2 Most IRRESISTIBLE Things Confident Men Do! (Most Guys Don't Do This)

[@ApolloniaPonti]

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[@DEMETRIUSblaze]

Cool background love the flowers on the side. The 3 three steps you talk about I sure don't always pick up on trigger words sometimes they go over my head, the L stance has never been know I've avoided talking to women in a interesting way my second doubt mind. Flirting and talking comes natural I just second guess my action should I talk to her or should I not. Cool video had the $ its good program . I've never dated 18-39 no GF or any thing goes with having an amazing woman I talk myself outta of it first. I don't never believe in one night stands only sincere true connections

[@sandeepk3001]

Honestly speaking, kind of relates to Law Of Attraction

[@pandabar20]

@@sandeepk3001 it is law of attraction. Ask and it will be given, Seek and you will find, Knock and the Door will be open. Then, She starts with fear as the theme for negative thoughts. If a person is not honest with them selves or devalue their own selves or over inflate their selves it perverts their Self Confidence.

[@jasper.8988]

DOES SIZE GO A LONG WAY???

[@h8rmgnt144]

I think I love this woman lol

[@Sundaydoug278]

You can tell when a gal is into you. Do your own thing and be friendly to everyone. When a cute gal is extra friendly, flirt a little bit until it’s clear as day that she likes you. Then make a direct move. Continue to do your own thing and don’t be needy or clingy. Be busy with your own life. With or without her. So many women out there.... she’s just one of the many that’ll be into you. Abundance mindset is everything.

[@travisandrews3909]

You should definitely flirt with a woman

[@jeffkidder5282]

This is articulated very well, thank you!

[@HWoods3769]

"It's not that you never have negative thoughts, you just choose what to believe and listen to." Pure gold here. Thank you

[@georgetaylorjr4970]

We have to stop thinking "If I had her in my life, I would be so happy !" Let's not forget who's responsible for your own happiness. It's you, that beautiful woman at the nightclub is just an added bonus. If she rejects you, its her loss. Your sense of value and self-worth should never be based on another persons opinion. Focus on what makes you happy, and then the ladies will be curious on why you are always positive and smiling every time they see you. Because you are enjoying life !

[@ambomateijennifer7207]

NB:it's not necessarily her loss. But it is definitely not your loss

[@highstakes1235]

@@ambomateijennifer7207 shut up

[@ZeuzBluez]

Man u nail it. Me too my happiness derives from within n having a nice kind hearted woman is just a bonus .

[@joshgodly2491]

Thank you

[@joshgodly2491]

Thank you

[@CrazyFilipinaLove]

I stopped trying to fix myself for women. Finally realized I was not the problem. My wife is from the Philippines and Life couldn’t be better. She is smart, beautiful, caring, and an amazing step mom. She has the most beautiful heart you could imagine.

[@dannyho6786]

how long married tho ? 3 years ? try 20 year, then they turn on U man !!! they become marge simpson sista's !!!!

[@bobohannon7091]

I love women with short beautiful hair as well.

[@enniswhalen2428]

@ CFL - Hey, you made the RIGHT decision, Best Wishes !

[@CBRRR-eh3ky]

U are a blessed man. Western women are possessed by the vices of feminism. It got so bad that other women coming in the west get their mind corrupted and im glad your woman is exempt from this so far. May your union be protected and blessed forever

[@GeeCeeWU]

Good for you, it would be difficult to find better than a loyal Philippine lady, I've been with mine now for 18 years.

[@averyce2]

I say, "A fisherman never catches the big fish by chasing it, but always by baiting it."

[@treyzhoo9561]

Women are not fish, but nice one 😂😂

[@luisvalladolid7782]

so lie to her ? ok, got it.

[@josephleonard1724]

@@treyzhoo9561 //swoosh// totally over your head. It's an analogy, buddy. Something you should've learned in English class. There is a law of human nature that states, if you chase something or someone, you end up pushing them away. If you're coy, you have the effect of attracting people towards you. In other words, if you chase women, they see you as too eager and VERY desperate, and turns them off. It's psychology 101. You've got a lot of learning to do....

[@BackeB]

Yes, this principle works wonders on fish. Do you think it’ll also work on women? What kind of bait should I use? Do most women like fish food? I suspect it’s unfair to use a hook, as this might hurt women’s mouth. Thank you. Tonight I’m having fish for dinner.

[@henrikljungstrand2036]

@@luisvalladolid7782 Not lie. Believe in yourself. Be aware of all your good qualities, be proud of them, and (if you think she is good enough to maybe deserve you), show them to her without bragging. Tell her about yourself in an honest, witty, confident manner. And watch her, if she is interested enough in you then test her by asking her to do small favours for you. Never get angry or sad if she doesn't want to, just joke about it in a causal way, then tell her you have things to do, and walk away confidently, as happy and carefree as before. Always be soft and courteous to her, unless she really pisses you off by doing something you shouldn't do to anyone, in that case become ice cold, don't lose your temper. As long as she is treating you with respect, then be kind to her (not needy/"nice" though), and if she does something to please you then give her a warm, inviting, heartfelt smile. Always keep your emotional balance. Women absolutely love men like this. Or the good women do at least.

[@jeromephilip2436]

Be presentable (carm, cool, collected) With women always assume that she is attracted to you. Thank you Apollonia!

[@Brandonizzle3]

I’m always carm

[@jayrom12]

What is carm sir?

[@sonsofarrow8274]

@@jayrom12 Think he means calm

[@clevelandaeromotive]

She’s spot-on. Don’t approach women with hope or agenda.

[@breakthrough8628]

Well said SD!

[@crazymonkey60123]

Then you will never make a move and always be single. Makes 0 sense

[@mikebell2750]

If you approach attractive women with the mindset that they are just another person and don't think about "getting them'" then conversations/interactions become easy. Apollonia is right, just look at the conversation the same as you would with someone in the lineup at the grocery store, go in with no expectations and leave with no disappointments.

[@alexiscarter6169]

Exactly.

[@moka4369]

Once in a loving relationship with a man a woman loves to be dominated. She feels protected. A woman sees a dominating loving man as a strong. I other words a woman will never respect a man who is wishy washy. She will respect a man with whom she cannot do as she pleases. Taking from a real woman..

[@richardmoreno4887]

She is dead on with this. I actually ended up dating in marrying a beautiful young lady which happens to be a model now. She is a very sweet intelligent and caring young lady. And you don't have to take yourself so seriously so what if she says no that's not gonna hurt you that just means you're closer to the girl that you been looking for.

[@nigelbenn4642]

Wow, how many millions do you have just out of interest?

[@enniswhalen2428]

@ N B - OUCH !

[@bradleyshepherd9485]

"What you seek finds you" That is the simplest, and best description of the Law of Attraction I have heard. Thank you for that!

[@alexiscarter6169]

Lol you're right tho but you still have to make the moves before it will get to you.

[@JohnM...]

Think of it like this: "Maybe I'll like her" instead of: "Maybe she'll like me."

[@tonywiley4357]

That's rt brother

[@nelsonv3352]

This makes sense, talk to a woman without the "I wanna get her interested in me" idea and just be present, confident with no expectations.

[@emanuelgarcia7946]

Bro I did that and the unexpected happen she ended up texting me first twice lol.

[@GG-tk8cq]

Just come from the mindset of abundance and everything is good.

[@adoniskennethbrooks3454]

Yeah, just be goofy right? WRONG.

[@ummtube6804]

3:32 you have something she wants 4:02 you had what it takes

[@Knusperknechtinthehouse]

Let's be honest: Men are not the problem. Women's expectations are too high. Otherwise men would not have to seek videos like this.

[@gabrielsanchez4207]

I think its a little of both.. woman are constantly getting approached and hit on a daily basis.. and it's usually men that give them so much validation that it makes it feel like they are too good for you.. they ruin it for the good guys that have the best interest

[@kennethmburu2282]

@@gabrielsanchez4207 I don't think so.

[@phillipnelson221]

True

[@shawnhampshirehick101]

Exactly.

[@gabrielsanchez4207]

@@kennethmburu2282 Then what is a woman's expectation according to you? Woman's expectations are automatically raised when they have just about every guy pulling out the same pick up line and same tricks all the time.. and hey wassup is simply not going to cut it anymore she will end up ignoring you.. she expects you to stand out from the rest. A "I don't think so" doesn't really say much to change my mind

[@rajkoelguapo12]

Once you stop focusing on what you're going to say and just focus on the vibe you put out, everything will fall into place.

[@rozawadzki]

From phrases like “if she looks at you that means she likes you” to “he chooses to believe in something else” .... that was a long way Mrs Ponti

[@harlanwilkinson3142]

To be honest, I think my confidence intimidates women. I'm not aggressive anything, but I'm obviously sure of myself and comfortable with everything that makes me unique. With today's average woman being generally insecure, do you think that this self-assurance and optimism can come across intimidating?

[@joshcortez2903]

I've had the same problem bro. I've noticed recently that more women approach me or look in my direction when I just ignore them and or stopped being "too nice". Not saying that's your case, just wanted to share my experience. Wish you the best of luck my friend! 🙏🏽

[@gedjones5977]

Same here bro I end up being told I’m arrogant, I’m not, I’m just not arsed if I get her number or not, I’ve got a couple of fuckbuddies and they double as company for the +1 invites

[@cblaskoski]

This applies to any human in general. Very insightful, I can't wait to see more content. Thank you.

[@DashSVK]

attracting a woman doesn't seem to be a problem, especially when my goal is not to get her...but keeping a woman interested long term seems like mission impossible

[@keithchristman9402]

same

[@corey3107]

I'm having the same dilemma. I like the peace and comfort of a relationship but women like to challenge that and get bored. You have to skydive atleast once a month, but even that will get old for them lol

[@thulasmash2195]

You will keep them when they are ready to settle down.

[@CBRRR-eh3ky]

Because she has a list of Instagram subs who venerate her for sex, yet she sees it as if she has values. It is all twisted. The best you can do is be more on your purpose

[@robbieanderson227]

Focus on having fun with her, not to capture her .. woman don’t like their freedom being taken away so quick, easy does it ;-)

[@JJ-vk2iw]

This was the best one!! So true. I have gotten women "out of my league" there is no league

[@uwegablenz6361]

I think she is right. Just start being yourself - that all starts by learning who you are. Start to throw self-hatred and prejudices against yourself and other people overboard. Act naturally, hence self-confident. That is the hardest part, actually, a learning process that can last a while. Once you have found that out, people around you - not just women - perceive you the way you are. And that, on the other hand - is attractive. Just remember - attractive goes back to Latin 'attrahere' - which means as much as being drawn to someone or something, so being yourself which results from knowing yourself is attractive meaning that other people feel drawn to you.

[@Pdrum2]

People sabatoge themselves.

[@ayyt5221]

To teach the foundation of relationships isn't easy, but to understand the cultural differences between them takes experience & Wisdom 📝💯

[@travisandrews3909]

That is 100% true

[@Ronal10dhino]

When you stop worrying what others think in not just approaching women but in everyday life then you are now on the road to finding your confidence. I was very shy in my 20’s and missed out on a lot of beautiful women who were into me because I didn’t believe in myself so sort that out first then they will be flocking. If you do greet a beautiful woman and she says “in your dreams” then just reply you have been for the last 3 nights which is why I felt the need to greet you.

[@bitflux2]

damn this one is straight fire, more like these please

[@adrianfeek3464]

So so very true never thought it would happen to me but the last 1 year has been amazing I’ve also mastered the art of no contact at the workplace and the art of telling them I’m not interested they don’t stop pursuing me

[@gabrielbecerra2250]

I went on a date yesterday! Successful 😎 thanks to you!!!!!!

[@markcrowson]

While I agree with this video a 100 percent. I also find it important that you work on knowing what you are wanting, needing and expecting in any relationship. More importantly work to make sure you know that she knows what she is wanting too. This only works for those women who have defined what they want out of life and out of relationship.

[@fidelthomas69]

Absolutely Love This...Confidence is Key...Challenging Limited Beliefs...Very Powerful For Me

[@johnnycash7944]

Just be authentic, tell the girl exactly what made you talk to her, ask her on a date, it's not about the results but about approaching and having fun

[@MrUGA2010]

no; the cold approach does not work!

[@johnnycash7944]

@@MrUGA2010 this is a mentality of fear and you go nowhere with fear inside you!

[@winstonbanks1800]

Right on point! That's how to approach them.

[@tariqahmed7244]

I did this unknowingly and it's TRUE it works . It basically let's the other person know before hand whts next . Rather than being anxious . It helps ease out

[@jontonian]

I have found when you have amazing humor and make the woman laugh constantly. She absolutely digs you and gets very interested in you.

[@byronsmith1096]

That's the express lane to the Friend Zone

[@byronsmith1096]

Now making her laugh without trying, is something different

[@DatBoii2Dizzy]

Best coach I ever Had 💯

[@Donmasique]

This happen to me I was thinking the same thing and guess what I approach her and I actually get the girl I wanted now she’s expressing herself to me telling me how much she like me when she first saw me but she would never approach me cause that’s not her job to do

[@jakelinwood2961]

I love this woman's perspective.

[@tonykemp4645]

This woman is 100%right on what she is saying ,confidence open doors

[@jeffdonaldson2422]

Enjoyed this video today! I will apply your teachings! Thank you for your advice.

[@patrickkgoodwin8859]

A confident woman sharing what women don't what to hear. Reverse psych good work.

[@Dalitszz]

I actually like this message. You’re teaching the mental aspect of it which I feel like that’s ALWAYS been my problem. I mentally talk myself out of so many situation that I could’ve possibly made happen with women in my life and I almost 30 years old I need to change it now

[@johnjay336]

Good one, makes so much sense. You look good apollonia, keep it up.

[@thatoneguy2340]

I hate cold approach, if she ain't giving me choosing signals or talking to me than Im not talking/ acknowledging her.

[@ervinrodriguez1814]

Love your videos, keep them up

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thanks, will do!

[@zoumanakeita8016]

"What you seek finds you" Apollonia Ponti

[@vanevicious9041]

Be a man that has options and women will always be after you.

[@mathewjohn8126]

Ms. A.P. MA'AM ; Nice one. Am to see the 15 minutes stuff today itself. .Shl hv you my comments on it, as you value posts from anyone . You are so authoritative in all comments. GREAT Miss. Thank You

[@JuanCarlos-vf5xg]

GREAT VIDEO APOLONIA ! POSITIVE MIND SETS DO NOT FAIL. SELF CONFIDENCE IS A POWERFUL TOOL FOR A MAN.

[@hal4192]

As an average guy who's had many beautiful women in my life this video caught my eye. Looking back I don't think that I even once 'chatted up' a woman. Usually I've been thrown into the vicinity of a woman and just started talking about the weather etc etc. This wasn't a conscious ploy and my intention wasnt to attract her..... Merely to have a conversation with her in the same way I would talk to an old couple/ Ex soldier/ homeless person or any other fellow human being. There is a feel good factor involved with these small human connections..... And......(I never ask) sometimes I've been lucky enough to be given contact details and sometimes a relationship has developed. I've had friends ask 'how do you do it !?' . I've always wondered myself and your video gave me pause for thought. Great vid. Best wishes..... "What great weather we're having. "😉🙂

[@robbieanderson227]

Show initial interest, turn on charm and then pull back sharply! Watch her then chase you ....

[@XxXDemonhunter]

how to do those things?

[@robbieanderson227]

Approach her, smile - laugh - show interest! Make her her feel safe and comfortable like you are a great guy, then pull back, she’ll become inquisitive and seek your attention, it works a treat, woman are at their most feminine chasing a guy ;-)

[@MRSTEEL15]

I feel if there is fear? It's the Universes way of letting us know this person will not be playing a role in our Karmic evolution.....Notice when it's the right person? Things flow effertlessly

[@Knel89]

This! It’ll just feel right when it’s that person.

[@Lewisevans1618]

Indeed always trust your instinct if She's worthy of you and talk to a woman you fancy like anyone else.

[@kyleruiz6196]

There's been times where I make eye contact with a woman and we both just stand perfectly still for a few seconds smiling .. if you know you know, y'know?

[@HB-qr5bc]

Be funny while you are Cool, Calm & Collective.. and be you..

[@paulzavislak5253]

I’m happy with myself. I make myself happy and there is something to be said for being alone and enjoy your life. People are undependable. Moreover, you can be the best you possible, they will disappoint you. Better to not be disappointed and make your life the best you can for you.

[@samuelnatal8014]

Most women want you to chase a little. That’s why we continue to pursue these ladies. Because we just know she wants us.

[@Codysurfsup]

Women: Just approach us and be friendly. Also women: Stop approaching us. It's creepy.

[@nadeemahmad3874]

😂🤣

[@philwragg9756]

too true you can't please women anyway, so why bother!!

[@lamourhilburn9534]

My Coach is from the Bae Area.. Her Motto: "The game is to be sold not told!" Lol thanks coach!

[@kalmoral2874]

Thanks for the advice greatly appreciated

[@stevotsux90]

First time seeing your videos I never thought i was gonna get changed .....all thanks to u Apollonia

[@Ricksworld1962]

I’ve begun to look at approaching women from this perspective. Having a goal to be silly and fun, and to see them all as unattractive, with the idea that I am simply conversing with any other person 🤷‍♂️

[@scottmcmaster46]

No one can make you feel inferior, without your consent !

[@bobbeezel2593]

Man, that’s deep. Well said!

[@adammiller6606]

Thank you. Well done Ms Ponti.

[@jackiebradford417]

I love this woman cause she's knows exactly what she's talking about .

[@S1MPLECAVEMAN]

Thank you apollonia, great advice.

[@johngonzalez4298]

Happy Tuesday AP!

[@maxtechmax]

This is gold. Thank you.

[@sensiblebabyandreality6804]

When you don't care or don't look desperate, women make the first move Not being conceded here but a lot of women have made their move on me first and the reason? Many of them thought I was hot. This happens when a good looking man dresses well. When I dress well, I get a lot of women gawking at me and some make their moves on me So basically, if a man has the looks and dresses well when he goes out, it attracts a lot of women. On the other hand, if he is good looking and doesn't dress well, women will not pay any attention to you.

[@jfranco_official]

I have SEVERE approach anxiety. Videos like these hopefully will help

[@kyleruiz6196]

Yo, no judgment, just a legit q, you have a lot of guy friends? I actually when I had real bad approach anxiety used to just go and try and talk to a few guys and make friends before going to approach women, it really helps build your confidence tbh

[@t-lawsfitness6044]

You are so correct but I think one of the reasons why guys are intimidated is because they feel like they don't have anything to offer because so many of them don't have anything to offer and that's just real

[@enniswhalen2428]

@ T-L F - Just what are you "offering" to a moving target ?

[@kyleruiz6196]

@@enniswhalen2428 what do you like to do? What are your interests? Your hobbies? If you think she's cool, and you've breached past her looks to talk to her as a person, tell her about the next time you're doing something regarding your hobby, say she can come. She says yeah, then good, if not, on to the next :)

[@RTFDevelopment58]

No disrespect to any relationship coaches That are men but I just feel when it comes from a woman it's more authentic it's like me going to a Chinese restaurant And having latinos make my food it's not authentic much respect to your wisdoms your videos have helped me so much 🙏

[@billstiggy4908]

What type of plant is that? That would look nice in my apartment.

[@aaa741]

Confident men walks away without no hard feelings when you say no , they don’t take it personal because something better is on the way , confidence men don’t talk dirty about a woman who said no , they just walk away like I’d nothing

[@jimmyjimanambo5014]

Hai Appolonia you're a gifted psychology. You have delivered so many tounge tied souls out of the ice.I salute you!

[@michaelkoeman3412]

The best thing to do is to follow your heart. Be yourself..

[@sonna33]

Your videos are very eye opening, lovely

[@jeremysaxx]

Looks, Money, Status, baaammm nailed it and didn't even need to watch the video!

[@davewelbylivinginhistinyti4796]

Never categorize a woman, look at women as women, regardless of what she may look like. Treat them all the same and the real beauty that emerges from an authentic caring and stable woman will show love in a beautiful way. If not, then simply walk away. You all have a great day.

[@sportsfan323]

You are awesome Apollinia. Thanks a lot as always :)

[@piyushtripathi-r4q]

Thank You!!

[@justinkirton7571]

Very nice video u explain everything thanks

[@mypov4343]

If I feel I resonate with a certain woman, I have no problem approaching her and assume she may also resonate with me. I've never experienced any awkwardness I have never been concerned about being confident. It just is

[@garycooper8687]

What ever happened to the phrase its not the kill but the thrill of the chase?

[@stefanross8129]

..... Phenomenal video Appolonia! Bravo.

[@breakthrough8628]

Law of Attraction, subconscious programming is the reason for this mindset getting great results. Great video!

[@freethinkermanny8384]

thanks i needed this!

[@dustinjohnson1150]

Good stuff Apollonia.

[@garymanning62]

I don't even seek approval from my own mother why the hell would I want approval from a woman it's her that needs to approve of me. And all I mean by that is I don't need her approval.

[@magdalenomoreno4560]

What’s the meaning of....... confident men approach & speak with women.... but I’m in the “Eh, I can, care less”, category, “I’ll just do me” ????? Like if the woman is attractive or not , the interaction doesn’t grab my attention... I’ll literally be like ... “eh, she’s cute” and that be all that goes through my head

[@kyleruiz6196]

What's stopping you from talking to them?

[@dalvnarf6468]

Can I attract a woman I once had but decided she doesn't want a relationship with me anymore? I accept my faults and acknowledge them. How do I turn things around to get in good standing with the woman I love!?

[@MegaLenny1000]

That is pretty good advice and so true

[@arunms8696]

Thank you👍🏻

[@rupendraagrawal8120]

Simply excellent

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thanks a lot

[@smiles7631]

I know that I need to get my butt out there and find someone instead of sitting around wishing it would happen. Its so hard to get past all the past BS in my head. It doesn't help that I get scammed every time I get on a dating site. I'm a hot mess lol.

[@FriEnduro1]

Good job dear

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thank you!

[@FriEnduro1]

@@ApolloniaPonti by seeing your experience i can say that you must be in a relationship, but if you are not I'll prefer you to be mine TC love

[@carolwalston3274]

Men are not raised normally to Respect and be Gentlemanly towards Women. But I have a Gentleman who Respects me and treats me like a Queen. He actually tells me I am his Queen. ♥️ 👑

[@dannyho6786]

sounds kinda cheesy

[@ryandonatien3513]

I love the way you explain everything

[@gvisionproductiong5498]

Agreed..this video was awsome and how u spoke the words you used were very insiteful and has givin me another way too look at the mindset of the opposite sex.ty blessup

[@markmurphy2492]

YOU ARE THE BEST AT WHAT YOU DO. 😁

[@ryryg.3246]

I’m just wondering, can you do some type of video or give advice on how to deal with jealousy while being in a long distant relationship?

[@valesjanzens.7911]

The right person won't do such things that would threaten the relationship

[@Eddietorres1959]

3:20 wow I never thought of it that way

[@marcleroux3426]

often we know those thoughts limit us but getting past that is another story

[@jayb3033]

As a guy I love beautiful women who empower other people like you do. Every guys girlfriend or wife should be like you and the world would be a much better place. Not just the dating world but the world in general!!! I've always been more attracted to females who empower me in different areas of my life.

[@DEMETRIUSblaze]

Apollonia great video you have a way of speaking too deep rooted issues. I'm a positive minded guy but I do fail in the what if cause I always over think about women I was am a late bloomer didn't really learn about women about flirting and attractions till late 20's been single so my second mind has gotten in the way I'm too outcome driven