“10 Things Society Assumes About Single Men (And Why They’re Wrong)”

[@taras3702]

Staying single means I AM solvent, sane and free.

[@Erik-the-Southern-Viking]

My Question is “Who are all these people ‘judging’ the Single Men??” Mostly married men who are Jealous, Women who ‘disapprove of your lifestyle’, or Women who want you , but CANT HAVE YOU! Why should Any of Us Single Guys care what these ‘unhappy people’ think..?? 😅

[@tuesdayswithed]

Ha! You are so right. I guess it comes from comments and people who think they're better than us. I used to hear gossip at family reunions like "oh he'll be a bachelor" or"he's alone, must be something wrong with him"...yada yada. Thanks for watching and have a great holiday.

[@Erik-the-Southern-Viking]

@ Have a Great Xmas Ed!

[@tuesdayswithed]

@@Erik-the-Southern-Viking You too, Thank You

[@bluesrocker91]

The freedom thing has always been a big one for me... I know I'm not an easy guy to live with, I think (I hope) I'm pleasant enough to be around but my lifestyle just clashes with what society and most women expect. Occasions in the past where I've made a concerted effort to change has invariably sent me into a pit of depression. It just creates a situation where no-one is happy. I certainly don't rule out a future relationship, but a conventional arrangement is never going to work. I've often thought a long-distance relationship or "living apart together" type of setup would work best for me.

[@Erik-the-Southern-Viking]

Totally Agree: men & women should Never Live Together (unless they are Makin Babies!)

[@tuesdayswithed]

Yeah It's a tough one. I think of Kurt Russel and Goldie Hawn. Both great actors/actress. They've been together forever, but they never got married and they say they prefer it that way. Thanks for your input.

[@betrarookie]

The list is just the titanic tip of the iceberg. You are a true single sigma brothers to us all :()

[@Radioman7788]

Merry Christmas Ed. Great video.

[@tuesdayswithed]

Thanks much. Merry Christmas.

[@HarryKamal-c4d]

I was committed to my career but after experiencing discrimination cuturally I ended up getting sick and now disabled. this is what singlism can do to you for not conforming

[@DuneGuy796]

Spot on, sir! Excellent video! Labels in general enclose people into a concrete box. Single men have more of a chance to grow. More to give. In this world we can only give our time and energy. It's finite. Singlehood allows us to try and properly learn to manage OURSELVES. Then we can learn to care for others. The discrimination only makes us stronger! Hard times make strong men! Stay strong and healthy! Merry Christmas and Happy New year to you as well.

[@tuesdayswithed]

Well said. Thanks for your input and Merry Christmas.

[@dayytube]

@@tuesdayswithed I think you are doing a fine Job Sir in fact, great as far as these fantastic videos are concerned packed with valid highly informative content. Thank you so much and I hope you have a Wonderful Christmas and a Happy New Year Sir.

[@tuesdayswithed]

@@dayytube Thanks much and right back at ya..Have a great Christmas and New Years,

[@mps397]

I've had relationships throughout my life but I've never felt like ive needed to be in a relationship so they are few and far in between. They only people I've ever met that find out Im content with being single automatically assumes Im either a player or gay and i could honestly careless. If it keeps them away fine, Im neither of those. Im not committed to my job 100% of the time. I typically do my 8 skate and hit the gate. Im broke but I'm still able afford most things on a paycheck. Im selfish in the regard that I choose my peace over the chaos of relationships and kid's. I enjoy my life as it sits because Im building it that way. I love what family I have and Happy for them when there's a marriage. There are plenty of toxic men out there as well as toxic women who love to shit single men who living their lives to their hearts content. Im boring honestly an I'm fine with that, have plenty of hobbies to keep me busy. I enjoy that Im a mystery to other people especially people who went along with societal norms. Anyways

[@tuesdayswithed]

Better to be a mystery than be in misery. Thanks for your input,

[@markdanielczyk944]

I'm alone, but not lonely. Yeah, sometimes being single sucks, but seeing my miserable married co-workers. Enough said! Years ago, I was denied a promotion for being single, I should have sued.🤷‍♂️

[@tuesdayswithed]

oh man, if I knew back then what I know now I would got a fake wedding ring and a false photo of some woman to put on my desk just so I wouldn't have endure all that. Thanks for your input.

[@Erik-the-Southern-Viking]

One more important comment: I have Aspergers, & that makes it very very Difficult to attract women. All the women I’ve dated over the Decades, have been somewhere ‘On the Spectrum’. My point is that as a Single Dude on the spectrum, there are only around 2% of women who are ‘compatible’ 💁🏼‍♂️

[@tuesdayswithed]

Wow, that makes it tough. But just be true to yourself and you'll be fine.

[@taras3702]

If that. It's very likely I am on the Spectrum too, but compatible women don't exist where I am.

[@Erik-the-Southern-Viking]

@@taras3702 - there are women out there who will be ‘interested’…. They’re just really Really Hard to Find. They don’t socialize much 💁🏼‍♂️