7 Things Elegant Ladies NEVER Do In Bed!

[@NinaMora13]

The silk femenine pyjama is a LIFE CHANGER. I feel femenine and beautiful and my partner can't stop telling me how soft it is and how good it looks on me. He loves it.

[@Julia-zz1gq]

where did you get yours?

[@NinaMora13]

@@Julia-zz1gq I currently live in China so I got it in Taobao (anything we need to buy we find it here). Many things are made in China so the advantage of living here is that we pay for the actual cost of it. When it goes to Europe the prices raise so much (to the double or more). If you are in Europe and maybe also US the equivalent of Taobao would be Aliexpress. Just make sure about the customer opinions about the material. You can find very legit things in there, just need some time to find it. I've got two already and I'm very happy about the quality and looks

[@NinaMora13]

@@Julia-zz1gq Aliexpress ships out of China and the prices are still really affordable in many good quality items. The only negative side is that it takes long to be delivered

[@ttylenda01]

Julia check out Lunya. Their silk sleep wear is fabulous!

[@anastasiasongs]

Make sure you buy more than one. ;)

[@selectiveoutrage6617]

I don't understand a man or woman not showering before bed if they sleep with someone, but showering in the morning before they go to work. They'd rather smell nice for coworkers than someone they supposedly care for?

[@lindavel43]

I workout in the morning and shower twice. After the gym and before bed. I feel like it is too much but can't imagine going to bed without showering.

[@sarahlove8564]

Right!! I couldn't imagine letting someone who worked all day crawl into bed with me before showering. Have good hygiene & wash yo self 😷 nasty

[@LyrasRaven]

I know!

[@MS-df2fk]

It's not a matter of smelling nice for co workers. Men with fine/oily hair have to shower in the morning

[@身赤-w3w]

Omg yesss...

[@hulu561]

I appreciate how she values elegance in relation to self-care and empowerment. Every lady deserves to feel and be treated like a princess from time to time!

[@sersastark]

Anna: "it's not a sex video" Me: "DAMNIT"

[@Sakura2387]

Serah Olivia ahahaha

[@raraavis7782]

Serah Olivia I was hoping for some graphic content. 😂😉 Not.

[@WilliamsPinch]

Serah Olivia no seriously! I was ready to get raunchy 🤣

[@utubeme2012]

😂😂😂

[@ajohonly3721]

Hahahahaha she got us 🤣

[@Diamsraven]

Silk pillowcases also protect your hair. Black women have been doing this for years

[@missshannonsunshine]

matzohgirl 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 we literally need it because if we don’t protect our hair, it’ll get snagged out and it’ll break off.

[@zeppelin_7245]

@@matzohgirl why do whites love insulting themselves? Just casually in conversation?

[@matzohgirl]

Diamond kelly I meant DEPRECATION. LOL

[@matzohgirl]

Diamond kelly I like to learn about the beauty secrets of other people, cultures, etc. it’s interesting to me.

[@fitnfab6522]

Curly chicks too

[@Lavendermoonmedia]

I feel like at the age of 15-18 I was really focusing on being trashy (without even realizing it. It seemed to be a trend to wear five layers of makeup and revealing clothing.) but now at 19 I have honestly gotten bored of it. As a college student, and soon to be woman with a bachelor’s degree next year, I feel that role no longer serves me. With that information I am so glad and excited to have found your channel! I believe that stepping into the role of an elegant woman of class will serve me greatly when applying for jobs and in life. Thank you!

[@juliahays3108]

LILITH EMPYREAN you are so lucky you’re realizing this early. I don’t think I even really started thinking about it until 29. I commend you for taking the initiative and becoming a respectable lady. I will say, as a older than 29 year old I have learned that so many doors will open up for you because you will stand out in such a positive way.

[@clarissestanford]

goodnenss i agree with you, im 16 and sincr lockdown started ive been watching Anna more and more, and I've realised my style for the past 2 years has been extremely trashy, and at tge beginning of the year I already started changing it a bit, but now as soon as I vna leave the house agian im5going to change everything iI wear entirely, it will be a gradual process though because i dont have a lot of money

[@juliahays3108]

Clary Olivia another KZbinr that I love is Christie Ressel. She has a lot of videos that go into budget friendly fashion. The most important thing about clothes is the fit. Of course we all want something like silk, but it’s not always possible. You can still look elegant on a budget ☺️. Also, do not underestimate thrift stores. I have so many pieces that I get constant compliments on and honestly they were all +/- $10. That’s including jewelry. Finally, a lot more is said about they way your carry yourself rather than what you are wearing. Jennifer Scott from the Daily connoisseur is another KZbinr that has helped me refine my actions and poise. Between Anna, Christie and Jennifer I have learned so much!!!

[@agees924]

Same, I’m 20 and I will be graduating college next year. I have been trying to level up my wardrobe and home goods. I have so many cheap, faded, stained clothes from fast fashion brands that are around ten years old. I have also been a very sloppy person and lived like a pig. I just had no idea of what was attractive. I really thought I looked good and didn’t realize how poor my tastes were. I didn’t respect myself at all and I still have a long ways to go, but the changes I have made make me so much more confident and clear headed.

[@michaellaferl7476]

@@clarissestanford omg, same!! I’m 16 too and I’m glad I found Anna’s channel. 😭♥️ I’ve changed my style too mygosh it makes me cringe realizing how revealing my outfits were before. Thanks to our big sis, Anna!!

[@andreao8535]

I love how Anna's channel evolved from being (almost completely) how-to-attract-a-wealthy-man-focused to personal development one. She uses femininity now in a sense that it's not about being/acting feminine or using femininity to attract someone affluent, but to connect us to ourselves more, to make us a whole person inside, before we step into outside world. I enjoy more and more in her videos. It just shows how much she values work on self and when she told in one of her recent videos everything that she had accomplished in 2019, I was amazed by her strong will and hard-working nature and it inspired me to work harder in 2020. She has become stronger, more educated and more confident in what she does, which is visible in a way her channel, her thoughts and visions are currently presented and therefore she is gaining more popularity day by day. I want to have (and I do) a high-value man by my side, however what I love is that she is showing us that personal development and working from the inside out is what's important in being first happy with yourself and in the end, in attracting someone of a value. I want to thank her for her time and energy, as well as providing us with actually useful tips that we can implement in our lives to feel more feminine, be more successful and live a happy, content and, perhaps even affluent, life.

[@wendynamisnik11]

I was thinking the same thing, and you put it to words beautifully.

[@safala]

Oh... so THAT is why I like some of her videos and not others. These like-able videos are probably her newer ones.

[@ashleyhaanel987]

I am thinking the same too!!

[@janspell2516]

I totally agree! Well said.

[@lionesslamb7049]

I prefer the self development videos too.. 💯

[@a.b.2405]

When she said we shouldn’t wear pjs with cartoons on it and washed out t shirts, I cried a little lol. But you’re right, I’m a grown woman and I should look like one lol.

[@bambino9235]

Are you serious?

[@a.b.2405]

Dorian what?

[@bambino9235]

Aleah B. I was wondering if you were serious or if you were being sarcastic

[@kp782]

Most of the elegant clothes are uncomfortable and you can wear everything and be attractice

[@a.b.2405]

Dorian I wear whatever to bed because I don’t bother buying pajamas. But I do want to get into cute/lingerie for sleepware.

[@audraelynnegrimmelhaussen8808]

My grandma said being elegant isn't about buying expensive stuff but simply taking care of yourself and what you have.

[@fahmeidahaffejee9004]

I agree with your grandma Audraelynne

[@cherryhappily]

and the way you carry yourself 💖

[@PaolaSanchez-hc5my]

❣️ Grandma was right

[@sunshinexoxo3052]

That's cool I'ma screenshot you're comment

[@borikenazul]

I definitely agree with your comment.

[@rosemiller2075]

More Feng shui bedroom tips (I am an expert in this arena): -SOLID headboard, good mattress, a raised bed with NO STORAGE UNDERNEATH -Have a solid wall behind the headboard (no windows), and do not place bed facing a door, TV or window -A nightstand on each side (balance). Keep both sides of the bed accessible (keeps energy balanced). -No sharp edges pointing at your bed (no slanted ceilings, harsh exposed beams, or sharp nightstands) -No fans directly above the bed -No sleeping under a window -Have furniture with legs, no rectangular box-shaped furniture (blocks the floor's energy flow) -Keep bathroom door closed -Keep plants or flowers around. Pink flowers, especially roses and carnations, are great to look at first thing in the AM. They promote beauty, happiness, and a lovely sex life. I make sure there is a bouquet of pink or white flowers by my bed so it is the first thing I see when I wake up. Heavenly!

[@laureneilenberg5403]

I have a Feng Shui question for you. I get confused with this. When it comes to sleeping in a direction corner that is good for you; Do you have your body face forward toward that corner? Or do you lay your body in that corner? I have only two directions to use without facing any doors. One of them is very positive and the other is very negative. I don't want to lay my body wrong by accident. Thanks for your time!

[@violettepetals9931]

Rose Miller why can't the bed face a window ?

[@rosemiller2075]

@@laureneilenberg5403 definitely the one that makes you feel more positive! This stuff is very intuitive.

[@rosemiller2075]

@@violettepetals9931 the window can seep out your energy. Where I'm staying now there is a window above my headboard, so I use a rollerblind to completely cover it while I sleep

[@Bmg0321]

Thank you for your comment, why no storage underneath the bed ?

[@nicoleberry6440]

This video makes me realize I need to get myself together...my poor husband. He's gotten so used to my wild pj pants.

[@-lavender-777]

Nicole Berry yes girl! X how did you change?

[@nicoleberry6440]

@@-lavender-777 well it wasn't long after that that we went into quarantine with an unexpected 9month old (fostering)...so ya know...I'm at my best with black pj bottoms and nicer T-Shirts. 🤷🏼‍♀️ I really do try but I'm new at this mom thing, new at this working from home (both of us) and definitely new to being quarantined and being with your spouse 24/7. He still tells me I'm beautiful everyday though.

[@-lavender-777]

Nicole Berry that is lovely

[@-lavender-777]

Nicole Berry the health of the relationship is the most important

[@SanFranDentist94301]

Lesson 1:Don't stop doing what pleases a husband, because a SINGLE woman told you to.❤

[@EmmeChatterton]

Time to KonMari out all of my old sleepwear, you're right, it's 2020 and time to be a princess.

[@ltm3368]

Emme Chatterton Same !!

[@MJ_Solo]

Emme Chatterton Me too, I sleep in wife beaters and panties

[@AmandaVieiraMamaesouCult]

KonMari is our inspirational queen

[@granolagirl4972]

Time to spark some joy!!!

[@shanforshort8713]

I’m literally binge watching this channel 😫

[@salut4396]

Same here! Anna is so interesting and not boring to watch. There’s so many wise and logical tips that she provides. It’s a blessing to find this channel.

[@estahadassah9470]

Me too 🤣🤣😂

[@stellalillian8137]

No.6 of no devices in the bedroom, almost cost me the relationship last month.

[@nessa5042]

@@stellalillian8137 Me, too!

[@taytayqueen7024]

This hairstyle is absolutely gorgeous on you! Makes you look very youthful.

[@zol2415]

I've had silk pillow cases since I was a teenager because of my kinky hair, I even had one to travel with so I didn't have to use a silk scarf or bonnet. It wasn't until later that I knew it was also good for my skin! It's great everyone should have one!

[@gatestimonymiracle1302]

:)

[@nikhefe16]

Oooo I am looking into purchasing some silk pillow cases because I am sick and tired of bonnets! In your opinion, do you think I could get away with purchasing satin pillow cases?

[@weemeemoo]

That's such a good point!

[@zol2415]

@@nikhefe16 yes! My travel one is satin and it works fine 😊

[@hel.8161]

I'm so tempted to try it out! But how often and how warm do you wash them?

[@k888k]

Feng Shui tip: - Put your toothbrushes in the shelf instead of leaving it on a sink. - Close the toilet seat because of Chi and good energy flashes out. Also REMEMBER to turn on the aeroplane mode on your phone before sleeping and also take out your Wi-fi from the socket. Helps with electronic smog. Thank You for your videos! They open my mind on things I would like to be better at. You are doing a great job! Thank You ☺️

[@habalaha1872]

Marysia I always turn on the airplane mode on my phone before going to bed without even knowing that it’s healthier. I’m just so anti social, I don’t want anyone calling/texting me throughout the night/morning hahah

[@rayasaya6803]

Can you please explain the first tip about the toothbrushes?

[@k888k]

@@rayasaya6803 According to feng shui, various accessories (cosmetics, brushes, combs, electrical equipment such as a dryer or curling iron) left in a visible place disrupt the flow of energy, which adversely affects our well-being. 😊

[@k888k]

@@habalaha1872 Yes, it is also another great reason to turn on an aeroplane mode. We are surrounded by so many electricity during the day so going to bed should be about relaxing and resting. I also leave my phone and any electric devices outside my bedroom (now when I hear the alarm clock ring in the morning I need to get out of bed, turn it off and get going instead of spending another useless 30 minutes in bed.

[@rayasaya6803]

@@k888k thank you!

[@johannajf7914]

As a person living in a cold climate, and feel cold constantly, I could never wear silk to bed since it feels too cool.

[@Nofretari]

Johanna JF have you tried velvet sleep ware

[@sersastark]

Same thing I just said, sorta

[@robbinwelch355]

Layers of silk ..

[@altheab4375]

@DaKingInDaNorf I tend to use a space heater but turning up the thermostat might be costly to most ppl.

[@sarahrobertson3939]

Silk is supposed to be warmer than cotton, and I find I'm more comfortable (and just as warm) in silk jersey than in cotton jersey. Maybe get some really nice wool blankets, or a wool or down duvet?

[@lindseymattson7700]

Thank you for pointing out the cleanliness. I am someone who NEVER goes to bed without a shower, teeth flossed and brushed, skincare done, etc. I don't understand how so many people I know are out all day, even in sweaty clubs, then just get in bed. I don't want to bring everyone's germs in my bed. Absolute cleanliness in my partner is a non negotiable. It's actually what attracts me most to someone when I meet them.

[@ElliMsp]

Feeling guilty as I'm watching this video in my bed...

[@amberkhan3692]

Same

[@sunflowermood829]

but we can change that!😙

[@theworldtarottiktok7774]

Same haha 😁

[@jayal.7697]

😅 my bed is my home

[@barbi1079]

Me too, while eating ice cream🙈

[@MiaMarss1]

The point with no devices in bedroom and starting your day with foreign energy OPENED MY EYES! Thank you! 💗💗💐💋

[@karenrio7314]

"Spontaneous one on one" such an elegant word to call it !!

[@ala2869]

I am from Hong Kong and all those feng shui masters tell me never to place a mirror directly in front of your bed. Because mirrors are thought to bounce energy around the bedroom, which may result in restlessness and amplify worries. Your bedroom should not have any prickly plants like cactus, it is going to affect your health!

[@MR-kt1vx]

ala i dont do place it there simply bc it freaks me out

[@MARINAslefteyebrow]

The mirror is hidden in my wardrobe (no I don't have a walk in robe)

[@lindahashem9281]

my dresser at the foot of my bed has a big mirror attached to it and there's a vanity mirror and a wall mirror next to each other on the left side of my bed. is that bad?

[@titibabalola6768]

@@lindahashem9281 Looooooooool

[@ala2869]

@@lindahashem9281 you should definitely move it somewhere else to your left or right! !!!

[@floren3576]

Anna, your videos make me feel as if I'm listening to the wise older sister I never had. And your make up is SO on point (as always, duh)

[@feliciagiangualano1994]

I would add, make your bed every single morning (properly, not sloppy), and make sure your sheets and bedding is clean! Switch out your sheets regularly and have a good laundry routine for your bedding.

[@TheKarebear666]

💯💯 Hygiene is important! Plus clean sheets feel better

[@nh-wr3qr]

How often should the sheets & pillow cases be changed?

[@monikabennett]

@@nh-wr3qr At least weekly for sheets. More for pillowcases if your skin isn't glass-like in finish.

[@noran2]

" my dear elegant ladies " aww wow! that hits different! I'm from middle east and i love your channel

[@rawadsheikh476]

Me too :)

[@jessica68443]

I’m so happy that you included “healthy habits before sleep”. It’s more than just elegance!

[@18missmarch]

Meeting empowering, positive women like you in real life is more difficult than finding a partner. Amazing content!

[@zhanetaharutyunyan8535]

Finally I found someone who loves silk and never eats in bedroom ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@ananyarath5770]

Umm hey Anna can we have the *other* bedroom etiquette video as well?🙈😂💛

[@becuteforme]

I’ve never liked eating in bed, it really grosses me out. 🛌

[@janedoe5829]

Winter Rose I hate crumbs in my bed so I never eat in bed.

[@nikkil764]

I’m always hated eating in the bedroom or worse in the car. People who do never seem to realize that food causes odors.

[@becuteforme]

@@nikkil764 Once you start eating in those places the crumbs will never stop and there will always be odors and smears, gross.

[@polinaracheeva9163]

Never done it myself, but when I worked in the hotel I had to change sheets on bed. You can imagine how gross if was when I was removing the duvet and pieces of pizza fell out 😳

[@imwatching2960]

I love the no device attitude in the bedroom! It ruins not only sleep but intimacy too. I have a no tv rule in my bedroom!

[@kellynewman4066]

I am insulted! However, you do it in such a humorous realistic, logical manner I find myself laughing at myself and it's alright. I appreciate all your tips. Thank you for sharing.

[@lindacgrace2973]

Actually, I trained myself to sleep on my back - no sleep wrinkles at all! It also helps with lymph drainage and improves blood circulation. I don't wake up with a puffy face anymore. I also use bed legs that elevate the head of the bed by 6", which improves my sleep. Weird, I know, but it works.

[@vikki4now]

When I have a partner, I don't wait till bed for bathing. I take time around 5 30 or soon before my man gets in from work. That way I am clean from the minute he walks in until bed time.

[@darlingfendzi3467]

My favorite thing you’ve said so far for as long as I’ve started following you: “No ladies, you can actually have it all!”🌹

[@lisamartin1966]

You are such a. Classy beautiful intelligent lady I love this channel

[@lisamartin1966]

And I absolutely love you you are a gem

[@thedreamshield3981]

Keep thinking that...lmao..I’m afraid you are in for a rude awakening.

[@eluby]

I have NEVER heard or known anyone who sleeps in their active wear... What even is this? Sleep in the same clothes that you are training in? My brain cannot compute this, lol... Also, if you are disciplined enough to wake up early and train first thing in the morning, surely you are disciplined enough to just... get out of your pajamas and put on your gym clothes, no? 🤔 I am so confused

[@alyssia444]

Elina L. I’ve only done it once in high school when I slept over at my big sisters house. I don’t think I had brought pjs but we were going hiking super early in the morning so I just slept in my active wear so I could get every minute of sleep 😂 but I can’t imagine someone doing it every night lol

[@Anna-fw7lm]

I'm gonna reveal a secret, I was sleeping in my fresh next day clothing when I was in the boyscouts group, so when they were coming to wake us up (in the worst way possible) I was already ready, jumping down my bunk bed (yes, I'm luky I'm agile) and run out before the others to get extra cookies for breakfast (that I traded for houseworks with the most gluttonous children) ;)

[@gwenmeyer936]

It's actually a common tip for people who struggle to have a fitness routine and need to lose weight. If you have these problems it might be a good trick to be motivated in the morning, but obviously the goal should be to get a routine so that you can sleep in pyjamas and get dressed for sports as a normal person ;)

[@eluby]

@@alyssia444 aah, but that seems more like an exception, rather than a rule... So, I doesn't count. 😉

[@eluby]

@@Anna-fw7lm again, this is more of an exception than a rule 🤷‍♀️ A girl in girl scout training is different from a young woman in elegant, adult woman training. 😉

[@sunshinegalkw9675]

The bed room is for romance and sleeping.... no tv, no phones, no work and no arguments in the bedroom! If you need to to talk about an issue move it to another room!

[@juliamihajlovich]

Sunshine Galkw I really like how you mentioned having a disagreement in another room!

[@matzohgirl]

Sadly my bedroom is for tv and eating junk food.

[@TheSandrafabian]

Anna, I love all your videos and even though I've been practicing most of the things you teach for many years, in each video, I always learn a few things from you and adopt them.I don't do any of these things in bed but I do read and meditate as part of my bedtime. Reading in bed and meditating right before I close my eyes for the night, helps me sleep. I'm also guilty of doing work on my laptop but I recently started changing this habit. I've been sleeping with a satin or silk pillow case for many years now. In fact, for Xmas, one of my good friends gave me a set of satin pillows and eye mask (she said she thought about me when she saw the set and had to buy it ). Some of my friends make fun of me for being "So picky," especially with showering "Too much" and wearing elegant satin sleepwear.

[@RO-fz9uq]

"It's not because they don't know what they should be doing, they're too lazy to do it" 😂😂 I feel attacked. Too true. So far I'm still single though, if I am in a relationship I'll be forced to shower twice a day, everyday.

[@marquisedetassony1879]

In summer for me, in southern Italy, I feel the need to shower three times a day. It's so nice to feel some fresh water, or warm water during winter!

[@RO-fz9uq]

@@Jessica-og4iq aww thank you 😊❤❤❤

[@RO-fz9uq]

@@marquisedetassony1879 That's true. It gets hot in Australia too, and I shower when I feel sweaty. But the air conditioner is blasted everywhere I go, so I rarely feel sweaty 😂😂 I feel cold instead all year round

[@RestingBitchface7]

S O you bathe for your own dignity and self respect, not a man. Besides, nasty sheets increase the numbers of mites and other little creepy crawlies in your bed and on your skin and hair.

[@perpetuafaith8820]

Saaaame!! 😂😂

[@zhanelsh5857]

Your hair and skin look so perfect

[@whateverjude]

That's the after holiday glow :)

[@justinlover4ev]

wait.. so not everyone showers before bed?! what the hell is this, this is disgusting. All asians shower before bed.

[@dlemos2817]

It's the American culture. Most Americans shower in the morning, not in the evening, no matter what they did during the day. And I've seen many Americans say that people from other countries don't have good hygiene habits.

[@2315Mathematics]

I’m African American and we shower at night ... we don’t believe in wearing outside clothing in bed or bringing outside filth in the bed . Not showering before bed is definitely not a “ American thing “ atleast not for this American

[@mashermta]

Morning and night I do shower.

[@CutePuppy520]

Ppl in the US don’t shower before they go to bed, they shower in the morning before they go to work. They just brush their teeth+wash their faces before they go to bed.

[@justinlover4ev]

@@CutePuppy520 thats disgusting .. you go out and get dirt from outside.

[@dhreams0366]

Straight hair really looks good on you

[@angelawaldman8596]

OMG love this video. I changed my sleepwear last year and feel so much more elegant! My husband loves all the silky fabrics and I just feel more attractive. Also, we don't keep a tv in the bedroom - it is a real intimacy killer. Wow, people would really sleep in their workout clothes and then go to the gym? LOL that is hilarious!

[@Hanna-Beata]

I worked as Feng Shui consultant for about 5 years. Not pop Feng Shui like putting a mandarina duck in SW corner of your bedroom to bring you romantic love, a but a more complicated version of it. What I started to feel through the years is that the best thing you can do for your home is to imagine that you are that energy. Imagine that you are a flow entering your home. Do you like what you see, hear, touch, smell? Is it nice and comfortable? Do you want to flow inside or to turn around and leave? Do you like the furniture, the decorations, the light? Is it easy for you to perform all your activities in this space or it's so complicated that you just loose the desire to do anything? Can you easily find everything or have to search all the house for the book you are reading or your winter garments? Are there things that you don't use and don't like? Is the furniture placed in the right places or you continue to count all the corners with your hips or toes? Actually it's all about comfort and liking. You really should try doing this )) Don't think this time, feel! )) Good luck ))

[@Dark_Lady_]

it's also about money at some degree. I would definitely love more space and a different arrangement but my college income only allows me to live in a matchbox where I sleep and feel bad but I don't really have a choice 😅

[@gracehyland6747]

Feng Shui! Based on what I’ve read, hear are some bedroom do’s and don’ts according to feng shui literature. •never keep water or pictures that show water in the bedroom (paintings of the sea, fish tanks, water features) as this is bad for financial luck. Lots of blue is also bad as it mimics the energy sent from water. A blue roof on a house is also bad for finance luck. • women should never keep plants or flowers in the bedroom (including pictures of them) as this is bad for romance luck. • never sleep with a mirror facing your bed ( avoid reflective surfaces in the bedroom as much as possible) as this is bad for romance and can lead to infidelity. •every person has a Kua number which determines whether they are an east or west person. This means that when you sleep your head has directions that are lucky for it to be pointing, and positions that are unlucky. Always use the main breadwinners best direction if sharing a bed. •shelf’s and pointed furniture can cause harsh energy flow which is inauspicious • never position your bed against a window (your head should never point toward a window while sleeping) • the wall that your bed touches, should never be shared by a toilet on the opposite side. •never sleep with a rail, chandelier or anything harsh hovering above your head.

[@a.b.2405]

Grace my room is painted blue... whoops

[@gracehyland6747]

Just Run you are very correct, and feng shui agrees with the benefit of plants, just apparently not in a woman’s bedroom 🤷‍♀️

[@tneal1670]

Every home I've had has required that the head of the bed be placed against a window, unfortunately. I do keep the windows close-curtained, but that's about all I can do about it. Mirrors can scare our souls that wander while we are asleep, I've read.

[@rb7454]

Grace I’m sorry but what you stated as “bad luck” is simply your opinion and lacks scientific credence. For lack of better words, it’s bad taste to believe such fairy tales.

[@lisadipasquale6121]

Roman, I agree. My bedroom is painted in a light blue. It’s a soothing color. Financial instability is caused by poor money management not the color of a bedroom wall.

[@paulinap1729]

holy heck. the brown eyelashes changed everything. an incredible upgrade.

[@gwenmeyer936]

Your no devices rule is a very good idea! I will try to convince my partner to do that. You seem like a very nice couple. It's great that you improve yourselves together even though you are already "on top". This shows that your tips are not only about becoming rich, small things like these can be achieved in any stage of life and those are the ones that truly shape your personality and uplift yourself as a person.

[@griselgomez1]

I have a rule in my house no one can eat and use their cell phones at the same time, food is to enjoy , look at each other and have a nice conversation . But now I'm going to try this at bed time 😊 thank you

[@sunshinereggae417]

I really start to like your videos. You are so cute telling your advises. You never judge, you are just guiding and giving tipps how to respect yourself better :)

[@vmr_6543]

Me: in bed watching KZbin, Netflix, online shopping, drinking coffee, eating the planet, dressed like a scrub. [singleness intensifies]

[@mariemason123]

VMR _ eating the planet - I’m crying, and I’m right there with you! 🤣😂

[@liabw05]

Same!! Lol

[@cookingwithlady8038]

😂 😂😂😂

[@hauwayahi3911]

I'm eating cookies in bed as while watching this video dressed like a 2yrs old

[@KaysFantasy]

I'm 20 and I've always obsessed with silk. My favourite silk is Mulberry Silk, another reason is because I have extremely long hair so my whole bed and pillows are just silk. My theme of bedding are mostly pastel pinks and duck egg blues. Mint green and aqua shades. My hair is feels like a princess waking up in the morning and feels like waves. Silky smooth and knot free! 😍🦄

[@Anna-fw7lm]

Aren't you braiding your hair and hang them on the headboard like women with long hair did back in the days?

[@KaysFantasy]

@@Anna-fw7lm I tend to not have my hair tyed up at all, most nights I wear a silk night cap. But some nights I just let my hair lay freely. I sleep on silk pillows but also laying ON silk as my whole bedding is indeed pure silk. Either way, my hair is constantly touching silk so I'm not worried about braiding it all back. 😁 plus tying it up is hard sometimes due to weight of the hair and thickness... Which in my case, is very thick and heavy.

[@Anna-fw7lm]

@@KaysFantasy Beata te XD (lucky you) I like to follow an italian channel who teach how to naturally take care of hair, and explain historical facts around them. The girl has 1,15 mt long hair.

[@sacidasisacidasi3663]

Can anyone recommend a good quality silk pillow case online?

[@katcomshaw-arnold6979]

I use Feng Shui in my home, and at one point I even hired an Expert to come to my home to advise me. Feng Shui is not so much about items themselves, but more about the flow of energy through your living space. I recommend reading some books about it, focusing on those who do not emphasize "cures" by placing items, but those with a long lineage of teachers. An example my Romanian grandmother used to say was "too many windows in the dining area makes children disobey." After reading Feng Shui principles, I understand this old wives tale was correct. Softening the energy coming in through a window with appropriate curtains, sheers, plants, or flowers can make a big difference. Doors, windows, furniture placement, etc, are far more important than "hang these Chinese coins" or "put up the color red" as "cures."

[@milliondollarlady]

"Elegant ladies always freshen up before they go to bed." Yes, of course. It's a rule to always freshen up before you go to bed.

[@klaramika]

Feng shui is great Anna. I have been studying Fs for years now and had lots of results and kind of my entire life is changing. Still on this journey, some very confusing info on the web, what you find is mostly western FS, which is not FS at all and can even be harmful, blocking the energy flow. If it is your bedroom the bed seems to be in a good position. However the leather of the headboard is fire energy in gray color which is metal, not so good for sleeping. Best is to get a solid wood headboard. The lamps on the wall have sharp edges which creates poison arrows aka bad chi. I recommend you contact Marie Diamond. She markets herself as the secret behind the secret. Your home is a 3D vision board, and your 3rd skin. As it is outside so it is inside our home reflects our soul and mental state. Also FS is part of Chinese medicine the only aspect that does not deal with the physical body. Fascinating topic.

[@pippa9749]

Your hair looks lovely in this video. It makes your face look so soft.

[@sandraduwareski]

I did Feng shui in my house by myself. I can feel the change of energy instantly.

[@sassysweetx8096]

I use my ‘do not disturb’ app on my phone so I can’t get any notifications or calls between certain hours...only emergency calls can get through. I also use the ‘do not disturb’ when driving app. It’s the best way to relax and not be disturbed.

[@Eva_The_Diva]

The biggest mistake people make once they are in a stable relationship is feeling too comfortable with their partner. When you meet somebody and start dating, you always try to look your best. Hair is done, legs are shaved, clothes are nice, clean and ironed.........but once the new is not so new no more we tend to think that we dont have to try no more. Greasy hair, old often stretched out, stained t-shirts in bed, old sweatpants, farting and burping competitions with your partner and so on. We should always try to look attractive for our partners and vice versa. I dont think men should witness some of the things we do like hair plucking, nail cutting, shaving and all the other not so sexy things we do to look good. And another very important thing is, never point your flaws to your man. You want him to believe you are perfect. Men don't see our flaws the way we see them. If you are intimate with your partner he is so exited about it he doesn't see your stretch marks, saggy breasts and whatever else makes you feel insecure. But when you start pointing them, when you insist on turning lights off explaing that you don't want him to see ...... (Put your insecurities here) or tell him your stomach looks flatter in a different position, that's when they start to look at you from your perspective, that's when they start to see what you see because you keep pointing it to them. Confidence is very attractive and you should always convince your partner you are the best they can ever get.

[@a.b.2405]

eva ....mmmmm you make a good point. I’ve noticed I’m getting too comfortable with my husband.

[@Eva_The_Diva]

@@a.b.2405 We all make that mistake at some point and men are as guilty as we are, maybe even more. At least we dont have balls to scratch in front of our partners. Lol

[@a.b.2405]

eva I am dead! I give my husband the side eye if he is “fixing” his underwear.

[@Eva_The_Diva]

@@a.b.2405 my ex used to love the Al Bundy hand placement while watching tv and when I asked him why he has to stick his hand in his pants he said his hand felt comfortable like that. 🤦🤢🤮

[@antoniarauch5362]

please also cover sex etiquette, that would be very interesting!

[@mariselalopez55]

Antonia Rauch yes!

[@a.b.2405]

Antonia Rauch what exactly would be sex etiquette? “Ladies, thou shalt not wear cheap lingerie!” “Ladies, make sure your lingerie matches!” I don’t know I’m just guessing lol.

[@nemanjaras]

@@a.b.2405 Example: Elegant ladies don't swallow.

[@a.b.2405]

Nikola I SM DECEASED!! 😂🤣 what are you suppose to do then? Stop before it can happen? I don’t know, I’ve never done it before.

[@antoniarauch5362]

@@nemanjaras why wouldn't they?

[@northenpeace1111]

You Sleep Better Naked Sleeping Naked Reduces Stress Sleeping Naked Builds Confidence Sleeping Naked Is Healthier Silk sheets and pillow cases let the body breath

[@rnperrin16]

Not in winter its not 🥶🥶🥶

[@Luxeamirah]

You can sleep naked in winter I do

[@starlitetimes6361]

Sick. At least when you have children. Sure they should always know on the door... but still, you should go to bed in decent comfortable clothes in case you have to rush out of your bedroom in the middle of the night for any urgent reason.

[@FlorenceFire]

@@starlitetimes6361 sleeping naked is sick? Are you really that prude to call a natural, naked body sick? Wow. Wow indeed, this is a new level of stupid.

[@FlorenceFire]

@@starlitetimes6361 for any urgent reason I have a robe

[@novena8743]

Yours is one of the most Informative KZbin Channel !

[@lola1033]

"This energy you bring it with you the rest of the day". God this is so true

[@fooshpoof]

This lady is like a trip back to the 50s

[@krizjamz9823]

Still smash

[@yomama7521]

sti ston fr its kind of concerning ngl

[@Theendlessriver77]

In the best possible way.

[@robinwoodard7898]

I love it.. she helps me put myself first and my husband. I love feeling beautiful

[@gwenshin]

Not really, in the 1950s women went to bed with their hair in ROLLERS! With their husband in the bed with them. I kid you not.

[@spoiledritzy]

Love your hair straight. A nice change from always curled. And it's halfway pulled back. Really highlights the features of your face. 💗

[@rexhinaruci6204]

This video can really make a difference for us girls in our life . 💪 It's amazing how blessed we are to get Advices from you Queen. 👑

[@HereIAm247]

There are some old 'etiquette videos' from the 1950'es on youtube, and one about habit patterns is probably my favourite. I don't know why this video made me think of it, but I think the message is fairly compatible with what you are teaching. It is about being as prepared and 'together' as possible, so that if you get a new opportunity in life, you can focus on that opportunity, and have a greater chance of success, because you don't have to stress about everything else in life. This is done by creating good and consistent habits, in everything from grooming too bedtime habits. A lot of people in the comments seem to be missing the point of the video; that you can change your life, by changing your habits/behaviour. That is both scary (because it means that you are doing something wrong if you are failing), but also empowering, because it means there is potential for more, if you want it. Maybe that is why I made a connection to your teachings.

[@sunflowermood829]

You look so stunning. You really motivate me to not give up on my DREAMS😂❤❤😙

[@Lifewithareli]

*why am I overthinking posting this* I used to wear old, ripped, stained clothes as pajamas, but something inside me knew it didn't feel right even if those around me were doing it. I love you Anna for being so bold and vulnerable by making these educational videos! You're Such a charming young woman training ladies who got out of the ghetto, to keep the ghetto OUT (like me lol)

[@bcvc3365]

Feng Shui tip: don’t keep trash inside your house. I have my trash can in the garage and walk my trash outside every day.

[@sofiamariagomescorreia9777]

I am expert in feng shui! I have lived feng shui since 2013... FS is a precious knowledge for life! All the principles are so simple and noble . Respect for the life cycles and nature, time and space! Feng Shui is the best! To know the Qi of space and form. Thank you Anna for this!

[@slowmofk4714]

Cutting nails in bed???who does this??!!!!🤣 This was a very nice video!Thank you!❤

[@astralsalixxo6320]

Slowmo FK my weird roommate cuts her nails in the sink lol

[@helingulx]

Thanks to you i am getting rid of my laziness slowly. 19 is not too late

[@Oksanado268]

On my current budget I can only afford satin pillowcases and they are definitely better than cotton. My hair used to be so dry when I sleep on cotton pillowcases

[@lhancock3047]

What do you wear during an overnight flight where you're planning to sleep on the plane?

[@salut4396]

I’m also wondering the same!

[@Ms.MD7]

Lmao

[@meenakshim4437]

In India, we follow vastu shastra for the whole house. There are so many couples who struggle to have children because they watch TV and do other work in bedroom. Also many people have sleep disorders because they don't follow bedroom etiquette. You have spoken about many good points about morning routine and staying away from mobile in bedroom. Thank you.

[@bunnypie9462]

I love your videos! As far as workout clothes during bed, I agree! I find most low-quality workout clothes don't breathe well. Sleeping and sweating in them and then working out and opening pours to get clogged by mess is a no-go!

[@lilillicit]

Thank you for all of your videos. I recently wanted to become a more feminine version of myself due to being depressed, having 4 dependant children and not being able to take care of myself as much as I’d like to. You came up on my KZbin recommendations today and I have watched you all day. You have changed my perspective and I will gradually be changing my lifestyle, “Rome wasn’t built in a day” so these changes will come subtly. Unfortunately and I apologise but my fiancé overheard me watching your videos and he is ignorant and disagrees to a lot of them but he hasn’t experienced the change firsthand?... Maybe he will be more open minded and attracted to me as these changes happen? I want to keep watching you so I have subscribed. Only a suggestion but I would love if you could you video a dos and don’ts makeup, nails, hair edition? I appreciate you! 🤍

[@michellemutua5534]

No devices in the bedroom? What if an emergency arises? A family member or a friend falls ill or into a serious problem and you are the only one who can help them?

[@dmzc]

I'd love to see a video of you talking about sleeping issues and how you personally cope with them 😊

[@michellehall2715]

I adhere to Feng Shui. Especially the bedroom is very simple and my sanctuary for renewing myself.

[@de1e7e]

Wait until you have kids 🤪

[@Kayprofessor]

frankensensas I try to follow most of what she says but sometimes I’m like yeah... she doesn’t have kids, there’s no way that I can always put elegance ahead of survival lol

[@victoriapowers576]

Just lock the door right?

[@Kayprofessor]

Moon And Stars wow, that's so amazing. I hope one day my kids have an unrealistically perfect memory of me. Your mom is so lucky! Haha!

[@polinaracheeva9163]

4:29 cannot believe so many people lack knowledge of basic hygiene

[@slbarbieri1725]

Too many women take showers in the morning. They'd rather roll around in body dirt all night. Yuck!!!

[@tulipsmith2088]

@@slbarbieri1725 And yuck if they go out without showering in the morning.

[@slbarbieri1725]

@@tulipsmith2088 I'd rather shower at night.

[@tulipsmith2088]

@@slbarbieri1725 I just don't know how people can function during the day without a shower. My preference is morning and night. Oh well. Each to their own.

[@despinatheodorou623]

I always have decorations in twos, for example two candles, two plant pots, two frames photos and so on. Also, a flower picture ( mostly peonies) right across the bed. I believe in this energy that is created!

[@vestaenb]

1 second in... YOU ARE GLOWING!

[@zakiajenkins3493]

Vestaen Balbuena Like always!

[@bluecollarlit]

The way you said "cotton pillowcases!" made me think of "wire hangers!" -- haha

[@paulinak520]

I started to watch this channel when it was very small and it completely changed my perspective. This is where my better life has started together with first Anna course ❤️

[@monikaveleva1808]

Anna please do more Law Of Attraction videos please

[@sarahhatcher7283]

Thanks for sharing this! One thing I’ve noticed with ALOT of women now a days, is not keeping up their hygiene. So many women I see not washing their hair. I just don’t understand how they can walk around a whole week not washing certain things. To me, if my hair is dirty I feel dirty. Its so disgusting

[@bingbing5902]

Feng shui is Chinese word and it's from China. Feng means Wind / Air, Shui is water.

[@RamyKay]

Notification squad😊 Anna this tan suits you so well!

[@sabrinatoglia4729]

Thank you Anna for your videos. They are actually very informative and use common sense. It's great that you point them out.

[@Pumkyn]

When you said she is a grown up woman I wanted to laugh. You're right I know its just so funny.

[@MaiNguyen-yd1js]

My family is from Asia and we live in Europe...My parents avoid keeping mirrors in the rooms and especially bedrooms. They say it brings bad energy. So we have mirrors only in the hallway and bathroom. I noticed this rule also in other asian famillies too. I think my mum would lose it if she saw that in some europian homes are huge mirrors across a whole wall in their bedrooms lol

[@heidithomas5455]

I hate having a mirror in my room but literally in our small bungalow there is any room anywhere else to put one. Until I get my walk-in closet I'll suffer.

[@ELIZABETHTORRES-em3kx]

Mai Nguyen I’m not European, I’m Hispanic and I don’t know nothing about Fen S, but mirrors in my bedroom always gives me the cripes do not know why.

[@heidithomas5455]

@@ELIZABETHTORRES-em3kx see the movie mirrors...it's not what is reflected, it's what lies behind, on the other side.

[@ELIZABETHTORRES-em3kx]

Mai Nguyen I don’t know 🤷‍♀️ I can not explain my feeling but I feel like someone it’s looking at me. It’s creepy. I’m ok with bathroom mirrors and correct me If I’m wrong but I don’t hang nothing in the walls either, for the same reason I found it creepy. Also I keep all my door closed Behind me and absolutely no closet door almost closed in my rooms. The door las to be fully closed. Maybe I’m nuts 🥜

[@ELIZABETHTORRES-em3kx]

Heidi Thomas I meant to reply to you but instead I reply to Mai

[@elianamackley734]

Marie Diamond has the best and most sensible and affordable Feng shui training I know of.

[@zestrus11]

A beautiful glass water decanter on the nightstand instead of a sporty water bottle.

[@Bethypat1]

#3 is so true. Even my doctor said the same. I have severe issues with sleep. Insomnia and night terrors. So, no electronics in bed. Sleep only. #5 Absolutely true. Silk is the best fabric for those of us with severe skin sensitivities. #6 is something that goes back to 3, which my doctor also said. As well as sleeping in complete darkness. That's the best way to get the most restful sleep.

[@Kimsical-whimsical]

I agree with you especially about the only sleeping in bed. My husband has wanted a TV in our bedroom for so long, and I won't let him because of this exact reason. Love your videos, you have done well it seems. 😃

[@christieheyblom]

When I went to deportment school when I was 14 one of the things they said is “a lady always showers both morning and night” I already did that because it’s the only way. I like to feel fresh and ready! I have never understood how people feel ok without a shower..

[@samanthabarona7981]

Omg sleeping in active wear ready for the next day. Bizarre. Worst thing I’ve ever heard. Thank you for exposing this one 🤣🙏🏽❤️

[@honeyfigsunbeam1505]

I love this! For about a year I have been waking up and not looking at my phone. I become less productive. Instead I have a prayer routine, beauty routine, I start to clean the house, make tea, make my bed, exercise , study for a little bit..... and THEN, I will turn on my phone. Of course I don’t have a business so I can turn it off for a long time. Regardless waking up and looking at your phone without brushing your teeth first, is just self sabotage 🤷🏼‍♀️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️