10 Ways To Not Get Attached And Over-Invest Too Quickly When You Really Like A Guy

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

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[@thaliakate444]

🥇 When meeting a new man, I continuously repeat to myself, “I don’t even know him. He’s a total stranger. He could be anyone, a liar, thief, murderer or a criminal on the run.” Helps keep my feet on the ground. I also keep a pros and cons list of everything that happens, and everything he says and does. If I notice inconsistency, I try not to jump to conclusions, but definitely take note. 👀

[@girl-gx2ls]

Keeping a pros and cons list has definitely helped me

[@MK-kv6xc]

Yes that last part! Some of the dating advice on the socials can be so toxic to the point it’s beyond being realistic. Assigning inconsistencies to one reason. The not jumping to conclusions helps me mostly, helps me stabilize my emotions so that I’m acting in my right mind lol, and optimizes being in true understanding of what’s going on instead of letting my emotions get the best of me.

[@4d.4c.4b4]

@thaliakate444, will steal your line from now on "I don't even know him". I am guilty of allowing myself to fall quickly when I know he likes me and I like him back 😢 1st date = 4hrs I literally didn't realise how time flew by but then he said he can't give me what he wants to even though he asked me if I wanted to see him again

[@thaliakate444]

@@4d.4c.4b4 me too. Dopamine is a helluva drug. He’s setting you up for the disappointment he knows you’ll experience while also lining himself up for the no strings, no responsibility, obligation and investment-free casual sex he hopes he can still get. 👎🏻 Best to let him use someone else. Next!

[@mhcmhco]

I realized that if you cultivate the belief that there are great men who are available out there, and actually have fun dating, then you don’t have to approach the not-getting-too-attached thing from a fearful or guarded place. You simply know what Good feels like.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I love what you said here, thanks for sharing your insights! 💞

[@tjaspire]

How not to get attached: don't sleep with him.

[@EZDatingCoach]

Very true!

[@lookupyourredemptiondrawsn7285]

Yes!!!

[@tasrajwani]

This is now my favourite video that you and Mike have done together. Great teamwork and such helpful practical advice.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, I’m glad you enjoyed it! ❤️

[@EZDatingCoach]

Thank you🙏🙏💜💜

[@StarrLight964]

This was an incredibly validating and enlightening experience. What a worthy profession.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, I’m happy to hear that! 💗 My latest episode might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/d2fHnHuCosimb68si=9P-5ez1DGWDePMdA

[@reactionphotos]

Great advice! I'm curious of the boundaries list...

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you! 💜

[@Jules-740]

I dont have the problem of attaching fast to guys i date or have dated. With ONE exception in my life. He ended up dumping me from dating eachother. I believe that i truely love this man. I know it sounds crazy that we only dated so little and to have this feeling. Some things happened that he hurt me and the "in love" feelings i had for him are gone. But I still have love for him in the sense of caring about him and missing him tremendously. Im not in love with him though. But i still wish for him to return and be in my life.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here! ❤️ This episode might be helpful for anyone who can relate: kzbin.infovUfa6RMLMFg?si=3tts4NEPQ9V0X8hp

[@deonduncan9865]

Great video , hit the spot perfectly 👏❤

[@EZDatingCoach]

Thank you

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💞

[@lilabostwick1804]

Hey Helena! I absolutely adore your content! Do you have or would it be possible to create an affirmation video on being: warm, open and approachable? I am told that I am intimidating or that I am hard to approach and I wanted to learn how to make myself a little less “scary”.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you so much! ❤️ What do you believe may be intimidating to men, does it have something to do with your career or accomplishments, or something else?

[@cgp1442]

What do you feel about... When getting to really know each other first ( which is mandatory for me to even see if the connection has potential ) is it expecting too much for him to NOT be dating and sleeping with other women ? I feel it's not too much. If a man really wants to get to know me to see if we have potential, then he shouldn't be screwing around elsewhere.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Great question! We talked about that in this podcast episode as it relates to the different types of men out there - you can listen to it on Spotify here: spotify.link/qhfzOQtQ2Cb …or on Apple Podcasts here: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214?i=1000627398255

[@rosamoreno4794]

Man o’ man, just I time. I get gym crushes all the time. It’s so hard!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here! 💞

[@paulinepanarello6912]

This was great! Spot on ❤

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💕

[@maryconnolly3039]

GREAT ADVICE I heard is ☆ When you meet the ONE that gives you BUTTERFLIES ☆ Date two other guys !!! Then you won't mess it up😊

[@lookupyourredemptiondrawsn7285]

I had a piano teacher with your name! Great lady I heard if u have butterflies it could be toxic

[@Adhara740]

Excellent video

[@EZDatingCoach]

Much appreciated 💜💜

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you! I’m glad you enjoyed it. 💕

[@HeartCenteredUniverse1111]

I love this...amazing! 💜

[@EZDatingCoach]

Thanks

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💖

[@HeartCenteredUniverse1111]

@@HelenaHartCoaching Yes I love your channel! 💜

[@melissabarrett3088]

❤❤

[@Jess-wk5jo]

My questions for you over affairs. 1 is it turth that Not every affair involves sex. ARE still affair or do people need sex for affair or cheating to happen ur not. 2 are you really sure it affair without having no no sex 3 What another ways to have affair or cheat on someone without having no sex .x. 4 is it turth that Cheating doesn't always have to involve sex or even talking about sex 5.I have question can i have affair without having no sex