10 Sexual DESIRES Women Are Too Shy to Ask For In Bed (99.9% of ALL Women Secretly Crave These)

[@marnikinrys]

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[@weichun4168]

Hi important to note. We are all born losers here Marni. You have found a group of losers willing to pay you for some coaching but we are still losers with not girlfriend. I have 0% success rate just like my colleagues like Harikejn. We will pretend to have success with girls but in reality we don't. It was my birthday yesterday and I was alone without a girlfriend.

[@Jeremy-mu6cd]

And some women are just craving a good spanking 😈😂

[@duaneledford4699]

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[@elgindor]

Breaking news…women actually know what they want for once. Lol

[@paulhobson1732]

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[@jimg6476]

Add number 11. My Dad taught me as teenager when you start dating...Always satisfy the woman first. She will give you more in return than you can imagine.. I have used that through out my life and has been some of the best advice ever.

[@JohnnyAOoriginal]

She literally said that it's number 8 lol

[@brandonlong4252]

Can confirm that is true! I've always tried to do the same!

[@eddiegee2940]

Tell an erotic story to the point down right nasty porn scenario

[@anthonyhaecker190]

​d@@meghanlong3494aggree

[@jimg6476]

I have done 3 ways several times. The best way to satisfy both women first..

[@Harikejn]

Important things: 1:22 First Thing - A Steady Buildup; 2:17 Second Thing - Lock Eyes; 2:58 Third Thing - Show Excitement; 4:29 Fourth Thing - Play A Little Rough; 5:16 Fifth Thing - Go Downtown; 5:56 Sixth thing - Notice Her Reaction; 6:38 Seventh Thing - Experiment With Kinks; 7:23 Eight Thing - Make Her Pleasure A Priority; 8:32 Ninth Thing - Kissing, And Cuddling After Sex; 9:03 Tenth Thing - Change It Up; 10:05 Eleventh Thing - Asking And Listening What Is Thrilling Our Partner (before doing any of these mentioned things); and 10:18 To summarize all the told here.

[@justincredible3808]

Thank you

[@Harikejn]

@@justincredible3808 You're welcome.

[@Harikejn]

@ricardojaramillo3649 You're welcome.

[@theorganicway2go]

Haram.

[@legaleagles3654]

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[@paul0wen65]

Can confirm. My first long term relationship, post-divorce, was with a woman who did all these things with me. I know it sounds cringey to say it like this but the sex was therapeutic for the time we spent together. If a man finds a woman who is as communicative as Marni describes here, gentlemen study up if you don't know these things already. The benefit is good for both.

[@ddmound]

Yeah rite! Look at her face. Does she have the kind of face that anyone would say to her, you look happy! You must have just had sex!! You can't so that means her man does not know how to do the things she says you should do. And that is bc she has no knowledge of her sexuality. This I what is missing from men and women. But did you know that the 'readiness' is based upon foreplay until you satisfy the foreplay barrier? It takes 30 mins but most if any reach it after 3 decades with the same person. I discovered the secret to it. I learned how that when your woman walks up to you in your own spaces that she is wet! This is what the goal of foreplay is. If you place foreplay then she will approach you wet which means she is ready. What it does is prepare her faster for climaxing so she can orgasm. So its foreplay, climax, orgasm. If it takes time to get there, (O) and it is based partly on foreplay. Then it stands to reason if she is wet she is ready to climax. That means if cut foreplay time out then she is closer to climaxing. (stage) The problem is men don't satisfy her in foreplay. He will not satisfy her in foreplay, Penetrate her too soon, too fast and too deeply, which bypasses everything bt a climax. She has to climax at least 3 times before she can orgasm once. But Narni is clueless. Ppl these days are preying upon the ignorance of each other for entertainment. that is all she is saying, entertainment. She has never experienced the height of her sexuality by saying what she is saying. very few have.

[@grabtheminute]

Wanting to understand the fine details must be the first step. Learning all that from your partner can follow if cultural barriers are overcome. Honesty is king, as always.

[@MsLilac88]

Hello Marni, I am a married woman from Singapore, I found your relationship advice videos useful. 😊

[@wynonasbigbrowndragon6121]

A woman once asked me to go down on her, and the way she asked was absolutely heartbreaking. She was clearly used to partners saying no. And she BARELY asked. It got me thinking how many women don't even bother to do that anymore because of having been turned down. Guys, you have NO idea how low that bar can be, sometimes. It means a lot to them, ESPECIALLY if you're reciprocating something she did for you.

[@jarednovel]

Going down on a woman is something that comes naturally depending on how sexually attractive she is. It depends on the level of passion or just how turned on a man is... Likewise a woman would give head without even being asked to if she is really crazy about her sexual partner.

[@wynonasbigbrowndragon6121]

@S500 Prometheus the only reason I don't always do it automatically is because I do have a few female friends that told me it doesn't do anything for them and they actually find it feels kinda gross, the sensation if a tongue down there. I'm more likely to do it automatically if sex is happening, but in the story I just mentioned it was a strictly oral situation

[@aliensoup2420]

I never had to ask, and no woman ever asked for it - I just do it. Never had a complaint, but they often lose control. Some women are embarrassed about their privates being too visible. One gf resisted even though I had done it before. She clamped her legs together and squealed in protest. As soon as my tongue made contact with her pubic region, she went totally limp and started moaning. Then I gingerly parted her legs and went to work.

[@williamhosford2796]

That actually brought a tear to my eye. A woman having to ask for that.

[@michaelhavican196]

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[@Eli-qr9hc]

I’m really glad to hear that one of the points you mentioned about women like for their man to go downtown on them, because I myself, love it so much that I feel guilty that it completely turns me on doing that for her.

[@marnikinrys]

GUILTY??? Never feel guilty about wanting to provide pleasure for another person. That's amazing

[@Eli-qr9hc]

@@marnikinrys I guess “guilty” as in wanting to do that for her SO MUCH and often. Thanks for your shared info.

[@johnwaynegates4857]

I've never had a woman ask me to go down town. Sad , it could be a real turn on.

[@anthonyrobinson2694]

I was asked .....and I turned her down wished I should of tried

[@paulrom446]

@@johnwaynegates4857 Just ask if she wants the 'Express Bus' or the Local/Lick All Service 🐕‍🦺!

[@tomg3826]

"Lock eyes" is hard because most women keep their eyes closed during sex, know why, they can not stand seeing a man enjoying themselves. Not true, my wife and I still lock eyes during sex and it is the silent way to say "I love you so much" without saying a word, been working for 20 years.

[@ericjohnson6665]

"Locking eyes" is expertly represented in the Avatar movies (e.g., way of water) in the expression "I see you!" which, of course, is rife with meaning and significance. Deep, interpersonal relationships are an end in themselves.

[@Anythingforfreedom]

I don't know if you read comments but I think a lot of the guys would appreciate if you interviewed a few hypersexual women not necessarily nymphomaniacs but you know ...really up there, we want to know what makes them tick

[@josephwilkins3982]

Also I’ve been with a woman or two that had my same mindset. Were lovely interactions! I was once with a woman who gave me shivers. She said I’ll get you up no matter what,& if you finish too quickly I’ll get you right back up. She did & did & did. One of the most glorious times of my short life!

[@nathanschachtele2739]

I wish marni had one on one classes

[@brentchaney6154]

Oh yeah- marni has helped me out tremendously- and taught me about women- I love her ❤

[@rrdutch4111]

I can only judge by my exs’ facial expressions and inability to stay quiet, but I learned most of what’s list long ago. Unfortunately, haven’t put it into practice in over a decade. Think it’s pretty clear what women are actually attracted to; an emotionally available man who cares about her pleasure doesn’t really seem to be high up on that list of theirs, if at all. I actually miss making a woman happy almost as much as I miss the sex and intimacy itself; but modern women prefer being used by strangers off tinder, rather than being treated well by a partner now🤷🏻

[@BillyVatcher]

I’m not so sure about that conclusion. I wish you to find someone who wants a relationship instead of the superfluous and insipid cut off sexuality… some people compartamenalize out out fear, or past hurts or insecurities that sometimes they miss out of the best of being with someone… as such men as well as women need to learn vulnerability and self-awareness.

[@JoeHernandez-go8ru]

Ok then

[@JoeHernandez-go8ru]

Ok what isthis I just spoke tow four women 70s and they still active sexually two perfer anul and one of them I introduced it to her

[@JoeHernandez-go8ru]

That why I say again anul ok

[@brennancarter7721]

Marni is making our lives a lot easier fellas.

[@marnikinrys]

That was a really awesome comment!

[@mateo_myles7]

I agree

[@EthansCaverns]

You could say that again.

[@Soumenbhowmik811]

​@@marnikinrys Marni you looks as similar as my chemistry maam. So sexy. ❤

[@chucklombardo8167]

​@@marnikinryswat do u think bout pegging

[@johntaylor4513]

Hey Marni can you do a video on the most common or top 10 kinks/fetishes for women?

[@josephgreear5789]

When in doubt ask what she wants

[@addorsubtract650]

Read Nancy Flowers 1973 book on Women's sexual fantasies.

[@mikem.6340]

A lot of women also love to role play to act out their wildest desires with their guy and vice versa. It keeps the flame going and prevents infidelity.

[@michaelrodriguez3329]

I heard a post . That men and women are in a sexless recession. People are not doing it anymore.

[@marnikinrys]

You gotta read the whole article. It's mainly saying that people are getting married later so less sex is happening on a regular basis. AND people are living at home longer. It's not as salacious as the "title" sells it

[@ericgabriel3527]

Thank you Marni, this was a great investment ... Thank you again and wow I didn't realise that I was such an intuitive lover laready and you just boost my confidence levels

[@jamesjohnson427]

All you need to do is ask and listen to what she wants!

[@BillyVatcher]

It’s so weird how you see tens to hundreds of videos of someone via the internet… which gives you the feeling of being close to someone. I guess what I am saying is thank you for being such a good indirect friend. I bet you would be a great person to chat with whatever the topic would be. I am a happy customer and avid reader of your material and wanted to thank you for your great content through all those years.

[@TexasRoadRanger]

Simply Amazing!! I always look forward to the next video....

[@christal-clear4505]

It would be extremely hard to get to know someone, or even look at someone else with you as my real life wing girl Marni! 😜🤣 thanks for the tips 😊👍🏽

[@bryanmccallum4614]

Your video has helped me understand what I need to do thank you so much! 🌹🌹❤️

[@markrice9773]

I have been married for going on 47 years, and I learned SO much from her! I had a bold and honest conversation with my wife immediately afterwards. Wow! She admitted to almost everything Marnie discussed, and the result was incredibly astounding!!

[@1692Keith]

You know what no one ever talks about? How difficult it can be sometimes, transitioning from text to phone call?

[@chantalecoulombe838]

I have never seen a good video like this before, it's award winning advice, thanks

[@deezgex]

My recent ex. We both had wonderful love making, she overly expressed it alot. And recently she left me over something so small and this hot cold happened all the time but our love making was one thing she would always focus on. Once gone she even told me my love is demonic etc etc. Ughhhh

[@joseabad2552]

Thanks for sharing this information Marni have a great day ❤

[@stephenmoxley3004]

Great video, Marni. As always, solid gold. Love you.

[@dicknodnfs]

I know your channel is younger guy centric, but as an older guy, 68, most older women don't get as vocal because they are used to not waking the kids. Pay attention to the wetness and with forceful dirty talk, reinforce taking her time. Keep preaching Marni.

[@allin4559]

Most of these men should know .. shame if not .. this may fall in the kinky category and goes against the others I heard many women say (wife included) that they want to be "man handled 50% of the time" the romance stuff is nice and generally doesn't need full "sex" but assuming she's "ready" ... then just really "pound away in a few dominating positions and "force" her to do stuff", most men find this hard to do with their wife because it really can be rough and raw .. which I guess explains why some women have a "bad boy" on the side

[@lindsaymcpherson4744]

I basically have no idea how im going to accomplish all this in just 2 minutes

[@d.c.9408]

😂

[@anthonyrobinson2694]

Take your time 😊

[@copiertech101]

Hahahahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!! Thats awesome dude

[@russellzigler2180]

You only get two minutes worth of pleasure.

[@LWRC]

Why so long??!! 😂😂😂

[@shineon7641]

In the end, the Love that you take, is equal to the Love you make. Hear that Girls?

[@zairehaylock4974]

Hi, Marni.

[@johngroll9186]

Now only to find a wife or girlfriend which to me is the hardest thing to do!

[@jimbrown5552]

Thanks again for sharing

[@thunderanderson]

#8 ! Repeat that one LOUDLY !

[@vishnukamihin1910]

I wanna say this channel is BadASS! that's what I'm talking about. And I wish U GooD Luck 4 Yor Future & That's Maa heartfelt🤞Thanks...!! ❤️😯👍

[@michaelanthony9068]

Thank you.

[@stevecatron9607]

So beautiful. Thanks for the advice.

[@therippleeffect1983]

Thank you for the video and nice to hear that I do a lot of these things already 😁

[@BeginFamily-n8e]

Great recommendations Beautiful! Sincerely.

[@guyinpajamapants6892]

Usually I tell my wife that I took out the garbage and paid her Kohls bill. That usually persuaded her.

[@sammartinez8084]

Great show 👍👍👍👍👍

[@jaybirdark]

Most of these only work in a loving, committed relationship, which in itself is a turn on for a woman. I wouldn't think that any woman is able to fully let it go knowing that the guy their about to let generate them, generated a different girl last weekend.

[@davidsnow7886]

Thank You Crystal ilene Ellis

[@3azzamy]

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[@TheLaughingMagpie]

I swear Marni is beginning to look younger and her eyes have always made me think of Sarah Michelle Gellar

[@deslocc124]

Yes.. foreplay.. and talking with my lady.. letting her tell me how she wants it.. Thanks

[@RawnPorter]

Thanks for your info, you're such a sweetie!

[@jarednovel]

Some women do not reveal what they like in bed bacause they do not want to appear slutty when dating a gentleman. This can explain why some of them have side dudes that they feel or believe are crazy enough to engage in all manner of sex acts..He then becomes the person that she secretly sees to explore all her sexual fantasies with including some dark ones apart from her official partner.

[@michaelmaier7262]

That's why those females are idiots. No good man will ever take her seriously once he knows she's sleeping around. For any reason.

[@josephgreear5789]

It’s also on us to ask and look for cues . When in doubt ask what she wants. 😊

[@faizissa8617]

What is this? If a woman has more sexual parterns aside from you then leave her

[@josephgreear5789]

@@faizissa8617 So you like 15 year olds?

[@faizissa8617]

@@josephgreear5789 I hope you are not an NPC! Because I still don't get how you reach this conclusion

[@jimbrown5552]

Watching from Ireland

[@therenegadeviking1454]

I've done almost everything that you've mentioned in this video. At times even more with the exception of some aggression. Did the looking in the eyes, soft kisses, kissing all over, a soft (and sometimes teasing) touch over various areas of the body and even full body massages with massage oils and candles. VERY little of that was ever appreciated. I haven't given up hope though. I believe there are women out there who do want that and appreciate that

[@genewhiteman1811]

Sometimes fulfilling your fantasies can be disappointing keep that in mind to and if you do your fantasies then you no longer have that fantasy

[@ozam35]

thank you Marni

[@kolars4054]

Well done with this! Very thorough. Appreciate the insight. On point. And will add to the pleasure for both partners.

[@C.Wilson-ci9dd]

YOU MY DEAR...are a diamond among stones 💖

[@EnglishAudioBooks33]

Amazing tips.

[@eddiemartin1671]

Great

[@United_Wings]

There's your ad on your video 🎉😅

[@marnikinrys]

ha.

[@remigijusr7014]

Something new again Tanks

[@AshokTiwari-hz8ir]

Thnkeumam

[@bobmorgan5636]

Lead her to know you desire her, that she is totally safe, and that you truly want to bring her pleasure and that tasting her "strawberry " is going to be the best thing you have ever done!

[@bravesrule384]

@ Bob Morgan - LOL @ "her strawberry"...lol

[@jimiMachendrix]

I thought it was "fishy taste." Waiting for that strawberry flavor!

[@BoyTsamba]

Is it still advisable to do it in a hotel room with high tech cameras available nowadays?

[@superrando837]

Please spill some more, it works!

[@cre8gnr8nrg]

I lock eyes and it connects deeply. It's freaked out a few casual flings. lol

[@blair821]

Love it.

[@basamnath2883]

Amazing

[@boldcitycc]

Interestingly , I knew pretty much all of this on my own. And my last woman who i was really in love with didn’t just orgasm, but many many times, and with an intensity that was insane. When we first got together, she told me the most she’d ever had was two..It’s a shame she discarded me because her career went south, and I wasn’t in the position to carry her bills as she had gotten used to a certain lifestyle, and she wouldn’t offload some things that had payments, and then I could have. She actually had discarded me for other things in the past as well, as she has narcissistic traits. Love to her is me making her feel good. Screw my feelings. She chose security over love and passion. I was willing to cut back on things in my life. I guess because i can be on the quiet side, and when I was younger, and women were harder to get for me, I really paid attention and learned these things. Her Body language and reaction will show you the way. Marni is giving legit info, and not just getting views. I may know how to please a woman, but I don’t seem to know crap about picking ones that would choose love over anything else. For most women, they’re able to settle for complacency and a shitty sex life to feel more secure. Her ex husband before me, that s how it was. She pretty much had zero interest in sex. She just focused on work and her career, and they were like friends and didn’t fight, etc.. But no passion. She became a total animal with me. Being their best friend, and amazing passion just isn’t enough if your woman is pretty hot, as they know there’s a line of dudes waiting on Them, so they see you as replaceable.. sad reality guys. Not all, but most women are like this.

[@jirizajic2479]

Hi, Pal, sad but true, that most of novadays women are more material, than emotional...

[@paulrom446]

Yeah It can be a 'Coin of the Realm type thing Sex being Currency One of the best Cinematic depictions of this 'comes' if you will at the end of the movie 🎥'To Live and Die in LA ' where after William Peterson's character is killed off his partner John Vukovich is taking over He visits Rick Chance's(Peterson's)Informant Ruth Lanier portrayed by the late Darlanne Fluegel Long story short the closing line is where Vukovich dressed as Peterson's character says to her:'Your'e working for me now' Which means she'll supply Information for sex At 1st she seems taken aback but at the pentultimate moment her face changes and you can see her wheels turning as if to say:'Yeah This is just business It'll keep my Parole intact I'm in' Like I said 'Coin of the Realm!' Really It works like this

[@myopicchiwawa]

You basically just described Female Hypergamy and monkey branching to a T. Gents, give up on Modern Women and go to Asia or Eastern Europe where YOU ARE THE STAR.

[@kenrenzey4022]

This is nonsense. If your 2nd sentence is true, she's scratching at your window every full moon. Bet.

[@John316OBrian-cm4fj]

Very true especially with Eastern European women

[@anthonymiller2856]

I was never really taught anything. I learned by failure as i was used by woman who wanted treated me like crap as i was too nice. Honestely? I dont know how to reaĺly talj to woman nor how to aproach them the right way. After my ex. I felt depressed and didnt think i would ever be able to have love or even deserve love

[@otosedrm]

You're always amazing. I loves it. ;)

[@Futuristbillpicone]

Subscribed 😆

[@matarrcamara353]

To be honest I really like you 🤗♥

[@ScottyTheAussie]

@marni where can you purchase @joymode in Australia?

[@Andrew-e5e5y]

Marnie, you nailed😊

[@RobertMcKenzie-t2m]

Baby I know these things already but I'll watch it

[@Hellseeker1]

Trust me, he wants to know. Girl as long as it's clean, we can have all the fun you want. I can do weird, but let's take it slow. How did Wesley put it in Princess Bride? "As you wish"

[@AshokTiwari-hz8ir]

😢thnk|umam

[@harrygaul4475]

A Dom Master like me who's playfully fun and genuinely cares

[@robsargent8611]

No doubt about you Marni your not shy

[@ozam35]

you are right but some time man have alot of pressure so he did not Focus

[@paulbrooks2024]

In women on women who comes first the 1st women or the 2sd woman

[@hariszark7396]

Yeah, men need to be mentally ready too, that's why pre sex teasing from women is SO important. But how many women knows that and how many do it?....

[@joelawrence56]

only found recently that oral before every performance increases both strength and longevity... found out totally 'by accident' recently as before i was only an occasional devotee of the 'art'!

[@carlshaw4724]

Cool you

[@DS-wb2we]

......money.....

[@metalpalace]

Well this explains why anytime I have sex with a woman its beyond amazing for both her and I. I went into this video wondering if I would disagree with anything given that all of my sexual experiences have been magical and you are honestly spot on Marni.

[@pathologist..23]

I need to find one. 1st😊 I just moved to a new city in the valley of California and don't use the internet really So I don't know if that's my mistake but on hair blue eyes 6"2 ❤ If anybody's around here don't be shy

[@Patrick10274]

Anything to please a Woman

[@jamesduffy8669]

Does joymode help with pe

[@RonNagy-k8t]

WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN????

[@BrainDeadEngineering]

Woman accualy like you to take control and do every thing physically possible to her right out of the gate . She will be clawing at your door the next day 😊

[@callmeishmael3031]

Not all women want you to go down on them. Some think that part of their body is gross, so in their mind they're doing you a favor by not wanting you down there. And yeah, I've been with a few women I did not want to go down on because it was gross down there, smell and taste wise. I love going down on my wife, though, but she doesn't want me to bother with that. There's no problem getting her to orgasm that way, but missionary is intimate, and her orgasms through intercourse are more intense, so for her it's, why spend time on second best when the big O is waiting?

[@tvv_tva.k.a.travellerinyou2385]

Listening to u and watching u talk is way better than watching porn love the way u talk and u make sense it works when implemented in real life too!

[@davidporter4331]

Coz play

[@stephenhanger2521]

Hey, Im in love but I'm lazy. Maybe she can find some other guy to do all this tiring work then come home. Everybody wins, nobody dies.

[@bigbopper143]

What about the long lost art of pleasing your man ? 👈

[@Fedup63]

You missed the number 1 thing “enthusiasm “

[@tofty21]

This is all very well but what if your wife doesn’t want or even like sex?