Being Single in Your 30s: Navigating Society's Timeline, Keeping Standards & Being Content | Ep 21

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[@minimalassembly7893]

I met my husband less than 2 weeks before my 36th birthday. I was not sure if it would happen up to that point and did deal with frustration towards God about the very long wait. Some family/friends recommended that I even freeze my eggs, but I felt convicted to wait. I will just say that waiting on God was worth every second of what I perceived as delay. He was working throughout that time to prepare both myself and my husband for one another. I also did not have to “settle” at all and I got everything important that I prayed for and more that I did not know I needed. God even gave my mom a vision about my future child when I was still single, which encouraged me to wait. I will be giving birth in a few months to that child. I hope that this encourages anyone in their 30’s that is contending with God about their future marriage. Pray, watch and wait.

[@freework768]

This gave me so much hope recently ending my engagement at the age of 34 to a manipulative abuser. I stayed longer than I should've out of fear and just wanting to settle down and start a family. Thank You!

[@nadiabrown3673]

Thank you for sharing!

[@mashudumunyai931]

@@freework768Sending you sisterly love and a big hugs.

[@niyat8918]

GBU for sharing your story. As a single woman who is about to turn 36 in about a week, hearing this is encouraging.

[@freework768]

Thank You! @@mashudumunyai931 ❤

[@myrandomrants]

“Just because someone goes to Church, doesn’t mean the Church is in them!” TRUTH!!!

[@silverchairsg]

Love this line

[@felzebub1762]

Hmm

[@pjvillanueva-6888]

this resonated powerfully in my life

[@thulisilekumalo4250]

33 and single. The only pressure I am feeling is to create more peace and order in my life and also to be more financially stable.

[@Jaya-unlimited847]

Amen to this.

[@bokarmangane8198]

You tell them 👏🏾

[@Vavavoum-gr8]

You don’t want kids? No offense I believe the pressure for most of us is that part. I will be 33 in a few months If it wasn’t for that, I really wouldn’t care

[@Didi-fr5ic]

@@Vavavoum-gr8 but now you are already falling into the pressure of having children, so you will settle for a man and have a baby so you need to be careful and stop letting society pressure you, woman are allowed to have children later, men will always seek woman who are desperate and not to be rude, you sound desperate

[@Healthylifelex]

I just got married last month and I’m 32. I wanted to be married a while ago but I needed to work on myself. I lost 60 lbs, did some therapy, and my mother kept telling me start praying for a spouse. She was praying too unbeknownst to me. I moved back to Las Vegas (I’m from Atlanta), I got on the apps and met my husband by the end of the week. Prayer changes things. Gods timeline of writing my love story Moved back to Vegas: April 2022 Met my now husband: May 2022 Became official: August 2022 Met each others families: Dec 2022 He preposed: July 2023 We got married: Sept 2023 Please stay encouraged, I met my husband after 30. After watching others get married, instead of being envious I always said to myself “I’m next”. I just kept saying that. God changed my life in the blink of an eye. God bless everyone. ❤

[@Claudia-yc8xk]

Thankyou for this, so encouraging. X

[@leeche87]

Which app was that :)

[@Healthylifelex]

@@leeche87 Hi, we matched on two apps. Bumble and Upward

[@Yahookudi]

thats beautiful!

[@RizzyGyatt]

prayer didnt do shit lol

[@gigi4143]

I love these kinda of conversations. The struggle is soo intense sometimes, I'm 32 and I honestly feel my body wanting to make a baby. My hormones are all over the place, you just want that hug, that cuddle and when you are married you just that loving. It's sooo real. My thoughts sometimes are often unclean and it's hard. But I'm trying, and praying every night for God to help me.

[@ashleyjones4323]

Same sis, except I'm 31. The struggle is definitely real and my hormones are on another level the older I get 🥴

[@mercymunee2366]

It's a relief to know I am not the only one. I am going through the exact thing.

[@chickenjoe20]

Same thing with me and I’m 35

[@Magnifycollective]

We love the honesty in your comment - if we're being transparent, that's how a lot of us feel

[@mulengakabwe8265]

I'm honestly so blessed by the raw conversations. Normally these are things we are all struggling with and yet we feel so shameful to even share

[@lowkey_babe77]

Delphine’s transparency and responses are so commendable

[@erikabright]

Been avoiding this video for 7days thinking its same old story but after watching, it resonates with me. In my 30's, re-dedicated my life to Christ 3years ago, single and waiting on God for marriage. 2years praying for my future husband but sometimes the hormones are something else as I go older. I just want to feel loved, serve the Lord with him and carry his babies.

[@pearliengcongo3584]

These women dress so well omg. The green striped dress and then the pearl earrings with black shirt wow absolutely gorgeous!

[@norambee4347]

Like 💯💯💯

[@Claudia-yc8xk]

I LOVED this episode. People really don't talk about the challenges of being a single Christian in your 30s, it is very hard. I just want to encourage everyone to stay in the will of God and trust that he listens and he cares. This year I have been in a relationship with a non believer, I know for a fact this man is not for me yet I compromised alot out of comfortability and loneliness. I also broke my 3 year celibacy ( if I'm being transparent). My soul was genuinely conflicted each time I saw him cause I knew this man was not for me yet I kept forcing it and forcing it, I was warned multiple times and ignored. This ended up in such a horrible heart break and having to rebuild myself once again. Ladies it's not worth ! Stay in prayer, seek God and trust that he loves you enough not to let you settle. X

[@raylule6990]

Thank u sis❤

[@nthabelengntsane]

❤

[@Claudia-yc8xk]

@@raylule6990 love x

[@Claudia-yc8xk]

@@nthabelengntsane love x

[@Gomlie1970]

Thank you ❤❤❤❤❤

[@jessrosewillis]

It was the line for me “you’re golden, get out on the dance floor of life - just keep living” Many need to hear this 🙏🙏🙏

[@tirhza]

Just turned 30 this year! I’ve been praying for my husband since I was 16 years old. I always thought I was going to be married before 30, this year I was able to let that go and realize that God’s plan is not what I expected it to be. Waiting is hard, but having that little mustard seed of hope of knowing that he will do it for me one day and that it will be good! ❤️🙏🏽

[@sbusisiweshaba1715]

Amen

[@KimDynamite]

Amen May it happen for all of us

[@aifuaifu5222]

I said WOW too! Joy does not look 47! She looks to be in her early 30s. Very beautiful and confident

[@brittanyh9593]

47?!

[@mashudumunyai931]

It’s shocking hey? She looks way younger than 47

[@ireland278]

😂😅really

[@fdoctor79]

As a 44-year-old woman, I resonated with and appreciated this conversation. Yes, my identity is in Christ and my maker is my husband. Being both single and married is a blessing with different priorities. Maximize the season God has you in! Tfs

[@Magnifycollective]

"Maximize the season God has you in!' Absolutely!

[@HamiltonRowan-r6z]

I am single for life. Not my choice. I am a literal eunuch and I will never marry. But I am sad that I am unable to marry when I see my brothers and sisters with their families and I will never experience this. I accept my condition, but I am not happy about it. My poor health prohibits me from being very active in outreach and other ministries.

[@3naturalsbyJae]

“Use Gods mirror to see yourself” an important line to embed in your everybeing 🥰🙏🏾

[@ayanaondar7381]

What a beautiful talk ❤ thanks so much for encouraging! I am 34, single lady and so far I have been trying to enjoy my singleness. There are ups and downs; I want to grow more in knowing Jesus and knowing His heart towards me ❤

[@bi26]

Give a raise to your sound person, they do a fantastic job - sound is always on point! Keep it coming

[@ForMySoulSistas]

I'm 32, single and celibate since 2016 and it's been hard... I resonated with: - knowing your identity and self worth in God - being excited to go on a date instead of scared, desperate and in a hurry to get married - sometimes the guy is good on paper but there's no spark/attraction/fun. - "just get on the dancefloor of life" : this is for me - your passion/purpose keeps you busy and joyful and this joy is attractive for a man - being open to being surprised and flexible with standards These are good reminders And I wasn't expecting Joy to be 47!

[@gigi4143]

Omggg this is me 32..single and holding on to God.

[@ForMySoulSistas]

@@gigi4143 ikr the struggle is real... But God is faithful 🙏🏾

[@Magnifycollective]

We need a daily reminder to get on the dance floor of life 💃

[@caribbeanflora2119]

Celibate since 2015. I thought I was the only one also in my 30s. Sometimes I feel so left out and alone. I been trying dating but it's been alot of love bombing then ghosting and just disappointment. Trying to hold on to what I know is right. While trying to not be jealous of everyone who is just living their life. This seems like such a burden sometimes.

[@ForMySoulSistas]

@@caribbeanflora2119 I defo feel the same sometimes especially when I meet a good guy I want to compromise but I think about Isaac and Ishmael and the consequences of doing things my own way, it's not worth it. Plus my mom and sis are single moms so I gotta do something different to have a different outcome. Felt very good to read your comment sis 💜let's hang on to God 🙏🏾

[@JayneBishung]

I love Delphine's responses. I could relate when she talked about her pressure... having lots of weddings to attend and then engagements etc. Currently in that phase. I am glad I listened to this. Thank you!

[@nabuboolophiona2433]

The same here

[@Magnifycollective]

Thank you for tuning in! 📺

[@Jenn4rmblk]

As a 32 year old single. Delphine has said everything I am feeling and currently going through. I could not understand for the longest time is why my secular friends were thriving and receiving everything that I’ve been praying God for for years.

[@flexster5385]

I hear you! I think as Christians we sometimes feel entitled to marriage and struggle to understand why non-Christians get good things as well. God has convicted me of this and realised my ego makes me feel more “deserving” than others cause I try so hard

[@sharonoloya]

This for me has been one of the best episodes so far. I love how both women articulated and executed themselves during this conversation. So authentic and something many of us can relate to ❤👏🏾

[@Magnifycollective]

Too relatable for a lot of us!

[@ifewitlovegodslove]

Turning 30 next week, still single and my ever thoughtful big sis decided to share this video with me 😊 trusting GOD on this journey. GOD’S best is worth waiting for. It’s not easy waiting, but I’d rather wait than regret. Grateful to be surrounded by those who understand how it is to be single in one’s 30s especially as a Believer who’s trying to please GOD.

[@helenefollesdal479]

Happy birthday to you! I too was single for many many years and did a whole bunch of inner work before meeting my now boyfriend (and father of our two children) at 30. Keep believing and trusting, and allow God to do his magic :D

[@Robyn18SMiLiY]

Saaaamme I’m 30 on the 12th and I feel this video was from God I’ve been really struggling the last two months of who I am but I am now praying more so for peace and to trust in God! Not to idolise a relationship but to find joy in everything praying without giving up but also asking God to reveal more of me to me so I can change and grow for my husband! We got this!

[@upamast]

I'm a Muslim woman who's nearing 30, and I resonate with this so much! It gets easier to deal with societal pressures once you realize that it's always been you and God -- everything else is secondary. God will take care of you and guide you to what's best for you, so "get on the dance floor of Life" (as Joy says) and keep doing you! Everything's gonna work out for the best ❤

[@winnieh834]

Wish you well

[@elizabethnnadi5013]

This episode is so relatable...The pressure is too much

[@Magnifycollective]

The pressure is getting worser

[@margaretachieng2447]

This is beautiful and encouraging to watch. Watching from Uganda. "Comparison is the thief of joy." And the Lord is our joy in all seasons.

[@RedeemedMo]

Watching from Uganda too❤

[@shaznewa752]

Joy married at 39 is so inspiring. She seems God really made her in her singleness, just like he made eve.. The way she speaks, carries herself and matures is so MARRIAGE.

[@rammy5879]

I pray for healing🙏🏽. The fact that I’m still so upset right now whilst listening to this means I haven’t fully healed. Was with him through out my late 20s. I’m 30 now.. This video feels so real and therapeutic. Thank You ☺️

[@tamarabello]

Right now, I know this isn't my season to date but establishing my identity after my divorce. I am actually liking this season of being single.

[@Magnifycollective]

Contentment is 🔑

[@Vavavoum-gr8]

I have stopped using social media because it triggers me so much I can’t watch people be happy in relationships when it’s something I desperately want 😢

[@norambee4347]

Just have a one-on-one chat with the Holy Spirit and tell him exactly how you feel. That has helped me and it's still helping

[@Robotron5000Deluxe]

Have you thought about about getting a cat? I've seen some of these types of videos where the women say they have a pet cat which helped them. It may help you as well.

[@yovannymarie]

@@Robotron5000Deluxe the only thing cats do is keep you from committing suicide because of depression because you worry about them. Your still going to be lonely and feel forgotten

[@maa13693]

So many golden nuggets in this conversation, Joy gave us a word about the dance floor of life. Love it ❤

[@honeyjantjies8253]

I resonate with Delphine so much, I am 31 years old I often feel so alone because I've been single and waiting for so long and it definitely is a struggle. I often ask God why I'm in the situation that I'm in because I've been faithful and waiting on him.

[@pjvillanueva-6888]

wow please never stop making videos thank you for this.

[@linteo]

I’m crying ladies,, this is soo timely😢 you just spoke to a sister from across the world…. God has been soo good to me, financial stability, good academic achievements, loving family BUT my personal life took on a life of its own. Left pregnant by a man I was hoping to marry me. 3 years later, grew my faith, single mom with my boy who’s suspected of autism… been celibate for 3 years. Overall God me peace as I’m still navigating my healing journey

[@Whitt_Ana]

Going to be 34 in another week, still single, still unmarried and no kids. No prospects. I have been praying and asking God to please bring me a mate. A companion, life partner and a husband. I also ask god to send me friends. The lord isn’t budging but it is okay because I am trying to grow in him everyday. I joined my churches praise and worship team so that I can apart of ministry. It feels awkward sometimes because there is not many single men and women at this church. And I mean completely single without children. I feel like some of the women do not want to get close to me because I’m single and they are married. No I’m not out for your husband. I am here for God. It is truly hard to be a single woman at this time. They are looking at me like you’re 30 with no kids or husband😮. I can feel it.

[@EmpressLope]

I love every bit of this conversation!❤ Get on the dance floor of life and live with God directing you. Work on yourself while you wait!

[@sarah2853]

Thank you so much for this video! It’s really not talked about enough (most of the conversation is around just generally meeting people/dating, but not specifically about being in 30s). I am 34, run my own business, have always followed my heart, and travelled and lived heaps. Right now Im just taking a 15 day solo trip to spend a few days with my sister and niece, and also two close friends. However, when nights are quiet I also feel like I really want to have that person, and fear being old and alone. But this video gave me great energy - I love the black woman and her mentality - having the confidence and just living life on her own terms.

[@simpleslowlife2158]

Thank u, delphine, for sharing n reflecting in the midst of ongoing singleness! It makes her words more relatable.

[@mejoooo__]

1.When Eve met Adam, she was "whole" That's an intense truth. Our period of singlehood is actually a preparation stage for you to be who God wants you to be before He presents you to your partner. 2. The intentionality about dating. Wow 3. I can totally relate with the faith of the person being an important factor. I tell my friends my first look out is to know if my partner has the fear of God and a relationship. Because i strongly believe that anyone with the fear of God will treat his partner like Christ loved the church. Funny enough, most people don't agree completely with this and make it seem i will wait forever.

[@kala7347]

I absolutely loved this whole thing. This rush for women to be wives and not have identity or a life beforehand on their own is so common. Seems like we spend our singleness focused on marriage and then when women get married, they don’t even know who they are and can’t live without their husbands. It’s okay to be your own person while experiencing life with someone else. These conversations spark the new ideas🩷

[@dize3672]

I love the honesty, integrity and values of these fabulous women! Thank you ladies for your insight and honesty.

[@devika2024]

Passion, emotional attraction, conviction and suitability

[@patiencemabule4988]

Thank you for the timely word ..the posture of my heart was challenged today and exposed to do better

[@thelimitdoesnotexist2705]

Joys name was divinely inspired! Her words brought me so much clarity, hope and joy! I was in tears through most this conversation, it really brought my emotions to the front and i finally feel seen and its very healing.

[@MaryGodwin1]

All the talks offer amazing insights, but I have to say this conversation resonated greatly with me. May God’s grace us with the capacity to maintain our integrity, dignity and faith as we wait for Him to transition us in any area of lives 🙏

[@onyinyechiihe8965]

Authentic, beautiful, lovely, relatable. Thank you so much Joy, Delphine and Team Maginfy. GOD bless you all❤

[@getreadygetreadygetready4534]

This was so worthwhile, such graceful, wise women, thank you so much Magnify for this episode

[@joannaowoses7769]

I am grateful to God for this community...to know I'm definitely not alone and that it's pretty OK to be content in one's single season and really just focus on God and oneself. I've learned so much and I thank you all for being transparent and honest ❤

[@kendrafeels]

This was SO good. I love that you asked how you reconcile with God amid the frustration that comes with the waiting period. Such insightful, relatable stories that I needed more than you all know. Can we do a part 2!?!

[@raveenanaidoo5738]

27 here and I felt this sm!!! Life can be so foggy & these kinds of conversations give me some sense of self worth and clarity! Amazing job ladies.

[@kayizziritah3029]

From Uganda, thank you ladies I enjoy your channel, always refreshing to feed my soul. Thank you

[@orianabolivar6768]

It's so refreshing seeing women of faith talking about this with so much dignity and wisdom. You are all gems. This channel is pure gold. Thank you 💖

[@sherifaadenmosun2512]

Sharing powerful stories in these conversations help women to feel seen and understood. Some seasons in life are gruelling. I loved listening to Joy and Delphine's lived experience is powerful. Great authentic episode.

[@folushoajayi]

Amazing episode. Thank you Joy and Delphine, really learnt a lot as someone still in their 20s. God bless you ladies and grateful for this platform ❤

[@Magnifycollective]

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[@marie-clairetakura754]

I'm also in my 20s and I'm grateful to have come across this episode. I've chosen to date with intentionality and put God first. It's not easy dating in this day and age.

[@shannysfreshbakes3374]

Watching from Africa .. Nairobi Kenya I'm exited n waiting for the impacting information.. God bless 🙏

[@Magnifycollective]

Let us know your favourite nugget of wisdom after you've finished watching 💭

[@Momo_Mo781]

Please address the topic of sexual purity in the next "Being Single in your 20s, 30s or older" - love your content - so helpful

[@paulinatuffour9733]

This channel was divinely sent to me.Learning a whole lot though we are miles apart.I love how basic yet real the topics are and so relatable. GOD BLESS YOU

[@yushi911]

Women had evolved, but this crucial period has just been postponed from the 20’s to 30’s. I doubt it will go further to the 40´s as event if we improve fertility process, reducing a pregnancy risk is always better. I’m 45, happy in my coupe and had a beautiful son. We deal with 7 years of fertility issue, our journey to have a family wasn’t easy. But i have a beautiful family now. Our friends becomes parents way before us even if we were the oldest couple among our friends. That being said, our friends reach their mid-40 as well and they are mostly divorced and dealing with kids custody. Relationship is never easy. All I can say is, with the time I become more comprehensive and empathetic towards peoples as life is really 50 shades of grey…nothing is black or white.

[@mirriammalalakabalo3860]

I just turned 28! And oh wow I was greeted with,” you’re becoming older” by my mom and turning a year old made me go through a little downtime I should add but looking at women that walked this path is so empowering and motivating. Indeed God has a plan for all of us.

[@vivian.eni.official]

Just because Somme one goes to church doesn’t mean the church is in them 💥. Thanks Joy!

[@みすず-h4t]

I love this episode. Thank you for encouraging me. From Japan.

[@katherine_art05]

Thank you. I love this beautiful interview! two different perspectives. 🥰

[@mazikode6697]

What an inspiring conversation. I am really encouraged to start living my life and enjoying it as opposed to holding back on things because I think I could be married in the next X years. Thank you ladies for the gift of your vulnerability.

[@lindaadofo8333]

This is so so good So so relatable Thank you for having this conversation You have no idea how this has blessed me, not to talk of the many others blessed too God bless you

[@43cassy]

Thank you! Delphine you pretty much nailed every experience and the healing journey I have been going through these past few years. Grateful to you & Joy for sharing your stories and learning lessons. All the best on your journey!✨

[@itsruthellen_]

Thank you ladies for sharing your experiences with us! it feels so good hearing you speak about similar experiences to me. I feel a lot less lonely and more hopeful and ultimately ready to live a joyful life as a single woman!! THANK YOU!!

[@laurenmchon-lopez9865]

I’m so glad this was such a POSITIVE conversation. Folks out there, I’m 31 as a Christian woman looking to jump back into dating. I went through a tough breakup and took time to heal and fall into God’s arms. He has filled my life so abundantly that I don’t feel dissatisfied. God blesses singleness and relationships. Make the most of what God brings, and fill your life with great community and fulfilling activities (all while pursuing God). If I end up never marrying I’ll be fine 😌 I trust God to provide through it all!!

[@MeiLingLeong-y5l]

Thank you for an enriching and uplifting conversation around this. I so identified with so much of what you ladies shared, they're conversations that I have with my friends a lot. What we come to the conclusion is, that as you say, we are all wonderfully and fearfully made, and God has a purpose for each one of us. Our job is to live that purpose well. Of course, there are times when we can feel frustrated when our 'dreams' don't seem to come about, and have so many questions about it, but God always has better. I look on my 30s so far (I'm 37), and I can honestly say that God's plans are so much better than mine. He has given me so many opportunities to understand my identity in Him, to serve Him, to do so much travel and adventures, make wonderful friends, grow in my confidence in myself and who I am (my faith, passions, joys, friends, family, character), that I really do love my life, and realising also what I don't want to compromise on. I love what you say, about "operating from a place of abundance, not scarcity", because when I look at my life, I am blessed to have so so so much, all because of what Jesus has done for me, us all... I also identify about dating with intentionality when older. And it really is hard to say 'no' when a 'potential' relationship seems good on paper, but deep down, something in your soul doesn't quite sit right. Keep immersing ourselves in God's mighty Word, lean on His truth, obey it, get used to hearing His voice, and see where God leads. Then we will know that what is here right now in front of us, is right where we're supposed to be. God bless this ministry and all who listen, watch and read this channel! :)

[@WendyWatta]

I love these converations, navigated from a Christian perspective. Glad I came across this channel. It's very needed.

[@MsEsther09]

I really enjoyed listening to this conversation. Well done Joy! 🙌🏾💖

[@mejoooo__]

I am so thankful for the very first day I was led to your channel. God bless y'all for impacting lives. Love you Magnify❤

[@Jennifer-vp2ov]

I stumbled across this video. And wow. I’m only half way through it and you guys have dropped so many gems!!

[@aureliere]

This was a refreshing conversation on being authentic to your journey and listening to that still small voice. Thank you for a great convo!! Subbed ❤

[@sapphiredeanna146]

This was a healing conversation. Thank you ladies.

[@azinielferreira3610]

Hearing this conversation is really so helpful to me. Im in very difficult situation now and I'm trying to figure out what im doing and whitch step im going to take... i really appreciate. It came in right time. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾Thank you all for sharing your thoughts and experiences with us. God bless you all.

[@Yoshijudd]

I’m 33 and still single. Living with 5 dogs and I love my life, but there’s always this nagging feeling about me still being single at this age. All my cousins and siblings are already married, except for me. I also feel the pressure to have a baby as the “clock ticks away” 🙄 ugh. 😣

[@shaznewa752]

God carries your biological clock

[@Jenn4rmblk]

@@shaznewa752so true. I love this❤

[@nyuuuchan]

same age, same here... I feel you 💜

[@Chamsiee]

Thabk you so much for making this conversation. I needed to hear this. ❤

[@ezeabigail7556]

I can so much relate to Delphine experiences, wow I'm not alone. This is inspirational thanks you ladies

[@jelenanedelkovski]

Thanks to these women for their vulnerability and openness. ❤ So brave and needed. 🙏

[@joyleneonyango7256]

I truly needed this. It's difficult to accept that sometimes everything about a person is right but its just not God's will or His best

[@priscillachinsembu4669]

Am currently at that place where this is a good person but something in my heart is saying this ain't it😁

[@Demifan39]

Yes don’t hold back someone else’s husband let him go and let God lead.

[@janemarie7332]

i am glad to watch this conversation, 32 and still single. this and i also ask god "what about me?" especially now i am stuggling get a job and also wanting to fulfill my dream to become a wife and to be a mother. and it this conversation feels like an assurance to from god as a reminder for me. so thank you. this really means alot. ❤

[@ifyalexis]

I love Joy! Thank you for this episode 🤎

[@menelliavalcent]

Oh I loved this conversation. I resonated with so much and gained insight from both ladies.

[@chibuzor1787]

Bring Back JOY! Love her and her words

[@zenretbakle1848]

I really appreciate this episode. I wish i could like it twice. ❤

[@ketiwe5]

Wow Joy really touched me. I needed this. Thank you Joy.

[@mablekapanda3052]

Wow this is beautiful am really glad I watched to the end of this video, have learned so much and I'm so Grateful for everything you guys talked about. You've given me a big picture to always appreciate God in every season am in.. Indeed is time is the best. God bless you thank you so much.

[@BeStillandKnow0000]

I received so much value from this conversation. Thank you

[@newid10]

I loved the optimism from Joy. However what I would say is, how a person deals with singleness also depends a lot on what else is going on in their life. It sounds like Joy’s life was already very full and successful which is perhaps why singleness was a positive time for her. It should be borne in mind that some people have a very different experience in terms of what else is going on in their life

[@laurenb7537]

@newid10 SO TRUE! Sounds like she was able to travel and “live her best life”. But for some of us there are financial, health, or other challenges that make the season even more difficult, frustrating, and lonely. When You don’t have the “distraction” of fun trips, a successful business, and a solid community, etc.- it can get really rough some days. There’s beauty in the solitude with God, but it’s not always a “fun” season.

[@NameiEnnie]

But people have had the things she had and still been empty... I think no matter your position, pray to be content. Cause like she said if she begins to look down on her life and compare. It's equivalent to her not believing God has done right by her. And just cause someone carries something well doesn't mean it's not heavy you know.

[@flexster5385]

Financial pressures and health issues don’t go away when you get married lol. Let’s not forget that you’ll bring those same issues with you into a marriage

[@laurenb7537]

@@flexster5385 you’re absolutely right. My point was that facing those things in a single season vs not facing those things in a single season can make the season more difficult. When you’re able to live your best life as a single (having successful entrepreneurial pursuits, a community of believers, finances, travel, etc.), you’re going to have a very different experience than a single who isn’t able to do those things (someone in an isolated season, financial difficulties, health challenges, wilderness experience, etc.). I agree with @newid10 that it’s important to acknowledge this. Some singles don’t have a season of “contentment” and fun, and that’s okay too. For some singles- the season is much more challenging and full of spiritual battles (just like for some people, their marriage season is much more difficult).

[@newid10]

@@flexster5385 sorry but it is much easier dealing with health and financial issues when you have someone walking beside you to help you

[@ellona3645]

I'm turning 25, never been pursued by a guy. It does make me wonder if I'll ever get married but also I do want someone who has relationship with God.

[@marydossi5358]

Men will come it's just a matter of time.

[@joannaogundana9027]

I’m about to be 24 no guy has pursued me either but if God has not said that you will not marry then know that a guy will come who is from him.

[@mariahale8630]

Thank you for this panel Magnify! So valuable on so many levels!

[@ruthtangbau2075]

Thank you for this conversation and it has encouraged me a lot 🎉❤

[@delphine19891]

Delphine, not only do we share the same name but our stories are very similar. I thank God for this video. Stay blessed. 💛🙏🏼

[@BecomingSabrinaG]

This video was so relatable

[@nguhiwamwangi210]

This conversation was so eye opening because we had views that were diverse yet spoke so intimately to my heart and where I am at, thankyou for this conversation, very timely for me 😊

[@carolewarrenrealtor]

So much "power" in their words ... totally enjoyed the message and wisdom from these lovely ladies. Thank you for sharing 😊

[@Shandu129]

I love the vulnerability the are all sharing their story so openly

[@ericawhite1722]

This was amazing!! I connected with this conversation so clearly. Thank you, Magnify! For this space.

[@vivian.eni.official]

Joy you look stunning (as always). Hair and dress combo is 💥

[@L0VEisAmixtape]

This is a LOVELY conversation. I love the good attitudes of the women on the panel.

[@Mindsetolympics]

the anoiting on these women is SO TANGIBLEE!!! 44:30 these ladies are on a roll!!! So encouraging thank you. I always go to the book of Hannah when she prayed for a baby