16 Personalities Through the Eyes of the ISFJ

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[@dearkristin]

Check out the "English (UK)" captions for the perspectives of the other types! 😏

[@dearkristin]

Extra love to the INFPs

[@the-wisest-emu]

I have to always slow the video speed down with the subtitles on to truly appreciate the genius that goes into them.

[@WolfoxBR]

I love the nerdy references, always. Phoenix Wright? "Search your feelings, you know it to be true"? Niiiiiice. :D

[@azarishiba2559]

The INFP part! XD XD XD Yeah, INFP deserve more love than they receive. My best friend is an INFP, and it's just fun to be with her. ENFP + INFP time = randomdomdomdomnesssss!!! Also, absolutely true about ENFP having impostor syndrome about being a nice person XD

[@raghna]

Are you religious? I notice you wear a cross necklace.

[@restlessmosaic]

ISTP STATS UPDATE! This is the most words the ISTP has said in any video (117, counting "one-time" as hyphenated like the auto-generated captions do). The previous record was 105, when interacting at a party (hi Barry). This brings the total ISTP word count in regular sketches to over 1500 as well! It's at 1580 (although 187 of those were only in the ISTP's head).

[@gh8076]

How many of those were in other people's heads though, like this one? :)

[@restlessmosaic]

@@gh8076 247!

[@Isaac-tp7hr]

To be fair words from this video should count as “in other people’s heads”

[@dischqrge4846]

Imma count INTP's words now >:C

[@BillyBob-lt5nr]

I was just thinking the ISTP got really good (and accurate) representation in this one. I work with an ISTP; great guy. He's very into botany (I used to like Latin, now I'm over it, his fault), very into historical tools, from old military service rifles to antique wood planes; hunting, hiking any by-myself-outdoorsy thing. He shows me photos of everything he's into, and his home is basically a meticulously landscaped and maintained exotic fern museum, but I don't know anyone who's been invited (or allowed) to visit. Our new HR director just asked him to take his "knife Life" sticker off of his office window... I'm really going to miss him.

[@xandera3940]

The INTP one was so wholesome. And the INFJ "random conclusion based off details" 😂 intuitive vs sensing. love it!

[@ellem8990]

I'm an INFJ and one of my best friends is an ISFJ and there there are times when I say some conclusion and she's just like "I don't know about that". I think she's more capable of abstract thought than what the stereotype says tho.

[@cerebrummaximus3762]

I didn't really like the Captions on the INTP tho, but what the INTP said was wholesome af

[@xandera3940]

@@ellem8990 Oh absolutely, I'm an INFJ as well, one of my oldest friends back home is an ISFJ. and sometimes I'll really relish when her mind goes abstract or thinks beyond the metaphysical world. admittedly though, sometimes there isn't a lot for us to talk about 😂we are more often than not on different wave lengths.

[@ellem8990]

@@xandera3940 I don't really hang out with her 1 on 1, but instead as a trio with our ENFP friend (who we met when we were 7) and we definitely have fun that way. I've known her since we were 5 and I appreciate that we don't even actually have to talk all the time, but I would say we always can come up with something.

[@AF-tv6uf]

Hey, our conclusions aren't random, they're just inscrutable ;)

[@trinaq]

"Eat without a knife and fork. Go outside without shoes." The ISFP would definitely let out an ISFJ's wild side, while in turn, the ISFJ would help to keep the craziness at bay.

[@applepatronum4934]

I hate how warm my feet get because of my shoes, i took them of at school all the time. So if someone joins me, i'll gladly be barefoot on the streets! -isfj

[@beefee7279]

@@applepatronum4934 I would join you ;-;

[@applepatronum4934]

@@beefee7279 hahah let's go!

[@amanda_means_beloved3404]

Isfj with an isfp sister--this statement is pretty accurate lol. It's so strange: she lives her life in extreme highs and lows, while I chug along in the middle with minimal spikes. It's a very unique dynamic lol, me watching in pain as she bounces around emotionally. Sometimes she gets into a goofy mood, complete with faces, sound effects, and strange dances. I would hardly do this in public, but if I find the moment appropriate, I join in and act bizarre with her at home. Our laughter is very contagious in these moments and it's pretty sweet :) there's nothing quite like being silly with her She goofs off 2nd to most, (brother takes 1st place) so we usually do the 'what-is-going-on' face and say 'you're so weird'. When I start up the goofiness, she gets a rare moment of being in our shoes and wondering why her sibling is so strange 😊 I have to mention that as a Kiwi, I already have the barefoot part covered 😀

[@beefee7279]

@@applepatronum4934I- let me get my sun glasses 🕶️ But seriously I need ISFJ friends you guys are so friggin cool!

[@winney7394]

I, an ENTP, have an ISFJ sister, who's such a safe haven. ISFJ's are a criminally underrated type

[@vyna_mel5726]

DAMN i want an ISFJ sibling too -- very irresponsible and forgetful entp

[@zzzcocopepe]

theres a debate on personality database if elizabeth olsen is isfj or entp and i just think its kinda funny because theyre so different from each other

[@zzzcocopepe]

but actually i guess that makes sense tho. injf and entp have a lot in common, and then infj and isfj have a lot in common, so i guess it's not too far off for isfj and entp to have stuff in common. but infj and entp usually have intuition in common, and infj and isfj usually have feeling in common, so maybe elizabeth olsen is actually just an infj but she's mistyped because she's kind of quiet or something

[@freidenkerin5198]

They may even be my favorite type which may seem counterintuitive as I'm an ENFP, but they are my everlasting save haven and emotional support and I'd never trade them for anything!💖

[@abesapien9930]

But ISFJ's have almost zero patience and tolerance for new ideas

[@orionalexandersummers]

As an INTP with an ISFJ best friend, this is too accurate. He just lets me get on with my own thing sometimes or we can talk if we want to. He is also a literal saint like I can't understand how ISFJs can be soo nice. It's beyond human comprehension. ISFJs are the best forms of humans. Despite you guys not having a backbone and being unable to talk about abstract concepts, you guys are saints.

[@sandracross483]

It all ends with a j for judging..We pick our fights. We are passionate and thorough thinkers .Sometimes it all ends with a door slam. I'm not saying it's the best method.

[@Maddy-pg1fc]

Yeah I... I'll take that😅 -ISFJ

[@i_Forsajt]

Agree, that ISFJs are the best from the best. Humanity is blessed that they're common type! And they're good at discussing abstract ideas. Well, my ISFJs are. They are very deep, truly kind and caring people. Their S with T kinda looks like N, so it's a big pleasure to talk about some crazy ideas, mystery stuff with my sister. She's exactly like Jane Bennett, but is very curious-minded. My ISFJ mom is like this too. The only thing that makes me sad, that they're so soft hearted that can't watch thrillers and horrors with me that I like very much and I would like to share opinions on.

[@i_Forsajt]

I will tell it hundred times if needed, that ISFJs are a backbone of humanity! They're not boring a bit. And they're just like Earth, to humanity

[@rainbowratto1834]

I love this series wholeheartedly! And waiting patiently for the world seen by chill glasses of ISFP :)

[@ceciliaw1065]

Probably everyone’s “a person”🤣

[@uprisingsun9105]

Same 😊

[@thomasswrisky6734]

As an INTJ, the ISFJ depiction was pretty bang on. There have been many instances in my life where I have been the only one to stand up or go against a consensus, because I believe or know it to be incorrect. From the time in grade 8 during a trivia game in geography class when my team was convinced the current monarch of the commonwealth was Queen Elizabeth the 3rd (This was in Canada, where the queen is on our currency by the way) to a French class in grade 9, when we were asked a political question with a clearly acceptable answer, and I was the only one not to chose it, because I disagreed, to various instances in college. Sometimes it’s not even conscious/ on purpose, it just happens. Since then, I have learned to be more strategic. I have also been known to go on the occasional rant. I literally left a party I was dragged to once, in the middle of winter, walking through the snow all the way home, just so I could read in peace and quiet (I was also reading at the party, but there were too many people, it was too loud, and too bright). I don’t get angry often, but when I do, it tends to linger for a while.

[@nerysghemor5781]

See, I admire that part about going against group consensus as an INFP. There are so many fallacies and cognitive biases it means you’re strong enough to avoid, and means you’re likely to actually follow through on your principles and what’s right.

[@Leumar1990]

Such an interesting creature

[@dazzlebreak4458]

When I was younger, I used to call out people and argue about things. Then I became more strategic too and nowadays I just don't care most of the time - INTP

[@EresirThe1st]

Lol same. All my teachers in school hated me because I'd call them out when they were wrong.

[@Jobkruijer]

I got bored reading this /s - ESFP

[@SuperKatiki]

INTJ with and ISFJ sister...yep this is where most of our conflict comes from. Also thank you for adding to my growing suspicion that my brother, whose house I've never been invited to and who didn't own a fitted sheet until our mom literally bought him one for Christmas, may in fact be an ISTP, instead of the INTP he tends to test as.

[@earlyonion]

Lol, I'm an ISFJ with an INTJ sibling too, and I cannot agree more! xD

[@theadultsaretalking2582]

I’m an ISTP, I sleep in a mattress with no fitted sheet, my walls are completely bare and I have exactly TWO plates. I’m scared

[@sarahberkner]

You should be scared, your mattress is probably full of germs. Unless you have a a sheet between you and the mattress it's just not fitted, or things have changed in the last 2 years lol

[@trinaq]

The ISFJ is definitely the sweetheart of the group, my mother, aunt and friend are all proud ISFJs!

[@applepatronum4934]

Wow, i wish i knew this many ISFJs! -isfj

[@sofitocyn100]

Isfj are the sweetest people really

[@ameliam7292]

I just want to say, I swear I see you everywhere lol.

[@echibussy]

My mother’s an INFJ 4w3, and she’s amazing :) -INFJ 5w4

[@uprisingsun9105]

My mother and possibly both grandmothers are ISFJs

[@Dfd_Free_Speech]

INTP here. I was together with an ISFJ and it were the best 4 years of my life. I have to say that she was amazingly intelligent and I am probably much more romantic / into relationships than the average INTP, not scared to show my feelings, so probably that's why it worked out so well for us. ISFJ's are great IMHO. Definitely the most undervalued type of all 👍

[@applepatronum4934]

ISFJ here, thanks for your comment! I'd love to get to know more INTPs, i liked the few i met.

[@grumpypenguin11235]

@@applepatronum4934 Thanks! I'd like to know more ISFJ's as well. They are quite interesting

[@talkingtoawall5123]

Infp here, i attract isfjs like moth to a flame. They're really kind and listens to my ne rants no matter how weird i can get and they're ALWAYS ALWAYS there no matter how long im gone but i just can't seem to share all my feelings with them cuz i feel like they're always carrying someone's emotional burden & i don't wanna add more.

[@yuiitodoro7791]

@@talkingtoawall5123 that's something

[@orionalexandersummers]

Another INTP with a best friend who's an ISFJ (we're both blokes) he is a literal saint. ISFJs are so undervalued and it's sad because he's a legend and I know many ISFJs that are.

[@robinlaptin6126]

My roomate in University was an ISFJ and I am an INFP. I really grew to appreciate having her as a roomate and friend. I would go through moments lost in my mind or feelings and she would always pull me out and remind me to eat better food, exercise or drink water. Her different outlook on life really helped me stay balanced and make healthier decision during University.

[@Ester0ck]

My ISFJ boyfriend often stares at me (INFJ) with a blank face when I'm talking Ni stuff. He answered several times "What is wrong with you ?" 😂 This video is a very nice retribution to ISFJ, fighting the cliché of ISFJ being "too nice" or "boring" !

[@Wardfire]

LMMMAAAAOOOOO I am content with this ESTJ "revenge" on the ISFJ, you even have footage from the flipped version of this video in the background hahahaha. 10/10, thank you

[@Spectacular-Spider-Dan]

Hey youtube commenters! I just wanted to mention again that Kristin has a patreon goal that when she hits 500 subscribers she's going to make "16 Personalities In A Musical." Let's make that happen! Even if you can't afford the lowest patreon tier, I'm sure a custom pledge of any size would help her achieve her goal of becoming a full time content creator. Even a dollar would help! So, if her content entertains you, or enriches your life in some way, please consider donating!

[@dearkristin]

You are just the real MVP!

[@Spectacular-Spider-Dan]

​@@dearkristin Thanks so much, Kristin! 🙂

[@DarthTach]

As an INTP I can already predict that when it comes time for the INTP to sing, they will either miss their cue because they are trying to get out of the house or just do a spoken word rendition of their lines.

[@jimclayson]

@@DarthTach There are musically inclined INTPs... I just don't happen to be one of them... so that "spoken word rendition" sounds right up my alley...

[@shanellemurrey9300]

@@jimclayson I’m not an intp but I still wouldn’t sing lol, I sound like a dying frog so i just don’t lol

[@alexberg9265]

I love that I can watch these more then once and not be bored. It's great! Also that you just go into the video instead of wasting time on telling me to like the video. Now I just do it as I click play because I know it will be good! -Istp

[@dearkristin]

Legend! Thank you 🙌

[@sabrinarajan]

2:02 - My mom is likely an ISFJ and her name is Carol. What a coincidence, haha... 2:26 - My dad is an ESFP and he does that all the time... As someone who is Ti-dominant and values accuracy, I have learnt to live with it while silently correcting him in my mind each time. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ - INTP

[@allisonscanlan4144]

Lol my grandma was an isfj also named Carol 😅

[@Yagmur-cj5qz]

My parents are same too... An intp

[@MichaelGrundler]

Aargh, those SFJs that clean stuff I don't want to have cleaned without asking! - ISTP

[@catherinem5471]

We just care about your wellbeing that’s all😊

[@MichaelGrundler]

@@catherinem5471 But have you considered the possibility that the act of cleaning something without my consent might actually detract from my wellbeing?

[@catherinem5471]

@@MichaelGrundler I suppose I haven’t considered that and I apologize to all the people I’ve done this to 😁 and now that I know this annoys ISTPs, this will be in safe keeping in case I want to seek revenge! Maybe I’ll redo their entire home!

[@shrimpdance4761]

@@catherinem5471 INFJ here! While well-meant, it can totally backfire. I foolishly put clothes I meant to handwash in our laundry room and then forgot all about them. My ISFJ mom decided to help me out (without telling me) by putting them in the washer and hanging them to dry. I was not happy at first, but realized it was partly my own fault for leaving them where I did. We apologized to each other and worked out a better system for me (Si for the win). I later realized that one of the sweaters had shrunk significantly and when I showed her, she was in literal anguish. She was more upset than I was, actually. But I'll try to remember that such actions spring from caring.

[@aiko8311]

​@@catherinem5471no. If You are a real friend of an Istp, someone who won their trust, then clean whatever You want. That's a favour, a benefit and your Istp friend Will do something for You in compensation. Just, don't do it with a random person who is not close to you. Because maybe they will be mean to you, and I understand them but I understand that your intentions are good too I like Isfj. They are chill ~Istp

[@bexter4567]

From an ISFJ, well done! This had me cracking up 😂

[@daisy_rh]

As an ENFJ, I love ISFJs and luckily I’ve got plenty in my life:) I have an ISFJ friend from hs that ended up being the only one of my friends that I consistently speak to and go out with, and she’s such a stable, dependable, loyal presence. Plus, she always has the best gift ideas

[@lpemkz]

I so identified with the ENFJ here. I’m an INFJ and it took me a year and a lot of work to memorize the names of each person in my church group.

[@anavelasquez1916]

As an ISFJ, I loved it!! I haven´t met all the types, but I can´t imagine not thinking this way about them. By the way, I realized that we want to help everyone, hahaha, all the time. Thanks for remembering us!!!

[@kuronumasawako30]

I got too much excited when I saw the title... obviously the video was relatable. Gifting necessary things, inviting someone whom I don't like but others do, hating conflicts... everything was so accurate. Love you and your content 💜

[@fleurpeffer5212]

Ahh that was satisfying to watch. There are some personalities that i just cant get on board with (im an ISFJ) yet i love the "chaotic" personalities like ESFP and ENFP and INFP

[@sandracross483]

Yes..probably because they are mirrors to my strengths..and very hard to conprehend😏

[@junevo7104]

thanks for the reassurance that ive been looking for thru my isfj boyfriend -- sad infp gal

[@EresirThe1st]

Seeing 'anger' subtitled as 'justice' is just a chef's kiss moment

[@13Rats]

I am an INTJ and i find ISFJs confusing and interesting so during my extroverted hours i try to be a around some for analysis purposes. I love this video so much because every single ISFJ I've made friends with has said i was intimidating at the start for those exact reasons. thank you for brightening my day

[@BulgrozTseNob]

My mom is ISFJ and my dad ENTJ. I didn't understand the cause of their conflicts before learning about mbti. This video describes really well why they get to each other throats, and why they eventually divorced. P.S : As an INTP, this also really accurate !

[@allisonscanlan4144]

My grandparents were also isfj and entj and divorced too

[@kleddo3126]

ISFJ can love really hard but it´s possible, the thing is in my relationship the ENTJ always drained me expect me to be there for her everyday which I did gave me hard depression and my ENTJ girlfriend couldnt admit that she was wrong. I enjoy my Freedom and be with people whenever I want to be.

[@amanda_means_beloved3404]

Isfjaaaaaay :) thank you Kristin! I'd be so delighted with the guest isfj being on point, finally somebody else who cares too much about the little things 😅. I've gotta say though, my Istj mother does a bang up job with details like that. Her organization and preparation is sooooo satisfying 😌

[@johnpaul6983]

Looking forward to 16 Personalities seen through INTP googles video.

[@mxtanoiia]

me too

[@BillyBob-lt5nr]

@@mxtanoiia Ditto -ENTP

[@BillyBob-lt5nr]

The ISTP got some really good (and accurate) representation in this one. I work with an ISTP; great guy. He's very into botany (I used to like Latin, now I'm over it, his fault), very into historical tools, from old military service rifles to antique wood planes; hunting, hiking, any by-myself-outdoorsy-thing really. He shows me photos of everything he's into, and his home is basically a meticulously landscaped and maintained exotic botanical garden, but I don't know anyone who's been invited (or allowed) to visit. Our new HR director just asked (told) him to take his "Knife Life" sticker off of his office window, because it could potentially be offensive to someone... I'm really going to miss him. -ENTP

[@PriHL]

That's some really original and interesting hobby.

[@junejuly6060]

As an ISTP I use my ENTPs as my thought-translators. I dislike too many words. If I caught myself talking too much and describing shit it is too annoying. Planes are cool but the real balls is doing effective stuff with few tools and improvising. I'll use ya to do the talking with an Irish accent.

[@BillyBob-lt5nr]

@@junejuly6060 Yes, the one I know is pretty quiet 'till you get him talking about his hobbies. Then I get way too many details. I never tell him "I know" or "I don't have time" 'cause then he'd stop investing in the conversation and wouldn't feel obligated to give me his opinion on politics and religion. Plus, it's good to learn stuff, and it's soothing to know people are keeping handy skills alive (and in his case honed razor sharp)

[@junejuly6060]

@@BillyBob-lt5nr Kanna or Japanese plane for example is used drawing and scraping the wood towards your body, it is a pulling motion instead of a pushing one that Western planes usually do. 🤣 Being into woodworking is very ISTP. Also I get into politics or *state of being politics* not political ideologies. I compare times when certain things were better and announce my powerful disapproval. I am announcing my disapproval as well for the highly corrupt in-justice system and government and the corruot police when problems come at me. If they don't, I don't really care but because they came at my door it is time to fix them all or change country. The second solution is not impossible lol.

[@BillyBob-lt5nr]

@@junejuly6060 That's a very ISTP take.

[@Meg_intheclouds]

Ah yes the XSXJ’s seeing my ENFP fun as a “hazard”- although to be fair to them I do knock something over at pretty much every event I’m invited to. Though that clumsiness I like to think is part of the ENFP charm and it’s endearing and likeable… Which note to the captions that Fe critic is REAL omg, like I not only love parties but am a people pleaser and also get FOMO if I thought there was a party I wasn’t invited to. I think it was in the therapist video where the ENFP says “I was there but I didn’t feel like I was being my most authentic self”- it’s like we want to be liked and appreciated for who we are (Fi) but also have this desire to fit into the tribe and worry that we’re not going to be accepted for who we are (critic Fe).

[@beep7634]

i wanna reply bc same but i have no words to reply with im just so shocked 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@Meg_intheclouds]

@@beep7634 omg it’s ok! Hi! I’ve been working through it in therapy which has helped a lot, highly recommend. For me I realised I had this constant need to entertain people because I always have been the “positive” one. I think we can get better with it though when we realise that people aren’t going to leave if we are ourselves and that Fi will be fulfilled.

[@beep7634]

@@Meg_intheclouds you're right! but before that i need to simply accept the fact i cant be liked by everyone lmao. im still a teenager so imma give myself some time with these things :))

[@Meg_intheclouds]

@@beep7634 oh I totally get that- I am also still a teenager- I just seem to be more emotionally mature than other teenagers my age (so I’ve been told anyways)- it’s part of self discovery which I am still very much trying to learn- I like to pretend I’m ok with it but I still very much want to be liked by everyone as much as I pretend it doesn’t bother me lol

[@beep7634]

@@Meg_intheclouds fake it till u make it xD

[@BillyBob-lt5nr]

On ISFP, I was not prepared for "Come join my cult on the mountain." I'm really glad I wasn't sipping my tea when she said it, I'd have had one damp monitor. Hilarious. -ENTP

[@PriHL]

There's enough "crazy" in ISFPs that I could totally expect something absurd and totally unrealistic out of the blue at some point. It can be fun sometimes :)

[@mamamoopapamoo]

I kinda love how you put on different graphic t-shirts for every personality 🤣

[@jessc4737]

Brilliant video as always! also I just have to add as an ISFJ the way the INTJ counted on her fingers was mildly infuriating but absolutely hilarious! Also, you are spot on with the ESTP! My best friend is an ESTP and her most quoted phrase and the one that stresses me out the most is 'lets wing it'

[@BillyBob-lt5nr]

I really like how the UK subtitles are actually address the ISFJ's points through the other type's lens. -ENTP

[@mattevans6752]

The captions managed to stay firmly on the rails today. Kristin must've made them during the daytime and not at 3am on a Tuesday.

[@dearkristin]

Hahahahaha

[@justme4579]

Lol why is this so accurate?!? This is exactly my mother, who, no matter what, will continue to graciously host all her kids and random spouses whenever possible, forever! (And included in that group are pretty much every personality type.. the most entertaining interactions to watch being with her ENTP and ENFP sons in law, along with her INFP son haha)

[@CineMairon]

Hahaha, I wanted so much to see your view of the ISFJ POV! The thoughts related to memory and the INFP crying, they were so accurate! My personal point of view as an ISFJ on the types I have been associating the most in my life is: -ESFJ (mum): The epitome of extroversion, sweet and dative but too much into the etiquette and huge drama queen in arguments, but we share every thought. -ISFP (dad): Crazy Fi. Does his own thing. We have so much in common but his messiness can kill me and my tidiness gives him error 404. The part about the cult in the mountain also accurate for the ISFPs I know from theatre. -ENTP (bro): Cool, can argue about everything, but open to hear you out, total mess and selfish but if he cares is genuine and his small gestures of love can be the sweetest thing. -ENFP (cousin and friends): Very emotional and there for you when drama happens, but not so reliable overall, I love them, but they can go from clingy to ghosting in a way I can't catch up. Very messy but amazingly neat handwriting. -INFP (bestie): Sweetest person in the world, innocent, cute, cries all the time believing they are broken, a little too dramatic, their train of thought makes no sense but still cute. -INTJ (cousin and 4 friends): My beloved misunderstood babies. They care more truly than any feeler does, they are brilliant, hardworking, goal focused, talented, we can talk for hours but they don't cope well with their emotions, so approach them through thoughts. -INFJs (friends): We understand eachother but...loops...so many loops of mind... -ENTJ (gf): Outgoing, powerful, ambitious, bossy, multitalented = super hot. But stubborn and the resentfulness of their own emotions can backfire to you. Fun fact for ENTJ that got to the point of this clip. My ENTJ girlfriend and I disagreed about something and I asked her which has the best memory, she said I do, so we concluded I was right. But I am the kind of ISFJ that while hates conflict, prioratizes facts and what is fair, so... PS: The Easter Egg with ISFJ clip in the screen of ESTJ, priceless.

[@applepatronum4934]

Isfj here! Love your comment, i relate to everything you said! I wrote my thoughts on all the 16 types in the comments too, i worked on it for more than an hour hahah... But now i wish i would've wrote in brackets my relation to them too, like (mom)!

[@CineMairon]

@@applepatronum4934 Oh dear! Thank you for even taking the time to read my comment! I am glad and a little surprised honestly someone agreed with my point of view! I really wanna read yours now and see fully your perspective, so I have some research to do in the comment section 🤣 (I also relate to how long your comment took to be done...mine too especially trying to make it shorter 🤣)

[@applepatronum4934]

@@CineMairon ahw cute❤️

[@nickolaszissimos1189]

I admit, I really love this series here, I am interested in when you get to your take on the INFJs point of view on the 16 personalities. I want to see how it matches up, and so far, you seem pretty accurate.

[@calmingbabysleep1256]

It will likely be a long wait. Probably last. But a very exciting series. Very good and insightful!! - fellow infj

[@nickolaszissimos1189]

@@calmingbabysleep1256 Yes, I feel the same, I love seeing how each type interacts with one another. I wouldn't be surprised if there is a type that hears out of us, "Blah blah blah yap yap yakidy shmackidy, ha ha

[@fristith7880]

I'm rolling at INFJ. Basically my relationship with my ISFJ bestfriend. He dislike it so much when i jump into random conclusion when he tell me every story. But one rare day everytime he got a big problem, he always asking me for what i'm thinking about that situation, i guess he want to see all the possibilities so he can be prepared for whatever outcomes. Anyway we love each other so much and can't imagine to live without each other.

[@FrogBassoons]

My husband is an ISTP, and when I first met him and went over to his apartment, I noticed he didn't have any hand soap. Hand soap! Who doesn't have hand soap? So anyway I got him some and it lasted him like two years.

[@EpicPaul64]

The ENTJ is humbled by admitting that she can, in fact, remember things wrongly! Justice is served!!!!

[@crazynconfident]

I get things wrong all the time. But I will in fact be learning to correct those so I'm prepared to be correct for the next time [insert topic] comes up. But is it really justice or just gratifying when someone admits they're wrong?

[@EpicPaul64]

The "justice is served" is kind of a figure of speech to exaggerate how folks with dominant Extroverted Thinking tend to be a bit arrogant and pushy, being absolutely insistent that their way is the only way, so when they are actually proven wrong, it's nice to see a side of them that's more humbled. Plus, as a Sensor, I just find it funny when Inituives miss out on details that my brain would find more obvious.

[@MichaelLover9]

I totally agreed with ISFP. Gotta let loose once in a while!!

[@ilveyouful]

As an ISFJ myself, the ISTJ one and I are swapped as my best friend, the ISTJ, is the words of affirmation person and mine is acts of service. I'm just so bad at it, but I work on it for her. My ex fiance is an ENFJ, and he's pretty much an angel, but tbh if the ENFJ can't even remember my name they won't know that many details about me lmao. I guess the other's are pretty good? I had an ENFP best friend who ended up being really toxic but she was very fun. I ended up having to validate and pay attention to her instead of myself so it got toxic and abusive very fast. I don't wish to hear from her again lol The ESTP was an ex crush who I was good friends with but when I told him I liked him he dipped. Generally tho, he was a good friend who was funny and kind, but did have commitment issues. Anyways this is getting way long lol. I've learned not to expect thanks from anyone from doing anything and just do it anyway.

[@bobbybalonie7644]

1. I will turn up late 2. Throw down a bunch of truths 3. Actually did make a kid cry once, unintentionally, in his own birthday party 4. And will at some point find the deepest corner to hide in 5. But you can’t stop inviting me because I am ISFJ’s child

[@ryaneveleigh4857]

As an ENTP I have really enjoyed watching your videos, I stumbled on yours after watching several other channels on MBTI and I'm so thankful for you all - really have helped me understand my strengths and weaknesses and helped me accept myself plus make sense of how to go about working on those weaknesses.

[@TheNitr01]

I got the ENTP, ESTJ, INFP, INTJ and ISFJ ones correct. New personal best for me! For some of them I couldn't quite think in time before the names came up and for others I at least had the right dominant function. Slowly learning! Also, I'm loving how people associate us INTJs with black coffee because that's the only way I like mine. I do like the occasional iced coffee but I think of them as more like frozen milkshakes with a slight hint of coffee.😅

[@dilutedchaos]

as an ISTP with a growing fascination for bugs and insects i wasn't expecting to be dissected like that

[@MichaelGrundler]

Based on my observations I can conclude that the ENFP, ISFP and ISTP scene have been recorded right one after the other. Probably in that specific order but certainly the ENFP first. Oh wait, we're in Australia, that means the ENFP must have been last.

[@dearkristin]

Why am I not surprised that you monitored the sun's movement? 😆

[@nickmerchant4588]

And I thought I was being attentive…

[@MichaelGrundler]

@@dearkristin Well, it's kind of in-your-face, isn't it? 😉

[@dearkristin]

@@MichaelGrundler 😆

[@huntedsnark7507]

Brilliant

[@patt2250]

esfp here…. some call it “embellishment”, some call it “refining the delivery”. we’re just out here optimizing the punchline, folks!

[@jameswilkerson4412]

I just wish they’d wear a damn name tag with their MBTI on it so I know this when I meet them!

[@draspotnuk]

Lmao!! 😂 On the flip side when you guys get stressed repetition with stories at different angles looks like psychosis.

[@Meg_intheclouds]

As an enfp I do the same- I’m a story teller I don’t tell stories because they serve a purpose- they are just fun and entertaining

[@ЭрнестТимохин-ы9д]

I am an ENTP, whereas my mother is an ISFJ and the scene with an ENTP describes our interaction very accurately. I will definitely be late, especially for the holiday, maybe I will bring my sister a couple of times (she is ESFJ, as far as I can judge) and I will tell unexpected facts and abstract theories that will be interesting to everyone, but mom is 90% likely to call them stupid.

[@tesseract_lover]

My sister is an ISFJ and my dad is a ESFJ

[@Abvgdejziklmnoprst]

Привет

[@ЭрнестТимохин-ы9д]

@@Abvgdejziklmnoprst Привет.

[@thelastunicorn4]

I love this so much. My Dad is ISFJ and this is spot on.

[@macaronmaker0720]

My brother tested ENFP when he took the test a year ago, but in this case... he is 100% ENTP, right down to leaving with an Irish accent! Could you do INFJ next? Great job Kristin, I love your videos :)

[@mousinius]

learn about Fi and try figure out if he uses it a lot of not

[@applepatronum4934]

(ISFJ here) Oh nooo i'm not THIS irritated by THIS many people :(( Also, it was a bit hard to relate to some because i don't host events... You know what, i love when people type out something for each type so i'll try to do that, leaving it as a reply to this comment. Thanks for the video tho❤️

[@applepatronum4934]

~MBTI through the eyes of an ISFJ~ INTP: i love them, they're always talking about something interesting and they seem to not be afraid to be themselves. I'd love to get to know more INTP people. ENTP: yeah those lengthy explanations are a bit too much and too abstract for me but it's entertaining to witness two ENTPs go at each other. I also admire how they stick to their own set of morals, there just seems to be a line for all of them that they seriously won't cross. ENFP: fun people! I love talking about about *feeler stuff* with them but if it gets too abstract, i'll just stare into the void and nod politely. Also, what do you mean you don't know if you're gonna go on that 4hour train trip today or tomorrow?? And when are you coming back?? INFP: such kindhearted people! I LOVE listening to those rambles because i can see by your shining eyes that you care about this topic! Go on, tell me more. No, you're not bothering or annoying me. Have some self-confidence. Also, all of you are so artistic, i envy that. ISFP: i don't know many of them but wow, those guys are so free spirited, i could never. Love that they keep doing their own thing, just please don't tell me to be less uptight. ESFP: i sadly only know one ESFP in real life and i wasn't close to him either, just a schoolmate. He went around the school like lightning, he was gone so fast but he was yes, LOUD. However, i was one of those people who wasn't annoyed by his loudness... But i suspect i was too boring for him. ESTP: unfortunately i don't know many of them either and i still don't really understand this type. All i can say is: no, we're not just "winging" it, not in this household. ISTP: very cool people. I'd like to be this rational and good with my hands. I'm kinda nervous around them tho, their intelligence intimidates me and i suddenly have the urge to prove i'm smart too. ENFJ: oh please do have a one on one talk with me and dig into the depths of me! But I'd also love to hear YOU open up. My favourite teacher was an ENFJ, i'm so thankful for how she looked after us. The class groaned when she made us sit in circle for the hundredth time to talk about how we're doing in the moment but i loved to hear everyone's feelings. INFJ: oh we're so similar in a group setting yet so different inside. We link on the Fe-Ti ground but we can't really do anything about the other's dominant function. We dive into the nostalgia of our shared experiences but I've never talked about anything else with INFJs, maybe some occasional psycho-analysing of our friends. INTJ: i DO find their rants interesting and important. Please tell me everything, just let me be sure i have the time. Their knowledge also intimidates me, i look up to them. They seems so irritated all the time tho, i wish for some peace and happiness in their life. ENTJ: their efficiency is something i envy a lot of times. They always say the thing that needs to be said and which my Fe held me back to say it myself. I'm thankful for their honesty and i admire their ambition. They also surprisingly are able to have fun and chill in-between work. ESTJ: i don't think i know any ESTJs, sadly... I'm curious what i'd think of the Si paired with dominant Te. ISTJ: i like them a lot, it's interesting to see the Si on someone else. I had an ISTJ classmate and i aspire to be as useful as he was. And it was great to work with him on group projects! I'd like to get to know more ISTJs. ISFJ: i wish to have some ISFJ friends! I had a classmate for two years but we didn't talk much, my theory is that we were too similar and didn't know how to act around eachother. Thus, i haven't had the chance to see an ISFJ from an outsider's perspective, i only know myself. I think we're nice people? ESFJ: mom figure! Thank you for all the nice things you guys do, you deserve all the hugs. I WILL let you do all the planning for the events but please do let me know if i can help with anything. ESFJs gossip a bit too much to my liking, i'd rather hear about their feelings instead of what other people (i might not even know) are doing. Let's dive into nostalgia instead!

[@CineMairon]

I have to fully agree on the event hosting part, I never do that either.

[@CineMairon]

@@applepatronum4934 So interesting! I appreciate the fact you have an example for each type and it's even more interesting how the types you haven't been around much are the ones that get specific examples of who and when. You describe them all so kindly, I wish I was THAT nice! But ENFPs, YES!!!! You are SO RIGHT! What about all those trips out of nowhere???? I don't know if you have seen FJ's video of same types interacting with each other and the ENFP was like -Let's go to a trip -I already bought tickets for Greece for tomorrow -TOMORROW??? Couldn't you find anything sooner??? it's the truth. My cousin has done that. We talk, I text her next day to invite her to my dad's b-day and she is in Hungary and I am like 🤯🤯🤯 I also think INTPs are very interesting and ISTPs very cool and because I am very much of the handy technician in my family against all girly stereotypes, I love them a little more for that XD

[@applepatronum4934]

@@CineMairon hahah your comments are all so sweet! Lengthy, in a good way. Yes, i think i watched all of FJ's skits and i remember the one you're talking about, it's very funny. As you mentioned the country, i have to say, i live in Hungary!

[@applepatronum4934]

@@CineMairon and the fact you dug up my comment! Thank you for reading all of it. Was it hard to find?

[@jackies1729]

INFP, feeling very attacked 🤣 That was awesome!!!! Yes, i do tend to cry at movies..... I definitely cried during the new Top Gun and the Thor movies 😪😭 But i can handle it....😆❤️ You rock, dear Kristin! ❤️

[@erikadavis21]

Damn Kristin, that was so good to have the perspective of the other types to illustrate how everything we see is from our own perspective and nothing is reality. I loved it

[@CamzCritiques]

"Why do you keep expecting words of affirmation from me when you know they're not coming?" my parents' marriage

[@Toni7926]

Sounds tough.

[@nickmerchant4588]

Time to Unpack the Backgrounds: ENTP: (gasp) The background’s moving! ENFP: The background stopped moving… apparently time stands still in the presence of ENFPs. ENTJ: Subtle hints that a green screen was deployed. ESFJ: Like it or not, I t’s always Christmas around the ESFJ. ISTP: For someone who owns only one plate, that is a lot of plants… Is this wishful thinking on the ISFJ’s part? ESTJ: Isn’t Carol weirded out by seeing her face on a coworker’s computer? Also, we still don’t know what “generic societal standard actually refers to. INFP: Her world is literally on fire…

[@MichaelGrundler]

Interestingly enough in the ENTJ scene there are actual hints that a green screen has been used. Just look at the top of the U near the end.

[@dearkristin]

^CLASSIC Michael

[@nickmerchant4588]

@@MichaelGrundler How do you do that?!

[@MichaelGrundler]

@@nickmerchant4588 I only noticed it after reading your comment. At first I wasn't sure whether you meant the green background or some video artefacts, so I watched the scene again and paid particular attention to anything green (and also the boundary between foreground and background), knowing that that's where something like that most likely would occur. I guess remembering Kristin's Instagram story about wearing a green shirt in front of a green screen also helped pointing me in the right direction. So basically typical Se attention to detail and Ni pattern recognition with a pinch of Ti reasoning.

[@sylvialuisa]

As an ESFJ I am delighted with this and can also confirm it. 🎄

[@happyuser6509]

I'm an INTJ, I can have deep conversation with ISFJs and they're really kind people. But I know one unhealthy ISFJ who is a nightmare and sometimes I just want to get rid from her, but idk why I'm still helping her to get better.

[@jordanyu1035]

Hello. I am an ISFJ with an INTP sister and INTJ mother: The INTP perspective was so accurate for me at least. She almost always wants to be left alone and I always let her although she likes talking to me whenever her friends can't. The INTJ one was also accurate although my mother and I have learned to respect each others views and we coexist quite peacefully. Anyway, thank you for taking the time to read this comment and I hope you have a wonderful rest to your day.

[@mjprozac]

The INFJ so perfectly got the way my Si using husband feels about my Ni-dom perceptions.

[@Rillien]

Love this series!😀 can't wait for the ENFP's perspective!

[@simonarnback6547]

My mother is an ISFJ and I'm an INTJ. Can confirm that the ISFJ perception is spot on!

[@crystaltiger105]

You nailed the intj and isfj one. This is pretty much how things are with my isfj father.

[@CamzCritiques]

2:06 INFP translation: How was my day? Pretty dull. It feels like there's a black hole inside of me sucking away at my spirit. But it's okay because I'm writing about it in my diary and then I'll watch my comfort show and it'll all work out. No, really I'll be fine. You don't need to make me cookies. I appreciate your kindness, though

[@HopePlayZ-ot6tz]

As an ISFJ I relate to this. I am extremely hardworking and also am very good at comforting people and enjoy being someone’s safe place ❤

[@d.madden]

As an ISFJ myself, I did clean my friend’s bathroom once 😂

[@catherinem5471]

Thank you so much for making this video!!!

[@FalconOfStorms]

I'm living for that monotone vocal fry on ISFP's "come join my cult on the mountain" right now.

[@FalconOfStorms]

If I had motivation I would remix that into a song. Someone run with my idea.

[@HandleDisliker]

@Seraph O. Storms I have too many projects as it is to do something like this lol.

[@FalconOfStorms]

​@@HandleDisliker Same, but I can see it all now. Okay, it starts out with an isolated sample of Kristin's "come join my cult on the mountain" with just a little radio static effect before moving on to some simple, crisp, unassuming thwomps and hi-hats. After a couple of moments we introduce one instance of the entire ISFP Kristin sample. Then we start looping the whole sample, but with a stutter on the word cult (with the pitch raised on each stutter), quickly enjoined by a stanky heavy guitar riff. After a few loops, everything stops for a half-beat and then an isolated "come join my cult on the mountain" but taken down several octaves and with a creepy distortion added -- immediately followed by a death metal "BLEGH!" provided by yours truly. The guitar comes back in immediately after that, a little heavier, and joined by a hypnotic bass guitar line and real drumming. No longer EDM, it's now death metal. Kristin's sample plays every now and then but it's just the "cult-cult-cult-cult" stutter with the demonic distortion from earlier. Then the instruments stop abruptly and we play "come join my cult on the mountain" with no alteration. That's it, it's over, you're on the mountain.

[@FalconOfStorms]

Okay and also there's a metallic hand drum section before the death metal drop, and after the sample at the end the hand drums come back with distant droning didgeridoo.

[@SweetyMaity468]

Man I felt like I was being bullied by each and every personality type ( except for Isfj) As an ISFJ, I'm I really that worthless? Man...... I'm I the doormat?

[@cutepsycho1224]

Same but that‘s how they treat us even in real life from my experience 💔

[@luckyshaye]

You are beautiful!!!

[@earlyonion]

That INTJ... it really is a struggle! D'x And damn right about those behind-the-scene work, especially the 'cleaning when you think no one's looking' bit! x'D --ISFJ

[@xanthejai3002]

I’m an INTJ and my mom is ISFJ…gotta say, this is pretty accurate. 😂

[@plumplumi]

ouch that "imposter syndrome of being likeable" in the UK subtitles of the ENFP was deadly accurate

[@ishah2734]

no fr i stopped the video and made a 😫 face she did not have to call me out i thought i would be safe in an ISFJ video at least

[@rowansaro2458]

0:45 As an ISFJ dating an ISTJ, can confirm this is a conversation we had in the beginning of the relationship. He’s a quick study and is super affirming and affectionate now :)

[@erinl422]

I’m an ISTJ and I always mentally remind myself to tell me ISFJs that they’re doing a good job. So many people completely overlook them, but I see you guys!

[@ruthie5748]

Ok. I have to share that of all the channels I subscribe to, I look forward to yours the most.

[@sashimie9282]

Plss the INFJ interaction is basically me and my mom 😭 Sometimes something will happen and she and I will be thinking about it throughout the day; the only difference is that she'll give me a well-thought-out theory/conclusion while I'm standing there going "Wow I never thought of that, but that's definitely possible"

[@egale1873]

As someone who identifies with the INFJ type I can confirm that most of my conversations with my dear ISFJ friend include them saying two words about something that briefly caught their attention enacting various mental deep dives on the subject and coming back to them once we’ve moved on with some far out conclusión I’ve reached on the subject they no longer really care about. Now I seem weird for caring… but she’s too polite to say anything :) You’re content is spot on lmao, I just found your channel and I’m already obsessed; keep up the good work

[@hoibsh21]

When I went out without shoes and romped through the grass free as a bee, a wasp stung me on the foot. I was only 25.

[@eugeosynthesisthirtytwo]

I'm an ISFJ and the ISFP part is exactly my best friend

[@salemsmith2878]

Two new videos showed up in my feed at the same time. I was about to click on one but then scrolled down my feed and saw this one, and... looks like Kristin gets the nod!

[@scatteredplastic]

I like how what the ISFP said ("come and join my cult") is more out there than the subtext.

[@amitwagner3071]

The amount of times I’ve been put in a corner with a puzzle is insane! I’m not complaining though, it’s fun

[@jameswilkerson4412]

I LOVE that the INTJ stands for black coffee AND anger!

[@jameswilkerson4412]

And yes, by “anger,” I mean “at the injustice of the world”

[@jameswilkerson4412]

Oh, and International Chess Day was the 20th of Jul

[@jimclayson]

Yeah, INTP here with an ISFJ mother, so I've learned to play nice with ISFJs... most of the time. I see the mix of enthusiasm to interact with people and confusion (or sometimes hurt) when I try to communicate anything of substance, so I just smile to the best of my ability and try to play along and make them happy. My interactions with my mother tend to be more like the ISTP, because she's stuck with me. My older sister's an ESTJ, and she can be BRUTAL with my mother. I try really hard not to laugh and to (politely) stand up for Mom and point out her good traits, but I've been guilty of riffing off my sister's jabs and hurting Mom's feelings before. My sister doesn't understand why Mom takes it personally, whereas I grew up under the thumb of my ESTJ sister and it took me decades to learn to shrug it off and understand she means well, even when she's emotionally eviscerating you... I actually really like (most) ISFJs... in small doses, at least. Honest, hard working, conscientious people who just want everyone around them to be happy and comfortable. Unfortunately, as a pretty stereotypical INTP, I don't fit in that world very well... but that's not the fault of the ISFJ and I try to let them have their little bubble-zone of happiness and contentment.

[@entropy8634]

I relate, since I also have ISFJ mom. Her attempts to groom me for social acceptability mostly fails, since I often dismiss tiny social details as trivial matter. Probably why I'm failing at interviews tho

[@applepatronum4934]

Thanks for your comment! -isfj

[@letfreedomring7330]

I'm an ISTJ, and my best friend is an ISFJ. I feel a little bad because she does sometimes seem to seek affirmation, and I usually respond with logic. I can't help it! I do try to express some feeling to her because I know it's her language, but it's so difficult.

[@alexisflores7770]

as an ISFJ I admire the ISTJ's logic it's so grounding and refreshing at the same time! lol I tend to have ISTJ friends! love them!

[@nerysghemor5781]

The ISFJ is really sweet. ❤️ I really wanted to smack the ESFJ for the passive-aggressive stuff though. The ESTJ was blunt but at least she wasn’t being two-faced. (That shows the difference between me as an INFP having Fi-Te and the types that have Fe.) Fortunately I know that mature ESFJs are not two-faced and can be really nice people.

[@milaalaniva775]

It's lovely to hear that us ESFJs can be nice people 😳. Do we really need this type of discussion? All unhealthy types can irritate each other.

[@nerysghemor5781]

@@milaalaniva775 Some types will be irritated more by particular types of behavior than others, so while one form of unhealthy behavior might roll off their back, others they will be less able to cope with.

[@BillyBob-lt5nr]

ENFP -> "a potential hazard, every time" LOL Also, that hard-hitting intense dark empathic turn out of nowhere, WOW that's perfect! ENFPs do that all the time and I've never seen anyone acknowledge it! I asked my ENFP wife once if she thought people ever perceived her as "socially intimidating" or an "emotional wildcard" and she looked at me like I was crazy, and then thought for a second, and said "Oooooooh... yeah, probably some do." -ENTP

[@RavenStrawman]

Hi ENFP here and I just wanna say I thought about this often, ENFPs are usually disarming people with a social chameleon act but this dark emapthy vibe often slips through, it’s when our inner logical cynic gets the spotlight but this is the first time anyone ever acknowledged this and it’s so spot onnnnnn. Figures that after enfp it would take an entp (I love entps btw) to point it out 😂

[@BillyBob-lt5nr]

@@RavenStrawman ENFPs are one one my favorite types too, my wife is ENFP.

[@treasuredwisp]

INFP- The relationship is a bit different when the ISFJ is your mom and can't understand why you're going through something when nothing significantly bad is happening externally and constantly claims that "these are the best years of your life so there's no reason to feel down".

[@edwright4892]

Hilarious! The perfect school nurse tone for a way under-appreciated type!

[@hannahmayhorn5466]

Ahahaha 😂 This is amazing! "For some reason I remember that you were bullied in high school, but I've forgotten your name, like, eight times." Best Fe/Ni interpretation ever

[@Iwachansfavoritealien]

ENTJ with ISFJ father. I can proudly say that he never bothers to correct me unless he's absolutely mad and snappy.

[@jayolovitt5969]

As an ENTP with an ISFJ partner I don’t know how we’re still together either.

[@haneenasad]

"Make a kid cry" was WAY too accurate for the ENTP lmaooo 😭 No offence but as an ISFJ myself, I swear most of you lot are horrible with the little ones 💀 I cracked up at that, the whole thing was hilarious and on point 😆

[@Tomjrf]

I LOVE the ISFP. Fantastic!

[@Dan-the-man1989]

I don’t know if this was on purpose, but I found it so funny that in the ESTJ clip, in the background there was the clip of the ISFJ viewed in the ESTJ's goggles!!🤣🤣👏

[@ellie7701]

Just came back from camping with my ISFJ sister. There I was, barefoot on the fresh dirt with my music arsenal of varying genres. "No, it's fine," she said, clearly stressed out because the rain was soaking the picnic table seat. Solution? I sat on the dry part of the table top and let my legs dangle off the side. She went into the tent instead LOL. 🤣

[@ikasugami8066]

Looking forward to your video of 16 Personalities Through the Eyes of the INFJ!

[@zahrac-w2545]

WHY WAS THE ISTJ ONE SO ACCURATE BYE

[@HelloThere-ki5mg]

0:50 lack of silverware (or the presence of silverware unfit for the food being consumed) and bare feet on the road is so deeply ingrained into my childhood I remember nearly giving my parents a heart attack when I tried to get into bed with my nasty, blackened, fresh asphalt street feet without washing it off That used to not bother me one bit, but it's interesting to see that as my Si has developed over a few years the thought of going to bed with some kind of grime or residue on my feet makes me physically recoil in discomfort.