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[@valdasdr8432]

YOOOOOOOO, you made an ENTP watch the whole video and didn't put us here. That's ballsy.

[@Xxgurpreet]

#TeamENTP !!!

[@carolinemasson7172]

My thoughts exactly😂

[@rachelrichey8567]

I thought I missed it at first. You know we'd be entertaining to watch. For me it's just badass burn back and forth and a quick argument over which word would've more precisely articulated the point in question.

[@benjamink2398]

Thank you so much for warning me so I can go be hyperefficient at wasting time somewhere else

[@Trento.]

Yea its weird not having my ego stroked for a full 11 minutes and 19 seconds

[@shroomieroomie]

Plot twist: both INTPs are in the same house

[@farral]

Hahahaha 🤣

[@suzihoude]

i was waiting for that, too lol

[@reonaranara]

thats what i originally thought lmao

[@danika9411]

😂😂😂😂

[@sophiaredwood5825]

OMG BAHAHAHAHA

[@ReinhardMcKinky]

An acceptable alternative for INTPs is just sending memes to each other. Exclusively memes.

[@Trento.]

my entire gc

[@Eliean77]

I do it with my INFP partner :D

[@ihavenothadmycoffee]

Oh, no. We would also talk about games, series music and the reasons we think people are unrational.

[@jlu3ai]

@@ihavenothadmycoffee I would also suggest some museum visits at least via google, or some nice documentaries (maybe about those majestic pigeons).

[@ihavenothadmycoffee]

@@jlu3ai or documentaries about murders... those are interesting too.

[@mintjam5170]

This is unrealistic because the INTP is in a relationship. This is not a joke, this is a cry for help

[@isabella16939]

Use your Fe more. That's the key.

[@hang2125]

Wait for an extrovert to adopt you xD

[@araryan2390]

@@isabella16939 not worth the effort

[@isabella16939]

@@araryan2390 Your Fe: 😩😩😭😭

[@ceilinh6004]

INTPs can be in relationships. They can even be in relationships with other INTPs. It does happen.

[@Jennifer.villezcas]

I'm an INFP who married her own type, we literally quit our jobs/schools and moved to the other side of the country.😂

[@dearkristin]

Hahaha amazing!!

[@gozzywozzy485]

wait, what? You married another INFP!?!?!? Um, how do chores actually get done? haha ;)

[@Jennifer.villezcas]

@@gozzywozzy485 I would like to know that myself😂

[@Multitudes_]

@@gozzywozzy485 Hey, I live alone as an INFP and somehow the chores get done! I imagine it'd be easier with someone to split the burden with, regardless of type. :)

[@els1f]

This whole reply chain is bringing me so much joy🥰

[@rhdrewable]

INFPs staring down irreconcilable differences decide to quit life and start over. Yep, sounds accurate.

[@Gangari_the_Wanderer]

Those were definitely INFJs. INFPs would never be so rigid in their opinions. Perceivers in general basically never are.

[@samuelpardo1430]

@@Gangari_the_Wanderer Folk, INFP here, pretty sure both types can be rigid. INFP makes more sense for the skit, taking on account that is dating another INFP.

[@rhdrewable]

@@Gangari_the_Wanderer INFPs are not judgmental about people being themselves. We're forgiving as well and accept that people make mistakes. But we are guided by deeply held moral principals that do not falter in the face of public opinion or the arguments of others. Our partner has to agree on basic points of right and wrong so that we can live in a way that feels right to us.

[@Fernandanatac]

@@Gangari_the_Wanderer on the contrary (kinda). INFJs are more likely to accept opinions they don’t agree with because they don’t want to hurt the other person’s feelings. INFPs can get really argumentative if it’s a topic that is important to them, and if it’s something related to our core values, boy, we can get pumped up.

[@Multitudes_]

@@Gangari_the_Wanderer Yeah, we're usually pretty flexible and open-minded, and as a generalization about us in relationships, this portrayal doesn't work for me. However, it works if viewed specifically through the lens of core values - or the type of life we want to lead. That's where we can have a hard time reconciling our differences with someone, especially a romantic partner we're sharing our life with. But it's less "I can't believe you disagree with me" and more "If we disagree on something so fundamental, then maybe we're not compatible after all."

[@johnhalbig-author7012]

I knew it was INFP in the first two seconds by the existential dread in your eyes. Most spot on INFP bit yet!

[@atomiccritter6492]

They are almost on the brink of crying

[@yopyop3241]

The way that Kristin is able to get the eyes right for everyone might be the most impressive part of her work.

[@farral]

@@yopyop3241 I got used to her great acting skills so I stopped noticing the acting and fully immersed in the story. And that's how it should be

[@Roman-ji7iu]

I didn't even realize I have that look until I watched this video, read this comment, and noticed myself doing it just a few minutes ago lol.

[@air7285]

@@Roman-ji7iu shit, I had the same reaction

[@ilke1018]

honestly i, as an enfj, would suggest that the 2 families eating together is the best option bc it seems to be the only one that would make all the parties happy lol

[@5idi]

Yes, it was kind of sad they split.

[@dearkristin]

I should have mentioned that they were families on opposite sides of the country. ;)

[@5idi]

@@dearkristin Still sad the morning after! They have such a good, warm relationship - that's what's making it so sad. I would've mentioned how they still know the other one's not okay, so they have something special in mind for when they meet again to thank each other :) By the way, I'm ISFP and I admire your guts for going so hard on Fi's. It feels like others usually don't trust us to take it well. It made me think a lot about the confidence people have in their second function. I also view Se as the greatest/ funniest/ most resilient.

[@milaalaniva775]

Exactly! And not spending special day with loved one is not an option either. You work at it until it's all around win win win.

[@papl20]

OH MY GOD! As an ENFJ, you have found the perfect solution to the problem.

[@hanse.1576]

I have a feeling the INTPs' meet up will be moved to next week every week.

[@YourNickIsTaken]

Procrastination

[@ihavenothadmycoffee]

Yeah... but I do not think they care.

[@petersmall1574]

Were I to write a self-help book, it would be entitled "Succeed by Putting Stuff Off: The Power of Positive Procrastination"

[@andreavieira5681]

I have an INTP BF that is continue moving our dates.. I relate so bad .. crying my ENFP ass off

[@petersmall1574]

@@andreavieira5681 I am sorry to hear this. Speaking as an INTP I know that I have a, I guess, distinct sense of time. It may not seem like procrastination to him. The only piece of advice I can think of off of the top of my head is that he may need a, and I'm not quite sure how else to put this, gentle kick in the butt. I'm not talking about a threat or ultimatum here. It's more like waking him up out of a trance. If you two have any good friends in common, you may want to talk about this with one of them and get their perspective on this. I hesitate to give relationship advice, but you have my sympathies.

[@CRohrscheib]

As an INTP ouch... but then she picked up the book and I totally related to her priorities.

[@youreworthyourweightinavoc7189]

ha but Batavia is not that well written, interesting story tho

[@gochisiyan1241]

I had the same ouch

[@melany1120]

I do the same thing but with my best friend 😂😭 cuz I don't date.

[@justinwhite2725]

Me: spend time with my boyfriend or play video games... Boyfriend? Videogames? *picks up controller* This is probably why I'm still single at 41.

[@danferrusquia2819]

I could recognize ENFJ as soon as she said “thank you for taking the initiative to approach me about this”

[@johnny_roots]

Hahahaha same here

[@suzihoude]

I was sure it was ESFJ -- that one took me by surprise!

[@sarahhamdan5470]

SAME, that one was so funny!

[@cathyhart3946]

I knew it was Fe. I can see either ESFJ or ENFJ. (Although I'm an ENFJ and I got pretty bossy and less willing to bend with my husband once I got married. 😆)

[@johnny_roots]

@@cathyhart3946 lol and I am an ENFJ and would totally do something like she portrayed! But we can be bossy at times tho 😂

[@flusel4949]

The INFP sounds exactly like part of the daydream my INFP friend has about dating another INFP. Her words: “And then, when life is too much, we move to Peru and start our own little flower shop.” 😂

[@patriciarose2342]

Exactly. Live the dream. Life is too short. 💜

[@annikachristensen4323]

Me, an INTP: Nah... I prioritize my relationships better than that. Also me: Has a million unread texts and missed calls because I've suddenly decided to dedicate every minute of my day to learning morse code...

[@sophiaredwood5825]

WAIT ENFP HERE AND I OBSESSIVELY STUDIED MORSE CODE FOR LIKE A MONTH it’s actually really cool 100% recommend and support also I ignore texts all the time so 😭

[@icannotcomeupwithanything4609]

When you realized that day is was actually a week. 😭 (Happened to me before)

[@lain7971]

Bye I've literally just done this a few weeks ago but dropped it -intp

[@simonehawkins5520]

I’m an INFP but I also strongly identify with being an INTP. This is so me, a lot of the time!!!

[@carmenloboportilla1808]

@@simonehawkins5520 I thought the same But I would be sad if we agreed on seeing each other in a week

[@marvinmartinez3818]

INFP relationship was so deeply portrayed, and the "leave everything behind for a dream", was so INFP mature, as if between the two INFP's they had grown together accepting that things aren't perfect, that they may disagree sometimes, but in the end, they choose to live a dream together. Also I daydreamed for 30 minutes imaging their stories hahah, INFP thing. Nice video!

[@atomiccritter6492]

I was wondering what their cakes and bread would be like

[@tramarthomas6105]

It's alright man, i was holding back tears too

[@davemiller7692]

My life dream is to open a library cafe on a canadian street crossing with the love of my life 😭😭

[@jackyschwarz5802]

@@atomiccritter6492 burned ones

[@atomiccritter6492]

@@jackyschwarz5802 I have worked in catering....anything that ends up burnt or weird looking you just call it rustic

[@srrocknroll4755]

Very accurate ISTP, they didn't even appear in the video

[@dearkristin]

One of my favourite comments right here

[@sophiaredwood5825]

BAHAHAHA

[@laylac]

Felt really uncomfortable during the INFP part for some reason, then I realised it’s because I’m an INFP haha

[@ForeverFashionGirl21]

yes it was so awkward and I was like this has to be the infp. the longer it went on it was clear.

[@zzzcocopepe]

I thought I infp all love feeling sad or something

[@Gen.Sun.]

As an ISTJ, I found it uncomfortable as well. XD I was like, "Ooo, please don't let this argument be cause for a breakup." I was glad when they were able to resolve the conflict. :)

[@FruitsChinpoSamuraiG]

@@zzzcocopepe loving feeling sad or something is not mbti related, it's a mental illness.

[@hanamanama]

the sudden silence just screamed INTP the ISTJ is just my google assistant 😭 oh and kristin, you should do a "16 personalities dating their stereotypical pairs"

[@dobromir6865]

According to which stereotype? 'Cause there is like a dozen of those. Just sayin'

[@voyance4elle]

Great idea!!! 😄

[@ky5797]

omg yesss

[@WolfoxBR]

On that note, which would the stereotypical pairs be for each type?

[@StrongestLibrafluidAlive]

@@WolfoxBR enfp and intj, infp and enfj, infj and entp, the others I don't know

[@Jockyr]

Time stamps :) 0:05 ISFJ 1:06 INTP 2:30 ISFP 2:51 ENTJ 4:37 INFP 6:17 ESTP 7:26 ENFJ 9:36 ISTJ 10:28 Bloopers!

[@rcll6304]

God bless yah!! Man, i love people who take the time to post timestamps 😭😭😆❤️

[@StrongestLibrafluidAlive]

that means the next video will have Enfp, Entp, Esfj, Esfp, Estj, Infj, Intj and Istp

[@WaficYassine]

thank you for having more presence of mind than the uploader!

[@Hippocampi700]

Legend

[@emilyholton2221]

Aw damn there is no ENFP

[@tealovinggeek2192]

I knew INFP as soon as I saw the blankets and neither wanted to disagree but were too stubborn to agree. The moving across seas and starting your own bakery is... It's very accurate. 😂 -INFP

[@ForeverFashionGirl21]

It feels like a betrayal to say "agree to disagree" but at the same time you have to get to that point in a relationship sometimes- it is being caught in the middle- also yes to escaping somewhere and living a simple life in a village with your shop.

[@aubreys1675]

“Shall we engage in some fun” 😂😂 and separate tomatoes to avoid soggy bread. You definitely enjoy picking on istjs but it’s also so wholesome

[@whitneyd6827]

It's interesting because my brother is an istj but he has the attitude that other people can worry about that while he does more important things. I guess for him that comes with the territory of having an enfj mother thriving on doing all that because she wants everything to be covered to have a nice day lol

[@petersmall1574]

"Good, I commend your efficiency." The highest of praise.

[@justme4579]

And so accurate!! My ISTJ father would totally think of every single one of these issues while my ISFJ mother would faithfully carry through on addressing each and every one of them lol what fun! 😆

[@scottlang7271]

I do think some of the MBTI types are easier to parody than others, and this was just superb :)

[@anival9576]

I am not an ISTJ, but I certainly wouldn't mind if an ISTJ separated the tomatoes from my sandwich for me. That's sweet!

[@GrayStrider]

When I saw two faces with NO emotions staring at their devices I knew they were INTPs

[@tealovinggeek2192]

Just a suggestion: The personalities interacting as they figure out how to get rid of a spider on the ceiling.

[@dearkristin]

I LOVE this idea! Thank you!

[@ediehall3583]

@@dearkristin Make it a Florida spider. They're HUGE.

[@runningfromabear8354]

@@dearkristin I pick spiders up and gently put them outside. Spiders eat flies and other pests. Plus they look awesome. - ESTP Be gentle with spiders. Ignore cats.

[@aubreys1675]

lol, thats good. My INTJ tactic is usually saying "you can stay, just don't approach or touch me" and then checking every second to make sure they are abiding

[@seventhsheaven]

@@ediehall3583 she’s from down-under, they have the crazy huntsman spiders.

[@tigercomet23]

As an INTP, this is accurate to how I am in general with friendships. With romantic relationships though, I am happy to coexist in the same space as my partner all day everyday, as long as I can keep doing my solo activities like watching documentaries or KZbin videos and reading whatever. My partner and I don’t actually do a lot of the same things together. Unless I force him to watch something (like a documentary or movie/show) on the TV that I’ve been really wanting to watch. I do most things solo on my phone. But I do like having my partner around, just to see with my eyes and occasionally snuggle with.

[@jeffb.140]

Sounds like my relationship! It's awesome!

[@kaydubsthekoifish]

Man sounds awesome. My peculiar self-awareness of my introversion has tried to solve it by kicking itself into conversations, so having a person around to talk to sounds pretty nifty!

[@JUBYY_]

Yes, so true

[@sheep.0402]

INTP and INTP in a relationship is almost the same as not in a relationship at least we've got memes, and we can discuss our theories and random stuffs - INTP (me)

[@tramarthomas6105]

Same, I'm honestly just happy with having the person to speak with through text. That meet up would be postponed several times

[@ojgfhuebsrnvn2781]

Yeah but what are "relationship"? It's basically being comfortable with some friend but also allow ourselves kissing and having sex (i don't include hugging because that can be done with friend without any problem). It's a little bit underexplained but there are really not much to it. Imagine knowing girl/boy (depending on your gender), liking her/him and knowing that she/he likes you too but not "dating" each other. Do you lose that much from not dating? I mean, you still like each other, feel comfortable and spending time nicely. I am INTP who isn't really interested in relationships but even if i did, dating is good but i would be completely fine with extremely platonic relationships.

[@colinrobertson7580]

My partner is ENTP, which for me is ideal because then I have someone that thinks similar to me, but actually wants to initiate things.

[@sheep.0402]

@@colinrobertson7580 trueeee

[@bmviss]

INTP one was funny but that’s how I treat 99% of people. But I am goofy and can’t stop talking when I am with someone who clicks with me. I wouldn’t date someone who didn’t make me feel like that. It would be hilarious to watch a sketch of an INTP in this mood. Cause we can be a lot... but only two people in existence will ever witness it.

[@justinwhite2725]

Yeah. You don't get a lot of skits of us at our best. Only at our worst because that's the side most people see.

[@J11_boohoo]

So true, we are energetic and loud and goofy but ONLY to a select few

[@spemka]

YES thank you, I’d do that with acquaintances and stuff but I’m excitable as hell for the select few people I care about

[@jebstuart3162]

The ISTJ was hilarious. Seeing the complete lack of expression on the faces of both was perfect as they just checked every single detail

[@saskiascott8181]

Cracked me up. My partner is an ISTJ and the skit is soooo accurate. I love it 🤣 but also seriously 🥰

[@bluewolfdancer]

@@saskiascott8181 Same! I instantly recognized the ISTJ type and it's so true. Whenever we go on a trip she is extremely organized, right on time, knows the weather app forecast by heart, whereas my ENFP mind is wondering how much fun it would be to have a hovercraft so we could travel wherever we want to and asking which era she would like to teletransport to while I'm hugging trees.

[@HisameArtwork]

I always get INTJ but I'm also ~55%N and ~45%S. I low key wish I had an ISTJ partner, my house would look so much better. My husband is very messy T_T

[@NevertahnProduction]

As an ISTJ, I can say that im like this, but im also not like this. Yes, ill make sure theres a to do list for each day of the holiday and have everything packed accordingly, but I do enjoy fun haha we all do

[@sidratehreem6574]

Can you do "16 personalities dating their opposite personality" as an INFJ dating ESTP is bit freaky thought 😳...but kinda curious about how that might go🤔

[@kyurei4478]

As a INFJ myself, I assume it would be INFJ: 😑 and ESTP: ☹️ 90% of the time. But hilarious as hell 100% of the time. A awesome cartoon probably.

[@nunyabusiness6450]

As an INFP, being paired with an ESTJ,,, we might actually become supervillains Neither one of us will stop the other

[@tigercomet23]

As an INTP, the thought of dating an ESFJ makes me anxious and on-edge.

[@flusel4949]

I’m an INFJ and a good friend of mine, who also had a crush on me, is an ESTP. And he is actually very sweet and considerate all the time - in general he is very emotionally mature! When we were both studying abroad, we spent a LOT of time together and I cannot remember a single time that I was annoyed by him - the opposite actually! I felt like he complemented me in several ways! He pulled me out of my mind, when my Ni drove me crazy, but he also sat down and listened to my thoughts and idea and was able to understand and even extend them. Like he made sure that I was actually experiencing the adventures I dreamed about and I told him about the meaning of several thing and the intention of people. Sure, it‘s not the same thing as “actual dating” but close enough (more similar than the INTP at least xD)

[@fl3640]

That would be a disaster in my opinion in the long run. Don't fall for the charm of being very different at first.

[@Wardfire]

Th entire ISTJ sketch made me happy and excited, I wish having fun was this organized and beautiful - Sincerely, an ISTJ

[@naowright9308]

Hi ISTJ, what would you do if you got in with your exact opposite? Namely an ENFP? (not pictured in this skit)

[@Wardfire]

Prepare and plan as much as I can, hard core enforce one or two scheduled items to minimize my own predicted stress as much as possible and then kind of follow along and watch them do their Ne things. It's usually adorable and entertaining

[@naowright9308]

@@Wardfire Aww, you're so sweet.😊 My husband is an ISTJ and I am an ENFP. The way I describe our relationship is: I am like a kite and he is like a stick in the ground. He keeps me grounded and I keep him from becoming stagnant. I wanted an ISTJ's opinion that is independent of us to give me a clearer insight.

[@Wardfire]

@@naowright9308 Honestly sounds like it could be a great combo! Also hanging out with an extrovert sounds like it could be nice, they can interact with other people for me haha. Some of my closest friends are INFP and INTP and although Ne is not their primary function I enjoy watching them Ne, and then I get to organize their things if they can't find what they are looking for haha

[@lucjawawrzyniak]

@@naowright9308 I'm an INFP and my fiance is an ISTJ, our dynamic is very similar to yours 😊

[@nicoleonfeels]

I don’t think I could date the same personality tbh

[@YuS-French]

I would easily fall in love with another ENFP. But dating seriously, no, thank you)

[@ostiepok]

Exactly. As ENFP I am attracted to other ENFPs (and INFPs). But I do not think that kind of relationship would work. I am happy with my ENTJ instead.

[@nunyabusiness6450]

Yeah as an INFP, need someone with some logic to ground me not someone who'll encourage me going off the grid every few weeks lmao

[@flyingdart9819]

@@nunyabusiness6450 as an INFJ with great Fe and Ti that would be easy for me. And for you try and use your Te more.

[@Gangari_the_Wanderer]

I actually think everyone's greatest hope of happiness in marriage DEPENDS on marrying your type or some time very near to your own.

[@acrylicqualia]

You perfectly captured the different 'modes' that the ENTJ switches between - my ENTJ mother used to do that all the time :)

[@MsMrExe]

IKR! I'd never seen anyone else pay attention to that fact but, as an ENTJ, it's integral to who I am.

[@Purpleslurple_2019]

She got at 100% right every time before I meet with my gf and her parents I always take the time to remember I need to act like I care about what they want.

[@daphventurer7475]

For the ENFJs, that was a very good mature and authentic Fi decision in the end. And for me,ENFJ, that is The relationship I want. People rarely ask me what I want when I offer to be selfless towards them. Only another ENFJ can understand the selfless effort and return the favour without taking it for granted.

[@siska_yuri]

Exactly!

[@Purpleslurple_2019]

Facts finally

[@EmyN]

Or just don't be selfless

[@scottsanett]

As an Fi user, the back and forth was painful to watch. Would've been so much easier if everyone just spell out what they want and work out a solution that works for everyone.

[@somborocks1924]

You should do a video of the introvert and extravert of each type dating each other. Example infp and enfp.

[@vlynashaze]

oh yeaa, that would be great! I was looking for this comment xD

[@dearkristin]

Good idea!

[@Callisto171]

As an infp into enfp, I support this idea

[@BillTheScribe]

My wife and I are both INTJ. I really thought the ISTJ was us. She does the packing and snacks. I do the routing. One year I put our trip to the coast in my calendar, complete with gas stops and 15 to 30 minutes per stop for spontaneous wandering.

[@dearkristin]

See now that "spontaneous wandering" is the key difference ;)

[@BillTheScribe]

@@dearkristin *scheduled* spontaneous wandering.

[@sophiaredwood5825]

I’m friends with an INTJ and the way she plans trips and dream vacations for fun absolutely astounds me. I’m an ENFP, so “planning” and “fun” obviously don’t belong in the same sentence... I’ll never understand you guys and how far ahead you see things 🤯🤩

[@entj5315]

As an ENTJ, I can relate. Personally, I don't want to date anyone until I finish medical school because it's so hard to find someone who understands that my career comes first

[@StrongestLibrafluidAlive]

understanding is not the problem, being okay with it is the problem

[@entj5315]

Ig you're right. Many people are the type to just let things happen, but I need someone who is willing to come second until I can get my MD

[@Macaroth1]

As fellow medical student I can understand where you are coming from. On the other hand I am not quite sure if it will be much better during residency. Oh well, I hear you can live quite well single as well ;)

[@entj5315]

I'm still in my first few years of University, but you probably understand more than I do how much of a commitment that is. It's still in the future, but I don't want to be caught in a situation where I end up leading someone on

[@naturalinstinct4950]

me too. my goal is to have my own farm and I don't plan to get in any relationship before that. lol maybe that's the reason why our type is so rare.

[@miglemigle9575]

"We've got zero Se" hahahaha I'm dying out of laughter at every blooper! You can leave more of those in there, they're really enjoyable :)

[@naturalinstinct4950]

which one are you referring to?

[@miglemigle9575]

@@naturalinstinct4950 it's from the bloopers, they're at the very end of the video

[@thomasswrisky6734]

I look forward to seeing the INTJ skit next video, but frankly, I imagine such a relationship would include: reading together in silence for hours, playing strategy or board games against each other, discussing all the ways everyone else is wrong and inefficient, discussing fundamental principles in regards to philosophy, morality and politics, conversations on very specific subjects, the creation of plans spanning multiple years to achieve goals that others somehow manage to achieve without such a plan, going on walks or hikes together in isolated areas, to a limited extent: the postponing of plans of the INTP’s, the disagreements of the INFP’s, the planning of the ISTJ’s, and between each other, the boastings of the ENTJ’s. All of this being said, I’ve never been on a date, much less a date with an INTJ, so what do I know? I’m still in the first phases of my 30+ step multi year plan on how to attract a mate. It’s a good plan though, I’m 100% sure it works in theory. -INTJ

[@lilil6753]

everything you said in the second paragraph sounds super romantic and you have somehow managed to make me feel the concept of relationships is not fundamentally pointless I want to try them with someone... wait there's no INTJs around me. -another INTJ

[@rachelrichey8567]

My INTJ guy spends hours building action figures that match his call of duty setup so he can fidget with the action figure while we're having dinner or watching a movie. He's really quiet in public but talks more than I do at home (I'm ENTP) about everything from theories on Batman and science, to strange hypothetical dystopian situations and how to survive them, and he has a wicked, dark sense of humor.

[@dobromir6865]

Dude. Posting your script upfront like that can spoil the fun. What a short-sighted thing to do!

[@thomasswrisky6734]

@@lilil6753 I’m glad that I have managed to somewhat restore your faith in the utility of a relationship. Unfortunately, I do not believe I can help you in achieving one, as this is something I have yet to manage myself. I suppose, simply take solace in the fact that there are other people who want the same things as you do. If you’re lucky, you might find one, one day.

[@thomasswrisky6734]

@@rachelrichey8567 I can certainly relate to being quiet in public, but talking a lot in certain contexts. I can, and do speak for hours with an INTJ friend of mine, but can also go an entire day with almost no interaction. It sounds as if your partner is lucky to have you. Oh, and I absolutely love the dog in your profile picture. I live with three of my own, and I imagine my life would be much bleaker without them.

[@earlyonion]

Instantly knew the ISFJ and ISTJ. When the ISTJ said the stuffs were all "folded and ironed", I'm like omg blissful perfection, i must cry. ISTJ best couple here. xD --ISFJ

[@dudeinadoughboy4327]

The "if you want" and "I'm okay not to" hit close to home

[@Odysseus1999]

I haven’t been in a relationship but I was talking and flirting with an INFP girl for a while and pretty much all of our values and morals were the same, except most of the time I talk about moral compass pretty early on in meeting someone, so if we’re complete opposites it usually doesn’t get very far.

[@paradoxicalpoet1525]

I know no one asked but I feel obligated to type this. That's not a healthy approach to disagreements. Having respectful debates where both side listen, to each other, both sides give input and both try to be open minded is essential to becoming a better, smarter person. Of course you can always agree to disagree, but having healthy debates (not arguments) is important for self growth, as well as the growth and strengthening of a relationship. Maybe most importantly, you'll see where the other person is coming from, and thus will gain more respect for the people who hold the opposing viewpoint. Otherwise you become an echo chamber where in everyone in your life just repeats your own values and thus you never have the opportunity to learn and grow. It's a good way to gain an infallibility complex, where you think your incapable of being wrong. Worse you end up hating everyone who is different. You become a bitter closed minded bigot. I mean no harm from this comment my only hope is that truly bigoted people will read this, and work on being more open minded. Being open minded doesn't mean agreeing with anything, if you here the other person out and still disagree there's nothing wrong with that, obviously.

[@Odysseus1999]

@@paradoxicalpoet1525 Ironically, it’s usually them that has a problem with me. I’m open-minded as long as you can respect my opinion. I see everyone’s perspective and I’m not intolerant. I try to initiate conversation with people on the other side of matters, but they shy away. People just take having another opinion so personally. They can have an opinion, but aren’t able to talk about it or won’t take agreeing and disagreeing as a compromise.

[@Multitudes_]

@@paradoxicalpoet1525 That's all true, but we're talking here specifically about choosing whom to get into a romantic relationship with, and everyone has the right to have their own standards and preferences regarding what they want in a partner. INFPs are generally quite open-minded and willing to hear different perspectives, but we do have certain core values that we hold dear, and we generally need the person we share our life with to be on the same page when it comes to the essential things that matter most to us. It's just about compatibility with our partner, not about discriminating or judging others, and this is simply an area of compatibility that tends to be particularly important for INFPs.

[@HPcedarpoint13]

Oh man, as an ISTJ I’ve never had someone think about literally every single detail as much as I do... that made me a little too happy

[@scottsanett]

We love ISTJs!

[@TwoSK74]

as an ENFJ I can confirm that this will 1,000,000,000% be me in a relationship

[@daphventurer7475]

Me too. :) And I like it like that.

[@TwoSK74]

@@daphventurer7475 me too!

[@artemsmirnov1134]

INFPs talk like characters from David Lynch' movie like guys from Winkie's diner.

[@CarterHurd]

These are hilarious. If you ever need ideas for your ISTP persona... here are things I've done: -Lived on Soylent for a year because it was more efficient -Made a hovercraft, motorized bike, pancake making robot, concrete table, etc -Started loving cooking after I finally realized you can do it without following a recipe -Often so bored to the point it feels excruciating and almost like pain -Pulled off the highway because I saw a frozen lake so I needed to go walk on it -Found a dude on the lake illegally trapping muskrats and learned about the process -Been with my significant other for 6 years but the thought of marriage induces panic -Got unicycle for Christmas in 5th grade, was impatient so I learned on an ice covered driveway -Accidently lit a small fire on our coffee table and just watched it burn until my roommate came in yelling -Have booked tickets for out-of-country trips 1 week in advance -Need to mountain bike, rock climb, skate, wakeboard, ski, etc to feel alive, but not reckless -Back in HighSchool, a few friends decided that I was "a robot learning to love" -Am Engineer, obv. -Have an air mattress in the back of my car for if I want to run away -Hated college parties, but had fun helping set up lights that synced with the music -If I absolutely had to do a party, would usually try to find the strangest person to talk to -Somehow end up doing just as well at most things as my rigorously planning friends, to their frustration -Must use auto-investing, because sometimes my money just evaporates when I have a new robot or travel idea

[@justme4579]

I love this!! Most insight into an ISTP I’ve ever seen from the perspective of one lol

[@arunimachakraborty4596]

Wowwwwwwwwwwww!!!!

[@zcz45]

That’s so ISTP

[@sophiaredwood5825]

I ADORE this comment~ ENFP

[@arunimachakraborty4596]

@@sophiaredwood5825 Me too!!

[@leviolon-etincelle1666]

I JUST WATCHED THE FIRST ONE AND I THOUGHT « THAT’S SO ME » AND IT TURNED OUT TO BE MY TYPE WHAT IS THIS SORCERY

[@meisterhase3587]

MR CAPS

[@meropetied]

The two ISFJs were adorable together too.

[@tsukishimakeianypronouns8054]

Sorcery? Don't you science?

[@zak3744]

*2045, voiceover in a history documentary* "...and as we all know, after a year of Coronavirus lockdowns back in 2020-21, social structures had started to break down. In this video for instance, we can see a woman who has invented 32 alter egos to keep herself company, and is engaged in an elaborate set of relationships with herself to stave off the boredom." 😉

[@YuS-French]

..and more than 15,5K people watching eagerly))))

[@evanthiaxanthakichauliac9190]

I died at both of your comments 😂

[@sophiaredwood5825]

“We have pulled aside alter ego number 27 to ask her how she feels about her relationship status. 27, would you like to speak?”

[@toria7242]

I love how you put the personality type at the end - it makes for such a fun guessing game annnd I think I’m getting better at guessing the types! Woo! I’m excited to see how useless us ENFPs will be - most likely forgetting we have date night or something

[@sophiaredwood5825]

...as a fellow ENFP, I feel everything in this comment 😂 It’s probably gonna be one ENFP texting the other going “I’m sorry I’m sorry I’m sorry I thought the date was tomorrow and then I realized it’s the 18th and I thought it was the 17th and I’m so sorry like I love you so much and you’re gorgeous and I swear I’ll make it up to you because you deserve better and if you get a boat and move to Portugal to get away from me I don’t blame you 😭💞😞” And then the other ENFP going, “Wait what no our date IS tomorrow” ...then, a second later, sending “WAIT IT’S THE 18TH? SINCE WHEN? WAIT AJDVDJDVE” First one: “...” Second one: “...um” “wanna go out tomorrow? 💞”

[@toria7242]

@@sophiaredwood5825 hahaha yessss - it turning out to actually be the 18th is so accurate 😂🙌

[@chaitanyajain3127]

Can't 2 enfps be in a successful long term romantic relationship with each other, all the other enfps are saying they can't

[@viralium104]

The ISTJ has everything planned out so perfectly that they're even able to summon floating text into existence with a wave of the hand.

[@dearkristin]

Hahahahahha

[@cathyhart3946]

ENFJ married to an ISTJ. That ISTJ skit was FAX. The only part left out was how long it actually takes to get out of the house to go something fun. I literally sit in the car for who-knows-how-long until he feels prepared enough to leave. 🤪 I will say that he never forgets anything and any item I might need is available. 😄

[@dearkristin]

Haha amazing

[@rossedmundrivera5898]

"Project can wait" YES. Entj here. I approve

[@karolinagadek7679]

Same

[@himbo754]

As an INTx (and someone with Asperger's) I am likely to say "Well, I was thinking about you. That's enough contact for now." I once heard someone talk about the difference between "affective love" (showing someone your feelings about them) and "effective love" (doing things for them). I immediately thought of "reflective love" -- I think about people. I care about them, I just don't need a lot of face time with them. I am glad my wife and daughter are in the same house, but I will be in my study watching KZbin videos or writing programs. I am content knowing they are there - somewhere - pottering around on their projects as I am pottering around on my projects.

[@Meg_intheclouds]

I feel bad for the ENTJ’s, like you can tell that the other was upset when their partner told them they got a job over seas but also I wanted to be happy for them, and offer them that support 😢. All of these are so wholesome, all your videos are so creative and entertaining while offering that perspective on each type that helps us understand ourselves and each other. Can’t wait to see what you do next. Thanks for always being so awesome 💕

[@dearkristin]

Thanks so much, your comments are always so positive and it makes my day! 😁

[@Meg_intheclouds]

@@dearkristin aww, I’m glad ☺️

[@andhereismyspout]

T-shirt: "As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord." Hoodie: Covered in pictures of Boo Me: Jealous :]

[@clarity2517]

Ikr me tooo

[@Beetlebumy]

the ENFJ couple was infuriating lol what a nightmare pairing :')

[@cece6448]

As an ENFJ, I actually didn’t mind it. It’s good to make sure that the person you’re with is comfortable with a choice you made and they made sure they did that. Plus, splitting up is okay because they both get to be happy! Plus both their moms are comfortable🥳 so it’s a triple win

[@kyurei4478]

It can be like a endless reflection if none of the two dare saying what he truely wants. This is where problems can arise. But most likely you'll slowly progress in the conversation until you're sure everyone is confortable and aware of what the other wants as much as possible.

[@sarahhamdan5470]

@@cece6448 I am an ENFJ too and I agree, it was funny but totally relatable! and I liked how they talked through it and got to a good conclusion, wouldn't mind being with another ENFJ lol

[@cathyhart3946]

I think two ENFJ's would be great. Each tripping over the other to keep all at peace. 😊

[@cece6448]

@@sarahhamdan5470 exactlyyy!!! it would be so amazing to be with someone who’s as worried about keeping you happy as you are about keeping everyone else happy. It’s like, after a long day of people pleasing, we’d have someone who wants to please us instead! Two enfjs would be good together imo

[@hanjinoyum3]

ISFJ here; the beginning was SCARILY accurate

[@GratefulOne]

I jumped off my chair and screamed I'M SURE THAT'S US 😆

[@Gen.Sun.]

As an ISTJ who isn't entirely acquainted with the types, I immediately knew the last one was ISTJ. Like, after the first whole exchange between them I could tell. I think I've gotten used to some of the stereotypes for my type, though I'm definitely not as detailed as portrayed. Probably used to be, but I think life drained me of some of that.... As it stands, I really enjoyed this video! :)

[@jettsteel7305]

Can't wait to finish watching this ✨ Oh my Lord, I haven't dated, but the way the INFP thinking process is displayed is *sooooo* accurate XD Great job!

[@mattevans6752]

I could tell it was the ISFPs just from how the two looked. They didn't even have to say anything.

[@jo.k.4210]

i love this concept; it just double-characterizes the types so well

[@ZacharyT94]

Managed to guess the INTP, ENFJ and ISTJ straight away hahaha.

[@betelgeux6010]

i love how ISTJ is basically a DIY clip for aliens who want to go camping

[@grettirasmundarson9980]

Brilliant! You nailed ISFJ. The sticky notes and highlighters line had me busting out 😂

[@zandarmaver5569]

Bless the ISTJ's who have their vacation planned out better than half my friends' plans for tomorrow!

[@gabrieldossantossanta5656]

Isfj and enfj where the most cute ones, so heartwarming

[@daphventurer7475]

I think so too.

[@GratefulOne]

your comment made my day...really

[@seshiru4977]

I felt so uncomfortable during the ENFJ skit because this kind of situation happens to me all the time 😭

[@tigerareyouthere]

Hahaha I can SO tell who’s the ENFJ from all of your videos, every, single, time! Had an ENFJ colleague, she never told me her MBTI type, but it’s so obvious. Amazing how well you do all the types, great acting skills, empathy and humor!

[@dearkristin]

Thank you, Flippie! I appreciate it!

[@michaelrabon1189]

Hah! You do a great job of making each MB so distinct! I've become a lot better at figuring out what type is what thanks to you.

[@Linawouldrathernot]

As an INTJ, I found the ENTJs in this video insanely relatable. Up to and including the things they say to themselves. And the thing about moving overseas. Imagine other people having a say about that *shudder* hahahahaha

[@theknight3583]

I love this series! Please make more!

[@starseekers3765]

your acting is really on point, it amazes me every time! i can always guess the types based on body language & the way they talk, it's so entertaining!

[@dearkristin]

Thank you, mah!!

[@ydnis8374]

I can't imagine how hard the work you put on to making this video. As you not only writing (cleverly and creatively) the script, acting on it (excellently), but also making me believe that there are 2 people talking to each other in every scene. It feels so real and easy! Kudos for your talent, creativity, and video making skill 🤩👏🏻💜

[@dearkristin]

Thank you so much, this comment made me smile!

[@willywonka6948]

I enjoyed this very much! I look forward to seeing the next episode.

[@marishaten7399]

Amazing! The pair of ISTJ robots really cracked me up! Also, this shows it's best for all the types to date their own. Can't wait for part 2!! Edit: I rewatched the video and I'm in love with your beautiful golden phone cover! I noticed it in your social media video too!

[@JimmieCNote]

I think you're getting better with the ENFJ ones everytime. Absolutely spot on! 👍 Thank you for taking the initiative to post these. 😁

[@dearkristin]

Hahaha thank YOU for your comment, James!

[@leviolon-etincelle1666]

Oh my gosh, you make the best videos 😍😍☀️

[@bell1337]

I'm already knowing that this is gonna be a good series 😁

[@infernocow22]

In love with this thanks. Your acting is a fantastic slow burn

[@MazorKuziaki]

I laughed SOOOO hard at the ISFP. Your videos are genius. I'm an INFP and definitely felt that skit too.

[@missgreen2784]

Such a good video idea, Kristin! I'm really excited to watch. :) Also, your thumbnails are getting better and better!

[@JayAnnAych]

Spot on! :) I recognized the ENTJ when they talked about their jobs first. All your clips are so much fun!

[@artperson7617]

Omg the ENTJ one, there was so much Te, Ni and a little bit of Se, it was so in character, you’re amazing!!

[@flowersafeheart]

INFP and ENFJ seemed most like me and appealed to me. They were so NVC cooperation like and feelings-focused and I felt so proud and comforted how fairly and peacefully they sorted out Christmas plans. Mostly the others really didn't. Some would feel like torture to me, like never seeing each other or hardly caring about ever seeing each other or doing things together and mentioning plans to move overseas like it's no big deal. Were INFJ and ENFP in here though cause those are the other two that generally resonate. I'll watch it again. The two that lost money at racetrack but didn't care cause they had fun seemed fun! ISFJ had a nice supportive talk too. INFP feeling deep emotions and harmomy-focused and starting over with an idealistic dream definitely sounds like me.

[@backinbahia]

i love your videos, they have been one of the best things for me on youtube 😂 waiting for part 2 to see enfp ✌️

[@sophiaredwood5825]

Aaaaaaa YESSSS I LOVE THIS 😂🤩 can’t wait for the next part! 💞

[@Tenshiwing]

Loving these so much, thank you for uploading :D

[@angstydoodles1101]

I instantly knew what the INTP one was because that's how I'd prefer my relationship to be if I ever had one. Dating my best friend in middle school doesn't count, but that was the only time I "dated" anybody, and that is exactly how it went on my part. If they didn't initiate anything and if we didn't go to school together, that quite possibly could have been the entirety of our relationship. EDIT: That's also how all my friendships went, back when I had friends. In middle school.

[@LL-muddy1]

Brilliant! Acting is spot on. I thought the ENFJ might be INFJ (my type) & it was awesomely uncomfortable

[@johnny_roots]

As an ENFJ I can attest, it took me a while to discern if I was one type or the other hahaha

[@angelinafun8336]

Such a good video! Excited to watch part 2

[@dearkristin]

Thank you! 😁

[@heshistamps3108]

This was hilarious. thank you so much for making these videos, they are incredibly entertaining.

[@hugowells489]

That king boo hoodie.... incredible

[@scottsanett]

As an ENTJ, I would understand that for my partner moving overseas for work is overall a sensible decision for her, but I would also be low-key unhappy about the fact that we might have to separate, in which case we either have to do long-distance (which is not ideal) or I need to find a job overseas as well (which is not easy and may not necessarily fit my long term goals). You nailed that conflicted emotional state perfectly.

[@AnneleenRoesems]

Loved the video! Also these outtakes were great :D

[@rifter6176]

This is LOL amazing! I was rolling with the ISTJ's at the end!

[@dearkristin]

Thanks! 😁😁

[@AlbertOdyssey]

As an INTP, I can confirm! Now, allow me to continue watching my documentary.

[@bodine219]

This is one of my favorite skits yet!!

[@dearkristin]

Thank you!!

[@Fenristhegreat]

ISTJ's are doing things right! That is some efficient relationshiping. Bonus points for use of the word 'Capital' as an adjective.

[@JohnHenrysaysHi]

Woah. Eat your heart out One Life to Live. That ENTJ skit got a little heavy. Man, this was really creative idea for a video.

[@ZacharyT94]

Yay a new vid!

[@Olivia-Saturday]

This was really fun! I enjoyed guessing the personality types :)

[@susanam.826]

Great video!

[@mr.midgardville]

I wouldn't want to date a me. I feel like i get along the best with more extroverted types. There have been some times where my reaction to someone in my mind is just ugh cause they feel a bit "extra" but end up being one of the better people around cause they just keep pushing and somehow i end up liking the person. My biggest crush infact was also most definitely the quirkiest person around back then and remains one of the more... Interesting people, i know irl. 😂 -INTP

[@GermanTaffer]

Well meeting each other is really disastrous indeed. But if I can give you a life advice as an INTP: Even when the extraverted are very fascinating, the problem is: We need isolation when being in trouble, the extraverted needs some "party". As long as you have energy you can go with on the party for your partner. I did it a lot. But eventually your energy is depleted and you are dreaming of a toilet or an "urgent" task downstairs. This is a real problem. I found an INFJ , and we work really good together.

[@marie27023]

I am also an INTP and find extroverts exhausting. I feel like they don't understand my desire to spend time alone and they always think that talking to people about your problems is the best way to get better.

[@mr.midgardville]

@@marie27023 Yeah, i mean, while i feel like most of the more interesting and fun people i've met are extroverted, they've mostly just been colleagues so i've been able to "escape" home at the end of the day. And don't really exchange phone numbers with many people so, i guess there's that. 😂 And of course i have good friends that are somewhere between extro and intro. But there's something about some extroverts that get me more interested than introverts most of the time. Like a part of me that gets to shine only with extroverts. 😂