10 Things Elegant Ladies NEVER Buy

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Anna Bey

Anna Bey

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In today's video, I am sharing a curated list of 10 things that elegant ladies avoid buying. By not buying these items, you'll not only enhance your style but also make more conscious decisions about your purchases. Unleash your potential at my FREE workshop fabulousfutureformula.com/ and elevate your life.
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@AnnaBeyOfficial
@AnnaBeyOfficial Жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching! 😘 Ladies who ALWAYS want to dress classy and look stylish, should check out my online course on styling called The Elegant Stylist™ by visiting elegantstylist.me
@emanelmhlawy6331
@emanelmhlawy6331 Жыл бұрын
Could you do a video about modest styles and the best way to style shoes to them and to look feminine classy and elegant
@emanelmhlawy6331
@emanelmhlawy6331 Жыл бұрын
While being modest in summer
@KimberlyKelly2000
@KimberlyKelly2000 Жыл бұрын
Hello Ms Elegant Anna! Can you please show us your best elegant BoHo style? I love festivals and wonder if there is a way to level up this style?
@inezamy9523
@inezamy9523 Жыл бұрын
and that dress looks amazing on you
@andreaballesteros8823
@andreaballesteros8823 Жыл бұрын
MAke another video part 2 of this please!!
@halaallafi2018
@halaallafi2018 Жыл бұрын
One thing i love about anna is that she always gets straight to the point! no 4 minute intros etc. I know if she posts a ten minute video ill be getting ten minutes of pure advice ! keep it up anna!
@monicagambino318
@monicagambino318 Жыл бұрын
Omg! Yessss!!
@molamolalaaa2968
@molamolalaaa2968 Жыл бұрын
She respects our time. And I love her for that!
@bigmattwheel
@bigmattwheel Жыл бұрын
I thought I had missed the intro, I restarted the video to see what I missed - she really started right with point 1!
@ughlwtmechangerhisthabks8349
@ughlwtmechangerhisthabks8349 Жыл бұрын
Respecting people's and your potential clients time is, indeed, very elegant.
@annas5303
@annas5303 Жыл бұрын
And ads only at the end of the video, which doesn't bother me, meanwhile I can scroll through comments. Wish more people did this. It's becoming a trend to have 5 ads in a 10 min video. Halfway in I usually lose interest in the content.
@dorothea2199
@dorothea2199 Жыл бұрын
Anna is absolutely right. Don't go in debts just to buy something. I am an accounting student myself & all mentors have always said that be conservative with money. Don't spend the money you don't have.
@albacorona2472
@albacorona2472 Жыл бұрын
Accountant here 🙋🏻‍♀️ as a fresh graduate people are often weirded out by how much I manage to save up 😶 I'm like "I just allocate my paycheck correctly 🤷🏻‍♀️"
@dorothea2199
@dorothea2199 Жыл бұрын
@@albacorona2472 Congratulations for your graduation. 🎉 I can totally relate 😅
@giuliapombo5560
@giuliapombo5560 Жыл бұрын
Pretty common sense, the problem is some can’t resist
@jessie1090
@jessie1090 Жыл бұрын
Agreed. I only buy on credit what I can pay off every billing statement. I only let it ride to build better credit. Live below one's means, in my opinion, but also splurge occasionally in things that will make you money in the long run. 🌺
@wenchy387
@wenchy387 Жыл бұрын
@@jessie1090 I agree 👍
@Grannynan
@Grannynan Жыл бұрын
I knew a very attractive woman who recently passed away at 107 years old. I was complimenting her outfit one time and she told me she bought it in the 1960's. She said that if you buy quality, it never goes out of style. She was always perfectly accessorized. I never noticed a designer logo on anything she wore. In other words, she lived what Anna is preaching. Anna, thanks for the guidance you provide. All ladies deserve to be elegant!
@annmcdonald6180
@annmcdonald6180 Жыл бұрын
totally agree 👍
@heloizanery2817
@heloizanery2817 Жыл бұрын
🥰👏👏👏❤️
@lexa6533
@lexa6533 Жыл бұрын
Wonderful ❤
@jacarandatree123
@jacarandatree123 Жыл бұрын
Personally I hate to see logos on whatever clothes, shoes ,bags...to me it is not classy. Quality material and make should be recognisable.
@tuttuttut7758
@tuttuttut7758 Жыл бұрын
Also, stuff back then was made to last.
@myheartiswithme
@myheartiswithme Жыл бұрын
I was so sad about the fact that I kept buying dresses but I somehow never had anything pretty to wear, until it dawned on me that it was because I kept buying these cheap dresses that didn't fit me and was made of bad material... So I went to a tailor and had three dresses made for me 👗 Best money I have ever spent 😊
@Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living
@Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living Жыл бұрын
I agree that custom-made clothing is a great investment. In the US, it’s sometimes less expensive than off-the -rack designer clothing!
@rebeccaredhead7144
@rebeccaredhead7144 Жыл бұрын
That's such a lovely thing to do for yourself which will save you money long term and you'll feel unique and special in what you're wearing 😊
@Lavenderrose73
@Lavenderrose73 Жыл бұрын
That's cool, she had said something about an online store that sells silk clothing for affordable prices and I thought I would start with the bras next month or maybe the month after and go from there. I already have some dresses, skirts, and blouses in My Wish list.
@isabeldiaz9717
@isabeldiaz9717 Жыл бұрын
@@maddscientist3170 why?
@enjoyslearningandtravel7957
@enjoyslearningandtravel7957 Жыл бұрын
How do you find a tailor to make custom-made clothing ?
@nannalambert3980
@nannalambert3980 Жыл бұрын
With all due respect Ms. Ana, you are growing wiser and sending the right message to the average ladies who can not afford buying luxury on every item they buy. A lot of gals on you tube spent soooo much money on handbags and clothes and are confusing these young gals and make them unpopular if they don't buy luxury.
@IrishAnnie
@IrishAnnie Жыл бұрын
You don’t have to “buy” luxury. Just LOOk luxury. Classics project that.
@seabreeze7378
@seabreeze7378 Жыл бұрын
Exactly 1,2, 3000 for handbags? Never when paying rent or mortgage is hard enough. I watched the bag video she did and found the ‘ie cheap’ version of the same bag, two on the way as we speak! Thanks for showing what is classier for those pieces. ❤
@scarletbelmont9022
@scarletbelmont9022 Жыл бұрын
Get a guy to buy you the expensive bags and use them as an asset lol. Worked for me...sold my designer bags when my work shut down for covid. I would never pay that much for a bag myself, I just have really good sources for mirror image dupes.
@chiarac980
@chiarac980 Жыл бұрын
@@seabreeze7378 puo'essere un investimento in alcuni casi.
@Mmmmkaaay
@Mmmmkaaay Жыл бұрын
My policy is to never skimp on the quality of my food, shoes or haircare. Thanks Anna!
@LisaF777
@LisaF777 Жыл бұрын
And a winter coat!!
@jennifermcgee8621
@jennifermcgee8621 Жыл бұрын
100%
@amandaalcodia8741
@amandaalcodia8741 Жыл бұрын
Agreed! And the quality of bed I sleep on.
@user-rx7uh9mg4f
@user-rx7uh9mg4f Жыл бұрын
Shoes are a big one! I've done that mistake over and over and I don't even end up wearing them because they become painful after 30 minutes. Quality over quantity it is.
@tiinav1
@tiinav1 Жыл бұрын
And your lingerie!
@d1o2r3a4
@d1o2r3a4 Жыл бұрын
I smelled a Miss Dior perfume for the first time years ago and fell in love with the scent. Fast foward, I bought my first Miss Dior perfume out of pocket two weeks ago. I couldn't be prouder of myself for waiting the appropriate time
@banszkiviktoria
@banszkiviktoria Жыл бұрын
I bet a lot of people didn't expect such wholesome, logical, sensible advice. 💗 Lovely as always.
@isabellecurrat
@isabellecurrat Жыл бұрын
As a nutrition coach for women, I couldn't agree more! Health is your biggest wealth and the quality of what you put inside your body does matter 👏🍒😋
@12Sanguine
@12Sanguine Жыл бұрын
I love how Anna draws us in with simple "clickbaity" titles, and then provides genuinely valuable and deep life advice. ❤️
@anabellepp
@anabellepp Жыл бұрын
This is perfect. I started prioritizing health, quality food and skin products. Then from there, I started changing the basics, like pants, quality fabrics, makeup, a pair of earrings for every day, perfume, shoes. Still in the process. Thank you Anna :)
@beulahbenade4098
@beulahbenade4098 Жыл бұрын
I'm so glad that you mention these aspects because too many young people are addicted to brands, thinking that it will elevate them. Education and good health are so much more important. Thank you for being so realistic and giving such good advice. I'm sure the young generation would listen to your advice. I always marvel at how mature and wise you are. By the way, this dress is absolutely perfect on you!!!!
@tinabecker1313
@tinabecker1313 Жыл бұрын
I’ve been taught from day 1 to care for my diet. Instead of processed food, I would snack on whole tomatoes or cucumbers as a child and I’m so grateful to my parents for instilling that value in me! I get A LOT of comments on my diet, but I don’t care anymore because I know I eat healthy high quality whole foods and I feel better for it! 🙌🏻 People always have something negative to say about things they don’t understand!
@idkwhattonamemyself9326
@idkwhattonamemyself9326 Жыл бұрын
Damn ur parents raised you way good.
@thevintagekitty
@thevintagekitty Жыл бұрын
Same here. I used to snack on red bell peppers like apples as a kid. I got made fun of constantly. Even as an adult, co-workers poke fun at my lunch, meanwhile they are eating Burger King or MacDonald's for lunch. How did that become the norm and vegetables are weird?
@llvluis
@llvluis Жыл бұрын
@@thevintagekitty agree, I don't understand why if I dont make fun for eating trash food people have to make fun for eating healthy, totally dont get it..
@RC-eb5hq
@RC-eb5hq Жыл бұрын
@@thevintagekitty Same here. Amazing how 1) what another person eats is suddenly someone else's business. Who asked for their opinion anyway? 2) processed, chemical-laden "foods" developed in the past 50 years have become the norm over actual food that nourished humans since the dawn of time. A final point: in 20 years, compare your health and lifestyle to those who bullied you about your diet. IF they're still around...
@RC-eb5hq
@RC-eb5hq Жыл бұрын
Good for you! And in regard to your last comment, sadly, majority of those in the medical profession are clueless about value of nutrition as they are not required to study it in medical school. Astounding!
@lindseydorrington8277
@lindseydorrington8277 Жыл бұрын
This is by far the best video you've done so far! I feel like it is the real difference on BEING elegant on the journey to BECOMING elegant. One lesson I'm trying to instill in my children is, "You can save and invest your money every single day, but you can only spend it once. Then it's gone." Having your finances under control and only spending money that you can afford to lose gives you that confidence that most people are trying to fake!
@sin3358
@sin3358 Жыл бұрын
This video and comment are making me realize that ig I won't be buying that perfume I've been obsessing about ;( oh well, another time
@lizsahu9344
@lizsahu9344 Жыл бұрын
Your comment is so spot on wow save every day spend only once…so true
@scegenius8751
@scegenius8751 Жыл бұрын
I was complimented in church regarding my outfit. My dress was from last season, my wrap from a decade ago and my boots were new. You can do it on a budget with quality fabrics and an IRON!
@griffinina
@griffinina Жыл бұрын
Yes, thank you! Most people think they become elegant, elevated, classy, the moment they wear all those luxury brands.
@katesomething1701
@katesomething1701 Жыл бұрын
Yep. I never cared for luxury brands if I ever happen to win the lottery still no Rolex or Royce Rolls for me, most likely.
@dijonvolner6024
@dijonvolner6024 Жыл бұрын
Luxury brands don't seem to have the status that they once had many years ago. Due to many influencers on social media....luxury brand clothing, to me, now seems cheap, tacky & available to everyone!
@annaskaldina2372
@annaskaldina2372 Жыл бұрын
So true. My grandmother looked stunning however she never owned luxury brands, perhaps only a few of them. She always went to tailor instead of buying clothes. And her clothes looked so good on her, truly elegant and stylish
@didirocks1000
@didirocks1000 Жыл бұрын
Because they are not thinking smart like she explained. I gree too that you don't need something expensive to be elegant
@PinkHypatia
@PinkHypatia Жыл бұрын
I like that you’ve evolved your brand of elegance beyond affluence to more of an organic class and good taste. Thanks for your content.
@chichiwandoabama1914
@chichiwandoabama1914 Жыл бұрын
Very well said ✨
@hannahretel1073
@hannahretel1073 Жыл бұрын
Perfectly described 👍
@retired_early
@retired_early Жыл бұрын
Well put.
@CloudslnMyCoffee
@CloudslnMyCoffee Жыл бұрын
Quality vs status
@myclassicaladventure
@myclassicaladventure Жыл бұрын
I normally don't comment, but I wanted to share how much Anna Bey has helped me! I was introduced to her (by my mother) earlier this year when I was seriously considering ending a relationship I was in. Anna Bey's videos on dating and how to be a more high caliber woman made me realize I was NOT being treated very well. I ended the relationship and started to change my life, for myself and for finding a husband. I got back into old hobbies, started new hobbies, changed the way I dressed, became more aware of how I acted/behaved in public. I let some relationships go, and became open to meeting new people. Let me TELL you...everything changed. I got more attention from men (respectful attention from masculine men), gained confidence, and felt like the world was my oyster. It was amazing to see how much I changed, and how much my surroundings changed. My one warning is, don't let your success get to your head...as Anna ALWAYS says, be humble, don't take anything for granted, and be in the mindset of always growing and improving! Thank you, Anna, you have changed my life, and I am so grateful!
@angelikabailey
@angelikabailey Жыл бұрын
Congratulations and what an amazing story. Well done on investing in yourself by choosing what serves you in your life and your love life best. 💓💝😀
@peternincompoop9553
@peternincompoop9553 Жыл бұрын
If you want designer items, buy them second hand. I've never paid full price for a designer item. There's no shame in my thrifting game.
@monicagambino318
@monicagambino318 Жыл бұрын
Exactly! I do this with designer handbags
@poisedladydiaries
@poisedladydiaries Жыл бұрын
Yes!
@jheuliabee
@jheuliabee Жыл бұрын
Or buy replicas. A lot of fashion houses get their things from China and then do the finishing touches in Europe. Buying a $10k Chanel bag is ridiculous, regardless of how much you could re- sell it for in the future.
@taliabutton1593
@taliabutton1593 Жыл бұрын
@@jheuliabee Even buying a £1k bag is ridiculous. I'd say £100 is the limit, unless it's super special, in which case I just might stretch to £200, though highly unlikely.
@jheuliabee
@jheuliabee Жыл бұрын
@@taliabutton1593 Agreed, however some bags are genuine leather that would last you literal decades so I would spend a couple hundred on a bag or a shoe if it is a classic high quality piece yes.
@veganronswanson9000
@veganronswanson9000 Жыл бұрын
love the silouette of this dress! didn't think denim could look elegant. Also i appreciate your equating elegance with fiscal responsibility
@taliabutton1593
@taliabutton1593 Жыл бұрын
It's gorgeous, isn't it? This dress kind of attracted me to the video, from the title itself I wasn't sure if it was worth watching. So I thought, I'll start watching it and decide if it's any good, while admiring the dress. I have a similar dress, but with thin straps, darker and not denim.
@veganronswanson9000
@veganronswanson9000 Жыл бұрын
@@taliabutton1593 can you share where you got yours from? I really like silhouette!
@taliabutton1593
@taliabutton1593 Жыл бұрын
@@veganronswanson9000 Charity shop. The label says Vila Clothes.
@PinkSnail
@PinkSnail Жыл бұрын
I just want to say thank you, after consuming your content my life turned around. People say that I am very mature and behave quite polished, even if I am only a teenager.
@adelegrey4475
@adelegrey4475 Жыл бұрын
I feel the exact same way. People mistake me as a adult sometimes because of my maturity and reserved character even though I'm only a teenager.
@halcyondays8945
@halcyondays8945 Жыл бұрын
This will open doors for you that you never dreamt of! You are a smart young lady
@miriamchalmovianska863
@miriamchalmovianska863 Жыл бұрын
@@halcyondays8945 nah. As a teenager you should be teenager. There will never be another time when its accepted to be goofy. Dont push kids to grow up too soon and pretend they are adults
@Lilaliba88
@Lilaliba88 Жыл бұрын
@@miriamchalmovianska863 it doesn't mean she can't be or isn't goofy, she's never having fun or doesn't behave age appropriate. Unfortunately most teenagers, especially in developed countries, are shallow, keen on following trends, buy immense amounts of fast fashion products and think they have a huge personality because they look just like the "cool kids from TikTok".
@TheDomesticHarbor
@TheDomesticHarbor Жыл бұрын
Hi Anna! I’m a mother to 3, i struggle to find the motivation or purpose to look elegant. I go to the grocery store, lounge at home, making meals and going to the park..etc.. could you make a video for us mamas who want to feel good and Look elegant while accommodating for the SAHM life style?…. It’s a big ask but I value your opinion and expertise!
@Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living
@Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living Жыл бұрын
This is a FANTASTIC video, especially for young women. I’m seeing young women go into debt for luxury items because they see other women their age flexing on Instagram or TikTok. BTW, that dress is adorable!
@delaville680
@delaville680 Жыл бұрын
I just paid off my car and credit cards. Believe me I think very carefully about everything I consider buying.
@AngelinaLeTV
@AngelinaLeTV Жыл бұрын
An amazing series idea would be Anna teaching financial literacy. This video showed me a lot about money. Anna has the ability to educate millions of young people.
@loristryker
@loristryker Жыл бұрын
These are points that my Italian father taught me, and they have ensured a good, elegant life for my brother and myself and our families. Excellent video Anna, I hope viewers put all your advice into action!
@ohsostylish60
@ohsostylish60 Жыл бұрын
The Italians know this well!
@leesanti8670
@leesanti8670 Жыл бұрын
Totally agree! Every time I feel depressed, I’ll make unnecessary purchases 😩 and now I have tons of shoes and clothes that I don’t even use.
@nafsikavogopoulou8781
@nafsikavogopoulou8781 Жыл бұрын
Hi , you can resell them on platforms like Facebook marketplace or poshmark , ebay etc . All the best , greetings from Greece. Nancy
@Kingofthenet2
@Kingofthenet2 Жыл бұрын
@@nafsikavogopoulou8781 such a great idea! She’ll make all that money right back ❤
@happyfittravels6868
@happyfittravels6868 Жыл бұрын
One of my favorite videos so far. I like how you are dissociating elegance with money but rather associating it with quality. It is a refreshing and eye opening concept that is often missed with the overconsuming content and marketing spamed on us.
@susannuccio7637
@susannuccio7637 Жыл бұрын
Excellent video with some important lessons to learn. In the past I’ve been obsessed with amassing heaps of clothing without being thoughtful or using discernment for those purchases. It’s a difficult habit to stop but so very important to do so.
@IEVAKambarovaite
@IEVAKambarovaite Жыл бұрын
Planning my daily coffee date with myself around this ☕😉
@golffitnessireland7730
@golffitnessireland7730 Жыл бұрын
same :)
@elizabethanne8729
@elizabethanne8729 Жыл бұрын
We love a self care ritual ❤️
@dancingadelaide3325
@dancingadelaide3325 Жыл бұрын
Very good si Anna, nag-evolved na sya! She’s grown and grown wiser pa. She started talking na about aligning priorities, spending below means, asking the 3 q’s before purchasing, other investments, education, experiences and memories, health, mixing and matching, doesn’t always have to be designer stuff, becoming a minimalist. She’s also admitted to some of the mistakes she’s commited in the past - overbuying, therefore realising she’s got more of similar items she doesn’t need. She is making more sense now and mas aligned na ang core values namen. Well done, Anna! Proud of you. 💕
@dorcasmofosi3247
@dorcasmofosi3247 Жыл бұрын
This video helped me to accept that I have to live below my means as I am always doing retail therapy and buying unnecessary clothes . Thank you Anna ❤️ Sending love all the way from 🇱🇸 Lesotho
@marfuatullaila
@marfuatullaila Жыл бұрын
Another reminder to get wiser and wiser.. I even end up sewing my own dresses to get perfect fit size dresses and save more money.. Thanks Anna, you are a total inspiration. Stay safe always
@ah5721
@ah5721 Жыл бұрын
I sew my own clothes too because I can't find clothing that fits my upper half.
@marfuatullaila
@marfuatullaila Жыл бұрын
@@ah5721 Yeah, I tried once and then find myself making new dress for upcoming occasion. Stay safe dear..
@fanni24
@fanni24 Жыл бұрын
It's so great that you learnt to sew, I'd love to be able to create or adjust my clothes as well. My grandma is a true lady and she says that having a good seamstress is the gamechanger. But who has the money to have almost every piece of their clothing fitted? Nowadays a piece of clothing can cost less than the seamstress' job. It's not only cost-efficient to do it for yourself but it can also come in handy if you don't have time to take your clothes to fix them or you want a specific style and you can make your own.
@marfuatullaila
@marfuatullaila Жыл бұрын
@@fanni24 thanks, sure you can learn too. It can be hard sometimes, I know. But unless destiny, nothing on earth can't be done by learning and trying. It's just the matter of time, in my opinion. For me it is so much fun to make dress just for myself. It fits my body, and I like the fact that I don't have to meet someone wears the same dress as I do. You know sometimes it happens 😀 All the best dear 🌷
@nineteenfortyeight6762
@nineteenfortyeight6762 Жыл бұрын
@@fanni24 you can learn too! And you can buy an old machine for cheap. The older the better. Before 1970 or so they're all-metal and last forever, they just need tuning.
@IrishRose
@IrishRose Жыл бұрын
The dutchess of Cambridge often wears high street clothes rather than designer. In her engagement photos she wore a blouse from zara 2 seasons old. her blue engagement dress was not designer either. Catherine mixes up her fashion and gets it right all the time
@sarahb6758
@sarahb6758 Жыл бұрын
Meghan Markle also wears some designer who aren't particularly expensive too.
@Yoga4SpiritBodyMind
@Yoga4SpiritBodyMind Жыл бұрын
Soo true, Anna - thank you for recording this video. I’ve been sharing same ideas with my friends, colleagues or clients for a long time. You need to analyze and become concious, what motivates you to spend or to have more, than you can afford. It’s All about Yourself, Your State and Your self-perception. ❤️🙏🏻
@susanholway6159
@susanholway6159 Жыл бұрын
You are so down to earth and easy to relate to. Thank you for opening my eyes to the importance of quality clothing. I find myself getting dressed and I’ll say “ would Anna approve of this” . Needless to say I’m donating more of my clothes lately and shopping quality only! So thank you for all of your helpful advise!
@NadiaCNunes
@NadiaCNunes Жыл бұрын
Oh Anna, I am loving your content more and more. A few years ago I thought you were some kind of anti-feminist gold-digger, but somehow I stood around and it's lovely to see how thoughtful you've become with your approach. I guess I've come a long way too.
@kchiranthi
@kchiranthi Жыл бұрын
Woow. , It’s such a great video. Before watching this I thought Anna would mention brands and items that she doesn’t find elegant. But this is deep. She elaborate core of being high standard living. Thank you Anna reminding people Elegant is not about buying materialistic items.
@sarahgisellearabejo6508
@sarahgisellearabejo6508 Жыл бұрын
What I genuinely like about this video is how conscious Anna is in using her platform to empower women with BOTH FASHION AND FINANCE. Nothing sexier than a woman who is headstrong with what she wears and her money. 💪💪💪
@thecreativestylist
@thecreativestylist Жыл бұрын
Nice video! as a stylist I can confirm that elite ladies buy high and low brands. Its their combination ability that makes every garment looks expensive on them, not the label!
@carmelafernando7823
@carmelafernando7823 Жыл бұрын
So much sage advice from Anna that focuses on managing one's the mindset ad priorities behind spending vs merely telling you what and what not to buy. This is true elegance.
@seemva
@seemva Жыл бұрын
Smart video by Anna. Thanks for talking about fiscal discipline and moderation. Materialism and Instagram are DESTROYING OUR SOULS. Discipline and quality are the key words for me. I once bought a Italian Trussardi hand bag from Venice for 400 US Dollars which is better looking than 7000 US Dollar Chanel hand bag. Go for good quality leather hand bags. Save money for old age, health care costs, do budgeting. Try to buy a home so that you save the rent. The rent saved could go towards mortgage. Discipline in every aspect of life would pay dividends in later life. Seemi from Virginia, US
@chihayaayase1299
@chihayaayase1299 Жыл бұрын
I like how you teach ladies about elegance. It’s not about wealth, it’s all about mindset!
@IEVAKambarovaite
@IEVAKambarovaite Жыл бұрын
I was reading an article about some ladies making 7figures and shopping specifically for amazing quality fakes. They recognise they may need to have a certain bag to be in certain circles, but they prefer to invest their money into something else. Let's not get broke trying to afford insane luxury items drowning ourselves in debt.
@seemva
@seemva Жыл бұрын
A Chanel quilted flap bag costs over 7,000 US Dollars. I would save that money for my old age than this bag. In old age, unexpected health care costs could financially cripple you . So plan ahead. instead of spending this amount on hand bag, why not save money for future trips, health care etc. Discipline is the key. Seemi from US
@IEVAKambarovaite
@IEVAKambarovaite Жыл бұрын
@@seemva that's so true.. I think we should be putting money aside for our savings and investments first and only then look at luxury purchases
@doitdiaries3797
@doitdiaries3797 Жыл бұрын
I agree on buying quality, but I don't agree on buying fakes. Dupes yes.
@maymoneydandelion2989
@maymoneydandelion2989 Жыл бұрын
Not the “rich people buy fakes” rhetoric again Please bury this and just buy stuff within your budget, no actual rich person does that
@mahnaznadeem902
@mahnaznadeem902 Жыл бұрын
Change your friends
@Daffodils2Daisies
@Daffodils2Daisies Жыл бұрын
Such a breath of fresh air with this entire channel. It’s insane how much of a confidence boost it is when you follow these directions
@TomoMomoDomo
@TomoMomoDomo Жыл бұрын
These are super interesting points. I used to spend a lot of money on online purchases around exam times. Almost like a reward for myself for studying well. Or, if i didnt do well, a pick me up gift. All the excuses i gave myself! I bought makeup, skin care products, clothes, bags. Etc Half the things with an expiration date i had to toss out because i never actually got around to using before it reached expiration date. My parents were too nice to tell me I had a problem. when my boyfriend invited me on a morning jog with them the day i had an afternoon final, i was exhausted (out of shape!) But the shower felt afterwards was rewarding, i had so much better focus, and i aced my final. Ive kept a jogging routine since (switching it up for swimming in the summer) and now, i dont even need my adhd medication, i feel great, and it honestly does wonders for my mental health overall. And i said goodbye to my impulsive shopping habits. I do reward myself here and there but definitely only for serious achievements!
@cara0405
@cara0405 Жыл бұрын
One of the best videos ever made! It is loaded. Prioritizing the balance with emotions, health, etc, is key before mindlessly swipping the plastic card. Taking care of ourselves inside out is priceless.💎❤
@divyasharma8895
@divyasharma8895 Жыл бұрын
Anna, I simply adore you and these tips. I love that you addressed not getting into financial debt / spending over one's means, avoid fast fashion, and focusing on the right priorities. It is super important to be financially stable first! Keeping your style guidelines in mind, it is important to purchase items that work within one's personal budget. P.S. I went shopping recently and channeled my inner Anna Bey (silk tunics, a nice midi length dress (not mini), and a good pair of pants) . My coworkers complimented my look and I feel so sophisticated thus making me more productive at work since it increased my self confidence. You're my favorite. I am so happy I stumbled upon your channel a year ago
@pats.p1594
@pats.p1594 Жыл бұрын
It is true that small gratification isn’t as good as long term gratification but after having a bad week or day and treat yourself once in a lifetime is therapeutic
@Hello_WonderWoman
@Hello_WonderWoman Жыл бұрын
Anna this is, in my humble opinion, your best advice advice yet! It's about needs rather than wants, dont need it? Don't buy it. We're way too submerged into the frentic consumerism and buy into the idea of the more we have the more we matter. The less is more most of times. This is very relatable and a great advice as usual. Thank you for sharing your wise expertise
@sew_gal7340
@sew_gal7340 Жыл бұрын
Elegant ladies also have a range of skills/talents; to be a sewist is one of them. Ladies, if you take up sewing you can literally make a chanel suit at literally 5% of the cost and it actually is tailored to your body! Look at Ana's denim dress, it looks like it was tailored to her body...it looks really elegant despite how casual of a dress it is. That's due to A) fabric quality and B) great fit, that's all it takes to look fancy. You don't have to spend commercial $$ for an outfit that you can literally make yourself with a high quality fabric.
@lisar915r9
@lisar915r9 Жыл бұрын
I've been thinking of purchasing a sewing machine on Ebay and teaching myself to sew. Do you know of any good online courses for beginners or other KZbin channels? Also do you know of any good ones laces online for purchasing fabrics? Thanks.
@sew_gal7340
@sew_gal7340 Жыл бұрын
@@lisar915r9 I recommend professor pincushion on here, thats how i learned how to sew 3 years ago. i only watched her videos and never went to a class or read a book, sewing is super easy! Now i make all my suits from tweed fabric i get from moods and i never looked back!
@lisar915r9
@lisar915r9 Жыл бұрын
@@sew_gal7340 Thank you. You say you get your fabric from moods? How do you mean?
@arayaphumpho1176
@arayaphumpho1176 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely done this a few years ago, stop buying unnecessary dresses and chose, only I really need and look classy. ❤ I love this episode xxx
@mcvigs
@mcvigs Жыл бұрын
I really loved this video. It sounded like an older sister teaching me about life and really caring. Since you mentioned help I think many ladies would enjoy a video about mental health and how to transform it for the better along with the rest of our persona.
@giea
@giea Жыл бұрын
Love your contents, Anna. Straight to the point and so much value. We get so much from these videos and surely there's more in your courses which I'll save up for. So glad I discovered your channel. Thank you for making these quality and helpful contents!
@telmaalexa.8392
@telmaalexa.8392 Жыл бұрын
Dear Anna, thank you for the video, I really appreciate it. It was very interesting and nice to know all these mistakes in the process of buying things. I am going though a "shopping-detox", I challenged myself to be at least 3 or 4 months without buying clothes and other stuff for myself, specially because I have a lot of everything, so I don't need to use my free time buying more stuff (and then feel guilty for it), I rather go to the gym and exercise, return home and make a healthy meal.
@MarCariB
@MarCariB Жыл бұрын
Loved the video it’s resonated deeply with me
@sleepmcsleeperson4081
@sleepmcsleeperson4081 Жыл бұрын
I love this! So true! Class doesn’t mean spending so much money! It’s about spending wisely on the right things! And yes to being a conscious consumer! We should always think about how our actions affect the planet
@Anamillio
@Anamillio Жыл бұрын
That dress looks so good on you. Also I love how the content of your channel evolved and how you listen to your audience. That's what keeps me here over the years. Love Anna!
@elizabethanne8729
@elizabethanne8729 Жыл бұрын
Confession. I quite literally repeat buy. If I find something I like I buy two. And I put one away completely incase the other one gets a stain that cannot be removed or something else. 😂
@Brokie09
@Brokie09 Жыл бұрын
Same ! 😭
@monopinion77
@monopinion77 Жыл бұрын
Here too! I feel you
@eyeonproperty
@eyeonproperty Жыл бұрын
Me too don’t like shopping much - buy the pieces i need not want
@ThePatriotNurse
@ThePatriotNurse Жыл бұрын
It was great to meet you in person Sunday! Thanks for such great content❤
@clarathordiss3663
@clarathordiss3663 Жыл бұрын
Anna, I have just discovered your channel and I love it! I was not sure at first, I thought it was maybe a little bit unrealistic, a bit snobbish, but boy was I wrong?! You are so down to earth and really know what you are talking about, and I am a convert. I am about to go on holiday and I have binge-watched your summer/holiday videos and feel so much happier about looking elevated and stylish while I am away. BTW I am 65 and on a very tight budget and I 'shop my closet' (usually with Alyssa Beltempo who always pops into my mind when I am tempted to re-buy something I already have), do lots of thrifting where I get a dopamine high from spending very little, and have had some really amazing bargains. But even when thrifting I always ask myself 'would I wear this if I was going out this evening?' If the answer is 'no' then I don't buy it, regardless of how much of a bargain it is. I also love the fact that you do not constantly try to sell sponsors' products. I agree with what you say about education - I instilled into my children (and thankfully they listened) that education gives you choices. Clara 💕
@Bakerygo
@Bakerygo Жыл бұрын
I totally agree with the video but you can definitely find some gems in the fast fashion shops (h&m, zara). I one found a dress in the discount section of H&M and I really liked it so I bought it. When a colleague saw it she was ecstatic with the print (prince de galles). When i told her that it was H&M for 20€ she urged to silence me "don't say that, it doesn't look like H&M".
@dominiquetheeasyminimalist
@dominiquetheeasyminimalist Жыл бұрын
Respect for sharing your good experiences, your victories, and your mistakes as well. I believe that we learn so much from people who live their life and are not afraid to get out of their comfort zone to evolve and grow.
@Chocolatetoppie
@Chocolatetoppie Жыл бұрын
That's a great video, Anna! I very much appreciate that you talk about the environment and to avoid buying items for one-time-wear. I too used to be an emotional shopper and buy cheap stuff that I didn't really need. I also agree with the 'watch what you put in your body'. I have started to buy better quality foods which are often more expensive and my partner asks me how can I spend so much money on this or that and I always tell him that my health is priceless. I'd rather spend more on food now than spend money on medical treatment later. Health is always first so take good care of yourselves 💕
@ccarr4030
@ccarr4030 Жыл бұрын
I am sooooooo glad you touched this topic. Having a channel like yours can easily persuade or invite women to start spending money when before they were not so much into. We can easily get attracted to materialistic things when in reality it is not and should not be the first priority in our lives. Thank you! Maybe you should have this topic once in a while. It’s is very important!
@meydiaengka
@meydiaengka Жыл бұрын
Thank you Anna for mentioning good food for our body 🥰 I dont have that much in life but im always picky with what i put in my body. Only good quality meals for me. I cam always buy luxury stuff when i can afford it. but for my body, this is the only body i have, if im not ruining it forr the sake of saving money. I eat good and healthy and it makes me feel good
@biancaserban3196
@biancaserban3196 Жыл бұрын
I was really in need of this video m. I have to do some decisions and this came right on time. Always helpful Anna! Thank you!
@misscecilia2190
@misscecilia2190 Жыл бұрын
There are so many aspects in life that we all have to learn; no amount of money can buy taste and style. Thank you for making valuable videos Anna🌺
@eliushi6220
@eliushi6220 Жыл бұрын
Those are all great things to implement in your life. This is a very positive and great video. thank you Anna.
@juliaw.4360
@juliaw.4360 Жыл бұрын
Really great video! I had just left my favorite online shopping site without placing an order before I came over to youtube to watch your new video, Anna, because I had decided that I don't need these items :) Needless to say I was really happy to hear what you had to say! Great motivation! Now I will go for a powerwalk instead to make me feel good :)
@mariacorretge6615
@mariacorretge6615 Жыл бұрын
Also, some very cheap foods are incredibly healthy. apples, bananas, oats, beans, veggie boxes. They don't have a premium price.
@sunshinehaydeeify
@sunshinehaydeeify Жыл бұрын
I agree especially food! Is important to eat healthy, and don’t compromise or bargain with your health!
@darleneizaguirre7688
@darleneizaguirre7688 Жыл бұрын
OMG you are such a good influence to both young and not so young women. Thank you so much! I think you are one of the few women giving away truly helpful content on the Internet.
@suzannes783
@suzannes783 Жыл бұрын
Honestly Anna, this is the best video content you have produced. It's honest, to the point and extremely important. Thank you for such a clear motivational reminder. Well done!
@anaaraiza5532
@anaaraiza5532 Жыл бұрын
Oh my, I had stopped watching your videos for over a year, and now that I've been recommended your videos again, I see your growth, you've become wiser, and I love how you promote a sustainable affordable, but elegant wardrobe. I'll be watching more of your new videos.
@vanessaval9325
@vanessaval9325 Жыл бұрын
"Always opt for premium when it comes to things you put in your mouth." My new life slogan!!!🧘🏻‍♀️😮
@vanessaval9325
@vanessaval9325 Жыл бұрын
@@RC-eb5hqJust a bit of humor... 🤦🏻‍♀️
@inezy6329
@inezy6329 Жыл бұрын
Yup..think like the Japanese..the govt saves the best crop/produce for their own people..
@HaLo_Zz
@HaLo_Zz Жыл бұрын
I love this so much. You are helping us to be more responsible and sustainable in our spending. God bless you, Anna! 🤍😉
@thelandofloviestarringmiss77
@thelandofloviestarringmiss77 Жыл бұрын
I love how you said elegant ladies always look for a deal saving money and being able to buy the coordinating accessories you have to use your imagination along with good taste and wear it with a good demeanor and a big smile
@unatismajeke
@unatismajeke Жыл бұрын
Absolutely on point. I love your point on not buying over priced goods. I have been wondering about this lately; this over consumption on "so called" luxury goods. Are they really worth it? And I have concluded that I don't need luxury overpriced items - I prefer experiences that educate me and improve my wellbeing. I have taken up horseriding, I have a Vegan chef that delivers healthy meals for me twice a week, I just completed a 7 day detox program which was so invigorating and I have an upcoming trip in September to Mexico and Istanbul. For me that is elegance. Thank you for this affirming video😘
@griseldaguerrero7199
@griseldaguerrero7199 Жыл бұрын
Great video Anna. I have been applying many of these tips in my life for a long time. I haven't bought myself any new clothes and shoes for over a year. I still have clothes that are 10-20 years old that I still love I do wear. Also, I actually donated more than half my clothes that were old, didn't fit me and didn't like anymore. I've never been in debt because I don't allow myself to overspend and I keep my credit cards at home when I go out. I always ask myself "Do I really need this?". I love cooking and baking, so my money goes to healthy homemade food and homemade gourmet desserts. Working out, supplements are important. What I do need to do is buy high quality elegant clothes that I will wear for years to come.
@griseldaguerrero7199
@griseldaguerrero7199 Жыл бұрын
Hi Anna. Omg did I win a price? I'm very excited 😍❤
@debbiemize2269
@debbiemize2269 Жыл бұрын
I bought a black skirt in 2015 that I’m still wearing now! It is in a classic style, still fashionable, and I love it! Another item is a print dress that was bought a few years before the skirt! Neither garment is a designer brand, but they are well made, and have stood the test of time. Thanks for this video!
@janelarson7065
@janelarson7065 Жыл бұрын
Great video, Anna! Materialism is a dead-end street. You are totally correct: the absolute best way to spend money is to invest in your health, education, and well-being. I highly recommend getting a good therapist if you struggle with anxiety, depression, addiction, or any other issue that pulls you down. It's money well spent! My "secret millionaire" father taught me to always shop for quality. He would say, "The bitterness of poor quality remains long after the sweetness of a cheap price has been forgotten."
@valeryzee
@valeryzee Жыл бұрын
I adore luxury items but I think it is so great that you are asking women to focus on quality, education, health, sustainability, investing and investing on themselves instead of luxury items. It is a great role model for younger women who watch your channel Thank you for spreading wise words!
@monajones6748
@monajones6748 Жыл бұрын
I love Anna so much! So glad I am on this channel! Elegance at its finest.💕
@judithrobinson8344
@judithrobinson8344 Жыл бұрын
My parents always taught me, if you save for those special things you will appreciate it more xx
@kristinhughes5309
@kristinhughes5309 Жыл бұрын
I loved this video. I am currently cleaning out my closet. I try things on and if they don’t fit right they are “OUT”! I will replace with better clothes when I have the money.
@haileynichelle8343
@haileynichelle8343 Жыл бұрын
I wish this video had a LOVE button! It resonated with me on so many levels. Spend your money on good health, nutrition, education, experiences, things that truly matter. Wonderful advice.
@verapurrio5462
@verapurrio5462 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video. There is nothing to add! It is so important to become aware of these 10 points you are talking about!!!
@Lullalies
@Lullalies Жыл бұрын
Elegance and minimalism go hand in hand.
@VintageBethany
@VintageBethany Жыл бұрын
So true about not buy designer! There are so many quality items like leather handbags and sterling silver jewelry that can be found at local companies for a fraction of the price and incredible quality.
@vilena5308
@vilena5308 Жыл бұрын
Learn what colours actually suit you. You get into a shop, and with a glance you can tell if they have sth for you and where to focus. Then learn what cuts and shapes truly suit you. Again, you located appropriate colours in the shop and now you can quickly sort, finding appropriate pieces that you need. Finally, learn materials. Develop a habit of taking a good look, recognize bad stitches, buttons that are about to fall off and envision what care theses items will require. It took an effort to learn this but, FINALLY, I have a closet full of stuff I actually wear and my shopping experience has stopped being a thing of dread.
@lovewins007
@lovewins007 Жыл бұрын
I used to shop or eat when I felt sad. Now, when I feel sad I go to the gym and do cardio or binge Anna Bey vids😌love you Anna. Thank you for the wisdom and the chuckles 🥰
@Maria-iy6se
@Maria-iy6se Жыл бұрын
Love that you come straight to the point in the beginning of the video - appreciated Anna. 🙏🏼🥰😘
@Seleste777
@Seleste777 Жыл бұрын
I love this perspective on elegance. It frames elegance as being practical and environmentally conscious.
@PrizzT
@PrizzT Жыл бұрын
Great video as usual, Anna! Wisdom, knowledge, intelligence, memories, experiences are the things which stay with us forever and the only things we can bring together with us to the grave. And also elegance, class and sophistication too!
@mahaultpons
@mahaultpons Жыл бұрын
I would love to hear your tips on finance management and relationship with money, it would be so helpful! Thank you so much for this video Anna, it was very interesting.
@marishasveganworld2240
@marishasveganworld2240 Жыл бұрын
Wearing clothes that you will actually wear for a long time is more sustainable than constantly buying new trendy ones that you will forget about soon, but we also need to talk about the devastating effects fast fashion has on the environment. Please, purchase second hand and vintage whenever possible🙏🏼 Fast fashion brands clearly don’t care about our planet.
@marenwilliams2787
@marenwilliams2787 Жыл бұрын
Love this! I shop almost exclusively at consignment shops. They carry quality brands I otherwise would not budget for & vintage clothes that were made WAY better!
@deedoodles465
@deedoodles465 Жыл бұрын
Yep slow fashion is a conscious choice for the environment and for our bank accounts as well ❤️
@dinushadushmantha1032
@dinushadushmantha1032 Жыл бұрын
This channel is a gem. She is speaking facts.
@salmaflower3333
@salmaflower3333 Жыл бұрын
Anna, all of your videos are amazing by every stretch of the imagination, but I think the topic of this one is by far the greatest among them all. Love you❤❤
@janetmonroe7912
@janetmonroe7912 Жыл бұрын
This is one of the most valuable and pragmatic video content that you shared with us Anna! Kudos!
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