1. Set a simple, meaningful & positive intention (not to control/attached to outcome, no agenda, not result oriented). Focus on me and how do I want to feel positively (not control the person). Be authentic. Not take anything personally. Say only positive, sweet, kind positive things about myself and others. Lean back (not fixing, controlling, coaching the man) 2. Make friends with the unfamiliar & uncomfortable 3. Treat myself to something special, being in feminine energy 4. Make myself totally present. Practice being present before meeting. Really listening. Fully grounded, e.g. cleaning up makeup drawer and be present. Men are very much in the moment. They like if we’re also in the moment. It’s very relaxing for them. Drop down in my body to be in the moment. 5. Instead of want, focus on what can I give and be thankful & grateful.
@skyeseas3 жыл бұрын
eeep, thank you
@irmalair13 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@ishikamehra97093 жыл бұрын
I m greatful to u for these points u mentioned 🙏🏻😊
@rosenblau4 жыл бұрын
I watched this before a call with my ex today. Things have been difficult in the past months, but today was just... wow. He was a different person. Two weeks ago he was avoiding me and didn't know what he wanted. Today I simply showed up, I was present, I didn't talk too much, I focused on receiving and the positive. I put my walls down and embraced the nervousness, that I simply don't have control, but that I'm going to enjoy our time together no matter what. Suddenly he shared with me something very personal about the death of his father. I don't remember when it was the last time he was so open and vulnerable with me. As soon as I dropped my walls, he did the same thing and I could feel it. We had a long talk, we laughed a lot and everything went so easy. He even talked about future plans involving me. At the end he told me that he loves me, something I haven't heard from him for a while. Out of nowhere he even talked about us seeing each other the next day. (Previous month he didn't even have time to text "hi" in 3 weeks) What a huge change! Thank you so much!!
@HelenaHartCoaching4 жыл бұрын
You're welcome, I'm so happy to hear that! Thanks for sharing your experience here, that's exactly how it works!
@sashabelakhov37423 жыл бұрын
Jo
@FM-zg5hz3 жыл бұрын
Update?
@rosenblau3 жыл бұрын
@@FM-zg5hz Thank you for asking. We are back together since April 2020. Everything is amazing. Engaged too. He is investing a lot of time in us, listens and supports me and we have a beautiful connection and so much fun together. I am very very happy. A year and a half ago I would deem this impossible. Because he was distant and breadcrumbing me and he was against marriage. Now he is more excited about the wedding than me and does whatever he can to make me happy. What shifted in me is that I am communicating my boundaries and needs better, I am more vulnerable and I have the power to walk away if boundaries are crossed, knowing that it would be very difficult but I would be ok.
@FM-zg5hz3 жыл бұрын
@@rosenblau How do you communicate your boundaries? And what kind of boundaries do you have? Thank you for sharing.
@yawyawdumaguete41033 жыл бұрын
Intention: to be mutually happy while you’re together
@HelenaHartCoaching3 жыл бұрын
Love it, thanks for sharing! 💞
@denik96145 жыл бұрын
I watch a lot of femininity coaches on youtube but its something about you, Adrienne, i can feel your feminine energy in every video. You really solidified the realness for me! You're great. Being able to feel your energy makes the teachings really stick for me!!! ❤
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
I agree, Adrienne is amazing! 💖
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Helena Hart awh! You’re the best mentor @Helena!
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for those kind words. 🌹 Very sweet of you and I’m honored to be part of your life.
@terrahs28075 жыл бұрын
I agree! I love Adrienne and aim to model how I behave with how she just is!
@AdrienneEverheart4 жыл бұрын
@@terrahs2807 Very kind of you! You got this uniquely you
@HeyMaryMitchell4 жыл бұрын
I love this!! I was practicing getting into my feminine energy during a walk at the park a few days ago and a man came up to me and said how good I smelled! It felt so good to be noticed. I love it!
@HelenaHartCoaching4 жыл бұрын
Awesome Mary, thanks so much for sharing your experience here! 💖
@stephaniebrooks70055 жыл бұрын
Yesssssss.....I am not going to run from who I am anymore! Adrienne says things that speak to my soul!!! I could not agree more. When I am out in the world just doing me.... men naturally respond well. They become more attentive "southern" gentlemen. Such as...holding doors open, allowing me to check out before them, etc. You 2 girls have made it possible for me to stop apologizing for who I am!!!! Huge for me!!! I am 3 years divorced after 16 years of conformity to a wonderful man who didnt love himself. I remember a day about 5 years ago when I realized that my ex-husband would never love me better than "this"....because "this" was as much as he loved himself. I still miss him. But, what do you do when someone refuses to find healing. Well...my beautiful sisters...I abandoned the fear of being alone in the struggle. I am out here changing my life!!! Thank you!! Many, many, blessings for you both!!!
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
I’m so happy to hear this was helpful for you Stephanie, thanks for sharing your experience here! ❤️
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Awh it sounds like you’re having a good time. I’m so happy to be part of your life. I know you’ll find happiness with a loving & available partner soon.
@liabw055 жыл бұрын
You are inspirational! Best of luck to you 💜
@delightfullife94895 жыл бұрын
Since practicing fem energy amazing things have happened! A man in the grocery line in front of me purchased the bouquet of flowers I was buying for my dinner table! THIS WORKS
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
Awesome, I'm so happy to hear this has been working for you! Thanks for sharing your experience here.
@tamibryceland14753 жыл бұрын
This happened to me too and I was in scrubs! The man behind me bought my wine,flowers and paper plates! Lol
@SF-pm1ov5 жыл бұрын
‘Focusing on what I’m grateful for versus what I want’ 💗
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
Yes!!
@DiaN-do3jm5 жыл бұрын
my intention is to loosen myself up so that i am able to receive and enjoy all the moments of interaction that we have during the time together.
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
Love it, Diane! 💖
@Sweetbunnibabi3 жыл бұрын
My intention is I am loving awareness and I will not take anything personally!
@HelenaHartCoaching3 жыл бұрын
Love it, thanks for sharing! 💖
@yolamdakelly50695 жыл бұрын
You're telling the truth about don't be negative and don't take it personal, just enjoy each other
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
Yes!!
@anjijack53925 жыл бұрын
Something I like to do before I see my darling for a date, is spend the day / afternoon maybe getting a pedicure, relaxing in a bubble bath. I like to take my time doing my hair, and makeup. Lighting candles, listening to soothing music. Anything that helps me tap into my full feminine energy. It works every time I'm wanting to create an enjoyable time with my sweetie. We've been together for over a year, so something must be working. ;-)
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
Love it Anji, thanks for sharing your experience here! 💖
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Omg sounds so feminine and relaxing.
@kimgordon36954 жыл бұрын
Getting Present 🌐 #ThankYou Helena
@kimgordon36954 жыл бұрын
#gratitude #appreciation #Focus
@kimgordon36954 жыл бұрын
#TheWorldIsHard #StaySoft #Trust
@petawilliams80994 жыл бұрын
Good manners in a man is a such a turn on
@HelenaHartCoaching4 жыл бұрын
I agree! 💞
@hotmessmomtv41174 жыл бұрын
Yes! They say confidence is the sexiest thing a woman can wear 💯 You ladies are great- Adrienne, you're gorgeous in the most authentic yet classy way, I love your vibe! ❤️❤️
@HelenaHartCoaching4 жыл бұрын
Yes, absolutely! 💖
@zabeth111734 жыл бұрын
I have been binge watching your videos all day. And on the way home from the bus stop I kept getting all kinds of looks from men and women. Someone stopped me and said..you are pretty. #Vibing at a higher frequency
@HelenaHartCoaching4 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy to hear that, thanks for sharing! Keep me posted on how things continue to go for you.
@kateskitlat4 жыл бұрын
I have been binge watching her stuff now too
@prasannadatta91715 жыл бұрын
I have ALWAYS felt that when I set Experience as the intention rather than the Goal, it always feels soooooo juicy and fulfilling....😍😘
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing Prasanna, I’ve experienced that as well. 💗
@victoriabuchanan60183 жыл бұрын
This sounds really great but if I'm trying to remember all this I won't hear a word he says. It's all just a mess and I've give up on caring for men and don't want girlfriend . We try to do all this to please and be such a prize to a man and always worrying what they think. Why are we always trying to win the prize it seems. It really bothers me really bad.
@BrendaBrewer5 жыл бұрын
That's my intention...last night my date took me all over downtown NYC! Lounges, speakeasies, restaurants it was crazy FUN. I KNOW he is not for me after I woke up this morning (intuition) and I let him down easy. And, he is not even mad and he hopes I change my mind :)
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Brenda Brewer oh no! He sounds like a good guy to just date. Good to hear from you. Been a while. ❤️❤️ You can email me sometime to catch up.
@handyandy-handyman14545 жыл бұрын
why don't you think he was right for you? always date with a sense of purpose.
@BrendaBrewer5 жыл бұрын
@@handyandy-handyman1454 He kept talking about his ex after I told him I felt uncomfortable with that topic and I came to the date to have fun and get to know each other...he drank too much and got kinda sloppy (and admitted that first thing the next morning in a text to me). I am very clear the kind of connection I am looking to co-create with a man and it will not include lack of self-restraint on any level.
@handyandy-handyman14545 жыл бұрын
@@BrendaBrewer - excellent! Either his split is too fresh or he is an idiot or both. Women have a 6th sense about these things so always go with your gut. People are people so we all have moments but you have to figure we should be on our best behavior on a date - if we are not, what truly lies beneath the surface could be downright scary. The date was really all about him and not about you or about a potential "us." Dating with a sense of purpose - however you define that is key - it could be for fun, it could be for partnership, it could be for marriage. None of us get any extra "time" and time is truly our currency if you think it through. It has been the same for me.
@lotusdevine78065 жыл бұрын
I want to know his smell. His wit, ambitions, what makes him happy or sad. What he wants in a woman, If he is happy with himself. What are his expectations for he and I. What attracted him to me. These are questions I would like to know, not necessarily the 1st date.
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Lotus Devine you’re right. It takes time to mature and unfold. Thank you for mentioning that. Very poetic.
@prasannadatta91715 жыл бұрын
Experience receiving his energy, leaning back, feeling sensations in my body...
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
Love it, Prasanna! 💖
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Good work! 🥰
@anthonyrobinson74794 жыл бұрын
R⁵6 i X
@AmyElizabethBehnke4 жыл бұрын
My intentions are to be grateful in every circumstance😇❤👍
@HelenaHartCoaching4 жыл бұрын
Love it Amy, thanks for sharing! 💖
@HelenaHartCoaching4 жыл бұрын
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@handyandy-handyman14545 жыл бұрын
Great stuff - energy is everything as is definiteness of purpose. negative energy attracts negative energy - positive attracts positive.
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
Thank you, I agree!
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Oh such a good reminder. ❤️🌹
@mahaalotaibi83524 жыл бұрын
Take a bubble bath, be kind and gentle to yourself. Say I love you and we going to have fun today and enjoy this romamtic date.. Enjoy the moment the romance and be happy. His smell his looks his touch, etc candles and soft music take your time to be pretty because you will feel pretty too. Smell good always. Be soft.
@HelenaHartCoaching4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing, Maha! 💖
@trezgregory30324 жыл бұрын
I’m preparing to just LET IT SHINE!! My light that is!! No more hiding behind insecurities or things I WANT him to do or be!!! DONE. JUST SHINING!!! 😬😬😬😍
@HelenaHartCoaching4 жыл бұрын
I'm happy to hear that!
@valfle5 жыл бұрын
I took so much out of this video. There are moments when I get impatient with my partner because I have this vision of where I would like us to be or to get. So I am often comparing his actions with it. And even if I am not verbalising it, he definitly notices the mindset of lacking. I never understood why he thinks that what he does is never enough (because I am not nagging or complaining). But he is sensitive and sensitive to criticism and I just realised that he must have noticed this mindset I seem to have. So of course he can't trust me when I tell him that I am grateful because there is this conflict of being grateful for some specific thing or behavior, but the action itself is just a small element of this big list he needs to tick inside my head. No wonder it diminishes his motivation. I realised it through this video. Thank you so much I think I can really implement your tipps and improve my relationship!
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
You're welcome, thanks for sharing your experience here! We'd love to hear how this goes for you.
@evolvinglight5 жыл бұрын
Loved this ! Getting ready for a date now 💕💕 my intention is to have fun and just feel good! I really resonated with when Adrienne discussed how our grandparents make us feel like the only person in the room, such a great analogy for me xxx
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
Awesome Michelle, we’d love to hear how this goes for you! 💖
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Hugs to you! We get ya! Have fun on your date 😉
@evolvinglight5 жыл бұрын
Helena Hart went well! Really understanding what it means to receive and also receiving arrows ! Xx
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
I’m so happy to hear that!! 💞
@angelap63012 жыл бұрын
I tried that opening the womanly area and being receptive while speaking with my man on the phone and he was talking and forgot his ex wife’s name for a moment, and they where together for 14 years and still see each other daily as they share kids. I giggled about that.
@HelenaHartCoaching2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your experience here, Angela! 💞
@your_fav_aesthetician5 жыл бұрын
You two are amazing. I really felt the beautiful positive careing energy you where both giving out. Very relaxing. Looking forward to more of them. 💜
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@annaynely5 жыл бұрын
We´re a bit confused in this day and age, men that I encounter tell me they want and need to get more in touch with their feminine side.... maybe it´s an excuse or something to say, but I don´t like this. I want a masculine man for myself, a friend a lover someone I can trust with my dreams, with projects that come to my mind and for some reason for the moment I´m meeting scatter brains, hopefully after the crazy summer I´ll meet a man with substance with whom I can form a partnership and a beautiful life, it goes by so fast.
@anamikakhan5935 жыл бұрын
This is one of the best videos you two have done by now. So helpful. This is exactly all i needed to hear. Thank you Helena and Adrienne 🙆🏻♀️🙏🏼❤️
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome Anamika, I’m glad this was helpful! 💕
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Yay! We are so happy to help! ❤️❤️
@heathershupe61365 жыл бұрын
A good intention for me would be let go of outcomes enjoy myself and follow my bliss
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
Love it, Heather!
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Preach it! The unfolding is the magnificent magical fun part🥰
@irishredheadgal5 жыл бұрын
I’m seeing my romantic interest this evening after 6 weeks apart and this video is exactly what I needed! Thank you!!
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
You're welcome Amy, we'd love to hear how it goes for you!
@irishredheadgal5 жыл бұрын
Hi Helena! I tell you, this information on feminine energy has completely turned the way I approach things around! My interactions with men especially! I practice on all the men in my life and I have seen a very interesting response! It seems like more and more of them are craving my company. Regarding my love interest, he is an incredibly tough cookie to crack! But with your teachings, I have been able to get very very close to him. He lets me exercise affection, he talks candidly to me, and he lets me express how I feel about him. This is huge! He usually has a giant wall up but I am finding that the wall comes down easier and easier each time we see one another. I always thought that you couldn’t allow yourself to be vulnerable to a man because it would make him think that you were weak. I also thought that if I told him man that I loved him before I thought we were “there“ that I would scare him away. The opposite has been true so far with this man. So again, thank you for validating the fact that women have strong emotions and feelings and should be able to express them because that’s what makes a man fall for her. Her vulnerability, her easy nature and her willingness to receive rather than to control the situation. Thank you for everything that you do! I will continue to watch your videos and always learn more!
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
You're welcome, I'm happy to hear that! Thanks so much for sharing your experience here.
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
How did it go?! Excited to know.
@irishredheadgal5 жыл бұрын
Adrienne Everheart's Love Academy hi Adrienne! Thank you for asking. The “tough cookie “ I mentioned is looking like he’s not coming my way, no matter what I do. Thank goodness for you and others like you that I may have firm ground to stand on like never before. You said s quality woman knows when it’s time to leave a man. Now I do. I love what you all do and I watch everyday. Telling my girlfriends about you as well. Thanks again, much love to you! ♥️
@unamass755 жыл бұрын
The last bit was on point! I’ve just manifested a soulmate💗
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
I’m so happy to hear that! 💞
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Way to go! Happiness is yours! 🥰
@ryrose34315 жыл бұрын
Love this! You two are feminine gems 💎
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Mazzy! 💝
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
We are happy to be here for you! 🌹❤️
@QueenofCupsTattoo3 жыл бұрын
You ladies give excellent talks. Thank you for putting these out for everyone. It means a lot to me and I appreciate you both tremendously. 🙏🏼💚
@HelenaHartCoaching3 жыл бұрын
You’re very welcome! ❤️ This livestream I did with Adrienne should also be helpful if you haven’t seen it yet: kzbin.info/www/bejne/e2mkhp-Fmcmearc
@heatherp78365 жыл бұрын
Helena HART, Adrienne EverHEART. 2 ❤'s to help us find 1 😊❤❤❤
@tianiemitchell56924 жыл бұрын
That's what we call connecting being fully present in the moment focusing on what you're doing it's what men do when they've got a job to do their very focused in the moment so when you're with him and you need to do that not think about tomorrow cuz tomorrow hasn't come don't think about things that happened yesterday cuz they're past unless the topic comes up where it's necessary but when you're dating someone who doesn't know about your present dreams or your past don't go there focus on the Here and Now that's the only thing important
@HelenaHartCoaching4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing, Tianie! 💜
@ursulamonterroso27095 жыл бұрын
I started watching your videos ( about a wk ago) and I feel like all of a sudden men can’t stop STARING!!!!!!!! Thank you for sharing and encourage us to feel, something that for so long it was looked as a weakness and was somewhat associated with shame. Great job ladies ❤️
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
You're welcome, Ursula! Thanks for sharing your experience here, I'm so happy to hear that!
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Hee hee!!! So happy for you. Get ready for more wonderful surprises now that you’ve aligned with your inner FEMM!
@simi61525 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your words of wisdom ! I want to be happy and I won't let anyone rob me of my joy!
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
You're welcome, Simi!
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
You are surrounded by love and attract high quality men your way. 🥰
@luulips3 жыл бұрын
Even both of you ladies energy is warm and inviting. Awesome to project to bring a man closer. Great video!
@HelenaHartCoaching3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Here’s our latest livestream if you want to check it out: kzbin.info/www/bejne/e2mkhp-Fmcmearc
@stephaniejo60054 жыл бұрын
What I am going to do for me is to listen to more of these videos....that will help me focus on myself. With doing this, it will get me back to my feminine energy. Work on learning how to stay focused on the present moment, listening, relaxing, enjoying life. Be in the moment! Thank you so much.
@HelenaHartCoaching4 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome, Stephanie! These videos would be a good place to start (I’d love to hear how this goes for you!): kzbin.info/www/bejne/f2SaZ2V7oaeGb68 and kzbin.info/www/bejne/e2mkhp-Fmcmearc.
@nicolehowse12215 жыл бұрын
2 fabulous ladies!! Love all your videos! This was some very great advice that we can all learn from! Thank you both! I try my best every single day, to always come from a place of gratitude and positivity, and it has made a difference in my life! 💕
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
You're welcome Nicole, I'm so glad you enjoyed this!
@kritikagambhir43255 жыл бұрын
During the first date with a guy, they are usually so warm and receptive to my feminine energy but things never move forward, why?
@angelsattachedtoangst75765 жыл бұрын
I love this! So nice to hear these positive natural things. I can do this! I’m an optimist and I like to stay in the headspace you both are describing ❤️
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
Awesome, so glad you enjoyed this!
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Love you energy and love you too! 🥰
@Diabeteslovewithdee4 жыл бұрын
Helena, Adrienne This is the best video about Feminine energy! You both are amazing. Thank You!!
@HelenaHartCoaching4 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome! Here’s the livestream we did together last week on feminine softness if you haven’t seen it yet: kzbin.info/www/bejne/e2mkhp-Fmcmearc
@katharazz51635 жыл бұрын
So timely as me and my divine masculine are finally dating! I have learn so much from you beautiful women!
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
I’m so happy to hear that, Katherine! 💞
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Dating is an excellent way to learn more about yourself. 🥰❤️
@gerberdaisy23885 жыл бұрын
LOL, when my thoughts race it's like an 18-wheeler picking up speed on a down-grade!
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
So many of us can relate to that!
@angelfriend52115 жыл бұрын
You give such wonderful, practical tips, Adrienne and Helena. Thanks so much.
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
You're welcome, Vera!
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Thank you and please keep in touch.
@therogos885 жыл бұрын
Also I’d love more info on the hip widening exercise and other body centered techniques for increasing feminine empowerment 💜🌸
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
I answered that in some of the other comments! Please check 😉
@maggieeitan73675 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️ Luvvvvvvvv u guys! Everything is working out for me! I am trusting the Universe & your videos are keeping my energy in alignment 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻☀️☀️☀️👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
I’m so happy to hear that, Maggie! 💖
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Ohhh I can feel your amazing high flying vibe! Keep riding that wave 🌊 ❤️
@TheBowlden4 жыл бұрын
You mean you're trusting in God the creator of the universe.
@heathermclean-smith58934 жыл бұрын
Wow! Such a great video, Helena and Adrienne! My response to your video may sound simplistic, but you both make me feel very happy and relaxed! Thank you! I know everything will work out great for me!
@HelenaHartCoaching4 жыл бұрын
You're welcome Heather, I'm so happy to hear that!
@carlafast63585 жыл бұрын
I met a guy on a dating site and he lives hour and 20 minutes from me. We've had 2 dates. He texts 2 or 3 times a day. He's told me if he didn't like me or want to see me he wouldn't drive hour to see me and he said he wasn't going any where.
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Carla Kay Fast that sounds promising! 🥰 Go for the 3 month mark where he is still pursuing you! ❤️❤️
@katinbloom35205 жыл бұрын
Any videos on men who are feminine energy and how to deal with this?
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
K L great idea! What you want to do is go total girl and into feminine energy. The more consistent you are with not doing or making things happen this gives the man opportunity to step up.
@Carvegirl5 жыл бұрын
Oh my, this came in a perfect timing!! Thank you. I'm all ears 💕🤗
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Aryan Warrior love it when that happens! 🥰
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
You're welcome!
@raquelt53425 жыл бұрын
I loved the point you made about practicing one thing Helena, I’m def going to try this thanks so much for saying that!
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
You're welcome, I'd love to hear how this goes for you!
@MrsMamaBear275 жыл бұрын
I'm really working on being present. I'm a big planner so I tend to live in the future mostly.
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
We’d love to hear how this goes for you! 💕
@zoyarennka94244 жыл бұрын
Being present, good point. Very important in every day life.
@HelenaHartCoaching4 жыл бұрын
Yes, absolutely!
@luzchapa69994 жыл бұрын
That was fabulous! I am so into just bettering myself in every way and learning to be present and open that it has reminded me of what I’ve kind of fallen off from and that is feeling grateful for everything that I do have and to give back to the people that do you love me or just to anyone to treat them with that grace!❤️❤️❤️
@HelenaHartCoaching4 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad you enjoyed this! I love what you said here too, thanks for sharing! 💖
@raquelt53424 жыл бұрын
This was such good info and examples 😫👏👏👏👌👌💘💘💘 thank you so much Helena! You and Adrienne make my days when I listen to you ladies! 💘
@HelenaHartCoaching4 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome Raquel, I’m glad you enjoyed this! 💝
@tialynn1111 Жыл бұрын
This is golden!🎉 Helena do you have any dating scenarios. What to do if the guy is talking so much about himself etc? Also can you go into detail about how to be vulnerable with the guy. Thanks
@HelenaHartCoaching Жыл бұрын
Thank you! Yes, I’d recommend checking out my podcast episodes with Rori Raye - we’ve discussed both of those topics pretty in-depth. 💞
@tialynn1111 Жыл бұрын
@@HelenaHartCoaching ok I will thank you
@HelenaHartCoaching Жыл бұрын
You’re welcome! ❤️
@lakeeshaburns47945 жыл бұрын
Can you make a video on the tools you can practice to have feminine magnetism?
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the great suggestion, Lakeesha! We can definitely do more videos on this. 💜
@lakeeshaburns47945 жыл бұрын
@@HelenaHartCoaching your welcome 💜
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Helena has a program on that topic too.
@lakeeshaburns47945 жыл бұрын
Thank you💜 that's good, could you send it to me so I can watch it?
@lekharathod42564 жыл бұрын
Hey Helena listening to you makes me very comfortable to stay in myself. I really love your content , can I get to know more about long distance relationship.
@HelenaHartCoaching4 жыл бұрын
I’m happy to hear that! These videos should be helpful if you’re in a long distance relationship: kzbin.info/www/bejne/lYPQZJWfZqmBipo and kzbin.info/www/bejne/hmG2oqKcl955gZo.
@nailslovr93783 жыл бұрын
I need to come back and take notes. Great video!
@HelenaHartCoaching3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💕
@klaudialacayo23335 жыл бұрын
I'm so lucky to bump into you both and your videos💕💕💕
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
I'm glad they've been helpful for you, Klaudia!
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Happy to have you with us🥰
@basketballfan57635 жыл бұрын
I never even thought of a nice cheap little even bikini would get me in the mood! It's been a long time since an actual planned date minus the creeps that surprise u hit on u that i couldn't prepare 4!!! I get frightened as well as excited!! Thank u girls!!!
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
You're welcome!
@playingwithkittycat83614 жыл бұрын
I have found women who are competitive and catty against one another. How do we cooperate, respect and help one another as we focus on our womanliness, on our feminine energy?
@HelenaHartCoaching4 жыл бұрын
This is a great question. I'd say that the more you focus on yourself and who YOU want to be, the right people who are on your same wavelength will come into your experience, and people who aren't on the same page tend to fade away. I'll keep this in mind for future video topics!
@playingwithkittycat83614 жыл бұрын
Thank you ☺️
@HelenaHartCoaching4 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome! 💞
@1LaOriental3 жыл бұрын
Playing with Kitty Cat There are a number of emerging sacred feminine support groups happening everywhere. One such group is called Woman Within. Good luck!!
@regankirchner75754 жыл бұрын
Thanks for all you do!! I appreciate your advice and am using daily in every interaction with both sexes. My relationships in general have improved. I am better with myself, so it draws them in!! Loving, loving myself!! Best love I’ve ever found!❤️❤️❤️
@HelenaHartCoaching4 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome, Regan! I’m so happy to hear that, thanks for sharing your experience here! ❤️
@regankirchner75754 жыл бұрын
@@HelenaHartCoaching I am working on the beginnings of a movement to fix families one soul at a time. Im starting with a thrift store eventually having sanctuary living for abused people or recovering addicts. real therapy not drugs. dealing with the soul!! I lost my daughter and husband this summer and have been inspired by somany to help me see the true value of myself!! teaching people to fix and love themselves seems so simple....NO!!! Stubborn ones they are!!! Not giving up on life I am running with this opportunity!! Love and Light
@HelenaHartCoaching4 жыл бұрын
@@regankirchner7575 That sounds amazing, I’d love to hear how everything goes! Much love to you. 💗
@patriciamukami20483 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with this conversation...it makes me relate with why prostitutes win men very fast..it is because their circumstances relate with all these skills/techniques like leaning back and allowing the masculine to take position as they seriously give attention to their feminine energy all what is mentioned here prostitutes are good at it they are not obsessed to a man because they are busy for next targets ...all in all I love the topic..I have realized alot that will make me a better person
@HelenaHartCoaching3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your insights here, Patricia!
@beautifulrose22594 жыл бұрын
Extremely amazing, wonderful and enlightening video ladies!
@HelenaHartCoaching4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💖
@KatDancingnStretching5 жыл бұрын
Just a question, can you do split screen? That's the nicest way to view 2 people at the same time, it's great to see both people the whole video instead of the switching back and forth. I wish I knew how to do it!
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
LOVE Living Peach we can do that sometime for sure. Honestly we don’t do often because we need a sip of water or need to fix our awesome hair off screen. 🤣
@juliauren13385 жыл бұрын
Gratitude definitely the way forward thank you for reminding me
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
You're welcome, I agree!
@Singinbluebird5 жыл бұрын
Hi ladies, I love you both so much 😭😭❤❤ but after watching literally all videos I lost guy Im dating to a woman who pursued him back. I continuously leaned back and even pushed him away due insecurities. Anyways now I'm single and have been dating for many years, and I am so picky. I am not attacted to 90% of the men I meet but I always have fun and am sweet. Most of these men dissapear and I am fine with it but I wonder if I should quit dating and focus on other desires such as acquiring more money and financial security ? I know Adrienne says we should always be dating but my feelings are exhausted and I no longer have energy to give lol. Maybe I've been doing it all wrong but dating after many years has exhausted me ! Do I continue or stop for a while ? The security I seek in man is prob something I need give myself first. I also notice men also want to be chosen and so they date women who pursue them back or the women who showcase (invites) them everywhere ....and I do not do that. Thank you!
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Bee V you can always take time off BUT why not work on facing these triggers with the men in front of you? That’s why they are here. 1. The game has changed now, understand that. The days of instantly being attracted and drawn to someone, especially after heartbreak changed how ‘attraction’ happens in your body. Now it’s about establishing connection and building upon that. 2. you need more than videos. You need classes and trainings and some of the programs that myself or Helena offer. I would recommend you look into ‘new man manifesto’ on my website. And be sure to watch this video below as well. Your mindset going into dating is everything. In a perfect world you would get new man manifesto and femm tools for dating. (On my website.) Those will get you mentally where you need to be so that when these triggers, like insecurity come along, which all of us have, you’ll know how to handle it in a way that moves you up the tiers instead of frustrating you. kzbin.info/www/bejne/g2GbZqWZZrdnbbs. Much love and chin up! 💕 thank you for watching and sending you loads of love.
@loriroth7455 жыл бұрын
Love you Helena and Adrienne. I think also there has to be a physical attraction to begin with., but I took alot from this video. thanks!!
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome, Lori! ❤️
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Totally!!
@esesmu42635 жыл бұрын
Thank you, lovely girls!!! Always enjoy watching your videos! Great information! ✨💎🍓🍬🌈💖✨
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome, thanks for watching! 💜
@lorrainecouture26844 жыл бұрын
Oh! Thanks so much! I so needed to hear this!! Love you both! ❤
@HelenaHartCoaching4 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome, Lorraine! ❤️
@bobolambandfam3 жыл бұрын
OK I love all these but I just want to clarify at least in my opinion- #5 does not mean profusely verbally thanking him or others. Showing or expressing gratitude and pleasure can be done in so many other ways. Profuse thanking can come off as anxious and unworthy
@HelenaHartCoaching3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your insights here, Mary Anne! Yes, profusely thanking someone verbally is obviously not attractive. 💛
@DAYDREAMMER5 жыл бұрын
This is such wonderful content! Thank you: )
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💝
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Thank you! ❤️❤️
@sandradaeschler66205 жыл бұрын
Wonderful video of expectation with our feminine energy!! I've done that and its attractive to my love interest
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Sandra! I'm happy to hear that.
@sandradaeschler66205 жыл бұрын
@@HelenaHartCoaching You are so on cue with the masculine mind Helena Lol..I literally like I told you in the past had shown him how much I liked him alot not with words but in so many ways ( hes my neighbor..remember?) Use to make him food dishes occasionally because he works hard at his job and bought him gifts at Christmas he did the same but I really went overboard! Then starting to watch your videos where I listened to you started to lay "way back" Lol..and now he is starting to come back again Lol..he brought me dinner last Friday a take out" barbecue" ! Just wondering when he will finally ASK ME OUT!! He is highly attracted to me again I can see it!! Your a peach Helena and a wonderful lady!! 😉😊
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
Awesome Sandra, I’m so glad this is working for you! 💕
@sandradaeschler66205 жыл бұрын
@@HelenaHartCoaching I've know him for almost five years now Helena! He has never asked me out on a date! Wondering if because I'm in my early 70s and he is in his early 60s and hes hispanic! We both are divorced for almost the same number of years ( 10) a wonderful responsible man, we are both attractive people but wonder if he will ever ask me out on a date? Also we have not slept together yet..a true gentlemen! Any hope for a date at least you think? Lol
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
This video might give you some helpful tips for your situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jamqpI2Eiah5l6M
@jovitalopez92232 жыл бұрын
Thank you for these and I am learning a lot. I just wished I knew all of these before too but helping me now going forward. When is the best time to articulate like about what you are looking for? Thanks Helena
@HelenaHartCoaching2 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome, Jovita! 💗 This video should be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/pJ23fXWwpqySisk
@DiaN-do3jm5 жыл бұрын
very insightful and reflective and timely. i have another date in a day ish and this will be great application
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
Thanks Diane, we’d love to hear how it goes! 💗
@alicearminahaik5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. I need it in the right time.
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
You're welcome, Alice!
@monicaLynn73 жыл бұрын
I LOVE this video!!!!! Perfect timing!!! Thank you!!!!
@HelenaHartCoaching3 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome, Monica! 💖
@2008LadyLaura5 жыл бұрын
Heleana, You look so comfortable, and your make up looks great!!! I have trouble being comfortable with myself and being in the present. Maybe I just need to get out of my head n just breathe 🙇💆 Would you suggest positive affirmations?
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
Thanks Laura! I personally don't think affirmations work unless you truly BELIEVE what you're saying. I would try the exercise I shared in this video (I'd love to hear how it goes for you!): kzbin.info/www/bejne/mZelqIuDqcaka8U
@2008LadyLaura5 жыл бұрын
Thank you, I will check it out🤗
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome! 💕
@kristinleigh22745 жыл бұрын
yes, thank you! Be in the moment and stay in the moment. keeping it light heart hearted. Great advice.
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome, Kristin! 💕
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
It’s so easy this way! 🥰❤️Open the window of your heart.
@meronabraham6635 жыл бұрын
Wow, this is great, Ladies! Thank you!!
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome! 💝
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
So happy to help you.
@a.h.26675 жыл бұрын
Another great video. You ladies are phenomenal.
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
Thank you! 💝
@viktoriastockmal84055 жыл бұрын
Another wonderful video. Thank you so much.
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome, Viktoria! 💜
@petawilliams80994 жыл бұрын
Drop expectations
@HelenaHartCoaching4 жыл бұрын
Yes, absolutely! 💕
@keitikeit4553 жыл бұрын
Your help is invaluable! 🙏🏼 Generally do you think that if a girl wasn’t perfect at these points, the affair with the guy has necessarily been ruined? Or is it possible to reverse the situation?
@HelenaHartCoaching3 жыл бұрын
You definitely don’t have to be perfect with this 100% of the time when you’re with the right person, in my opinion and experience. It’s possible to reverse the dynamic too, depending on the situation. 💞
@passionawexplore76523 жыл бұрын
I am not sure taking a guy who didn't want me back in the first place. I want a relationship to be special . I want him to feel special about me in the first place not as an option
@HelenaHartCoaching3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely, we’d never recommend taking a guy back who didn’t want you in the first place (or who treats you like an option). 💜
@therogos885 жыл бұрын
💞Thank you most skilled beauties 💞
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
TheRogos awh such a compliment. 🥰
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
You’re very welcome! 💗
@tianiemitchell56924 жыл бұрын
You're alluding acceptance
@tianiemitchell56924 жыл бұрын
Just to go with an open mind and open heart and have fun and try to learn something new Maybe
@HelenaHartCoaching4 жыл бұрын
Love it, thanks for sharing! 💖
5 жыл бұрын
Yay! Thanks for the video. Such great tips
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💕
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome. 🥰
@stephaniebrooks70055 жыл бұрын
Love, love, love Adrienne Everheart!!!!!
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
She is amazing, one of the smartest and most caring people I know! 💕
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Awh you are so sweet. I love you too!🌹🥰
@awoman62045 жыл бұрын
Amazing tips!!! Thank you ladies! 💛
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
You're welcome!
@vhayashi73694 жыл бұрын
Adrienne, oh my goodness! What exactly can he sense because the first time we went out a couple weeks ago I was VERY attracted and felt very strong intimate feelings, but I didn't act like it or show it, I didn't touch him or hug him because I haven't known him long and want him to be the guy and take the lead... Knowing they can sense our energy is scary! Lol... I wanted to jump him in the car! 😂 Do you think he could sense that??? 😬😳🤯 We were just sitting in his truck watching funny videos on my phone ( he asked me to show him) and just chill and relaxed and both of us laughing and had a nice time!
@HelenaHartCoaching4 жыл бұрын
It sounds like things went really well! I would just lean back and see what he does from here. Keep us posted!
@kimgordon36954 жыл бұрын
Sensed Energy 101 #INTENTION
@HelenaHartCoaching4 жыл бұрын
Yes!! Thanks for watching, Kim!
@thisispi14915 жыл бұрын
How to do the hip thing?
@savannahjohnson56155 жыл бұрын
How do you get HIM off the past? He can't let go of some things my ex said to him before he and I ever started dating. He brings it up every time we have an argument.
@HelenaHartCoaching5 жыл бұрын
Hi Savannah, have you shared with him how this makes you feel?