16 Personalities Describing Their Ideal Partner

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[@christiestreicher]

This INTJ approves of this message!

[@StephanieJeanne]

"🎶My best friend's girlfriend. My best friend's girlfriend!" Hehe. I love the INFJ can't describe himself. 😂👍✌️💜

[@uitoai]

Again 20 mins

[@whiskeywine]

Time stamps would be nice

[@Carol_65]

Happy 100th 16 Personalities video!!!🥂🎉

[@chaoticbreeze6262]

INFJs struggling somewhere in between having extremely high standards and having no standards at all lol

[@m2255-e3n]

Yes, that's our daily struggle

[@sarah52292]

Yup

[@muskanagarwal9170]

Once my friend asked me about my type and I was like I have it in my brain... i guess🙃

[@waterfallsdontsaymeow2917]

Ah that defines me

[@sonoanya]

YES

[@gabriellagaby3675]

ENFP is basically saying INFP's list out loud 😂😂😂

[@masyaf897]

lmfao

[@rjrodriguez5491]

That's what I thought, too. LOL And I realized, I think having an ENFP partner will be fun. hahahahha

[@tjhasley4688]

Haha yes! I was thinking the same thing 😂

[@cen3684]

infp x enfp pair when having similar values is so powerful imo

[@imjustagirlletmeliveomg]

I think so

[@JustBinam]

Legend says INFJs are still thinking how to describe themselves😂

[@maryonngrace5604]

It's not a legend 😭🤣

[@Finnstee5000]

I watched this video, laughed, and then thought of how to describe myself. I am still thinking.

[@jeecaesara5314]

Lol we have 50 personality in one body, which one should i describe 😂

[@jiyaissleeping]

They are right 😭💀🤣

[@Phoenixqueen77]

Hi, I'm INFJ, and I'm here to tell you that yes

[@pranalisarpotdar8203]

Do 16 personalities as teens lol

[@zaraf]

Yes!!!!!

[@Ale-mm5lj]

Yeeees! jajajaj

[@saranonimus9211]

As pet owners would be great, too. 😂

[@spare1981]

haha awesome idea!

[@MattKeepsFish]

Problem with that is... before the identity phase of development, children are kinda wishy-washy with their personality.

[@firerose2164]

0:12 ESFP 0:19 ISTJ 0:30 ESFJ 0:44 ISTP 0:54 ENFP 1:01 INTJ 1:15 ISFP 1:23 ENTP 1:34 ENFJ 1:43 ESTP 1:55 ENFP 2:01 INFP 2:10 ESTJ 2:20 INTP 2:32 ENTJ 2:36 ENFP 2:40 ISFJ 2:50 INFJ 3:13 ENFP from infp🤗

[@alyshahgulamhusein1584]

thanks! btw you got isfj wrong. That's where isfp is supposed to be

[@cobaltorchid6962]

first ISFJ should be ISFP

[@firerose2164]

im changed in to isfp😽

[@orangut4ng]

thank you timestamp timmy

[@zaidzahid6409]

Thanks for the timestamps.

[@_I_don_t_know_]

As an INFP i feel like dating ENFP would be so cool, it's like dating someone out of your brain but with too much energy. They tell their opinion and you tell them you agree coz u do

[@mooh2802]

Id love that

[@GrayFieldss]

Same!!!

[@yunsing1508]

YAS

[@dominicstarr3065]

It IS Cool!!! And the Best part is, at least with My ENFP, he gets it when my 'social battery' is too drained to talk, and will either be quiet with me, or find something else to do while I recharge!!! He's the Best!!

[@darrenbenn4561]

As an INFP who is dating an ENFP she is the best. If you both agree on fundamental values then you have more likely found your "the one".

[@Sly-Moose]

INFP, my ideal partner is a fictional character. Real people disappoint me.

[@anisanancy6459]

R u an intj?

[@ENFPerspectives]

Painting with too broad a brush stroke.

[@anisanancy6459]

Or maybe infp

[@Rayofsun_1]

2d characters supremacy 🙏

[@ncarminei]

The part of the people disappoint it's true in my case and for someone reason i don't have interest in the people around me, the part of the fictional character it's funny but a little part of that its true as well

[@CatsAndOrchestra]

ENFPs often say we want a strong, articulate, and crazy partner, but we usually end up liking shy, mysterious, chill introverts. 🥰

[@CatsAndOrchestra]

@Fake Names Nice! I love INFJs as well. INTJs and INTPs are also great. 😊

[@renosenpai]

So this explains why I find shy people cute and attractive 😂😂💙💙 (but for me no mysterious i prefer someone honest and shy)

[@CatsAndOrchestra]

@@renosenpai Oh yeah, I like honest people once I get to know them. 😊 But when it comes to first impression, I get fascinated by mysterious people which leads me to talk to them!

[@_anonymous_creature_]

H o n e s t l y Like, I want some crazy yandere elf man with a feminine side and an ability to perform arts and use a lot of knowledge, but when I actually think about how that would effect the real world, then my reality partner ideal suddenly changes to a soft/gentle introvert who's kind and trustworthy yet mysterious lol

[@yasselesca]

Veeery true - ended up with INFJ after having ESTP, ESFJ and ESTJ in my life. It's the best relationship I've ever had. ENxP

[@lochlochy3452]

The way the ENFP keeps popping up with all his energy and enthusiasm and increasingly superhuman ideal 😂😂😂😂😂😂👌🏻

[@mfernanda_trindade]

It's cute 😄

[@mooh2802]

@Bubblez do u have an enfp boyfriend?

[@mooh2802]

@Bubblez Do you want an enfp?🦁

[@mooh2802]

@Bubblez Thats intense

[@Marshiethemarshmallow]

Yup! I’m an enfp, and I relate with the energy, and going on about something for hours. 😅

[@fleurierosa3284]

And that’s why most of INFJs end up being single 😅

[@anisomniac5931]

Yep, self-esteem is one of our biggest issues...

[@Arourus]

As an INFJ... i am comfortable being single :D

[@anisanancy6459]

@@Arourus coz we're married to solitude.

[@deepestshadeof_8815]

Facts

[@avanny3915]

@@anisanancy6459 exactly

[@fandombucket473]

My biggest fear is the question “How would someone describe you?”

[@m2255-e3n]

Same

[@GeekNewz]

you should always answer that someone will describe you as annoying

[@Roberta-wu7bd]

*forgets everything*

[@m2255-e3n]

@@GeekNewz huh? What do you mean by that?

[@anisanancy6459]

LMao painfully relatable

[@ryeechan]

I died laughing at this video. I'm an INFJ married to an INTJ and I'm telling you I don't know how we survived! Hahaha... My husband is literally emotionless and I'm an emotional wreck of a nut ball filled with the wonders of an INFJ! I sometimes think I should be alone but I fit into his 10 year plan so he won't let me go. It's too peopley out there...🤣

[@gbob90]

You are right, you do fit into my ten year plan, keep up the good work.

[@ryeechan]

@@gbob90 with all my overthinking and trying to stuff all my ideas into one plan, it's comforting that you have a 10-year plan while I figure out where to put all my ideas and thoughts and emotions. So many compartments, idk where to start! 😩🍺

[@amandesmiel3674]

If it's fits it fits 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@ryeechan]

@@amandesmiel3674 right!! 😂😂

[@waffleweirdo1252]

INTJs aren't emotionless, we're just shit at expressing them xD

[@trisblackthorn1122]

*INFJ* : My ideal partner is the morally grey character of the last book I read who had a tragic past, is actually an angel that's dying inside but seems like a bad person to everyone else because they don't understand them as well as I do. So basically...no one irl.

[@mayordiz]

Hi, haaaave you met ENTP's? 😂

[@trisblackthorn1122]

@@mayordiz Yeah but the problem is that they're all "real".

[@plainsaw3771]

Please the name of the books? ,I want to know that grey character too

[@trisblackthorn1122]

@@plainsaw3771 Julian Blackthorn from The Dark Artifices Series by Cassandra Clare. And Will Herondale from The Infernal Devices also by Cassandra Clare. You'll have to read The Mortal Instruments first though. There are videos on YT explaining in which order to read them.

[@kay5101]

That's me! Hey that's me

[@majacleo862]

INFP: has a really long list of qualities in their future partner. Also INFP: "Wow, you have beautiful eyes and even though you are the complete opposite of what I thought I wanted, I´m 100% sure, we can make it work! Love will conquer all!!!"

[@Takisan111]

Yeah, lately I find myself drawn to people giving off ENFP or ENTJ energy. My list always gave me the impression I was best matched with fellow introvert types

[@ThatOneBard_BritzOP]

So true

[@anam2916]

Lol, exactly that, I think It's because infps tend to romanticize everyone who is kind to them

[@prjdghyt]

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA! The guy I like rn has beautiful eyes and he's not what society would consider hot. 😶 and also not completely my type but he has a good heart and treats me well. - INFP Btw he's ISTP.

[@denzcromacky8013]

.....i mean-

[@milliehaagen7526]

INFP and my dating profile was literally "I'm an asexual introvert looking for a partner to sit on the couch with in pj's eating take out and watching movies with. Also must love cats." And it worked! I've been with my wonderful ISFP partner for 2 1/2 years 😊❤

[@Pikeyanistin]

I am an asexual INFJ and I was dreading dating because of it, but your comment made me hopeful

[@Jyuudie]

Wow, I should try that XD

[@bassma9795]

That's literally my infp friend (she's asexual and loooooooves cats 🥰)

[@eval4495]

That sounds so much fun. I want someone who can do that with me too. - INFP-T

[@FREAKOFNATURE-mb8oo]

@@Pikeyanistin hey, same:D

[@french_cries_]

As an INFP, what he's saying is true but the ideal partner is just someone who em loves me ;-;

[@mayconreyes3446]

x2

[@ceci_sph]

same,,

[@JelloHamster]

Same

[@faithemerson6897]

Yeah, I never made a list, but I eventually just figured out they're all subconscious lol. Honestly though I was hoping/expecting him to say a big list of things and then be like "but, yanno... Whoever it ends up being I'm sure they're a great person 😅" because THAT would be on point

[@shashwatamajumder1689]

same

[@hollyvincentart]

Maybe INFJ can't describe himself because he actually has all the magical qualities the ENFP is describing but doesn't want to reveal that to the world 😄

[@m2255-e3n]

😳😲😆🤔

[@mooh2802]

I refuse to date infjs :D im a rebel

[@mthd3920]

My partner is ENFP and I’m INFJ and we both absolutely have the attributes described in the video and I guess your comment to the extent although I feel very weird saying that 😂

[@anisanancy6459]

@@mooh2802 as an infj im with you."NO TO DATING INFJ'S!"

[@hollyvincentart]

@@mthd3920 😂 so long as you're both happy together, that's all that matters 😊

[@chai_burns]

INTJs trying to calculate the probability of finding a partner who won't totally uproot their life with emotional instability and too many text messages, but is patient enough to listen to them talk for HOURS about whether plants consider the pot they are planted in 'a house' or 'a pair of pants': "hmm, it says 0.000...%"

[@rubyred186]

Now imagine finding someone like that while being a female from a conservative society. 🙃 Life is hard for an INTJ female like me....

[@fumetsu4323]

Partner who will take everything serious, will be opened, confident and honest. It's impossible.

[@n.j.1894]

My standards are so high to the point where I have almost accepted that I would probably die alone.

[@tink6225]

EXACTLY

[@Jooney91]

I almost got married ladies. But my ex wasn't patient and durable. So I am single since and probably die alone too 😂

[@dbg0206091]

INFP who finds a magical partner with all the qualities they wanted: stares at them while saying "I can't believe you're everything I wanted! wait.....are you being honest?" then becomes internally paranoid. "this seems too god to be true. I must obsess silently to myself about it." 😂

[@vrindaharchandani9836]

Aah, so well said. The trust issues. 😂😂

[@maggieo1683]

Lol 🤣

[@user-cc3jw8ef7j]

I had a lot of trust issues with "perfect to me" bf as an infp. he really seem to be perfect but said he loves me, i couldnt believe so i didnt trust him for 4-5 months

[@sakura5sango6]

This is *M O O D*

[@Milonification]

This literally happened in my relationship with an INFP

[@apumintan]

INFJ ideal partner: - someone who knows how to work around our anxiety/overthinking (yes, we need constant assurance that everything is fine) - someone who values growth and development (intelligence turns us on) - someone who does not say things like "you work too hard/ you need to live in the moment/ etc" (you'll only receive the door slam) - someone who is capable of having mentally stimulating conversations for hours and hours (no small talk - just hit us with the hard questions)

[@dollindirty1578]

Sounds about right lol

[@eva1742]

Did you read my mind?

[@vee258]

Aight, where do I apply?

[@angeakamine6697]

Yea!!! So true, but... Hate to admit that I really need somebody to hold me to the present, make me "come down to eart", someone who look me in the eyes and say "you're fine, we're fine, everything is fine, I love you so please... SHUT UP AND CALM DOWN!" 😂😂😂😂

[@anitalianorange8427]

100% true

[@lidette711]

INTP: I want someone who reads so we can read together side-by-side, but no talking, please! Me, an INFP with an INTP boyfriend: sitting closely together--he plays his guitar, I read my book. Sometimes, I have to mentally recalibrate and remind myself that he's just right there. 😅

[@MsWill813]

I am ENTP, so I am the one who does the reminding.

[@felipdsccp]

Ok... the ENTP was straight up a personal attack, so god damn accurate

[@purplequeen5974]

Agreed...

[@mailatgheorghe865]

Oh yeah...

[@TheFren]

It actually made me really sad that one. I know one ENTP I feel like their the lonliest ones. INTJs and INFJs run away with the ENFPs and they stay single... my mum is ENTP though and her marriage with an ENTJ worked well. Just make sure you have a big enough house.

[@Hypertoniclemon]

I hollered! I’m an ISFJ & my ex is an ENTP (it ended badly) & I admit I begrudgingly think of him that way when he complains about his singleness

[@noctivagantlibertine]

@@TheFren That's hilarious, basically my INTJ/INTP marriage also only works if the house is big enough. Took us a few moves to work that one out. 😂 We joke all the time about wishing we can afford two houses right next to each other.

[@Kai-qo1nx]

My ESTJ friend once told me "Love doesn't pay the rent", I can't wait to show him this video. I'm sure "there's nothing more romantic than not being poor" is going to be his new favourite phrase 😂

[@ritabat1875]

As an ESTJ this also my new favourite phrase

[@esthervip]

lul😅

[@myangimeowgi]

That reminds me of one of my favorite lines I heard from Atelier Ryza 2 from a girl named Patty: “Romance doesn’t put food on the table.” 😂 And I agree, hahaha.

[@karmakameleon113]

Where is this friend, is he single and is he over 30? Asking for a 33 year old friend who has her shit together and is tired of playing sugar momma to perpetually struggling little boys. 🤣

[@sisterB_warriornun]

ESTJ here..I couldn't agree more! We need to be practical. I want a partner who can handle his/her finances well.

[@jasd4704]

He should do one with “who they ACTUALLY end up with” 😂

[@The_Rising_Dragon]

You should know IENSFTJPs don't end up with anyone!

[@ghenulo]

Perhaps I should think more about personality. I just know before I'd even consider having a relationship with someone, he'd have to meet certain physical requirements (Frank James fulfills at least two of them). Though, being with an extrovert, regardless of physical qualities, is something I couldn't handle, unless he'd be cool with me staying at home while he goes out.

[@raininess]

Really enjoying how ENFP goes into the "ideal" part of the question and gets so passionate about it while still being able to give a realistic alternative.

[@cadenzuehsow895]

That’s how we are

[@agustinamei6691]

And then they fall in love with a shy/chill INFJ.

[@mooh2802]

@Bubblez Ure in many places in this comment section🦁

[@zipperooni]

That part hit different for me bc im an ENFP and my partner actually does like martial arts

[@di3393]

@IAMBRI I like infj tho ~enfp

[@hopeodubena7784]

Legend has it, the INFJ is still thinking of how to describe himself

[@quirogatnonerrat3214]

Just hunt down another Infj. That's our ideal partner: someone compatible that can understand us. And since no one can understand us, except for us, well, it's pretty clear to me.

[@clouds5894]

buhuhu

[@kaydincathey]

@@quirogatnonerrat3214 i am somewhat nervous with the idea of marrying another INFJ...I know them TOO well🤣🤣🤣

[@quirogatnonerrat3214]

​@@kaydincathey I am married to one and it's amazing. I feel rested with him, I feel at ease. I don't feel stressed, I feel like he is my refuge. I can't explain how amazing it is. As opposed to the toxic horrible ESTP I was married to before. I even was with an ENFJ. Amazing friend, but tiring partner. Stressing me out for every single thing because they want to solve thing RIGHT NOW. So no extroverts for me. Others like INFPs drive me mad for not knowing what they want. Infj is my ideal partner and I finally got him. And I can vouch for that

[@kaydincathey]

@@quirogatnonerrat3214 Awe that's super sweet.😊 I love hearing that kind of stuff! I had an extrovert(he said he was an INFJ but there's no way. I type people for fun and he HAD to be an extrovert. Way too much outgoing-ness🤣) ask to get to know me better not too long ago and it was a straight up "nope" cause I felt super drained with him. And while my best friend is an INFP, I think you are right. I couldn't marry one either. Thanks for sharing your story. 😁 Maybe I will be more open about it. Are you an INFJ too?

[@bwingbwinggwiyomi]

as an INFJ-T, the most dreaded question for me in a job interview is "how would you describe yourself?" my mind goes error 404 and expires LMAO so relate here in a way

[@quirkyphoton302]

When someone says to me: Describe yourself in one word. Me: Can't

[@exjehooberdubexpiobeezleeb6269]

😂😂😂

[@Gaze73]

Describe yourself as the definition of INFJ-T then.

[@cecirculo]

if you know your hogwarts house you can use the house's values to describe yourself (it's my go-to when im asked this question) im a Hufflepuff so mine would be: hard-working, loyal and friendly

[@bwingbwinggwiyomi]

@@cecirculo yo that's smart, but mine sound pompous asf 🤣 my primary house is Ravenclaw so "wise, intelligent, wit, sharp and fast learners/a learner" like "yes hello, you should hire me because I'm super intelligent, quick witted and wiiise" 🤣 my secondary house is Gryffindor so "brave, risk taking, charming, courageous and daring". Just pompous 😆 thanks for the idea though, I could use my MBTI type or astrology sign instead!

[@SeanWainwright24]

INTJ is accurate. Met and married another INTJ and we complement each other’s 10 year plan.

[@alexeysaranchev6118]

That's true love right there.

[@tarasweeney9242]

I found myself an ENFP. ENFPs don't have any plans and are perfectly happy to go along with INTJ plans without complaint. We never fight about anything. It's great.

[@SeanWainwright24]

@@tarasweeney9242 Only ever met one ENFP as a romantic partner long before I knew very much about MBTI...and this was probably 20 years ago in high school. Looking back, we were an amazing couple and probably would've gone the distance if it wasn't high school and both moving away for different colleges. Definitely don't regret anything, but she was a fun complement.

[@justinestephonie4606]

I am very happy for you

[@ruthielalastor2209]

That is so fcking beautiful. Congratulations. 🤩

[@GeekNewz]

intj is so true, people need to be less selfish and change their ways of liveing to fit my plans. -intj

[@ENFPerspectives]

Lol

[@Naz1Killer]

I doubt I can fit a partner in my life, plus my plans are dormant anyway since I'm out of passion

[@GeekNewz]

@@Naz1Killer same but i would still do almost anything to get rich so i guss thats my passion

[@diannematos6102]

Esfp here and I want someone who has or wants the same life plan as me. So I don't have to be selfish and decide for both. Lol I also live life as a rollercoaster lol

[@tineputzeys]

Yes, but also no. I don't want anyone that NEEDS to change to fit my ways of living. They should just have preferences that are in the same direction (like early bird vs night owl preferences or having similar needs for alone time etc.)

[@tiana3358]

INFJs: I don't like ordinary people. I want somebody who has a tragic backstory, but she/he's a good person, so I can help them to process their childhood trauma and then we will live happily after that.

[@ashleyredsheep]

i'm not totally sure about that though. i feel like it would definitely be nice to be able to council a partner sometimes, but even with friends, people with deep running trauma can get really draining after a while. i'm good at understanding and giving thought out advice about their situations, but the fact that it's so thought out means i'll be genuinely exhausted afterwards and can't deal with anymore counselling for a while.

[@maryonngrace5604]

😭 This is way too accurate.

[@tiana3358]

@@ashleyredsheep I just wrote that because INFJs tend to attract to toxic/narcistic people. It's an irony, but it's true for me. 😕 Don't take it seriously!

[@ashleyredsheep]

@@tiana3358 lol i get that, and it's pretty true, last girl i dated was definitely a sociopath.

[@youtubeaccount-yr6hb]

If you change that to mutual humor at bad pasts and living an ok but not perfect life it's a deal

[@arlokey8281]

As an INFJ with some dating experience, I would say I have settled on the following qualities as ideal: Patient Cuddly Aware of the void which threatens to consume us all. Funny

[@Winter-Cardinal]

🤣 INFJ here. Awareness of the void is key!

[@peacenotwar4430]

totally agreeing with the void one lol

[@sharpequeen]

100% described my fiance

[@noashaham5438]

I would say someone spontaneous as we have a tendency to over-plan and need that connection to the present

[@noashaham5438]

But also important: sincere, kind, and passionate. These really are the base in my opinion, everything else are extras.

[@501Labsmusic]

INTP Revised: I need someone who can simply exist in my space while simultaneously not bothering me because they have independent hobbies and dont need constant attention ...

[@LL-muddy1]

As an INFJ i support this. Or better yet, lets have space next door to each other.

[@definitelyreal.]

Someone who grounds me when I tell them all of my unrealistic goals so that I don't have to feel guilty about telling them why their dreams need a back-up plan (seriously INFP, sometimes you need to tell me I WILL FAIL. Stop being so blindly supportive!), though I'm fine with them going out and learning the hard way anyways. -INTP

[@501Labsmusic]

@@LL-muddy1 Haha. I volunteer as tribute.... With an additional provision of a Hogwarts themed archway between the two spaces #Ravenclaw 🦅

[@LL-muddy1]

@@501Labsmusic hahaha absolutely! That's a requirement my fellow #Ravenclaw🦅

[@501Labsmusic]

@@LL-muddy1 🧙🏽‍♂️ Its settled then. Name the settlement? ... And Frank said INFJs couldn't describe themselves 😂

[@knightenchanter7908]

As an INTP, I want a partner who loves me while not bothering me at the same time by forcing me into doing things I don't want to. They'll know I love them without needing me to show them outward affection all the time, because I'm terrible at showing affections. And someone who I can support from behind the scenes without needing me to be in the front and centre.

[@hooman9554]

Dude same

[@lu.cien_dt]

Thisss. Right now i'm with an INFP boyfriend and it is a little bit hard. I try to tell him things i don't like to be forced to do without making him sad or overthinking things. It's kinda hard because INFPs are emotional

[@Whyareyoustalkingme123]

As an entj I really like this cause I hate too much affection, it’s overwhelming lol. I want space. I just want to feel secure and that when we have our time together we’re 💯 there together .

[@TitaniumTronic]

As an INTP, I want my partner to not exist, one or two friends are enough commitment already.

[@sugariibox]

My best friend is intp and I am isfp and what you want describes our relationship (get yourself an isfp this is not an ad)

[@Jenaroo]

As an INFJ, I feel like the most ideal qualities for my partner are the abilities to compromise and to grow. I don't care how great they are, if they can't do those two things the relationship will always be doomed and I'll get bored/detached quickly. :/

[@yurisurran9869]

Same here!

[@Maid_of_Spiders]

Funny, I'm the exact opposite. I have a fairly consistant identity and would like my partner to be the same. My worst fears are either making a potential partner bored because I dont really plan to reinvent myself or grow to hate the person I used to love because they changed in a drastic way. INFP btw

[@yurisurran9869]

@@Maid_of_Spiders I'd actually like to find someone who'll constantly develop personally while also help me develop too, one where we grow together and eventually compliment each other

[@Maid_of_Spiders]

@@yurisurran9869 interesting how we have completely opposing criteria for a partner.

[@amasterofone]

Yeah if my last partner hadn't broken up with me I think this would have ultimately doomed it for me as well..

[@JB-so5gr]

ENFP: I'll have an INTJ, please! INTJ: I'll have an ENFP, but shh... Don't tell them.

[@gamercj3682]

Naruto (ENFP) and sasuke (INTJ) 😏

[@kitsuneray]

@@gamercj3682 stop

[@harrycrosswell2844]

Why do people think this? I never understood it. I know several ENFPs and none are at the top of my list... Or anywhere near the top.

[@gamercj3682]

@@harrycrosswell2844 what type are you

[@manasaprakash7125]

So trueee

[@FebbieG]

INFP here. About a decade after marrying my ISTP husband (who is hilarious, btw)I found the "what I want in a husband" paper that I wrote as a teen, and he met every. single. entry. on my double-sided 9 point type size handwritten list.

[@TheChristianCountess2721]

Oooohh, you're living the dream!! Congrats!!! :D --a fellow INFP

[@coolbeansgreens]

You go girl😭

[@Ana-h3w]

😂😂😂damn girl you manifestation worked

[@gtgrandom]

As an INFJ, I thought my ideal partner would be someone who could talk for hours about the philosophical, who always wanted to spend time with me, and who was super romantic and charming. Instead, it’s someone who keeps me grounded and living in the present moment (but who still entertains my inquiries), someone extremely independent, and someone who is willing to work on our relationship, emote his feelings, and compromise. He helps me grow! ❤️

[@lissyrae2283]

I am also an INFJ, this sets my heart at ease, thank you ❤

[@katherinejoy9048]

This is great, yes we need someone to help our feet touch the floor from time to time 😂

[@Toopalaylay]

Wow spot on. Exactly my thought and my reality too!!

[@TrueAlpha100]

I’m an ENTP and that’s basically what I want 🤷🏻‍♀️ someone who will talk in concepts and big ideas with me for hours, but would also be happy to spend time w/me just reading in the same room without talking. I think the misconceptions about entps is that they’re the anti- INxJs. NO. We may operate in different ways but we are soooo desperate to be engaged by someone willing to take the deep dives on stuff and who has strong principles/opinions. Our issue is the world is primarily made of sensors/feeling types, so they’re not usually interested in most of the stuff that makes us come alive. Don’t get me wrong, we need their help to plan out our big ideas and keep us from brainstorming forever. But I think a lot of the difficulty associated w/entps is because we’re pretty rare and the majority of our world is operating on a whole other frequency and doesn’t care to tune in.

[@greatwavefan397]

INTJs check every mark except being romantic.

[@tenthousanddaysofgratitude]

My ideal partner loves me, shows loyalty, fidelity, honesty, a good sense of humour, and integrity. Yes! My best friend. Basically, I need a dog and then who needs a partner? 🐶 - an ENFP

[@AmberArtNYC]

ENFP 💡 🐶 Except when it’s time to clean up after them because they can’t clean themselves... Like that’s fine in the return of the diaper years, but not so romantic or ideal in the beginning.

[@ENFPerspectives]

Integrity, Virtue. Wisdom. Honor. Loyalty. Self-reflection. Accountability. Responsibility. Inner-strength. Authenticity. Humbleness. Forgiveness. you’re not easily offended, prefer reality over fantasy, don’t have a fragile ego, value self improvement, are independent, not controlling or clingy I need a Cat 🐈- ENFP5W4

[@tenthousanddaysofgratitude]

@@ENFPerspectives I used to have a list that was a page long 😂. I agree on the cling factor. But aloof is tiresome, too, in my experience - hence I choose dog over cat. 😂

[@tenthousanddaysofgratitude]

@@AmberArtNYC 😂 In my experience, cleaning up after dogs isn’t such a bad price to pay. Nothing more endearing than the doge gazing adoringly at you. They will love, honour and cherish you if you train them right 😂🐶💖

[@copy-cat-p6776]

YESS I don't want a superhuman unless it's batman . Well @Ten Thousand Days of Gratitude I agree with ya I'm an ENFP Btw

[@agnesfonmarten]

That INTP reading ‘relatively close to each other, but no talking pls’ part sounds really appealing, haha. -INFJ.

[@hayleycarter461]

Same! -INTJ-A

[@vs3262]

me as an INFP: literally has a list of idealised qualities that i want my partner would possess... but falls in love with emotionally detached fools anyway 👏

[@newchapterasmr]

Girl i'm the same...

[@vs3262]

@@newchapterasmr 🥺 why are we like this

[@newchapterasmr]

@@vs3262 We're broken ones aren't we.

[@isolated.wallflower]

Don't worry I Am Boy And I am also like this emotionally fool, I Know What I want like Caring, Cute, Fun loving, Positive Approach Of My partner and much more but I fall for Just caring girl and then also She friendzoned me🥺🥺🥺

[@toast9803]

BRUH WHY IS THAT SO TRUE 😭😭😭

[@sViviftie]

As an ENFP I just want someone who's as interested in truly getting to know me as I am in getting to know & understand people

[@mylifeisameme9408]

same wait are u hungarian?

[@sViviftie]

@@mylifeisameme9408 no german haha, are you?

[@mylifeisameme9408]

@@sViviftie yes, I am I always see a woman at the hungarian yts comment section with a similar profilepic 😂😄

[@loveujiminiee]

Yes🥺

[@neonlaugh]

So true!!,

[@amberkay2]

INFJ: My ideal partner is someone who is secure in who they are because I tend to not be. It helps if you know me better than I know myself and reflect that back to me so I can take notes and modify as necessary hahaha I’m a nut bag.

[@iCookieChan1]

Why is this me? Lol -fellow neurotic INFJ pining over a passionate INFP

[@scarlettkara2762]

Neurotic INFJs / nut bags for the win! WOOOOOOOOO

[@Finnstee5000]

I'm an INFJ and this is the closest to my answer.

[@mfernanda_trindade]

It's so good to know that I'm not alone after that I found out my mbti, INFJ team guys 🤝🏻

[@Trisuku]

Does such a person that's capable of knowing you that well really exist?

[@sintumolefe1918]

INTJ, my ideal partner is someone who can hold a serious and intellectual conversation but is still affectionate.

[@GeekNewz]

so true, but if they will heart my 30 years plan and not for the better i might break up with them

u just summed it up perfectly

[@sintumolefe1918]

@@GeekNewz same, there is a reason why we have a plan and there is no reason for it to change for something like emotions especially if it doesn't benefit any one of us.

[@lissyvasquez5919]

✨ENFP with well developed Te✨

[@Gintoki881]

INFJ would like to be with somebody who understands him/her without any words. So yeah…

[@m2255-e3n]

And that's why we are so single

[@maaiker2977]

As an INFJ female I agree. But there is a personality type which definately isn't INFJ but weirdly works (still no clue which one thou....I'm guessing ENFP but I could be wrong about that). I seem to attract them and its so weird but might be healthy for us INFJ's. Haven't gotten myself to date one yet cause they also scare the cr@p out of me. Thats not gonna end well. You know the type....its either the best thing or the worst...yeah not gonna risk that. * we are introvert and that type wants to put us centre stage. On the one hand having someone coach you out from hiding might be healthy. On the other hand, all eyes on me out of the blue freaks me out. "Ohh please someone kill me now, make it stop"...:turning as red as a tomato: They are non stop going "behold my INFJ". Like they found a hidden gem they want to expose to the world. Yeah I like to remain hidden thank you very much. * the INFJ has layers. Not many people get to meet our core layer. But I met people that without me saying anything basically rip my layers off and go "nice core ya got there". 😳🙈🙉🙊 Thats scaring the h€ll out of me. Don't know how they do it, they seem to understand me on a deeper level. But as an INFJ I am used to my inner core being private. To have someone IN PUBLIC poke at my core makes me feel emotionally naked in public. But on the other hand, they seem to see me more clearly than most people in life. I feel understood in a scary sorta way. * their inner child is alive and kicking....well its not an inner child...its out definately out. I'm talking Peter Pan syndrome here. But as an INFJ my inner child is alive and kicking too....at home or with close friends in a safe space. But that personality type brings out my inner child in public. We INFJ's should relax and play more.....might be healthy for us. Be less in our heads and have more fun in the moment. They are non stop trying to get your attention in child like ways. You try to be serious at the office and all of a sudden someone demands your attention like a 4 year old. Like being serious at the office but there is a circus clown sitting next to you.🤡 "You have got to be freakin kidding me".🤦‍♀️You try not to laugh cause it will only encourage them but you can't help but laugh about this giant goofy weirdo. Their childlike optimism and relaxed nature is great when this infj gets low on energy from all the negativity in the world we see clearly but the rest of the population is clueless about. The INFJ weaknesses we face...they somehow work well to prevent us from falling into our pitfalls. It might be a healthy combination.....or they will drive us completely bonkers. Untill now I've been able to stay away from that one....but its tempting.

[@zen9er]

@@maaiker2977 that's because a spectrum of enfps feel and think the same way as complicated and layered as infjs do and understand alot of things intuitively too but we don't necessarily sit in a dark hole feeling like aliens. We have no choice but to wear our hearts on our sleeves due to nature even though we get misunderstood, laughed at, and shot down by people alot. But still we get up and do our thing and hope for the best. Infjs and Enfps are similar in all sense except one is the parent who secretly wants to play and one is the child who wants someone they respect to play with

[@maaiker2977]

@@zen9er exactly. My co-workers joked about a peter pan syndrome. And I used to joke "well every peter pan deserves his wendy". But I don't date them cause a parent-child dynamic in a relationship might not be good in the long run. Sooner or later the INFJ will bore/nag the ENFP.

[@zen9er]

@@maaiker2977 that is true. I do actually feel quite stifled by an infj from all the tasks they bogged themselves with constantly and can't seem to just "be". And I'm uncomfortable with that. But that's also cause I've found my own level of balance within my "wilderness" and the other party doesn't seem to want to communicate about touchy subjects like themselves, just like in this video, "describe themselves." It's as important to know oneself as to know other people in order to mature and while I acknowledge and respect their inclination to be responsible, it still takes communication to learn to understand and appreciate growth in that lacking area. So even though there's alot of natural chemistry between these 2, I guess it takes 2 mature ones who knows who they are and what they want to do all the rest of the work to overcome the uncomfortable differences. And they are uncomfortable only because growth can be painful :) So yes Peter Pan loves a Wendy and a Wendy loves a Peter Pan but only if they both understand the need to grow in each other's directions. Btw I'm probably the least well communicated enfp so sorry if you are already lost in the words above

[@MarianneBrandon]

True INTJ story: I was mildly annoyed when I met my now husband, because it happened right in the middle of a plan to move out of state, so I had to completely overhaul my life plans. I’m not kidding-I already had stuff in boxes that I had to then unpack. Worth it.

[@hipposapien5434]

As an ENFP, I can confirm that chillness is the number one trait to look for. Like, they can't be freaking out if I decide to go to Nepal or invest all my savings in Bitcoin, ya know?

[@PPNanaHime]

Going to Nepal is actually a good idea for clearing the mind and nourishing the soul. ~ INTJ

[@chandramaswain6150]

As another INTJ I have to say you are crazy. I am equally bewildered by and fascinated with you.

[@laraa1841]

sounds like my best friend and my boyfriend - annoyed INTJ

[@narurinyan]

Exactly 😂

[@gabriellagaby3675]

I would like to go to Nepal too 😂😂😂 it seems to be a great trip! - an INFP who loves to travel

[@kobugikobugi]

ENFP: wants everything ideal but actually just want someone that accept your weirdness. But also have to fit the criteria.

[@Kim-rw6tz]

yes yessss

[@narurinyan]

Hahaha exactly 👏

[@meghanapenumarti2397]

I am an INTP, and I want a person who can make me laugh and have no Ego problems, no stereotyping and one who loves his parents... I believe that the attraction fades away soon, so the relationship should be stronger than surface one... Respect, care and mutual trust are important...

[@boruverse1774]

I totally agree with your perspective - INFJ

[@GeneBean43]

You sound awesome 😢 - an infj

[@angelataraxy]

As an INFJ, I watched this with my INTP friend and tried to describe myself to him after this. I came up with: -I always breathe -I always sleep at night -I always look at situations to figure out... Stuff 🤦‍♀️

[@Sophie-vw5ol]

What do you do else after a year from that comment? I guess there's something else, like cooking for example 🤗

[@angelataraxy]

@@Sophie-vw5ol haha review check, thank you! Hm. I... Am... -Creative -Empathetic -I like... Learning There's a couple 😂 Hope you are better at answering 😊😜

[@misce_]

ENFP always appears randomly during all the video 😂 it's so funny

[@julietteferrars3097]

ENFP: “Thighs of steel, that could choke a man to death!” Lol so, do you want an INFJ? Or an INFJ? 😉

[@Evelinaa]

HAHAHA

[@ellybean7354]

Creates OCs of my different ideals in a partner and daydreams abut them instead of finding a real boy to love. -INFP

[@Sly-Moose]

Why bother relying on irl humans anyway? Literally same.

[@shirogane_hoshi1136]

I feel attacked🤣

[@Bigbitsofeverything]

Why is this also me lmao. The best part is I can draw the OC :> then cry because a coffee-loving emo boi will never find me.

[@ellybean7354]

@@Bigbitsofeverything It's so tragic.

[@rixalla5598]

Don't call me out luke that

[@FalconOfStorms]

"hello darkness my old friend" should have started playing for the INFJ skit.

[@m2255-e3n]

Yes! 😂😅🤣😄

[@cccaaaa]

That would have been perfect 👌😂

[@quirogatnonerrat3214]

Just hunt down another Infj. That's our ideal partner: someone compatible that can understand us. And since no one can understand us, except for us, well, it's pretty clear to me.

[@esthervip]

so dramatic 😅🤦🏻‍♀️

[@m2255-e3n]

@@quirogatnonerrat3214 We don't even understand ourselves. That's the whole point 😆😅😂🤣😬

[@crthejediknightninja]

The ISTP joke is so good, it's just so perfectly done that literally only ISTPs will laugh at it.

[@chihiro668]

hahaha

[@HeyHerb1]

Infj here and this is the only one I laughed at besides mine. 🤣 Wow, 20 minutes to write this and I erased paragraphs of explanation and anecdotes because I couldn't make it say what seems to be a simple concept in my head. So yeah, this made me laugh.

[@biscuitface7245]

i watched it and literally paused the video before he said it was a joke and spent 20 seconds analysing the irony behind the joke thinking about how it was mildly funny.

[@reasonlessguru3724]

I'm an INTJ, but my brother is an ISTP. The ISTP entry made me laugh my butt off because it's so on point.

[@AtarahDerek]

I laughed and I'm an INFP. But my IQ is also 121.

[@ulyssemartinfrigault1021]

As an ENFP, I was really into who enfp was describing but I was like "the only legit thing that can happen is a woman with thighs of steel." And then at the end he was like "but realistically, someone who's chill" and BRO THAT WHOLE THING IS SO ACCURATE OHMYFCK

[@astolat2262]

"Martial arts master" is possible enough tbf

[@Spingus33]

INTP here. We just want someone smart, good-looking, and someone who understands you (usually INTJs or another INTP)

[@astolat2262]

I'm an INTJ who's with an INTP. She's artistic and quiet and I love her so damn much

[@tjhasley4688]

INFP - I do have an actual list of the qualities I want in a person 😅 gotta have a vision 🤷

[@musiclover6842]

I have a list… but sometimes my idealism makes me not trust my list

[@monicagonzalez3625]

I literally have a list too I started dying when he said list 💀

[@sunairax]

the infp one is soo accurate, it's actually weird that i have a whole notes folder and a whole pinterest board dedicated towards them.

[@ladyviolu3924]

Fucking mood. I know what I want, but it's very hard to actually put it down quickly

[@madhatter4129]

Yes yes yes . Fictional characters I have like so many of them. Real people aren't gonnna come close to that i guess lol

[@tintakwenda8826]

@@madhatter4129 lol exactly

[@tedlovejesus]

Trust me... when truly fall in love, you will forget the lists right away 😁

[@Sosogami]

mood or they could just be like Wilbur am I right

[@wilbeugre]

Is this the 100th 16 personalities sketch? You need to celebrate it!

[@ryb2704]

Damn, called out. Accurate INTP. Also can say from experience, a dating profile that says "I'm looking for someone to sit on the couch and read next to" attracts INFJs like nobody's business

[@akindantagonist8708]

The lost INFJ. The struggle is real.

[@quirogatnonerrat3214]

Just hunt down another Infj. That's our ideal partner: someone compatible that can understand us. And since no one can understand us, except for us, well, it's pretty clear to me.

[@yasselesca]

That's why I just boldly swept-up my INFJ and he liked it xD We are very happy together. ENxP

[@aradoran]

I'm an IxFJ. Yeah. The struggles are real

[@quirogatnonerrat3214]

@@aradoran so you are an ISFJ 🤔

[@aradoran]

@@quirogatnonerrat3214 I think so maybe? I don't really know.

[@DemonRazor88]

*INTP Exists* -I just want someone to talk to and go on a grand adventure with... *Everyone*-Ewww no.... *Sad INTP noises*

[@definitelyreal.]

OH sweet fellow INTP.

[@kapaa8296]

personally I would want a friend like this B) I want to go on a grand adventure too! -enfp [so yeah feel free to join enfp adventure squad]

[@DemonRazor88]

@@kapaa8296 *Joins the ENFP crew to go on a adventure* I sense a change in the wind.The time has come to take the first steps in our grand journey.

[@vermiliongardens]

@@kapaa8296 INTP + ENFP is lowkey a dream team, at least as far as friendship

[@kaydincathey]

*INFJs* : Don't feel bad! We'll talk to you and go wherever you want...as long as there aren't too many other people😂

[@starlitrose8385]

As an enfp, I remember in highschool writing about my ideal partner in German, and it included the phrase "can swordfight". I wanted to add lasers but school is no fun 🤌✨

[@jjan2383]

ain’t no way😭😹…

[@vincentkita212]

Whenever I see the guy with the lumberjack shirt I'm like "ah, the istp"

[@aliisy9194]

Reading a book quietly close to each other ? As an INTP, I agree this is sweet😂

[@anisanancy6459]

What else do intps like?

[@delll372]

@@anisanancy6459 memes. a lot of memes. and partner who likes twisted jokes/controversial ideas. fun trivias. asks interesting questions. understand the norm but wont take it as it is. in short, a partner in crime.

[@hannyverryna3891]

IKR… even for me, the best place to have a date is at the library or the bookstore. Hahaha

[@alexandramaglakelidze1782]

I’m an ENFP, but I would genuinely love this 😄

[@ingver5035]

Another enfp who is searching for this kind of relationship

[@Pandorash8]

As an ENFP who found her soulmate, I can highly recommend ISTJ’s. They look after us, and we help them have fun 🎉

[@AlChaos]

As an ENFP I can highly recommend to find a better and easier way of turning yourself completely miserable and misunderstood rather than dating an ST type

[@Pandorash8]

@@AlChaos my ISTJ loved me wholly for who I am. I brought him joy and he grounded me. We were a perfect match. Sadly he passed away two years ago. I miss him every day. Don’t dismiss anyone based on their type alone xx

[@johhada9304]

Yeah but they don't like me 😭😭

[@acelnut]

lol just find an INTJ

[@SigourneyBarriere]

When he started talking about a 10 year plan, I paused the video and was like "Oh God, it's INTJ isn't it?" HAHAHAHH (I am an INTJ)

[@okamy7641]

Same 🤣🤚

[@hazelcampbell4453]

As an INFJ, the INFP saying 'I have a list' really resonated with me lol. Yes, I have a list.

[@OrifielM]

ISFJ. We really do make things harder for ourselves by wanting to be best friends with our ideal partner and then being surprised when we're friendzoned.

[@the_letti0584]

This whole isfj loyalty/falling for best friend shit is awkward and i honestly dont like it… unless my bestfriend was falling for me aswell but idk wether this will ever happen. I guess being an isfj girl and falling for a male bestfriend isnt as bad cuz boys dont friendzone as much… at least i dont

[@entp_adventures]

As an ENTP I can say this was his most relatable ENTP sketch ever

[@sreeharidascloud]

yes,

[@purplequeen5974]

Yes

[@eylmorningstar]

Yes af

[@mailatgheorghe865]

Absolutely

[@FlyingGrimaud]

I no joke told that to my roommate last week.

[@christinam867]

Aren't we all just looking for someone who can handle our personality?? Haha !!ENFP is to funny. 🤣🤣 INFJ here and this is so accurate. I can't even describe myself.

[@StephanieJeanne]

That's right! Someone who can handle it!👍😆

[@christinam867]

@@StephanieJeanne absolutely!!! 😆

[@quirogatnonerrat3214]

Just hunt down another Infj. That's our ideal partner: someone compatible that can understand us. And since no one can understand us, except for us, well, it's pretty clear to me.

[@xiera4966]

@@quirogatnonerrat3214 well in case of infp umm...Idk what'll happen if both of us going to get emotional mess and starting self pity session over a small problem 😂😂😂😂

[@quirogatnonerrat3214]

@@xiera4966 I am with another Infj and I can confirm: he is my ideal partner. Sometimes we don't even have to say out loud stuff and the other just knows. It's like mind reading. It's amazing

[@ooi97]

As an ENFJ(A) I confirm that "I'll know when I find her". Fun fact? I hid the fact that I was dating from everyone for half a year just so that I can form my own, unbiased opinion of her. So the second part kind of works out too

[@laurelsamuelson3764]

Me going into this video: I swear, if the INTJ says anything other than a non-intrusive non-entity who makes my dating life practically indistinguishable from my single life-- INTJ: They better fit into what I'm already doing because I'm not about to change plans for some chump Me: *tiny gasp* I am my own soulmate

[@tinaparker9974]

😂😂

[@okamy7641]

YES-

[@emilyk1502]

Same

[@personwithaquestion1800]

All INTJs in the comments. 😁

[@astolat2262]

As an INTJ, my person is an INTP. She's an artist and I will love her till I die

[@the.ivy_trio]

The INTP one is pretty accurate but I can just describe my _really_ ideal partner in just three words: hot, fictional and dead.

[@chrisb9143]

"smart and good looking"

[@delll372]

even after i have a human boyfriend i still tell him "i have a game husbando" 😎

[@louisejoel]

INTP wants to partner with themselves

[@kolamkolamovsky5419]

@@louisejoel Hell no. I wouldn't be able to date myself. It would be painful AF

[@tekknorat]

You wanna date a...hotdog?!?!

[@enigmatic2878]

Why does it feel like all representations of ITSP are sarcasticly comedic? I love it.

[@jenpoole7291]

This is hilarious. I am 51 and have had many short and long term relationships. I am an ENFP. Seven years ago, I married an ISTJ. You would not think those types go together at all! I have to say, it is the easiest relationship I have ever had. It’s less about type and more about appreciating what the other has to offer. Do we annoy each other sometimes? Of course! That being said, we both have done a lot to grow and can focus more on how we balance each other. I know I can trust and depend on him. He trusts me, depends on me for other things. He needs someone to encourage him to play. You can make any two types work as long as you appreciate what the other has to offer.

[@user-lb3up4rq2i]

Thats so sweet!..I wish you and your Istj a long happy life together! I also was with an istj for 9 years...I truly loved him and loved how responsible he was. They truly are amazing at being constantly dependable lol But he seemed to be a very unhealthy istj very narcissistic which led to us parting ways. He constantly cheated and eventually just left me for another women. But I low key still want my next partner to be an istj lol just a healthy one or maybe and isfj

[@jenpoole7291]

@@user-lb3up4rq2i I’m sorry he put you through that. Part of what I admire about my ISTJ is his integrity. I wish you success in finding your match. ❤️

[@jaegeristsupremacy2038]

im an enfp who likes an istj. hes like me but not, yk. we can enjoy the same things whilst having different opinions about it, it's quite a strange chemistry i have with him. idk what he thinks of me, i think he finds me weird but enjoys me enough to be my friend LOL i hope something between us works out in the future but yk, whatever happens, im glad i have a dude like him in my life. it's nice to have someone who works inside the box when u always work outside of the box.

[@AndromedaMoon888]

I’m pretty sure ENFP and ISTJ have the same cognitive functions just in a different order so that makes sense! I’m also an ENFP who tends to like ISTJs :)

[@AtarahDerek]

At your age, those types are highly compatible. Less so when you're younger, but that's because younger people have less patience.

[@whitneyd6827]

0:44 ISTP is so ridiculously accurate, it was like my brother was on screen lol. I enjoy ISTP humor

[@stevent2671]

Your brother and I would get along because I too enjoy standing in the desert answering random personal questions.

[@小猫-u4n]

@@stevent2671 lmao!!😹😹😹

[@kristinr4928]

When I have an IQ high enough, but I'm also autistic. 😅 I'll get the humor after the initial autism shock. But at the same time, I know people who actually would say something like that, so I believed it at first...

[@eggiesammich]

ENFP and I can relate to this so much. Describing my INTJ husband to someone: "He's basically a genius... but is also heart achingly handsome... And he's super fit and into working out. And can fix almost anything. But he's also a really nice, chill guy..."

[@jehmarxx]

I am an INFJ, but I literally have a long novel (diary, because I don't want others to read it) describing my imaginary pursuit of an imaginary ideal partner while also finding who I really am in this existence.

[@ashleyredsheep]

for me its an ongoing dream at night that takes place in a realm where wielding magic spells is possible. but i just insert myself through another made up character because i don't want to consciously dream about myself (yuck)

[@camwoods6969]

Same, It' been going on for a long time now. It's a self insert character that is me but not really that is just healing and learning to love with the friends she made along the way and.. is also a badass secret spy and assasin!

[@yeseniadelgado7018]

Yo is it sad that I do to😅... But also had other things written down, from random thoughts, dreams, doodles, secrets... My secrets that is, random lines of words/poetry/lyrics whichever, daily events, and also important goals/plans/manifestations... And low-key I be questioning myself to when I write in it sometimes.

[@pedrobalau9811]

How there are so many infj here but still its the rarest type ever. Something wrong is not Wright. -i am an enfj

[@misheru-senpai1038]

now that you say it, usually my dream crush is in fact obviously in love with me o.o

[@blitzdash7287]

Do 16 personalities talking to the same type

[@m2255-e3n]

Interesting 🤔

[@MelanieHooks]

I think this is my favorite of your ENFP takes 😁 Sure, we love the goofy fantasy land. But our every day is far more grounded and chill than we like letting on.

[@ingver5035]

As an ENFP the superhero is of course the goal for both of us - but the one thing I can not do without is a person that lets me grow and wants to grow themselves

[@asimplecadence]

100%!!! It's that Hayao Miyazaki quote!! _"...Rather, I want to portray a slightly different relationship, one where the two mutually inspire each other to live-if I’m able to, then perhaps I’ll be closer to portraying a true expression of love.”_ (I'm also ENFP)

[@bebelmatson]

@@asimplecadence YES like gilbert blythe and anne shirley!!

[@nathydj5308]

Exactly!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What is a relationship if not knowing each other better and grow together??

[@PopoSimTalia]

INFJ: If you can describe me then you are my ideal partner.

[@noeliboeromaiorano]

More like: “If you DON’T ask me to describe myself then you are my ideal partner”

[@quirogatnonerrat3214]

Just hunt down another Infj. That's our ideal partner: someone compatible that can understand us. And since no one can understand us, except for us, well, it's pretty clear to me.

[@rickrivers2021]

@@quirogatnonerrat3214 It's not uncommon for INFJs to not understand themselves, as humorously portrayed in the video. So another INFJ could just as easily result in two people that don't understand themselves. It's better to find someone who helps grow your own self-awareness and self-esteem, and that can just as easily happen with someone very different as with someone very similar.

[@quirogatnonerrat3214]

@@rickrivers2021 oddly enough, I am an Infj with an Infj partner and I can confirm: he is my ideal partner. Better than I could have ever imagined. For example I don't even have to say out loud what I want to say and he already knows what I want to say. We are never at each others throats, but discuss issues like mature responsible people. It is perfection in my eyes. So idk what you are talking about.

[@rickrivers2021]

@@quirogatnonerrat3214 I'm saying that it's no more likely to work than any other pairing, not that it isn't likely to work. If an INFJ is looking for someone to understand them, they have to also understand themselves. A lot of them do, but a lot don't. Having the same type does not always result in the interaction you described. It has for you, and that's great. But it shouldn't be recommended that INFJs prioritize looking for other INFJs because the assumptions on it's success, like the assumptions on any pairing's success, are too hastily taken for granted. Also, you can understand someone who thinks very differently than you just as you can understand some who thinks very similarly. In the latter instance, understanding comes from comparison, while in the former it comes from contrast. Neither is more or less effective, it depends on the unique individuals involved. The types of the individual people I've understood the most in my life have been an INFP and ENTJ. I'm INTP.

[@luceyfah5304]

ENTP's personality doesn't just limit the dating pool, it limits the friends pool too. RIP.

[@GrungeFairy11]

Omg yessss Business partners, family members... basically anyone that has to deal with us

[@scarfall6465]

So accurate, almost no one supports is

[@ajbinc6997]

It's a tough world for us out there...

[@chemquests]

I’m good with the shallow witty interactions which don’t really qualify as relationships & that’s about as much people as I want…yeah but married with 3 kids so that’s tough

[@TheBayzent]

@@ajbinc6997 Nah you get used to it despite the Extroverted thingy.

[@miyshalopez8586]

Intj is such a mood. How am I supposed to fit anyone else in if I've already planned my life without any extra add-ons?

[@ChrisWakitsch]

I’m an INTP ... and you’ve described my ideal partner! NO TALKING!

[@Takisan111]

What if they talk in ASL? Does that count as no talking?

[@willowway42]

@@Takisan111 lmao 😅

[@JohanKylander]

@@Takisan111 only ASL, Text, and Morse code.

[@zumijumi8320]

As an ISTP, I always see if my partner have the same frequency as me and can laugh at my jokes, cuz everyone around me just doesn't understand my sense of humor :(

[@imnotasimpur9810]

Fr

[@AtarahDerek]

We don't have a single ISTP in my family, and yet somehow this ended up being all of us.

[@lolduck3445]

My sister is an istp and her humour is dark but kinda funny.

[@nathydj5308]

Maybe you should try to change ur expression a tiny bit and they would get it 😂. Would be minor like arching an eyebrow. Try it once and u will see it works 😅.

[@Gintoki881]

I guess ENFP would like to have INFJ as a partner because INFJ has a superpower - invisibility

[@bananabob9751]

0:11 ESFP 0:19 ISTJ 0:29 ESFJ 0:44 ISTP 0:53 1:55 2:36 3:14 ENFP 1:01 INTJ 1:15 ISFP 1:24 ENTP 1:34 ENFJ 1:43 ESTP 2:01 INFP 2:09 ESTJ 2:20 INTP 2:31 ENTJ 2:40 ISFJ 2:50 INFJ

[@allieverlaine860]

ENTP: “at this point, I’m only looking for someone who can handle my personality, and that one thing really limits the dating pool.” ENTP here and that’s 💯😂

[@ameliap0ndd]

I don’t even really buy into MBTI all that much, but I’m an ENTP n the moment he said that sentence I thought ‘that’s the most accurate thing I’ve heard about myself in a while’ before realising he was even talking about ENTPs so there ya go maybe there is some validity to it

[@dominicalioto8517]

Yup I felt that

[@therainbowziege2317]

True

[@ourdreamseason2136]

Totally true😂

[@aanya3901]

lmao yeah 🤣

[@areliserna8977]

And then we ENFP'S realize everyone could be like that. That's why we can fall for every kind of personality 😜

[@Kim-rw6tz]

so true!

[@ti9erlilly]

Anyone: Describe yourself. INFJ: ... I... Can describe you perfectly...

[@welcometomyfantaside4124]

Yes omg so true

[@avalk2463]

exactly thee feeling

[@nora1184]

And i think it's sad

[@DarkSidePhoenix]

As an INFJ, these videos all feel like personal attacks... and I love them, keep them coming!

[@rosabscura]

I’m dying at how accurate the Infj one was 🤣😬

[@m2255-e3n]

It really was 😬

[@lilamiranda33]

I was wondering how you were going to interpret the INFJ. It was perfect. That’s EXACTLY what it’s like being an INFJ. There are no words.

[@irenedagami130]

I actually figured out why it is hard for #INFJs find it hard to describe themselves. I tried to describe myself before and I struggled between not sound like an emo and angsty teenager or a saint (I sometime think like I'm describing myself and sounding unrealistically kind that I feel like I'm whitewashing myself too much and end up degrading myself too much). 🤣

[@Anna_b360]

ENTP here - literally has to pause because I was laughing so hard at how true it is - like, scary accurate

[@anamaia5696]

ENTP so accurate LOL i haven't found someone who could handle my personality yet. No even me can handle myself sometimes 😂

[@youarethecauseofmyeuphoria2977]

As an INFP I can confirm last time my friend asked me about my ideal type, we went into a full hour talk because I am too picky 💀💀