10 THINGS ALL TOPS WANT BOTTOMS TO KNOW!

[@pwk22]

"Let's say the top is doing a really good job, but perhaps he's not choking you." It's unlikely I will hear that line again this week.

[@RidgewayInMedia]

As a top, I need to know what the bottom wants and if he's enjoying it. If he isn't, neither am I.

[@obatalaosun2222]

@@RidgewayInMedia You da real MVP

[@cruxivar6026]

Tops (like me) need to know what the Bottom wants. I like initiating, say... holding him from behind once the moment's right. Then I want him to lead me on like embracing me back & kissing me. I also like it very much when he push me on my back & ride me. I like my Bottom to take charge. Have him kiss me all over, conquer me & love me as he takes me 'inside'. Hi' I'm Sidney using my Mom's account 🤣😜😘💕

[@wanderingaesthetics7849]

Unlikely. But not 100% a no.

[@brucemoose9587]

didnt know any bottom dudes who wanted to be choked,,, that is a kinky act, like getting whipped or something

[@dl7049]

Great info for bottoms, I love watch a bottom ride me, def a turn on. It's like a bottom is topping me. It gives me a time to rest. Fully participating not letting the top do all the work, just laying there is boring.

[@StephenBrenland]

❤️

[@sam9014]

oh well this just turned me on to READ.

[@Drumpy-Chan]

True but me being top

[@antwanalex4147]

I 😍😍😍 TOPS!!!

[@Drumpy-Chan]

@@antwanalex4147 Lol but I am switch and single

[@johnsteven6273]

#11- Tops have prostates too. Even if we don't want a banana going up there, some peach play can get a top going full tilt. Ask or test little at a time. When eating the banana and nuts, let your tongue wander back there. He'll let you know if he's into it. Then try a finger he'll let know one way or another if he wants that. A top that keeps himself clean back there is probably hoping for some play back there.

[@StephenBrenland]

This is a very important tip :)

[@xamanbro826]

I hope everyone keeps themselves clean back there...

[@phoenix-kg8lv]

Yes

[@obatalaosun2222]

@@xamanbro826 Sadly, they dont

[@themazesystem5392]

The top hasnt douched tho and u dont want that type of cookies

[@lukashuddleston4232]

This is why I'm scared to be a bottom. Because I hate asking for things cause I feel ungrateful and needy. For wanting more than I have

[@xdxd4020]

Same

[@xdxd4020]

About the asking thing.

[@nicodemusblackowl]

it's not about begging, it's just simple communication. If the guy you're with respects you and really likes you, don't be afraid to ask him things. It's actually a lot easier to do this when you're in a FWB set up with a guy you like. He wants to please you just as much as he wants to be pleased, so don't be afraid to tell him what you like. Good communication makes the experience a whole lot better.

[@Pinkgirl373-q2h]

Certain things I don’t feel comfortable doing but some things I’m okay with

[@chriss1686]

Heads up from a top, it's not selfish. We can't read minds. Some dudes want to be choked, facefucked, dirty talking the whole 9 yards, others prefer a more romantic fuck, slower longstrokes etc. We'll usually change it up anyway and gauge the reaction, but it's much easier if you just say what you want. Plus, it's hot lol.

[@thecrazywelshman7357]

Recently just realised that I’m bisexual so this has been really useful for me so, thanks 👍. Still strange/cool to think that I’m part of the LGBTQ+ community now.

[@johnl5316]

of course, gay men and "trans' people are not in one community. not with Q's either. I say this as someone who came out in 1970 and is a clinical psychologist

[@Kimberly-cx9uv]

@@johnl5316 period

[@johnl5316]

There is no LGBTQ community, of course. T’s have nothing at all to do with us gay folks . Many T’s want to castrate young gay kids and tell them that they are really “women “ . Appalling

[@Biserbalkanski]

yo you want 😏 you like little guys? I got some eye candy for u brotha. my Playlist vids is all me and there one vid on this channel with all of me in it and one with my " 160 pound twink hands" lol I was trolling

[@Biserbalkanski]

nobody guesses I'm that strong by looking at me . and because i kinda keep a low profile on social media ( won't put up with my friends and fam being harassed ) you probably won't see me again lol

[@super_notboring2634]

As a top I i thought this was something else but I'm still watching anyway

[@sergioantoniofloresvargas3009]

Hi top

[@MFD388]

When you say "Hi everyone" I wave. XD *im a dork*

[@StephenBrenland]

Aw :)

[@paganlecter6819]

Now thats a bottom

[@hoi07]

LOL mE tOO

[@MFD388]

@@paganlecter6819 Wouldn't you like to know? :P

[@MFD388]

@ItzTenebris Sure :P

[@keinschmerzfurtiere9403]

Me, as an asexual single: InTeReStInG

[@Biserbalkanski]

plant 🪴

[@user-xo2vi5eu7v]

Lmfao😂

[@TheSallyhawkins]

I learned things that I really had not thought about!!! Great help!! Loved the messups!!! Love you, Stephen❤

[@StephenBrenland]

Love you xx

[@jonasdelarosa8405]

I asuming top in some point think about bottoms necesity isn´t?

[@bluBlaq33]

As a Top, I love a bottom who pushes into it when it gets intense.

[@DION_LIVE]

We should push for tops

[@HandMadeRoyalty]

I can power drill forever but my bottom cant take the deep shots we need help with this

[@DION_LIVE]

Def needs u to train more

[@AnthonyHudakIII]

Loved the video Stephen. I really enjoy the bloopers, lol. Is it bad that I find it hot when you get flustered? Stay safe and keep being your authentic self.

[@StephenBrenland]

Aw thankyou :) stay safe x

[@Biserbalkanski]

I'm flustered at work rn ...in about two hours it's gonna be blunt thirty lol. go get some Chinese food .

[@Biserbalkanski]

@@StephenBrenland always! well not really always but sometimes 🤷...that Playlist vid with the 110 pound kettlebell jugle thing I did ...one wrong move and that thing falling on my head would flatline my skinny butt ( can't cuss KZbin deletes me). I will always be my authentic self .

[@Biserbalkanski]

hidden talent lol. and nobody will know but you ...and of course everyone I know in my actual life 😉 😜 bye 👋

[@roderickshaka3626]

ok do mental health next I've seen so many people who are struggling and very little advice. Talk about things like; -You are what you eat/what you feed your brain..if you feed it toxic things, you'll get toxic things including social media. -people put so much attention on superficial things like looks and sex and forget to build there lives to survive in the future. -BOUNDARIES for your self worth and for your partner can go a long way. -moderation. -the importance of roles in relationships in building each other and focusing on maturity. -being more selfless.

[@oliverjackson3461]

Wow! great video and very good points for a bottom to know. Both parties should know good personal hygiene. My ex was a virgin when I met him and personal hygiene was a five minute shower and I had to show him that a 5 minute shower was not good enough. Doing the banana and peach while in shower is amazing. Stephen good video.

[@StephenBrenland]

Thankyou 🥰

[@goreswelskey8003]

Now i need a top.

[@Buffalosabskis]

Love the communication aspect. That's always important. I get very turned on going right into multiple rounds, but a lot of people need time. So I give the instruction to go wild and keep going as long as you want! Haha

[@johnl5316]

advice : bottoms should learn how to please his man and learn how to do that better and better over time. Focus on his pleasure

[@thomasbleming7539]

The more pleasure that a top feels the more he will be able to give his bottom what *HE (*bottom) desires.

[@DION_LIVE]

Thanks for the advice

[@shiann.sigworth]

As a Dominatrix, I highly agree with this- thank you for making bottoms aware

[@kayy5500]

Exactly we should have open mind

[@StephenBrenland]

💜

[@charleswright9114]

Thank you for the really good advice on teaching me ❤️

[@StephenBrenland]

You’re very welcome :)

[@decodingcap9965]

What did you use to record the voice. It is very clear and good. Need the name of the equipment used, for my online classes.

[@tanakaperiot]

This is only for my brother I love him so just had too give him some advice for his relationship he just came out at pan 😊

[@vagas99]

There definitely are some handsome feminine tops, but I prefer my tops ugly and masculine. I like when they look like they have bad hygiene but are actually clean and smells good lol😂

[@markusskand9773]

i like the frank talk with the poetic language ,,, Thank you!

[@vagas99]

Every top I’ve been with always went to their go to. Missionary or doggy, I’ll try to ride it but that shit hurts and my knees are on fire when I do it. Ain’t nobody got time for that…

[@catherinegardner1698]

I just realized you can look at what you watch on the Wi-Fi bill 😭✋

[@pandaeyes4956]

I was bottoming in my dreams, and that was painful :()

[@selenagomezrocks6863]

me: i'm talented ppl what's ur talent ? me: 4:00 them: BYEEEEEEEEEEEE

[@dianabrown1409]

i still need to know some of this stuff even as a trans women

[@davidwoodford7304]

Thanks for sharing.

[@StephenBrenland]

❤️

[@davidwoodford7304]

You are a great resource to the LGBTQI community.😘

[@StephenBrenland]

@@davidwoodford7304 thankyou! X

[@javeontegilmore3312]

Here’s a good one if you know you can’t take it don’t ask for it cause gas ain’t cheap plus it’s a waste of time

[@jamesfranz7508]

I agree with you 💯 how you doing you still here

[@nenevz2948]

I’m ninety something percent a top, but I learned long ago how to use my sphincter when being a bottom. Thank you. Grab that banana. Bottom and top need to learn to pay attention to partner: things like good pain/bad pain

[@Biserbalkanski]

exactly me too lol!

[@PFCtjwetzel]

What if the Top wants to Grab and Pull your hair ???

[@bangtanvmo5868]

Im mesmerised.. You are so pretty 🤯

[@mradaChris]

You are right about squeezing when a guy is in you! My spouse never had that experience before me and he was really turned on by it.

[@undividedattention9218]

my bf needs to see this (were both switches and he doesn't really understand the whole thing)

[@mradaChris]

If a top choked or even tried to choke me I would knock him out!

[@milandhanda6287]

Actually i don't understand english can you plz tell me that top like beard bottom or not? plz plz

[@burntwaffleee]

I’m a straight woman idk why I’m here😭

[@timeformoonlight]

Im Virgin and has no idea to break it.. but still helpfull

[@theorderofthepurplephoenix3321]

How did you do your hair like that?

[@juneblogger22]

How do I know if my top has heart problems?

[@tracieturner167]

Stephen, Is there a term for when guys take turns switching from top to bottoming ? Like if you are not always a top or a bottom. If a guy asks me, I don’t know exactly how to answer. I’m new to the community, thanks!

[@alexthomas9584]

If the feeling is right with the right guy- "to flip flop". So maybe you're a 'top' or 'bottom'- but in the moment it just feels right to 'flip flop'. I tend to top, but there have been times where it felt right. It is not unusual to have a preference, but there is something very sexy about guys who enjoy being open to the moment.

[@tracieturner167]

@@thewolfman775 of course! What's better than pleasing AND also being pleased? Wow, what a connection!

[@tracieturner167]

@@thewolfman775 ok, let's talk

[@tracieturner167]

@@thewolfman775 sorry, anybody would be able to see it then. Talk now…keep it tame

[@tracieturner167]

@@thewolfman775 describe to me what your face looks like, if you’re my type maybe I’ll give you my email . Be honest now! Do you resemble anyone famous?

[@jaylow396]

How do you tell if someone is gay!

[@StephenBrenland]

Check my channel, I have lots of videos titled: How to tell if a guy is gay ☺️

[@Biserbalkanski]

you can't always by impressions lol. I'm gay and well...I only got one upload with my entire self in it and all the Playlist vids is me lol. you'll recognize the hair 😊 I'm a gorilla but I'm not a big person.

[@Biserbalkanski]

so to clarify: the Playlist is all me but there's only one upload with all of me in it. match it lol. I was always stupid strong and it kept me from being bullied. all my friends besides one is straight. and I usually top but ...I won't lie I took it a few times lol....definitely different but still felt good. but topping is my favorite. and being flexible like I am I'm a fun night lol. so that's me basically. I took up pro arm wrestling about a year and a half ago and train it on weekends with those guys...they're huge but there's weight classes. I practice with big dudes to get ready for guys my size.

[@Biserbalkanski]

@@StephenBrenland and I got vise grips lol you see how I trolled em in my vid " my twink hands"? that was the only other vid with a part of me in it besides the 250 sandbag which is actually more like 270 cause my friend poured to much sand in it but because the bag said " 250" I figured I'd be fair lol.

[@neojackson716]

I can power drill for a long time without blowing early

[@JesseTay2000]

I’ve really only ever been bottom in relationships. I don’t like the top role bc it isn’t an exciting part of my sex practices. I was married for about four years before my ex husband and I divorced. One thing that helped us lots in the bedroom was healthy preparation and foreplay. And I never liked to just jump on my tummy and let him pound away. If you don’t talk well about your practices and preferences, you’ll definitely have problems 😮

[@brandongonzales5274]

Love this

[@arvinroidoatienza7082]

Just a question to gay people: do you guys top/bottom tried bottoming/topping one time and how did it feel?

[@arvinroidoatienza7082]

@@Ballinsohardtheycallmenutsack There's this thing called gym, bro

[@Biserbalkanski]

@CubeClone you don't have to be a big person to top or be strong in other things 💪 💯 just take the other dude's advice and be consistent. how much do I weigh ? I recorded what I weigh and usually under that. I look at my looks as camouflage in a way. especially with long sleeves on I look like I don't even lift .

[@Biserbalkanski]

@ArvinRoido Atienza you having like bi curious feelings or something bro ? 😆 🤣 sorry bro..I'm just giggly .

[@MikumiChan12]

my eyes are gone where are thwy?

[@DanaEMak]

So uh just saying you have got a new subscriber

[@animesimp2083]

Imma try and test this out on my bf ;-;

[@michaeldiamond2755]

Thank you for the comments about protection. 💚

[@rohantyagi6982]

yea

[@StephenBrenland]

☺️

[@ForgottenKnight1]

6:10 It's gonna be 15 minutes if you're in your early 20's :)))

[@watertree2266]

Wait is it easy to find a bottom?

[@donaldbadders3970]

Tree I am a pig bottom need tortured.

[@sciana21]

"You can tell him to choke you" sounds so stupid out of context

[@itsjustme684]

I scrolled for comments. Somebody said about bloopers. And i thought, ahhh some people can be pretentious. Its not actually bloopers. But this one, HAHAHAHAHA. He constantly CONCEPTUALIZE the word concept and be contemplating life, and the hair bit, dead laughing AHAHAHAHA

[@StephenBrenland]

😁😆

[@SuperAstrophysicist]

Ok

[@mariom6884]

Oh Stephen,you're adorably gorgeous.Love the tips:perfect.Thank you.Love you from Brazil

[@StephenBrenland]

Aw thankyou :) love you

[@Hi_im_cracked]

Hi I’m new to this

[@nobodyunknown3184]

This is for gays (two boys doing it) not for lesbians

[@Jryan1958]

@@nobodyunknown3184 mhm

[@mactastic144]

Aww, this video is cute. Lmao @ bottom behavior.

[@ruviis4773]

Im a lesbian what the hell im i doing here

[@nobodyunknown3184]

Lmfao this is for two men doing it (gay men and bi men) so idk what you’re doing here either

[@tieflingcorpse9817]

did i just click video made by a ghost? omg xD

[@zacharysmith8902]

I am 100% percent top... I do what the fuck I want to the boi

[@zacharysmith8902]

@@fataldoritofar1624 Who are you bro

[@hithere1473]

Omg what😨

[@donaldbadders3970]

Smith I want a hard top and a lot of torture

[@zacharysmith8902]

@@DION_LIVE I love bottom bois

[@DION_LIVE]

@@zacharysmith8902 we love tops & love to submit to them

[@StephenBrenland]

10 THINGS ALL BOTTOMS WANT TOPS TO KNOW: kzbin.info/www/bejne/lWeWi56kqrqer7M

[@harrypotter9445]

Me as biromantic Asexual oh that's cool😜

[@nightstorm1799]

Not me watching so I can ignore everything my partner says

[@connorsu4587]

lol stop saying tops do all the things! we btm clean ourselves and we put makeup we wear perfume and we shave and we clean up the room etc

[@Anonymous-di9py]

Yoooooo your eyes 😉😉😉

[@Hi_im_cracked]

My name is Toga

[@FranciscoSantos-ss3uq]

Ola.., rapaz.., tu e lindoooooooo!!!, e bem versatil...!♠♠♠♠♠♠💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💘💘💘💘💘💘💘💘💘💘💘♠♠♠♠♠💋💕💋💕💋💕💋💕💕💋💋💋💕♠♠♠♠♠♠♠❄🌟❄🌟🌟

[@robertgriffiths1724]

Preach

[@laquannwilson9387]

Yall need repentance and Christ. Leviticus 18:22

[@agaycat28]

Why is this recommended for me-

[@Idrick]

I love the banana

[@Hi_im_cracked]

I’m a lesbian

[@nonsence_]

i am bottom any top hear from mumbai

[@maliktalhamunawar7688]

hi

[@Drumpy-Chan]

I am top but single

[@aslscott78]

Not anymore

[@Drumpy-Chan]

@@aslscott78 ummm what do you mean by that

[@Hi_im_cracked]

I’m in grade 5

[@Truluve187]

I let a top know all about me before we have sex I am a freak , plz give me more content I love this so much I love u Steven for all ur videos and thank u for bringing me out

[@olwethujim6158]

🌈

[@StephenBrenland]

❤️

[@XenWya1]

Bottom all the way

[@alanaban1840]

Bottom all the way a fake woman all the way stupid all the way do not use you bottom as an entrance it is a exit

[@rupeshsingh6125]

Anyone's here?

[@sammyraeperry]

I hope he’s not a top 😂😂😂😂

[@uwu-if9vo]

Otis McDonald 😳

[@JAW2005]

You look cute🥰

[@dini3842]

You are cute

[@user-je7hh2bv7f]

Definitely a top then

[@selvakumarrselvakumarr3336]

I like

[@Muhammadhussain-bz8uj]

70 percent kam 3:30 ganto ka

[@hanzoassassin5985]

When this world will end?

[@nobodyunknown3184]

Wym this world will end? Wtf are you saying and why tf you here if you gonna hate?

[@RubanShane]

😊😊😊😊😊😊

[@michauxbôts]

It's 9 bottoms to 1 top - so there are the other 8 bottoms trying to figure out how they're going to spend their dreary day today ("hey, let's make a video!"). If a bottom doesn't innately know those things already, then all the YTube videos in the world won't help because the top has already left the building.

[@harrypotter9445]

💜🏳️‍🌈

[@manpower2078]

Too much analysis.... What we like is a bottom who's very receptive with just a clean and open hole. Thats enough

[@AsadIqbalCh-ej3ie]

U so naic❤💋💖👌🍭🍮🍨

[@randheerrandheerkumar5216]

Im top lknwu

[@connorhaddox6394]

When ur a bottom 😩✌🏻

[@ilovecatsyippieyay]

When your a switch Edit: still a switch just a trans male.

[@aiden3801]

I'm transgender Male Pansexual switch lmao

[@ilovecatsyippieyay]

@@aiden3801 BRO IM QUESTIONING, HOW DO YOU KNOW YOUR SEXUALITY ALREADY😭

[@aiden3801]

@@ilovecatsyippieyay I'm 19 years old may not seem to be but I am I knew my sexuality since I was 10/11 years old

[@jordanrobshaw1406]

@@ilovecatsyippieyay bro I'm 14 and I'm BI be true to yourself

[@zappie9318]

Gayyyyyy People Like This Video

[@xxorangegachaxx8750]

Me who’s a vers:😃

[@johre-ul1jg]

Cringe button 👇