11 Signs Your Husband Doesn't Value You || Dr. Apj Abdul Kalam Quotes || Quotes For Survival

[@Catchadream2113]

I see a lot of ladies going through this torture with their husbands who are just husbands by marriage and not by nature, care or affection. Have gone through this in the past but once I understood I deserved better and started to stand up for myself and let go of the need for love and validation from him I could get out of that hell. I am a much happier person today because of 100% self love, self care and gratitude for life in general. Ladies, please value yourself and be courageous to stand up for yourselves when needed and continue to have a positive outlook on life. The men will understand that life doesn’t revolve only around them and their needs eventually.

[@victoriadias5507]

Yes...my husband fight trying to kill me...hit me..... dominating me....dont go wrk....dont go out....dont eat dis n dat.....im mother of 2kids....I just keep quiet bcoz of my kids.....I filed a complaint in police....

[@bharanikarthick244]

Confidence is main. We should not think about partner. If they are not showing care. Just forget it. U start Your life.

[@JyothiMothe-tw2os]

Then wat about kids?

[@kanwalkatarka1122]

Hmmm😢

[@KhushiKumari-qr7kd]

The most important point....when he can't stand for you whether it is public or family, definitely that time he doesn't deserve you.

[@mbambualice3201]

Thats my husband 😢

[@fehmidakabir9689]

Very true

[@fehmidakabir9689]

But there was no 11 th point??

[@Apar-1-2]

Enjoy yourself and learn banking and investment.Don't bother about other's validation.You should raise yourself to validate others

[@divyaprasanth5192]

He does all this to me.. But outsiders he is helpful kind and compassion person.. People don't belive if I tell them he doesn't value me 😢😢😢

[@swathipalavalasa1724]

Same with my husband also dear.. Don't worry.. V should b strong❤

[@sutapanath634]

This happens with me as well..This kind of people are dangerous..they have 2 faces.my husband is also same

[@nailariaz9689]

My husband do the same things with me he first did not allow me to continue my job now he demands me stop using mbl phone sale it if you do not do this do not expect anything from me also says if you go to anywhere even though wedding events wear burkha

[@Samdine2011]

Leave him live your life in same house you think you married to one dog don't consider has human love yourself too much take care of yourself and your health don't bother your husband think in mind he is servant and money gathering machine you came to seek love it is not given means its not your fault use himh as money machine

[@tensangbhutia5158]

Same with me

[@albatrosses701]

Add one more - never accept his fault or rude behaviour

[@menaga9085]

yes . They blame others, never accept their mistakes. They play victim.

[@gurvinderkourbali7247]

Yes

[@aah6848]

Yes that's true my husband also does the same

[@sowjanyagurrala342]

True

[@TelikhazirMohd]

Right 😢

[@deepikamohan2388]

All the points relates to my life... I thought Im the only one who is facing this mental torture but i see so many like me... 😢

[@pangapavithra-ti1tz]

Me also

[@user-zk2nz7fb6o]

Better you ignore him Physicaly mentally spiritual prepare yourself be strong.......busy yourself...

[@paominlalkipgenpaominlalki9560]

Me too

[@sruthyts2765]

Me too😢

[@preetigupta9519]

I too face same prblm every day

[@cswathi8328]

1.he does not listen you 2.he let's himself go 3.he does not seek your advice 4.he stops making small talk 5.he takes more than he gives 6.he does not appreciate you 7.he does not compromise 8.he fight with you 9.he is unreliable 10.he demeans you

[@YkSvxtlanaa]

Thank you

[@sharidasheik1080]

My dear beautiful hurt souls your happiness is within you love yourself and shine each day you dont need anyone to put a value on you you are strong brave and beautiful never allow anyone to make you feel small dont dont allow it fight your way up by being bold each day you shall feel your strength shine shine shine .be a strong happy you live among the thorns and weeds but remind yourself each day you are a flower keep blooming smile the universe will send you every thing ❤

[@VeeMay-uy7on]

@@sharidasheik1080 We SHOULD get our VALIDATION from the LORD and HIM ALONE...!!!! HE AND HE ALONE is aware of ALL OUR NEEDS and will SUPPLY them ALL, if we ask HIM....

[@michelle9819]

All the points are related to me.

[@nshylaja2007]

All this survived.. Not standing by loosing myself, one day i by myself go and admit myself in mental hospital. Then all the ones and no matter husband wiill be relieved. But i will get my freedom atleast. Would spend my time atleast by serving those special humans instead of this fake abusive relationships

[@julietafamor5209]

Is she can get letter of protection

[@Tanishqa-gh1cx]

Even me ..day by day I am feeling like when I will die...fedup...i am somehow alive for my little son coz he is the only hope....my elder daughter is cancer survivor and then is my husband who has been mentally harassing sins so many years though I have given everything every time full freedom liberty to live life as per his wishes he has nothing to do with my life 😢

[@sebastianpathori5938]

​@@Tanishqa-gh1cx😢😢😢😢😢 don't know what to say but my wife is also suffering the same.

[@mercyleisan2213]

My husband don't understand me nor listen to me and appreciation is far behind. Toxic relationship and everyday he pull me down by talking or even sometimes infront of his family 😢

[@aishikbiswasstad7682]

exactly me too he always insults in front of my son and everyone in fam

[@rusha7263]

I value myself a good person. A good mother ,a good wife. A good child to my mother. That is fine. We cannot change others .change should come within. Then life will be betutiful. Look our health ,beauty,

[@Crochet_love-yf6ny]

❤❤❤

[@JananiRenuka]

Hushband is slow poison

[@draupadiomkar56]

If you can’t divorce him physically for some reason, divorce him mentally and take care of yourself. It’s very doable.

[@littlebutterfly8893]

I am in a loveless marriage..I feel like killing my self sometimes but because of my daughter I don’t do this .. I got married very early in my early 20 s under family pressure I regret my decision now ,I won’t do this to my daughter

[@devanandascorner8609]

Mmm, good.But the same thing happens with educated, love married,late married women also. Actually it depends on his mind whether truly he values his marital life. Whatever may be in such situation self dependence becomes a great support

[@tppudhunagariiprojectv6144]

Married man like other women only not his wife

[@VeeMay-uy7on]

@@tppudhunagariiprojectv6144 THAT'S my husband.

[@abcd-cl6qu]

Same me too 😢

[@sandaleeb9933]

Mine do 100% this to me. Outside he is very loving caring to others.

[@seriagungnurastarlight]

Yes, my husband did all this to me and he died. Karma😅

[@vasudha11]

God saved

[@anupabasnet3363]

It's a blessing in disguise he said divorce as mentally i am much better and happier🥰👍

[@Quotablequotes99]

We cant do much in India. Mental divorce is better. But very difficult when living under same roof.

[@anupabasnet3363]

@@Quotablequotes99 what is the exact thing you are trying to say sir

[@aishwaryac7846]

I don't understand the psychology of marriage they just get marry and doesn't even think to bother about us😢

[@monw__hp]

This is how my das is to my poor mom. I can't stop crying when i think about it

[@Appellonia]

❤Thank you very much sincerely for the wonderfully informative video. ❤

[@Atomic_420-r7v]

My husband is doing all this with me since 32 years alongwith an affair but to save our family and daughters in laws family,i have suffered a lot.

[@mommalizCSH]

Wow my husband had all the stated qualities & still kicking with it!

[@nalinibarik9727]

My husband is world's no 1 husband.... He likes , loves, cares, supports, listens to me. He doesn't do anything without my permission... He shares everything with me from professional to personal life... Sometimes our relatives think that l am manipulating him... He appreciates and praises me in front of everyone... He is my Ramachandra Prabhu ... Everyday he tells me that whatever he is doing to keep me and my children happy.... It's a very important thing to observe the person who is kind and compassionate to others , will be much more kind and compassionate to his wife and family... Because his nature is like that... He never can be rude .....

[@vishu.25]

Please don't put Dr Kalam's photo and misguide people... Don't put the iconic people in these discussions... When he was not even married, sorry to say this... Please respect them and keep out of this..

[@NaseemaNaseema-v3y]

Im also facing these points in my life....but I can't take a strong decision.. because I have an daughter..... confused situation now

[@n_hr18]

It’s been almost 9 years I’m married. I was 23 and he was 32 when we got married and had our first daughter right after marriage. I caught him cheating all these years with his ex gf who’s married and has a son.. she looks so so ugly. He slept with prostitutes and talked to so many girls when there wasn’t a single time I even thought of any other guy. I was pious when I got married when he was sleeping with different women and lied that he never touched anyone before marriage. My daughter is 7 years old and my husband still stares at other women although I’m prettier and educated than the women he desires.. only I know how much I’ve cried these years :(

[@SaishaMudaliyar]

How are you being so strong. I really appreciate you.

[@suchithramk-ko3fk]

True. I got divorced due to many problems.But my family can't let me free from his thoughts and past married life... Too bad..

[@angeltaurus58]

It hurts when u expect something from someone , be love , financial help anything.... firstly don't expect, love urself , be kind not nice , there is difference between nice nd kind , don't kill ur self respect, be connected to God , pray to him , u will find peace ...look at them with kindness , who treat u bad coz they are unfortunate to lose a lovely person like u ...be calm , don't react , care a lot for ur good health , ignore them ...the more u plead for their love nd attention the more HE hurts u ...give so much cold response that he gets scared what's going on in ur mind 🤣

[@MK-qf6qc]

That’s my situation right now and I’m getting suffocated 😢

[@sudarshaninanayakkats158]

No woman will stay with a man who do not value her As appreciation is needed for a wife to stay I get more than 💯

[@thh9147]

I am in the same situation

[@SuperMaryjacob]

Very very true

[@neetuborah295]

All 10 signs are apply with me...... wife doesn't mean compromise... she can enjoy... she can demand...she can dream 😢

[@AbdulRehman-vx5gv]

He never fails to bring food on time ,means he values me.

[@Kristy_not_Kristine]

Mine acts like it's so horrible to have to repeat himself. Like I'm not worth the air that takes.

[@aah6848]

Wow describes my husband perfectly

[@nancyjn4537]

My husband does the above, he also never tell me about phone call, msgs,chats, he says its his privacy. He hides his salary.he says im useless, waste etc. Since im not working im useless. Ishud not ask any question. I don't have any right as a wife. Please give me suggestion as im getting suicidal thought help

[@SyngenExpress]

Try to be financially independent. Always pray to Allah. Try to make conversations about your feelings. Let him know. If nothing works, get separated for few days and Observe him if he cares. Life is long. Best wishes 🎉

[@bindubindu8374]

Don't think about suicide. Ut life is valuable for u. Iam in same condition. My hus many times ask to me why didnt do suicide? I don't mind it.

[@Atomic_420-r7v]

Try to live your life sister.You deserve a lot.I m suffering thr same.Dont chase him for love.

[@lowkatherine]

Get a hobby, start loving yourself, dress up, go out with friends... If cannot divorce, just treat him like a housemate, ignore him... Soon you'll be a happier person Very soon, his curiosity will be pique...

[@koonjrind]

Leave him

[@nutanpatel7505]

My husband value his sister and her 2 sons both oast mid 30s and uses me to make her happy her husband is a free loader

[@LaxmiY-h4l]

Many ladies are facing this problem.Financially women are strong they can ignore and lead a comfortable life.

[@NEHA2256i]

I have a incident I don't know I am wrong or right my husband wants me attend a special puja with my in laws that's I agreed and ready to attend but my wish to go to my parents house aswell for few days and I don't want to take more than 10 days for leave and he wants me to stay with his parents for whole 10 days and no taking any interest that I want to stay with my parents house aswell . His mom and dad are doing fine on terms of health and I never refused to serve them still ,Since he married to me he don't respect what I want if his parents expressed.any desire that's going to kill my desire he is always without any hesitation willing to do it , He don't care how hurt I'm .

[@dianadiya2971]

Most of the husband's be like that, even my husband too,my daughter is my strength.

[@nafeesjahan8671]

What is the eleventh sign

[@rajanivalipe8599]

' s' i too face ,i think.better we ignore,divert ourself change our selves i mean

[@shilparaju3297]

Even me also same feeling I my life toxic husband and his parents and sister also😭😭i am also suffering same problem,

[@paominlalkipgenpaominlalki9560]

Fghtback u knw who u r don stay just like mahan fight bck nd tell him u nvr buy me i can fight bck m not servant tell him

[@binshaub592]

Yes , my husband is doesn't value me....... All points related to my life..... My life is waste...... 😢😢😢

[@saminaiqbal6699]

All true, now the solution?

[@Ann-George]

Watched this thinking my husband doesn't value me as he is not letting me work now, but it seems like he values me😢

[@lakshmiiyer9302]

what you shoukd do if u already know its not worth but u have kid abd he needs and attached with father? should we compromise?

[@sefusoapier5026]

😮Wow!

[@pjones4129]

Where is #11?

[@Farariswana]

❤❤❤😊

[@KD-pz6rb]

Where’s #11

[@PeggyDreher]

So what does it mean if He does them All. Does that make me a bad person?

[@missmarvellous2247]

Marriage is a big mistake that we have ever committed

[@ChittiG-y5o]

Marriage is worst culture i think ,stick to one person destroy our life😢

[@surbhichawla5456]

Which one is 11th point

[@mrcorona2762]

😢😢😢😢true

[@sonu05praveen36]

Foundation is marriage not good 1 - Reason got married - that reason will let people suffer not person ... So take our power within us ... Its challenging but it can happen only if we do meditatio. Anapanasati budh dyan gives strength to see with clarity

[@roshu-4403]

Same with me too

[@Baiaidamon]

This is 100% sure

[@priyankaneog2102]

Add one more- He doesn't give you his earning...

[@claudiayapgsell105]

11 Signs... 10 Signs done daily

[@sangeetanair3643]

I wish someone values me 😢

[@whocanitbenow5368]

What's number 11?

[@AMARA550]

I feel so lonely in marriage, i want to leave please I need help.

[@rakhshansabahat2785]

All are infinity % same true in my husband

[@SaishaMudaliyar]

How to handle the depression if you know he loves someone else..but for kids you have to stay together

[@missmarvellous2247]

Try Focus on urself.. But tough only😢

[@jyothis578]

My husband is the same.

[@mysticshva7949]

That’s only 10: What happened to the 11th as per the heading of the video

[@wardahshafique5438]

I think all men's does like it and also can't accept 😢

[@nazbegum4759]

May Allah never put any Girl under this Trial. U Loose everything - Looks, Personality, Career, Finances, Respect, Relationships and Icing on the Cake U R Labelled as a Culprit

[@BuchhiVerma]

Me b same things face kr rhi hu

[@nayanannair7421]

He does all these 😢

[@Annnkaur]

Same here

[@raninair6065]

He ruined my life and my health

[@aksharikudyarkar5177]

I'm thinking I'm the only one but there r so many women r going through

[@happydays2247]

Oh !!! why is my husband promoting all these qualities 😂😂😂😂 Poor me still trying to ignore it to keep my family going......

[@nzehra999]

One Word For This kind of Person is Narcissist

[@PoonamSoni-rr3os]

My husband do all this thing and beat me insult me

[@monikasharma464]

Unfortunately,my husband has all these qualities not qualities but features

[@aishaabubakar5218]

My husband is exactly all that is listed you

[@JaswinderKaur-j5x]

Waise ye Abdul jee ki baatein nhi hai

[@ngakithapa3272]

I'm the woman a the this struggle😢😢

[@bithiyachristyammukichu-ux6bl]

😊

[@Nature-di2ji]

Mere husband mujhe value nahi dete mujh se piyar nahi karte ye samajhne ke liye mujhe 20 saal laggaye ,aur main sirf unhe innocent samajh ke unke saath unke har situation main support karti rahi aur sirf dena sikha bina koi shikayat kiye,ab life bekaar lagti h ,kash mujhe ye samajh pehle aa jaati to aaj m un akele na rahti .mere husband ho ke bhi na hone ke brabar h.

[@EstherLugeno]

All this is happening in my life 😢

[@missmarvellous2247]

My husband doesn't respect and use bad words to scold me sometimes in front of my kids.. If I ask about money he would say its my money why r u asking. I can't get even a single day rest. During my periods he treats me like dog and I have to use separate bathroom. He would care even if I die.. Im living as a shameless human being😢

[@Rishireddy28]

I see myself here

[@hbestinternetwatch]

My husband does all this. BUT where is the 11th sign?

[@RonayeTanner]

11 signs….where is the 11th? You need to change your title of this video. There is only 10.

[@mumtazshaik786]

I just don't understand this,Abdul Kalam is a bachelor,how can he say what a husband should be like.but every person should stand and value themselves,especially a women

[@Ponnuz_show]

Living with a covert narcissist.

[@mgoes2915]

Everything

[@j.t5841]

❤️

[@Adithyan2018]

😭😭.

[@caruniamsh8279]

Husband only enemy for.wife

[@aysha-hiba]

you sure dr. abdul kalam said this? i thought he was unmarried

[@ConnectwithDebbani]

My husband do this all.. Choti choti bat pe gali deti hai .. Bachi ho gayi income nehin karti hi isliye nikal nehin pacrahi hu

[@anuradhahajong1163]

My last option is to go for divorce

[@TheeBethakneeJ]

I guess he values me then😮

[@Barihun1590]

I search for this coment thank there is one.

[@PinkySaka]

I like number 9

[@ppmppm7010]

Ah the power of one

[@ttephi3667]

I like that! 👍🏻😁