1. Keep them waiting 2. Everybody always says that... 3. No. No. No. 4. Not becoming their flying monkey 5. Treating them like everybody else 6. Ignoring them 7. Grey rock = no emotional reaction 8. Not being triggered by them 9. When you do not fall for their wordsalad 10. Walking away from them Dear Paula, thanks for another insightful lesson of yours🌈🕊🙏
@ldbobay Жыл бұрын
Thanks for this RoxyMovie!!!!
@roxymovie3938 Жыл бұрын
@@ldbobay you are very welcome, ldbobay!
@Lena-so2lq10 ай бұрын
Pretty sure my "ex" hooked up with a supply from 24 years ago. She let him right in the door. . .let him manipulate her for 4 days and bounced back to Florida. She's in Tennessee. She contacted me. Sent a picture of them together, acting heartbroken. I'm really 50/50 about whats possible? Is she talking to me via him, still in contact? Now she wants to visit in a month, down to Florida. It seems strange, maybe its just me. Why want ro be so close with the woman he was with, at the same time as you? Feels off. I never contacted him since finding you. I already found out everything else, with no answer. I dont need an answer,.looking at direct evidence.
@Courage2Care10 ай бұрын
Number 11. When my ex was losing it. I'll say, "Are you angry?" 🙂I guess I was playing with the death-bell😮😅😂😂ding ding 🔔
@LenaKrupinski-vg5wi6 ай бұрын
True ! I wrote a comment on the online gurus channel who I got close to that , " I found him not to be a spiritual teacher but more A seeker of truth like the rest of us. He sent a message back which was saying yes I understand , Then deleted the message ! They don't like it when you challenge them or have a different opinion to theirs , They want praise and compliments constantly . 🌹🙏
@anndillard8681 Жыл бұрын
It annoys them if you get compliments or succeed at something and get praise..
@knowtruth2773 Жыл бұрын
Yep. 🎯
@heathermixson1265 Жыл бұрын
A person breathing annoys a narcissist....lol Thank you Paula❤
@craigy69111 ай бұрын
My wife soon to be ex always said this your breathing is keeping me awake well I’m not snoring what do you want me to do stop breathing yesss
1. Keep them waiting. 2. Give the person next to them your full focus. 3. say “Yours is a common complaint.” 4. “no.” 5. not becoming their flying monkey 6. not giving them preferential treatment 7. ignoring them 8. become as a grey rock, giving them no emotional reactions 9. not being triggered by their poking, not allowing yourself to take what they say personally 10. When they avoid answering, persist in repeating the question. 11. Walk away. 12. Have an exit plan. 13. Don’t sign over property to them.
@Job.Well.Done_01 Жыл бұрын
some of these narcs will absolutely resort to physical abuse if you somehow upset them bad enough and they lack self control on top of it. Be careful out there and use your discernment !
@annamariehewitt3173 Жыл бұрын
The Narcissist's greatest Fear is that we look upon them as Ordinary.....My Narcissist Landlord shouted at me the other day "I need you to RESPECT ME."....I looked him straight in the eye and said "I expect the same from you."....He looked really shocked and wasn't expecting that response....Now he has backed off...
@womanclothedinthesunq7574 Жыл бұрын
Narcissist are a bad date forever!!! Thank you 🙏 love from Albuquerque.
@NarcCon Жыл бұрын
Absolutely 💯
@JH-td4mn Жыл бұрын
An "action salad", that's a good one! 😂
@NarcCon Жыл бұрын
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@Beth00009 Жыл бұрын
The word no oh boy they HATE that, I've been left with fibromyalgia from it but I'm away from the ones I knew I have some kind of peace now (still some ptsd) but im at peace, love and blessings to everyone 😙💞💓
@NarcCon Жыл бұрын
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@vickipacheco9787 Жыл бұрын
What I have experienced, NC no contact is a constant slap in their face. It digs deep into their sick egos, not to be the center of attention. SICKENING & will do a yrhing to jerk you into attention. I will clam up or walk away, saying NOOOOOO.& mean it.I am so Done with these devil's and I am totally aware of WHAT THEYRE GAME IS. Back to the main point, I wouldn't hesitate now to call the police if violence comes I to the picture.
@vickipacheco9787 Жыл бұрын
Thank GOD for power, Love & a Sound Mind. Thank you Paula for your keen knowledge shares as well🌿🙏🌿🌺
@Teremoanabrockbank Жыл бұрын
I went no contact when I realised her games. Mine (former friend) mask unveiled. She had stalked me at my job where I work with young people. Trying to approach my vehicle in traffic with my students. Now today all of a sudden comes to the gym at 5am when Im there. Both her and her husband dont work…
@wayneelliott1180 Жыл бұрын
@@Teremoanabrockbank I can relate. I have a narc neighbour I have blocked completely who has hunted me for five years now. The machinations used to desperately trap my attention are numerous - and every one of them has failed.
@celiamurray Жыл бұрын
When I walked away to stop the fighting, the narc punched me in my back. So yes. They absolutely hate it.
@NarcCon Жыл бұрын
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@Job.Well.Done_01 Жыл бұрын
THIS is my fear. When I stick to grey rock I have seen some verrrrry self restrained narcs who held back from throwing a physical punch at me. I am terrified that keeping a narc back will only make them physically dangerous toward me. How do I protect myself from physical abuse? Thanks
@celiamurray Жыл бұрын
@@Job.Well.Done_01 I got a restraining order, whereby he is not allowed to talk to me or come near me. I also moved. But if you are working for them, or they are part of your family it is more difficult. If you can, GET OUT and go no contact. The peace you feel when you get past the trauma bond is unreal.💟
@T190.JLS27 Жыл бұрын
Being out of the relationship for 8 months already, with no contact -I can now look back and see that I had already started inadvertently annoying my narcissistic “best friend” by behaving in many of these ways. Such as instinctively using the greyrock technique, and saying no once in a while. As I became a stronger and more confident person, it just seemed to annoy her even more. I sensed this, but didn’t understand it at the time, but do now - Thanks to your videos! Have a great summer Paula! I am! 😉
@NarcCon Жыл бұрын
Thanks Judi so much both for your donation and positive words..I am very happy to read them 🙋♀️🌹🙏
@dixiedean8429 Жыл бұрын
Here's another one but it comes with a huge warning! - Try saying this- " I don't trust you" I think this gets to the core. 🙏
@francheskajernigan832 Жыл бұрын
I said I would not introduce him to any of my friends and that I protect my friends… his reply was a quick jerk of the head with a response of, yes of course
@atirliag2833Ай бұрын
Also I don't believe you😊
@jackgoodings Жыл бұрын
My ex wife .. she had me on strings even 4 years after I left. Then.. to get rid of the 'family debt' .. I took voluntary redundancy from my leasership / school career (was good pay, I kept her well-sorted) and entered into an IVA. I told her .. she was FURIOUS!! And in front of my kids .. and blamed me for her being angry 😂. She had lost her cash provider and there was nothing she could do about it. That year, I received the divorce papers. Go figure 😂. And to add insult to injury, I went on the dole / benefits, and had my doctor write a letter to say I couldnt go back to teaching due to I'll health (I actually was very I'll from it all) .. and set up a limited company self employed, came off benefits, made the headlines for the work I was foing so my kids could see I wasnt a deadbeat dad .. and she couldn't touch a penny of it. My name was smeared so badly. She did end up turning everyone against me, even my kids, and even people in the education world. But I stayed strong, did not waver, kept going, stubborn as a mule .. it was bloody hard but she will never ever know that.
@jillfoley6834 Жыл бұрын
Are you a Taurus?
@jackgoodings Жыл бұрын
@@jillfoley6834 Nope
@christineh.646511 ай бұрын
@@jackgoodings Gemini? 😊
@Lena-so2lq10 ай бұрын
Why's everyone asking what your sign is? 😂😂( i would guess, Capricorn.) Smearing is a tough thing to come back from. I'm glad to see you finished strong on the other side!! 💜
@sooozannah33 Жыл бұрын
After being in no contact for approximately 10 years, the ex narcissist popped up at a place I was working - along with his wife, one of the many women he chose over me (I was trauma bonded and kept jumping when he called no matter how hurtful his behaviour had been). Once he realised I worked there he popped up again less than a week later (with his wife) he seen me have a pleasant interaction with a nice guy who held a gate open for me and then he started beeping the horn of the van he was in and waving frantically (in front of his wife). I looked, seen him and then blanked him. He was FUMING, not hurt, not confused but incandescently irate like how dare the likes of you ignore ME!? I've seen him a few times since and he's tried to ignore me to punish me and presumably to restore the previous power balance but it just doesn't have the same impact on me that it once would have done. Weirdly, his wife seems to be one of his flying monkeys, regularly spying on me and trying to find out info on me. I think they're made for each other!
@NarcCon Жыл бұрын
Nice to see him in reality 🌹
@ninath13 Жыл бұрын
Me too he's with his equal both toxic bye you got that y'all have Won now that's see how it plays out 😭 o
@user-pf8tk9xr5k Жыл бұрын
Congrats on 10yrs of freedom !! 🥂🍾 What you said about the look on his face when you ignored him. The arrogance is un
@cindypabst9293 Жыл бұрын
I was dealing with a narcissist whose cat damaged my chair and I asked her to pay to repair the chair. She gave me such a wild run around about how her darling cat could Not have damaged my chair! It was funny ❤
@NarcCon Жыл бұрын
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@Lena-so2lq10 ай бұрын
My narc ex claims he didn't throw a cup at my stainless dishwasher, ruining it. 1200. It works, but maybe i can order a new front door. That rage ended with a knife to my stomach. What a joke. He's a joke.
@gavinwilliams1687 Жыл бұрын
You’re in a mischievous mood this evening Paula 😂😂
@NarcCon Жыл бұрын
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@anndillard8681 Жыл бұрын
Some of them - the overt talk non-stop - suck the air out of the room.. trying to shut them down.. is almost impossible..
@ldbobay Жыл бұрын
I love you Paula!!! Fall seven times and get up eight! That was one wonderful preview. I'm making art with the saying. You are great!
@NarcCon Жыл бұрын
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@HonestyIsAVirtue7 Жыл бұрын
Loving the Platinum Blonde on you Paula! The blonde hair with the dark glasses suits you very well...❤ Makes you look YEARS younger! I'm just saying! ❤ You are spot on with the things that will annoy a narcissist! They expect to be treated as if they are royalty. Now that I know who they are, and what they are, I love to IGNORE the creeps! If they try to speak to me, I just stay silent as if I never heard them talk. They hate that! And, I love to do everything that they hate.... I will not acknowledge them.
@NarcCon Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much..I’m listening 🙏🌹
@HonestyIsAVirtue7 Жыл бұрын
@@NarcConYou're Very Welcome ❤
@taniaurbahn8023 Жыл бұрын
My landlord is this exactly, he is also my neighbour and ‘friend’. I really needed these strategies, thank you. We have a housing crisis and I can’t find another home so have to injure him.
@tathe3786 Жыл бұрын
😂it’s Fine with me!! All of This… 🎉and the rabbit hole Now i get it!😂
@malibu90265 Жыл бұрын
I am glad to understand the things that annoy the narcissist, it helps me to understand what I was involved in. But to engage in this behavior serves no valid purpose. What is valuable is to make the discard of the narcissist and go-no contact.
@roxymovie3938 Жыл бұрын
Yes, no contact is the best solution for sure👍 Stay strong & take care 🙏🕊
@malibu90265 Жыл бұрын
@@roxymovie3938 Be well, Roxy. ☮
@roxymovie3938 Жыл бұрын
@@malibu90265Thank you, jw! 🙏😊
@Meggiebeth195 ай бұрын
Silence is golden. Go no contact. Get rid of the strife, chaos- I don’t care what rot of lies they may say about me- they’re lies. Most people know the narc is a bossy, controlling, jealous liar & they keep their distance. Narc’s I have experienced can’t keep friends. Thanks Paula.🌼
@wayneelliott1180 Жыл бұрын
I was working at a large and busy event and an couple came to peruse the wares available. When I asked them if I could help, they said they hadn't decided, so I turned and served another young couple who quickly selected and were served their choice. Immediately, the first couple went in search of security to complain I had served another couple before them. Narcs are everywhere, and this is one of the more humorous experiences I've had with these twisted types of people.
@NarcCon Жыл бұрын
Unbelievable! 🌹
@josephosullivan9506 Жыл бұрын
Be really careful using this one!Obviously, it depends on where, when, and who.I said it to a bully narc at work years ago. It's just 4 simple words..."I don't like you." Even though he had builled and abused me for a year, he was absolutely floored when I said I didn't like him. HIs jaw hit the ground. I cut off another narcissist who used someone else to try to connect with me. "She's wondering why you don't txt anymore. What will I tell her," ?...I said. ."Just tell her I don't like her." I knew he wouldn't! Four simple words that shatter their delusions, particularly the delusion that they can abuse people and yet still be liked by them. They are beyond ridiculous!
@JustMe-uw6yd Жыл бұрын
Ex Narc To volatile No was my complete sentence Had to be tht way Especially in Hoover's 💖
@peat_dont_repeat Жыл бұрын
So very true. They are always so charming especially to people they don't know. Or you don't know they know them. And to me they are just so mean. Oh this is John.
@user-kg6vy2if9o Жыл бұрын
Yeh let’s fight evil in a subtle and funny way😂
@elliewegman1846 Жыл бұрын
Hello Paula! Always good to see you. Wonderful info, just wonderful. My most absolute favourite strategy is to be boring. Im not a game player, but thoroughly enjoy being boring. You see THEY are boring. This believing they know it all.. a couple of classics; Pink Himalayan salt? What a load crap. Can only get salt from seabed. Australia has only one type tree, the gum. What about the Wolemi Pine? Oa, I see them everywhere. I support israel because its always been there.... This time just had to put them straight, Israel was founded 1948. Big wide open mouth.. not only contradicted but I dare to? Its dangerous correcting them. Honestly, being a totally boring person best strategy of all.
@NarcCon Жыл бұрын
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@faithkoopman5655 Жыл бұрын
Keeping someone waiting is disrespectful of their time and saying your time is more important
@dianahogg6164 Жыл бұрын
Great video. I'm in stitches laughing. I got educated just before lockdown. If I said no, I would get the word salad. I signed many a document for what ever his latest whim was. I'm easy going but during lockdown it was entertaining to sit still, not react and watch him spinning. He walked out the door like a lamb. Life is good now 3 years I'm free. No more him snapping his fingers cause he just thought of something to say. When I was talking to my children. You have answered the strange tapping me on the shoulder when there was other people around, in the last few months. Freaky.
@NarcCon Жыл бұрын
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@Jetmab04 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Paula 💖 Made me think of my former narc's who - in a different country - are still using and abusing my identity over there and, I still - after 24;years - ignore them! So much hate inside so small people - and, so truly happy I was able to get away! Thanks again - it's weekend and, if we just believe strong enough, the sun might be back in Ireland when we wake up tomorrow morning 🤗🌹🌹🌹
@NarcCon Жыл бұрын
😊🤞
@RoopaDudleyPaintings Жыл бұрын
This was Stand-up Comedy worthy.
@NarcCon Жыл бұрын
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@dixiedean8429 Жыл бұрын
Good to see a humorous side to this sometimes- Im glad you've added a note of caution about these tactics. If you use any of the suggested methods then you must prepare for the potential doubling/trebling down of the abuse. Let's face it , you've annoyed them, and that is not going to go down to well or easily forgotten. Anyway I'll add another one for good measure. In my experience the narcissistic partner feeds off and armours themselves with the information that they, seemingly innocently glean from you. E.g. - A simple question like "what have you been doing today and who and what have you been talking about" - I can guarantee that if and when you share this information it will be stored and used later against you. So if you want to annoy or even potentially disarm the narcissist then stop sharing any of your personal information. This is a tricky one if you think you're in a 'normal' relationship because sharing is a big part of that and it would be a quite reasonable thing to do , BUT NOT WITH A NARC! and it will piss them off when you don't walk into this trap. An example of how the narcissist can turn you're questioning into an opportunity to devalue or undermine you're confidence goes something like this- You: "Hey, how has your day been today" Narc: " Why would I bother telling you, you wouldn't understand if I did" You: (Thought bubble) "Jeez, I was only %&*king asking." Result = feelings of inadequacy Thanks as always Paula 🙏
@francheskajernigan832 Жыл бұрын
Work situation: showing up wherever I am at on the corner, at the coffee shop, at the elevator, passing by as I am interviewing a client , just happens to be passing by as I am just getting to work…mere coincidence , not more like targeted….1st 3 hour conversation trailed off with me say hello and realizing he was drunk. He admitted to having a drinking problem , and oh boy he just would not lie to me he said I love you 3 times in the conversation, love bombing at its best. Went to dinner…… I made it clear whatever his intentions …. I am to 20 years his senior we both agreed for friendship in Christ….went to bible study twice now with reason I won’t go again…. And I will not accept nothing from his hand…. So far I have not seen hide nor hair of him…. I hope this means he is fading or moving on… without having to Hoover or send flying monkeys
@user-pf8tk9xr5k Жыл бұрын
Definitely take her warning about walking away from a narcissist. I could tell when he was working up to a narcissistic rage. So I would try to leave before he got there. This wasn’t easy because there was only one exit because of the stuff blocking doors. This happened one of the times I walked (ran) away. So I make it to my car and out to the street. Here he comes with a shovel, jumps in front of my car. In a rage demanding me to get back in his house and threateningly tapping my car. I refuse and try to get around and he brings the shovel down striking my car more than 5x. The next day he says he only wanted to know why I ran out like that for no reason. Said I was crazy and acting like a crackhead. (I feel really stupid that I even talked to him after this happened). So people be very careful before you walk away from a narcissist.
@methatswho3004 ай бұрын
the first time I said no to a narc, it was soo liberating....the best feeling ever....and I used to say yes to to everything as a supportive partner and because he would make me feel bad about saying no. Finally I just said no, and I survived the aftermath and I said that wasn't so bad, so now I have no problem telling him no. I love telling him no. My fav method is not reacting when he wants a reaction. What they love to do is take something that got a reaction out of you before (especially anger, sadness) and subtly bring it up or do it. For instance, you tell the narc to make sure the doors and windows are locked at night and they delibrately don't....so you bring it up like hey please make sure you lock the door at night when you get home, it makes me feel uneasy to sleep with the doors unlock..what do they do deliberately leave the door unlock just to get a reaction....they are so stupid🙄
@flowerchild89 Жыл бұрын
This video was very informative. Now I have some coping skills if needed. Thank you! 👍🌞☮️🙏🕊️☺️
@NarcCon Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome
@JohnSmith-wo7ns Жыл бұрын
She'd think nothing of keeping me waiting outside for her for half hr but would go apesh*t if I was 2 mins late!! 😅
@jinnyh Жыл бұрын
Great stuff here
@dixiedean8429 Жыл бұрын
P.S. The narc is never late- they just operate in a different time zone!
@FisherzofMen777 Жыл бұрын
WHAT DOESN'T ANNOY THEM?! *THAT'S* THE QUESTION!!!
@allieeverett901711 ай бұрын
True, true. I work for two, a married couple. Cannot do much correctly. I am 62 years old and have been totally re-educated. How to wash dishes, clean floors, wipe bottoms, dust. I never had any idea how stupid I was 👀😭😉
@jsb2829 Жыл бұрын
Great post all true!!!!
@nickieglazer33 Жыл бұрын
My presence (according to my ex) 😂
@roxymovie3938 Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@craigy69111 ай бұрын
My breathing (not snoring) when I’m asleep for my soon to be ex wife
@freespirit9806 Жыл бұрын
And one more : them the silent treatment. 2-3 days at a time.
@GailTscherrig Жыл бұрын
Hi Paula. I just watched a tiny bit of another video by someone else about what they tell about you to their next prey. He told me years ago when I first met him of how his partner and mother of his two children had been caught in bed with his boss and that it hit him like a brick. I actually got up and walked away because he also had his hand on the leg of another girl in the cafe. What a mix up. Mirror time. It was him who slept with his boss! of course. his boss was a she. They just lie and lie.
@roxymovie3938 Жыл бұрын
Yes, unfortunately lying has become their second nature. I am sorry to hear about your story. Take care🙏🕊
@vegancolleen11 ай бұрын
This is brilliant. All spot on! And thanks for the well-needed chuckles Paula! 😅
@NarcCon11 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@55karenina4 ай бұрын
Paula you can’t even imagine,how much you helping us. I had very difficult situation for almost 7 years ,I finally had to call police on him,He was pushing me around,and biting me ,kicking me after I put some boundaries.Eventually he was arrested for 3 counts assault and death treat.He has no contact,restrictions.I wondering what might happen if the ….no contact…restrictions will be lifted if will be.I am actually scared when I think about this. He was preparing himself to discard me,I know now he was telling everyone we know that I am mentally not well,for long time before I say anything to my friend.I had no ideas.In front of friends he even open the car door for me .But when we were alone ,he was very cold,tyrannical,dictatorial,brutal,to name a few.I know for sure he wanted arrest me for abusing him. And of course,his son was with him on board.He was opposed from the beginning,that his father will marry again. I got some information what to do ,and I went to police,after he bruised himself 1 day before his doctor appointment.It was beyond any imagination ,but not his ,he probably really thought,his and his son narcissist also will work.And maybe would,but I was very suspicious,and went to centre for abusive women.I feel much better,compared the time he was at home.The air is lighter.I have my moments,and I am scared. Did you have any situation that the narcissist actually loose his battle? Or the battle is not finished yet?The apartment I am is his also and we still have finance together.I do not know what will happen,I was actually hoping that he will learn something from the all experience,but more I learn from videos like yours,I doubt it.
@NarcCon4 ай бұрын
Battle not finished..get finances sorted and disappear if possible 🌹
@n0426 Жыл бұрын
Is it bad that i have mastered this art from a very young age. it’s my guilty pleasure and i’m not even sorry. 🤭
@allieeverett901711 ай бұрын
I do mild things to annoy the narcs in my life too. It brings me a bit of joy in some terrible situations 🤓🤓🤓
@n042611 ай бұрын
@@allieeverett9017 same. I have discovered a new way of turning them against each other and staying out of the picture and watching the world burn down. :) They want a scapegoat so they won’t have to look into their own stupid existence.
@sarinadekoker3329 ай бұрын
I love your humor 😅Thank you so much for your good work Paula. God bless you. 🙏🙏🙏
@user-nd1pl6yr5f Жыл бұрын
I have a mentally and physically disabled adult son living at home. I'm in the depths of it at the moment a living hell on earth the father of my son is EVIL
@JohnSmith-wo7ns Жыл бұрын
Dont give up, you and your son can be free.
@NarcCon Жыл бұрын
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@truthseeker_phoenix6 ай бұрын
Yes warning ⚠️ as Paula says all of these work very well, but do be careful if you are still living with that person especially if they are bordering psychopath or sociopath. Now you may not know what they are until you do any of these methods that Paula lists. I started getting the info when I was still living with my ex narc and by this time she was devaluing me and giving me massive psychological and emotional abuse and I started applying some of the methods Paula outlined. I started saying no, and being defiant, I started letting her know also that her ideas were not as amazing as she liked to think. And as she would put me down in front of others, I started applying the above tactics in front of others too. I also became totally unresponsive both in physical presence and on my phone with responding to calls and messages. Be careful! My one went full blown crazy. Violent. And then you better beware what evil you’ve lifted the lid on that was reasonably contained before! When I had to leave, she shouted never to contact her again. Every week, on the 7th day without fail each time, she messages me. She can’t get over a ‘hi how are you’. I know that in this case she is so angry with me, but her need of my supply keeps her reaching out. She’s angry with herself that she is contacting me, because anytime I greyrock politely and respond I don’t get another message to follow on. For me I laugh because when I message I know that she then is angry and decides ‘how dare you I’m not going to reply to her’ but a whole week goes by and she caves again.
@user-ys8ir3ko2s Жыл бұрын
Thank you💯👍
@bonnyB123 Жыл бұрын
I love your presentation!
@NarcCon Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@rasivi-baltimore747411 ай бұрын
Wow the word salad..lol..after a period of time of ghosting, I texted her to have closure of the relationship...she texts back this time after months saying "have a good day"..lmao, never answering the question.
@moonglow1158 Жыл бұрын
Lol that word salad right on !!
@atirliag2833Ай бұрын
I unknowingly did a few on that list. ❤
@moonglow1158 Жыл бұрын
I got plenty of things thrown .. at me and my car
@kittydigins49439 ай бұрын
I was made a flying monkey and scapegoat at the same time ugh I finally got away but now my moms done the same thing she always does and targeted my siblings I’m no contact with a lot of my family and never going back ever
@Lena-so2lq10 ай бұрын
He came for the house. He left with nothing, exactly what he brought. He's floundering calling ebery single woman (and man) he knows, to find a place for him. His mother seems to be in a tight spot too since she's been asking another supply to move them in to apartment. With funds from her mothers death!! Her mother just died October, this is whats going on. He's like a Dirty John 2. Its incredibly sick!! The last view words are golden Paula!! Thats what they came for!!
@wendynash258710 ай бұрын
My ex narc liked to sneeze loudly to get everyone's attention. I sneezed even louder. Whoah. Angry.
@anndillard8681 Жыл бұрын
Any kind of criticism ... although they are always critical to you.. They are sooo negative.. whine about everything.. talk down about everyone..
@moonglow1158 Жыл бұрын
Yes it is very difficult my first and last hopefully
@kimberlymasseur1615 Жыл бұрын
Got hovered after two months agreed to see them if they made me breakfast went over ate and left😂! Have not heard back 😂😂😂😂from the 👺 monster!
@mvucinic43011 ай бұрын
Thank you for your podcast, I am still poised, having dreams that we are still couple, help me 🙏
@Imnotyourdoormat Жыл бұрын
Video's by experts that call out and list 10 things that annoy them really annoy them...
@MrNatural7311 ай бұрын
their little vanity is their own poison.😂
@freespirit9806 Жыл бұрын
I got another one. Asked them for a favor.
@NarcCon Жыл бұрын
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@annekerotterdam7499 Жыл бұрын
They will 'forget' it commit sabotage
@chester5194 Жыл бұрын
I watch lots of these channels and there is not a lot about narcissist children. My son is utterly ruining my life with this and turned my whole family against me, coz he nice to them not to me. All done behind closed doors. Sometimes in restaurants with family and covertly makes me uneasy but no one knows. Just feel no one gets this and family blame me as tho bad mother and I am not I can tell you for sure. My dad a narcissist but now dead, so maybe it a genetic thing?
@NarcCon Жыл бұрын
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@annekerotterdam7499 Жыл бұрын
yes
@craigy69111 ай бұрын
I’m ignoring my wife since I moved out and she’s saying to people close to me when I calm down we can be friends haha yeah just destroy our family for your own needs and I’ll be your friend no thanks
@michaeljackson7361 Жыл бұрын
Seems they are always alone
@lindavincent6785 ай бұрын
Believe none of what you hear and half of what you see
@zarrir Жыл бұрын
Funniest Narc Con video
@NarcCon Жыл бұрын
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@erickbenjaminperez3131 Жыл бұрын
Do you do consults...?
@NarcCon Жыл бұрын
Narcscon@gmail.com - enquiries tks
@davidlilly160411 ай бұрын
I was diagnosed with a terminal illness and my wife of 24 years, packed everything we owned, emptied our bank accounts and moved out of state. All while I was in the hospital fighting for my life, I'll be lucky if I get to celebrate another Christmas but this time I'll be alone
@NarcCon11 ай бұрын
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@scarba11 ай бұрын
I hope you can get psychological support from somewhere. Best wishes to you.