16 Personalities Dating Their Opposite Type

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[@frigginjerk]

The INTJ not showing up for filming of the sponsor ad is even more accurate than any on-camera portrayal could have been.

[@frigginjerk]

​@@soham701 Yeah, I had to re-watch that part to catch the note at 2:11.

[@WanderingAstronaut]

True!

[@RunnerBeanzDad]

Some weeks ago I subjected myself to an unofficial online personality questionnaire which assessed me as INTJ. I don't know how reliable that is, nor, indeed, what it really means. However, I can confirm that after completing my University education (in the 1970s) I did not attend my graduation ceremony. I did not know what a graduation ceremony was (nobody had ever told me), and I was simply too terrified. I sent my apologies in advance together with a bogus excuse. They sent me my certificate through the mail. A perfect result, I thought!

[@lachezarvalentinov8751]

@@RunnerBeanzDad You are a true rebel Sir!

[@word6344]

@@RunnerBeanzDad it's great to see this stuff bring people of all ages and walks of life! Geriatric.

[@MH_12345]

that sponsorship was one of the most entertaining ones i have seen in quite a while

[@glueball214]

Yesssss , the add was crazy good.

[@dearkristin]

Glad you enjoyed! I had fun with it 😊

[@snippyhera]

Yes ahhh!

[@f.p1758]

Agreedddd It was hilarious

[@mariadiva7236]

AGREEDD i replay it 🤣

[@rad4924]

"INTJ did not show up on filming day. Reasons unknown." This statement has also been made about me for graduation ceremonies, work Christmas funtions and at least two of my own birthday parties.

[@glueball214]

OMG .. twinzies 😎

[@sophiaredwood5825]

BAHAH

[@Civil206]

Why the fuck is it/this so true, looooool.

[@lifewithlulu1388]

😂😂 can not relate!! - ESFP we’re opposite buddy’s!!

[@JS-wz3km]

I would have been otherwise occupied at the time of filming. With what? Avoiding filming, I would have been occupied, avoiding filming.... I thought that was clear.

[@nurainiarsad7395]

I like how the INTJ became aware that the scenario isn’t real because there’s just no possibility out of the millions of alternate realities she has considered that she would have done a TikTok dance, let alone with an ESFP who she’s dating. *Therefore* she must be in a simulation. Yep, that’s how I tend to wake from lucid dreams.

[@braugustus]

That’s EXACTLY how I wake up from dreams. Why are INTJ so aware like that? We have no chill at all.

[@estherlise]

The words "will you do a tik-tok dance with me?" Means that I must be living a nigthmare...

[@mapelianbutton4954]

I've been through this existential awareness so many times I'm just go play along with it while giving an angry glare at anywhere the 4th wall camera might be.

[@elidepeel8341]

0:00 ISTP and ENFJ 2:12 ENFP and ISTJ 3:06 INTP and ESFJ 4:19 ESTJ and INFP 5:24 ENTJ and ISFP 6:54 ESTP and INFJ 8:03 ISFJ and ENTP 9:20 ESFP and INTJ

[@tutsebhatu6495]

thank you

[@mielxd4136]

u forgot ISFP and ENTJ

[@elidepeel8341]

@@mielxd4136 I didn't

[@mielxd4136]

u put ESFP and INTJ, not ISFP and ENTJ@@elidepeel8341

[@adrian.538]

What about 16 personalities in opposite professions? (ENTP nurse, ISFP manager, ENTJ songwriter, ISFJ lawyer, INTP wedding planner, INFP as a CEO, INFJ as an athlete and ESTP as a spiritual guru, ENFJ as a mechanic, ISTP as a teacher, etc.)

[@kerissal.1549]

Some of those would be hilariously entertaining lol. I hope it happens.

[@dearkristin]

Love this idea!

[@ridirih9807]

An ISFJ as a lawyer…what a nightmare 😂 for all the clients as well

[@jameswilkerson4412]

I can’t think of what an INFJ athlete would do besides long-distance running or maybe sailing

[@user-mc5vy2vk5n]

INTP wedding planner sounds pretty cruel for the INTP.

[@vida8356]

The INTJ was GOLD

[@PurpleSeastar1]

ah yes, the INFJ, wearing a knit sweater to an outdoor sport and unable to express what she actually wants *chuckles in self-awareness*

[@dearkristin]

😂😂😂

[@ilmanmufiydhaagustadia_1346]

Sadly i am as an ISFJ can relate 😭😭😭

[@reddae6910]

Indeed , such a realistic scenario 🤦‍♀️ ( * nods and smiles internally in agreement, but not too noticeably lest someone might notice and ask why * )

[@JstJaybeingJay]

@@reddae6910 well.... why...?😀

[@JstJaybeingJay]

See that's why I need an infj in my life.......so I can laugh at her the whole day.😂😂. - ENTP.

[@BillyBob-lt5nr]

Definition of ENFP: A person who's inner monologue is spoken out loud. Actual ENFP quote: "How do you expect me to know what I think about something if I can't hear myself say it!?"

[@jamesporter2788]

Lol

[@missions4hisglory]

That's for a lot of extroverts in general. We think out loud

[@BillyBob-lt5nr]

@@missions4hisglory It's specifically a Te trait I think, but because ENFPs are Ne doms, it ends up being crazy random. Their Fi makes how they feel a priority, and they literally have to talk to work it out.

[@kaliah1494]

As an ENFP, I say that my mind has so many thoughts and feelings all going in a bunch of directions at once and the only way to really feel out something specific is to get it out loud or in writing. Once I've locked an idea into reality, I can evaluate it with more scrutiny now that I've put it into a more solid form.

[@Rillien]

@@kaliah1494 same, talking about my feelings and ideas eith someone or writing in my diary really helps to clear my mind and organize my thoughts. Otherwise it's just a big loud mess

[@adult_nubian]

That INTJ skit was amazing. That subtle breach of the 4th wall is pure genius!

[@dearkristin]

I couldn't resist! Thanks 😁

[@LAL7887]

Little did everyone know... The INTJ was right!

[@BJovanovic1987]

@@LAL7887 (queue "The Twilight Zone" theme)

[@se7en6ix2wo4]

@@dearkristin You've done some of the funniest and strangest takes on INTJ I've seen yet! Weird but also on point. great!

[@buchelaruzit]

It's like "INTJ would never be in this situation in the first place what do I do?.... wait-"

[@CrazyErzy]

Omg! your way of promoting "ur my type" was dope, I liked it, lol

[@godabandonedmesoibecameaba8984]

i did not think that she will have a frank james ad

[@charlotte-adams]

yeah, great use of se

[@r0bin_thund3r44]

After the person said what the first time, I unconsciously said the same thing after she said she’s talking to the camera

[@yxmms3859]

ahora me pregunto qué personalidad tienes erzy. >

[@CrazyErzy]

@@yxmms3859 Yo soy INFP jajaja... y si me conoces por el team, te diré que Dany es ESTP, Mia es INFJ y Frito es INTP XD

[@paperythinideas]

As an INTP married to an ESFJ for 20 years, this summarises some of our big differences, but over time I've also realised that these differences were our super powers and opportunities for growth as well :-)

[@sarahf1353]

I mean, we INTPs really need someone to cook us a meal, don't we?

[@apollontheintp3257]

Same here. This is 100% from our everday life, where my well dressed ESFJ wive, who searches all the internet for stuff, tells me enthusiastically whatever she found and I go "nah". Then she gets a bit mad but still cooks me lunch 😀

[@cockycookie1]

Yup Esfjs are pretty great

[@L16htW4rr10r]

As an INTP, People with strong Fe is like God in my eyes. They are so cool.

[@lt.branwulfram4794]

@@L16htW4rr10r just be careful, people with a high Charisma stat have the potential to be dangerous when pushed.

[@MichaelHill-sg8ks]

Ok, that was scary. The INTP-ESFJ was almost exactly like a conversation between me and my Dad (with me on the INTP end) Even down to me being so inept at practical things that I'm genuinely grateful that people make lunch for me.

[@jlu3ai]

Yes, that was me and my mom's recurring conversation about her buying stuff... Cringy 😐 (But I could go without food for a few days... If she let me... 😅)

[@rebecka4715]

Yea I hear you... I've got a mother, a sister and a cousin that are ESFJs... Inferior Fe meltdown used to be a daily occurence 🙈 /INTP

[@cockycookie1]

You knew it was coming so here it goes: SWEET HOME-

[@kokoflop2902]

@@cockycookie1 💀💀

[@shazy9385]

Ikr, i am also an intp and smth similar happened with me and my friend as well

[@ReinhardMcKinky]

Alternative title: The 8 thinking types putting up with their adorable/annoying opposite feeling types.

[@nerysghemor5781]

Alternative title: The 8 feeling types putting up with their adorable/insensitive opposite thinking types. See, it goes both ways. XD

[@Ignasimp]

@@nerysghemor5781 I'd watch both videos!

[@kara-nu5cz]

The moment I heard the INFJ say "I would've googled how to serve well first" I knew it was the INFJ. I srsly do that before I do something new. Once, I wanted to be more spontaneous so I searched how to be more spontaneous. 🙃 - INFJ

[@imededdinenezzar6344]

how to be human, XD

[@StefaniaYoga]

Same!!!

[@lucy7775]

O m g so true! TTuTT

[@jettsteel7305]

AKA "How to become a Perceiver"

[@vida8356]

I wonder if anyone's not enabling the subtitles and is missing out on all these amazing bonus scripts

[@dearkristin]

😂😂 Glad you're enjoying them!

[@Simi-ye2sw]

@@dearkristin they're so great

[@nerysghemor5781]

Busted!!! Now I have to rewatch. Had no idea that was there! --INFP

[@ConnanConnan]

True, comically impactful for sure.

[@helenwood8482]

I can't read the subtitles. They're too small and dark.

[@angelinap.3840]

*The INTJ didn't show up on filming day for unknown reasons* When I tell you I WHEEZED, that's so us lmao. Sometimes life does feel like a simulation. Also how dare you interrupt an INTJ mid-sentence, it's so disrespectf-

[@dearkristin]

Bahahaha

[@ZacharyT94]

Either I’m getting better at reading mbti or I’m getting better at reading your portrayals because I managed to guess every pair except the ENTJ and ISFP.

[@dearkristin]

Good guessing 👌 I play all the types in a similar way in each video - I should try switching it up somehow!

[@ZacharyT94]

@@dearkristin That’d be fantastic, would make things even more interesting!

[@cathyhart3946]

It helps when you know you have opposite types. It makes it twice as easy to guess. :)

[@ZacharyT94]

@@cathyhart3946 You’re not wrong there.

[@LAL7887]

@@dearkristin noooo I like the continuity with the characters. It's like the Dear Kristin Cinematic Universe

[@Bob39791]

Kristen, that was your best INTP so far! You nailed the stuttering, trying to decide which train of thought to bring into the world... and the vulnerability at the end. Also, I have literally seen my ENTP friends do exactly what you point out. Good stuff all around!

[@dearkristin]

Thank you, Nick!

[@blueninja012]

I agree, it didn't even feel like the stereotype at all, just a real INTP while I was watching I said to myself "this must be INTP, I've said exactly this before, (yippee in video) but they have too much emotion, there's no way this is a portrayal of an INTP"

[@ramzansson395]

I'm an INFJ being friends with an ESTP for almost 11 years. Thanks to him, I can play badminton and volleyball without ever embarrassing myself 🤣

[@mauginzoetz]

Recognized ESTP/ INFJ immediately! 😆 I have a younger brother, a college friend, and a client who are ESTPs. As an INFJ, I actually really appreciate their non-clinginess and unhurt feelings when I admit that I don’t want to participate in 3 hours of physical activity. 😁 ESTPs are probably the type I feel most immediately comfortable with, because we somehow both “get” the other person & can be flexible with each other. Communication can certainly be a bit awkward and unpredictable, but usually it’s not very difficult to understand one’s “reflection” :)

[@elizabethcochran3395]

The INTJ response to being asked to do a TikTok dance is exactly how I would respond. Lol. In what universe? This is exactly why I am with an INFP. He would never want to do that either.

[@shadeshift1268]

Are you an INTJ?

[@elizabethcochran3395]

@@shadeshift1268 Yes

[@shadeshift1268]

@@elizabethcochran3395 cool, I'm an INFP

[@allweneedislove965]

weirdly sometimes l feel like l am an intj, so yeah same~infp

[@elizabethcochran3395]

@@allweneedislove965 INFP and INTJ both have Fi and Tell, of course in different places, but I could see INFPs relating to INTJs (and vice versa) because of that

[@Svenny21]

You are the only one who makes the sponsorship a lot of fun to watch!

[@dearkristin]

Thanks! 😁

[@prosado454]

4:18 INFP married to an ESTJ. This is exactly how our interactions look like most of the time. Idealism vs Structure. Spontaneity vs Strict Planning. 😂 Yet, we can't live without the other.

[@summydots]

Totally get you

[@martacastillo6272]

Looking up credentials, check. Not being able to explain myself, check. "Do you want me to make you lunch?" yep, that's the best thing anyone can say to me -INTP

[@ariusanimus6985]

Agreed.

[@angstylemonsartistiq5648]

I’ve never seen such an accurate ENTP-ISFJ relationship My ex was an isfj ehe

[@kvakva78]

was it so toxic as it seemed to be in the video? :( hope you are over this story now!

[@UnkleGaga]

I’m an ENTP and my gf is a ISFJ. This is 100% accurate.

[@MBTIMemes]

@@kvakva78 as an ENTP: No Unless you're taking our jokes too literally, then it'll seem toxic, but it's really just all our somewhat weird humor

[@angstylemonsartistiq5648]

@@kvakva78 It was the best time of my life for the 3 years it was a thing I just got extremely flakey and she didn’t seem to be able to move on I was a flakey asshole and she was the opposite Relationships require a lot of commitment and I struggle with that a lot, She overindulged and I didn’t prioritize it enough It can be so stressful dating someone with your inferior function being their dominant function Its either perfect or a nightmare or in my case, both

[@JstJaybeingJay]

@@kvakva78 what about it was toxic?

[@justanothersherlockian7058]

The part where the ENTJ says this about compromise: "Well, it's not really relevant right now" was so accurate. It's either a win-win or a win-lose. You just don't half-win. It's not a win, people!!!

[@larsswig912]

as an ENFP, I felt her second hand embarrassment lmao

[@lunanighter7289]

* the ENFP goes home and regrets everything she did on the date with ISTJ and wonders why she did such things in the first place *... Maybe I've actually had this experience so it would make sense if she had such a reaction later on to what she did

[@Meg_intheclouds]

@@lunanighter7289 oh my word. Me at college today. I started talking to this girl and I could not play it cool I was trying to then started rambling. Not seen her since I was 6- but also have no clue when reading social cues and now I’m overthinking.

[@lunanighter7289]

@@Meg_intheclouds oh my gosh yes overthinking lil stuff I did in that past and wondering what impact that has left on the people around me TwT

[@Meg_intheclouds]

@@lunanighter7289 and that’s on Critical Fe. it was induction as well. So like I’m a year 12, and like there was so much information. And my ENFP brain started playing horrible histories in my brain. Because the head teacher said his name and all I could think was “my name is, my name is, my name is Charles II”

[@firespawnie537]

I'm an ENFP guy and I always date ENFP girls(funny part is that it doesn't happen intentionally) and we can just be ourselves and have all those embarassing moments and laugh together, instead of getting judged by mr. perfect(a.k.a boring) ISTJs.

[@anshitachhabra5001]

An ISFP here. I could literally feel myself getting annoyed with the ENTJ and I didn't even know it was an ISFP - ENTJ pair lol. Great video! Also, I can confirm that the ISFP was in fact, not kidding and she is gonna cry about how her partner doesn't listen to what she says before going to sleep.

[@elisa4620]

But the English Subs support the fact the ISFP was trolling the ENTJ. And it is not that the ENTJ didn't listen but that he misunderstood what ISP said. He even respected his partner's supposed need for more time for themselves, which is sweet. But it does look like they have known each other long enough that the ISFP knows the ENTJ is the way he is... This means there have probably been many misunderstandings BEFORE and I feel sorry for both of them during that time.

[@Surmid]

I freaking knew it it was ISTP when she rejected the phone call. as an ISTP pls don't phone call us! Dear Kristin you're as always amazing!

[@lunanighter7289]

the ISTJ is so cute while talking with the ENFP 🥺 I love the intj and esfp dynamic , I imagine the intj coming up with theories to tell esfp and she turns the theories into a funny joke , or they get into a debate where the esfp isn't even being serious but just wants to prove the intj wrong for fun

[@Liv-nj2cm]

esfp here , too accurate!

[@glueball214]

Looovve the ESTJ calendar.. says INTJ .. drooling over the words color coded synchronization 🤪

[@LAL7887]

INFJ and SAAAAME

[@emilyzhang7289]

You know you've been binging dear kristin when you can tell the types apart by their voices alone

[@lonedragon7061]

I'm an INFJ and I've never been in a relationship. But this is exactly how I would imagine myself behaving. Also, I can't hit that damn thing with a racket, either.

[@fayem4091]

Intj here and this will be me, in that one date i will decide to "do something more fun" than a tea and or a walk (and later maybe some Netflix without chill and far FAR later with chill) Also i never been in a relationship either ... 23yo and counting and i blame my focus on my studies and my projecting my issues to the future (also high standards)

[@lonedragon7061]

@@fayem4091 Your reasons for still being single is the most relatable thing I’ve read.

[@fayem4091]

@@lonedragon7061 thank god ! Even if i am 23, i have distant relatives that are getting engaged OR married and those ladies are YOUNGER THAN ME. And i am sitting here -ready to start studying for my second degree- like... * Forever alone meme I feel pretty shitty tbh that i am the only one who is still single in my close friend group (2 people) but i honestly feel like i don't have time for the drama that comes with a relationship.... But i will leave you with what i tell myself and sometimes i almost believe it (do as i say not as i do) "Everything is happening for a reason and someone will be found for me when the right time comes" (aka when i finally get my second degree and finally a job-also learning to cook a few foods wouldn't hurt either lol)

[@brodywilliamson5678]

Yeah, my sister is an INFJ and it was pretty spot on for her. ISTP was also spot on.

[@feuerschlange6374]

@@fayem4091 Sorry to burst your bubble, but you do realize that after your second degree there will be something else to focus on? But what do i know, i'm just an INTP who was single hid whole life. (The possible drama is really a thing i'm not quite sure if i want to handle that)

[@izza_ISFP]

Boyfriend (ENTJ) : " Do you want to go eat some Chinese food?" Me (ISFP): " No, I don't want to go out." Bf: " Do you want to go eat pizza or something else? " Me: " I just told you I don't want to go out!" Bf : " You told me you didn't want to eat Chinese food. " Me : ( losing patience) " No! I told you I didn't want to go out!!! " Bf : " No, you just said you did not want to eat Chinese food. " ( stays very patient, like it's gonna make me doubt what I just said...) Me : " You have the right to your reality and I have the right to mine. " That usually stop the argument... Sometimes I think ENTJ must have created Google Traduction...

[@dearkristin]

Oh gosh, hahaha. Hilarious!

[@jessicamirrielees4624]

Dump him, you deserve someone who will listen to your actual words

[@izza_ISFP]

@@jessicamirrielees4624 Lol... his brain doesn't work the same way mine does! And you must be fairly new to MBTI type if you think that an ISFP will take the advice of some random nobody stranger over the internet! We take advice from almost nobody...

[@msmomo706]

@@jessicamirrielees4624 why TF would you advice her to dump her boyfriend? That's weird

[@abetteryou4228]

@@izza_ISFP where do you take advice from just curios? How do you make up your mind?

[@rustamnurimbetov160]

Wow, that ISFJ-ENTP bit was LITERALLY how me and my spouse (of those exact types) actually talk! Nailed it!

[@UncooperativeCat]

As an INTJ, I feel sorry for that poor straightforward ESFP. PS: editing all that different types close together really showcases Kristin's range in body language and acting. Impressive.

[@dearkristin]

Thanks! I had a lot of fun with this one!

[@andrea6x79]

Really ? I felt so bad for the poor INTJ. I can have a sort of derealization feeling when I am in a very stressful siuation, and I guess it looks a little like that from the outside. I thought this was what Kristin was showing, but maybe in her scenario the INTJ is just faking the whole thing ? I would like to know.

[@robviolet9932]

@@andrea6x79 I think that the joke is an INTJ would never be in a relationship with an ESFP. The INTJ in the video realises this and has come to the correct conclusion that their reality is a simulation

[@dogdonut3]

That's adorable! My husband (esfp) and I (intj) laughed at it quite a bit. Stereotypes are just that...not reality.

[@UncooperativeCat]

@@dogdonut3 Certainly! I'd like to think of the sketches as portraying one particular person of each type, so while maybe accurate, they're not necessarily generalizable.

[@Meg_intheclouds]

The ENFP is so accurate. I actually tried napkin origami because my INTP friend taught me. Made a swan- don’t have the patience for it as a hobby. Also I talk to myself so much and like hardly any of it makes sense to anyone but me. It doesn’t even make sense to me most of the time

[@kailanGoreng]

every time i eat somewhere where there are napkins on the table, i have to stop my self from making napkins origami (mostly cranes, they're gorgeous!). but if i'm with my friends, i'd take everyone's napkins and make them origami cranes. also, if there aren't any napkins, the receipt would also do lol another enfp

[@ilmanmufiydhaagustadia_1346]

I am an ISFJ and i freaking love ENTPs 😂😂😂😂 the skit of them two in this is the cutest 😍😍

[@englishmuffin7]

You guys are cute sometimes but other times it feels like I'm talking to my subconscious in human form lmao we'd be like angel and devil because I'd try to corrupt you into doing evil with me 😈

[@ilmanmufiydhaagustadia_1346]

@@englishmuffin7 🤣🤣❤️❤️

[@pokefanplayz3068]

im an entp and i also quite like entps :)

[@snippyhera]

Oh my goodness the INFP YES! I hate schedules and routine it drives me crazy lol

[@corylake5197]

That’s totally me too “Did you want to get out your calendar?” Uhhhhhh

[@avril.227]

It’s just basically sucking the joy out of life with regimented romance and we all know it 🙃🙂 INFJ/INFP

[@Meg_intheclouds]

As an ENFP I actually don’t mind it all that much. Sure it can feel suffocating which I hate and I could never schedule minute by minute- but growing up in with a very Si family you pick up habits and stuff. but I also know that in order for me to get stuff done and function I need some kind of routine. Also I can vary as much as I want better when I know how to do that- and by better I mean I would anyway, I can just ensure that I actually stick to commitments and also give my self that time to explore. So no schedule at all wouldn’t work. Like I have my a level time table. And then I have a lot of independent study which I can let my self explore in (like especially with English literature after every lit lesson I spend ages going through all my notes and expanding on everything I want to and I’ll write like questions down for myself in my notes that I then go back and explore in so much depth).

[@Lily77717]

I am an ENFP. My husband, an ISTJ. Making him laugh is my greatest pleasure in life.

[@user-ph3qg9ld4v]

Can you really live together? I mean, don't you have any problem? Because sometimes they want to kill us (i am an enfp too) and of course sometimes we want to do that too😂

[@Lily77717]

@@user-ph3qg9ld4v Oh I am sure he wants to kill me sometime. I would just end up making him laugh though. As for me, I think he embodies all the qualities that I want to but doesn’t have. I have so much respect for him because of that. So, even when I a frustrated with him, I still realized that he is coming from a good place and is probably right. Lol.

[@user-ph3qg9ld4v]

@@Lily77717 I wish the best things and the loveliest moments for both of you😘💞

[@restlessmosaic]

"Unless I work in the bulldozer somehow" Next week's sketch: 16 personalities discussing planes flying overhead.

[@schrijveromnia]

Yup, when dating an ESTJ, romance works best if scheduled. My ESTJ husband asked me yesterday what was not exciting about something to do with new UV lamps technology and their applications. He was totally confused when he found out not just from me (INFP) but also from my friend (ENFP) that these tech details were not considered 'general knowledge' by everyone.

[@summydots]

I can confirm the scheduling part was the best part for me. I love me a schedule and guy who can do the same, and reach at least 5 mins before time.

[@cameronvalentine6207]

7:50 I feel for INFJ💀 I'm an INTJ and my friend group consists of two ESTPs and an ESTJ. I love them to death but I swear they can't handle more than 20 minutes indoors😂

[@otterinaballgown3703]

It sounds like wrangling 2 Huskies and a Malinois lol

[@Human_01]

ESTJ ARE EVIL PERSONALITY TYPES!

[@Human_01]

ESFJ ARE EVEN WORSE, ESPECIALLY WITH NARCISSITIC PERSONALITY DISORDER!

[@aMereHooman]

not gonna lie, that ESTJ scares me. yep, I'm an INFP

[@richardthury5293]

My mom is an ENFJ and my dad is an ISTP. This situation you just represented is painfully true. -INFJ

[@Human_01]

ISP are enabling trash! They are often drawn to evil personality types, i.e. ESTJ-NARCISSITS and ESFJ-NARCISSITS! ISP's are overgrown fetuses! SMH! My sh*t mother is one of them! INFJ, here, HATES her, and her emotionally-self-centered, idiot, life-choices! Smh! They cannot regulate themselves well through life! They are overgrown-children with the mind of a fetus! That constantly wants to remain incubate, hence their stagnate, 'MINDLESS-observer' mindset! Looking for the sake of looking! No analysing or brain activity going on!

[@cxtaylorsversion4963]

as an infp i actually think its so romantic how estj "just cant wait to pencil you in!" and love their excitement nerding out over the calendar functions. maybe its the Si, but i also love these organisation tools and bujo, and the idea of a routine or system (although successfully following them is another matter!)

[@amandahannoon7642]

I love the idea of minimalism but not the execution

[@annepaulinetiu4036]

You know Kristin is an ESFP when she can accurately portray the 16 types. That Se dom of yours 😸

[@MazorKuziaki]

This is my favorite video of yours yet. The sponsorship was absolutely brilliant and worked into the sketch, each skit was hilarious, and the INTJ being aware that they're in a skit is just fantastic. Thanks for another great video!

[@dearkristin]

Thanks for the positivity!!

[@medmedmed333]

I don't know my mom's mbti type, but the INTP-ESFJ one is basically how we go when she tries to buy something "miraculous" from online lmao

[@martacastillo6272]

I'm also an INTP and don't know what my mom's mbti is either, but the "do you want me to make you lunch?" thing hit home lol

[@pmj_studio4065]

My mom is probably an ESFJ, and yes, that's exactly how our conversation could look like.

[@annepaulinetiu4036]

YESSS

[@jameswilkerson4412]

I was thinking that the ESFJ sounded like a more outgoing version of my ex (maybe an ISFJ), who did talk quite a bit with her crowd at least

[@redacted2312]

For the first time I sat through the entire part about your my type because the continuous skit killed me🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@sirbradfordofhousejones]

I now know FOR CERTAIN that my daughter is an ENTP. That was so freaking accurate to her, holy crap. Poor person she ends up with 😆

[@Prinaananas123]

I'am an ENTP and all my family say the same thing.

[@sirbradfordofhousejones]

@@Prinaananas123 like my daughter, I’m sure you are a ton of fun to be around, though 💪 😃

[@Prinaananas123]

@@sirbradfordofhousejones Yeah my family also say that 😌

[@angelicamartinezr.8965]

Not everything depends on her, but also on your upbringing.

[@caffemocca8855]

@@sirbradfordofhousejones in most places "fun to be around" are Se types. Ne types are considered weird, especially if Ti is the aux function. Most ENTPs are type 7 though so that's where the "fun" came not because they are ENTP

[@McLoken]

I still am advocating for a strangely compatible series! My wife is an INTJ and I am an ENFP. It is insane how different we are and compatible at the same time 🤣

[@dogdonut3]

I'm an INTJ my best friend is an ENFP. It's a great combo. So much trust, understanding and fun together!

[@isaymamamoo9469]

I'm an intj and my twin sister is an enfp. We're so different but we have a lot of fun together 🤣

[@McLoken]

@@isaymamamoo9469 Yes!!! It is like a salty sweet combo with candy, that just works!!!!

[@McLoken]

@@isaymamamoo9469 Yeeees!

[@wakeupalready]

I have 10-year old twins as my niece and nephew who I think are INTJ and ENFP. They get along amazingly well.

[@Mer0hwl]

You had me laughing out loud at ENTP. My boyfriend is ENTP and I can confirm this is quite accurate.

[@pokefanplayz3068]

us entps have such shitty lines that we absolutely adore, but we know other people hate it or find it cringy

[@pokefanplayz3068]

@@weDie-tomorrow LMAO

[@pieterlindeque7798]

I'm ENTP and my mother is ISFJ. The amount of times the "I was just kidding" one has resulted in me getting offered what I was supposedly kidding about is sky high.

[@nerysghemor5781]

HAHAHA, the ENTJ denying being triggered when they are OBVIOUSLY triggered...so accurate!!! XD Also, as an INFP, the badminton date is actually a LOT scarier than the ESTJ trying to schedule the hell out of everything. O_O Literal nightmare indeed. I guess the difference is that at least I share functions with the ESTJ so I have at least SOME idea what's going on there. XD

[@loisrabies8713]

Schedules give me hives I swear!

[@redbest1943]

Appointments - Yes, schedules - No. Schedules just hurt my brain and I like to be free sometimes. I wouldn't be against schedules when working, but I don't work all the time. -ESTJ

[@nerysghemor5781]

@@redbest1943 Thanks for pointing that out! That's something a lot of people who aren't close to an ESTJ don't know since they only see them in work mode. My mom (ESTJ) will tell you she is really good at doing nothing, when nothing needs to be done. And on vacation she hates when my dad (ENTJ) overschedules things...she just wants to relax! XD --INFP raised by wolves (Te-doms) ;-)

[@lindseymelo714]

they are not triggered especially if they say they aren’t in my experiences.

[@nerysghemor5781]

@@lindseymelo714 I don’t believe it for a second!! 🤣😂

[@diamonddog5275]

"i don't NOT care about her" - i care about her in ENTP

[@dearkristin]

Bahaha 😂 too true

[@letmebecharlie]

Okay, I feel like I am the only ISTJ here, so this is the official „I am also an overlooked ISTJ!“ button 😁

[@manasac3102]

Good, for us ENFPs 😂

[@thunderbird982]

I am an INTJ and I do not blame them for wanting to skip on the weird advertisement multiple personalities thing. And we are not living in a simulation, we are clearly living in a cycle, we are merely repeating what has already happened in many worlds before us.

[@daphventurer7475]

Interesting! Though as an ENFJ, most ISTPs I am close to seem to listen to me with intrigued attention. ISTPs help me to vent out my Fe frustrations with people by saying the logical truth about people which may sometimes seem emotionally insensitive but logically true. So in a way I can be mean around Istps without feeling judged. And personally, I never really bluntly ask people about their feelings. I just make them end up talking about them very indirectly. People just end up telling me freely, even the Istps. And then I indirectly imply to them my Ni deductions which they realize are usually or sometimes true after some time in the future.

[@ihay472]

Thank you for this comment. I've been dating an ISTP recently and while these skits seems scary accurate I've been wondering what a healthy relationship with and ISTP is like.

[@scone1025]

I'm sure ENFJs have a lot of interesting insights about the world that an ISTP wouldn't mind listening to... ...as long as its not about us.

[@aloha3246]

I have similar experiences as you with my ISTP little brother although I am INFJ and @scone1025 that so soo true hahaha my brother becomes so sad when I have read him exactly right and give him advice about it

[@indranildas9565]

my mom's ENFJ ...here's our regular convo Mom: Hey why dont you sit with us and talk about somethin? Me: About what? Mom: Anything? Me: There's nothing. Mom: How is there nothing to talk about?! Me: Idk... just leave me alone... So yes, the skit was 100% accurate lol

[@keanu4489]

ISTPs are attractive to me, as an INFJ.

[@darya5729]

God, I'm ENTP, and this is so accurate. The nicknames, the sounds, the attitude, the conversation flow - I'm screaming.

[@ara3906]

The intj one. Damn that might have felt hard to get cut off. But at the end of the day she’s always right.😤😤

[@CRohrscheib]

As an INTP and a scientist, you have managed to capture my entire career in less than a minute.

[@tickital4464]

00:03 I hate declining phone calls because the caller knows they’ve been declined. All phones should ring on the callers end until it would go to answerphone even if the call was declined. Instead I have to wait for my phone to stop ringing

[@justynap5031]

you don't have like silence button on the side of your phone? I always click the one with the volume and it goes mute

[@tickital4464]

@@justynap5031 that’s a good idea, but it doesn’t work while I’m using my phone

[@justynap5031]

@@tickital4464 that's really sad

[@theclockworkheart]

my brother and his wife are an entp and isfj respectively. i never generally think that opposites attract in the long run, but they were high school sweethearts and are in their mid-thirties now and one of the sweetest couples i know. my brother is ACTUALLY SO SWEET with his wife, which is always disorienting, and he kind of brings out a little more spice in her. but there's definitely a lot of her being like "oh, this family or sentimental thing is important to me" and him being like "yeah, no," completely shamelessly hahah.

[@tatyannafrancis9935]

“You’re dating a superior being, sweet cheeks 😎”

[@BillyBob-lt5nr]

I'm just kidding -ENTP

[@tatyannafrancis9935]

@@BillyBob-lt5nr Being an ENTP feels like this most days: ENTP: *says something* Person: *is shocked* ENTP: just kidding lol ENTP: ENTP: *was not kidding*

[@BillyBob-lt5nr]

@@tatyannafrancis9935 Alternative: ENTP doubles down. Now we see if our subject really has a genuine objection, or if they are a boring sheep, or a cowardly jellyfish. 😁

[@jchen8902]

@@tatyannafrancis9935 ENTPs out here constantly thinking: "I just thought of a really funny joke, but it might be offensive - ah whatever, let's just say it first and then gauge whether or not to apologize based on their reaction"

[@tanhaabid5551]

@@jchen8902 Accuracyyy but i find it exciting and cute sometimes -INFP

[@ceilinh6004]

That awkward moment when you can't decide which combination was funniest... Hmm. Maybe the INTJ's existential crisis. Those are always fun.

[@dearkristin]

They ARE always fun.

[@AzalDaniel]

The ENTP was on point! Especially the narcissism and tertiary Fe asking her if she’s fine.

[@gorgonheap9770]

Incredible. Your ENTP example was like watching myself in relationships when I was younger. Like the exact sentiment if not the exact words (but eerily close). Also, Kudos. I think that's the first time *ever* I did not skip over a sponsor plug. Brilliant.

[@dearkristin]

Thank you! High praise!

[@gorgonheap9770]

@@dearkristin Though now that I think about it, by being so effective you're only contributing to the subliminal manipulation of trying to get me to spend my money on something I don't need, and I'm conflicted about enjoying your channel while distrusting your marketing scheme. Blast! You've entranced me with your informative shenanigans!

[@Blazeofthecentury]

Yeah, she really has impersonating ENTP's down. Have not seen anyone else who can do an ENTP better.

[@unknownperson-mk1ei]

I'm infp, and though i am not like hopeless romantic, ( i keep telling myself, but inside i still like romance) yes the personality portrayed here is the correct opposite i think is for me..! (ESTJ) u got that right as usual..!! Hoping for more funny and interesting videos like this..have a nice day🤗

[@dearkristin]

Thank you! You too :D

[@Casedilla73]

This is one I’ve been waiting for. Ever since you talked about your theories on type compatibility, I’ve been interested in this.

[@kitcatkitcat]

i love watching the interactions between different types. please do one on them interacting with their shadow partners (same order of cognitive functions but with switched introversion/extroversion, like enfp and infj)

[@jaimais3527]

i like how u make entp's look chill cuz most people act like we're some type of hyper arguing machines lmao

[@camcamthemuffinman]

That ad was so well done homie, good job. Sick integration. Also just a great vid in general, though I feel called out ahaha

[@dearkristin]

Hahaha thanks bro! 🤙 Yes I won't lie, you were somewhat inspiration for this 🤣

[@arnaudj2708]

I've just checked your yt account and you have a playlist called rants This is so ENTP haha ;) Interesting playlist btw

[@sisithesecond5015]

This was (by me) one of the best videos yet. Great job! As an INTP, I can confirm the lunch thing. If someone buys me ice cream or cookes something, my affection toward that person goes usually through the roof:D Ps: I LOVE the subtitles by the way! Have a beautiful day.

[@diyak2182]

This is definitely one of my favourite of Kristin's videos!! Kristin, your creativity feels unmatched in the MBTI community!!

[@dearkristin]

Naw, thank you!

[@driftingpaperboat]

Dear Kristin I'd like to see a part 2 to this video highlighting the gifts that their opposite personalities bring to the relationships ^^

[@sunchips18]

You really caught me off guard with that ISFP/ENTJ skit. I audibly went “Wait, what? 😯” during the “twist” there. Also, I’ll have you know that I might not be that good at badminton during the first date, but I’ll get good enough to -totally dominate and humiliate 😈- have good fun with my date by the fourth. 😇 - INFJ

[@dearkristin]

Bahahaha. Cause you will have had the time to Google or...?

[@jamesporter2788]

Fourth - because it takes you 4 dates to get down to your Se 😉

[@sunchips18]

@@dearkristin Pffft…Google. Child’s play. I would’ve purchased a racket of my own, the Definitive Guide to Badminton™, recruited a friend to practice with, and maybe joined a local club for good measure. 😉 Why do all this? I dunno. Dominate Ni and inferior Se is a weeeeeird thing. Haha

[@sunchips18]

@@jamesporter2788 Huh… 🤔

[@jamesporter2788]

@@sunchips18 because Se is the fourth function for an INFJ. So each date you open up a little more. Just my Ne making connections where there are none 😛

[@GwenhwyfarArt]

INTP and ESFJ seem like a pretty healthy couple for opposites, lol! INTP still seems caring and just puts up with ESFJ's superstitions.... Also.... They're always up for ESFJ's sandwiches, lol! I thought their interaction was rather cute.

[@Extraordinaire171]

INFP here who would 100% be okay with that ESTJ

[@alissad.8793]

I relate to the ESTJ-INFP pairing because one of my best friends is INFP and this is literally us when trying to schedule anything lol but I wouldn't trade our friendship for the world, it's honestly so insightful and eye-opening.

[@LeebMilder]

When people creatively weave in ads like this, fuckin love it.

[@lailakhoshkar126]

This was the most creative and most seamlessly integrated ad I’ve ever seen! Really well done :)

[@dearkristin]

Thank you 😁

[@ekaterinakonovalova1377]

Your ENTJ: ok, so I understood you this way, my brain doesn't work like yours, you must've meant that other thing Me, an ENTJ: can everyone PLEASE just stop playing politeness games and stop being indecisive and just tell me what you WANT otherwise, great video! I'm pretty sure I know an ENTP/ISFJ couple now, that was their exact dynamic

[@atxsph]

Oh my the overlord of mbti vids posted

[@maryl1785]

That is the best commercial endorsement ever! Great job, Kristin. Once again a quality, entertaining video.

[@dearkristin]

Thanks, Mary 😁😁

[@kenlenoir3714]

Very well done video! Lots of nuance and insight about the 16 types and their opposite type interactions, and humor! I also like your creative advertisement 👏

[@kilppari78]

This is one of your best (and most accurate) clips I've seen so far. Cracked me up a few times. 😂

[@enfieldjohn101]

The best way to understand a type, I'm beginning to realize, is to study its opposite type. This illustrates that wonderfully. Very funny too. I don't think my wife is an ESFP, but we are certainly somewhat opposite in some ways. She's more outgoing than I am. She keeps track of relationship stuff, even other people's relationships, more than I do (I'm doing good to even remember the names of the people she talks about sometimes). She likes to be spontaneous while regularly try to get all of my work wrapped up when it is getting close to one of her days off, just in case she gets spontaneous and wants to do something that'll take all day or longer. When I try to act spontaneous, it is actually the result of days, sometimes weeks of planning. She's more positive and upbeat than I am too. Heck, maybe we are complete opposites. :) I must admit that I've had my paranoid moments when I question almost everything at once. I usually keep it to myself, but the times when I've said anything about it, it must drive my wife nuts. :) Usually, it comes out when we are driving somewhere. She has a rather cavalier attitude towards cars, traffic and driving in general, while I can't help but sense that disaster is just a moment away. Driving (or even riding with someone else driving) is exhausting. I can only stand it for about four or five hours or less at a time without being perhaps more wiped out at the end of the day than if I'd walked to our destination instead.

[@cassinitakano5736]

I'm ENTP and I've been called a "cold-blooded bastard" several times by people lol because I'm too chill to actually give a damn. But yeah, for the ENTPs it's very often tiresome to care about people's "feelings" all the time.

[@cassinitakano5736]

@Alexis Webb Yeah indeed I'm young lol

[@MsrFaqihah]

You mean commitment to care about others feeling? Yeap, i hate that too. They expect us to care about their feelings, but never bother to ask us. It's like a business lol. You scratch my back, I'll scratch yours. That's my motto. Never waste our times, feeling, and money for someone that half hearted.

[@esha6973]

Love your laidback irony in portraing and exaggerating all these characters! It's great!

[@PrototypeQuill]

Great job! The way you ended the video proves INTJs are always right lol. PS The dress you were wearing for the ESFJ was amazing 😊

[@raineyautumn6149]

I love kristins portrayal of the types, and I can spot my type right away! -INFJ

[@duonghan4782]

OMG the most interesting ad i've ever seen

[@MelissaR24]

That was the smoothest and most creative way to promote the sponsor! 👏

[@siaanand2189]

That's gotta be the best way I've ever seen a sponsor being advertised 👏👏👏👏

[@suzihoude]

The sponsorship section was so good, that I was skipping over it (as usual) but was intrigued enough watching the fast forward to back up and watch the whole thing on purpose. #realcompliments

[@dearkristin]

Huge! Thank you!! 😁🙏

[@queenqanna9938]

AHAHAHA omg, the INTJ is very accurate ;) ESFP: Do a tiktok thing with me! >:D INTJ: Why? ESFP: >:D INTJ: *rolls their eyes but does it anyway without making a fool of themselves like a boss*

[@_thomas1031]

GREAT AD KRISTIN!! Awesome video aswell & very much appreciated the captions😄🙌🙌🙌

[@carterconnell81]

That ISFP is an absolute savage, really an up-and-comer in your videos!

[@annepaulinetiu4036]

The ENFP and ISTJ is so funny 😹😹 can you just make a series now Kristin? 😸