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[@themore-you-know]

An equal amount of men feel used regarding women who engage in casual sex: - Men are placed in the friendzone and feel used, but emotionally exploited as friends while they watch the girls they like romp out every other tall dude that they then cry about on the friend's shoulder. I'll always remember that exploitative message I got 2 years later: "Where are you when I need you?" - My silent thoughts: "(deserved curse word), I was there 4 years and you sent me down a depression. You never deserved me as a friend or anything else, and I should have realized that 2 weeks in."

[@Coach__B]

I learned a loooong time ago to not waste time with women friends. I have a wife, a mom, and 2 sisters. Every other woman has been a work colleague at most.

[@stevegilliver5104]

It looks like you are trying to normalize the exception. Men really are indifferent to the women they "hook up" with. I find human behavior fascinating especially the difference between men and women. I have never felt or even heard of a man who has felt "used". How could he feel used, he got laid! Mission accomplished. Also men don't cry on another man's shoulder, we just ain't wired that way. We generally do something like going fishing or mountain biking and process any problems we have that way. It's like you are trying to look at a Mans view of the world through a woman's filter... It just doesn't work. Modern feminism is promoting women to be more promiscuous. But generally, that's exactly what men want. Even at my age casual sex is not difficult... But as I say, just don't expect a call the next day.

[@charlieweaver6322]

@@stevegilliver5104 If you re-read his comment, he clearly states that men who are in the Friendzone feel used, as they should, when their 'friend' has casual sex with men who are not him. But yes, you are right, that men don't generally feel used after having sex. They usually feel pretty damn good.

[@stevegilliver5104]

@@charlieweaver6322.. my mistake. That will teach me not to jump to conclusions when reading late at night. Thank you.

[@incarnate1]

Being placed in the friendzone is not remotely equatable to the video's point. You are trying to compare the disappointment from lack of sex to disappointment from lack of commitment. These are different expectations, enforcing the video's message. I don't understand why this comment has so many upvotes.

[@theoutlander5776]

Remember ladies.... feminism told you, you would like this....... it was the patriarchy who told you to remain a virgin until marriage.

[@johnwhauserman]

Remember ladies.... feminism told you, you would like this... it was the patriarchy who told you to remain a virgin until marriage. You decide who lied to you.

[@Kashban]

@@kmc1872 we did. Now look at the results.

[@tanyajackson622]

i love sex, not a virgin when i married, nor was my husband. Happy marriage, happy kids x

[@overtimedemo4399]

​@@tanyajackson622did you invite all the dudes that hit it before the "marriage" too your wedding?

[@sofiabravo1994]

@@overtimedemo4399her husband was promiscuous too, even if men don’t get attached the same way it still doesn’t justify him either. Fornication is destructive.

[@mosespray4510]

Thank you for another excellent podcast. I'm an old married guy now, but my experiences as a twenty-something back in the 80's showed me that the male beneficiaries of casual sex represent a small portion of the male population: 10% of guys receive 90% of the casual sex in the "marketplace." I was in so many friend zones that I could barely count them, and I recall some revealing statements from some of these "friends." One of them told me that it was her goal to date a varsity athlete from every sport. Another told me (this was in medical school) that she saw a picture of me before I rotated to her department, and she thought I was hot until she found out I was short (I'm 5'7"). It never has occurred to me to say something equivalent to that statement to a woman. And then there's the moaning of these women to us zoned guys about poor treatment at the hands of the dudes they dated/boinked. I was a kind and honorable young man who would have been overjoyed to have had a long-term relationship with just one of these women. Later, when I became a practicing physician, I was suddenly attractive. As Alexander Grace pointed out in one of his videos, women following their own free will tend to form harems around a small number of high status men. The rest of us dudes did not ask for this, believe me. Thankfully, there are some great women out there that don't behave that way, but I wanted to point out that the male side of this casual sex thing isn't all it's cracked up to be.

[@EmeraldEdge72]

When you became a practicing physician is basically a tie-in with female narcissism. Most of them have this Uniform verification standard like you don't exist until you have dawned a uniform like doctor, cop, manager, CEO, rapper, athlete, or entertainer. They are attracted to authority in many ways, but guys are not attracted to authority at all it does nothing for us.

[@mosespray4510]

@@EmeraldEdge72 You're right. We are attracted to beauty.

[@pchab1966]

Couldn't agree more. It's a small percentage doing the damage and causing all the ruckus. Women love to compare notes on the daily in their social lives, and even women who have a pretty good or great relationship on their hands will encounter a story or two to provoke envy/jealousy/discontent, etc. and the issues start creeping in. If a man doesn't know how to tend to the garden daily and skillfully the weeds will grow quick and choke out the relationship. The problem these days is that feminism has made women think that a man tending to his garden is "controlling" and you know no "liberated woman" wants to be "controlled"!

[@tomstulc9143]

10% of the man are getting six from 90% of the women!!!

[@justsomeguy934]

Listening to Suzanne describe the state of marriage and trust and sex is like listening to a really really good reporter describe the sinking of the Titanic in real time. There's nothing you can do about it, it's going to sink, and you may actually know the true cause of the ship going down. But you cannot stop it sinking, all you can do is avoid getting on the Titanic as its headed towards the iceberg.

[@joejoejoejoejoejoe4391]

The only thing you can do is head for the lifeboats, oh unless you're a man. Dam that oppressive patriarchy.

[@itsapittie]

The thing I find most problematic about this situation is that a woman will have casual sex, find she can't avoid the emotional consequences, and then blame the man or even all men for the outcome. She made a conscious decision and the man took it at face value. He's not responsible for the fact that the outcome wasn't acceptable to her. We all make mistakes, sometimes really big ones. The healthy response is to learn from them and determine not to do that again. Having had casual sex once or a hundred times doesn't mean she has to continue in that pattern. It's perfectly possible to decide casual sex isn't appropriate for her and thereafter only have sex in the context of a committed relationship.

[@hanswurscht6625]

Yeah, and the most pathetic thing about it is that lots of guys actually are interested in something serious when young, but most of them get ghosted, so they find something more worthwhile to do. Then, at 30, there's no one left to get serious with. And then they wonder and complain about childish men not willing to grow up. Like we're supposed to wait for her until she's had her fun.

[@sergioreindorf909]

And there in lies the rub 'It's perfectly possible to decide casual sex isn't appropriate for her and thereafter only have sex in the context of a committed relationship.' I don't know of any serious men of value who will accept such a woman now demanding commitment before sex when she gave it away for free before.

[@doomguy9049]

@@hanswurscht6625 exactly right

[@doomguy9049]

@@sergioreindorf909 yeah someone needs to be woman enough to really impress that upon her younger sisters BEFORE they go learn the hard way. I think Suzanne here is doing an admirable job at it but it's got to be done at an individual family level.

[@graywalkerjoin3rdparty74]

@@doomguy9049 Women HAVE been told this before. All their lives. Many prefer to believe the myth Womanism has perpetuated that it isn't true. When they find out the hard way, often it is too late.

[@kaiserpuppydog7174]

😆 Women are oblivious that "I've had my fun, now it's time to get serious" is the funniest and yet most insulting thing they can say to a man that never experienced her "fun" but whom they expect will commit and provide to her. They can be so hilarious!

[@NattyGymBro]

Right? They think good men are just sitting around waiting for them to be done with their heaux phase to wife them up. Nope! Once a heaux, always a heaux.

[@pivot197]

Women think that they can sample tons of men and whoever gets to marry her is the lucky one. “Look…all these men wanted me, but I want you forever…you’re the lucky one.” This attitude disgusts men.

[@MrEpz4321]

Also having anal from a hookup. Then refusing anal even after you married her. How is that okay?

[@fdblade1529]

Yep...they're saying "all those other guys got it for free, but I want you to commit and pay for it". Totally dillusional.

[@darriuscole8544]

@@pivot197 - That's because women are projecting how they feel onto men. A women wants a man who has had and can still have all the girls in town, but forgets all these women in order to settle down with her. Women assume that a man would judge a woman like a woman would judge a man, which is the most incorrect assumption ever. A woman who has had all the guys in town would repulse a man to the core of his soul.

[@joejoejoejoejoejoe4391]

The main difference between men and women regretting sex is women can send the man to jail for her own regrets.

[@graywalkerjoin3rdparty74]

@Oldie But Goodie Metoo

[@saltandfaith]

Cry

[@saltandfaith]

Lol so when the guy forces themselves onto you they shouldn’t go to jail? Women get raped believe it or not. The comment section on this women’s podcast is disgusting.

[@joejoejoejoejoejoe4391]

@@saltandfaith Do y know what a false aligation is?

[@sonofthesOUth77]

@@saltandfaithkick rocks

[@Ortholocks]

“The more you have casual sex, the less important it is to be in love with the guy” reads as “the more you have casual sex the more you damage your soul, your self worth, and your conscious, and become numb to this damage that you are inflicting upon yourself.”

[@reginasemenenko148]

I admit I didn't have a chance to listen to all of this, so I hope my comments fit the topic presented. My Mother was not my best friend, but she was a very protective, intelligent and loving parent to her five children. She ran a very tight ship and she actually raised us instead of letting us find out on our own. She told me that under NOOOOOOO circumstances whatsoever should I EVER have sex with anyone before marriage. That meant abstinence until marriage. She taught my four brothers the same thing, but in a different way. This was part of her Methodist upbringing and she was raised in the deep south. She told me that the RIGHT MAN would NEVER pressure me to do anything that was against my religious views. Apparently there are dating "coaches" that teach both men and even some women how to take advantage of the opposite sex. There are women who want to date bad boys and men who want to sleep with as many women as possible before finally settling down with a virgin on her 18th birthday. I'm glad that my very straight-laced, southern Mother's teaching prevented me from trusting men who were not truly interested in me. My mother also taught me flattery and deception. Watching his actions over T-I-M-E is how one discovers character for anyone. Her teaching is still true today. She told me that many men (not all) will take as much as they can get and that my body was not for sale under any circumstances. She never permitted me to dress in tight, revealing clothes because she thought of that as false "advertising". Over the top? Maybe. I told her I had a very boring life and I wish I had a Mom who was fun. That was a horrible thing to say and I apologized for it years later. Without her teaching I'm sure I would have made many mistakes. Her years of teaching really paid off at university. She wouldn't allow me to live on campus because 18-year old girls and boys are not grown just because they've graduated high school. The guys I dated in college figured out very quickly that I wasn't giving anything out for free and they moved on to other girls who didn't have my reservations. That was a blessing! I wasn't sad at all because I knew the type of man that I wanted. I stopped dating until I found a man who didn't want me to "break my rules." THAT was the man that I married and I would have remained single had I not met him. We reached the third date and there was no pressure. We reached more dates and he had no expectations. THAT is called R-E-S-P-E-C-T! My respect and admiration for him increased as he modeled character and integrity. Sex should never be casual, but human beings find ways to rationalize things. My Mother also taught my brothers that they should not have sex before marriage and three of my four brothers took her advice. My husband and I will celebrate our tenth anniversary in March this year.

[@jamesosborne1286]

Congrats!!! Good to hear.

[@robertdevoy3119]

What if you found out he had a micro p3 nis on the honeymoon and you could not get arousal or satisfaction from it, would you want your sons to inherit that condition?

[@Fusomeister]

@@robertdevoy3119 "Sex should never be casual, but human beings find ways to rationalize things.". You're doing the thing Regina said you shouldn't.

[@professionalpookie]

Not reading this crap

[@jamesrobertsonrobertson5690]

Feminists, are you listening, this is for you!! However, Suzanne, I do have to call you out on one thing: not every man wants sex with every woman he sees, because very few men do mature as we grow older and realize that women "think" that they don't need a man to be happy, and that there are men who do want to be needed!! ❤ the video!!

[@pharaohhermenthotip1553]

But why must she "need" you? As a man, I've never related to this sentiment. Your sense of identity shouldn't depend on validation from others. Be your own man! A relationship formed through mutual desire is more genuine than one based on strict necessity because the former is rooted in freedom, which means that, insofar as you both could've chosen otherwise, the feelings are genuine, whereas the latter is forced, unnatural and false

[@anthonywarren1317]

Kmc not true. Your missing the biological nature of things....

[@eliesh3833]

​@@pharaohhermenthotip1553 Yeah, my point exactly. Even being a man myself, the idea of a woman having to "need me" as if she were a child has also bugged me. I thought the point of relationships was that we, both of us, being fully-grown adults who could take care of ourselves, are choosing to look out for each other. What boggles my mind further is that whenever I express this to people who glorify hierarchy in a marriage to a T, they reject it with outright disgust and treat it like a bad thing. Like, I'm sorry? Caring for your partner as your partner cares for you? Both of you standing on equal ground and respecting each other as people? Working together as a team? That's all somehow bad? And every time I ask them why, in a heterosexual marriage, the man has to be dominant and the woman has to be submissive, I never get a logical response. It's always, _"Well this verse in the Bible says..."_ or, _"It's just the 'natural order' of things!"_ or even, _"That's how its always been done in history!"_ The worst one I get is, _"I don't know! That's just the way it is!"_ Nothing to do with practicality, no actual proof for any of the things they say, nothing. It's so weird.

[@MrFrobbo]

It's ONLY the top 10% of desired men sleeping around, so it's not 'men'. Women only sleep with the top tier, the rest of the men are left on the frustrated shelf. Data shows 30% of men cannot achieve intimacy.

[@Tim_G_Bennett]

I never liked the idea of casual sex anyway but I'm in that 30% so it doesn't matter anyway.

[@formula112967]

This is correct....men don't think anything after no-commitment sex, but women don't think anything about divorcing their husband of 20+ years (with children) and financially cleaning his clock.

[@tommcfadden5232]

Touché

[@inaberger6628]

this needs far far more reach!

[@magalidream]

I am having sex like a monk: No sex at all. No one's going to pay for my medications if I catch an STD because today, no one likes using condoms, and men can easily talk women into raw dogging.

[@oxigenarian9763]

Oh, but there ARE men who object to the culture of casual sex. What spiritually motivated man wants to wade through the ghosts of a woman's past sexual history, to contend with the remnants of past relationships? What spiritually motivated man wants to gamble that a relationship will eventually give way to the past. One content creator asserts that all relationships have an expiration date. I assert this is not necessarily true or, at least, not the way real relationships are supposed to be. It is said that men give love to get sex and women give sex to get love. Spiritual men and spiritual women give love to get love - sex is there to deepen an already deep relationship or, as Suzanne articulates so, so well, a commtted relationship. To the culture of casual sex, I object.

[@attorneyyaidaford]

Well said

[@tommcfadden5232]

Well said.

[@reginasemenenko148]

Any spiritually motivated, God-fearing man who does not participate in hookups has my highest respect. THAT kind of man has more value than a guy with a six figure income, a luxury car/house, and six pack abs. That's the guy that my Mother told me to wait for and I've never understood the fascination with bad boys/men. I didn't find my husband in my youth, but I believe God had a plan and we met at the right time.

[@reginasemenenko148]

Yes. This is how I was taught.

[@papiwe1]

Excellent video this is much needed.

[@scottroman6941]

I understand this show is geared towards women, but saying things like "Men have no emotional attachment after sex" feels misguided. Maybe for guys who have endless supplies of women at their disposal this is true, but for a lot of guys, having sex is also a bonding experience. Personally, the overwhelming majority of women I have been with show absolutely no attachment after sex. They regularly ghost me (50-70%) or become disinterested after 2-3 months. There have been 2 people out of like 15-20 girls who have had the typical "attachment" after sex and wanted to regularly see me. Now, I'm not saying that's healthy for them, but for me, it's more of an outlier that a girl gets attached after sex/hooking up than it is that they don't.

[@justinhenry5772]

That’s not what I got from her message. She wasn’t saying that men have no emotional attachment after sex. She acknowledged that men have oxytocin too for example. Her points is that it’s much easier for a man to not get emotionally attached to a woman after sex than it is for a woman and that the emotional attachment that men experience after sex isn’t usually to the same degree as that of the woman’s.

[@EmeraldEdge72]

Men do bond after sex. Once our T levels are depleted we get a small hit of oxytocin maybe dophamine. Some men don't like the feeling or are not used to it, and worst case they become violent because they've never experienced it before. What women usually experience is the man getting rid of her quickly or him leaving or ghosting all together because the man doesn't know what to do. In my last long term relationship she had to ask me to stop kicking her out after we smashed, yes it was that bad.

[@wyleecoyotee4252]

@EmeraldEdge72 Wow you're really facetious

[@adododza]

​@EmeraldEdge72 thank you for being open and honest about your own personal experience with that feeling after having sex.

[@THX5000]

Higher mileage = Lower Value, period.

[@DrGingerHamster]

Excellent and absolutely essential message Suzanne. Message should be also for men. We all I believe need to keep it in our pants a lot more often.

[@ChrisWhalenCPA]

Suzanne also remember please do a show on the fact that men have no way to prove consent today! Some of my higher value men that women would love to marry are not even dating today because they false allegation can ruin their lives. Would you please do a show on the men's issues related to dating?

[@BG-sq7zf]

What most simps, feminist fe/males, white-knights, betas and conservative guys fail to realize: bad boys provide excitement, novelty, unpredictability and fun (fear, roller-coaster drama) to a new level. In other words, stability and commitment (no longer) won't cut it for today's 🦄. Why is that? Before she was your girlfriend, wife or lover, she already had been "run through" so many guys. And each time she slept with someone (both wo/men), she lost a part of her psyche, well-being or mind/soul/spirit. In other words, she is no longer able to have emotional attachment in a healthy or committed way. Cardi B. artist & role model for the most privilege 🦄 on the entire planet: '''My music is always going to make a woman feel like a bad bitch. When you make a woman feel like she’s the baddest bitch in the room, to me, that’s female empowerment.''' Feminist's Ideology from Sheryl Sandberg, chief operating officer of Facebook: '''My advice to women is date all of them: the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment-phobic boys, the crazy boys. But do not marry them. The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants an equal partner. Someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated and ambitious. Someone who values fairness and expects or, even better, wants to do his share in the home. These men exist and, trust me, over time, nothing is sexier.''' Isaiah 3:12 *Childish* leaders oppress my people, and *women* rule over them. O my people, your leaders mislead you; they send you down the wrong road. Proverbs 31:3 Don't give your strength (attention, resources, mental point origen) to women, nor your ways to that which destroys kings. Ezekiel 23:20 There she lusted after her lovers, whose genitals were like those of donkeys and whose emission was like that of horses. *Sex and Culture* by Joseph Daniel Unwin *The Rational Male Series* by Rollo Tomassi *The Manipulated Man* by Esther Vilar *The Myth of Male Power* by Warren Farrell *The Feminist Lie: It Was Never About Equality* by Bob Lewis *Anatomy of Female Power* by Chinweizu Ibekwe *Men on Strike* by Helen Smith *Silent Weapons for Quiet Wars: An Introductory Programing Manual* by Anonymous 🕊💚🙋🏻‍♂️

[@wLBlue]

@Peter Andrew Nolan interesting following

[@doomguy9049]

@@BG-sq7zf it's true that women give a piece of themselves away to each lover but more than that they take a little piece of him with them as well and that's partly why they end up so broken and masculinized after relatively few flings with bad men.

[@doomguy9049]

@@shurieai8698 yeah outcomes matter more than intentions in these situations more than ever

[@ChrisWhalenCPA]

@@kmc1872 Most of my male clients who are marriage minded require little or no make up and conservative dress. The plainer the better, especially when looking for a mother for their children.

[@joerapo]

The one woman said she had sex with six different men over the past year and doesn't want to settle down to get married until 30. Let's crunch some numbers. 41% of women report having sex by 15. Let's assume she's in this group based on her view of promiscuity. If six per year is her average. That puts her at 90 men by her 30th birthday. She then expects her future Mr. Right to overlook that type of a past.

[@racutis]

Yeah, it’s gross, for sure.

[@hiroooooooo4656]

A simp will be waiting

[@tanyajackson622]

90 men too many for sure, 90 women is also too many for sure. Both yuck.

[@saltandfaith]

Lol but when men do it, it’s “yeah man great job your awesome” 😭😂😂😂 Or let’s look at the amount of perverse porn you watch. Pathetic on both ends.

[@sonofthesOUth77]

@@tanyajackson622just stop! NOBODY here is advocating male promiscuity.

[@Ashley21138]

Insightful 🙌🏾 There’s a science behind it

[@GUNMETALGUYUSA]

Factual & Insightful Message ... Women Listen & Understand ... Or Suffer The Consequences.

[@stonetoolcompany3649]

This is only one side of the conversation....... The oxytocin high is something many women become addicted to. Relationships start with powerful attraction and stimulation, for women it is an oxytocin "high" like a drug.... This continues as a relationship (or marriage) forms, and then tapers off leaving a woman often feeling like something is "missing". This feeling tends to be the beginning of the end for relationships and marriages. As a man it is impossible to deal with. No counseling, communication efforts, gifts, etc, can change this. It is biological. As a result many if not most women in relationships cultivate "options", feeling that the relationship is in trouble. With a new partner, the "ride", or "high" begins all over again, and peters out at the same rate. As a result marriage is a veritable minefield for men. Some women can see through this, and make a REAL commitment. Marriage and children do change the equation. They create a distraction, a bond to the children, but it is temporary. In the end it's a problem women have to negotiate because it is about hormones. Bringing fun and excitement into a relationship may help to maintain the bond, but nothing can replace the "butterflies" (oxytocin) for a woman except a new love affair. Some men and some women never learn this, a few know it instinctively, but only a few. A wise man will look at the history of the women he becomes involved with, and ask himself "do I really want to commit to this woman?"..... "is it going to end up in a train wreck?" It is not the fault of men, nor of women, it's about biology. It has unfortunately resulted in extremist feminism and movements like MGTOW, neither of which are productive. I personally do not want the "thrill ride", knowing the train wreck that is coming at the end. I remember talking about it to a lady I had a close relationship (non sexual ...my choice) with for quite a few years..... she expressed "love", but I kept things in the "friend zone". She made it clear that the "crash" at the end was worth it for the thrill at the beginning. Not for me!! The highest highs come with the deepest lows, and I do not enjoy the emotional roller coaster.... I've been there, and do not put women in a position to hurt me! It just isn't worth it. I've fallen in love many times over the years, but am a master at seeming "obtuse"...... Give it time, and like any other ailment it will pass.

[@stonetoolcompany3649]

@@maddiesenator5491 We are more or less on the same page….. However attributing it to “evil propagandists” with nefarious antisocial goals is beyond absurd… Marjorie Taylor Green kind of conspiracy nonsense. Feminists pushed this, and misguided and short sighted as they are, and as destructive as modern feminism has become, they are not evil, just very misguided, and closed minded. They live in an imaginary world of narratives, not reality.

[@stevegilliver5104]

I agree with your points. But I think modern society has promoted this type of "toxic femininity". I don't think its natural for women to be like this because In my experience the type of woman you discribe go on to become thoroughly miserable and very lonely cat ladies. Therefore they are unsuccessful and fail to pass on their Gene's. Doesn't sound like a good recipe for long term survival of the species...

[@Skeetopunk01]

This is a great thread! Excellent comments by you all.

[@skylinefever]

@@stevegilliver5104 Not everybody should pass on their genes. Weak DNA would often be removed to ensure only healthy DNA remained. The Industrial Revolution went a long way to keeping sick genes alive.

[@shadowstarspammy]

“The grass is greener on the other side” syndrome is rampant

[@markfennell1167]

I have no idea what men and women we’re talking about here but from my experience it’s the exact opposite. It is the women who have zero emotional connection to men. Women who have no form of empathy or humanity. It is the woman who will use the men without any sense that it may be wrong or hurtful. Meanwhile the man feels emotionally used and I felt betrayed by women he thought I actually cared for him

[@tommcfadden5232]

That’s because you’re a good man Mark. In my experience good men feel the way you describe.

[@keylanoslokj1806]

Yes only sociopathic chad with all the options in the world turns out as she describes. Not the average next door guy

[@wyleecoyotee4252]

Having sex once doesn't mean a woman will care for you. That goes either way.

[@pedritonavaja5596]

Feminism has really done a number on these girls. I sit in the camp of not blaming these girls as they are, as are men, victims of the culture to a certain degree. However, to hear about their promiscuous past brings up a level of revolution in men who consider them for a long term relationship and the internet makes their past extremely hard to hide.

[@hanswurscht6625]

Yeah, you can't put all the blame on them. They're also somewhat a victim of the culture. BUT there's a ton of willful blindness that goes along with it. They could have known. Their mothers could have known. It's not some natural catastrophe no one could have forseen.

[@hanswurscht6625]

@@Willie_Wahzoo Young women truly don't know that. They get bombarded by everyone to be strong career women. What do you expect? I'm not saying they have no part in it, from what I have experienced lots of them are willfully blind. But honestly, what society is teaching them is as bad as it gets.

[@tanyajackson622]

@@hanswurscht6625 and whats wrong with being a career woman? A man can have a career and no one bats an eye, but its bad for a woman to want something more other then to be stuck at home washing up and looking after screaming kids all day. A compromise is good.

[@hanswurscht6625]

​@@tanyajackson622 It's unattractive. Ofc that doesn't mean there's something wrong with it, but contrary to men women do not get more attractive by beeing smart, successful etc. If you want men and women to have the biggest chance of building a healthy family, you'd encourage men to excel at work and women to excel at the gym, develope some homemaking skills and learn how to take care of children. We're doing the opposite cause we're brainwashed into believing some equality myth. And that's why more and more people end up single forever. It's a catastrophy for any society. I'm german. In 2050, when I'm about to retire, the average age will be 50+ and there'll be one worker for every retiree. That is going to kill the whole economy.

[@tanyajackson622]

@@hanswurscht6625 oh wow, what a chauvinist sexist male you are. Women should stay at home washing nappies and going to the gym to look good for their men? wtf? Equality is not a myth. You wouldnt say racial equality is wrong, so why say sexual equality is? Women should have the equal right what to choose to do with their life, not to please a man or society but to please them. If a woman wants to make babies, cook, clean etc and she is happy with that then great, go for it. But if a woman also wants to work and enjoy her career then great go for it too! Its not about women being the same as men because biologically they are not, its about women having the same right to choose, and not for men to make the decisions for them!

[@ellenroehl6022]

When intellectuals discover that the world does not behave according to their theories, the conclusion they invariably draw is that the world must be changed. It must be awfully hard to change theories. Thomas Sowell

[@sylvetteharris1788]

As always, such good information!!

[@potiloup]

Just love that voice. So smooth. Suggests maturity.

[@crypter27]

It's the truth, no hymen no diamond!

[@SenorAlexis]

Just discovered her yesterday from a clip "the 6 things" I saw on one of my thread. Everything happens for a matter. She makes me believe in womanhood again. They are there folks we just need to be pickier... also this movement of "bodycounts" is the exact opposite of what they need ... the fact they talk about it or of that being a "thing" speaks for itself also

[@samimortenson4122]

You inspire us with every video that you do, Suzanne. Thank you so much! I just got done listening to Eve in Exile and the Restoration of Femininity by Rebekah Merkle, narrated by Rebekah Merkle on my Audible app. I think you and the rest of your subscribers would really enjoy it! Here is the summary of the book: “The swooning Victorian ladies and the 1950s housewives genuinely needed to be liberated. That much is indisputable. So, First-Wave feminists held rallies for women's suffrage. Second-Wave feminists marched for Prohibition, jobs, and abortion. Today, Third-Wave feminists stand firmly for nobody's quite sure what. But modern women -- who use psychotherapeutic antidepressants at a rate never before seen in history -- need liberating now more than ever. The truth is, feminists don't know what liberation is. They have led us into a very boring dead end. “Eve in Exile sets aside all stereotypes of mid-century housewives, of China-doll femininity, of Victorians fainting, of women not allowed to think for themselves or talk to the men about anything interesting or important. It dismisses the pencil-skirted and stiletto-heeled executives of TV, the outspoken feminists freed from all that hinders them, the brave career women in charge of their own destinies. Once those fictionalized stereotypes are out of the way -- whether they're things that make you gag or things you think look pretty fun -- Christians can focus on real women. What did God make real women for?” Try Audible and get it here: www.audible.com/pd?asin=B07S75YL54&source_code=ASSORAP0511160006&share_location=player_overflow

[@jamesclark6420]

I used to wonder why our ancestors placed such strict rules on sexual behavior, to the point of genuine cruelty in some societies. Now I know. If you remove the restrictions and societal structure around it, you wind up with complete degeneracy and your entire society disintegrates in around 50 years. Which is where we're at now. There's no going back from here. It's already over. The building block of a society, which is the family, has been dismantled along with marriage. We've been set against each other as adversaries. Young women are overtly being encouraged to become literal prostitutes. Most of them are completely ruined forever by the time they're out of high school. Almost surely after college. There's no investing in someone who's been run through by dozens to hundreds of men and done every depraved thing there is. That's hopeless and self-destructive. Soon even normal relationships will be almost impossible. If not already. The natural law will eventually reassert itself, as it always must. But only after a vast amount of upheaval and misery, with the complete end of life as we know it now. That is what's coming very soon, and the only thing to do now is prepare yourself for it. It's not as dark and terrible as it sounds. It will be essential for developing spirituality and becoming attuned again to what makes life meaningful and fulfilling. But it doesn't matter how anyone feels about it, because that's what awaits us. The system cannot be saved now.

[@SubvertTheState]

This was actually very enlightening. Women are discouraged from sharing real vulnerable emotions. Women now finger wag and say"We live in a society". But understanding how that woman couldnt help but feel something after her "casual" hookup, didnt really sink in until hearing it described.

[@georgesontag2192]

Suzanne does a good job here describing the man's situation in this video. Wonder how she knows this much about men because she's correct.

[@markquinn1216]

She talks to men in the manosphere. That's how.

[@kinnish5267]

that was freakin excellent!!!! Such clarity and insight. Wonderful job!!1

[@altongrimes]

I'm thinking of the old Seinfeld series and the more recent Two and half Men episodes. Both, very funny and entertaining but both introducing the idea that casual sex is no big deal. I guess Sex And The City was crafted in the same spirit

[@skylinefever]

Maybe if TV shows that were really good and written by purity keepers existed, things might change. If conservatives want what they want, they will have to compete the "Free market economy" that they love to talk about... Or talk about only when people are freely buying what they either like or are indifferent to.

[@brett6239]

Men also feel this much more than we admit to. I hate it when a girl pressures me into having sex too soon. And I feel like if she gave it up so fast that there are likely other men in the mix right then. That it was just stupid fun. Then I would be shocked later when she was mad about me for not calling her or whatever.

[@mikev4755]

The problem with getting everything you want is sometimes you're wrong.

[@muzzmac160]

An ancient Chinese curse may you get what you wish for .

[@crabmanrockefeller9117]

Very good talk. I will add many of these females still sleep around after they get married by the way. Disgusting with what is going on in the world. Guys are just checking out of the whole system because of how things are going. It's a pretty high percentage of kids that don't actually belong to the husband naturally (10% plus from the few decent studies I have seen. Married females (I refuse to use the term Ladies or Wife) tring to upgrade to a more wealthy man in most cases I have seen and heard about. HYPERGAMY in action EVEN AFTER being married. 80% about of divorces are filed by the wife, 20% by the husband. Guys - have it all documented BEFORE a wedding at least 6 months - I would say before an engagement! No child support if you are NOT the father, roles and responsibilities, expectations all agreed upon WELL in advance of a marriage. There some wonderful ladies out there for sure, and none of them should have any issues having an agreement ahead of a marriage. IF SHE DOES HAVE AN ISSUE WITH IT GET RID OF HER ASAP. She's in it for HER and not for an US.

[@joejoejoejoejoejoe4391]

A study in the UK of blood groups accidently discovered that 1 in 4 children didn't belong to who they were supposed to.

[@graywalkerjoin3rdparty74]

I've seen studies as low as 5% to as high as 30%. One study in the UK of a testing firm was nearly 50%, but that was when there was already suspicion. When I'm challenged, I challenge back to have themselves tested to see if their Father was their Father. I've yet to be taken up on it.

[@tanyajackson622]

@@graywalkerjoin3rdparty74 its crap being a man isnt it. I feel sorry for your gender, especially if you are a white man, you're becoming totally insignificant in life.

[@Firerose101]

Modern women’s solipsism is off the charts.

[@boirampai7404]

You cannot cheat nature, that’s the lesson I learned. Being African and a male I have grown to realise why African culture has always placed a higher amount of dowry (and respect) for virgins and women perceived to be purer. The sad reality is sex takes a lot out a woman than a man, it hollows her out; I’ve met many and tried to “love” hollowed out women and it never ends well. Glorification of single motherhood has since provided some cover to the shame of many hollowed out women, this is nature and it cannot be changed no matter how “wise” we become

[@your_royal_highness]

I’m a guy and i never cared much for casual, hetero sex. I didn’t much care for commitment though either in a lot of cases!

[@brandonmusick77]

So many men taking the Red Pill and waking up, it warns my cold, black heart. Keep informing the young men. We are all surrounded by walls of propaganda.

[@marianlohr9746]

Dear Suzanne, yes, men and women are vastly different here and testosterone is also the hormone that promotes men to defend their position in the hierarchy. And yes, being the guy who has the options to sleep with many women and maximize the numbers of copies of their genes in the next generation gives a man a higher status and a higher place in the hierarchy. More women will come to also get his genes for their offspring, so that the offspring is just as successful spreading their genes. In doing so women decide that the next generation of men should be more sleeping around and less willing to attach to their female partners. The majority of men, however, end up being not that successful and actually struggle to maintain the attachment of their female partners. Not every man ends up being a superman and loads of women are not interested in male human beings. And it is the men who want and need attachment to their partners, that are unattractive to women and discarded as needy or not self-confident enough.

[@BG-sq7zf]

What most simps, feminist fe/males, white-knights, betas and conservative guys fail to realize: bad boys provide excitement, novelty, unpredictability and fun (fear, roller-coaster drama) to a new level. In other words, stability and commitment (no longer) won't cut it for today's 🦄. Why is that? Before she was your girlfriend, wife or lover, she already had been "run through" so many guys. And each time she slept with someone (both wo/men), she lost a part of her psyche, well-being or mind/soul/spirit. In other words, she is no longer able to have emotional attachment in a healthy or committed way. Cardi B. artist & role model for the most privilege 🦄 on the entire planet: '''My music is always going to make a woman feel like a bad bitch. When you make a woman feel like she’s the baddest bitch in the room, to me, that’s female empowerment.''' Feminist's Ideology from Sheryl Sandberg, chief operating officer of Facebook: '''My advice to women is date all of them: the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment-phobic boys, the crazy boys. But do not marry them. The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants an equal partner. Someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated and ambitious. Someone who values fairness and expects or, even better, wants to do his share in the home. These men exist and, trust me, over time, nothing is sexier.''' Isaiah 3:12 *Childish* leaders oppress my people, and *women* rule over them. O my people, your leaders mislead you; they send you down the wrong road. Proverbs 31:3 Don't give your strength (attention, resources, mental point origen) to women, nor your ways to that which destroys kings. Ezekiel 23:20 There she lusted after her lovers, whose genitals were like those of donkeys and whose emission was like that of horses. *Sex and Culture* by Joseph Daniel Unwin *The Rational Male Series* by Rollo Tomassi *The Manipulated Man* by Esther Vilar *The Myth of Male Power* by Warren Farrell *The Feminist Lie: It Was Never About Equality* by Bob Lewis *Anatomy of Female Power* by Chinweizu Ibekwe *Men on Strike* by Helen Smith *Silent Weapons for Quiet Wars: An Introductory Programing Manual* by Anonymous 🕊💚🙋🏻‍♂️

[@skylinefever]

Yes, the 80/20 rule can never be eliminated. It can only have people attempt to restrain it. Societally pressuring men into monogamy may have given the low status man a low status woman, but did really create a great life? Did it do anything to stop the desire of someone with high status?

[@hanswurscht6625]

@@BG-sq7zf Right. The amount of red pill truths the bible offers always surprises me. Seems like we've lost a ton of knowledge within the last 100 years.

[@hanswurscht6625]

@@skylinefever No, low status always sucks. It has to, otherwise why would you want to improve? We've always had low status men and some women breeding resentment to suicidal/homicidal levels. But the more you have, the more dangerous a society becomes. With a wife and kids, at least everyone has a stake in life & society.

[@skylinefever]

@@Willie_Wahzoo That would explain why douche alpha guys get women, and polite men don't. Actually, I have found that polite men do get women, they just tend to have foreign women.

[@maxcenevil]

She should have way more followers. So much wisdom.

[@DrGingerHamster]

I'm honestly wondering Suzanne. When you were of the age you're trying to reach, maybe 16-18 or so, why didn't you listen to this message? I'm sure Grandma and Auntie and Dad we're telling you almost verbatim, 'don't do this'. And if YOU didn't listen, how do you think the new generation will now listen to you? Just curious.

[@thepursuitofknowledge5245]

Simple; She didnt have KZbin and a Suzanne Venker to tune into

[@cowboy101lisa]

Few will listen, but some will. Save the ones we can.

[@DrGingerHamster]

@@cowboy101lisa Yep.

[@DrGingerHamster]

@@thepursuitofknowledge5245 Well, that's a fair point. Look, I'm not putting Suzanne down. I think she's doing a great job. I'm just wondering (aside from as you say internet) why she, who was in the position not all that long ago, of the audience she's addressing, why she didn't listen to her Auntie, and her Mother and Father, Grandmother, etc. She probably did, I don't know her story. But she and I are about the same age. Women and men were doing the same sorts of things back then it just wasn't so 'out in the open' so to speak. Now, again, I'm not saying she partook, but if I had to bet a dollar, I would bet that dollar on 'yes'.

[@UniqueBreakfastTaco]

@@DrGingerHamster then why are you questioning a story of which you don't know? Know what they say about ASSuming?

[@shurieai8698]

🙂 I think that having sex without deep connection of feeling would be an empty pleasure for both sides. Besides that, fear of getting sexual transmitted diseases could lead to uncomfortableness. Going to private place with someone you know nothing about is absolutely unsafe…😁

[@tommcfadden5232]

Wise and insightful. May you find true love and commitment.

[@fourchanner]

Families and monogamy are the the chassis of civilization. These experiments done in recent decades have brought us into the dystopian hell of today. Broken families and therefor broken people.

[@fourchanner]

@Curly whirly That was not the normal for most people in history, only upper class.

[@kristin89]

@Curly whirly polygamous marriage is a train wreck…I’ve read about and heard far too many stories of how polygamous families fair long term and it’s a disaster….At least in the west. Many are living in poverty and divorce is common once the kids are grown.

[@youtubestreetz4201]

Fortunately for us, one size does not fit all. Some women are perfectly fine with casual sex. Some may not be. Either way, life goes on and we will be just fine. People had a lot of casual sex in the 1960s and the world did not come to an end.

[@skylinefever]

Boomer: Had sex with multiple partners in a VW Microbus while smoking weed. Boomer now: You young people are degenerates!

[@pat4455]

As a man we own what we do and make our decisions independently,

[@stephenclarke6347]

Men and women are wired differently, both bond but the process is definitely different. Most men are not in fact "Cold" by nature, but by nature's design, men are able to do many things with a fair amount of detachment. This enabled men to hunt and not feel bad about killing "Bambi" or "Thumper" for food. That ability also allows men to do all the things that women, as a gender, would find disgusting, things like waste management, crime scene cleanup, slaughter houses, etc., to name a few. Also, men sleep around mostly to "get off" while women's goal is to be the subject of a man's focused attention and to be desired, which for women, makes finishing less important. Both men and women are in fact driven by "Lust" but lust for men and women are very different things. Also, there is a very real window in a relationship for young people to form a lasting bond and hooking up confuses and actually often retrains the individuals psyche to not bond as nature intended. The older more traditional ways were much better for forming lasting relationships and society as a whole. However, women and society have changed and there's very little that can be done about it as today's women have no role models. The subject conditions are not likely so ever see any reversal which renders all of this merely an academic discussion. Marriage and birth rates are at all time lows and plummeting and men are opting out of dating, relationships, marriage and families as today's women have become financially, legally, emotionally and even physically dangerous. The unfortunate danger is that men can far more easily detach from intimate relationships and survive quite well while women, not so much. I'm not placing blame anywhere, it's just how society has evolved. It's NOT going to improve and as a result there will be drastic decreases in population over the next 60 years, guaranteed.

[@Cedartreetechnologies]

Bingo. Now, Suzanne, do the inequality in divorce court. The other half of why men will not commit.

[@edenbreckhouse]

She won't.

[@skylinefever]

It won't happen. These kinds of people might spend a second to admit divorce is worse for men. However, they will all keep saying "choose better" as if no woman is guilty of bait and switch.

[@sonofthesOUth77]

@@skylinefeverI’m convinced all women are capable of it

[@matthewwolff3729]

The reason you feel used for a booty call is that you are used for a booty call. When you go for a pump and dump you're on the dump side of the equation each time.

[@pitch22perfect]

Amazing msg! every word falls easily on the ear....therapeutic

[@Guanajuatoeddie]

Men do not want to marry a woman with a high body count. Here is most of our attitudes: If I you are not going to tell me in the beginning because it's "none of my business" then you are not being honest and we men, MUST have Loyalty and Honor. From this point on, we can not really trust you. And now with equality, If I am not allowed to ask you about your body count BEFORE we get married, you are not allowed to ask me about my body count AFTER (and if) we get married.......That is how we think. Don't tell us how to think otherwise. That is why so many men have gone their own way........ And women are lonely, bitter and very very sad. Look at it this way, We will automatically think you have a very high body count because you DON"T want to discuss it.....So, why would be pay full brand new price for something that has over 3+ men before us? Who would pay top dollar for a car with 300,000 miles on it?....So please do not get mad when you see me with an 19 year old woman.........

[@karek4635]

Susan, I hope the next generation listens to this like their lives & legacies depend on it. Great info!

[@timothydye6205]

I think I heard that the more women sleep around the oxytocin levels began to drop. They get less of a buzz the more partners they have.

[@frankiecal3186]

Just another reason not to marry a 304.

[@rea9473]

The worrying thing about the sentiment of "I'm not looking to get married now, so casual sex is fine" is that the men she will want to marry later on in life won't want to marry her as a result of that casual sex.

[@meditation4632]

So confused about comments like this. How would he know?

[@Kashban]

@@meditation4632 He most likely will get cheated on, she'll divorce him a decade later or emasculated him in any way possible. That's why it is paramount to know her past before committing to her.

[@CH-sf4tr]

@@meditation4632 if he’s smart he’ll ask about her past and if he doesn’t it will show based off her actions and mindset. The truth always comes out

[@suraya1224]

@@CH-sf4tr What happens in the case where she did have a "past" when younger, bcs she was desperately looking for love, & didn't understand her own motivations; but now as a mature, enlightened adult, she understands her mistakes, & has truly changed her attitude? Should she be honest abt all of it, & bare her soul, when he asks?

[@skylinefever]

@@suraya1224 Men still don't want to pay full price what Chad and Tyrone got for very little.

[@stevec3526]

What these women don't understand is that men don't want to marry women who have a history of hookups. Most men put women into 2 categories, heauxs and wife material. I have heard too many times when a man found out about a woman's past sexual adventures they have dumped her. She is too much of a risk to marry.

[@Freverprincess]

Who cares and no woman wants to be with a guy that’s been around

[@stevec3526]

@@Freverprincess Sounds like you never met Pookie, Ray Ray, Chad, or Tyrone.

[@skylinefever]

Well, good luck getting the alpha type that waits for marriage and chooses it. Women can either get married to a beta or never get married at all.

[@stevec3526]

@@kmc1872 Your absurd strawman arguments are quite funny because they are way off the mark. I largely agree with Suzanne, apparently you DO NOT.

[@stevec3526]

@@skylinefever Most of the free "Alpha" types are Chads and Tyrones. They are NOT marriage material no matter how hard some women try to corral them. There are "Good Men" out there but they are largely invisible to most women.

[@diligentsun1154]

this is an EXCELLENT Report. teach this to more girls, so they'll KNOW

[@Kurio71]

In my 20s, I had sex on my mind most of the time like most men. I liked the women but I had no intention of a relationship. Honestly, I didn't even care when we went our separate ways. I certainly wasn't looking for a wife. Marriage and kids sounded like a death sentence. I'm totally different now.

[@hanswurscht6625]

I'm kind of the opposite. Not that I didn't have sex on my mind all day, but I was very much into long term relationships / marriage and finally kids until the disinterest of women made me lose these romantic ideals. Now that I'm older (35) I don't give a fuck anymore. I believe lots of guys are very romantic when younger and would love to build a life with a sweet girl. It's just that women, especially the cute ones, aren't interested at that age. So most guys spent their younger adult years alone and find something different to pursue, as family and kids seem to be out of the question. At that point women come around and want to be wived up by them, complaining about childish men when the guys don't comply. I believe things are completely out of whack these days. And I don't think there's any remedy to it. This is a fatal diseases.

[@hanswurscht6625]

@@kmc1872 lol I knew someone would try to built his stupid arguments around that. Having ANY standards as a man is too much to ask these days. If she's not cute, not pretty... why marry her? Women arent going to marry some useless slob either. But somehow their standards isnt an issue. Unfortunately you didnt get the point though. I didnt complain that the cute girls didnt chose me (which isnt even true because some of them did), I said they weren't interested in marrying anyone. And its not just the cute girls, its all of them. But the cute girls were even less interested. Its like a game of musical chairs. Young women today cant stop dancing until its too late. And then they complain about a lack of suitable men, not understanding that they are the ones who pushed them away. All the guys I know were highly interested in building a life with a cute girl when they were 20. But the women didnt care. Now at 35 its reversed. Thats the point.

[@hanswurscht6625]

@@kmc1872 You're making the mistake of thinking this is an equal game. It isn't. Women are highly selective, men are not. It's pretty simple for women to be attractive: Be young, don't be fat. I've passed on exactly one good girl. But I wasn't the one who had all the choice. Like most guys I had to take what I could get. Young women are overwhelmed with choice, especially the cute and pretty ones. And what do they do with it? Nothing but complaining when the choice is gone. Men and women are in reversed situations lots of the time. No one needs young men. And no one needs old women. If I would have had all the choice as a younger man, I'd still have it as a somewhat older man (35). Young women have all the choice, young men have usually none, and older men have usually some. More and more women like to "have their fun" when young and expect good men to be there when older. That is a sociopathic strategy, as it exploits men to womens convienience. Thats why its failing. Problem is that our society is sociopathic as well, cause we dont care at all about what men want. We only care about what women want, so we cant see why that strategy fails.

[@farogmardk3001]

Its just not true, Suzanne. Men are just as hurt, and by nature more idealistic. But because our testosterone is 15 times more, we keep our finger on the override button. Its very strange . At my age , at any rate,(59) its definitely me that is the bootycall or used. Women LOVE to hurt men. Its a stronger motivation than orgasms , because it is a type of trophy. She can prove to her friends how strong attractive and independent she is. Admirable. See Sam Vaknin on the trend of signaling invulnerability.

[@redpepper313]

This is why young women fail in dating. By the time they get around to deciding to pursue a serious relationship with a man, they've already been sleeping with him for weeks or months and the emotional cost of walking away is too high to allow a rational decision to be made.

[@ianleary5780]

"Stop Trying to Have Sex Like a Man" is not good advice. "Stop Choosing Men for One Set of Qualities, Then Expecting Them to Show a Different Set of Qualities" would be better.

[@StimParavane]

Women lose their sweetness with every man she sleeps with.

[@keylanoslokj1806]

Yes. Most promiscuous stacies ive met, had lost all shame and cuteness

[@Ja50nkAt]

And what's sad is these women have the audacity to demand a top tier guy to tie the knot with them after all the mileage has been put on.

[@tonycrouse6544]

No sympathy for these women. Want to hook-up with Chad? Have at him but stop the whining when he's done with you.

[@West3720]

"for women, sex is a DOWN PAYMENT for a relationship"

[@aTruthJunkie]

Let’s multiply those numbers of the women times 3!

[@racutis]

No hymen, no diamond.

[@_Trakman]

Double standards or biological (and hormonal) differences 🤔 that can't be copied and pasted across genders

[@danielsantiago8146]

Great episode.

[@MrR40388]

You must use food,food,food! That's how you get a man's heart.

[@ShaunHensley]

A man who doesn't demonstrate sexual success with several fmls, is undesirable to most fmls. Fmls could undo the double standard simply by desiring inexperienced men

[@wyleecoyotee4252]

Lol...

[@snowplow7883]

Likely Susan’s best argument for men to never marry… to avoid dealing with all of her previous disappointments.

[@yaelri1430]

Oh my...so true ! "Sin is pleasurable for a SEASON " then consequences!

[@outlawstarr5209]

Great job Suzanne. Awesome KZbin video

[@kaiserpuppydog7174]

So far there are 15 comments on this, and only one is from a woman, for a video from a woman giving women sensible advice. 🤔

[@BG-sq7zf]

What most simps, feminist fe/males, white-knights, betas and conservative guys fail to realize: bad boys provide excitement, novelty, unpredictability and fun (fear, roller-coaster drama) to a new level. In other words, stability and commitment (no longer) won't cut it for today's 🦄. Why is that? Before she was your girlfriend, wife or lover, she already had been "run through" so many guys. And each time she slept with someone (both wo/men), she lost a part of her psyche, well-being or mind/soul/spirit. In other words, she is no longer able to have emotional attachment in a healthy or committed way. Feminist's Ideology from Sheryl Sandberg, chief operating officer of Facebook: '''My advice to women is date all of them: the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment-phobic boys, the crazy boys. But do not marry them. The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants an equal partner. Someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated and ambitious. Someone who values fairness and expects or, even better, wants to do his share in the home. These men exist and, trust me, over time, nothing is sexier.''' *Sex and Culture* by Joseph Daniel Unwin *The Rational Male Series* by Rollo Tomassi *The Manipulated Man* by Esther Vilar *The Myth of Male Power* by Warren Farrell *The Feminist Lie: It Was Never About Equality* by Bob Lewis *Anatomy of Female Power* by Chinweizu Ibekwe *Men on Strike* by Helen Smith *Silent Weapons for Quiet Wars: An Introductory Programing Manual* by Anonymous Cardi B. artist & role model for the most privilege 🦄 on the entire planet: '''My music is always going to make a woman feel like a bad bitch. When you make a woman feel like she’s the baddest bitch in the room, to me, that’s female empowerment.''' Isaiah 3:12 *Childish* leaders oppress my people, and *women* rule over them. O my people, your leaders mislead you; they send you down the wrong road. Proverbs 31:3 Don't give your strength (attention, resources, mental point origen) to women, nor your ways to that which destroys kings. Ezekiel 23:20 There she lusted after her lovers, whose genitals were like those of donkeys and whose emission was like that of horses. 🕊💚🙋🏻‍♂️

[@marlonmoncrieffe0728]

@@BG-sq7zf Sheryl Sandberg gives good advice.

[@tommcfadden5232]

Preaching to the choir

[@scottadler]

You have no idea how men suffer after they are rudely dumped. Most relationships, including marriages, end because girls dump the poor fool because he doesn't measure up to her expectations. My first college girlfriend use me as a placeholder. It's what happens to nice, decent, well-meaning and STUPID guys. One night she called me that she had decided to marry her "real boyfriend" and would I please take her to the airport -- in the middle or a raging rainstorm. As I was a nice, decent, well-meaning and STUPID guy, I actually did it. I should have told her to go to hell. She didn't even offer to pay for the gas. Girls are the dumpers, approaching 80 percent of the time. If Miss Valedictorian didn't want to come down with bulimia, she shouldn't have dumped him. Or if he duped her, perhaps she shouldn't have fallen for a jerk with Game and physical height over 6'2". I spend ten years in dating hell being treated like something to be ground under a girl's heel and not one cared about what she had done. Every one turned out to be a complete sociopath. Frankly, as far as I'm concerned, if one day engineers invent a reasonable artificially intelligent fembot and gestation machine, girls should go extinct. They just aren't worth the pain.

[@skylinefever]

Good thing there is a fortune invested in both Japan and China.

[@sirfoggy7682]

To the OP... title of this episode is misleading and was only chosen to attract the male audience. How about "Women, Stop Being Idiots While Trying to Have Sex Like a Man!"? And yes, you're welcome.

[@curiousman1672]

Great commentary.

[@nightlysobbing]

So many sad boys in the comments. So here's to the hurting men who were hurt by hurting women 🍵 May you find peace. Sex isn't necessary for a full and happy life.

[@tommcfadden5232]

In the short term they do, or at least delude themselves into believing. Eventually reality hits them over the head. Often too late.

[@SteveJones379]

Men are steeped in testosterone which drives the animal sexual engagement. This pervasive hormone contributes strongly to a man's thinking and doing. In other words, they can't help it. Just like women have the hormonal desire to bond. It's a difficult dance. Ain't no right, ain't no wrong.

[@lynnellwalker1404]

Thank you Suzanne. Men don't do that. It's not our fault it's Mother Nature (Science).

[@ajeebbeliever8857]

Being very honest. I was use to wonder 🤔 why prophet Muhammad is so strict to respect women. For me they look same like men but why they have upper hand when it comes to respect. More I listen to this lady more I realize why. It makes perfect sense .

[@BL-N3xus]

16 one night stands, just 20 years old 😱😱😱. Jesus!!! Definitely belongs to the street.

[@TCMECH79]

Most men give women more respect when they say no to sex on the first date because it shows us that she wants more than just a hook up

[@Kashban]

Or she has a roster of f*ckboys for that.

[@ivanfontaine8855]

Issue!Some men do think sex is speicial and get dumped right after for a guy with bigger bieceps or faster car.We are different but experence the same problems,we just deal with the problems differently.Women talk about theyre problems,Men bottle them up .

[@RantsandHeadaches]

I don't understand why there is such a stigma around women wanting to have casual sex. Relationships are a greater threat to men and women than casual sex. I wouldn't tolerate ten minutes of what I've seen married women tolerate for decades. Casual sex is not for everyone, but it's better than people pretending they care about committed relationships when they really don't or aren't prepared for the commitment.

[@RantsandHeadaches]

@@kmc1872 mistreatment, disrespect, abuse. Staying in a toxic marriage is not a good thing and unfortunately people think it's okay because they're not getting divorced, therefore their marriage is successful. I don't think like that. To me a successful marriage and a strong marriage is one in which there is a common bond and decency towards each other. Of course those marriages do exist, but it is heartbreaking to see what people think they have to tolerate.

[@Chris-T4]

Sex is an expensive act for a woman so when she has it freely she devalues herself

[@RantsandHeadaches]

@@Chris-T4 no. If anyone considers a woman devalued because of her sex life then that would be their problem, not hers.

[@armandoq.p.7291]

God bless, good talking

[@thomasdonlin5456]

Please check out the two “Hooked” books by Joe S. McIlhaney, Jr., MD and Freda McKissic Bush, MD. Women have oxytocin and men have vasopressin.

[@btuesday]

As a teen, young women were mostly uninterested in a committed relationship. I wasn't high status. I was just a kid. I was reminded of that over and over again. Think about it

[@brucefullwood]

"Oxygen and estrogen" - I think you mean to say "oxytocin and estrogen."

[@corym.johnson7241]

Your comment at the end about the pill not changing them. Funny enough it does change them. It literally changes them as a person, it can make women depressed and suicidal. Gain weight, become bitchy, and be attracted to a different set of men. There's more just look into it. Those were the effects I know.

[@corym.johnson7241]

This is by Rebecca Barrett. In the video she discusses 2 research papers on attraction and mate selection. kzbin.info/www/bejne/hGTJlqGulNeWq6s For the other affects I mentioned look up "birth control side effects". I should have clarified in the first place. Some women will have no problems and others will. It's extremely important to pay attention to your mind and attitude while on the pill. Do your friends and family say your different? If so consider getting off it. Hope this helps.

[@wyleecoyotee4252]

@@corym.johnson7241 She's anti feminist now.

[@skylinefever]

Yes, it varies greatly. This is why I promote IUDs.

[@matthewgregg3979]

No, women should not go have their fun and then get serious later on. That's the most insulting thing you can ever do to man. She can go give a bunch of random dudes her best sex of her life in her youth when she's the best looking and then later on act like a prude with her husband that she settled on(he's her 2nd choice) when she's lost her looks.... wtf....

[@keylanoslokj1806]

Sadly that s what happens though. And they will gaslight and shame men for not taking them in their post baggage phase

[@RantsandHeadaches]

Women should do what suits their life, not yours!

[@sofiabravo1994]

@@RantsandHeadachesthen don’t complain when men pick younger women over you.

[@sonofthesOUth77]

@@RantsandHeadachesget outta here with your gibberish

[@raymondjames2590]

Reasoning and Really oh how people struggle with this on both ends

[@robbfitz8602]

All women need to hear this!!

[@tommcfadden5232]

Men too