11 Ways To Keep Her Chasing You

[@SkillofAttraction]

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[@TheDetroitLion313]

You should've named this 11 ways not to be a Simp. Great advice you put in this one

[@SkillofAttraction]

Thanks, man!

[@KONGDADDY69]

Quality content as always. The best relationships I've been in is when the female chases me. Once you start chasing, they quickly become bored, females love the thrill of the chase.

[@SkillofAttraction]

Thank you! Yes, they LOVE the chase!

[@SkillofAttraction]

@Nic777 Exactly! Plus society tells THEM that men are supposed to chase.

[@Rak.immortal]

You're the best Eric Great advice Sir

[@SkillofAttraction]

Why, thank you, sir...I appreciate that!

[@MathewBonhomme]

Wow amazing advice. This is life changing stuff.

[@SkillofAttraction]

Thanks, man! Glad it was helpful!

[@bryanwolf5468]

Nice content coach... Tho I have a question... Do you ever feel... Performance anxiety in a relationship sort of?... Like feeling like you always have to be funny... Or always have to be witty and the conversations with your girl friend have to be A grade all the time... I mean sure... They are like that.. But the feeling that you have to be like that everytime... Always having to be exciting.. How do you deal with it?

[@SkillofAttraction]

Yes, I used to feel like that...but, you're putting too much pressure on yourself & whatever you say or do is going to come across as inauthentic. Plus, you're indirectly putting her on a pedestal & entering in to her frame with that mindset. No man can be "on" 100% of the time. The idea is to just try to have some fun & bring her into that fun. If you're not in the mood, then you're not in the mood. It's not a big deal. Remember, you're not her entertainment.

[@ddmozz]

The thing with women's behavior is that, clearly, they were designed for a "polygyny" relationship. That is, sharing her lover with multiple women. That's why a lot of things don't make sense, as NONE of these issues would arise in that type of relationship. The benefits of monogamy is that it democratizes access to women (instead of, say, the top 20% men keeping all of the women and leaving the scraps to the bottom 80%), and the drawbacks are: men focusing on one woman too much, woman getting bored and losing attraction which turns itself into a breakup or simply a dead bedroom. Too bad we can't have the best of both worlds. Maybe that's what wars were for, nature's way to reduce the availability of men - as grim as that sounds. As an example, after the Paraguayan war where the male population went down dramatically, every man had to engage in polygyny. There's a saying that paraguayan women are good at sex because they were breed for that after that war. One modern alternative to replace polygamous relationship is to have a purpose in life. But even with that, it doesn't replace the dynamic.

[@SkillofAttraction]

Well, it's actually men who are innately polygamous. Women are hypergamous, which means women date, mate, & marry up...a high value man. This leads to some women being willing to share a high value man, since they're in scarce supply. But you're right...monogamy gives everyone a fair shake. The idea is that men strive to be the best man they can be & women will fight for them too...those men become one of the top 20%. Much of what of talk about in this video, or all my videos, will often come naturally to a man when he reaches a high status. What you're speaking of about the Paraguayans is something just about every tribe & civilization has experienced to some degree throughout history. Of course it's not much of an issue in modern times, but it could turn back to that if we breakout into a devastating war. If you haven't yet, I recommend that you read the book, "The Rational Male" by Rollo Tomassi. You can find it here if you're in the US: amzn.to/3G5VlEQ That book will connect the dots for you & give you a much better understanding of all this.

[@ddmozz]

@@SkillofAttraction completely agreed on women being hypergamous and willing to share a high-value man. Spot on! I haven't read The Rational Male so I'll do it as soon as I can. Thanks for the tip man.

[@OussamaHaddoute]

Bro it's been two years since you commented this awesome comment.. but you were 100% correct.and through my personal experience as a married man. I feel that I attract more women than when I was single.some of them know i am married but rather chase me. As to my wife she knows that some women are after me and she is always doing her best to please me.

[@salibrahim6158]

Great Vid as usual 👍

[@SkillofAttraction]

Thanks you, sir! Much appreciated!

[@ConorSantry]

Fantastic video

[@SkillofAttraction]

Thanks, man!

[@youngtibajallow7369]

You know beter bro stay blessd

[@SkillofAttraction]

Thanks, man!

[@MrTheomighty1]

I went to my partners house last night and she’s not well as she’s having a week of all weeks on her peri menopause. She sat there with nothing like a zombie so I left even tho I was kind and being caring, I asked her if she wanted to come to mine for tea after she finishes work on Saturday she said maybe as I’m going out with her son to her mates house to celebrate a 50th birthday and they are all having a take away. Now I felt rather sick as she said no to me but yes to her mate. I haven’t manifested this before this I was living in the end feeling warm fussy feelings being wanted and needed by my partner. Last night was the first night in 2 years I didn’t feel like a priority. I’m I over reacting ??? On my situation or not

[@MrTheomighty1]

@@bbblueridge I understand what you are saying only she is going through the menopause and it plays havoc with ladies hormones they’ve killed and got away with it. I know it will get better and she will be back into me as she was more into me as I with her. It’s just strange seeing someone love you and then over night she doesn’t even know herself

[@SkillofAttraction]

I would say that yes, you're overreacting. I know it stings a bit, but if this is the first time in 2 years...& she's going through menopause...it's most likely just a little hiccup & nothing to worry about. She wasn't disrespectful or anything. Just give her a little space & turn your attention elsewhere. If you turn this into a "thing" & make a big deal about it, it'll only cause her to pull away.

[@SkillofAttraction]

@BB Blueridge - On point.

[@SkillofAttraction]

@MrTheomighty1 - I haven't had to go through it with a woman yet myself, but from what I understand menopause is a bumpy road...not just for her, but for the man in her life as well. It'll take some patience on your part.

[@Edwardjjp]

Thank you very much indeed Eric, for another tutorial of depth, integrity and insight. Please would you kindly - and any of the rest of the Skill of Attraction community expand on what is meant by 'being selfish'. This facet sits uncomfortably and a deeper explanation would be hugely appreciated. Thank you very much indeed again, Eric. Ted from the UK.

[@SkillofAttraction]

Selfish means to put yourself first...what you want & need ahead of her wants/needs. Of course I don't mean all the time, but usually. Most of us has been taught to NOT be selfish from a very early age, but people/women tend to walk all over those who are always putting others first.

[@Edwardjjp]

@@SkillofAttraction Thank you Eric, for this reply. Women walk all over men that accommodate? Goodness

[@SkillofAttraction]

@@Edwardjjp Well, if you're TOO accommodating. Selfishness (to some degree) communicates that you can & will acquire resources for survival. When a woman chooses a man, she's always thinking in terms of "will he be able to ensure me & my children's survival?" That may sound a little ridiculous in modern times, but it's simply part of a woman's instinct...evolution hasn't caught up with modern times.

[@mimblewimble843]

Hey man I love # 5!

[@SkillofAttraction]

Thanks, man! Any of these, done in the correct way, will have a positive effect on her attraction for you.

[@simyanqla]

Another superb video.

[@SkillofAttraction]

Thanks! Glad you enjoyed it

[@uhohotdog3483]

Key word "high value"😶

[@SkillofAttraction]

Of course the idea is to build yourself into a high value man...

[@ketobodybuilder2482]

5 min in video starts

[@SkillofAttraction]

There's important information throughout & it's unwise to skip parts. Investing several minutes of your time to learn valuable skills is worth it. I'm sure you don't do half a workout because it takes up too much of your time, do ya?

[@PrevitObecny]

Great as always :].

[@SkillofAttraction]

Thank you! Cheers!

[@hasohaso8190]

PLEASE ! Can you make , or do you have, any video for how to make my girl interested in long distance relationship, we see each other 2/3 days every month and that’s it. She likes me but im afraid she will stop at some point , she will go ghost….. thanks in advance!!

[@SkillofAttraction]

I believe I discuss that in this video: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qnnUmJ96lN99bqs

[@SkillofAttraction]

I just found this one too: kzbin.info/www/bejne/n6jFlpiFqpl1hJY

[@hasohaso8190]

@@SkillofAttraction thank you very much!!! It means a lot!! Thank you❤️

[@poormanintexas]

I hate the term spin plates..lol

[@SkillofAttraction]

Yeah, me too...I hate a lot of the terms used (alpha, beta, etc), but most people are familiar with them.

[@Alcohogrifo]

If a womam is proposin plans before you do it it is a bad thing?

[@SkillofAttraction]

Not necessarily...it shows she has a relatively high interest. You just want to be sure that you take the lead from there. Unless she already picked out a place to go, then you decide where you're going & what you're doing.

[@Cathomis]

JC what is that shirt? Having a hard time taking attraction advice.

[@SkillofAttraction]

A shirt is distracting you?

[@jeddaaah]

make vidoes about wifes.. treating a wife is different than a gf or someone ur dating.. nobody does videos focusing on wives

[@SkillofAttraction]

What i teach is about building & maintaining attraction. That doesn't change when you're married; although, it's much more difficult when you're married, LTR, or cohabitating. So, in the context of this video, it's really the same if you're married. You may need to make a few adjustments due to the marriage (obviously you can't be dating other women if you're married, but you can continue to flirt with other women as long as you don't cross the line), but the fundamentals are the same.

[@marcycat]

A man has to show me he really cares for me to reciprocate. I don't waste my time on games.I don't compete for love or chase a man. I cannot stand a selfish man, yuck! I don't date a man that wants to date others while dating me. If he flirts with other women then I don't go out with him anymore.

[@SkillofAttraction]

On a conscious rational level, of course you're not going to like this or agree with it, but deep down, on a psychological level, it's different as long as a girl is already experiencing a high level of attraction for a man, or at least an emotional attachment. At this point he must be properly leading the relationship & making her feel special. A lot of my videos require context from my other videos.

[@trinitodbone]

ME ENT SAYING SHE NO GOLD DIGGA

[@SkillofAttraction]

I'm not sure what you're referring to...

[@uhhTabby]

@@SkillofAttractionKanye west - gold digger

[@salamsalam-fh9li]

Excellent video

[@SkillofAttraction]

Thank you very much!