pb8qk]

When will JoyMode ship overseas?

[@therealsammyvee888]

Please do another more in-depth video about dirty talk with the lines like you said.

[@rosss5179]

Careful with your words In this new crazy world, be perspective, or u lose it all, find other words ways to describe your content 🙂 thanks for your help, over 4 years for me including payment, but you cannot give the answer I need to make my life complete 💯

[@davidmckenzie3398]

I just realized I've been doing it all wrong since I turned 30! LOL THANKS MARNI! 😈🖤😈🖤😈

[@robertconrad8005]

Exactly!!! I've had a woman ask me why I'm not rough with her in bed

[@Citizen-by9vw]

Yes, I'd love a more in depth video. Thank you

[@ApexCurve]

Great video. Yes, make the dirty talk video.

[@holmavik6756]

Sure, once you know your woman well that can be really fun.But many women are full of contradictions, they may want it rough, but not really. You make some rough moves and she is 100% in to it, then you make another move (something uncontroversial) and all of a sudden there is chaos and angry voices in the bedroom…

[@747Durango]

It takes conscious effort, but *two-way* communication is the key. In the beginning it feels awkward having to check in on everything, but with a new person, or trying a new experience we should. Until, at such a time where we know each other well enough to read each other. For example, I could see some people (like me) that would be up for anything as long it wasn't dangerous, harmful or cruel. Oh, how I hope I meet someone like that some day.

[@emerald3331]

Basically if you've been circumcised you have to give it rough because you've lost a good deal of your sensitivity, but yes a lot of women do like it to be on the rougher side.

[@user-ft2km6yr7s]

best video

[@GD1_3]

My girl is shy, reserved, but willing if trusted. Im kinda shy but fantasize about us just going nuts. Were both 40 together 10 yrs. Took me 5 to finally go down and was like we should've been doing that along time ago 😆. Any advice please

[@EddietheBastard]

Helena Nista is great.

[@stevendawson9723]

Marni I beg you let’s try it

[@simondorris1074]

I would love for you to do a video on talking dirty , how to etc

[@user-dn5sq2jw8g]

I think you forget to mention the part about exceeding the lingerie budget via the ragdoll process. What do you think I am, a Kennedy?

[@aminemaravalo31]

So pretty ❤❤

[@watcher5729]

trust is a big issue depending on situation and area living.

[@sbentsen2714]

Going hard and fast leads me over the edge 😂

[@bobwallace9814]

This is all sage advice for guys to pay attention to.

[@chrisnester8819]

I like doing all these things already

[@scorpionking8661]

Forget the secret tips or hints. People just need to be open and honest for what they want

[@haydenh3217]

Don’t you see how that takes the fun out of sex tho. Sex is eroticism. Period.

[@pera.j.andersson]

Some red flags here, methink. Marni doesn't stress enough how communication _before_ the bedroom about the general style of sex you'd enjoy together. Some of these things are part of BDSM, and those things can really be off-putting if not communicated beforehand - at least in a general way - and thought of as abuse. That said, Marni lists a lot of kinks and moves that according to a lot of surveys place high up on many or most female sex lists. So in essence she's right. But I'm not sure 9/10 women would enjoy all of them - at least not without a hint of what is to come.

[@houtbay9]

Maybe for liberal feminists in the West

[@abraynor84]

Sometimes, she really doesn't tell you because A. she doesn't want you to think less of her or B. She really doesn't know. Women are more complex, but not impossible to understand. 13 years with my wife has shown how much I learned about her. I also taught her about me. Communication has to be actively developed between men and women.

[@David-ot9tr]

Yes, i would like specifics on talking dirty.

[@joqiii3]

II vote for the talk dirty video!

[@John-ue6ok]

THANKS FOR THE I. INFO. I'M STILL. TRYING. 😢🎉😮😅😊

[@Killane10]

This is a very difficult dilema for men in todays world

[@Citizen-by9vw]

Also, not a big deal, but what about a video about the top (10, or 5, or so) female fantasies? I'm finding those really challenge my sense of security, but also seem to help make me stronger as a man. That is, the more harsh truths we hear about women--as much as those truths hurt--the more desensitized we become (or, at least I do) to these things. That is, we become tougher, like any pain that we have to deal with. This is of course, just a suggestion, but might possibly get you some clicks and views (???).

[@BlaqueRainbow]

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[@pm71241]

I agree that love making should be a healthy mix between gentle and rough ... But unless you know her well, for god sake ... be very attentive to her signals when following this advice. It's supposed to be a good experience. Don't make her uncomfortable or cause any anxiety.

[@CASTLETHRU]

Marni .. God .. when she flips that dark hair back though ..ooohh

[@aman9143]

I'm going to get married next month can any married women help me out I have some quarries?

[@hrobky]

I can see all of this interpreted soo badly :DD Just always stay respectful and so that she can feel safe.

[@osopapi6061]

Hi @Marnikinys , ok the last point....thrusting deep....can you elaborate more please? When is it good and when is it bad? My experience is that Asians are shallower....also skinny girls deeper or taller girls...very baffling? Also...I know ease, patience is a good equation...and I've had...or she's had...the best O's in the carry position...probably the deepest you can get? Good future topics?

[@osopapi6061]

btw....my experience....deeper means wetter....agree?

[@steveunderhill5935]

Work them in real slow and stay lubed… look, listen and feel. She will tell you when.

[@akbargabbar505]

Marvelous Marni👌❤you 💕💌

[@D.M.S.]

How do I find out, does she want this in the beginning of the relationship? I don't want her to get the wrong picture of me, when I ask her and encourage it, but I also don't want her to get the wrong idea, that I don't want it. I actually don't care that much, if it is rough or gentle. I like both. Furthermore, I just want us both to be happy and not that she thinks she can not be herself.

[@davidabulafia7145]

You also risk a sexual assault charge

[@MierCatCustomz]

Im all in on the 7:11 comment where you ask if we want how to talk dirty tutorial.. i feel like im pretty good on the dirty talk but if i can get some pointers im all in 😈

[@abkeener81]

Hell yes!! I'd like to know how to talk dirty.

[@Trump145]

I'm all down for that but I just have to find somebody who's down with it as well, how do I find someone like that😊

[@rosss5179]

I am in Eire, you are welcome to visit, green carpet just for u, talk with me 😉

[@Trump145]

@@rosss5179 enlighten me

[@louisrichards2792]

Do the DT video...

[@XTREME2DAG]

Yes, please do an in-depth dirty talking video.

[@christsoldier4525]

Thanks for this video I always wonder why my fiance love rough sex alot this explains it.

[@steeloned]

So much for what you've said in the past about real sex being contrary to what we see in porn. So now it's nine out of ten liking it rough, huh?

[@grahamwithinshaw5575]

I’ve got a bone to pick with you I order four of your programs you sent me a email with a link to enter all your he programs then you sent me a couple dozen other emails so now I can’t find the email to your programs

[@cinciman5291]

Actually it conditions the throat for more oxygen increases saliva glands without strangling your+my)partner love the vibe

[@EddietheBastard]

Great that you stress consent - and this includes making sure she hasn't got extensions in before you pull her hair.

[@bryanplant8239]

Yeah, definitely a dirty talk video would be beneficial.

[@sweetness34km]

Frequency equals longevity