19 pieces of advice you didn't ask for but need to hear

[@LanaBlakely]

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[@randomchannel8912]

I am lord STEVEN

[@EllenHawknight]

Another Lady over here! :D

[@drewmanize212]

Thank you Lana for tromendous and amazing idea, also sharing with us in Indonesia 👍👍👍 love you full and always 💓💓💓💓

[@Fernadotube]

meow 😻😻😻😻🐱🐱😻

[@angelicaxoangelica]

Your hair 💕 thank you for this 😊

[@anchalgarg3239]

1. It's OK to let people go. 2. Adults aren't always right. 3. Memento mori (you'll die one day) 4. You choose your purpose. 5. Be comfortable with your own company, but don't isolate yourself. Know the importance of healthy relationships. 6. Don't ignore the opinions of your loved ones (be open to different views). 7. You'll get over your first heartbreak. 8. Make reading more accessible. 9. Give yourself approval (that's the only approval you truly need). 10. Plan and write your plan (use calendars). 11. Ask yourself questions that make you think constructively (for e.g., Would I do this all over again if I could start over?). 12. Don't be a half-asser, finish what you started. 13. Don't assume, ask. 14. Plan, but be open to god's plan too (hope for the best, prepare for the worst). 15. Don't wait around for opportunities. 16. Be less reactive, pick your battles (choose to put your energy into things that matter more). 17. You're stronger than you think.

[@tanvirbinlokman1476]

thanka

[@allinonetube3387]

Chup

[@prashmigurung8382]

Thank you : ))

[@rngpsMBBS]

13th one hits diff for me

[@anchalgarg3239]

@@rngpsMBBS fellow overthinker?

[@JimmyJaxJellyStax]

Never let anyone pressure you into friendships either, we decide who is in our life.

[@alinakaith186]

Exactly what I am going through

[@alinakaith186]

Needed that reminder

[@glitzygirl2412]

Exactly! Sometimes too we're better off alone.

[@deutschmitpurple2918]

Thank you for sharing this message! I have really needed it

[@evangeline5991]

thank u, thats what i need to hear today

[@natemarx4999]

Lana is a great self-help book in human form.

[@inaya738]

exactly

[@mayankkishor02]

Lana Rhodes

[@javier8672]

Oh so you see her as an object smh

[@Duskofoolacile7]

Self help books are a cancerous business

[@Rebeca27361]

@@javier8672 it's just an expression

[@ebadqureshi7040]

"You'll get over your first heartbreak." Really needed that Lana. Thank you

[@LanaBlakely]

Absolutely :) xx

[@yeric9631]

Man I'm going through mine right now

[@ji-ah3186]

@@yeric9631 hope you're better!

[@또리비니업고튀어]

me too… :(

[@bluecheesebath]

How about the third one?

[@Jha9124]

You're always so calm and seeing that I feel good...and your videos just gives me a new perspective to think and work on specific...

[@deutschmitpurple2918]

True, she is my idol

[@gonegirl000]

THIS

[@darrenvong9404]

"I'm a lot stronger than you think. And so are you." - you really have a special way to end these videos that hit in the feels, but it's also exactly the things I needed to hear. Thank you!

[@SiddharthSingh-hx1bp]

Thanks for doing this 😇

[@minaal2142]

You're my comfort person girl. Sending you love and well wishes

[@LanaBlakely]

hugs :))

[@akbargabbar505]

Such a gorgeous Lana💘🌷💯

[@simantsoren1120]

"Assumtions are the devils. Ask instead." This is the suggestion I realized my own a month ago. I assume a lot of things instead of just asking and then I mess myself & my head around for no reason. We should ask, question about stuffs we don't know as it is our right.

[@daniqsaa]

Lana stepping in as our collective big sister. I love it 🥰

[@LanaBlakely]

:')

[@pradeeprao2697]

💞👍

[@morningskylark]

1. You're not as bad as you think you are. 2. Other people have just as many doubts and insecurities as you do. 3. The only thing that separates successful people from unsuccessful people is perseverance. 4. It's okay to be scared and it's normal to feel insecure sometimes - just don't let those feelings stop you from trying anyway. 5. There's no shame in admitting that you don't know something - everyone is learning every day. 6 . Taking care of yourself should be a priority - both physically.

[@meditationthien1662]

Thank you & you are beautiful ❤❤❤

[@LanaBlakely]

Thank you!!!

[@abcdefgzywvutsr_]

She's my official internet mom y'all could never

[@makizenin1840]

She's my internet sister🥺💙

[@bollywoodbaddie]

I love the way you talk. It's so deliberate, well thought-out with the right amount of pauses. And it's so calming!!

[@jebaker2]

I’ve always been amazed how “friendships” are a product of proximity.

[@RadiantMantra]

One teaching in Buddhism helped me slowly overcome my isolation and coldness towards others. You never know when is the last time you'll see someone, so every time you interact with someone, treat it as your last time with them, and when you see them again, be grateful you got to see them again.

[@mr.wholeworld2606]

DON'T KNOW WHAT SOOTHES ME YOUR VOICE, CHARISMA OR WORDS BUT THANK YOU

[@adityashrivastava007]

I am telling you honestly, I was stressed and worried about something and just 5 minutes into the video I feel relaxed. You provide calm and peaceful vibes. Grateful

[@roulettxxl9941]

Looking for the approval of others will always lead to your dissapointment. You need to be proud of yourself first. Great vid, you're a smart woman.

[@julitalks]

1:04 i think this is important because it helps give you confidence to be whoever you want or do whatever makes you happy knowing you’ll die anyway. so even if it’s embarrassing, you still have the fact that everyone will die someday, so just live life to the fullest

[@catreenel]

i’ve been terrified of rejection, all kinds of it, my whole life. but recently i was in a situation in which i had to make the choice, and that was when i truly realized i would regret not trying more than being rejected. so i finally managed to make myself bite the bullet and take the risk regardless of my fear! it really hurt being rejected, but it made me realize this so very important life lesson. i really don’t want to keep living my life in regrets anymore

[@p.krieger]

Lana you’re amazing, your content is always so inspiring and I want to thank you for being such a great person 🫶🏻

[@HannahMarieee]

Could not agree more💗

[@LanaBlakely]

thank you

[@勢]

Beautiful woman, beautiful voice Thank you KZbin algorithm, for blessing me today.

[@fictionalcharacter715]

Recently I've been very tired. Even though things are great right now and nothing bad is happening, I am drained and full of melancholy. I hope it passes soon because it makes it hard for me to enjoy activities I usually loved partaking in... I also feel very sorry for one boy, who wants to date me - he's really nice but I feel like, currently, the anxiety that I get from romantic relationships would literally destroy me.

[@32h289]

Everytime I hear you talk its like everything suddenly makes sense. I'm glad to know there are people like you

[@jeremiahbaker6396]

I love how you explain your sponsor ads . Not straight scriptish

[@ChrisGaultHealthyLiving]

Awesome life advice as usual, Lana! I'm surprised how wise you are at such a young age! Keep up the great work!

[@HalfAsianDerp]

I hope more people find this channel, you're very wise for your age and the world needs more of this in our younger generations especially

[@jellyfishcorpseschannel01]

Lanas hair is so fluffy!!

[@rahuldwivedy8583]

Following you since 3 years. I can't be more grateful. Thank you for being here. 😭😍

[@icebobacoldcoffee]

1. Let people go 2. Adults are always right 3. Memento mori 4. Choose your life purpose 5. Dont make yourself isolated 6. Dont ignore the advice of loved ones 7. You'll get over your first heartbreak 8. Make reading accessable 9. Give yourself the approval, you seek from others 10. live by your calendar 11. ask yourself questions that make you think you're really so pretty

[@Agent-57]

Aren't Always right

[@pradeeprao2697]

💞👍

[@tatrotzz3643]

I just love your hair for some reason. It's so thick it looks good

[@LanaBlakely]

Thank you!!

[@jassoyouknow2899]

I dont usually comment on videos, but this video was so wholesome, I just really wanted to let you know that you're helping a lot of people Lana!

[@LanaBlakely]

warms my heart :)

[@hayamin7154]

Can we be friend

[@sanjitpandey552]

your man gotta be the luckiest one among us! you have such a charm, keep it up.

[@AdamHuishStreaming]

i miss your podcasts Lana! glad you’re taking a break for your own psyche but want you to know you’re content is missed!!!

[@xpinkxglowx2961]

I've had experiences with past friends, who I haven't connected with, and were only with them because I felt I didn't have a choice. I now have come to the realisation that it is important to find true friends, and at the end of the day, it is your health and well-being that matters most.

[@jessicaabundo6415]

I like the sincerity that I can see through her eyes.

[@fabs9525]

I would like to thank you Lana for these tips for I am already going through so much hassle in life as of now and just can't put my mind straight at things as there are so many happening so quickly and you putting out this video and so many other self help videos are helping me in a way you might not know. Don't stop making these and thank you once again for helping me in times when I thought I couldn't believe in myself! Stumbling upon your channel was one of the best things to happen~ Much Love.

[@mariatsovaa]

you will get over your first heartbreak- I NEEDED TO HEAR THIS

[@LanaBlakely]

promise!!

[@dhritichoudhary]

this video brought me 'ro'. totally unrelated, but i miss your vlogs, and i'd even see ones with you doing daily life mundane things like make coffee or journal or clean your room :) they bring me so much peace

[@LanaBlakely]

I'll keep that in mind

[@benedictbenny1117]

I've always felt like youtubers needed to be fake enthusiastic inorder to succeed.Thank you for proving it wrong. Calmest person ever.

[@liyuhh7144]

ive recently become an active watcher of your videos and you truly have become such a mentor to me...just like an elder sister and i love it!💓

[@LanaBlakely]

heartwarming

[@nihalhathaway4089]

I actually needed this, thank you

[@whatiftherewerejust100peop8]

I'm thankful to you. My mum got bad pneumonia and had to stay in the hospital, she used oxygen mask for breathing. The city where the hospital is is being bombed each day and night by russians. I'm Ukrainian. I also got sick recently. I have depression and anxiety as my all time old friends. And I just felt so bad now while going to bed. But found this video. It lifts my spirit and cheers me up. You are so calm on your videos. Thank You for this.🤗🤗🤗😘😘😘

[@we_fishy_fishy_like0816]

Omg, the letting people go part applies to me right now lately. I hung out recently with a friend and I just felt like we were so different that it was kind of awkward… Thank you for the advice, I really needed this right now!!

[@ajuniorsoares]

purpose isn’t found; you choose it and build on it… FOR SURE ❤ thanks for your video and genuine advices :) xoxo

[@nepenthe_1610]

Purpose is not found. It is something you choose and build on. Thank you.

[@danadinu2043]

a quote that might not be plausible: "when we die were there but at the same time were not"

[@yeshajain1376]

Lady you made my day I literally learned so much from you Thanks for the video I am 16 and hope these will help me and others in our life Hope you have great life ahead

[@partypoisonz]

you're the old sister I always want to have, thank u for sharing all the things you learn Lana.

[@beepboop8276]

Not the point of the video but oh my god this hair style/parting on you is amazing. You look stunning in the thumbnail

[@_swe_.e._tie_]

Your voice is nice to listen to😭 Your wise words are very helpful ✨ Love from Namibia❤️

[@pallavichutani]

Lana, you are such a wonderful person. Your videos have literally got me through the darkest of times Love you for that

[@fat9457]

Right now i dont know but i want to hide myself from everyone specially to my parents. My mother. She isn't helping. I kinda depressed.

[@USEDtoRule]

I feel it when I was isolated and no relationship, really made me unmotivated, feel so bad. Was hard time and the most worse time ever been through.

[@electroquests]

Those are some of the best advices, especially about the friendship and making assumptions. I really needed the reminder about getting over your first love. I did feel good hearing about the control freak part 😂 Thank you, your videos are very helpful and I really like your insights, they're very intriguing.

[@mandumaoi1242]

Thank you for these, Miss Lana. You're like the big sister I don't have, but needed. Your wise words comfort me.❤

[@harryvangrieken5715]

My wife has Scottish background. We gifted a few of these "established titles" to our sons. With 7 in the family I wonder if we could build a mini castle in the area.?? Nice job on the videos. Keep them coming. Thanks.

[@shenz1843]

I really love it when Lana explain things so simple but yet it's gravity is massive😊. I just wanna say thankyou to you for being so humble and kind enough to make such videos that can uplift another individual with more determination. Once again thankyou Lana. Sending love and blessings from Sri lanka❤️🇱🇰

[@thebeachisdark7]

the thing about remembering you will eventually pass is so good because it makes you value moments more and worry a lot less

[@Agent-57]

Being rejected yesterday in a painful way this is something I needed to hear. To be fair few days before in conversation with her I realized how it was going to play out. After that I just threw a lure to see what kind of person she is. As I found out, the toxic type. The type who demands your attention without making time for you. I said it anyways because I knew the answer. The answer was a no. Which got me angry for a minute but I was happy. A lot happier than I was for the past few days. I knew the answer but I didn't know if I was right or wrong. I wanted that clarification. At point I didn't care about her yes or no. Just that Unknown factor was feeling like a shard of broken glass stuck in my throat. Well like they say "If she calls you a brother, there is always another and her mother"

[@hannabauer4769]

It’s so calming to watch your videos

[@JASWINDERSINGH-uq7ev]

I thank each second of my life to almighty for such a beautiful soul ❤ it’s like I would be falling apart everyday If I didn’t found your channel so wanna thank you tube for showing your channel one day as a recommendation and now it has changed my life ❤Tysm

[@hopiebaby]

I think the truth about purpose is somewhere in between - cause even if you choose it, there's something stronger that makes you pick this and not that. It is kind of within you if you chose it. You have a different feeling abot that something you'll choose.

[@laurensmith2173]

When you called me a little control freak, I felt it and also appreciated it

[@Etherealdreams00]

Omg she looks like she's 19 or 20 years old

[@Hazem_hassan18]

Wait isn't she ??

[@Yoshi_Chang]

Congrats on 1 million Lana!!! Thank you so much for the videos that you've put out in the recent years, they've really helped out so much & I appreciate them so, so much. Keep doing what you're doing! :D

[@zxcvbnm703]

The reason why I'm in isolation is because I want to pursue something that will be beneficial for me in the long run.

[@glitzygirl2412]

Don't give up on that. We're on the same club man!🙌 I believe in you!

[@cynthiamwako9197]

Love from Kenya🇰🇪🇰🇪 Your content is always inspiring

[@statuswallahadda]

This is your first video! Got it through recommended. Thank you LANA for these valuable points!. :)

[@anubhutichaurasia4371]

your video always makes me so happy :) also I listened to your podcast after a while

[@tiffannii]

Im so excited im buying the ladyship title 😭

[@LanaBlakely]

It's the coolest feeling

[@Seek.Insights]

You are beautiful! The existential questions remain. I hope to see bright light on the other end and its absolutely okay to discuss these points...

[@oliviarclaire]

omg my friend bought a piece of land in scotland and now she has the title "lord"

[@barry601]

I believe our spirit will live on. To a higher more beautiful reality for those who did their best to make this world a better place 💥

[@ahlembenmed8315]

girl ! you bring peace to my soul with ur videos🖤🖤

[@raimonvibe]

'Once a task is just begun, never leave it till it's done. Be the labour great or small, do it well or not at all.' That's wonderful woman.

[@shairasultana3229]

This was in my recommended and I think I really needed to hear it. Thank you

[@timematrixtraveler]

Outstanding material! Phenomenal perspectives! I wish you abundance of universal love, health and prosperity! Please make more!

[@im_T.C]

The way she explaining 🥺😩like big sis and can anybody tell me which type of cutting se did on her hair i just love her

[@nerdynorah4658]

Why everyone named Lana is so amazing?

[@rafaelteodosio7637]

"Adults aren't always right" Whenever my daughter correct my mistake, I just admit and say sorry to affirm to a belief of what is right, also to teach our children in admitting a mistake. However, as parent we should know if their are already getting over the boundaries of disrespect. For the cheater, thanks for making me a single dad......memento mori.

[@johnrainsman6650]

Oh, the title alone speaks to me. Let me ask you guys something. If a person doesn't understand learning disabilities and the struggles these people go through, and you point that out in front of said person, does he or she have a right to resent such a comment? The truth is the truth, that you _"need to hear"_

[@Louuuu27]

Lana I am so thankfull for your videos, they just teach me a lot and calm me down , when I am stressed.

[@S54321]

Lucky to have your video recommended and found your channel

[@qiongyunguan4121]

Ive watched this video for 40 seconds and found that I don’t know what Lana was talking about cuz I was looking at her hair and like “she looks aweeesome !!” 😍😍😍😍😍 okay I need to concentrate this time🤣🤣🤣🤣 I’m ready to learn something!🤓🤓🤓

[@arrow1-b2v]

This is very true people change and that’s ok. I think is important to value the good moments and understand that at some point we are going to evolve ❤

[@joyligaya121]

Thanks for this great reminder Miss!☺️ After all, I thought my thoughts and ideas as invalid but since I heard and watched most of your videos, It reminded me that I have nothing to care about what other people would throw on my way or behind my back laughing because I am never as good as them. You will be forever blessed by helping people who don't even believe on themselves. Btw!! You are so beautiful ❤️

[@RamadhanuAjie]

I go with. Those I have done, surely meaningful for me. Keep cheering,nicest

[@mohitshisodia9094]

Subscriber. From India 🖤🖤 Nice session...

[@damianortiz4456]

Thank you for the gentle reinforcement! :D

[@JB-gv3lo]

Know I'm late but I never congratulated you on 1 Million subscribers as a long time viewer that was so exciting to see, your pretty awesome man

[@LanaBlakely]

thanks a lot!!

[@eceyeffekt]

I am really grateful for you content. thank you for being lana, your soul is priceless

[@deutschmitpurple2918]

I totally agree with you , Ece. I love her all videos

[@LanaBlakely]

thank you

[@johnsonjo8454]

@@LanaBlakely love you so much💋💋💋

[@hello3883y]

wow your hair!!!!❤ pls hair tutorial

[@sissa6048]

the so are u hit me so hard thank u lana

[@evamagny5371]

you hair omg >>>>>

[@0x6e756c]

18. Don't listen and follow anything you see and hear online. Just be yourself and do your thing in your own ways you don't need to hear anyone's advice including mine all of us are guided by fate and no matter what decisions you make you still will end up to the path you were meant to follow.

[@lucianphantasam6035]

Try hard energy

[@walterdmello8811]

Dear Lana, your heart is as beautiful as your face. You are a wonderful human being. May God bless you abundantly for the good work you are doing. I love to watch your videos.

[@MohammedHaniAL-HALALI]

I the video today and I felt better, I just want to say thank you from deep heart. piace

[@rahelheeb5624]

i loved this video! by the way your hair looks amazing :)