INFJ & ENFP - The most compatible relationship?

INFJs are the rarest personality type in the world. They are idealists, advocates, and dreamers. INFJs are equally idealistic when it comes to romantic relationships. ENFPs are characterized by their charisma and enthusiasm. They are creative, charming, independent, and energetic. When it comes to relationships, ENFPs also bring their enthusiasm. For people with this personality type, relationships are a joyous process of mutual exploration, and a chance to connect with another person. Though INFJs and ENFPs seem like different personalities, they are quite compatible. Watch this video to find out why!
We also made a video on the signs you're an INFJ, the world's rarest personality type: • 8 Signs You’re An INFJ...
Disclaimer: The MBTI is a personality inventory designed to roughly identify a person’s personality type, split into 16 categories. As such, it may be prone to not quite hitting the mark for everyone: so take it as a list of rough tendencies rather than strict classifications. This video/article’s primary intention is for providing entertainment and light-hearted content backed up by properly-vetted professional sources.
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[@Psych2go]

We also made a video on the signs you're an INFJ, the world's rarest personality type: kzbin.info/www/bejne/emmcf2aVm6uqqKM

[@Mxddie_xD]

Hi

[@whotheflipism00n]

can you do INFP?

[@Bottleofwater-n5y]

Ah, ghenshin impact references, now THESE are true golden references, not the SMP community ones

[@Ramkumar-eh3ij]

Can you do like this for INTP to please

[@felixcyprus1667]

I want to see ISFJ next, but either way I'll be happy to watch whats next

[@ICEcoldJT]

“Don’t let getting lonely make you reconnect with toxic people. You shouldn’t drink poison just cuz you’re thirsty.”

[@cowl6867]

Damnn that's good

[@grav8455]

@@Maito89 sounds fun

[@mpoemp4703]

VIRAL BABES

[@kimsmith819]

Amen to that 🙏

[@crystalgacha2218]

Hit hard since im doing exactly that rn..

[@Jonesy3461]

I once heard that ENFPs are INFJs but just inside-out. ENFPs tend to wear their childlike/playful approach to the world on the outside (so this is what most people see at first) but have quite a reserved inner world on the inside. On the other hand, INFJs tend to wear their more reserved self on the outside but have a childlike, explorative inner world. It would make a lot of sense considering ENFPs and INFJs have the same cognitive function ordering but inverted.

[@aureliaavalon]

Interesting. Well, they do say ENFP is the most introverted among the E type, this is well known. Since they're inverts, I guess INFJs are the most extroverted of the Introverted types? Yup, it does make a lot of sense.

[@vanio4254]

@@aureliaavalon actually INFJ is the introverted type but we could be seen as the extraverted person.. when i tested my mbti with my friends, my friends help me to answer since that was my first time, i was ENFP, but once i did it myself for so many times i found out that i'm an INFJ. we could be seen kinda extroverted coz we love people, we love to know n solve other's problems, we can be hilarious n funny for keeping the harmony or flow or mood but actually it's draining for us to keep doing that. but we somehow can find our way to recharge n be fun again

[@Scl3rot1c]

@@aureliaavalon Well, it varies on an individual level, although I'd say that ISFJs are the most extroverted introverts, but I believe that INFJs are the most rational feelers.

[@laura.bt83]

INFJ - I was just thinking how deeply I relate to all ENFP movie characters, because I’m very much like an ENFP when by myself/with closest friends + free to be vulnerable. It actually is a side of me few people get to see. It’s like ENFP are a part of me. Exactly what you’ve said!

[@amandacorigliano2606]

That's so true. I'm an INFJ dating an ENFP. When we first met, I did see him as a charismatic 'life of the party' type person, but he does not see himself that way. In the five years we've been together, it is as if our personalities reverse sometimes. He reveals his complex inner world to me, and all his goals and theories, while I start acting like a golden retriever.

[@genasi9370]

INFJs just gather together in MBTI KZbin videos instead of actually meeting new people. That's why there's a lot of us here. :^D

[@aydaaricanli4301]

same i'm just an infj that sits in my room watching these :D

[@fallenpotato7019]

@@aydaaricanli4301 im INFJ-T and let me tell you SAME XD

[@spaghetti5914]

exactly lmao

[@somelamenamehowaboutmr.juk6231]

Agreed

[@laurenare2184]

FRRR

[@Kkwbia8588]

As an INFJ, I was literally amazed by how my current boyfriend who is ENFP flew through all those social layers that I created to isolate myself to get to me. Just wow.

[@katystrawberry2513]

Hey, I just want to ask u a quick question since u seem to be very happy with your ENFP boyfriend ... almost all the people I ve dated in the past were ENFPs but I always ended things seeing there was no potential for growth since we both share the same Feeling function and being both feelers in order to be challenged and growth I always feel like there must be a Thinking type in the dynamic ... don t u kinda feel the same way about it? Just curious INFJ

[@Kkwbia8588]

@@katystrawberry2513 Sorry to hear that. ENFP boyfriend is the best bf SO FAR to me. We're both feelers I agree but I feel so happy when someone empathize me this deep. I want to be more understood than someone who fill the gap that I don't have and idk if that's even healthy...

[@k8chillx]

I don't know who are the ones approaching me but they are definitely on the bolder side. I don't make myself appear approachable romantically so only the brave and bold are the ones that do

[@kerstingravel8160]

@@katystrawberry2513 I‘m an INFJ-A and I’m married to an ISTP. Sometimes this can be very challenging. Once we had an argument about something and my husband wanted to understand my points of thinking. So I really tried my best to explain it as good as it was possible, but he wasn’t able to understand. And not only that, he couldn’t accept it but he really struggled following my thoughts, he just didn’t understand at all. Of course even if there is the same mbti, every person is different, but „thinkers“ and „feelers“ together in a relationship or marriage can be tougher sometimes. Sometimes I miss the feeling of being understood. Of course the INFJ is not easy to understand completely, but sometimes I think the „thinkers“ struggle much more with it.

[@1in_8billion_]

Frr

[@haru-fk8yu]

Psych2Go : INFJ &ENFP the most compatible couple also psych2go : INFJ world's rarest me an ENFP : no wonder im still single

[@evarootbeer22]

All the best finding THE INFJ for you :') - an ENFP who is also single

[@roseunic6799]

Same also INFJ and single

[@elenana346]

Yeah, here I am, with an INFJ as a best friend...

[@aimanharith5817]

@@roseunic6799 trueee

[@roseunic6799]

@@aimanharith5817 Yeahh

[@somethingcreative3307]

As an INFJ it’s good to know there’s alot of ENFP’s in the world because I’m totally gonna leave my room

[@xavierlong298]

...eventually.

[@gayathri.8523]

please get out ' = '

[@GBS4893]

One hundred ENFP's are ready on the hunt. Prepare for the absurd jokes.

[@chopotledragon6610]

@@GBS4893 damn right

[@last3mber724]

Guess it's time to go out, stand awkwardly, and hope my enfp randomly finds me lol

[@bummie]

the infj’s in the comments are talkin about us enfp’s like we’re on amazon prime 😭

[@damnnyall]

HAAHAHAAH

[@arushiverma4652]

🤣🤣🤣

[@jakechat2716]

(INFJ here) My favourite films are all on amazon prime 😊

[@Timmyisdissapointed]

Honestly, my self esteem is on the rise with every comment I read

[@agniakhumaira8293]

FR HAHAH

[@Saliha1997]

I'm an ENFP and my fiance is INFJ. One of the greatest compliments he ever gave me is that I quieten his mind. I love him so much because we communicate effortlessly, we literally complete each other's thoughts most of the time; it's borderline telepathic. We make each other feel so loved and cared for and respected. But I will say, if you want an ENFP and INFJ relationship to work, both of you have to have the same values, since INFJs have very very strong values and ideals. I just feel so lucky that my and his values coincide so well.

[@user-io9yn9vr8w]

sooooo true 💯💯💯

[@z-6517]

As an INFJ, who barely knows anything about other mbti types, having someone quiet my mind sounds like a dream

[@idiotic-qf7b]

same too@@z-6517

[@epli72]

Wow that's so beautiful. I'm not religious at all but bless you guys :D

[@lauradolecki259]

Same as this only I’m the INFJ, and my bf says I quiet his very busy, anxious mind 🥰👌✨ We just celebrated 2 years of effortless love 🙂 I’m an assertive INFJ so I’m more self assured and carefree than the turbulent type.

[@rustedcrabtm6438]

“INFJ’s are the rarest personally type, they make up 2% of the world’s population” Me, an ENFP who’s played far too many gacha games: “hey if it’s higher than 1% it’s Practically guaranteed”

[@xynium.]

The Megumin pfp did it for me.

[@lemoncinn4084]

I’m an ENFP tooooo :D I haven’t met any other ENFP before ;-;

[@rustedcrabtm6438]

@@xynium. lmao

[@leshynezvaloare8044]

Too much genshin mate

[@ThBlueSalamander]

lol

[@shiwanichandra6602]

Okay people can we have a moment to appreciate the art style, it's ✨beAutiFul✨

[@chibi_okami]

I know right? I really love the artsyle

[@shutit333]

@@chibi_okami same! ☺️

[@lopezroilans.8384]

Saw the Genshin Impact references were too many

[@TaraTatangelo]

yes it sure is.

[@Narvella]

why do you spell beautiful like that? and why the sparkles?

[@nagiivi]

me, an INFJ: I don't understand why is it so hard for us to get a lovelife also me: hides in my room and watches relationship videos Edit: As you can see INFJ's don't hide in the bushes like popular belief says, we actually hide in the comment sections of MBTI KZbin vids.

[@Miscinhe]

TOTALLY RELATE 😅

[@redsenorita6446]

True 😝

[@redsenorita6446]

@sreeraj. design 😅

[@utauloverlilyteohjiayan8977]

Ahaha you are not alone lol

[@Byteable]

Ugh as a INFJ guy I think I’m going to be single forever 😐

[@thehumanbeings]

when i did the test a few years back, i was an enfp but recently i am an infj, so i guess i have the most compatible relationship with myself :")

[@_Experience_.]

I’m sorry I laughed 😭

[@Roselute]

waow

[@freidenkerin5198]

😂😂😂

[@LUCASxGonzalez]

What in the mbti?

[@Luckypeach237]

Exactly just like me 😂

[@hellokittybombada9599]

(Meanwhile, 6 years ago...) Me, an INFJ: I need someone to be my friend. Someone who won't run away. Maybe send me an angel! The nicest angel you have... My ENFP best friend, kicking down the 6th grade door: * maniacal laughter *

[@alayna.gallardo]

I LOVE it ☺️ - ENFP

[@nathanweeb7619]

Well, same with me, except that friend kicked the door in 3rd grade 😅

[@surbhii.k]

I'm istj

[@sarahd.4916]

I love the Lilo and Stitch reference

[@mahammadashad977]

Mine was at 9th grade😂😂

[@ashishvinayjha]

As an ENFP in a relationship with INFJ for past 5 years, I can totally confirm that it's the most beautiful relationship one can share ❤️

[@melissasaint3283]

I am 20+ years and several kids in, and I still feel flutters when he says my name sometimes. Our senses of humor really dovetail, too. I don't know about you but I think the video is spot on...we just have to focus on the ENFP not over-talking the INFJ putting in effort to communicate their needs And making sure dull, rote tasks get done in a fair and timely way. Do those ,and you're golden!

[@bling1217]

Nshsh where is my enfp djdjjd

[@fordmiller4318]

I sit here with PTSD seeing people have happy lives on KZbin videos

[@snackysneaks]

@@fordmiller4318 same brad, but don’t stop believing!

[@fordmiller4318]

@@snackysneaks I won't, thanks for the positive comment :)

[@Prismpunk]

I just met my INFJ. I’ve never felt this connected to someone else as an ENFP. I’m honestly just stunned. I never found what I was looking for in over 30 years and she walks into my life and changes everything. I’m in tears right now. I’ve never been this happy.

[@sof_3335]

I'm so happy for the both of you ^^

[@sammiebrown7]

I'm crying too now cuz it happened to me the same exact thing!

[@RachelGerrard]

Some true ENFP over dramatisation right there 🤣

[@Prismpunk]

@@RachelGerrard you can expect nothing less from us!

[@devyaulia7507]

I hope you both stay together forever :)

[@november7189]

I FOUND MY ENFP! I REPEAT, I FOUND MY ENFP!!!!

[@nello5383]

How did you find?

[@sams_enfp]

POGGERS

[@ondetrond]

HOW????

[@Definitelynotabot4]

Hope you are still together

[@uniquely_insane]

Luckyyy ❤❤

[@haru3769]

to all single infjs reading this, i hope we will find our enfp soon :)

[@lojanta]

I wish for that to happen so bad ;-;

[@ellapatella2574]

heyyyy hi heyyyyyyyy infjs heyy 😏😏

[@haru3769]

@@lojanta ✨manifesting✨

[@haru3769]

@@ellapatella2574 heyyy

[@domdomy]

Yeahh

[@cringeworld4646]

Can we just appreciate that Psych2go always includes the best references

[@You-bb5wo]

Yess and I’m in love with these two characters and this was like a five minute video

[@nenosuns]

YES

[@mr.f1rewall2.07]

Amen infj for life

[@shutit333]

Yeeessssssss! 💯 all the way! From dream SMP to the rainbow pride flag it’s all amazing!

[@mitskily8960]

Lol agreed just about to comment this

[@laurap.1701]

ENFP: INFJs make 2% of the world, how will I ever find one INFJ: not only do we make 2% od the world, most of us are introverts which means we stay inside 24/7 and once we go out we rarely talk to people :^)

[@tsvh383]

"most". the I in INFJ stands for introverted :)

[@safyre1704]

Yeah but INFJs are the best of the introvert group at faking extroversion so sometimes like shiny Pokemon we're around pretending to blend in while low-key hoping to go back home soon where it's safe 😅

[@HesamDS]

Im an INFJ and im ok with being with other people i just dont let them get close . You can easily attract us by just being honest and be your self , my crush is ENFP and i have a hug crush on her just because she is the most geniune person that i have ever met and she is so energetic and act like a child but deep inside i can exactly feel how mature she is and how deep she think about anything .(sorry about my bad english )

[@widjadija]

@@HesamDS your English is great! I wish I was that fluent in another language

[@HesamDS]

@@widjadija thank you , my friend 🤘🙏

[@sorcha3811]

I'm an ENFP and my ex was an INFJ and we had A LOT of conflict. There's a lot more to people than their personality type. In romantic relationship for example, attachment plays a huge role. I was avoidant, she was anxious, and so we were both triggering each other and caught in an anxious-avoidant loop for 4+ years. Yes, we shared similar values and visions, we were both creative and idealistic, we had a lot of fun together, and to a large extent, we just got each other right off the bat. But unfortunately we didn't last because we couldn't work many other things out. As interesting as these personality categories are, they can be way too generalised.

[@さち-k3k]

I had the same experience with me (ENFP) and my ex (INFJ). We were so compatible other than the part where we were constantly triggering eachother

[@sorcha3811]

@@さち-k3kthanks for responding, it's nice to hear people with the same experience! Yeah I think there should be a caveat saying "these personalities have the *potential* to be really compatible if both people are emotionally aware enough to know their wounds and triggers, and to work to understand each other's differences." How are you getting on with processing the relationship / break up?

[@musicchick581]

I (enfp) worked to heal my attachment issues before dating an infj. I worked hard on it using the Personal Development School. Best money spent in a long time. Highly worth it. I'm not sure what his (infj) attachment style is but I find many infj females I've been friends with are avoidant or anxious avoidant. Communication isn't their strong suit.

[@김경-i4z]

Had the same experience with you guys as well (ENFP). I had an INFJ ex, we were so compatible on most things and became together. Though we experienced a lot of conflicts and misunderstandings along the way. Emotions were extreme as well, either we’ll be extremely happy or depressingly sad. The relationship ended up badly. I consider my relationship with her as someone who’s hard to love but best feeling of love.

[@takatsukiban4195]

Well... Sorry for That, It must have hurted you Does that mean that a relationship between Me (INFJ) and My GF (ENFP) should not stop at seeking a personality?

[@samanthaeichler1898]

I'm an INFJ dating an ENFP. I can say this relationship has been the most compatible and healthiest I've ever been in.

[@susanmoran2154]

Not for every one the party animal element would annoy me .

[@Humble_Turtle]

Where did you guys meet? And who made the move first to talk to the other? And did you notice that he didn’t communicate that much?

[@gabbip1588]

​@@susanmoran2154 enfps arent necessarily party animals. I'm an enfp and I'm not. I like to socialize and to make people laugh but I can also be very introverted at times. I think this is true for most enps. We're outgoing and fun when in a social setting, but love spending time alone and quality one on one time with the people we care about

[@chahjya]

@@susanmoran2154 we’re called the most introverted extroverts for a reason

[@cat01010]

@@chahjya and INFJ's are the most extroverted introverts, that is, if you get to know them 🥰 that's just so sweet and fitting

[@laurawertz5889]

As an INFJ I hope to find a partner like an enfp who will go to museums with me, look at the stars and find new Hobbies together. Also having minimal conflicts sounds ideal...

[@julyuhhh6385]

Same :( I actually found one but he’s a kpop idol 😅😮‍💨

[@_spt-warwolf_4575]

I'm interested in all of those things. (However, I'm an INTP)

[@lilith4258]

Wow, so good!

[@PriyaDas-lq7cn]

@@julyuhhh6385 same here 😂😂

[@Nina-pj8wo]

you also have to consider most of us are very loud . That peace and quiet is like 10% of who we are . The rest is chaos , yelling , moving around and talking with our hands . It can be too much or exhausting for some people ( its one of my main insecurities)

[@giornogiovanna6858]

I am an infj and have never clicked a psych2go video this fast before

[@mango9808]

Same

[@Jayneko]

bro me too

[@Jayneko]

yeah how is italy going

[@Jayneko]

i love how jojo fans are everywhere on youtube

[@giornogiovanna6858]

@@therobinsontableno.5192 thanks thanks pretty well lately

[@angelasheppard7112]

ENFP here 🎉🎉🎉 You INFJs are the most amazing people. You understand me! What a breath of fresh air in a world full of people who don't see the beauty in the world.

[@cuteaxolotyl9688]

it's mutual

[@BigBlueTurtle-cu9sv]

Haha, really? You ENFPs are actually my favourite MBTI types as well!

[@nish2860]

Damn, INFJ here and you just said the sweetest thing EVER

[@bukolashokunbi7620]

Hey ENFP here and I love how we are bonding over are compatibility, P.S Love you guys❤

[@ruthramos2484]

As an ENFP with an INFJ best friend- I swear it just WORKS, the connection is instant and it’s just crazy how great we are together, I’ve never felt more myself with anyone else. I hope you find your INFJ/ENFP ♡︎

[@fumesquelch9366]

this cheered me up, i’ll try to find an ENFP friend, i love enfps so much. they make me happy - INFJ

[@excusemethisisjinhitentert9053]

do u think its better to move into a romantic relationship or just stay as friends?

[@ruthramos2484]

@@excusemethisisjinhitentert9053 honestly, it would be an amazing romantic relationship. Since they’re opposites, there would be a great balance and the personalities would just complement each other. But being friends is just as great. I guess it depends on wether or not you’re attracted to that person in a romantic way. If you are, then it could definitely work out.

[@excusemethisisjinhitentert9053]

@@ruthramos2484 ok thanks for ur answer

[@hipwitthekids793]

IKRRRR (im an enfp)

[@alexandrina5127]

If anyone’s interested, It’s also down to their cognitive functions. INFJ = NiFeTiSe ENFP = NeFiTeSi Their functions mirrors each other, that’s why they’re compatible

[@HelloItsVerMent]

Interesting.

[@Ruby-lp7hj]

My two best friends mirror my cognitive functions °∆°

[@patrickm.4754]

ENFP's is also INFJ's shadow.

[@feiwaan]

Unfortunately the ENFP I met,isn’t in the least compatible. She doesn’t like me and is soaked with envy which is very obvious.... so

[@major1388]

Thanks cause i was like: "🤔 birds and rollerblading?" Lol

[@sashapalma2033]

I think of ENFP and INFJ relationship as very balanced, natural and almost childlike. ENFP's are the more social/outgoing version of an INFJ, without being too intense. INFJ help ENFP be more organized and grounded, without being boring or overbearing. Almost the exact two sides to the same coin, opposite without being too intense. :)

[@CipherionYT]

Do you think this would apply if the I and E were switched? Idk how much they affect the overall picture

[@weeka6153]

I feel like I’m both I’m so confused rn someone help

[@CipherionYT]

@@weeka6153 wdym? Have you taken a test?

[@weeka6153]

@@CipherionYT yea I took a test online

[@weeka6153]

@@CipherionYT in April 2020 I was ENFP, I’m sep 2021 I apparently am an INFJ, I took it twice too to make sure. My personally type changed ig I understand why now too

[@itsnemosoul8398]

As an INFJ the difficulty I've seen is ENFPs being very fast paced with the expectations for the relationship. The INFJ takes a long time to trust and form meaningful relationships. If you push them too far they might feel like you're not seriously emotionally invested and shut you out even though you're just at a different point in thought process.

[@luizbezerra4373]

True that! I’m an INFJ and my girlfriend is ENFP. Our chemistry is amazing, but while ai want to take our relationship one pace at a tine, giving time to know each other, she wants to rush things and get engaged/married already lol

[@kkTeaz]

I would like to formally declare an apology for any rushing done by us ENFPs. I hope noone has had their heart broken because of our spontaneity!

[@itsnemosoul8398]

@@kkTeaz Oh, it's the opposite. I feel like ENFPs tend to put their heart in my lap quickly and I need to be careful not to crush it because I need a few more years to do the same lol.

[@HereIAm247]

As an INFJ, I tend to trust the vibe of the person more. If the vibe is there, it is fine if the relationship. What I strongly dislike, is a person who tries to dictate everything in the relationship, and who tries to 'punish' me if I don't see things his way. And some ENFP's in an unhealthy energy can be this way.

[@verycoolandimpressivename9802]

Raise your hand if you think the artist did a amazing job portraying a cute relationship

[@Avatarglader]

🖐

[@reafiebee]

✋🤚

[@strawberrymilk1563]

👐 both! And my foot 🦶

[@berlourcastillo8974]

🖐🖐🖐

[@pikxelz4787]

✋

[@isabellagonzalez4716]

The amount of Genshin impact characters that are in this video are insane. I love it

[@piratesuper1210]

RIGHT?? No one else commented on this? Others have to set their priorities straight! Lol

[@yumi6537]

I think they ship zhongli x childe

[@ark4849]

yes I noticed that too haha. I was like, wait, arent they zhongli and tartaglia? lol

[@haanhhoangnguyen6567]

@@yumi6537 don’t we all :D

[@kaimiz]

@@yumi6537 and kaebedo lmao

[@cielodelgvdo]

the fact that I'm a ENFP and my twin sister is a INFJ it's iconic for some reason

[@srujani4532]

that's awesome hahaha

[@bam9]

Do you get along well with your sister? Or fight always?

[@yazminroldan2109]

Yo soy infj ¿donde se encuentran fácilmente personas enfp?

[@anasofialugo1590]

Te entiendo, yo soy INFJ y mi hermana es ESFP, y, curiosamente en los famosos con mi personalidad está Rose de Titanic, y en famosos con la personalidad de ella está Jack, y es como, ¡Whaaa! de verdad debemos ser almas gemelas, porque coincidimos tan bien a pesar de ser tan diferentes

[@GINSHOTGUN]

That's awesome

[@peachi_mixi]

As an ENFP girl and has an INFJ bestie, this video perfectly sums up our relationship. I literally cannot imagine a life without her like I LOVEEE her so much. We’re like peas in a pod and have never seperated since meeting in primary school. I remember constantly meeting her every week and it got to the point where we became family (her brother married my cousin) and now she has a boyfriend (i was wing-woman :^) keke) which made me so happy and proud of her. I can proudly say we’ll stay together till we’re old and gray 💚

[@xavyce1628]

bless your friendship😭✨💕

[@aali-in6lc]

So shes married and has a boyfroend-

[@parker.100]

oh man i wish i could find an enfp bestie

[@miitsya1830]

are we gonna ignore the fact that childe x zhongli and albedo x kaeya were drawn

[@zee9991]

I WAS SO SHOCKED

[@nrhanoon]

why i came to the video in the first place lol

[@-zephyressence-2018]

I FELL OFF MY HYPOTHETICAL SEAT

[@jillianesabaysabay6690]

that is why i came in this video hshsh

[@andieskywalker]

OMG YES and also a banana fish ref?? not sure 4:44

[@wolfstar420]

"I'm bored, let's go hiking" "listen up Dracula, it's 3 in the morning" The way I let out the ugliest laugh in the world sounding like a goat being strangled-

[@vibinggood2023]

Same!

[@devyaulia7507]

Dracula lmao 🤣

[@NafAmer]

the perfect relationship doesn't exi-

[@meandwatermelon]

Pls 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@araya9316]

this is me & my enfp going on a drive to no where at 3 am..

[@lillykatediaz]

INFJ here dating an ENFP. This was so spot on. Because this is our first healthy relationship, we’re still navigating some stuff. But even so, it’s been amazing. ❤️

[@nesrinbayramali]

also infj, so happy for u two🥺💖

[@jessl2355]

me too! also dating an enfp. it’s perfect ❤️

[@markof.4361]

Wow, so beautifull ^^

[@ZeDandelion]

INFJ here married to my ENFP best friend for 2 years now (known him for 17 years lol). Best decision I ever made. ❤

[@lillykatediaz]

@@ZeDandelion omg! I love that so much for you. Before my bf, I was very weary of marriage but he just makes me want to get married already!

[@jiji_lilzie_22]

My boyfriend is an ENFP and I am an INFJ. I relate to everything in this video. We never argue and always talk to each other if we feel that something is slightly wrong. We thrive from bringing up small annoyances and constantly changing to adapt to each other.

[@lijahsampson6979]

I’m an INFJ with an ENFP twin brother. We are best friends, but I would never date someone with his personality type. The extrovertedness is a lot, plus you can’t get mad at them without them looking like a kicked puppy who doesn’t know what they did wrong, and that makes communication difficult.

[@ha8236]

My twin is INFP and I'm an INFJ

[@vfin]

actually i think it's best to have introvert and extrovert relationships because extrovetrs usually adopts introverts so it becomes so easy to do activities. my ex was introvert (so am i) and we couldn't do anything lmao

[@diloromkubayeva6561]

Yeah , you would 😉 I always thought so before it actually happened to me . Quite the opposite - introverted and extroverted natures . Yet feel, think , act in harmony ❤️🖤

[@s.x100]

@@ha8236 i have a twin and they're also and INFP but they took the test recently and got INFJ lmao

[@nicespaghettisos3400]

i just had a convrsation with my s/o whos INFJ and im ENFP and what u said about the kicked puppy part it felt so relateble it hurtsbgdwwbfmj

[@yeehawmanel]

As an INFJ, I must say that ENFPs have the most attractive personality of all. I've been madly in love with an ENFP for almost 3 years now and I think I have never been this fascinated and in love with a person's nature and outlook on life. In an ideal world, we would be together, but honestly I'm grateful every day that we're best friends and that our paths in this life have crossed

[@chaitanyajain3127]

As an enfp , I liked the compliment very much

[@su0la]

ahhh same goes for me as an ENFP for my INFJ friend. There's just something so unique about her.

[@DreamerFromTheDepths]

I don't know what the case is here, but sometimes going for a relationship is scary when you have such a good friendship, relationships can ruin things like that.

[@yeehawmanel]

@@DreamerFromTheDepths I know, I am simply too afraid to do anything in this regard, because I would never forgive myself if I lost someone this dear to me, but honestly I do think about us being more than just friends every single day, which has long ago become rather painful. This past weekend, my friend experienced one of the worst things we all must go through as human beings: the loss of a dear family member. It truly bothered me to see my friend suffering like that and I've since been thinking about that moment. At the same time (and I know this might sound strange), I felt like, even though I didn't do much and I did not know what to do or say really, I was happy with myself, because I could be there and be supportive in such a difficult time. I just hope my friend can overcome this terrible situation as soon as possible and I hope my friend finds some comfort in the wonderful moments and memories shared with this family member. All I want is too see my friend happy and well

[@Idkwhattowritehere123]

As an enfp this made me smile.

[@St4rBuRsT96]

As an INFJ, having an ENFP relationship sounds like the thing I never knew I wanted SO BAD

[@supergirlysofia3054]

As an ENFP I wish you luck in finding one of my kind soon!

[@lily-hi8ce]

exactly

[@june23]

Trust me, it's the best thing to ever happen to your life 😁

[@chahjya]

As an ENFP, I totally agree with you :)

[@hopelessamaturerougeofhope4399]

I want a relationship with someone that can relate to stuff i like I'm an INFJ that's really quiet unless I'm around people i know but if they interest me enough in certain topics that i like your not getting me to shut up for a while Edit: Actually nvm I am an INFP

[@shiftagamingfps]

Emotion is not a frequent visitor for me as an INTJ, but this video of INFJ and ENFP compatibility was a truly touching exception. I found myself moved in a way that's quite uncommon for me. Seeing the profound understanding, connection, and mutual respect between the INFJ and ENFP characters was deeply inspiring and genuinely touching. The emotional intelligence of an INFJ, their depth of thought and their quest for authentic connections, complemented by the enthusiasm, creativity, and warmth of an ENFP, struck a chord within me. I couldn't help but envision myself experiencing a similar connection and harmony in a potential relationship. The complexities and beauty of this unique relationship dynamic brought a rare tear to my eye. I appreciate this empathetic and thoughtful portrayal that extends beyond common stereotypes about personality types. Truly an emotional and enlightening journey!

[@brilol3153]

when you're an ENFP and INFJ's the rarest personality 😭👌

[@Slapdatknee]

I need my INFJ now😫

[@aestaetic07]

good luck to you guys 🥺 :D

[@Slapdatknee]

@@aestaetic07 thanks lol

[@atv9231]

I am an INFJ ........Good luck finding another INFJ

[@joannajacob9533]

Me an INFJ reading this be like: "Oh I am wanted now".

[@shilpasuresh6960]

My girlfriend is an ENFP and I am an INFJ. This video explains us perfectly!! Lots of love

[@nesrinbayramali]

wow u lucky guys!!

[@kira-py8gt]

same except i’m the enfp!

[@mikeodonell1551]

u stupid infj satisfied for an imperfect human. u should not be called an infj anymore. only infj are superior humans every other type is just low level beings.

[@LemonMeIon]

@@mikeodonell1551 lol

[@connorboyd8633]

@@mikeodonell1551 Big problem there is 2% of you

[@brenduchi95]

Reading that most of INFJs are single, make me believe in that MBTI test even more. Hopefully we will meet our ENFP soulmate. - an optimistic INFJ

[@luisponzon3340]

Here's a curious fact, here in Colombia there are almost none INFJ due to the cultural impact our raising has and as few INFJ there are also few ENFP, most people have Centinels or Explorers tendencies. So as an ENFP it is almost impossible to find either people like me as a person for me. Kinda sad. Hope you find your ENFP!

[@tw_zero_art7299]

I am an INFJ-A, how can you find me I rarely go outside, when I go outside I am always alone and find some peaceful place and stare out of no where. Eating alone. Biking alone If you find someone that's always alone, eating alone shopping alone that's an INFJ for Sure.

[@esra00000]

@@tw_zero_art7299 this is interesting now whfndgbn im an enfp and when i go outside im usually alone too. im looking for a place to sit in peace like you said. it doesn't me bother me much to go and do stuff by myself. but when im with a close friend who is kinda special, even sitting in grass becoming more exciting and it makes me so happy. but i don't live this often. i wish, and why am i emotional rn damn. anyways hope you're having a good day, you sound like such a nice person.

[@tw_zero_art7299]

@@esra00000 I only have close friends only one or two .. who I can be open sometimes. Said my inner thought or some of my problems. Or some of my plans in life. And give my crack jokes sometimes, people might thinking i am boring person but I am not, just I like stare and observe the people at the park at the restaurant. They facial expressions is so amazing. I don't get boring for doing that everyday it's sims like I am collecting some information by looking at them. I love to wright stories, love to draw do some comics fan art or whatever I want to do. Thanks for that, I think You're a nice person too, I am so curious about you guys ENFP person the most. I want meet one in the future. I think you guys is so interesting.

[@redsenorita6446]

Hi fellow INFJ

[@iloveme3649]

I'm an ENFP and my boyfriend is an INFJ, this video along with the comments explain why are we staying together for song long despite being SO different! I talk a lot and he doesn't talk much, sometimes he says that I talk too much lol but I just CAN'T STAND silence while he can. I tell him about EVERYTHING from daily life to my deepest secrets and feelings, meanwhile he's so private that he doesn't feel comfortable sharing things, sometimes I feel like he doesn't trust me enough but now I learn that some people have boundaries, especially INFJs. I always wonder what's compatible between us because sometimes I feel like we have no similarities at all. But out of all people I've been in relationship with, this relationship I have with my INFJ boyfriend is the most PASSIONATE one. We love each other madly and I never feel so connected with a person more than this.

[@tillycomedy2194]

Is this the wangxian dynamic? 😆😆

[@talitabotana6992]

Can you tell more about how its passionnate? :)

[@Payzer100]

i’m an ENFP in a relationship with a INFJ for almost 4 years now, everyone always asks us how we work so well together. this sounds just like us

[@Jiji1277]

So do you guys fight a lot? Because I ship tow ppl like you guys but they fight a lot so sometimes I doubt my thoughts about them 😂

[@rosemensah8980]

Me too. We've been together 3 years planning on our wedding now

[@Payzer100]

@@Jiji1277 no actually we almost never fight with each other. it’s a super rare occurrence

[@Jiji1277]

@@Payzer100 aww that's nice, wish you all the best.

[@cun8i]

im an INFJ and my girlfriend is an ENFP and i've been with her for almost 3 years now, i find this true because everyone always ask me how me and my girlfriend are still together especially, when we had to do long-distance relationship because of covid last year.

[@andromeda19775]

"the compatibility of ENFP and INFJ" * sees Ash and Eiji * * *cries* *

[@yeyditorres1945]

IKR I thought I was the only one who noticed that! I was in tears...

[@andromeda19775]

@@yeyditorres1945 they broke my heart

[@spochispoo177]

OMG I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE WHO NOTICED IT HSJSSHAJHAHA

[@icespiceender]

please i was literally ready to cry

[@syakirahheartnet8059]

😭😭😭

[@mittelego1098]

So nobody's gonna talk about how cute those drawings are?

[@gimmeymayo4999]

do you know their twitter or ig of the animator

[@apfeliguess9383]

theres even childe and zhongli by the end lol

[@nrhanoon]

@@apfeliguess9383 kaeya and albedo too lmao

[@wuvxiao]

@@apfeliguess9383 glad i'm not the only one who noticed-

[@sozhu9075]

@@gimmeymayo4999 billm1ll on instagram!!

[@hyejoocyysubakk1882]

my best friend recently took her 2nd mbti test and remained an INFJ. i took the test 3 times already and remained and ENFP. ig that explains a lot why we're each other's best person. as cheesy as it may sound but it really felt like we're made for each other. we're still kids the last time we fought and as we grew older, the connection just got stronger and I don't think i'll find another infj as fitting as her. to whoever reading this, i hope you have/find your perfect ENFP/INFJ pair♡

[@clearcoast4454]

I lost her 💔. I'm an infj and my ex-bestie and probably my soul mate was an enfp. She was my love at 1st sight too. We always had lots and lots of similar hobbies, interests, and theories to share and discuss. I've never talked so much to anyone else.

[@raedewav]

*"INFJs are the rarest mbti type."* Guess that explains my single-ness.

[@fumesquelch9366]

hahahahah im an infj and i’ve never found an infj in my life except online

[@MisguidingWish]

@@fumesquelch9366Thats why we feel left out and feel that nobody likes us btw correct ur spelling there before anybody trolls

[@SWishV13]

Cosmic Wish So thoughtful. That’s why we are so rare and special.

[@gwen.me0]

same

[@favouradis]

😂😂😅

[@isabelle769]

Waiting for my ENFP boy without going out and getting to know people is quite ironic huh

[@morayoadedapo2457]

Waiting for my infj boy when he won't go out and get to know people is also quite ironic 🥲

[@isabelle769]

@@morayoadedapo2457 I haven't thought about it in your perspective, it also sucks lol

[@urphakeandgey6308]

I'm an ENFP guy and maybe getting fucked up at parties all the time is the wrong approach... But where to meet an INFJ girl in the first place?

[@nugulikeyou9737]

dont worry. i'm pretty sure that that ENFP boy will be coming to *you*

[@isabelle769]

@@urphakeandgey6308 idk really I guess it depends on each one but for me I think the most probable way would be at work, college or some place I usually go. But i'd be kinda open if someone approaches me *in a nice way* someplace else

[@datboi6954]

1. they are both feelers 1:01 2. similar goals in a relationship 1:22 3. conflicts are rare 1:45 4. abstract communication 2:11 5. conversational dynamic 2:45 6. they share similar values 3:18 7. they have lifestyle differences 3:47 8. they are intellectually curious 4:22 9. they are adventurers 4:46 10. planning is an area of conflict 5:17 I hope I could help! :D

[@lametexts]

Hi

[@bunnylou7938]

H O W

[@lametexts]

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[@Magical-Knight42]

Time travel

[@PurrsMom]

So helpful ... Thank you Dat Boi 🤗.

[@mat.se57]

My best friend is ENFP and we were brothers in an instant and have been all of our life and will be for sure! Much love to both these types as they are the yin and Yang to all this madness

[@antheia__]

My friend group is literally composed of 2 INFJs (including myself) and 2 ENFPs. We're the best friends ever. I admire ENFPs so much I wish I was this type. They are so charismatic, inspiring and fun. To every ENFP reading this: ILYSM YOU'RE AWESOME

[@_chrstnz]

Thank you 😳👉👈

[@marianalopez3132]

Thank you ☺️

[@mehmetgurdal]

Dude don't sweat it. Enfp might be charismatic on the outside but despite their introverted nature INFJ always leaves the biggest impact.

[@mochiffon]

Thank you!! :D

[@antheia__]

@@mehmetgurdal I'll take that as a compliment, thank you 😊

[@shutit333]

My parents are like this and this is true! :D Edit: I know this is something everyone says but, tysm for all the likes guys! I’ve never had that many likes on anything before lol! ❤️❤️😊😊

[@drinasun6984]

Mine too!

[@rocky-jy5nx]

maybe because ur parents had a love marriage

[@kikinkap7723]

omg mine too

[@Mockingjay975]

Ooh!

[@bigcan7493]

did you save the world in your past life? that's amazing! :')

[@charliequartz2085]

I'm an ENFP and my best friend is an INFJ. This is why we've been best buds for more than 10 years.

[@jadestankowski5831]

Same! I'm an INFJ and my best friend is an ENFP

[@olopez65]

I am an INFJ married to an ENFP for 32 years (and more to come). I agree with most of what it's said in this video. This combination works great for the two of us!

[@sue3912]

UH ASH AND EIJI? ALBEDO AND KAEYA?? *ZHONGLI AND CHILDE???* Ok but jokes aside her voice is so adorable and the art style is just yes I'm gonna cry that's so wholesome

[@miray8831]

I SAW NOBARA FROM JJK TOO

[@bigcan7493]

actually, Ash is an ISTP and Eiji is an ISFJ

[@sue3912]

@@miray8831 I HAVE NO IDEA WHO THAT IS BUT OKAY

[@sue3912]

@@bigcan7493 wow that's cool

[@abbyxiong362]

akaashi was there tooo

[@mariamanea930]

Just a small reminder that personality types don't mean that much for a couple, I am an INFJ and my boyfriend of 8 years is an ISTP (the worst possible match). I think that ultimately what makes a relationship work is the amount of effort put from each side. We are both happy with each other 🤗

[@alexandragriseltellovalenz1029]

That is what I wanted to hear! Thank you very much

[@y0urpr0bl3m]

But actually ISTP types match a lot with INFJ types, so no... it's not the worst possible match.

[@gideonmele1556]

Yeah, relationships take effort and these are just a jumpstart I’d say

[@jontargaryen62]

This just helped me calm my mind :(( i have a partner that is an infj and im scared he'll leave me for his enfp best friend (since he liked her before me)

[@namjesussentmetoprovidehol1822]

My best friend is also an ISTP and I'm INFJ, and we are very good friends

[@Tommy.18]

I'm an INFJ and my best friend is ENFP. It's a 10 yrs friendship. I love him, I'd do everything for him. He's the light of my life, my guide, he helps me when I'm sad. He's so much important. Every INFJ deserves an ENFP in their life, and every ENFP deserves an INFJ in theirs. ♥️

[@samya60yearsago]

I also have 2 ENFP bestfriends and I am INFJ , they're just my other half but different at the same time and we are friends from 8 years

[@chaitanyajain3127]

That is so kind, keep appreciating us

[@itsmoebra8976]

@@samya60yearsago Do you have enough room for 1 more ENFP in your friend zone? 🥲

[@samya60yearsago]

@@itsmoebra8976 it depends 🙃 normally I don't put people easily in my inner circle , I have only 3 friends but if i will get a good compatible freind than why not :)

[@phoebesanchez6646]

I need advice about the infj in my life as an enfp

[@jonathandelarosa6830]

I'm an INFJ and I can't relate with people in the comment section coz I never had a relationship lol. It would be really awesome to meet an ENFP

[@chorvagee]

As an INFJ, I'm not really looking for a relationship. I find it more of a burden tbh. I'm doing pretty well on my own with less responsibility for somebody else.

[@Vuoiunazollettadizucchero]

As an enfp, I think I agree with you. Independence is always promoted, yet there is this kind of " pattern" that assumes that we all have to be in a relationship. Is it really necessary? If it is, it means that it is impossible for us to live as single. Isn't this need toxic?

[@chorvagee]

@@Vuoiunazollettadizucchero I actually don't wanna be alone, but at the same time I don't wanna be involved romantically. What I like to have is some sort of a PA/helper, someone who I can send errands to, especially going outside or talking to unwanted visitors lol Mundane things and small talks is just a no no for me.

[@Vuoiunazollettadizucchero]

@@chorvagee I don't want to be alone either. I wish I could be alone without getting hurt, but it's impossible. Anyway, I'd like to have a non-romantic partner. For example, Maria Montessori had her son as the only "life long partner", because a romantic relationship at her time would hindered her career. Sorry for my English, I'm actually Italian

[@chorvagee]

@@Vuoiunazollettadizucchero it's ok I understand. English is not my first language either. Relationship is complex. You just do what you feel is right for you and you're happy with it.

[@Abhishek-bc2wl]

Ye I feel sometimes that I should just stay single my entire life and help Ppl... I'm an infj too

[@shrek069]

"ENFPs are more laid back and INFJs are more organized" Me: *doesn't do any of my school work for a week* My ENFP boyfriend: DO YOUR WORK OR I'LL DO IT FOR YOU

[@insertunoroginalnamehere6189]

Did he do it for u?

[@whatisilyionlyknowipurpleyou]

^Did he? 😂

[@Rinoalessa]

It's the same with me (ENFP) and my INFJ Boyfriend, I'm the more organized one. But he plans more, i hate planning.

[@ShivamSharma-ip8cy]

We are good at planning In our minds 😂😂

[@Rinoalessa]

@@ShivamSharma-ip8cy hahaha true

[@vincaroseus]

Zhongli and Childe kinda jumpscared me in that asiuhdasiudsahsadu-

[@TAOTAO-k6j]

SAME WITH ALBEDO AND KAEYA

[@vincaroseus]

@@TAOTAO-k6j I DIDN'T EVEN NOTICE UNTIL I REWATCHED-

[@LittleRED_Mochi]

HAHA.. notice it the 1st time and i was like IS THAT WHO I THINK IT IS..

[@chip73731]

Same💀 I screamed at 1:28

[@enauaae]

Oh my god same KAKSMEKKE

[@laurengreenspan5356]

ENFP married to INFJ. It's magic.

[@tonigarcia5161]

THE ANIME AND GENSHIN IMPACT REFERENCES OMG

[@kurosade3623]

I play genshin 2 I'm rolling for the banners adventure rank 45

[@nataliatothemoon]

Praying Tanaka is rolling

[@SakuraTsukino27972]

Eyy, I'm AR 55 and trying to get my c2 Zhongli! But if I don't get him I'll just save up for Raiden lol 2/7 archons currently collected ;)

[@kurosade3623]

@@SakuraTsukino27972 awesome I try to save my primo gems but it's just 2 tempting I'm a genshin impact slayer slash bounty

[@shanw.2948]

[New Quest] "Find an INFJ to compliment my ENFP-ness." Difficulty-level: INFJ's are the rarest type of personality Reward: Life-long partner? Life-long friend? We will have to see.

[@ilovejaeyoon6698]

Goodluck! - from an INFJ-T

[@shanw.2948]

@@ilovejaeyoon6698 Wow, I got an INFJ to compliment me, I guess the quest was less difficult than I thought it would be 😂 Thank you for the encouragement, I appreciate it 😄

[@avanny3915]

I've always wanted to get an ENFP friend, but it seems that as INFJ I'm too introverted to go to the places that the ENFP frequent, so don't give up, you can find a lot of INFJs in KZbin video comments about mbti 😂😂

[@avanny3915]

@Oliver Erz oooh, I think so far I haven't met any of them, or maybe I have and I didn't realize for some reason

[@avanny3915]

@Oliver Erz Any tips to recognize ENFPs? 👀

[@spaceangelmewtwo9074]

Psych2Go: "INFJ & ENFP - The most compatible relationship?" Me, an INFP who tends to crush on INFJs and ENFPs: (Third wheel sadboi noises)

[@cjmartinez8318]

Damn that shit hits hard 😀

[@roba7042]

I can feel it.....- another infp

[@MisguidingWish]

seems like a love triangle but in terms of MBTI

[@chaitanyajain3127]

I love infps -enfp

[@khoibut6206]

dont worry infps are very cute as well

[@genesispalacios7958]

Im an ENFP and i LOVEEEEE INFJ WITH MY WHOLE HEART. My two closest friends are INFJ and it’s such a healthy, energetic, carefree connection. Both of them were really shy with me at the beginning but I never mind that because i find it more intriguing to peel the layers off someone one by one. Now we can just talk about ANYTHING for hours and when we’re together i come up with random ideas but they always help me execute and plan them to turn it into a reality. I notice that they are amazing listeners but i’m always wary to not talk too much and make they have a voice so i always like to ask for their opinions on topics. Moral of the story GET AN INFJ BESTIE

[@jasminecontreras7341]

We love you ❤

[@michellekingsbury9347]

Heh yea we can be kind of timid and cautious at first around new people sometimes. Like I think thats also cause we are trying to determine, how weird we can be with a person without scaring them off or spooking them unless thats just me O.O

[@Horror_culture-]

Me and my best friend are and ENFP and INFJ respectively. We take it every so often and always get the same result Edit: I’m back a year later. Just found out my new boyfriend is also an INFJ like my best friend 🤦🏽‍♀️🤩

[@shutit333]

Cool! 😊

[@sheilawebb9746]

I'm INFJ, & I've always loved being around ENFPs. They're usually fun, caring, non-judgmental, & easy to be around. Also, beings we're very similar, but they're more extroverted, they make me feel less awkward about the things I'd normally keep to myself.

[@esha1323]

I'm an enfp but I'd never thought of INFJ can like a ENFP this much 😊😊😊

[@simmi5493]

owu🥰

[@ErdemtugsC]

YEA my teacher is enfp and they just somehow understand us

[@marianthi40007]

Naawww stop it you 👉👈 qwq But it's true qwq whenever i see an introvert i go like "Mine, adoption, protecc"

[@mratheimperfec1033]

The timestamps 1:01 They are both feelers 1:23 Similar goals in relationship 1:45 Conflicts are rare 2:11 Abstract communications 2:45 Conversational dynamic 3:18 They share similar values 3:48 They have lifestyle difference 4:22 They are intelectually curious 4:47 They are adventurers 5:17 Planning is an area of conflicts

[@joejoe-cs8ct]

i love you

[@yomiseno]

Why is that each time I meet an INFJ, I feel like they're always romantically compatible with an ENFP but not me? I have seen an ENFP female many times and is friends with one, then I meet INFJs, I feel like they'll do good with ENFPs. Maybe it's the shadow function as well that affects their values, motivations, etc.. Til now it's still the same for those INFJs I have been with. It's actually weird I never met anyone who's really made for ENTP. It's mostly INTJ.

[@ไอริณพวงทอง]

,

[@kristannestone1748]

My daughter is an enfp and we have such a wonderful relationship. I love the way we connect on those meaningful levels, and even tho the chaos is challenging, I wouldn't have it/her/us any other way!!

[@amaliciousgoose]

I’m dying - “You can’t drink gasoline and expect to be okay.” “I’m sorry I drank your gasoline lots of love”

[@sams_enfp]

you know ENFP drank the gasoline 💀

[@endorphinblue6958]

As an INFJ, I found this quite cute. But irl, I tend to avoid extroverted people (lmao Idk why, maybe because I easily feel awkward around them) No wonder why I’m still single lol.

[@bebelmatson]

this is something the mbti system doesn’t make very clear, but is very important: the E and I in every type isn’t equivalent to socially extraverted/introverted. it just alters the order of cognitive functions :) meaning that, lucky for you, there are plenty of socially introverted ENFPs around. :D

[@leeexploreeatenjoy4730]

I feel you, as an Infj it's feels awkward for me to get a long with extrovert 😬That's why I'm still single too😅

[@potato6023]

@@leeexploreeatenjoy4730 yeah...but doesn't it feel great when they become your friend

[@leeexploreeatenjoy4730]

@@potato6023 awesome ✨🤗

[@autumnknox7108]

@@bebelmatson ya! ENFP speaking here:)! We are called the most introverted extroverted type. I do have a certain boldness, and can be blunt in social situations, but often I tend to be shy in big groups. Only when I'm with my close friends or people that I know, do I tend to be loud and goofy. Most of my friends are introverts. AlsOooo, I do get tired of hanging out with people at a certain point. I need time by myself, and enjoy going on hikes/reading/dancing alone in my room>.> AHEM. Keep in mind, we like to talk about "deep" things. I love passionate conversations and listening to people's own experiences. At the end of the day, although people with my personality type are similar in many ways, everyone is their own unique individual. Have a great dayyyyyyyyyyy (or night!) Ps. Introverted simply means that you recharge on your own, whereas extroverts recharge with other people. Pss. hi Psss. I just like doing this ps thing XD Pssss. if you read this all w o w congrats Pssss. pickles are actually cactuses designed by the government to infiltrate society prove me wrong

[@cosmo-h4888]

everyone in comments:infg , enfp waiting for soulmates me:INTJ thinking my soulmate doesn't exist

[@vvallatina]

omfg lmao

[@sailo3221]

I thought i was the only lonely INTJ

[@gabrieldossantossanta5656]

Well, i always though an INTJ would be a nice partner, if it make you fell better INFJ-

[@MsJehaan]

I was thinking the same and I am an INTJ too

[@mushr00mhead97]

Intjs are also compatible with enfps? But staying single isn’t so bad either right?

[@WillRoyMedia]

I'm ENFP and my girlfriend is INFJ. I swear we're like the same person. It's crazy!

[@TaraTatangelo]

To the person reading this comment, you are loved. The world is a better place because of you. Have a beautiful day ❤️

[@doginboat]

you are too quick to assume im loved xd

[@jessenceq3250]

A perfect comment for a video about NFs. We can be such a light to others.

[@Madamekittylein]

Thanks, I give it back to you, you're awesome and deserve it!

[@Qvotes]

And you, too, my dear 💚 Thanks for reminding others 🤗

[@connorboyd8633]

My heart: AHHHHHHHHHHHHH IT HURTS TOOOOOO MUCH MAKE IT STOP!!!!!!!!!!!! Also my heart: Thank you I needed that and I hope you have a wonderful day

[@You-bb5wo]

I already ship these two😭

[@mocha2976]

“You can't just drink gasoline and expect to be okay." "Sorry I drank ur gasoline love you lots tho" my bokuaka heart felt that.

[@EmTreasure88]

Yes yes yes yes yes (i love haikyuu and am practically obsessed a bit)

[@aki3917]

AAAAA i still havd angsty fanfictions in my head oof 😭😭

[@rheizramreact1064]

I'm already 11 months in relationship with an ENFP... All I can say I'm in peace. I feel relieved. I feel like I'm healing. It's like I'm a kid again. ✨😌♥️ -INFJ-

[@luludraws2248]

“Oh to find my infj to my enfp” *dramatic exhale*

[@kellykapoor2]

ikr (:

[@kellykapoor2]

@Laila PL omg that was so sweet of you...thank you so so much

[@kellykapoor2]

@Laila PL omg sure ...im totally gonna tell you guys if we do get together....and thanks a lottt

[@Patar145]

So I've done the Myers-Briggs personality test about 5 times over the years and I've always gotten INFJ and I've never really thought much about it. I instantly became curious about it after watching this video and asked my girlfriend of 4 years what she is. I guess it comes as no surprise that she is an ENFP! She kept saying "Omigosh", "No way", etc to all of the characteristics shown in this video because of how accurate it is to the good and the annoying parts of our relationship. Thank you for sharing such a wonderful and adorable topic! This video initiated a fun little introspection with my girlfriend and I, which was quite fun :)

[@maximilianb564]

what are the annoying parts?

[@jjennafaiith]

this might be my favorite comment on here and i’ve been reading for a whilee lol, i hope i find this when it’s my time as well :) -enfp gal

[@rubyy2923]

Me as a ENTP watching this video 👁💧👄💧👁

[@starkid5203]

:O

[@strangex-wnaruto1441]

Hi ENTP!! As an INFJ i love your personality

[@gabialas8008]

@@strangex-wnaruto1441 i second that!!

[@rubyy2923]

@@strangex-wnaruto1441 thanks lmao

[@disappointment9239]

* INTJ relates

[@SONAKSHI_Ks007]

My bestie is ENFP and i am INFJ 😃 She just discovered her personality type and our bond has become really really strong just in few months than other people i've met I m glad to have her by my side we are just so similar i sometimes thought if she wasn't a girl then our relationship would be something else 😂 just kidding Luv u my bff bestie soulmate 😉😘

[@stranger-draws]

I can confirm as an INFJ in a relationship with an ENFP that it is literally amazing

[@natrod8628]

as an ENFP who goes off topic ALWAYS jschlatt sombrero pfp go b r r

[@AnhPhuong-kr1wm]

my ex was an ENFP but i lost him because at that time i was a damn ISTJ, funny how years have changed me into a INFJ and now I realize and so deeply regret about losing the probably one and only as I might die alone :(

[@felipecardoso5247]

@@AnhPhuong-kr1wm girl, there's literally a million ENFP in the way beyond the garden's walls, the worse is saved for us, who will have to search all the holes to find a INFJ

[@RavenStrawman]

@@AnhPhuong-kr1wm your type can’t change, you can’t go from ISTJ to INFJ. You must have been mistyped, don’t worry that happens quite often to most of us the first time. Your type is determined by the cognitive functions you use and the priority order in which you prefer to use those. You might feel like another type when you give preference to a cognitive function that you normally wouldn’t use as much but they are set in stone. Your type can’t change as you are born with your cognitive stack.

[@aimalisapro123]

@@AnhPhuong-kr1wm don't go TOO deep into MBTI until it dictates your life. It's not a manual, just something to help know yourself better :D

[@bun5964]

0:33 ash and eiji? 1:07 albedo and kaeya 1:28 zhongli and childe Bruh these references are too good oml

[@aniram4492]

YesXD

[@こねこ-u7k]

omggg i was thinking the same thing!!!

[@motherduck8049]

yes i saw that too lmao

[@ReiiAurii]

the moment i saw albedo-

[@melisa.youtube]

0:33 Ash and Eiji 1:07 Albedo and Kaeya 1:29 and 5:52 Zhongli and Childe

[@Psych2go]

Nice! Thanks for pointing them out :) - Cindy

[@241Cookies__]

@@Psych2go it was all in the name of the weebs Cindy. Melissa Summer was just pout ing out the good stuff

[@mehmetgurdal]

Ok looks like you have a pretty wide collection with anime. :)

[@eugenetheinfp5402]

Wait that's kaeya?! I didnt notice, maybe because his skin is blue? Or are my eyes just playing tricks on me?

[@leinlady9860]

I thought I'm the only one

[@yeppuja]

I was an INFJ two years ago but now my MBTI changed to ENFP, I’m beginning to think these two personality type are somewhat similar to each other. I don’t really know how to put in words but someone in the comment section said it right. The inside-out description really made sense to me

[@evanmcshane]

You should look into ENFP's and trauma, as the "shadow" ENFP presents as an INFJ.

[@christinedozier2154]

Same thing happened to me! I’m now an ENFP but once tested as INFJ. I’ll look into the trauma comment

[@yeppuja]

@@evanmcshane that sounds interesting

[@yeppuja]

@@christinedozier2154 same

[@yeppuja]

@@darthvader1793 maybe in parallel universe, in this i don't have one

[@noname-cv8kp]

The reason why ENFP and INFJ get along? They are each others reflection by how they use functions. ENFP: Ne Fi Te Si INFJ: Ni Fe Ti Se

[@dearp.324]

Nefitesi? Nifetise? Do you mind to explain more? 👉👈

[@connorboyd8633]

@@dearp.324 Yeah NE is extroverted intuitiveness because N equals Intuitive and E equals Extroverted so Enfps have NE Fi introverted feeling but sucks at Te and Si. (extroverted thinking and introverted sensing) Now for INFJs the same thing thing but flip the extroverted and introverted stuff around

[@sephythelark]

This is exactly why we don’t get along. We’re never on the same page, or if we are, different paragraphs.

[@dearp.324]

@@connorboyd8633 owww I got it. Thank you. One last question, since when they create the nefitesi/nifetise stuff?

[@noname-cv8kp]

@@dearp.324 hmm i cant explain it properly but you can search up mbti cognitive functions for a better explanation

[@bakedpi3606]

I'm an INFJ in a relationship with an ENFP... I've been in 3 previous relationships yet no one has managed to capture my heart like this before.

[@1901link]

As an ENFP, I just lost an INFJ friendship recently and I've never felt more alone since then

[@WeebsArePathetic]

That’s really heartbreaking :( I really hope you find someone to fill that void

[@hashy0x43]

Same here :( I'm an INFJ and lost my ENFP friend. Miya was the best thing that ever happened to me. She was right to leave me though. I became a clingy mess after graduation and it was too much for her. After that my other close friend, J, had developed a middle school crush on her, but soon realized she didn't feel the same. So he started hanging out with me and our friend C. One day, me in my infinite stupidity. Said something I shouldn't have because I thought it would help him get over her and then said something to hint that maybe he didn't really love her either. But it was severely misinterpreted as me talking bad about her (which is ironic because I'm literally the one that defend M whenever J or C would start talking shit about her behind her back) and he sent it to her and all our friends in the group to spite me. Then he stopped being friends with M entirely (at least that's what he says). Everyone that didn't block me, I told to leave. I had felt so ashamed. Ironically, the only one that seen what I said and understood me perfectly was C. I wish I could apologize :( Sorry for the inconvenience reader. Just trying to get it off my chest.

[@quirklesteins2741]

​@@hashy0x43 i’m rlly sorry that happened to u :( i hope ur doing better :) a lot of times, actions we as people take can come across as rash and hurtful, even if those were not our intentions. give your friends some time, and when u feel u and they are ready, maybe u can talk ab the situation and what happened. give them the time and space to be understanding of ur actions, and maybe u can do the same for them. most people are more compassionate than they let on, and for the most part, people deserve second chances. idk whether that makes sense haha i’m not rlly the best at giving advice but i hope u have a great day neverless and that things work out for u! - an enfp 😁

[@rachel-lb1zx]

Happened to me (an enfp) too, it's been almost a year since this happened. The loneliness part is the worst because I haven't really find anyone else compatible. I hope you find someone soon!

[@stuni9852]

Me too. Feels so bad lmao

[@kristbot666666]

I've been in a relationship for 7 years. Recently my SO and I, took personality tests and discovered we are INFJ(me) and ENFP(him). Then we took a deep dive into researching more and almost every site called us polar opposites until we landed at this video. Suddenly so many things made so much sense xDD This is crazy. We never understood why we have such strange harmony and why things just worked even if we are so different, now we do ahahah.

[@Jai.159]

INTJ here, it hurts to see ENFPs being paired as compatible towards INFJs. Guess I'll continue my plan on becoming a villain and take over the world.

[@miray9792]

ENTP here. Hi babe, im coming with you ;)

[@blanktaetea4643]

It’s okay, as an ENFP, I’m attracted to a fictional villain named sukuna😀✨

[@miray9792]

@@blanktaetea4643 the INFJ heart is mine, you can stay with the INTJ

[@elocinmi]

@@miray9792 hahaha

[@cakekyo7]

Here I am. You can talk to me ❤️

[@spacerwoman.]

My mom is a INFJ and my dad is ENFP! They're so cute together, healthy and lovely relationship. And my mom always said that I am the girl version of my dad, that we're CtrlC CtrlV and well, turned out that I'm also ENFP....

[@dinaf.k5372]

What is their relationship like? I've been raised in a loveless marriage, so i It is really nice to see parents who are compatible together.

[@whatisilyionlyknowipurpleyou]

@@dinaf.k5372 Lol, me too. I'm so surprised when I read comments like this because my parents relationship has been nothing but toxic, toxic, toxic.

[@sirlancealittles]

The Difference Between a INTJ and INFJ I never noticed much of a difference between a INTJ and INFJ. Both dislike superficial people yet frequently end up marrying one. They are sweet, adorable and caring individuals. But no one actually likes being around them for protracted periods of time. You cannot outsmart these MBTI types. They are extremely observent. Most can identify your intentions and motives within seconds. Sometimes even before you speak. They give Clairvoyants a really bad name. INFJ's have a problem being around large crowds of people. INTJ's have a problem being around anything that is breathing. A INFJ will lament that none truly understand them. A INTJ doesn't care what people think unless it interferes with their plans on world domination. INTJ's have friends with 'benefits'. INFJ's have 'benefits' with no friends...I don't know means so please dont ask. INFJ's will scream "Geronimo' when skydiving from a plane. A INTJ will yell, "You forgot your parachute moron!" Cannibals won't eat a INTJ because they are high in cholesterol and avoid INFJ’s because they not Kosher. INFJ women are the epitome of grace during a relationship breakup. INTJ women collect men's testicles in a small glass of water by the bed, much like an old woman keeps her dentures at night. Needless to say aggrevated empaths are nothing to fool around with! INFJ's are refered to as 'The Counselor'. INTJ's are refered to as 'Innocent Until Proven Guilty'. Thank God I'm a ENTP (wink)

[@ThePape69]

As an ENFP with an INFJ wife, I really agree about this. We may argue a lot when we work the same project, but we love to share stories and exploring ideas together. My wife also my perfect traveling partner, we travel a lot and we love exploring new places and learning new cultures. ❤️

[@JustinHoang92]

Me an INFJ always feel fascinated by ENFP and want to be with them romantically, but the ENFPs I've encountered always fall for other people and run after them even though they admit they feel the chemistry with me. I feel frustrated by this sometimes.

[@heffthehecked]

you'll never stop seeing "enfp and infj are super compatible with each other!" everywhere in mbti communities. but not every infj is the same, and no enfp is the same. there are very unique people in every mbti type, so don't feel obligated to date an enfp just because mbti makes them look like best friend materials made for infjs. the person you end up with romantically is your best friend by default regardless of mbti type. it could be an istj, an infp, or entp. you literally never know and the best people aren't just found in enfps, i've known shady enfps. when you know who the one it is you love, you hardly give a shit about what mbti they are anymore because they're so right for you and they'll feel only you are right for them. you're wasting your time feeling frustrated over an overpraised stereotype, it's not easy to date just any enfp because they have their own characteristics, perceptions, and values too apart from mbti. sincerely infj, you're awesome the way you are and there'll be someone exceptional for you someday.

[@JustinHoang92]

Of course I'm not saying I can only be with ENFP. I just notice those who I was drawn to the most in the past have usually been ENFP, back when I had no idea of what MBTI is. I only discovered this MBTI and ideal match a year now. This is just the pattern I find out, naturally falling for the that type without my knowledge. Although now it might already be a bias, I gotta say I always have a soft spot for ENFPs. But really, thanks for the advice. Appreciate it.

[@clarissaariel]

@@heffthehecked dude you just inspired me to write a love story based on your comment. I'm an INFJ myself dreaming to find my ideal ENFP and I couldn't agree more with your opinion

[@bhavyadwivedi8240]

I'm an INFJ dating an ENFP. I actually got him into the Myers-Briggs Test knowing that he'd be an ENFP and we later figured how compatible our personality types are! (Finally, got an explanation for it...) We'll be celebrating our two-year dating anniversary on May 15th... I'm just really grateful to have found him and anyone reading this comment- Just know that the right person will show up at the right time and have faith in the Universe :)

[@Moh_AMJ]

Hope y’all had a great anniversary ❤️

[@tw_zero_art7299]

Lucky for you've already found your ENFP in your life, me still finding one

[@Booklover-coffeelover]

I'm an INFJ and I've been with my ENFP partner for 5 years now. There's not a single person on the planet who gets me more than him, not even my own parents. And although there have been big problems in our relationship lately the emotional bond I've made with this person is so strong I doubt it'll never go away.