14 Rules for Being a MAGNET in Love & in Business

[@daveystrange]

'Don't focus on finding yourself. Get to work on creating yourself.' Profound.

[@kriselvis4890]

That’s what I’m doing

[@birdinafishtank]

sartre said it first lol

[@daveystrange]

@@kriselvis4890 me too! :D

[@lindalin5998]

People from unstable families can be stable and in healthy relationships only if they healed

[@unitard9701]

1) You can change. 2)Energy 3)Exercise compassion with your voice 4)Be Passionate in the meantime 5)Stop trying to find yourself and start creating yourself 6)Celebrate the impact that others have 7)Don't over respect others 8)Say it in a fresh way 9)Lean into the things that you love 10)Embrace the "ands" 11)You don't have to have an opinion 12)Execute 13)Be okay with being wrong 14)Where do you want to level up your impact ?

[@desertrose1201mahda]

Suggestion for next video topic: 14 areas to level up your impact. :D

[@conscienciacolectiva1415]

Thank you very much!!

[@the2ndcoming135]

🐐

[@unitard9701]

@@conscienciacolectiva1415 it helps me recall things like this through screenshot so could be useful to others too I guess :)

[@TarotbyMissB]

Thanks

[@minervag6777]

I‘ve been watching you since my teenage years and now I’m 27. you‘ve impacted my love life and my perspective incredibly! So thankful for your unique kind approach ❤

[@Daniela.Mccaffrey]

Awesome for you! ❤

[@esegift9169]

I wish I knew him earlier

[@FamilyMatterswithAmber]

I thought he was much younger and fairly new to the scene! Until he mentioned Dr. Ruth! Thanks for sharing. Now I realize why he could have met her in his travels lol. So glad he has helped you through life! We all need to have those guides. He's helping me! At 49! :)

[@AmandaMcCarterWrites]

I feel like I'm in the middle of this process right now. I've had a lot of changes over the last few years, including a traumatic breakup and I'm rebuilding my life and who I am and what I want. So this was perfect timing.

[@WSTNGWY]

Even though you may never read this, I just felt the need to come back to one of your videos and comment this: I am a female who found your channel roughly a year ago. There was a boy I had seen in the hallways at school every day and I found him very attractive, and thanks to your videos, in April 2022, I approached him and asked for his phone number. We have been together now for 9 months. This is the happiest I have been in such a long time. I gained so much confidence, partly thanks to your content among other things, so thank you so much.

[@jenngentilerealtor1424]

I felt everything you’ve said. Especially this one! I believe that when you work on yourself, have that energy, & embrace your faults as well as your accomplishments, you can’t help but become your best self. It’s quite profound to create the life you want or at least being on track to get there, that’s the sweet spot for me. What if you lose your spark? What if anxiety and sadness stop you from shining? How do you get back the momentum to WANT TO create the best version of yourself and life???

[@lisanathan7336]

Wow Matt, not sure if you read comments but this is such a giving piece of you and your heart. This is so generous and helpful and timely. Really appreciate this. I have been watching you for years and my confidence has grown so much for the better and I’ve watched you grow too and always think wow, he is smashing this. I salute you. Sincere thanks from Upminster, Essex. A homie 😊

[@lifeisgr82me]

I couldn’t have said it better myself. You took the words right out of my mouth. 😁

[@IbtihalMahmood]

These videos have become part of my Sunday morning routine. Thank you, Matthew.

[@lynnita321]

Me too!

[@CandaceSellsLA]

It's so awesome that the love coach finally found a true love of his own 💕💓💞

[@lynnita321]

Thank you Matthew for this video of what I call "Gold Nuggets". From someone who has followed you for years, what I find MOST compelling about your videos is your rule #8 - Say IT in a fresh way from your perspective. That IS your effectiveness! You may think you need to condense it and use fewer words, and sometimes you do. However it's hearing your story and metaphors that really creates the impact. To answer your question for #14 I personally choose to focus on #12, Execute, take imperfect action. Thanks again Matt & Team!

[@cheristringer9485]

“Saying it new”. instead of saying something new….. loving your story. This is such a beautiful video. I had circles of this running in my head as I am trying to create content ….. the compassion for ourselves in the iteration process. I always said creativity is iteration the willingness to lead when your uncertain of the result and be comfortable in the process of it. Thankyou for saying it Matthew. Iteration is the best . I want to uplevel my voice projection and my body language. On point number 4 be passionate isn’t this similar to energy. I find when I am passionate I bring a different energy and the energy of what I love comes accross passionate. So point 4, 2 and 12? lean to what you love are all interrelated.

[@paigereynolds4235]

I stumbled upon your videos after my relationshit (ha) & then subsequently my life blew up unexpectedly prior to the Covid lockdown. I thought at the time I’d NEVER EVER date again but continued to periodically check in w your content. Fast forward to 2023 & while dating is not currently a priority for me, your content is almost always applicable as I rebuild my relationship with myself/ personal & professional relationships. This was EXCELLENT & I plan to download your new guide (something I rarely even consider doing from KZbin speeches). May I suggest adding more videos like this vs titles only involving dating to your 2023 goals?! Stay “wordy” w that accent & happy new year 😜 XX in Austin

[@KayKayz94]

Totally. There's many people trying to create content like yours but the way you deliver it is just so digestible and calming that I'm so glad that you exist Matthew. 😌

[@cheristringer9485]

This is one of my all time favorite videos of yours. Because it lays the groundwork for impact in a simple, authentic and unique way. Say it new . As I evolve. from landscape architect to my a new phase of my life were i’m creating content , coaching creative visionaries and living into a future of infinite possibilities I see things in this video I didn’t see before. Its like the path you walk in the forest you know the one you take daily and know so well is suddenly alive because you see how the light is streaming through the leaves in a particular part of the path that before you didn’t notice because you were focused on the stream bubbling past. most people talk about the things they love as the big moments but one of my quirks is i’m fascinated by the small moments the detail behind things AND experience of big events . At the retreat I was enamored with the little details at each event the set design, the little centerpieces on the tables the backdrops with so much characture that lends the experience a depth and meaning a quirky ness that is enduring.

[@copacopa4881]

Massive thanks for number 11! I've always been surrounded by people having strong opinions. For a long time, I tried copying them, their confidence in their principles, even though I didn't agree necessarily all the time, even though I found them more than once disproving their own arguments by their behaviours. Now I embrace not having an opinion on everything or sharing other perspectives to add to the discussion, not to feel right and win. BTW, this video is gold! I'll definitely watch it more than once Also, I personally really appreciate that you're able to build a full length argumentation on the spot. I like catch phrases and take homes but not as much as a whole dissertation. I am always so impressed by how quick you find where you want to go and just build the path to there with relevant points and examples. Some people have Tony Robbins as inspirations, some others have you :)

[@bluemoon8268]

… rather than thinking of myself or others as being complex, I look at it from the perspective as being multi-dimensional … and that combined with a depth of rich authenticity is what attracts me … (however, for my own personal challenges, I have to be more aware of separating what’s authentic from the charismatic narcissist)

[@jochildress5003]

I happened to come to similar conclusions literally right before I found and watched this video. I’d gotten up this morning and decided to just create little tasks one by one and quit waiting for an outcome. Do I think this video is brilliant because it agrees with me, or is it brilliant on its freestanding face? No matter. It’s brilliant. Matthew and I are both brilliant. 😊❤

[@manifbaker]

I’m eating cheese and clix in the bath while I listen to this so I feel like I’m already an amazing catch and a love magnet. This is livin 😊

[@succulentlife3343]

Just feed back on speaking effectively. I can see areas that could be cut, but I also LOVE how thorough you explain a topic. It's so valuable in understanding not just the subject but your intention in what you are conveying and I personally think that is what makes you so effective. It shows more into your integrity and creates a higher respect for your content 😊

[@soyandoat4106]

omg, congratulations on your engagement! Been a viewer for the last 4 years and your advices and insights have been spark to my healing journey in self worth and self love. Cheers from somewhere in Asia!

[@paigek3358]

These will always be my favorite videos of yours. Because of you, I read William Zinsser's, On Writing Well and it really did change everything. I just have an appreciation for other people who have an appreciation for the subject. Plus you've always been able to articulate what my brain knows to be true. Well done Matthew. Also, you're right... A wise man once told me, never meet your heroes.

[@didoufree]

Mathew Hussey! Thank you for your generosity

[@Soulgirl2212]

I am watching you since years and now you are more of a lfe coach then love coach. I just love the way your ideas are in a broader perspective and improving lives and not just cliched ❤

[@simpleforex1299]

The video you made 7 years ago about rejection where you were in a studio, was very powerful you spoke as if you know what you are talking about.

[@raywan22]

oh Matt. I was going to watch this for a bit and get on with some tasks I need to do. Ended up watching the whole thing and took notes on every point! You give so much value to us, thank you so much 🙏

[@joelmab221]

You are an amazing coaching! I have been improving soo much with your teaching😘Thank you! Your wife is very wise also!

[@Musiyca]

Perfect timing - I'm about to start counselling classes with 14 year olds, might incomporate those rules for them. I really want young people to have that knowledge already, so they are not so hard on themselves while picking their next school etc.

[@thechemmistt]

That is exactly what I needed to hear!! I am in my 20s and have these exact feelings but another lingering feeling that comes along with it is that it's blocking my growth. listening to you today gave me a new perspective and it felt like I was growing as the video progressed. thanks for giving us this trip to a better future. love your way of explaining with examples. I am a person who relates faster with feelings and emotions and your way of explaining just fit right in my puzzle .. thanks again

[@75Cee]

I love you. I feel so happy and inspired right now. Thanks so much for being real.

[@skg9644]

The podcast with the fertility experts was so humbly and expertly done I was moved near to tears with emotion as collaboratively you all addressed so many of the unspoken modern day issues surrounding the topic. Thank you

[@ieva7513]

Where can you find this podcast ?

[@bianca-mhteam6237]

Hey@@ieva7513! You can find the full video here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/aJ63lJt6gbuUkKM - Bianca, MH team

[@audra555]

Humor is one of the most important things too. But joking well is a special quality, not everyone succeeds. You do. Thanks! All the best 🙏

[@juliecraig6770]

yes that fertility conversation was fantastic and such a learning curve for us all from those experts - that was impressive Matt

[@wanderingseth]

Today I binge-watched the first trilogy of X-Men films, and I must have it on the brain because I read the title of this video as "14 rules for being a Magneto in love and business"... and I thought "Okay if it's the Michael Fassbender version then I'm in."

[@linavaisnoraite]

I'd loved the video. I have purshased your impact programm long time ago, and I felt an inmediate need to review and relisten it again. So thank you for this reminder! And there's so many nice new ideas and examples also you just mentioned. As a person, Matt, you enbody the human growth. I'd loved that you said that for this year you wanted to learn comunicating and speaking skill to be even more efective. And from my point of view it's practicaly perfect as it is. So it's also very inspiring to hear youbday that, to keep growing even though it seems you are already so good at something. It's humbling as well. Thanks for always being such a good row model on self growth topics. And I truly admire you for that. Wish you an amazing year! 🧡

[@sylviaopriessnig2514]

Please make more of these videos. I watch your videos about love to learn your view on things and transfer it to other parts of life

[@SM-qb7ce]

THANK YOU 💜MATTHEW FOR THIS HELPFUL GUIDANCE & ADVICE!!!🙏

[@PkmnMasterHolly]

Thank you for this video! ❤

[@Olivias180]

Literally watching this in the car on the way to my first day at a new job!!! Talk about perfect timing 😂

[@lilbb257]

Thank you for teaching us how to validate self....as we relate to others!

[@Sabine-k6j]

Matthew, thank you for your passionate and smart work, you care about human beings very much in a very special unique way, from my ❤ to your heart as a human being, thank you🌞

[@srdesignfactory]

Even if you’ve taken too many words, that made me understand more deeply. So it’s okay !!

[@Kaztoozs]

On your last point of speaking effectively, meaning for you to put things in less words, the interesting thing that has made you such an effective speaker, at least in your video content, somewhat ironically contrary to your goal, is the fact that you do take so much time to elaborate the point. Recently I was watching your video from 4 years ago about emotion and logic in relationships. You took 14 minutes more or less to get to the point of 'use logic as a tool in your approach to relationships'. The elaboration you made to get to that point however was what allowed for it to be understood and for people to get to the emotional place they needed to be to accept that idea which is something you are extremely good at compared to others in your craft. As a long time fan, I've really appreciated this video, keep up the good work.

[@haslindakasim110]

I love you Matt. You are my mentor ❣️

[@MotherIsRising]

This is such a gift. I truly honor you and your work. Will listen to this a few times.

[@sandra123marar]

I have watched you for years and saw your show in New York on my solo 40th. THIS is one of the best videos of impact. You delivered all of the points with precision and for a long time got me thinking that I do have some things to work on. No matter how much growth I have learned. There were alot of aha points

[@Pr8053]

Wow! Great content. You are amazing! Thanks for sharing!

[@cleo4986]

Thank you Matt. This video provides so valuable input, really appreciate your work. On your point 14 tough I would like to comment: I find your verbalization, explanations, analogies and the way you put things into perspective soooo helpful! I can better understand your message, generalize it, apply it to my situation… So please, don‘t cut your videos too much!!

[@Kira_Kitty]

I really like that I can use these principles in dating and in my everyday life as well. Thank you 👍😊

[@Smileygld123]

You're such a great person. I enjoy listenjng to your advice. 😊

[@TheIcePrincess3]

Amazing content! Thank you so much Mathew ❤️ you have helped me so much through out these years. I feel like I have grown as a person together with you. I really appreciate you.

[@kalypsoasteriadis2313]

You are handsome and Kind. Thank you for so much you are giving!

[@sheillahkinz8817]

Probably my favorite video yet of yours!!! Definitely most useful ! I appreciate your work. You’ve helped me so much

[@nykkinicholeforever]

Hey Matt! Big fan! Your mind is brilliant and unique ! Gratitude for the insight!

[@anamsiddiqui3325]

O M G.. Is this only me who figured out today that He is Left Handed Person... No wonder His approach to life is sooo unique.. I Love this realization as I am hardcore lefty too..

[@Betterboundariesnowteensupport]

Aww so happy that your happy 😊 thank you for this sharing. What you've done what your comfortable.

[@zachplaysroblox8276]

Thank you for being selfless, goes to show your intelligent

[@kimiasview]

Dear Matthew thank you for your perfect video ❤️

[@UteMVogl]

Love love love your LIFE advice videos. Your Virtual Retreat last year was mind blowing! Please make more content like and - write a book about this. 🙏🏼🤩😜

[@ktm7519]

Thank you Matthew, I loved this video. So profound and one of my favorites to date. I’ve been following you from your early days. Many Blessings 🦋and Congratulations on your engagement 💖

[@amyfigueroa1911]

Matthew! One of my favorite videos so far! So generous, important and relatable.

[@sarahmcdonald9624]

Improving communication is a weapon. No question about it. Practice it daily and master it at your own risk and the risk of the people around you. Words can get people to do a lot of things.

[@sarahjeffriesart]

Really good Mathew, one of your best videos 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@Patriotgirl1130]

This is one of the BEST VIDS u have made 🙌🏻 even though I luv all of them ❤ really great advice that should be useful for everyone

[@amandarya]

Oh Matt, I love your videos especially these longer ones. Longer than 5 minutes but less than the 3 hour masterclass. Great for shower time or cooking

[@tipo5775]

One of my favorite videos so far Matthew and I've been watching you for many years. Beautiful nuggets of wisdom 🙂

[@jennifers5778]

Mass application....execute is golden. Looking forward to virtual retreat in June.

[@ranjinirajainfilm]

Thank you Matthew ❤

[@zainab.zahoor1504]

Thankyou for giving us HOPE,changing our perspectives and widening our horizons! I keep waiting for your vid's!

[@monirogue1570]

I can relate to wanting to use less words to formulate/articulate the message I want to get across. My other big issue is eye contact I've spent my whole life avoiding looking people in the eye and it has really hurt me especially in dating. I'm shy and there's some part of me that I guess fears the vulnerable feeling I get when I make eye contact...I really am trying to work on that right now. When I go to the gym I try to force myself to look in the eyes of people as I pass and smiling just to try to get used to acknowledging others around me and having a more positive and present energy.

[@mthayne1000]

Exactly what I needed to hear today. Thank you for sharing!

[@ChrisRane]

Thank you so much, Matthew. I always love your videos. This was great!

[@rusulalobaidy3354]

Dear matt I have been following you for last 5 months.I learnt a lot from you, I like your presenting ideas in your videos.i surprised when I hear your goals for this year to explain your ideas in less effective words, because it My same goal in this year.specially I am a lecturer and I need to attract my students' mind to focus and stay with me as long as they can to understand the concepts.

[@sidra5512]

Your video made my day and it’s absolutely a mini guide book to so many different principles in order to live a life with confidence and fulfilment. Thank you Matthew !!!!! ❤

[@zenarodriguez23]

I’m grateful for finding you a couple of years ago 😅. You made, and continue to make a difference in my life. Dios te bendiga ❤

[@nataliacarter437]

Amazing insights! Super helpful in life and in business! Thank you, Matthew

[@bleezygirl89]

This is exactly what i needed right now thank you Matthew!

[@kedarshinihos1732]

Thank you for this video.Going through a break up right now and have decided to focus on self-development.This video really helps.

[@yogavidasaludable]

Really powerful and useful video Mathew! Great work brothers! 🙌❤️

[@CatherineJones7]

Hi Matt, you should make a video to teach us how to use metaphors in order to say things in a new way. It will be fun! 🎉

[@kaitlynaccardo]

Thank you for sharing content that extends from relationships to business success. Please share more content like this - I think it’s not only relevant but also extremely useful. Thank you for all the value that you create and share!! Wishing you and your team the best.

[@karenfischer]

Thank you for this! This is exactly what I needed at this time in my life❤

[@jazzqueen1]

This is great video and this is very helpful to use this in certain parts of life Matt

[@Patachou_]

When a man is in love he always mentions his fiancée or wife and here is what he is starting doing more and more 😊

[@bibilym4514]

This is why I keep coming back!

[@ju88158]

Pure gold ! Thank you so much!

[@andreeas5389]

You are really amazing, I am watching your videos and I am learning sa much.❤

[@loridemetrion5048]

Powerful video! One of your best ones yet. Thank you!

[@baraujoff]

Great video! It's such a coincidence that the thing you wanna work on this year (communication) happens to be the same as me, but just know that if the video lasted hours I would still watch every minute of it. Thank you, Matt!

[@vanyamarinova]

Loved your video. Much more expanded!

[@jy.9057]

You are so inspiring Matthew.❤

[@barbrathompson9798]

Wow, thank you Matthew Brilliant advise 😃

[@TanyaNan-ps7ft]

Went to the link you suggested however the click to download doesn't appear to be operating. suggestions?

[@bluemoon8268]

… “ the iterative development process creates, tests, and revises until satisfied with the end results. You can think of an iterative process as a trial-and-error methodology that brings you closer to the end goal.” …

[@Ibel555]

Thank you 💕

[@sashabystrzhitskaya]

So great and interesting thoughts like always! Huge thank you for sharing with such a wonderful enthusiasm! but this time I couldn’t stop thinking about all these big paper lists :)

[@FamilyMatterswithAmber]

OMG! YOU MET DR. RUTH!? LOL! I literally froze and couldn't believe it and then you said, "Yes! Dr. Ruth!" lol!!!! Wow! That's very cool! Tony Robbins...Love! Saw him in person and still have my materials...an amazing motivator, speaker, and educator!

[@patric5076]

I really enjoyed this video. Thank you for giving suggestions on how we can become a better version of ourselves.

[@Manchestergirl54]

Fantastic video Matt.Some really helpful and useful tips.

[@emilyruggiero4927]

Winning segment Matthew!! So applicable to all areas of life. Well done!!

[@marlenvassil8715]

Awesome video! Thank you, Matthew