7 Signs Someone Is Attracted to You (And You Have No Idea)

Asking someone out is a super difficult, and a lot of the reason why is due to the chance of being rejected. Researches found that physical attraction and seduction is mostly nonverbal. Shocker, no one usually comes out and says they like you. So, how do you decode these nonverbal cues? Let’s take a look at 7 signs someone is attracted to you (and you have no idea)!
Disclaimer: This video is for informative and educational purposes. It’s not a substitute for professional advice, just general guidance. We advise you to always listen to your intuition and always do what is right for you!
Does someone like you but is afraid of rejection. Watch this video to find out: • 6 Signs Someone Likes ...
Writer: Brie Cerniglia
Script Editor: Caitlin McColl
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Voice: Amanda Silvera ( / amandasilvera )
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REFERENCES
Brightside. (2021, March 9). Psychologists point out 8 signs that show if someone is secretly attracted to you. Bright Side - Inspiration. Creativity. Wonder. Retrieved from brightside.me/inspiration-psychology/psychologists-point-out-8-signs-that-show-if-someone-is-secretly-attracted-to-you-801136/
Daniel, F. (2022, January 20). From flushed skin to eye contact: 27 signs that someone’s attracted to you. mindbodygreen. Retrieved from www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/signs-of-attraction
David B. Givens (1978) The Nonverbal Basis of Attraction: Flirtation, Courtship, and Seduction, Psychiatry, 41:4, 346-359, DOI: 10.1080/00332747.1978.11023994
McShan, A. W. (2022, April 25). Top 10 signs of physical attraction between two people. ReGain. Retrieved from www.regain.us/advice/attraction/top-10-signs-of-physical-attraction-between-two-people/
Steber, C. (2021, June 17). 13 unexpected signs someone is attracted to you, according to experts. Bustle. Retrieved from www.bustle.com/wellness/unexpected-signs-someone-is-attracted-to-you-according-to-experts

[@Psych2go]

A bonus one. When someone is attracted to you, did you know their eyes tend to dilate a bit more? Evidence here: ttps://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0040256

[@hellogents8863]

So that's why women almost look like they're possessed, that makes so much sense!

[@briace9939]

@@hellogents8863 This 😂😂😂😂😂

[@gtgb5680]

Y'all are really milking us lonely prats. I'm not complaining tho lol.

[@hellogents8863]

@@gtgb5680 as long as there are lonely people like us, there will always be views

[@jimmusthegrimmace]

who cares? she can say something or find a new sap to bother

[@Dev.Yadav.]

You're here just because you want to realise that your crush doesn't like you at all. I know... Me too.

[@nthsa04]

🤣🤣

[@Psych2go]

Sometimes, we want reasons to not chase something ;)

[@Qetsia]

💀

[@AntrixB]

@@Psych2go Your voice is very cute!!

[@krystelpines106]

Finally I found my people haha

[@nourmallysalty]

imagine liking someone and they like you back, couldn’t be me

[@aerobiesizer3968]

couldn't be me either ;-;

[@jellymatsuryuka6853]

possibly not me either lol :')

[@IDrawSometimes_]

now ain't that relatable

[@matthew_natividad]

Yes

[@cam.mp4]

ong

[@carcrashheart]

1. Body language shifts/angles towards you 2. They fidget a lot while near you 3. There's a lot of eye contact 4. They find ways to 'accidentally' bump into you 5. They find ways to touch you 6.They work their relationship status into the conversation 7. They keep in contact with you

[@C____1-2]

Some girl kept making excuses of touching my back because I "stole" a cheeto that someone was giving directly to me, and she also said I stole one of her chicken nuggets even though I never did that and as a matter of fact, she kept trying to steal one of my chicken nuggets.

[@CertifiedWellington]

I do all of these but i don't like her shes just a friend 😭

[@jonispringer]

Everything but the last two

[@northluvsu6322]

So about the first sign, body language, I think it's important to keep in mind that just because someone's body is facing towards you doesn't mean they like you. In fact, I almost guarantee most of the time it's just them being comfortable. I know because I am like this, both on the side of overthinking everything someone else does and the side of "I sit comfy in weird ways"

[@tasiadupree]

Remember everyone, these are just possibilities and just because someone does these things doesn’t mean they have romantic feelings towards you. It could mean that they are just very comfortable with you.

[@waleedkhalid7486]

This is an important comment, especially for us guys who might be on the lookout for these behaviors for the purpose of finding love. One way to make sure the feelings are truly love is to see if the crush does these behaviors with others. The person may just be friendly, but if you are truly their special someone there will be something they will only do with you, and they will do it consistently. And, if in doubt, ask. It’s hard, and it will feel like not knowing is better than being rejected, but it’s a lie. You stop yourself from really living life by keeping yourself stuck like that. Frankly, it’s better to rip the bandaid off as fast as possible because the sooner you get hurt, the sooner you can heal and learn from the experience. Trust that you’ll be fine in a week or two, and look for someone else who loves you back the same way you love them. For those of you who think you have no hope- I won’t lie, it’s hard and the journey will be harder. Many people will have an easier time than you, but that’s just life. Even if you are playing on hard mode, there are still things you can do to improve yourself- get a better job (make more money) via education (go back to school), dress better, go to a salon for your appearance, take up a hobby and practice it (ladies especially love it when their man has a long term passion for something). If you are poor, you still have a chance, it’s just that your journey will be longer. Trust that as you improve yourself people will take note, even if it takes 10 years instead of 5.

[@StarboyXL9]

So the entire video is useless? Yeah I knew that lol

[@ryangreene270]

Fidgeting isn't a sign of comfort though.

[@relchan489]

Yep this happens to me, i fall in love and she just think me as a friend, how my heart shatters to pieces... i already move on , it was hard...., i just stop having to do with her, i need time to forget her,

[@lorddio4280]

I mean some of These like the fidgeting and looking at you could mean their intimidated.

[@ek-wz4xj]

1. Their body language shitfts towards you 0:30 2. They fidget a lot 0:59 3. There's a lot of eye contact 1:44 4. They find ways to accidentally bump into you 2:16 5. They find ways to accidentally bump into you (LITERALLY) 2:42 6. They work their relationship status into the conversation 3:18 7. They keep in contact with you 3:37 You're welcome

[@achillibean]

thank u!! \-w-

[@SillySamWho]

Me, An Aro/Ace: Oh No 💀

[@MiriadCalibrumAstar]

thx, this is for those lazy bumbs like me.

[@DHARK1873]

Yeah, pretty sure #7 will never happen for me. Oh well.

[@MiriadCalibrumAstar]

@@DHARK1873 Keep searching, keep improving yourself, the time will come.

[@flamehunter001]

Even while watching several of these types of videos, my one fear is to be wrong about them, cuz it has happened too often for me that I misread and it becomes awkward when the other person isn't interested at all. I was even called arrogant on one occasion, and that left an emotional scar on me since, which has caused me to not wanting to read into these signs more than I should and just accept them as friendly gestures instead of romantic indicatiors....

[@pioneer1131]

with the help of this lovely channel we can all now realize that the people we like want to be at least 50 miles away from us at all times and with 7 different ways to prove it!

[@hellobye2824]

The whole "they face towards you" thing is incredibly funny to me, because I was working with a classmate I was platonically interested in a week ago, and while they were faced towards me and trying to maintain eye contact, I barely looked in their general direction. Edit: I'm autistic

[@History_Nurd]

Damn, bro got ratio'd 💀

[@darthrader1068]

@@History_Nurd no

[@kennethfung3618]

Bro got friendzoned

[@EVILxxTOAST]

Rip

[@Michaketsu]

RIP LMAO

[@hauntii_]

Your channel helped me cut off toxic friends and feel better about myself. Love you guys 😭♥️

[@hauntii_]

@Aubrey0606 sure! :) I do have a friend that's stuck with me for about 6 1/2 years, and I am very greatful for him! Hopefully I'll be able to find some new friends as well

[@Psych2go]

Happy to hear that. It must have been really hard for you to do that. How did you cope with the after thoughts?

[@hauntii_]

@@Psych2go it was very hard, I am bullied in school and the two "friends" I cut off were really the only ones I had (other then one other person). Watching these videos helped me realize how bad of friends they really were. To help me with the after thoughts, I just think of how much better I've been feeling without them in my life, and that I still have my life long friend by my side to help me. Sometimes I do still feel lonely, and I with that things had worked out for me, but I know that it was the best thing for me to do :)

[@internationalentertainment6906]

GOOD 👍💯🔥😎🔥😎🔥😎🔥😎

[@SweetlyFaith]

Yayy

[@Colleen-gm9vy]

The art in this video is STUNNING!

[@disguisedpuppy]

Not gonna lie whenever i am in dread and i find their videos in recommendation I just click on them to feel relaxed, Amanda's voice is so calming!

[@teresamcmurrin8672]

My husband and I were friends that fell in love, but were both scared of saying anything b/c we were kinda clueless about how the other person felt (everyone else knew but us) & didn't want to risk messing up our friendship. Yeah, we had most of these signs. But my guy is very, very shy, and had problems making eye contact for very long, it was just too intense for him. We'd been engaged for a couple of months before he could look me in the eyes for more than a few seconds! 😆

[@phantomapprentice6749]

Chances are he was just watching a lot of porn , pretty common symptom of that is being unable to make eye contact without feeling uncomfortable. I think I've dated someone like that, she was very uncomfortable with me making eye contact and I didn't know why so I didn't push it.

[@-Samik-]

Thats cute

[@ulcutie8852]

He may be autistic ❤

[@teresamcmurrin8672]

@@phantomapprentice6749 No, he's never really been into porn. It just doesn't do a lot for him. It was a combo of things--aside from being painfully shy, at first he was trying very *very* hard to not give away his feelings. And, as I said, looking me in the eyes was just too intense for him. He's outwardly a very controlled person, but his feelings run deep and strong.

[@xfreja]

that’s so adorable aw

[@priscilamenjivar6741]

This just further proved that I REALLY like my crush and he doesn’t like me back 😬

[@n1midojohnfan]

frfr

[@iliriaishere]

same i was slowly crumbling inside watching this

[@HimothyJimothy33]

I'm still retaining hope Edit: She rejected me

[@victoriapeay3019]

Same boat. Sorry about that. We’ll find someone who feels the same way in time 🥺

[@ggtragicsansbro6495]

Its OK he is only 1 out of the 8 billion people. Hope you find someone that cherishes you

[@BlackOps78321]

The bad thing about this is, it can be totally wrong.. I was definitely 'attracted' to someone I met, but simply in the wrong mood. They were pretty warm toward me, and I realize they liked me. But I just froze anyway. I didn't return their gaze, I kept my stance, etc. It didn't mean I didn't want to talk to them. I think eventually she decided because I wasn't doing some of these things, that she decided I wasn't interested, but I actually was. Too bad such things can happen. Especially when people think they are smarter by follow these 'general guidelines', they are usually 100% wrong, once someone doesn't follow them exactly they'll think that it's scientific somehow, when it's not, it's just a little guideline that doesn't apply all the time.

[@BreadApologist]

The inherent problem with these sorts of things is that everything mentioned could mean nothing. Sitting one way might just be more physically comfortable for that person. People could tell you their relationship status being single cause they are either proud of it or depressed about it. Making time to talk to someone doesn’t mean attraction, ive gone out of my way at various jobs to chat with coworkers cause I was bored n it helps pass time. Some people are more touchy than others, nationality n culture can play into that as well. Ultimately it’s safer to always opt on the side of caution and assume it’s all inconsequential or platonic, unless directly stated.

[@hopelessoptimist3655]

You used Katarina Claes from “my next life as a villainess” nice. She 100% the perfect model and I love that you used her.

[@theaterkidd302]

I know!! I saw her so I clicked 😂

[@Randomperson-fd9bc]

@@theaterkidd302 I'm saying! i started laughing out loud 💀

[@yuiitodoro7791]

Man she is so oblivious 🤣, it hurts to see , I became aware that I dislike harem cause of this show...cause I used to imagine that many clone Katharina were formed and ended up with everyone just to feel better 😵

[@cosmo_sonata]

@@yuiitodoro7791 I like some parts of the anime, but I agree with you on those points.

[@toori4269]

@@theaterkidd302 xD thought it was only me

[@kotori87gaming89]

I used to be afraid of rejection. Now I'm afraid of malicious action. A single false accusation can have catastrophic consequences, and utterly derail somebody's life.

[@simrahsyedda2222]

Agreed in my school a single sentence coul ruin my life and no matter how ridiculous it is nobody questions it blind following is a really bad thing

[@jellymatsuryuka6853]

Yes it's bad that things like that can happen, but you shouldn't be paranoid and stop trusting people entirely just because of that.

[@jeffersonfan393]

Indeed, it's the scariest thing I can imagine and honestly it's becoming a crippling fear. I'm thinking about buying a tie clip camera to cover my rear *just in case*

[@corncobbob2326]

Wdym exactly? Any examples?

[@thatgui88]

YUP I assume no one is out to get me to avoid trouble

[@normalpeoplelikeme]

Putting Bakarina as the thumbnail was based.

[@thedying_insidelady]

I can’t with the Bakarina thumbnail 😭🤚😂 I bet even with this knowledge she wouldn’t notice the whole cast’s crush on her 💀🤚

[@nightm1me]

she wouldn't😭😭

[@curiousrex5183]

Summary guy: 1) Their body language shifts towards you 2) They fidget alot 3) there is a lot of eye contact 4) they find ways to accidentally bump into you 5) they find ways to accidentally bump into you (literally) I. E. Physical contact 6) they work their relationship status into conversation 7) they keep in contact with you

[@girly.mimi00]

*guide

[@doctorvladandhisbluejaysd2802]

Thanks for the summary brother

[@heygraey]

Oh I always took him telling me "I'm a single man blah blah blah" as he wants to stay single 😂

[@doctorvladandhisbluejaysd2802]

@@heygraey it usually depends on the tone of the person's voice and the context of which they brought it up.

[@heygraey]

@@doctorvladandhisbluejaysd2802 oh interesting! Thanks

[@B2k4E]

Even as a more introverted person, I always look at someone in the eyes when I'm speaking to them or they're speaking to me. It's more of a respectful/courteous thing for me and not so much a sign or indication of attraction.

[@drowz9825]

Sound extroverted to me

[@B2k4E]

@@drowz9825 I’d rather be hunting, hiking, camping or reading books/ playing games than going out with a crowd of people in my spare time. I’ve just realized several years ago that completely shying away from social interaction and potentially projecting a lack of confidence isn’t going to get you far socially or professionally in this world.

[@Hey-ey9jn]

​@@drowz9825 being an introvert doesn't make u shy why does everyone think that??

[@loganbair9562]

@Hey because that’s what introvertednes is?

[@Hey-ey9jn]

@@loganbair9562 that's not what introvertedness is, introvert means you enjoy being alone, not that you aren't confident or shy. That's a common stereotype, you need to educate yourself.

[@dripgoku5350]

Your voice is so soft and calming. Perfect for these kinds of videos

[@matejazivkovic6471]

Thank you! I have now figured out that not a single person around me finds me attractive!

[@aerobiesizer3968]

same

[@pioneer1131]

same

[@randomnerd5913]

Same? I don’t know, status pending.

[@elmismisimo4442]

Same

[@lilThingz]

Lol same bro s’all good

[@gvp8864]

1:37 friend zoned lol

[@NoName-rq8ec]

"Yeah again, we can't really be too sure. Maybe she's from Canada and just being polite." - Casually Explained

[@MangoWifi831]

I love all your videos, they are so helpful!

[@noscopedemon7836]

Finding if someone likes you is like decoding the cryptic zodiac writing.😂

[@simmyot]

wow! now i know what *not* to do when someone i like is beside me! thank you

[@HDGamerofficial]

Your voice is incredible! The whole video I was mesmerized by it! Amazing job on the video btw, it was very informative stuff 👏👏👏

[@emaelysamariatocu9783]

My crush fits into three of these remarks. Plus, he always notices small things that nobody else notices, like when I wear a new piece of clothing. I have been doing most of these signs towards him; I hope he finds this video, watches it and notices that I do these things a lot around him.

[@StuffBySam]

Well, what are you waiting for?

[@doctorvladandhisbluejaysd2802]

Odds are he isn't going to watch this video unfortunately 😕 don't be afraid to ask him out though! The worst he could say is no :)

[@fewer9831]

You can send him this video 😏

[@ScarBrosBlackSmokeScarBrosBlac]

Just go! Any of you two can make the first move!

[@kubasliwa204]

Or, you know, you could just make an actual move to help things along, instead of hoping for fate's hand or him to start being more bold. You're already seeing these signs in him so why not? No, seriously, go for it. I didn't when I probably should have. Don't be me.

[@yassineddx2382]

I just learned something... No one is attracted to me.

[@Astroo-dc3yz]

These videos are amazing, you’ve really helped & strengthened the relationship between my crush! Thank you so much Psych2Go! :D

[@emilejanin614]

Idk why this video landed in my recommandations but I love the chill vibes

[@charadreemurr534]

The, "Pls get a phone." one just KILLED me.

[@RiskyStrats]

Alright 1 out of 7. The signs are pretty clear. I'm sensing a lot of attraction here.

[@Spaghetti742]

Same 😭

[@Valtinho22he]

Me too

[@OnionTheSquid]

Me 3 out of 7, I remember one time she was sitting besides me and then turned towards me and stared at me for like 10 seconds

[@diegoyatesoflubbocktx]

Thank you. This has been very helpful. I plan to take a psychological course this next school year. Hopefully that will also help me a lot in "reading people."

[@crusty4249]

I now realize that I do all of these things with people I have no intention on going out with

[@sonyaplaysgenshin1636]

Me realising no one has a crush on me 👁👄👁 "I am fine" "Really?" "Yes" "Okay" *goes home* *has mental breakdown*

[@lynnlitung]

Sometimes it's better if NO ONE has a crush on you, especially if you're NOT into them. They won't DEMAND that you spend time with them, answer their texts, show interest in them or demand that you go to their house and do PDA and you're free to move on. Peacefully.

[@sonyaplaysgenshin1636]

@@lynnlitung damn you talking with expirience?

[@flimedbylia]

@@sonyaplaysgenshin1636 probs

[@uchihaavenger4464]

I feel your pain. Its the same with me too bruh😢😢😔one day i say im fine being single, then other days im like "bruh is love not meant for me or something?" After awhile i honestly stopped believing in it bruh. To me,love exists for others but not me. Only heartbreak and being used seems to be the only crap im given. Sometimes it sucks being nice,but i can never be cold hearted cause its just not in my DNA bruh...

[@sonyaplaysgenshin1636]

@@uchihaavenger4464oof same :") Tho my problem is that if something bad happens to someone like a phone is not working or if my classmates heart got broken bc of a break up or smth i act cold bc i dont know how to comfort them so i ignore it or just dont talk to them me being socially akward is the worst thing that happens to me lol ,kinda introverted- thats why im feiendless and loverless lol Tho online im extroverted because i dont have to do eye contact and i can be myself (my personality is weird) without anyone that ill know for a long time judging me :")

[@Aaron_Smith_OM]

Communication is so muddy. I have worked into the habit of saying how I feel and, whether or not it's reciprocated, rejoice in the fact that I told someone incredible what they mean to me. I've met so many women that would laugh at my corny jokes, go out of their way to hang out with me, and touch my arm throughout a conversation, or hold eye contact with me more than others, and it just came out to be that our conversation was really deep or pleasant to them and they were invested or, they were just nice. I'm not the best at reading how someone feels about me and videos like this don't help me much, BUT it does allow me to see others (I like to people watch) and notice budding relationships or attraction between folks. It's nice.

[@emmanuelsalako7370]

Nice I really love this video and it speaks volumes, attraction works in very wonderful ways thanks for all the pointers it was helpful

[@Smile_Guy01]

amazing plug

[@thatsyaboi8185]

Y’all, just go for it. When you go up to people 99% of the time they will be nice. People like talking. Ask them about themselves and feed off their answers for other things to talk about. They will ask the same thing back to you out of politeness. That’s the key. They are polite because they are glad to be talking. If that small chance happens where it goes differently (they are passive to you) then that’s in them, that’s fine. Just thank them and continue on. And sometimes people just need a bit more encouragement, they seem cold but if you keep digging you might find something they like and will talk about.

[@villevironmaki4843]

Wow look at this guy with social skills and positive experiences. Couldn’t be me tho

[@uchihaavenger4464]

​@@villevironmaki4843 not too much a fan of talking to random people i don't know in person. On internet, different 😂 but real life??? Ehhhhhhh

[@Raymond-Z32]

W Man

[@alexlau3014]

As a person that is shy and introverted, it is very hard just to look someone in the eyes and also it is very hard to bump into people because that just makes it feel awkward but that’s imo because that’s how I am and how I see it

[@bubblingbrook2132]

Yeah, same!! I struggle to make eye contact with pretty much anyone, but it's harder when it's my crush. I feel bad cuz the guy I like seemed to want to make eye contact a lot, but I kept looking away quickly when I met his gaze. 😥

[@yeetfeet731]

I'm shy too, but I always look people in the eyes when I'm talking to them. I feel like it's more polite idk

[@zayd8977]

There was one time when we were in a group activity and my crush is in there. She is near me then, we stared eye to eye for a few seconds i was like "Dafuq you thinking bro" so nervous at that moment and looked at nothing. I also noticed that sometimes, she stares at me then immediately shifts away if i turn to her vicinity. Today, another group activity is held and shes there again. Of course not that awkward eye to eye moment again, this time its normal. We just do the task and shes quite impressed when i wrote a certain answer. But who knows maybe this is just her personality, just like you im a shy and introverted person. Cant openly or approach someone instantly unless im urged or forced to do so or...one time when i kinda have the confidence that i recieved from something. Uh...its alright if she dont like me back if that thing ever happened. I still have another crush in my classroom and shes considerably closer but less cuter...but i still find her attractive and special for some reason. Also one thing i didnt even have any female friends until now and i badly want one but dont have the confidence to talk to one which is annoying 😭😭😭

[@zayd8977]

Also i badly want to call a girl "bro" for some unknown reason LMAO

[@zayd8977]

Fyi the second crush i mentioned, i also think shes the "unpopular" one, like no one really mentions her or ship her with someone. Thus, me having the better chance but screw my shy personality i just cant do the damn thing.

[@angelor9211]

As an anxious person, if you notice me fidgeting or can't seem to relax please don't think I'm attracted to you, Im just genuinely awkward as a person

[@kitsunrise3711]

One thing that I find that I do when I have a crush, is unintentional eye contact. I’ll be looking around, say, at the pretty landscape, and suddenly my crush and I are staring at each other. It is never an intentional thing for me, in fact I usually try to look away. (But I do fidget a lot) This is just a small reminder that not everything is the same for everyone ❤️

[@NathalieLazo]

Remarkable person reading this.. It’s going to get better; all it is a season of opportunity to grow and be better than before. Challenging times are meant to strengthen us, not to break us. Success doesn’t define to what happened to us; it is how we choose to deal with our circumstances. The more you grow and develop as an incredible person as you are, the more things will change for the better. Forgive more (for you), be grateful for even the smallest things (we have it way better than someone else), choose love over ego, choose humility over ego (humility is strength), and finally, invest into new skills so that your future self will thank you. Our lives will change forever the more we grow. Be thankful for the challenges for we know something greater is coming. Love you always - Nathalie ✨❤️

[@20ksubswithoutvideos43]

Your calming voice really set my heart at peace.

[@huzaifagill001]

Hit like if you're Single

[@PrimitiveLife4m]

My crush looks at me. But not in that way. She eyes me with an expression that says, “I know you have a crush on me and I’m not interested” 💀

[@BruceWayne-go2iv]

Oh nah man that gotta hurt frfr

[@uchihaavenger4464]

💀💀ouch

[@zeryx8080]

Your voice is so relaxing to listen to

[@TrebleclefMay]

Hmmm. I have definitely had a crush on other people. And I can say with some confidence that no one has had a crush on me.

[@QuickBell801]

I feel you my guy… is rough sometimes.

[@zagnose]

Just a story that I thought I should share here, so I was hanging out with my best friend and my crush (my crush and I are kind of ex-best friends ever since we lost contact a few years ago). We were chatting and my friend mentioned that I have a bug crawling on my hair. I nervously asked them to get it off. Now, I don't usually get THAT freaked out by bugs but my crush was getting close to me in order to get the bug off my hair and I started panicking, I could feel my face turning red haha! My friend gave me 'the look' because she knew I'm not very dramatic over little things like bugs. I still can't believe my crush really touched my hair that time and my heart flutters every time I think about it ☺️

[@nthsa04]

That's so cute! I get how you feel at the time 😆

[@yuiitodoro7791]

Cute 💓😆

[@matthewtan614]

Have you made any progress with him

[@zagnose]

@@matthewtan614 Nope. I actually don't like him anymore (crazy because I was in love with him for over 3 years). We still see each other, we're friends, and it almost feels like he's the one crushing on me now lol. But I moved on, for good.

[@egertroos-qh7hw]

​@@zagnosewhy didnt you make a move

[@mors2908]

Love you guys!

[@BlueMinionIW]

Just the fact that everything can match up, yet, they don’t like you.

[@bluscreen4193]

I love how every video has a different art style. Thank you for helping so many people with this kind of stuff. Have a good day everyone 😁

[@Psych2go]

Aww. Thank you! This was done by Krisha, the same person who animated our trauma video. Did you get a chance to watch it? kzbin.info/www/bejne/gmKco6KdrNeho5I&ab_channel=Psych2Go

[@bluscreen4193]

@@Psych2go no but I will after my eye doctors appointment. I’ll watch it right after :D

[@ilabjihyo2336]

Me watching this even though i know that no one is ever going to be attracted to me

[@luisarielmolina4178]

Remember The father, the son, and the holy spirit loves you!

[@tommyberru]

Same

[@Musicisgreat928]

This absolutely just made my day

[@njizimsoo]

love this video so much

[@guitarcamo5473]

One tip I’ve noticed recently is that if the person that likes you is too shy they’ll have a more confident friend do some of the talking like one girl saying she wants to see what I look like without sun glasses on so her friend that likes me can compliment me on my eyes. It actually happened

[@bach556]

It’s always hard for me to know if a girl is really attracted to me or she’s just being kind

[@Psych2go]

Shoot your shot.

[@bach556]

@@Psych2go do you think so ? I always fear rejection … it will affect my self-esteem

[@jimmyinnit]

if u like the girl, I'd say take your chances! You'd better ask before someone else takes her, and the worst she could say is no ^^

[@bach556]

@@jimmyinnit tbh i don’t like when a girl says no to me … i feel like i’m worthless

[@jimmyinnit]

@@bach556 well I'm not really a professional in this field but if that's the case, I'd say you should work on your confidence more before you re-enter the dating scene

[@dregorerampin7439]

Thank you. The pleasure is shared

[@AjPlays001]

IT WORKED SO COOL

[@majinvegetastan2189]

My friends at work always tease me about not having a girlfriend, but little do they know mine’s been with me for 1 1/2 years, and watching this video after seeing it in my recommended always made me reflect on how long my girl has really been into me. Love the content so far, keep it up! ❤️

[@uchihaavenger4464]

Awww,really happy for you!

[@otakumangastudios3617]

I’d like to point out that this could be a sign of trust and familial closeness. I think we need to stop thinking about “are they sexually attracted to me? “And start thinking “do they love me? “Because they might not love you in a romantic way but they might love you in other ways but that’s equally awesome! Especially as someone who came from a bloodline of a lot of trauma, it means a lot to me if someone who’s not related to me loves me, so you don’t necessarily have to be looking for romantic love here, it’s equally awesome if someone loves you as family.

[@otakumangastudios3617]

By the way I’m saying all this because I do a lot of these things as a means of showing trust and when I want to get more lovingly close to someone that isn’t biologically related to me. I don’t trust anybody I’m biologically related to, I would say the only way this could be accurate as if they also talk about their relationship status.

[@pillakilla9122]

So what exactly is a bloodline of a lot of trauma?

[@Adeyum64]

It's not equally awesome for everyone though.

[@theredneckdrummerco.6748]

well said

[@otakumangastudios3617]

@@pillakilla9122 exactly that. It’s called familial trauma but I call it bloodline because I am no longer allowing myself to decline family is anything related to genetic relatability, as typically also these types of toxic family dynamics pull you in further by making you feel guilty for ever loving anybody else as family so if you’re going to see your best friend later that day they will say “but how about family!? “Or “there’s nothing more important than family “

[@moyaya527]

wow this really helped thank you guys😀

[@handikadirga747]

Oh my the thumbnail! Really great thumbnail that really pic the topic haha

[@MoltoRubato88]

I would add a few others. It helps to connect with someone you know: like, if you were students who frequently took classes in college years ago, and you remembered how they would go out of their way to support you with what you were doing. Sometimes, the best way to show them that you care is to not only keep in contact with them (In a healthy way, not like a creepy stalker). Return the favor by demonstrating reciprocity. Listen to them. Show interest in what they have to say. If they mention their family, then find ways to demonstrate that you show respect. Be there for them: in sickness and health, even when communicating virtually via email. Let them know that you are thinking about them without coming off as weird or obsessive. If they demonstrate signs of empathy, like if you've been recovering from illness for a week and the other person wishes for your speedy recovery, then chances are that they care about you.

[@TReyeHD]

I don't know if this counts but someone I grew up with came over for a visit one day and we were having a conversation. She asked me a critical question, like "What do you think of...?" and I answered wholeheartedly with my firm opinion and she was really happy to see that we shared the same view about the topic we talked about. Literally the next day she asked me if she can come over for another visit and we kept talking. I moved house and now I live closer to her, which we both find good because we can visit each other, although she prefers to visit me rather than invite me over for reasons I'm not allowed nor want to talk about. Either way, whenever she wants to come over she messages me, I get ready to pick her up and as we walk we always have a conversation. At some point she asked me another critical question, another "What do you think of...?" and I answered with what was my firm opinion again. This is literally my own opinion about these topics but they lined up so well. Taste in music, interests about movies/series/games/fandoms. I'm a Warhammer nerd and not ashamed to admit it. She doesn't know Warhammer that much so I understand why she doesn't share the same enthusiasm as me. But when she introduced her fandoms to me I was quite interested. All by myself, I would probably have ignored it and kept to my own interests but she showed me around. Later on, she visited me a few more times, I let her play on my gaming setup, she plays her favourite game that I took the time download for her. Again, on my own I would never have looked at it. But she showed me interesting things and I even started my own game there. At some point I let her use my VR setup, told her about a world she might want to visit in VRChat and when she went there she was so giddy about the selection of Avatars; They were from her favourite game. It was quite adorable to see her jump in excitement. She tends to feel more like herself around me. Which makes me happy knowing I can be some kind of sanctuary to her.

[@chocolatefarm5408]

This story is my favorite! CAN I HAVE THAT TOO, PLEASE!?

[@gamesingreen8449]

@@chocolatefarm5408sorry, we ran out of those a few weeks ago

[@ladyoblivious]

A lot of this for me is, I'm clumsy, I'm shy, I'm told I have to look people in the eyes for proper conversation, but I'm shy so it fails, and you're my friend. The amount of times I've been misunderstood.

[@Lesley1006]

Great transition to hit the like button

[@shhmarmoryt7397]

It helped alot, but it's so different when you fall in love with your best friend and you don't want to ruin the friendship between us. Most of these things happened with the both of us but now we don't even talk that much and I'm still getting mixed signals.. Feels good to say it out. Thank you and your videos are amazing

[@bryn6877]

love the ‘my next life as a villainess’ reference in the thumbnail!

[@spagooba215]

Not me searching the commenting section for people who actually knew the thumbnail(Catharina Claes) ...NOW I CAN REST EASY. Thanks

[@Bluple_studio_becreative]

Haha sameee!

[@larei3979]

Bakarina would be the one who needed this video the most since my frustration of her not realizing it is so bad that at the 100th chapter I am screaming for anyone to confess to her already I don't care who! Sorry about that rant.

[@bubb6451]

So watching this video has made me realise that I must really confuse the people around me because I do pretty much all of these things with pretty much all of my close friends 1. I’m very comfortable with my friends and will constantly be facing them pr just straight up cuddling them 2. I fiddle a lot anyway even when I’m on my own 3. I don’t really make prolonged eye contact with anyone because it gets uncomfortable after a while but I do look at my friends a lot if passing them 4. I don’t pretend it’s an accident but I always like to talk to my friends so I always do. 5. As I mentioned earlier I will just straight up cuddle my friends and I always touch them 6. I don’t really do this one but eh 7. I like to talk to my friends and will try to keep in contact with them especially if they are very close friends that I like talking to I have been dropping accidental signals that I don’t mean my entire life

[@rinaaaah]

Lmao. Me too. But I’m a girl who’s straight with other girls (some straight some not) I think we all think that it’s platonic and close friendship

[@okamiakuma9158]

I know realize that I have never had someone do any of these to me, makes me feel a bit sad, love your videos you helped me realize how bad my elementary school friends were love you guys and thanks for helping me and a lot of others out

[@eatonbeaver69]

It's really unfortunate that 95% signs of attraction are visual cues. I'm almost legally blind and I miss out on all of it. I'm 32 and have never been in a relationship. I feel like I've missed out.

[@yenyen4114]

Catarina being in the thumbnail is perfect for this hahahaha my next life as a villainess supremacy ♡

[@user-my7vt7hu3k]

Great channel 👍

[@LakkzScratch]

Thank god. i have been blessed, if ykyk. these videos give me hope.

[@ItsYaBoy_Buzz]

“Has this helped you find someone attracted to you?” Nah it’s just helped me realize no one likes me 💀 though that I coulda guessed

[@Mystik_Music]

What if I'm nervous and only look at them if they're not looking Just a bit of eye contact scares me even with normal people

[@rdesignartes2520]

Nice video, just a reminder that fidgeting a lot could also be because the other person has anxiety or it's feeling particularly anxious that day lmao I say that cause my anxiety does that a lot to me i can't stand still for saving my life.

[@penpun2832]

Altough my feelings are yet to be discover hopefully I like your videos, thanks to them Im able to seek knoledge of these emotions for me personally it is quite difficult to communicate with people due to my slight lack of emotions thanks to my mental dissability, but I look forward to your videos they are very helpfull.

[@DefNotBrina]

Wow your guys’ art has gotten so much better over the years! Very impressive and I love ur vids!😄

[@Jay_0605]

It's actually the reverse for me! I'd hardly make eye contact with someone I like when talking with her

[@annepandesal]

Thanks for this, using this to better hide my feelings x'D

[@BubbsYum]

WAAOAOW THE THUMBNAIL CATARINA

[@tuneflake8433]

I would love a video about the Inner Child 😊 it helped me a lot to be happier and feel safer overall

[@ChiefHeavyArms]

Looking back now, I can see that there were several people interested in me at various times in life. I had no idea at the time, because of course I didn't know any of these tips. Now I'm old, so I guess these tips won't do me any good anymore, but it still gives me a boost knowing that I once caught a few people's eyes

[@Atomics69]

First of all, great advice. Second, not to be weird or anything but your voice is verry soothing idk something about reminds me of my sister Mariah.

[@Spankybuttweed500]

I enjoy seeing these videos for the simple reason that no one ever showed any of these signs with me

[@ayoutubecommenter7494]

I loved this video, not just that it was cool and useful as usual but I laughed a fair bit especially on that like part, that was creative 😂

[@_-TR1X-_]

I love your videos, the love one that is. They actually show signs of what I do when I see my crush >_

[@siu229]

me 0:01 into the video: WRONG, NEXT QUESTION

[@JuliLukiKon]

Liked and subscribed 😉

[@Priyanshu_Dashore]

3:46 - Pls get a phone 🤣🤣🤣

[@ferimafri]

This means alot for me, thank you 🙏❤️

[@iwantabigpiece]

1:25 That was a smooth one Psych2Go, I'll give you that lol

[@morganisblu8547]

so there'd been this friend of mine who was giving me massive signs of having feelings for me and I asked them if they did, they said no. but since then I've had this weird feeling that they did and I found this video about a week after. yeah they definitely had some feelings for me which would be a W for someone who isn't an asexual non-binary person and not open to relationships. it's probably going to be awkward/weird for me next week when I meet them again lol.

[@cheddarcheez9606]

how did it go?