10 Signs People Secretly Find You Attractive

Today, we learn about the signs that people secretly find you attractive. Attraction is a complicated subject in psychology, but we have discovered many interesting things.
Sources:
Ways to Tell Whether Someone Is Into You
www.psychologytoday.com/us/bl...
Key Nonverbal Signs of Interest
www.psychologytoday.com/us/bl...
He/She Likes Me; He/She Likes Me Not
www.psychologytoday.com/us/bl...
How to Tell If Someone Has a Crush On You
www.psychologytoday.com/us/bl...
Chief Editor: Tristan Reed
Voice Over: Troy W. Hudson
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[@str8416]

1. People get physically closer to you 2. People adjust the tone of their voice when talking to you. 3. People mirror your postures and behaviours. 4. People don't approach you because you intimidate them. 5. You have effortless conversations because people who like you will tend to agree with you. 6. Frequent constant eye contact. 7. People will laugh at your jokes even if they're not funny, 8. People will follow you or try to imitate the things you do. 9. People brag around you because you make them feel insecure. 10. People disclose to you that they're single and available.

[@ZygonesBzygones]

But all my jokes are funny!

[@MaesRemedy]

God Almighty richly increase you for giving the treasure of time not wasted thru Jesus Name Amen.

[@milascave2]

OK, so if people get physically closer to me, it means that they are attracted to me. And if people don't approach me, it means that they are attracted to me. It turns out that I am super attractive, because people are always doing one of those things.

[@KxC-FK6349]

Ik this but it seems shes ghosting me now

[@jean-francoiskener6036]

People sometimes do come close, but I think they are this kind of weird close talkers. Sometimes a person might imitate my postures and behaviors but I either think they are making fun of me, or they read too much manipulation books. Completely fail the 5, conversations with me are a pain for everyone. People like stories and memories. I like analysis and subtle little details that change everything. People laugh at my jokes yeah, but because when I make one it's fun (I don't make these systematically though, it's more of the context providing). Lol the last time a person told me she was single and avaiable (not with these words) was in the high school. Twice, actually. But not ever since. And the other day a woman told me the best of my face is my beard. LOL that's the only disposable part of my face :S

[@amdeko]

I will forever clap for others until it's my turn 🎉🎉

[@holyshit604]

video starts 2:24 your welcome

[@SimpliSigh]

Thank you:)

[@JustViola2]

Oh my gosh, thank you, you're a treasure

[@anirudhsharma772]

Thanks!

[@WeekofLaughter]

Bless you

[@yelanchiba8818]

Life saver

[@Vy-Oh-Letter]

1.) 2:22 - The Attraction Zone 2.) 3:25 - The Sound of Seduction 3.) 4:12 - Physiological Mirroring 4.) 4:57 - People Don't Approach You 5.) 5:52 - Effortless Conversations 6.) 6:47 - The Look of Love 7.) 7:24 - The Humor Bias 8.) 8:06 - Social Magnetism 9.) 8:44 - The Talent Show 10.) 9:35 - Sharing Their Status

[@JoyDBlegends-ml5rg]

Thanks

[@jessicahawkins6130]

Now, I know the truth. 😂 I applied this to some one I used to know. It makes a lot of sense. I’m flattered!

[@catherinebirch2399]

I never considered myself attractive, but the parts about following, standing too close resonated with me. It really got on my nerves.

[@user-bu4gz3dk7r]

Me too.

[@doriancroatia2054]

OK, that number 6 (someone is looking at me and then immidiately starts to pretend they're looking at something else) definitely happened to me multiple times, I must admit. I don't find myself in other things, but that one is really something I can relate to. Don't know if it's just coincidence, though.

[@BrainWaveExplorers24]

Keep up the fantastic work! Your dedication to empowering others through knowledge is making a difference, and I, along with many others, look forward to your future content.

[@AnnabelArce-wg9mi]

THANKYOU for the auditory queues! Finally something besides visual queues, something helpful for the visually impaired.

[@tallsensa4190]

Ty

[@tatjana7008]

I'm Korean and its soo easy for me in Korea to know whether I'm attractive or not. If you are, people will say it all the time. If not, nobody will mention it (despite what being said online). In Europe however, I never get any compliments and babies the only reminders that I look good 😅 although I'm confident enough and don't need flattery, but for others it might be hard

[@flon6175]

true i watch running men and see it

[@Skoopyghost]

Icelanders are introverted, closed, and shy until they trust you, but Serbia it's to kiss three times on the cheeks.

[@evangelle82]

OMG that's literally me. I've been TOLD by friends I'm attractive, but literally people don't approach me, especially in environments where men and women are at (and are single).

[@user-bu4gz3dk7r]

I'm a boy. Same. They ignore me and overlook. 😂 Sometimes they look at me.

[@indigoGoddess7]

Lol agree! I’ve been called intimidating a lot by both men & women 😂 Or that odd question: “how come you’re still single? You’re too Insert whatever, to be single” 🤣

[@victorcretu7741]

Attraction is not enough. Without "magnetism" 2 people won't get together.

[@infjgirl3850]

@@indigoGoddess7ack, this annoys me so much when I’m asked this 😂

[@jean-francoiskener6036]

Same. They just look, but stay in their little private groups of friends.

[@Bisayang-laagan.vlog51]

Thank you for sharing the interested topic

[@luzguerrero5214]

Im the quiet kid at my school so most of the time no one approaches me. Yay Im not ugly. ANd im not one of those quiet kids you see in memes. Im just introverted.

[@daedaebest]

Really nice and I definitely agree 💯

[@dundyhatan6401]

Stop gassing me up cuh 🥹

[@IMreelucanstanit]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@IMreelucanstanit]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@murderousalonocus307]

I busted out laughing at this comment 🤣 😂 💀. Best comment 👌 👏 👍 He's just being nice 🤭

[@biabiniam]

ijbol

[@GoatBoi_NBA]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭

[@osuk1]

Attractiveness is simply just that - attractive. No mystery about it.😊

[@thuntshaditholepromotions652]

Great content😍😍😍😍😍

[@colorfulshow33]

Whoever is reading this comment, I pray that whatever you’re going through gets better and whatever you’re battling with makes your situation better as you’re continuing to be a better person each day. I have faith that you’ll turn out stronger as your circumstances will improve. Have a great day! You got this! 🤗💪🏼❤😍😉

[@snehasinha4940]

Thank you .. back at yaa

[@-ElPanic0-]

Blah blah blah your wishes won't do SHIT

[@ColtonAnderson420]

i fit every category for some reason

[@bradmiller7741]

Great video

[@suhailadavis1489]

Great thx

[@indigoGoddess7]

This makes a lot of sense. 😂 now I understand why certain people act like this towards me 😊 P.S. my jokes are funny 😂😂😂 might not always be PG, but I’m funny ✨🥰😋

[@steelheadstalker]

Thank you for confirming what I already knew, I'm ugly AF.

[@The1ByTheSea]

In the personal zone how does one know if a person is attracted to you ,or just likes you as a close friend ?

[@starkid77]

Omg; this helps a lot. I used to hear people laughing even when I coughed or made a sound. I work retail and people are staring and whipping up conversations like do I work here when they know damn well I'm working and just left the counter. Even when I put people in their place they still laugh. I thought I was being punked people waiting to get in my line. I wore a mask and somebody said nice eyes😂

[@tatjana7008]

lol its mixed for me, nobody tries to mirror me and thinks I'm funny. Also no social magnetism thing, but other things are relatable

[@jean-francoiskener6036]

Maybe you did not pay attention to the mirror thing. It's subtle. The funny thing bah, maybe you're just the serious type of person. You're can still be attractive

[@remamendonce6756]

It's sad that marriages break like this.... I just recently read a quote... Don't go by your feelings.. Use ur mind

[@jony_mc_kay7882]

Very true those things happen to me🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

[@internationalentertainment6906]

ATTRACTION IS IN THE EYE'S 👀🎼🔥🎶🔥😎🔥🎧🎼✍️💫 OF THE BEHOLDER....

[@jmanroXD]

That's odd. I'm not usually first.

[@nevetstrevel4711]

That's what he said

[@AlanKuleke]

😂

[@sharmasandeep7]

I am happy after watching this video.

[@jonnab]

Sometimes it may be hormonal problem n eyes use to blink i think so ..a person cant concentrate in talking their mind r not calm n stable usually introverts.....

[@redspiderlily.]

The prettiest and most popular girl in our school constantly gets showered with compliments, but i did noticed that people close to her rarely compliments her

[@jean-francoiskener6036]

Obviously, you want people who can actually think about something else besides how they'd fk you in everyday life.

[@rubyrose7858]

Yayy! I’m apparently not attractive 😂😭 I have to do better I guess lol

[@richwithinchannel]

Aww me too!:)

[@smoothlyrough512]

Get purdy 😂

[@AnnabelArce-wg9mi]

Someone thinks you are very attracive. At least ONE person has got to think so.

[@AbigaleKirsten]

Don’t take it seriously, i get moderately approached and according to this video if u don’t get approached that means you’re attractive, but would that mean if you get approached that means your ugly? No. Also, how can you be not approached yet a social magnet… contradiction. Don’t take this seriously.

[@willsommervil6141]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@UniqueVidhan]

Good video

[@frostyyy6823]

I can only relate to number 4

[@premlikesdogs]

Same

[@user-bu4gz3dk7r]

Same lol 😂

[@user-bu4gz3dk7r]

No one interested me. They ignore me and overlook. 😭

[@AlineDreams]

The only signs of those I can fit in is "people don't approach you" and "the humor bias", but I think it just might mean I'm weird yet very funny?

[@user-sc2lt6hu3t]

The being ignored is so true

[@cheriem432]

The diagram started at about 2:40 is called "three concentric circles", but what is drawn is not. Go figure.

[@bunny_lover]

I've been always told by my friends and family that I'm very pretty, but nobody ever approach me. Men are shocked when I tell them I'm single and start getting suspicious and ask me weird questions. People stare, but never approach! Am I intimidating?

[@SG-xw8js]

But what could be the reasons they try to mask their feelings of attraction?

[@michellemckinney4678]

Finally gets to the point at 2:22

[@daphnejohnson5729]

Like this 🎉

[@user-uj9cc5ch5p]

Once women looked at me and followed me around. Now they don't, could be a lot of reasons, but when I was on top of the world life was never lonely. Now that I am just ordinary, women do not even look at me. The Xman

[@silviapinheiro4472]

I am attractive. The 10 signs resonated to me.

[@internationalentertainment6906]

ARE YOU SAYING I'M IRRESPONSIBLE????? MAYBE THAT'S WHY PEOPLE FALL IN LOVE EASILY WITH ME... ❤❤ I DON'T REALLY THINK 🤔 ABOUT HOW OR WHY ?? BUT I KNOW I'M A VERY GOOD LOVER & I WILL FIND ANOTHER WOMAN TO MARRY....!THIS TIME I WILL BE MUCH MORE CAREFUL WHO I FALL IN LOVE ❤❤❤❤WITH

[@CoachJayMalloy]

How to know if you are attractive - If you aren't sure whether or not you are attractive you aren't attractive.

[@user-bu4gz3dk7r]

Honest. I'm not attractive. Because they ignore me and overlook. 😂

[@AbelSesmas]

This is hard for a lot of disability people to who want to find relationships also like myself Including other people also

[@X.Enhypen.X]

im the one who finds the people attractive 😅😢

[@RamenshopxD]

Yep same here lol

[@addddl8975]

Oi that's me yaaa❤❤❤

[@hyemuhyemu8221]

2:33 Yeah, at the beginning this would bother me. Now, i don't care, nor notice, as long as they don't step on my shoes

[@Sebscrace.PRG123]

Hellooo

[@Eve_Murder]

1. Everyone always sits far away from me. 2. They just speak in their regular voice when talking to me. 3. I don't think anyone really mirrors me or my behaviors. 4. No one ever approaches me but it's definitely NOT because I'm attractive. 5. Most of the time, when I try to talk to people It's either awkward or they just ignore me. 6. Nobody ever looks at me. Almost like as if I'm non-existent. 7. When I try to be funny everyone just goes silent and awkwardly stares at me. 8. Yeah, nobody would ever try to be like me, let alone be with me. 9. People don't brag about themselves to me. 10. No one tells me about their relationship status and I don't think they ever will. 11. People don't ever compliment me. I didn't think I was attractive but I didn't think I was THAT bad looking. Maybe I really am ugly. :' )

[@kebman]

Skip the intro: 2:20

[@yeganehaliakbari1639]

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@GaryGraves-lz4fg]

Theres alot of good lookin fellas out there

[@jamesdavis8463]

Times Square Ball?

[@swadeshicreator9717]

Bro called me unattractive in 10 different ways

[@kaibalfour2318]

If little kids cry and run away when they see you then your on the right track

[@SigmaAlpha3295]

8:45 THIS IS TRUE!

[@jean-francoiskener6036]

Really? That's disappointing. I don't do that. I never feel reduced by beautiful people around me, and much less I would do something as illogical as bragging.

[@suhaybcrisaaq7858]

Why is so important to attractive the people ?

[@w.b9259]

People will be more kind to you, you can have more opportunities with jobs, and have a large choice of prétendants

[@rightwingreactionary]

You attractive the people in order to pass on your genes and not die alone.

[@smoothlyrough512]

​@@w.b9259I can say yes to this. I DON'T think I'm attractive, yet I'm told I am. I have had it easier at work, and I DON'T like it.

[@user-bu4gz3dk7r]

If you are attractive. You can feel good bro.

[@tandyedwarddix3668]

No. 4. At my senior prom (1991) three of the most beautiful girls in my class went as a group because no one asked them. All of us nerds were dumbfounded. Like we would have had a chance, but still!!

[@TheRahsoft]

your links to psychologytoday all have broken 403 links

[@netsherrera7193]

Ok, I'm attractive then 😊

[@TheRahsoft]

@@netsherrera7193 well spotted

[@brianhanes5413]

No one ever tells me they're single. Guess this isn't me

[@internationalentertainment6906]

❤❤❤❤LOOK OF LOVE 💖💖💘🔥😎🔥😎🔥😎🔥🎧🎼🎶🎧😎 IS VERY REAL

[@michellegeraldino8566]

Im assuming people

[@r_1901]

Everyone is more attractive near closing time.

[@user-zi7in3ow8k]

I know that im beautiful and people around me do to im tall chiseled good looks bone structure dimple chin light brown eyes very light i walk into a room and woman turn around to stare at me i also have a wonderful voice i have a beautiful mole that compliments my eyes 👀 i talk like this because I can im beautiful and I know it I even get looks from gender that im not interested in im bold im beautiful please give me space please people

[@erfanneysani9035]

So I'm not attractive

[@user-qc7qo9ji2d]

❤

[@freehugs8670]

they look away and never look back at me :(

[@LisaHack-hq3dv]

Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

[@pennydreadful5217]

I know a woman who is not very beautiful but gets loads of attention from men albeit not for very long periods. However she has never married or dated now in her forties. Attraction cannot be explained sometimes

[@abigailcosta1716]

Is that why literally ZERO men ever approach me or seem interested in me? 🙏🤷

[@abrakadabra6368]

Could very well be

[@LisaHack-hq3dv]

Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

[@LisaHack-hq3dv]

​@@abrakadabra6368Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

[@sinlee0438]

Now ik I'm ugly, damn

[@robertpolnicky7702]

Hard to tell in Tennessee because every girl everywhere is married.

[@LisaHack-hq3dv]

Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

[@krishnachaitanyairapani]

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[@AlanKuleke]

😢

[@nhiavue1]

Me watching this knowing full well I am not that attractive 🤣

[@LisaHack-hq3dv]

Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

[@oorosam]

It's funny but next to the Truth

[@LisaHack-hq3dv]

Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

[@smoothlyrough512]

I'm so ugly flies don't bother me 😢

[@juliadiaz1431]

There’s something beautiful in each and one of us 🙋‍♀️

[@user-bu4gz3dk7r]

If you are ugly they look at you and laugh. They can see you ugly and bully you. They call you ugly.

[@LisaHack-hq3dv]

​@@user-bu4gz3dk7rJesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

[@LisaHack-hq3dv]

​@@juliadiaz1431Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

[@LisaHack-hq3dv]

Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

[@stvinney]

Yeah. I think she's being swarmed by men giving her attention because she IS beautiful and there's always gonna be men that have no problem doing that regardless of how she feels Not the same for attractive men Men have to give the green light at least.

[@LisaHack-hq3dv]

Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

[@LydiaRichter-yk6of]

ok soooo....... im ugly... got it 👍

[@LisaHack-hq3dv]

Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

[@JasonSeanSareno1795]

“Secretly Attractive “ in other words; NO One in this world knows youre attractive “ ;yeah that’s it.

[@LisaHack-hq3dv]

Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

[@user-ul6du1wd4v]

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[@LisaHack-hq3dv]

Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

[@duannekhristopermangampat9608]

Some women are Seductive

[@PHILIPWATSON82]

Man stares at women Woman : Callling the police 👮🏼

[@LisaHack-hq3dv]

Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

[@chrisquedenbaum3972]

I enjoyed hugging with guys and women firlt

[@LisaHack-hq3dv]

Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

[@user-ez9ex8hx6v]

I hate that I got attracted to a girl from south river New Jersey USA

[@user-bu4gz3dk7r]

Lol 😂

[@LisaHack-hq3dv]

Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

[@LisaHack-hq3dv]

​@@user-bu4gz3dk7rJesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

[@mikestoneking4992]

my babies have nothing to prove

[@LisaHack-hq3dv]

Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

[@user-dw5xn5mt2n]

Well, I guess I'm ugly.

[@LisaHack-hq3dv]

Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

[@sevenstars4817]

Now 10 signs of being delusional

[@LisaHack-hq3dv]

Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

[@user-pu5gs5vj1j]

me thinking this applies to me while looking like a blob

[@LisaHack-hq3dv]

Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

[@prod.geekboo]

i failed

[@LisaHack-hq3dv]

Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

[@MrInabras]

Yes who cares...

[@LisaHack-hq3dv]

Suicide not allowed

[@-ElPanic0-]

What a load of BS😂

[@LisaHack-hq3dv]

Suicide not allowed

[@MrInabras]

Yes who cares...

[@LisaHack-hq3dv]

Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified