15 Things My Husband Does For Me | Wife Talk

[@Shadeadder]

most people these days have never seen a healthy relationship in their life, that's why they're so shocked at the idea of willingly being selfless for someone else you love

[@lioness3967]

The Kazoo Queen omg this is so true

[@Ugottabekiddinme]

My great grandmother was a widow, my grandparents never married and my parents are divorced. My children are the first to live in a "normal" two parent household. Yes you are so right.

[@toqa002]

big YES

[@erikahunt5662]

The Kazoo Queen ya...they call us push over or worst; when we are just here trying to live the way Jesus Christ came to show us how to.

[@irenelouborne8545]

True

[@kiwigirlNZ]

I have NO idea why people would give you crap about doing sweet things for your husband. I swear some women are out there, waiting to attack, like a pack of hyenas. Taking care of your man, and being taken care of by your man, is the epitome of love between a loving couple.

[@SupremeCrusader]

It's because we live in a hyper-feminist world where the very idea of doing something nice for their husbands is offensive.

[@isachan2252]

Yess!!! It's not even feminism, it's fake feminists out there that think being mean to your soul mate is the right thing to do to show that you are strong. Nowadays is bad to be nice yikes.

[@Iman131096]

@@isachan2252 yess thanks for pointing that out. If your feminism is about belittling men and bashing on women who are trying to build happy successful marriages, it ain't feminism. They give feminists a bad name smh

[@priusa8113]

The women who are against her ideas in taking care of a marriage are the very ones who are alone, bitter and jealous:(

[@chanseerussell4421]

kiwi girl lol a pack of hyenas. It’s so true

[@NaturallyBrittany]

All the feels! 🙈💕 It’s so refreshing to hear a wife building her husband up and really appreciating him for who he is. I’ve loved both videos!

[@b21.9]

Hi Brittany!! I love watching sarah's videos as well as yours, both of you guys are so inspiring! Thank you so much❤️

[@ryank2434]

Yas queen

[@abbieruth8373]

Everytime I have shared what I do for my husband, I have gotten attacked. People even said that if I have to do ANYTHING for him to make him happy that I should dump him amd take my kids elsewhere. Which is the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard. Its like this generation thinks that marriage is about the person doing everything for them and them never returning the favor. I dont understand it. I honestly feel sad for those people. They will never know the wonders of the depth of love two people can have who serve and love eachother.

[@francoisea.1713]

Explains the hate and divorces in this world today. My grandparents were married over 50 years and in love. They did everything for eachother and the people complaining about them were all divorced or unhappy with their partner.

[@RTCPhotoWork]

There are a lot of people who have dealt with only abusive people or who have only had generally bad/wrong for them relationships. When they hear an individual speak of serving their partner, it hits this nerve in them about all THEY did and how they "got nothing in return." It's more about projecting than simply the human want to be served. That is definitely in there too, but we miss that people with that reaction are hurting people with unresolved issues. People use their own lives as a filter for everything they see and hear. People tend to be one-track minds in that they assume they have been given the complete picture, so if a video talks from one side then the scenario described MUST BE one-sided.

[@spookycat0001]

It's that "happy wife, happy life" mentality. It's like we as wifes are not supposed to cater or do things for our husbands without others saying "wow he must be lazy" or "you deserve better" bullshit. It takes two to tango, it also takes two to make a marriage work. I like all the small things she mentions that her husband does for her. It makes me think, realize and appreciate what my husband does more for me, because sometimes realizing what our husbands do on a daily basis gets clouded when we as wifes are feeling stressed of overwhelmed... I'm like trying to think of a rhyme that goes with "happy marriage" or "happy spouses/partners" equals happy life haha 😂

[@philipanderson7581]

Yea, greedy & evil people.

[@spleen5527]

"People even said that if I have to do ANYTHING for him to make him happy that I should dump him amd take my kids elsewhere." This never happened.

[@CathFerook]

Your husband is emotionally connected to you. That's half the battle most people don't realise

[@rebeccaringwood9115]

I love how the hate never really seems to get to you, you always take a mature route when addressing it and let it just roll off your shoulders, which is so inspiring!! ❤️

[@rebeccahann4803]

Your husband sounds perfect! Good for you, I’m sure you deserve it.

[@philipanderson7581]

that's the effect of being married while not hateful

[@TheJinashura]

Toxic feminazis can March their antisemitic pro infanticide loving far left drama TF on. Disgusting little freaks.

[@TheJinashura]

@CATHY B look, I hit a nerve lol

[@TheJinashura]

@CATHY B you... Can't... Offer a real argument... Or rebuttal... Your move ;)

[@cici5408]

For those that can’t or don’t feel like watching the whole video: 1. he sees practical need and helps 2. he compliments and assures attraction towards wife 3. he comforts wife 4. he allows venting and listens 5. he never embarrasses wife 6. he is fun and joyful 7. he is honest with wife 8. he is self sacrificing 9. he gives security 10. he takes care of wife 11. he loves in wife’s love language 12. he is kind 13. he is trustworthy 14. he touches wife 15. he never compares wife ☻

[@anonmous1284]

Caffeinated Coco oh i thought this would be a list of things he does around the house or chores wise

[@takeoffyourblinkers]

@@anonmous1284 Well done, you have a one dimensional mind.

[@anonmous1284]

Take Off Your Blinkers well done u r an internet bully. Does that make ur day better ?? Telling people off ?? Does ur worthless life feel any more worthy after supposedly throwing a snarky remark at me u thought would be insulting ?? idiot

[@takeoffyourblinkers]

@@anonmous1284 It wasn't meant to be insulting, it was telling you a truth. Being a bully? More of a look into your very fragile psyche. We can certainly see what generational thinking you come from. The victim generation. Would you like a link to you tube kids, maybe that is more appropriate for you.

[@anonmous1284]

Take Off Your Blinkers lol fragile? Victimized? U r the one who couldn’t take one comment ABOUT someone ELSE. Not even u. Looser

[@lj9592]

The enemy hates marriage and he does everything to destroy it. Your love and example of a godly marriage influencing others is what he’s trying to stop. Don’t stop. Keep going keep inspiring yourself and other people! We need more women like you in this world! God bless you and yours! 🤗🙌 you’re a shining light in a dark world! Philippians 2:15. Thank you!

[@misskingschild3670]

Thank you for making me realize what a kind and loving man my fiancé is. I find it so hard not to focus on the negative things that I often forget to say thank you and cherish him for the things he does for me. I’ll do it right away and try to be the same for him. Thank you so much for being an example of a godly, sacrificial wife that loves marriage and doesn’t think of it like a burden all the time. May God bless you and your family!

[@kmw97]

In all fairness...the video you are referring to was called "10 Things EVERY Wife NEEDS To Do For Their Husband". Not "10 Things I Do For My Husband" ....that might have been the reason for all the hate.

[@rebeccabohle4765]

Maddie Senator exactly !! I can’t seem to understand how some women are seeking so much drama just because of a title ^.^ And focusing so much on every tiny little mistake like they have nothing else going on in their lives. Besides.. it was clearly good willing advice from sarah . 10 things every wife needs to do for their husband (in her opinion since she wants to give us good advice)

[@cordulamayr]

you righ she should had call it what she does not what everyone does because every relationship is diffrent

[@alenasemkina1723]

@@maddiesenator5491 yes 👏👏👏 finally someone!!!

[@alenasemkina1723]

@@rebeccabohle4765 yes! 👍👏

[@hollyjustice9858]

Yuuuuup

[@jkacc9131]

I had a marriage EXACTLY like this. Sadly, we are going through a big speed bump and need prayers. Never thought it would be us. 😥

[@amicably150]

Did you work it through

[@jkacc9131]

@@amicably150 wow, I forgot I wrote this comment. When I wrote this I was feeling very alone and depressed. I'm happy to say now that the answer is, YES! we are back to normal! Praise the Lord! With putting God first in our lifes our marriage is stronger and happier. ♥️

[@amicably150]

@@jkacc9131 Happy for you🙏

[@farahwork2552]

YASS! Im glad your feeling better hunny

[@withelisa]

@@jkacc9131 this got me emotional, I'm so happy that your oneness was healed. Many years to you both. God is good!

[@amfgvideos2517]

Our society is so toxic, many women automatically load their guns the second they hear a female could POSSIBLY be kind to a man let alone their husband. God forbid there are women mature enough to put their life-long partner before themselves for once. If a man says anything about a woman's clothing or makeup girls flip their tables. But woman can't resist complaining about guys hair or clothing or their weight but that's seen as perfectly fine. You just keep ignoring the hate :) Kindness has obviously gotten you further in life than bitterness. Never take advice from feminatzis when their anger only reflects how sad their lives are. They act like you're the slave when your happier, lovelier and healthier than any of them.

[@cloveskiwis]

I liked your comment and am on the same page as you, but I feel hurt by the term "feminazi" you used, because I do believe that we should all be treated equal and have the same opportunities in life. Feminism is for everyone and it should never exclude kindness.

[@cynthiakalynowski6244]

cloveskiwis I think you most the point... Feminatzis are women who are soooo far feminist they forget the true meaning of feminism, which is Equal rights between a man and a women. Not men overpowering women, not women overpowering men(aka Feminatzis)...

[@amfgvideos2517]

I'm sorry I wasn't talking about Feminism as a whole. "Feminatzi" was my way of just addressing the toxic ones in the community (and there are a ton more than their used to, they out-number you guys). Feminism isn't what it used to be and it makes me cringe even more when I see them trying to force people under a label. But I admire the sane ones sticking through it to make a legit difference and teach girls to stand up for themselves. *Edit:* anyways I wasn't trying to generalize all of you because know there are some hardworking feminists with a real cause like domestic abuse. but your getting drowned out by girls complaining about men holding doors open for them and tampons not being free.

[@gemaadiaz]

Nicely said 👏🏼 completely agree with everything

[@zacriana]

cloveskiwis yeah it's okay to believe in equality if that's your things but feminists do have a bad rep and it's because of the "feminazis"..... Just like how Sarah explained, not all vegans are bad or negative but the insane parts of the community ruined it for her, "feminazis"are just too intense

[@hjflorian]

Girl, you are wise beyond your years. Thank you for this inspiring series. I am only figuring all this stuff out now after 16 years of marriage. I spent the first 15 so selfishly and I am now focussed on loving my husband well. Love the Lord your God with all your heart,soul, mind, and strength and love your neighbor as yourself....it starts in your home first!! And the kiddos are watching how we treat each other..and that's how they learn!! Thankful for you and your channel.you are a blessing In my life :-)

[@whisperingbeauty]

I can't believe some of the comments I've read on your other video. You are a beautiful soul! when I get married one day this is the type of wife I'd like to be. I'm a very old fashioned type of girl and like the thought of a 1950's house wife. I feel like I would have probably fit in more back than. People are so negative nowadays and its completely uncalled for!! I am very independent, I was raised by a single mom and was also was told by my dad not to have to rely on a man. My mom still tells me that to this day. I am no where near a feminist, by no means at all. I do have a mans job, I have a welding degree and am working on my second industrial degree, but would love to be a house wife and stay at home mom. Just because I would love that and I feel that would be my duty as a wife and mom. I love watching your videos! You show your true heart and you show your faith! and I respect that! You are so young but you have an old soul and thats a rear thing, and it something you should never lose!

[@carmendavidson8603]

I love your channel and “Wife Talk” videos! I’m a young momma and wife! I’m 23 with an almost 2 year old! My husband and I can relate to you and your relationship with your husband so much! It’s blesses us! Thank you for being you!

[@Reflectionofmedusa]

I love that you don’t act like you’re better than others due to your religion. You actually EMBODY what it is to be Christian and set such a great example of how religion should help make you a better person. It absolutely shows in your spirit and the way you carry yourself. Keep setting a great example for others and most importantly for you babies❤️

[@elenadolores5092]

I can tell by your face how perfect you guys are for each other . . . you look truly in love in a good way. I can tell you two are married goals!!

[@thelegacyofgaming2928]

That's the face of a feminine woman! :D

[@jessfrezz4764]

I agree about the embarrassing the other spouse thing. That’s something that really saddens me when I see my friends or other kinda throw the other under the bus. My husband and I really try to extra encourage or lift up each other in public. We really aim for our marriage being a light to everyone to direct them to Christ and how Christ loves each other. Love this video girl 👏🏻💜

[@martajankiewicz881]

I have to say that I have seen the previous “wife” video several times. I was in shock at first when I have seen it. Your message was so different from what I thought and done myself in my marriage. Your video was completely new perspective. I couldn’t help thinking: why have I not looked at things like that myself? Is that why I have not saved my family? Was I so lost? So I viewed it again and again and again...until finally it was clear. You had it spot on. So simple and so true...maybe next time I will not do certain mistakes. Thank you

[@OMGARIANE]

Sarah, thanks so much for this video. I've been married for a short 9 months and to be honest I was a little apprehensive to watch this video because I was conscious of feeling disappointment or even jealous (🙊) that my husband isn't as 'good' as yours. But INSTEAD this video made me realise that I need to be so much more thankful for how wonderful my husband is, because praise the Lord he looks after me just like your Kieren does. Oh Lord Jesus, give me a more thankful heart to see all that you do in my life!

[@jennyo82]

I LOVED this video and LOVED your last video about what wives should do for their husbands! People get offended over every tiny thing these days. You are RIGHT ON, with everything you've said ... this is what a healthy marriage looks like! It's a rare thing which is why people are probably shocked by it! ❤️ keep on keeping on beautiful!

[@amythompson6331]

Love this!!! My husband works a demanding job that taxes his time and is stressful to the point he has to turn off his emotions. He can read me like a book and was there for me during my full cancer treatment. He sat with me during my first chemo ( he couldn’t do all). He made time to see me ring the bell. My surgeries and care - oh wow! When he helps you with your drains you know you have a blessed man! Day to day stuff: He takes care of the cars and yard work and I take care of our pet clean up and house cleaning. He cooks and I do the dishes. Teamwork!

[@hannahstrayhorn862]

I love this series. My husband is the same way! Good men do exist, ladies don’t settle. 😍

[@treesforlifeong1639]

Thanks for the reminder that good men do exist!

[@JastaAdventures]

A lot of the points you mention are the same reasons I appreciate my husband so much. Kindness. Listening. Taking care of me. His joyfulness. Acts of service. Trustworthiness. 😀

[@jub8891]

Hi Sarah. I first subscribed to your channel a while ago after struggling with acne and stumbling on one of your acne videos. I am a male. I couldnt help but facepalm the other day when I read people commenting on one of your recent videos that 'you shouldnt do anything for a man' and things of that ilk. their ignorance is mind blowing and completely ignores that perhaps mutual relationships between man and woman are the norm and not the exception. Anyway sorry for the small rant and thanks again for this video.

[@spinnerchic5772]

Been married for over 20 years. May the Lord continue to give you and your husband the grace and mercy to continue in, sharpen and grow in your relationship; not everyone is given this fortunate path.

[@HannahCohen]

I love this! I'm a young and married Christian and this says it all! It's sad how many people are out there missing out on the beauty of marriage. Love this!

[@KDawnn]

I love these videos. It shows a good marriage. My husband and I serve each other HAPPILY! Keep videos like these coming!💗

[@damarispickard8233]

Currently binge watching your videos. You are such a refreshing breath of air. Just feels good to hear from a youtuber who shares your same mindset.

[@candice22393]

I subscribed to you because of that "unfair" video. I loved that video. I found you through minimalism, then realized you have kids too, then found out you're a Christian. I think it's amazing how open you are about your faith!

[@stephaniewilson7769]

I love this series! Looking forward to the next one. Everything you’ve said about what wives and husbands can do to keep their relationship healthy is beautiful and so correct in my opinion.

[@beekeeper2036]

Stephanie Wilson I concur!

[@beekeeper2036]

Ecclesia xx 🙂 Some people are addicted to being offended, or so it appears.

[@ashlynnbruner7318]

I want you to know something. I found you through your minimalist videos, and when I found out you loved the Lord I knew I hit the jackpot! You're constantly sweet but down to earth and I don't want you to feel discouraged from the negativity. You continue to serve other people and love like you do, it's amazing!

[@tayoriginal4067]

You 2 are totally goals. It's so refreshing to see a healthy relationship/marriage and friendship.

[@rubysprott287]

For the Q&A video you mentioned, I have a couple of questions! 1) How long have you been married? And how long Into your relationship before you got married? 2) As a newly wed (2 day!), do you have any advise/tips on improving the quality of your marriage? 3) What are you MUST DO’s in a marriage as being a wife? 4) I’m 21 and married. How do you deal with comments in regards to your age and life situation? I’ve had a lot of people telling me I’m too young; that I should “live life first”, when I feel that this IS me living my life?

[@serena3194]

hey girl i got married at 18but i loveeeeeeee it so much! im 22 now expecting my first child and I honestly dont understand when people say to "live your life, go travel the world" etc when why would you do that yourself you absolutely can if you wish), but its nice with he love of your life. Both my husband always feel guilty doing things on our own, its always like "damn, I wish I saw/did this with my husband/wife" etc, its just not the same. If ur in a healthy marriage you will be fine. On a similar note, the only thing I absolutely KNEW i wanted to be growing up was being a mother and I knew that hopefully if i could "get kids out of the way" while im young and hopefully stop having kids at age 32 was my preference for many reasons; energy, being able to "grow up" with them in a sense etc. And tbh, luckily I did choose to get married young because it took us 4+yrs of trying to conceive and we found out the day before we started IVF, so I cant imagine how I wouldve taken it being married around say 30yrs old and having to experience infertility later in life (and we all know we have a handful of eggs only >

[@allarendil]

If you are in a happy, loving relationship, then go for it girl, you do you! The whole point is to be happy. I'm not Sarah, but one piece of advice I could give: communication is key!! If you have a disagreement or fight, neither one of you should walk away angry. Talk it out until you come to an agreement, even if you agree to disagree. Treat each other with love and respect, and realize that your partner is a reflection of your self, and you both should be treated like so. If one treats the other like crap and you're not happy, then some questions need to be asked. But if yall are both happy, then keep going! The only people who have problems with your choices are those who are insecure about their own. (Unless he treats you like crap and your not happy, then take their advice... but it doesn't seem to be so)

[@Rravyn]

I love the Wife Talk series AND I loved your last video on this topic!!!! Please don’t let people stop you from speaking your truth. I think you are so wise beyond your years. I’m 32 and I learn from all of your videos. I wish I was a better Christian. Sometimes I feel like a goat amongst the sheep and it scares me. Please pray for me and my family and keep making these videos. ❤️❤️❤️

[@adrianascholtz3500]

Thank you, Sarah! Thank you Jesus for your loving wisdom. May God bless your marriage. I am married to Adriana for 20 years and this helps me to love her even more. Kind regards Douglas

[@HxneyViolet]

I never got the impression that Kieran was lazy from your last video! You gave so much wisdom and love. I'm not in a relationship but as a Christian woman I need to know what I can do for my future family and how to do it well. I felt like you broke it down really well and explained it.

[@crazyleaf257]

I'm getting married in 2 weeks😳😳😳😳😳😮😮😮😮😃😃😃😃🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 I'm so going to follow you as I go into this huge new chapter!! I LOVED seeing keiran help you labor!!! "The Lord is with you, you're strong" I was looking for more videos with y'all together

[@lisatyrrell3961]

You're previous video was awesome! I've been married for 2.5 years but we've been together for almost 7 years. It was so spot on and I loved it. Really encouraging!

[@wascallywabbit3372]

Same on no filter. I love the way you two are and how you're willing tol improve yourself for the benefits of the two of you.

[@abigailccc]

Heck ya Sarah! I love this. Nowadays all you hear is about what husbands DONT do for their wives. I love that you are publicly praising your husband, and also teaching the rest of us to do so as well and to point out our husbands good qualities instead of only focusing on the things he might fall short on or our expectations of them. They are humans too who are imperfect just like us!

[@buxxinha8465]

Thank you for this video Sarah, so inspiring. Im with my husband for 5 years and i really treat him like a prince and he treats me like a princesse too. Sorry girls but im the lucky one, God gave me the best husband ever ;D Big kiss from Portugal

[@neldaoosthuizen7256]

So grateful for your biblical view on marriage in a world where there's so little of it. Thank you for sharing. Marriage is the best if it's done God's way. Xx

[@mags7815]

your Husband is so sweet and amazing I am so happy you have a such an amazing husband

[@Funnyworld777-s2s]

Who?

[@sadiyahnicole]

I’m loving these wife talks! I can’t wait to be a mother and wife one day.

[@minimalmiranda471]

GIVE IT UP FO' THE HUSBANDS 🙌🙌 My husband is very similar. He makes it a point to make sure I know that I am the center of his world. One of my most favorite things he does for me, is he alllllllways puts his pride aside, in order to resolve conflicts with me. Whether he is in the wrong or not. We've been together 10 years, and never had a fight for longer than an hour.

[@alexandermontesinos2172]

That sounds great! not trying to be offensive but try to leave your pride aside too. Your man shouldn't be expected to leave his pride because you like that trait of him. I'm sure that if you do leave your pride aside he will love you and want to serve you even more! Have a great night

[@naranjasacidas]

I absolutely love wife talks!!! Go on with this idea, it is blessing so many wifes out there!!!

[@paigenctv]

The hatred they have is the reason why divorce rates are incredibly, overwhelmingly HIGH and lower marriage rates. This generation is selfish. Godless. Marriage is work and we must do kind for one another ❤️❤️❤️

[@katew3891]

lol

[@francoisea.1713]

Let the selfish ones have their divorces. They get what they deserve. God bless!

[@bertmagert4582]

So very true.

[@evagunther7784]

I love my husband and agree with her totally, although I don't believe in God. So do I have to believe in God in order to don't be seen as selfish? I don't think so.

[@infinity4evr]

@@evagunther7784 God is love. We're not.

[@allysonekuehn1]

I loved your first video and shared it with friends and my mother of all people. So many marriages fail and many can be blamed for partners not putting in the work but expecting all the good. These videos are spot on and give credit to the one place that doesn’t often receive it ... the Lord. Thank you for being fearless in your truth, you are appreciated!

[@fdd8747]

I'm really glad you made this video cause a lot of the comments on your previous video was really thinking that it was one-sided and I think because you do sometimes use words that people do find very old fashioned so I think a lot of people including myself really needed to know that it wasn't just you doing something for your husband and not him doing anything in return so thanks for clearing it up a bit

[@alliegirl83]

I love this! I'm 18 and remember as a child, frequently hearing women in the church speak poorly of their husbands. I even remember a woman telling me to cover my ears while she was talking! It is so wonderful to hear that you have respect and admiration for the way your husband cares for you. 😚

[@Booksarebetterthanreallife]

I love this so much, it makes me think of my own sweet husband and how well he takes care of me and loves me. Thanks for bringing truth and light and encouragement to the world!

[@pabitrabhattarai2263]

Your relationship is 100% different to mine. Your husband is a true husband and that is why you have happy life and that is why you do things for him. I wish my relationship has such transparency like yours.

[@sgracia78]

I loved the video. There is nothing wrong with you living the life that makes you happy. I was a single mother for years and was happy then. I am married now and am happy now. I believe being strong means that you can’t only do for yourself but that you are comfortable doing for your husband. You don’t have to justify what he does for you but I appreciate this as well. I enjoy doing things to serve my husband just as much as I enjoy the things he does for me. God bless you and your lovely family.

[@nuranium]

Absolutely LOVED this video!!! It sounds like you're talking about my husband...all the things you spoke about are all the things I Love about my husband. So sweet.

[@juliagross7892]

Would love more of these marriage type videos, and marriage advice. The way you love your husband and desire to live your life in a way that glorifies God inspires me. I’m getting married in 2 months!! 😊

[@alina_mykolaivna_ab]

Both of your videos about marriage are amazing. People who hated them are just living in a toxic or simply unhappy relationship, they don't understand how much you want to give for a relationship that gives you love and love means respect, confidence and consequently happiness. Poor babes. Wish you all the best xo

[@lalewilan]

you are young and attractive, it is easy for your husband to compliment you. the magic is to compliment and make each other feel attractive when you are old and out of shape.

[@gytisdobrovolskis7355]

No need to lie either. No need to hurry to get out of shape, which often is accelerated by this exact thing. Love you the way you are - don't get worse though 🙈.

[@samanthawilliams239]

When I watched your last wife talk video I read the title and thought: oh no this girl is gonna tell us we should be a slave to our husband and serve him and always obey him yada yada... And I was pleasantly suprised by your video. You gave me a lot of good information on how to help my marriage that is, quite frankly, not doing the greatest. So I dont know how anyone had a problem with it, because it Definately has helped me see that maybe I'm not being the wife I should be, and maybe that has a lot to do with why I didnt think he was being the husband he should be. I think both these videos were incredibly helpful. I feel like the stigma around marriages these days have women thinking their husbands arent good enough. We need to start focusing more on being the best spouse we can be instead of thinking "oh my husband isnt good enough, I deserve more". Of course everyone deserves a spouse who loves and respects them and helps in building and maintaining the family dynamic. I just see a lot of women sort of getting their noses in the air about it, me being one of them. I am Definately working on that.

[@gl9367]

You seem to be going towards the right path. Good luck on your journey!

[@andreasracha8185]

Good luck Samantha you have this

[@tiad.9142]

I agree. You basically read my mind and wrote it here! Praying that we’ll both be able to put what we’re learning here into practice to have happy healthy marriages 🤗

[@marieavila7100]

I find that in me doing nice things out of love for him it makes it more difficult to get frustrated with the little annoyances. I think it could be worse every time I pick up socks or the multiple cups in our room. When I do this it makes me appreciate him more and then in turn he appreciates me doing these things. When it is a circle like that it is so wonderful being married. ❤️

[@rebekahmadrid1]

I’m glad you uploaded this video, I read the comments in the previous one and I really hated to see the negativity. I definitely understand where it was coming from, but I can appreciate your honesty and positivity. It is so easy to get resentful and cynical (happened to me to me in my marriage), and especially easy to “blow you off” being so young and fresh in your marriage, and even though I could easily do that too, after what i experienced, I think having your outlook and the foundation in God that you do is awesome. Its how God designed marriage to be and in today’s world it’s easy to forget what that perfect vision was. My husband and i divorced but if we had been focused the way you are on really protecting our marriage the way God intended it, maybe we wouldn’t have divorced. It’s great to be in unity and in the same page. It sounds to me like yours and your husbands love languages are very well matched and I’m sure you both had great examples in your parents, and that’s great. I hope your marriage stays strong and you don’t lose that faithfulness and giddiness over your husband. Don’t let the devil turn you cynical!

[@Vanvanroo]

People who threw hate at you probably didn't understand the video. I think it was obvious that your love was mutual, and that you weren't the only one to serve him while he didn't do anything in return. I'm proud to see that you never let the hate go to your head and addresses things calmly and maturely, you're a real role model! :3

[@backdoor5993]

Good post, while this is several years old, I appreciate your condor! As a man married for over twenty-five years I see everything you said as leading toward a successful marriage.Thanks! May God bless you both and grow you in His Word!

[@sookierory]

My boyfriend does many of those things for me and I just love him so much, can't wait to live together and marry him :)

[@tearosegumaer3067]

Im so thank full that you are still makeing these, even if your geting attacked, as a Christian its really good to see you staning up for your faith. The Church body really needs to speek up. And your doing a grate job at your part!

[@taylorbratt3612]

You're adorable! You and K remind me so much of my relationship with my husband so I love watching your videos! God knew who I needed in my life and provided that at 17 and it's amazing that we have gone through all the big life moments from high school grad to marriage and beyond. I am so happy I found your channel and look forward to what you have in store! Blessings to you and your family

[@hayleehyer3302]

I've been binge watching your channel lately and I absolutely love your inspiring messages!! I'm 19 and a Christian as well, and I'm so glad I've found a place online that actually inspires me to be a better person. I love this video and the first one in the series, it makes me so excited to have a healthy marriage someday like yours. Your channel is so uplifting and I love love LOVE it!! :)

[@pryscylla_horn]

Looks like you guys have a great relationship, and what a great example to other husbands around he must be. I watched both the videos and have to say you're on the good way to even stronger and amazing marriage. My husband and I are married for 10 years now and we always have things to work on and towards but I'm glad we have Jesus, don't know what would we do without Him ❤️🙌

[@teleiabigby3738]

This video really spoke to me Sarah... I LOVE how you are a Godly and Christian young woman, a mom, and a wife and aren't afraid to say it! I love hearing your opinions on everything and listening to you talk. You are so wise and full of compassion and such a beautiful love for people. I'm dating my boyfriend right now and we've committed to waiting until marriage to be intimate so we can experience the full blessing of it. It's been hard, but watching videos like this makes me realize that all the waiting and the excitement and anticipation is going to be SO worth it!! You inspire me! I'm praying for your entire family. Love you beautiful!! Thank you for allowing yourself to be on the social media chopping block so you can impart wisdom into those that need it. You truly are a beautiful woman inside and out.

[@gillianleigh9851]

I love that you keep sharing your opinions on topics you care about despite when they get hate, you are an inspiration and a voice for change.

[@dallastalada1831]

Love this! Loved your wife one too. You have no idea how much you bless me with your love for Christ. Hubs and I were talking about how much time we spend on youtube and that we could benefit from going without it, and I told him I would unsubscribe from literally everyone, but YOU. I wish we could be friends, because you encourage me in Christ so much.

[@NicolePocahontas]

@Sarah Therese I totally feel you! I just listened your previous video on 10 Thing You Do for him. I am in a relationship for about 4 years with the Light of My Life as I like to call him 🤣🤪 and this is the single mature relationship I ever had as I just realised that I instictively did every thing that you talked about. And I see how much all of that helps him grow both as a person and as a man.♥️♥️

[@lauramathews3151]

Been subscribed to this channel for like 3 months came into my feed bc of Ashlynne Eaton who is a minimalist. Most of the content I watched here was contemporary and new content. But this and the what wives should do for their husbands are my total faves. Hadn't gone back to older videos but these are golden in 2021. Been married since fall 2018 after 10 years together with my high school sweetheart. We are a little older, 29...and about to start trying to bring children into our family. Love this channel but particularly these two videos.

[@norbuebenezertamang7180]

Wow!! I'm not yet married but this taught me so many things that I can do for my future wife. Thanks a lot! You are such a beautiful soul, your husband is blessed!!

[@alyssamoses5055]

I saw how much hate you got, but I really loved that video. I love these chit chats. And telling people about your love for eachother. Also I would super enjoy a wife talk series.

[@irenethompson4076]

Hi Sarah, there is no doubt in my mind that God has you here on social media for a reason. And as long as your husband and you have prayed about the type of content you put out here, you should feel comfortable, confident and secure in what topics you share with us your followers, fans, friends whatever the case may be. Keep doing what God is telling you to do and you can't go wrong. People's opinions matter. Understanding their replies are so difficult through a text/email. I believe that when you are trying to "help" someone with any topic, you will have your haters. But I feel that you are planting seeds, good positive seeds that at some point in those lives will take hold and grow!!!! You keep doing what your doing....your on God's side and that's all that matters!!!! ❤

[@TheElenaNumb]

Due to low morals nowadays, Normal becomes Extraordinary.

[@wiktoriakusak3280]

Fatima Zahra Vlogs so sad...

[@andreasracha8185]

Facts and it really annoys me wheh she gets hate for doing stuff for her husband abd loving her husband and I'm sure she got a lot of hate on this video because it will have people saying well u don't do anything for your husband when she literally posted that video before this. This society is a joke where people do not respect each other anymore.

[@jccarty1477]

Videos in the last 5 years always start with 5 mins of disclaimers so as not to offend the over sensitive cry babies. Loved the video...need a wife like this ☺

[@elinaengkvist]

Me and my soon to be husband loved this. Yes, to the wife talks mini series. Just what I wanted. Your channel and videos just match my life so much right now.

[@feli6098]

wow that was an amazing video! you just made me realise how selfish i am for not appreciate my boyfriend more. he does a lot of things your husband does for you too. and i just though it is "normal" like "he is just like this" but also i met him when i was 19 so i don't have much to compare him with. so thank you for that amazing video that helped me trying to be even better for my boyfriend because he is so amazing for me! lots of love from switzerland for you xxx

[@tatianafraserA]

my husband told me about the language of love and I think it's so helpful for couples to realize that maybe your spouse doesn't know every little thing you want but they have their own way of showing you how much they love you and with communication you can have a happy and long lasting marriage 💕

[@baileykestner3769]

These Wife Talk videos are my FAVORITE!!! I am getting married in about 8 months and I love love love hearing about your marriage and how you have a healthy, Jesus loving relationship even in the chaos.

[@adventureswithlaine2510]

I think it’s because you used the word serve, and others probably were thinking as in being a servant towards him. I enjoyed that video. I love being able to love and support my husband and making him feel that he is loved. Have a great week Sarah!

[@vivaeuropa]

Us Christian's are servants to our spouses so there's nothing wrong with her saying serve.

[@passionatepapercraft]

The people who 'hated' what you do for your husband are not likely to ever build a lasting marriage. Marriage is not about fairness but giving your all. Good on you for loving your husband the best that you can!

[@Mustaches4017]

I think it's very funny that you said people grilled you about the 10 things you do for your husband. Considering the fact that I accidentally stumbled upon your video and loved it! Is now on my 5th video of yours and subscribed lol

[@osamasajed3998]

I love how you found more good things in your loved one than in yourself

[@emilybrianne7176]

You are a blessing. People don't like it because they don't Realize it's what God asks of us wives. Not to be slaves, but to be respectful.

[@felishiarae332]

Yes, yes, yes! I love that this encouragement of your husband is made public. Makes me think of all the sweet, loving and helpful ways that my husband serves me and our son. Thanks for this! I’m excited for more ‘Wife Talk’ videos!

[@lenek98]

I think som of the reasons people reacted to the last video was the title. "10 tinges EVERY wife NEEDS to do for her husband" makes it come across way different than how the video really was intended. You made it clear in the video that it is what you do to your husband, but the title made people think differently. At least thats what I thought about it. Definitely a great video with a message many people could learn from! Maybe just an unlucky title on the first video :)

[@amandakaake4275]

Wow, what a keeper. I’m so glad out you two together. Having a husband like this is very, very rare.

[@valeriaaa7907]

Your husband is the person I want to be. Honestly, he is so inspiring. You deserve the absolute best❤️

[@leesharushing5849]

Thank you for striving to have a godly marriage. So rare these days ❤️

[@selicar9707]

I love the way you look when you talk about him aaaaaahhh!!! So beautiful. Your family is such a ray of light in this world

[@symkoko1776]

Wow the hate really didn't touch her a single bit! Love that 😂 Absolutely agree with you! Nothing better than having a good marriage ❤️

[@CaileyElise]

This should be a tag! Marriage should be spoken of highly but sadly in our culture it isn’t! This video definitely speaks highly of how beautiful marriage is. Representing the Gospel for the Glory of Christ! Great video Sarah☺️

[@colevandais]

Wow this sounds like a fairy tale! Lovely to see such a happy relationship. Thanks for sharing

[@KP-us2id]

I can see how some people with “modern” beliefs about male/female dynamics may take issue with the content of your wife talk series, but I think what’s throwing people off is the word “serve.” If they could just see through the vocabulary they would see that you have some really mature ideas about what it means to have a strong partnership in your relationship, and it is truly amazing to see this kind of thinking in a couple as young as yourselves. I wish I could have learned those lessons sooner in life so I could have had more productive relationships in my life.

[@muzyka7148]

It's so beautiful what you said. Hearing you I catch myself on this thought: my husband does so many things for ME but I've never truly see that and I even coudn't describe this things like you did! Something really important to think through and I thank you for that. Pozdrawiam z darem modlitwy.

[@BecxCosyCorner]

I am 24 and not married but have been in a relationship for over a year and it's so crazy because I am a lot like you in the way of being too honest for my own good and hurting people when not meaning to whereas my partner, he is the complete opposite he is so laid back and chill and I feel he really balances me with that and even me on him because he is so laid back he doesn't always stand up for himself when he knows he should so I balance him on that too and I try and do that in a calming way and even though we have only been together for a year we have not had a single fight we talk about whatever is on our minds, we talk about our future together and our goals not just as a couple but individually too and we really celebrate each others goals and i don't know if it's because it's still quite new in the relationship but I am willing to keep going because I love him

[@aquaroxity]

I don't think I've ever commented on any of your videos, but your "10 Things for my Husband" vid was the first one I'd seen and I remember reading all the negative comments thinking "wow there are a lot of bitter women here that aren't married or in a healthy serious adult relationship!" We're in our first year of marriage and everything you had said was SPOT ON for basic healthy marriage maintenance from the feminine side. We had a rough start for various reasons and I started really implementing your suggestions and it's made a HUGE improvement in our relationship and bonded us closer into a loving team. Thanks for sharing! I'm liking this Wife/Family Maintenance series!