Strange the algorithm sent me this video, but congratulations, still getting view 10+ years later.
@TubeOClockАй бұрын
Me too. Maybe a Xmas present.
@jhmrem19 күн бұрын
Yep, me too. 2025 getting this video in my stream.
@chriscummings420617 күн бұрын
I think it was the Voyager II short for me.
@claudioaguilar10517 күн бұрын
+1
@Robbyrool10 ай бұрын
Reina/Elle has one of the coolest sounding singing voices ever. It’s so silky smooth. I’ve been listening and watching for years after discovering Josh Turner and friends, including Toni and Carson. It’s a deep treasure trove of talented musicians. Love them all! 😃
@greenwave8194 ай бұрын
just found them today!
@williamyalen61672 ай бұрын
Me2!!
@timmooney69105 жыл бұрын
One more thing about Reina del Cid. She is a complete sweetie pie. Thanks for the music.
@JonSanders24 күн бұрын
Your humor is UNREAL. I feel like you’re awkward like I am, but that you’re brave enough to still just try to be amazing. And you do that so well.
@praveenlokhande19832 жыл бұрын
I recently came across Reina's videos and didn't think of it initially, but for some reason their was something very addictive of her vocals/guitar play that I kept coming back to watch and now I am totally hooked. Genuinely gifted and looking forward to more of the performances..
@Charlie-fx9dp3 ай бұрын
😊
@daveboydmusic7442 жыл бұрын
Such a genuine, and talented person - love enjoying her videos, with Toni, Josh and others .... she's a class act.
@LuisFlores-vl3xz Жыл бұрын
Totally agree
@preacherjayk4 жыл бұрын
I have battled depression and anxiety for most of my life, touring was always hard for me, I finally stopped touring due to other health issues, but I sympathize with you,, just keep looking forward, you are very talented, and the world needs you.
@seenonyt22102 жыл бұрын
Aw, nice words! I hope you are doing well. All the best to you!
@gramail2009Ай бұрын
I'm touched by your sharing, thank you! Never would have guessed in a million years about the anxiety, your delivery is so smooth, your songs so confident and slick and here you are even sharing stuff that most people would hide... Maybe it's got better though in the last 10 years, or not?
@stephen90406 жыл бұрын
Hey Reina, I am a good bit older than you and have suffered from anxiety and depression for a good number of years. I find that playing my violin is more effective at getting me out of that horrible place than any of the medication that I am prescribed here in the UK. Music is such a potent drug. Anyway I am learning to play guitar and I find your videos so inspiring. Thank you xx
@vasileseicaru87409 ай бұрын
I'm a bit older than her too and I have learnt to manage my historical anxiety in the most effective yet costly way possible. I've trained myself to treat every scenario that would trigger my anxiety as if it were inconsequential and to have a "doesn't matter, I've got bigger fish to fry" attitude at all times in all situations. The downside should be fairly obvious: people will notice and will more often than not be offended by my lack of emotion. While I do play both guitar and violin, I've never done it on stage to see if that gets me through, although I'd expect to experience some degree of performance anxiety in a scenario that I would be unable to manage as it's unexplored.
@isaackvasager99572 ай бұрын
This video is 10 years old????? You haven't aged more than week...geez. Share your secrets.
@jasonbull39874 жыл бұрын
I've a couple of mates that have done the opposite and given up gigs over the anxiety stuff. Drunk, obnoxious hecklers just wore them down. They're seriously awesome professional musicians as well. Teaching and jamming for themselves now. Good on you for finding your way. Rock on
@theodoreharris7943 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing about your anxiety - it helps make me feel less alone to know that an artist I admire also has difficult times, and I guess it took some courage to share that 🌼
@RosaLindeMuziek3 жыл бұрын
Yes, for me the same. 💛 You also thanks for sharing, Theodore.
@Obstsalatissimo3 жыл бұрын
we are a bunch!
@kimmolingonheimo2 жыл бұрын
@@Obstsalatissimo Yeah, we sure are😎
@jeffreymckie3328 Жыл бұрын
Even her talking voice is something special.
@stevebrown-l1pАй бұрын
agree
@keeganburke4371 Жыл бұрын
All 11 make you that much more awesome Elle! Keep being rad!
@paddyinpoland22083 жыл бұрын
Your honesty about anxiety is how we all should be. It is the best way to overcome it :) never be ashamed having an attack and let people see it and the anxiety will get weaker :) not easy but it can be done. Love the honesty :)
@blackstrat67322 жыл бұрын
I was already entertained by your musical talents. Seeing how honest and down to earth you are make you an irresistibly sweet human! God bless and good luck in all your future endeavors.
@MrParkerman62 жыл бұрын
Lies make Baby Jesus cry!
@kijekuyo94943 жыл бұрын
I'm writing this 7 years after this video was posted, so you've probably forgotten about it by now! I'm a musician that happened upon your band playing "The Weight" and some other songs, and I thought they were very well arranged and performed. Thank you for the sharing. People are often very curious about the performers they follow.
@gedanst14 жыл бұрын
I think you forgot to add at least one thing. But you don't have to worry, I'm sure we already know that, and this is that, you are a person as simple as you are wonderful and you have managed to make the world a little bit more beautiful, for all of us. Thank you Reina del Cid!
@Cubit100 Жыл бұрын
OMG. This post is 8 years old. How could i have not noticed this person?
@lulucolby888211 ай бұрын
Exactly how I feel 9 years out
@davidcooper781111 ай бұрын
I've been working my way backwards for a while now 😅 , it's like archeology
@jimmurphy729611 ай бұрын
Literally same.
@mwbeck11 ай бұрын
Same. A KZbin short on talking fonts and now I have a decade of content to catch up on
@lutfimakarim825811 ай бұрын
Me too. Just found out about her randomly on Facebook.
@dougkirk79372 ай бұрын
Just an amazingly vulnerable and a "we are all human" video
@mikeriopelle38796 жыл бұрын
That's an awesome video Reina, found you on KZbin, I love your voices and you and the rest of the gang seem to have so much fun. I wish more artists would talk to their fans and show them who you are. I'm very impressed with you as an artist and as a person. Good luck 👍
@aw0724 жыл бұрын
This is raw vulnerability... sharing yourself. You inspire me. Thank you. ❤️
@jamesphillips307310 жыл бұрын
I'm the same way with anxiety, a mess beforehand, but when I get behind my guitar and sing my songs I feel right at home.
@mikebillingsley322 жыл бұрын
It takes alot to open up and tell people things about yourself. Thank you for that, We think you are awesome! Along with Toni and your other band members.
@oriontech925 жыл бұрын
I've literally watched you for so long years ago. And I'm glad to see your making something with life. It would be amazing to meet someone like you someday. One love and keep it up. Love you voice...
@margarethcandianalcantara53262 жыл бұрын
👍
@perrythomasmusic37093 жыл бұрын
I am an old dude that has been playing music for a LONG time, but wanted to mention that I enjoy your music and your style, especially when you are with Toni or Josh, good work. Thanks
@paullylambert53864 жыл бұрын
Love your sense of humour and your honesty. You seem really genuine :)
@alexclements5631 Жыл бұрын
Hi Elle , Love your music!! My be easier said than done but I’ve told members of my family and friends who get stressed “ It doesn’t accomplish ANYTHING to worry ! Things will ALWAYS work out , sometimes not Exactly like you want , but They will work out and life goes on “. If you look back at things you stressed out about, you will realize it! There are sometimes bumps in the road , but they’re just bumps not roadblocks! It doesn’t HELP to worry and doesn’t solve anything. If there are things you can do ( and I don’t mean drugs or becoming a drunk, which may seem to work at the moment , but not in the long run) to make for a better outcome, fine , if not , it’s not the end of the world! Take it easy kid , you have accomplished a lot and have a great life in front of you! I see how your music makes you happy and it puts a smile on my face! ENJOY LIFE ! TAKE CARE!
@TramPainter5 жыл бұрын
I am in my 70s and also suffer anxiety. Like you, I find practising my craft helps me relax. As soon as I sit down with my instrument, my paints, my word processor or whatever, I can f oirget all the stupid stuff which goes around my head. Stick with it, Sweetie. You are an inspiration to me and many others of all ages. I look forward to Sunday evenings (I am in Australia) and your show each week.
@stevenstickel78743 жыл бұрын
I battle anxiety but never when I’m on stage in front of people. Like u said ur not alone. Ur focus changes. I really enjoy ur music and wish u the best
@bradcoffman73954 жыл бұрын
Almost 6 years later....made me chuckle and love it when the anxiety goes away. I look forward to seeing and hearing you and your friends play in person. It also drives my anxiety away. Hugz to you all. Music.....mmmmmmm
@octaviusmanago86405 жыл бұрын
It's refreshing to know young kids reviving music from my generation. I am going 63 now I think this is really cool. Much love from the Philippines - "keep on truckin"
@mikefriedman5934 жыл бұрын
I just found out about you and your music 2 days ago and I love the songs you play, your guitar and Toni. You guys are most awesome. Keep up the great work. Nothing like music. It makes you smile even if you are having the worst day. I have tried the guitar and struggle with it. I also am learning accordion.
@ironworksmultisport3 жыл бұрын
I know this is a seven year old video, but I just wanted to thank you for sharing about your anxiety. I deal with that too and it really helps to know that someone as amazing and talented as yourself has some of the same struggles. And thanks for all the amazing music!
@MrWmburr75 жыл бұрын
I love chess and Chinese buffets . . . but those may be the ONLY things we have in common. Btw, that cover of "Stuck in the middle with You" is my absolute favorite thing to listen to. Man, when that bass player kicks in at the beginning, the whole thing becomes magical. I'll sometimes just put it on a loop while I'm doing something else. As many times as I've listened to it, the song never gets old.
@davidjackson7774 жыл бұрын
I'm 70 and have been a fan for several years of you and all those you video with. Listening to the Sunday morning songs and songs of your friends is always a relaxing time. I play slow blues myself and would love to hear your renditions of some of the classics. I also want to share this with you and anyone else who has to deal with anxiety. A friend asked me to consider Ashwagandha. Did my research and finally found something that really works and is a natural herb. I'm no longer in the dread, fight or flight mode. Best wishes and God Bless!
@jimtriolo73076 жыл бұрын
Love your music…There is a purity about it that makes it even more special..
@matthewfield80189 ай бұрын
I’m always late to everything but so glad I came across her TikTok’s. Then I found out she was a musician and now I’m just hooked. So witty, smart, seems sweet as can be.
@gbkw835 жыл бұрын
Recently began listening to your music. I love it. Love you and Toni's harmonies. Thank you for sharing your more personal side!
@vdesign83 жыл бұрын
hey I'm 60 & a freelance artist & also a musician. I have had anxiety for a few decades ... it's manageable, you just need to learn about it & develop tools to help re-regulate your nervous system in those moments (yes MUSIC is perfect for this) ... good on you for not letting it stop you perform or tour! Love your vids, btw.
@scaredypicker4 жыл бұрын
I also suffer badly with anxiety, and I also find that playing music helps me... Unfortunately I’m not much good! But good enough for my own entertainment. Keep on doing what you’re doing - you’re great :)
@frankrault31902 жыл бұрын
Wished you had no anxieties, obviously. However, your music so often takes away mine! Guess I'm not the only one! Thanks for your great music!
@richlight5 жыл бұрын
You know, I found you a month or so ago, and you have become one of my favorite vocalists ever. Your awesome. Yeah this video is old, but it's new to me lol.
@13magic745 жыл бұрын
* you're
@muserwood5 жыл бұрын
OK, I've suffered from severe anxiety for decades, and finally learned it's really all in our heads. So, what I did, was calmed myself through breathing deeply for one minute. Then I told myself that if I can control myself for a minute I can certainly calm myself for two minutes. If you believe it, it is true. then five minutes, 20 minutes, and so on. In a very short time, you KNOW that you are really in control. I have medication, but I never use it. It's just there as a backup. Hope this helps you as much as it helped me. Thanks for sharing and looove your singing/music btw.
@gillygil87475 жыл бұрын
We missed you in Denver this past June. I love your music. I would love to know more about your group. Your interactions seem to be really intimate. You guys are down right lovable.
@ImaginerImagines9 ай бұрын
Just saw this. Your other videos drew me in. It only took 9 years to be an overnight success. :) You have talent and even an old man like me is tickled by it. So keep being you and being awesome. The world needs fantastic, talented, intelligent people like you. I have laughed and cheered through more than one of your videos. Grok out. Live long and prosper. May the force (and tunes) be with you.
@chizkiyahu201010 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing yourself, your not alone most artist have something going on. Keep up the great work and blessings.
@trackie19573 жыл бұрын
7 years hence, I hope you are doing better with the anxiety. You give so much joy, I hope some bounces back to you.
@alpelletier61996 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing Reina. The anxiety part was particularly special. I am 70 (yes seventy) and have had issues with this since I was 12. Yet I did some of the most dangerous work (Flying on Helicopters off Destroyers and a full 25 year career in the RCAF). Yet, like you, when I was working, the anxiety went away. I have a fear of heights (Yup). Yet I could be hoisted down on a cable to a ship below and that didn't bother me. Don't ask me to go on my roof though !!! So, the bad news is that it probably will always be there. The good news is that you are a very talented young lady, and you have an escape. I am a super fan and probably one of many thousands. And yes, I will buy your album. I feel that I know you now and that makes it special!
@jamiearellano89035 жыл бұрын
Hello...I'm looking for a helicopter helmet ,I do paramotor..
@davestuart88642 жыл бұрын
thanks for sharing!!!! I just wanted to say what an excellent musician you are and an inspiration 😊😊😊😊😊
@LectronCircuits5 жыл бұрын
Thing 12: You have a high cuteness factor. Cheers!
@thebarefootadventurer84674 жыл бұрын
XDDDD
@paulcockerill42604 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!
@jlr0221594 жыл бұрын
I agree!
@VaMaybayTwo3 жыл бұрын
Perfectly True!!
@MrJaggg883 жыл бұрын
Yes so much
@dataplatter3 ай бұрын
Glad you made it past 29!
@clairelabish45724 жыл бұрын
You are so relatable and unique, keep shining!
@walterwiniana3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this video! It was nice getting to know you a little bit 👍🏽
@joemiller86355 жыл бұрын
Thanks for some facts about you, Reina! I really do enjoy listening to you play & sing also....You have a great rest of the summer!!!
@jimincornwall19255 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed this sneak peek into your life very much. I so want to hear you live on stage, and I’m so sorry that I was not able to see you due to illness when you were last in Ottawa Ontario. Love your music!
@formerrocker7 жыл бұрын
I wish more performers would give some background like you did here! It gives more depth to enjoy your work!
@billhowes74645 жыл бұрын
Some of the best I've heard.im 75 and sing with a local band.we do a lot of old tunes .ppl really like them.we do Good night irene red river valley as well as some mills bros and some country tunes .your group is fantastic ,keep it up love y,all
@sigurdivar42274 ай бұрын
This video just came up. You haven't aged a bit in ten years. How is that possible? Chinese food? Running?
@lamercussionАй бұрын
I was about to say that!
@jamesfennen4683 Жыл бұрын
My 1st memory of YOU was the Harvest Moon (Neil Young cover) video. I was captured by the talent of that ensemble & background. I know you are a word smith, but your soft delivery is special and appreciated. You are a BRAVE young lady to put yourself on stage for all to view as you grow over time. Now in my 80's, I am very Blessed for KZbin that affords me this joy. Thank you! PS, consider a cover of the late Kate Wolf who had a similar magic with her delivery.
@joeayala61416 жыл бұрын
love watching you girls singing some songs from yester-years. it's really nice to see people having fun. brings smiles to my face.
@VictoriaAnnWhitney Жыл бұрын
Thank you!!! Thank you for being honest! I have sooo enjoyed watching you guys play and sing!! Truly you make me smile !!! I do play guitar and write some music(which I may never play for another human, but you give me courage) you really are amazing and I thank you again for being so forth coming. Never stop!!!!!
@bushmaster78936 жыл бұрын
Love your music!! And on a second note, Toni is a fantastic guitar player! She can bend really bend those strings! Where did she learn to play like that? Anyway...love your music, keep it up. Jambalaya on the railroad tracks is my favorite.
@oojudg3oo4 жыл бұрын
I appreciate your inspiration and your work. Really do. Thank u. These are the 1st comments I've made on any of your channel and your friends.
@PatrickGMoran10 жыл бұрын
I am a 50 year old singer songwriter who has struggles with anxiety issues for a long time....I am quite good in a song circle setting....but as the crowds increase so does my anxiety....really sucks.....if this wasn't a problem, I would be doing a lot more shows than I do....I feel your pain Reina...
@dougmackey36962 жыл бұрын
This is way late. I’m commenting 7 years after you made this video. I have really enjoyed your music. You pick perfect songs for you two. I really enjoy when you record with Carson and Josh. By the way was thrilled today to find you guys doing Tempted, my favorite song in college.
@prestigelawncare66575 жыл бұрын
You are the coolest woman I've seen playing guitar and singing. I love your music
@richardkane74954 жыл бұрын
Talented, cute, humble, charismatic, sweet enough I may have contracted diabetes watching her videos, and brilliant. Not a bad way to start, Reina!
@timothyboyle90486 жыл бұрын
Oh my God. Forget the anxiety. You are a beautiful person and SO talented. Embrace it and know there are so many people like me that have gotten such joy from you. I finish a shift at my restaurant and listen to one of your songs and it allows me to look forward to tomorrow. Someday I hope to have you play at my place! Be well.
@ZuBeRCraZyBassY10 жыл бұрын
Ive been subscribed to you for as long as i can remember . You are pretty , talented and a driven individual . I wish you all the success in the world. From a fellow dreamer !
@harleygrandpaernie5 жыл бұрын
I share your anxiety issue. I am disabled retired og. I just started guitar and enjoying my small wins. You're fantastic at your calling, I am super glad I found your channel.
@d1973ld5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the anxiety comment, I needed that today.
@billmark1335 жыл бұрын
Hi Reina I just wanted to say to you love your choice of songs, I think you are very talented and have been a inspiration to anyone with anxiety. I just discovered you here on you tube and have subscribed to listen and enjoy your videos. I like the new generation singing the stuff we listen to many years ago. My mom loves your style and at 88 yrs old she cant get enough of your singing. Reina keep the music coming . Love ya lots
@Newsomcreative5 жыл бұрын
You're so awesome! Love you and your music so much.
@Indrid__Cold4 ай бұрын
You are one of those people on KZbin who makes the corners of my mouth turn up when I see a new video. It's a subconscious thing like good spell checking that gets apostrophes right.
@googlewreckedit9 ай бұрын
Me just innocently sitting here in 2024 watching this video that came up in my feed and thinking I was learning all sorts of new things about the person I pretty much only know from their great song shorts, and I was, but it was old new stuff.
@alexseeley4 жыл бұрын
First time I've seen your work today. Really like your voice. Hope you kept up running, I find it really helps with anxiety. Anyway, you made this years ago - you seem to have done some cool stuff since. Good luck in all you do.
@natchue4 жыл бұрын
I can’t believe I’m just seeing this 😂❤️
@martindooley37994 жыл бұрын
The world is your oyster, just been listening to you guys the last couple of days,, time well spent, I feel like a miner that just found gold, just keep on enjoying what your doing because I and many more definitely will,,,
@Pere1966...4 жыл бұрын
Reina is unique!
@tompetty92205 жыл бұрын
So refreshing hearing old song's that I love.And all of your new song's, well done.
@ronhudson11615 жыл бұрын
Your awesome and hilarious. Keep doing your thing. It works. Cheers to ya
@sbrayer11355 жыл бұрын
Thing twelve, an infectious smile
@1Elohim18 ай бұрын
I remember seeing her first video. KZbin was young, and it was a nice song titled "Come Over" or something like that. Then I did not see her channel again for at least five years. Now I watch all her stuff.
@TheBeatle495 жыл бұрын
I have become a huge fan! Love your Fly Me to the Moon.
@andy65guitar4 жыл бұрын
Anxiety does suck! My whole life too. Guitar and singing helps more than anything. You are a fantastic musician and I enjoy your posts. Stay cool.
@leithp5 жыл бұрын
Well, the running should help with the Chinese Buffet. :-) Well up to now pretty much the only thing I knew about you was I liked your music. So clearly you know how to make music, and you do it well. Now I know 11 more things, which brings the total to approximately 12. You know I'm always nervous before playing in public until it's time to sing, and as soon as I open my mouth, I'm fine. Which I think is weird. I think it's because at that point everyone expects me to sing and figure I'd look dumber if I just stood there dumbstruck. I'm not a natural ham or show off in any way, so I always think people will think "who do you think you are?!" if I start singing. But oddly, they don't. You almost have to push me into doing it, but once I'm doing it, I really enjoy it and people don't seem to mind. Well maybe they're just being polite. See? I can't get away from it.
@robertscotton9339Ай бұрын
Hi Elle. Love your content. So, thank you for that. I’m a happy accepting anxious loner. Eventually our crisis become epiphanies. It gets way better. Wishing everyone strength and courage.
@nordeenabdellah93715 жыл бұрын
How about 11 things obout Toni? I think she is LIL bit mysterious.
@QuantumMech_884 жыл бұрын
Toni is super talented and gets no credit .
@JaleelJohanson624 жыл бұрын
@@QuantumMech_88 Toni comes across as the shy type, but anyone who's heard her playing knows she's hard working and gifted. She gets as much credit in my book as Rachelle does. Together they're an awesome duo.
@francispoivre89034 жыл бұрын
What are you trying to do ? Break up the band ?
@christinamoneyhan56884 жыл бұрын
I find it a joy to listen to the group. Toni is loving the songs . I watch the when she is playing Harvest Moon in Oregon by the river. You can just see her great smile every now and then. Beautiful people all of you. Does not matter who is playing or what they are playing. God love you all.
@randybackgammon8903 жыл бұрын
I agree. Engaging type though
@Loyalg14 жыл бұрын
I'm 77 Bipolar played guitar, drums, keyboard. Love everything about you. All of you are quite talented
@francispoivre89034 жыл бұрын
Bipolar is when you play guitar AND keyboard ?
@Loyalg14 жыл бұрын
Yes
@robertscott59375 жыл бұрын
All those things make you a very beautiful and talented person keep up the good work and be safe watching from Georgia
@shaylennaidoo24 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing, great to see you time travel since this video literally just showed up after all the other “font’ shorts :P super nice and genuine video. Thanks
@mikeboeck26674 жыл бұрын
I played drums in loud rock bands for about 30 years to the point of damaging my hearing, moreso in the left ear. A lot of shows, a couple a week sometimes. Bars or small clubs mostly around my hometown DC, Atlanta, and Athens GA. You would never guess how I'm an introvert with paralyzing stage fright. During that interval between sound check and show, those hours and hours, I would pace like a panther in a zoo cage and chain smoke and try not to consume mass quantities of beer. Then we'd hit the first note in front of people and all the anxiety melted away. Also love to play chess.
@rickvia84354 жыл бұрын
I was always introverted growing up. I started playing bass, then guitar and was in a couple of bands. By 18, I was playing bass and singing lead in a pretty tight band. There's something about playing and WANTING to be out front that makes it easier. Still nervous, but a good kind of nervous. Lately I just manage to piss off my neighbors playing with myself on guitars. I haven't played my bass in months.
@raygunn10834 жыл бұрын
How did this get to be about you ?
@rickvia84354 жыл бұрын
@@raygunn1083 It just turned out that way, what can I say?
@skeet25s4 жыл бұрын
I feel your anxiety pain. I try to keep my mind occupied ALL the time. Playing Music, watching videos, and archery and shooting sports really help me. I think the shooting sports works so well because you have to stay soooo focused to be safe and accurate.
@concubriant5 жыл бұрын
It was a great moment when I discovered you all on KZbin..you need a savvy promoter...
@kevinbrooks11042 жыл бұрын
Every day before work I have to pull over and reset because of angzity, blew the spelling, but I think you are perfectly imperfect, I wish you love and happiness all of your days. Thank you
@Guernicaman5 жыл бұрын
Recently discovered your channel. You & Toni make a beautiful couple. ¡Éxito, Reina! ;)
@joelnickerson67395 жыл бұрын
I don't think I could get in front of a camera and tell anything about myself. You're one strong, very talented person. Just be you. That's good enough for anyone.
@Sean174045 жыл бұрын
When I was a very young man, I played chess in a bar. With the sound man for a jazz trio.... IT was Great!
@artnelsoncreative5 жыл бұрын
Love your music. Binged watched all of your videos. Thanks for your honest comments on being anxious.
@lesilmcguire46903 жыл бұрын
Love “wow you ladies are playing chess in a bar!” 😂 peeing myself. Describes the disconnect with men in most situations. We must be just hanging around waiting for you to come up to us 😂