"if you live by people's praise, you'll die by their criticism" - Bill Johnson
@OmarHamza-nz9ob10 ай бұрын
Exactly... Need some help regarding one thing .. How can a non Muzlim (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Come to our mosque even if you aren't a Muzlim come to our mosque, leave everything."* How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation?
@Unknown-us5gc8 ай бұрын
This is so trueee
@OmarHamza-nz9ob8 ай бұрын
@@Unknown-us5gc 📌 *REALITY OF ALLAH* ⚠️ *WARINING* ⚠️ 🎊 *HUMOUR ALERT* *ALLAH IS AN ABUSER BECAUSE HE SAYS:* *ALL PRAISES ARE FOR ME* *IF YOU LOST IN A WAR, ITS YOUR MISTAKE* *IF YOU WIN, THEN ALL THE CREDIT OF YOUR VICTORY BELONGS TO ME* *MY ENEMY SHOULD BE YOUR ENEMY* (EVEN IF HE IS KIND AND SINCERE TO YOU) *THOSE WHO REFUSE TO SUBMIT TO ME ARE THE WORST OF "MY" CREATIONS; HOWEVER, I AM THE BEST OF CREATORS, Oops I FORGOT, THE ONLY CREATOR* *KEEP FIGHTING TILL EVERYONE SUBMITS TO ME* *DON'T BE UNGRATEFUL TO ME* *DON'T GET DECEIVED BY THE WORLDLY CHARMS, ONLY LOVE ME EVEN THOUGH I AM THE BEST OF DECEIVERS* *I WILL GIVE YOU MORE ONLY IF YOU THANK ME* *I AM THE ONE WHO KNOWS THE BEST BUT YOU CAN'T QUESTION ME* *YOU ARE MY SLAVE* *FIGHT FOR ME AND DIE FOR ME* *I LOVE YOU MORE THAN 72 MOTHERS (EVEN THOUGH A LOVING MOTHER NEVER CALLS/MAKES HER SON HER SLAVE)* *IF YOU EVER DECIDED TO LEAVE ME, I WILL KILL YOU* *THOUGH THERE IS NO COMPULSION IN RELIGION*
@_EGM_5 ай бұрын
I just realized that by the beginning of the video
@OmarHamza-nz9ob5 ай бұрын
@@_EGM_ Yes. Its true.
@BlazerMid-kq8dt4 ай бұрын
When the world needed him most he vanished
@sannii22224 ай бұрын
he'll be back
@AnudeepTatireddy4 ай бұрын
Who
@chaitanyavasamsetti81774 ай бұрын
What happened why aren't they uploading?
@carlboers41794 ай бұрын
he's not the hero we deserve but the hero we need
@cyclez63174 ай бұрын
@@chaitanyavasamsetti8177he*
@tannercottle5 ай бұрын
I haven't joined the program but i must say, this channel has been a huge part of my growth in the past two years. I'd always been someone who was looking to learn and grow. Having grown up with crippling (and I mean Crippling) social anxiety, I was always forcing myself outside of my comfort zone with karaoke, door-to-door sales, public speaking and more so that by the time I was about 20 I'd gotten myself to a point of just being shy instead of completely incapable to speaking to anyone new and having constant panic attacks. Then I discovered this channel a couple years ago, met a supportive girl and worked my way up at my job and now I walk into parties and bars like I'm already everyones best friend 😅 it feels great to have this much progress and I can't express enough how amazing the free content alone is from you guys!
@FriendlyDawn135-kn5wq10 ай бұрын
When people think bad about you or say bad things about you is, for the most part, is a reflection of how they feel about themselves
@Nmdixon-cu7vm10 ай бұрын
Not always. If the person being talked about is a terrible human being, then the problem is them. Not everything is some convoluted, psychological projection.
@FriendlyDawn135-kn5wq10 ай бұрын
@@Nmdixon-cu7vm Yes I understand that, but for a lot of situations this is the case, I understand sometimes people are just jerks, just like my coworkers who don’t like me, but I understand your point.
@yamilet793310 ай бұрын
agreed
@hollynelson262610 ай бұрын
This is so true. A few years ago hearing someone said something bad about me. Made me feel aweful. Like it shook me. But now that I get this. If I know it's untrue or just to be unkind. I genuinely look at that person and think. How sad must your life be that you think that. Or have time to think that about me. Changes everything. Its freeing
@FriendlyDawn135-kn5wq10 ай бұрын
@@hollynelson2626 Exactly like how sad do you have to be to talk bad about other people for no reason
@seannn.o10 күн бұрын
We really gonna use Tate as an example of someone who isnt affected by what people think ? Really
@YourFriendGoofball2 ай бұрын
Hey, today at school I got an award for the most socially improved student. You are only one of the people who's advice on learning how to speak well helped me to acheive this big W in my life, can't thank you enough.
@TopCoin10 ай бұрын
1. Find your fire 2. Create an inner circle 3. Decide your core values 4. Leave the validation casino 5. Self-acceptance
@OmarHamza-nz9ob10 ай бұрын
Need some help as I am suffering from low confidence.. How can a non Muzlim (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Come to our mosque even if you aren't a Muzlim come to our mosque, leave everything."* How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation?
@Vivi_910 ай бұрын
@@OmarHamza-nz9ob I think the real question you're dealing with is, what do I hate about myself so much that turned me into an online troll, and how do I fix that so I get satisfaction in areas of life that doesn't depend on hurting other people. Good luck with your self improvement journey!
@OmarHamza-nz9ob10 ай бұрын
@@Vivi_9 Yes.. A kind of like that... You are so experienced... You just reached the depth of my comment... Fantastic... ! Anyway... If I answered them like this "I am not interested" 👳 Why you aren't interested? 🕵Because its a waste of time for me. 👳 How dare you called going to mosque as a waste of time for you? What will I reply.... Also what would ypu have replied if they said. " Is that the arrogance you have towards Allah?"
@WynneL10 ай бұрын
@@OmarHamza-nz9ob I think you can defuse the situation the same way with any proposition you aren't interested in: "I appreciate your enthusiasm, but I have already made my decisions about this. Have a nice day." Respectful, but firm. No value judgments, simply letting them know that you are not vulnerable to their pitch and you are now choosing to move on with your life. Then--here's the important part--DO move forward. Keep walking, head held high, eyes straight ahead. You are silently communicating as your stride matches your words.
@OmarHamza-nz9ob10 ай бұрын
@@WynneL Also another thing...... How can a non Muzlim🐬🏵 (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim👳 if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Accept islam otherwise Allah will throw you in hell."* How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation? Also sometimes they say this sentence.. *"is that the level of arrogance you have with Allah?"* How to respond to these mean statements from them?
@thepablo2210 ай бұрын
My key takeaways: - Reframe the question "How to stop thinking about what other people think of you?" to "How do I not let other people's opinions stop me?". - You should have something more important to care about. What would be your ideal life? - Have a set of core values, such as honesty, and promise yourself to not break them, even if it's bad for you in the short-term. - You are not going to like everyone. You should aim to be liked by, at most, your inner circle, but ideally just yourself. - Leave the validation casino. Don't rely your happiness or unhappiness on people you don't care about. - Other people's judgments affect you, because you think a hint of it, it's true. They can't make you feel shame, they can only trigger you to feel it. That's why you should fully accept yourself. - Use the best friend friend trick. - "You can't get where you want to go, until you accept where you are".
@Fotbollshugo10 ай бұрын
nice
@johnp.johnson154110 ай бұрын
OK: How to put your self-opinion above all other opinions. Better: How to Become Dominant
@d.f.90649 ай бұрын
"What other people think of you I none of your business. "
@SeanLunny10 ай бұрын
A wise man once said “it’s none of my business what other people think of me”
@nevermindmyname915310 ай бұрын
... "As long as it doesn't Physically affect my Life or the Life of my Child" a Wise Man added.
@RPKGameVids10 ай бұрын
Definitely a good way to look at it.
@ImDreats10 ай бұрын
Amen
@MYGmusic9710 ай бұрын
Marcus Aurelius
@tomtom878610 ай бұрын
@@nevermindmyname9153 your addition was irrelevant. what does it have to do with the original message? I agree with the originall message completely
@Allenwatts-y9n16 күн бұрын
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really loved him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him
@AnitaJason-s4d16 күн бұрын
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back.
@Allenwatts-y9n16 күн бұрын
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him?
@AnitaJason-s4d16 күн бұрын
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
@AnitaJason-s4d16 күн бұрын
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
@Allenwatts-y9n16 күн бұрын
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
@seanhiggins223611 күн бұрын
I got recommended a video from this channel today after a long time. OG CoC had some good tips on conversations but it looks like it devolved into a manipulation channel. Charlie did always have a dead expression on him. Happy to see its been 9 months since an upload.
@annahataheartfire10 ай бұрын
The self-flagellation certainly makes every step 100x harder. This video came at the perfect time. Thank you 🙏🏼
@EmbraceTheStruggle2410 ай бұрын
💯♥
@Vilify3d13 күн бұрын
It was between 2017 and 2019 when I saw one of yalls videos for the first time. Im 22 now... Really big thanks to this channel for jumpstarting my self-actualization journey. The content still holds up to this day.
@RussellClausse10 ай бұрын
The biggest confidence game changer is progress and achievement towards the things you value. Once you are living your dream and pursuing it, you care 10x less.
@f4llenstarr10 ай бұрын
100% - if you have a passion for career or such and see success in it, all else kinda falls short of what matters to it.
@RussellClausse10 ай бұрын
@@f4llenstarr exactly. Most people have barely any confidence because they are living inauthentically - the dreams of society, not theirs
@EmbraceTheStruggle2410 ай бұрын
Spot on ❤
@OmarHamza-nz9ob10 ай бұрын
@@RussellClausse I am suffering from low confidence while dealing with bullies.. How can a non Muzlim (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Come to our mosque even if you aren't a Muzlim come to our mosque, leave everything."* How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation? Help me... Please reply
@RussellClausse10 ай бұрын
@@OmarHamza-nz9ob it depends, what happens if you refuse, saying that it's not for me? since you're saying the word "diffuse" i assume it gets quite confrontational and perhaps even violent. any way you can get help from somebody or avoid this person completely?
@michalbadash56814 ай бұрын
Most of the people in my life don’t know this, but I didn’t have friends during my middle school. I was completely alone for years, and struggled to make friends even later in life because of my terrible social skills. Then I ran into this channel years ago, and it helped me become a better leader, friend and sister and aunt. I created relationships, and help so many people I can support with what I learned from you. Your channel is a huge part of what made me who I am today, and I can’t even describe how thankful I am to you for that. Yet I still want to write you - thank you so much, because of you, I can smile ❤️
@JenOween8 күн бұрын
Having Andrew Tate in the thumbnail might not have been a great idea.
@mozart08 сағат бұрын
Lol no
@Jester0001310 ай бұрын
Just wanted to thank you for your role in my personal development.❤
@Christopher-ms5ke7 ай бұрын
What happened to this channel? Charlie we need more! Thanks for everything.
@blankforge71515 ай бұрын
Same. I still recommend it to people.
@ArchIVEDCinema5 ай бұрын
I think it's just Ben now. Him and Charlie had a falling out of sorts and Charlie left the channel in Ben's hands, I believe
@blankforge71515 ай бұрын
@@ArchIVEDCinema then the channel is left to perish in the wastes of the internet archives. Who knows what's to come of these marvelous machinations.
@sebastianP464334 ай бұрын
The channel went downhill. Back when Game of Thrones was at it's peak Charlie's breakdown of characters and their behavior felt like watching previously unseen footage of Game of Thrones. This channel went from breaking down famous people and their charisma into quick cookie cutter tips.
@Thawhid3 ай бұрын
@@sebastianP46433oof
@astralspectron5 ай бұрын
Thank you. I've been living in a nightmare, being judged by other people for as long as I know. This video really made me change my view on the entire world.
@blackenedstar3 ай бұрын
its really insane how something we are already introduced to can be something completely new to others.
@gerardodavis434310 ай бұрын
Damn that last point hit home. My therapist has been telling me about self acceptance because I haven’t accepted my anxiety/perfectionist self 😅
@EmbraceTheStruggle2410 ай бұрын
Self acceptance isn't always an easy thing, and if it was - there probably would be too much peace and not adequate progress. And often times, self-esteem; which is similar to self acceptance is meant to be a barrier to shield us from harm or danger, and is often interchangeable. But I suppose it depends on the situation.
@jimgoat10 күн бұрын
You guys put together some amazing videos. I hope you're still doing it and put out more...
@_Epictetus_9 күн бұрын
Baby come back, you can blame it all on me.....
@pzholdings10 күн бұрын
Andrew Tate's confidence is an act. Otherwise, great video!
@chaitanyavasamsetti81774 ай бұрын
Hey miss these videos. Hope you are doing well mate And hope to hearing something form you or your team Waiting and cheering you all on
@CamelJockey5625 ай бұрын
Why did Charisma on Command stop making videos??
@GiovanniAssis-nv1uq10 ай бұрын
Thank you alot brother, you are a blessing to not only mine, but millions of people. May God bless you ❤✝️
@shalev4412 ай бұрын
Where did bro go?
@oponomo10 ай бұрын
I don't know about other people, but i'm 34 and all these inner demons and doubts i feel like i don't have them on my own, but my parents make an effort to remind me to instal these flaws to "self regulate". The feeling of not being as good as others or not deserving of something or to bash yourself is to fuel improvement as other examples... I know it's taboo to blame the parents for your weaknesses, but i trully feel that i am a "perfect" healthy human by myself before their active meddling.
@Djoee059 ай бұрын
I.. have had these thoughts before
@lkf879910 ай бұрын
I think as long as the people you like, like you, you're doing something right, but true about the tip of not letting that necessarily limit you.
@waterman984510 ай бұрын
Thank you charisma on command ❤
@EmbraceTheStruggle2410 ай бұрын
🙏🙏🙏
@kevinsims28764 ай бұрын
5:41 Dropping bars man. Only way I was truly able to find peace and happiness within myself was through fasting. Took me years to figure that out and have a consistent energy level💁🏽♂️
@How_to_GUYS3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much this was the exact video i needed its so weirdly specific my problem. I struggle with insecurity and trauma that costed me my self esteem and this video gave me great advice. Thanks
@TheLeftOverKing15 күн бұрын
just noticed you guys stopped uploading. Where y'all at?
@pandurangacr786310 ай бұрын
always loving your work, your contents are a game changer for anyone who looks for growth in personality❤
@Zz-_-3 ай бұрын
Miss this channel glad you still killin' it
@TheNME3 ай бұрын
is he ok?!?
@kmlgraph8 ай бұрын
The clip in the elevator from "Mad Men" says it all. Michael Ginsberg: "I feel bad for you." Don Draper: " I don't think about you at all."
@elyksteeley11818 ай бұрын
It's been awhile since I've watched your channel but I dropped by to say this: ever since I watched your videos on body language, behavior, correct speech, I have been a wreck. I've become so hyper vigilant of everything I do down to how I speak, posture, eye contact, everything, trying to do what you say in these videos I just can't relax and be myself anymore. Every ounce of my behavior has to be micromanaged now. I'm hyper aware of myself and every imperfection that's there and it's hell
@noslinon24708 ай бұрын
because you must not force yourself to become like said in the video, it must become an habit which means that it takes time. You can't change everything in one day, just take your time
@Babooshka477 ай бұрын
That’s called anxiety. I agree to some extent that watching videos like these can negatively affect you if your goal is to become socially accepted. However if you use it as a tool to improve certain parts of your personality. It can be extremely helpful. It’s more information on how you can act if you want to be more open, genuine and confident in yourself. Not to affect others
@ric66117 ай бұрын
If you're having these issues, I suggest just forgetting all the tips they give. A lot of these tips focus on communication skills, but the most important thing, just like they often talk about, is really just relaxing and being genuine. So, not micromanaging everything you do will probably make you more charismatic than being so hypervigilant - even if you are not applying all their tips. To improve, you must first accept yourself. It sounds paradoxical, but think about it this way: to improve who you are, you need to first know who you are. Otherwise, you won't really be improving who you are, you'll just try to be someone you aren't. Remember that you're imperfect and you will always be. However, you shouldn't ever think you are not enough because of that. No one is perfect, and I don't think you hold anyone else to that standard, so don't hold that standard to yourself. I know that everything I'm talking about is easier said than done, it's close to telling someone who's depressed "just be happier", but sometimes I find that I need to be reminded of everything I just said, and hearing it helps and motivates me just a little, I'm hoping it helps you too, however slightly it may be. If that really continues to be an issue, then just seek professional help if you have to. I know there's still a stigma about that but it makes no sense to hold a stigma against trying to feel better, and seeking the help of someone qualified for that.
@DailyReadMotivationHub27 күн бұрын
“This video is so inspiring! 🌟 It’s amazing how much our confidence can impact our lives and how we live them. The reminder about the number one regret of people on their deathbeds really hits home. It’s a powerful nudge to stop living for others and start embracing our true selves. Thanks for sharing such valuable insights!”
@vishalwarraich90312 ай бұрын
You guys have changed my life in such a great way. I started watching your videos 3 years ago and I have come a long way with my conversation skills. Thank you guys🎉❤
@robertsoto1557Ай бұрын
Missing your videos. I'm saving up to join Charisma University. Keep us or me posted.
@12thMandalorian10 ай бұрын
The truth is no one actually does care about what you do or think, they may for a few moments but they will quickly forget and move on with their day
@ConnorRK-pn9yj8 ай бұрын
We need a video on Neal Caffrey from White Collar, the most charismatic character of all time
@paulluberg250310 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your videos, they are life changing!❤
@HyperHrishiHD2 ай бұрын
Bro please come back I’m becoming more insane by the day
@ThePowerMoves2 ай бұрын
Grow up man
@AdamJones38110 ай бұрын
Thanks for the video Ben :) You provide a lot of value. How much of this video reflects your personal experiences? Charlie spoke about his feelings of co-dependence on you and you stopped hanging out. Hope the two of you are doing well!
@RcsN50510 ай бұрын
some hot internet tea being spilled here
@aset87507 ай бұрын
Any new videos coming up? Miss watching your content man...
@pigeon__admirer6 ай бұрын
For real it’s the best motivatio
@abrilcb57496 ай бұрын
Charlie has a podcast. Dropping in podcast
@acylan52814 ай бұрын
@@abrilcb5749 whats the podçcasts name?
@EvanKar10 ай бұрын
This video is life changing!
@EmbraceTheStruggle2410 ай бұрын
Yep
@anmolkashyap809710 ай бұрын
Read "The subtle art of not giving a Fu** " by Mark Manson. One of the best books
@StoicNature4448 ай бұрын
This had a lot of really good points. One of the best videos on this topic.
@Matt_Nor10 ай бұрын
With age and maturity, you will slowly grow into a better person. Big contributing factors are your friends, family and acquittances, pluss how you treat yourself on a daily basis. Treat yourself with love, honesty and respect. If you want respect, start with yourself and set yourself boundaries. Quality knows quality. The less you seek external approval; meaning you don't care too much about strangers opinions, the more people will admire you. The ones who love you for who you truly are, are the people most likely to accept you, which in turn makes your journey to self acceptance easier. Don't let rejections stop you, let them be a lesson you can can learn from. However, keep in mind... Being rejected is a natural part of life. Actors are one of the prime examples of not giving up due to being rejected after multiple auditions. The more you get comfortable with being rejected, and it not affecting your joy and happiness too much, the greater are the reward long term. People often look to and swarm the ones who are happy, because they feel good around them. "The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts" - Marcus Aurelius.
@barracudaboi7906 ай бұрын
Thanks to the videos, I have finally developed the courage to become what I truly am, and I find that I resemble God Of War's Brok in many ways. I am very brutally honest, I speak what's on my mind with no filter, and I am not bothered if I have to pay consequences for it. If something is good, I'll say it is good, if something is bad, I'll say it is bad. And I have developed more friends than enemies this way.
@TheMusicscotty10 ай бұрын
Absolutely beautiful video, guys. Just what i needed to hear.
@Archie66662 ай бұрын
Did they run out of charisma?
@Trevorr54110 ай бұрын
I truly needed this thank u❤
@EmbraceTheStruggle2410 ай бұрын
We all did.
@MdRifatKhandkar6 ай бұрын
The point, I liked most was, " Behave kindly to others but ignore the the discriminatory things which they tell about you and your passion"
@stevenmoore34806 ай бұрын
Who needs personality when you got youtube videos to watch on your own... in the cold and dark...
@FilmThePoliceFTP3 ай бұрын
😂😂
@mamabirdie7348 ай бұрын
I’d like your analysis of The Breakfast Clubs interview with Vivek Ramaswamy. It’s a very fast paced back and forth with so much material to unravel between him and the female Q&A.
@LGray71Ай бұрын
"Opinions are like assholes, everybody has one." Clint Eastwood as Harry Callahan
@EalainKloapa7 ай бұрын
So beneficial... I feel like this is what should be taught at school
@chasepalagi76754 ай бұрын
What a great video! It is evident that this was well thought out.
@M_R.bАй бұрын
People usually dont know it but they reflect something the way they act
@lorddjgoliath1809Ай бұрын
Andrew Tate in the thumbnail is wild, though
@xcloose3 ай бұрын
Will miss this channel
@HenningDiesel5 ай бұрын
Apparently the best formula for extreme confidence is to watch a lot of clips of actors in Hollywood movies.
@dejanbuncic539310 ай бұрын
Video is like made for me, thanks a lot guys! Pure gold!
@EmbraceTheStruggle2410 ай бұрын
Same 💯
@WynneL10 ай бұрын
Very helpful advice. I do think it's telling that Tate proved his own words right not personally, but by how easily Greta Thunberg controlled *him* with dismissive amusement at his fronting on Twitter. This is a kid who's known for passionately ranting at politicians, displaying a tremendous amount of emotion--but she deemed him so far beneath her that her mocking was absolutely lowkey stuff, and he came across as the kid instead. Losing his cool like that was ultimately the reason he was collared by authorities. Should've taken his own advice. I guess she knew her core values and self-validated better than her adult opponent. Age clearly doesn't govern personal strength. A valuable lesson.
@jcschweiz95629 ай бұрын
Nonsense. Passionately ranting at politicians and showing emotions is not indicative of intelligence, but her resorting to body-shaming and amateur insult is rather indicative of her actual mental capability; that of a toddler groomed by her activist parents and serving as a puppet for politicians to push flawed policies. Her "core" values are rooted in naivety of a toddler and her only "strength" stemming from fallacious appeal to emotions.
@melissae111610 ай бұрын
Easier said than done, but I keep trying!
@JDoe0016 ай бұрын
I don't care so much about what people think; but, I do care very much about what those thoughts propel them to do against me. Furthermore, when they make their thoughts known to others and those people also take the actions against me.
@DigSamurai10 ай бұрын
Know thyself. Decision is the ultimate power.
@OmarHamza-nz9ob10 ай бұрын
Brother please help me.. How can a non Muzlim (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Come to our mosque even if you aren't a Muzlim come to our mosque, leave everything."* How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation?
@blankforge71515 ай бұрын
It's been 4 months and still no word, I don't deserve it... I know you got my last two letters I wrote the addresses on them perfect! So this is my comment I hope you read it. If you post new content I'll watch the bit.
@User917804 ай бұрын
Plz come back
@ThePowerMoves2 ай бұрын
Would be cool if they did. The founders had a fallout in their previous best friendship, hopefully they can find a way
@timbuktu806910 ай бұрын
My big problem is when somebody (a narcissist) deliberately talks bad about me to my friends. Usually there is just enough truth that I can find myself being excluded from that circle.
@Superiorsocialskills10 ай бұрын
The art of not giving a f*ck
@pigeon__admirer6 ай бұрын
We miss your videos!!!!
@abcxyz46532 ай бұрын
It's interesting that your first examples of confidence and not caring what other people think are male comedians who say rude things. The women content creators who I've seen touch on this subject focus on pursuing life goals. Just an observation I find interesting.
@polyliker80659 ай бұрын
One caveat with the letting other people make you happy/unhappy part is only about external validation. You can let people make you feel happy/unhappy by caring for them. For example; I love my mom, she goes through depressive periods, every time I see her like that makes me feel unhappy. That's not because I care what she thinks or care what I think about her but because I care about her happiness. And the 'they can't grow because they can't admit to themselves they need to grow' part is really contradicting. If I hate myself because I feel like I'm not good enough then I'm already admitting I need to grow. The mindset is toxic not because you don't have that realization but because you're in your own way by being too busy beating yourself up about it and won't even try because if you fail even in the slightest bit you've just proven that you're loser. Once someone feels like they will never get where they want to go it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.
@pablochavez85396 ай бұрын
Why has this Chanel stopped posting? This video was uploaded 4 months ago.
@abrilcb57496 ай бұрын
Charlie has a podcast. Dropping in podcast
@Marvin-fn6mh10 ай бұрын
If you check all the boxes but still feel sad, then your are not really checking all the boxes. Be honest to your self, it helped me too
@OmarHamza-nz9ob10 ай бұрын
Will you please help me a little... How can a non Muzlim (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Come to our mosque even if you aren't a Muzlim come to our mosque, leave everything."* How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation?
@rhysaguirre69674 ай бұрын
Where did they go?!
@statix110 ай бұрын
When I'm worrying about others opinions it can make me take comments with negative intent. So I gotta snap myself outta that.
@jmurrayathletics9 ай бұрын
Andrew tate is narcist who beats women, at the beginning you explicitly say "without becoming a narcist" then use a guy who uses abusive, manipulative, and disingenuous langage and justifies it with "the matrix". the opposite of the point of the lesson, and andrews obsession with money is directly derived from his desire to be admired by everyone, the flaunts expnesive things all the time to say "hey look at me". his entire power structure is built on lying, and using major figures like petersons talking points for his advantage.
@ImNotReallyHereMCFC11 күн бұрын
He doesnt think about you at all
@nco9319Ай бұрын
Please let's hope they are cooking in the background
@Deskofpens2 ай бұрын
Wya?
@shawnhartman73744 ай бұрын
Really miss your videos one of the few channels on KZbin I actually looked forward to seeing new posts!
@michaelj.mccall653010 ай бұрын
I’d honestly rather be called a narcissist than be a people pleaser.
@clueless6842Ай бұрын
Can you guys make a video on Calvin Grindz? This man has amazingly charismatic interactions in his prank videos, being able to quickly communicate, connect, and deescalate.
@stoicarmor2 ай бұрын
It takes loads of effort to create these videos. Thanks
@strayCATchillspot10 ай бұрын
❤there's no embarrassement in struggle🤔🤔🤔💯🎯🍓🌶🌞
@dkrappenschitz95138 ай бұрын
Hey man no videos long time
@dangerousmindgames3 ай бұрын
When you're doing something truly big, truly good, truly important, you will have more haters and nay-sayers than you can imagine. This is how you know you're over the target.
@roaklarson96992 ай бұрын
Bro just vanished. Hope he’s doing well
@twoscoops41818 ай бұрын
So @charismaoncommand what is the 10/10 rule? It was in the thumbnail, but not in the video??
@Bob-fj7lr2 ай бұрын
This was really good and not what I expected and something I needed thank you
@s-qc9ns4 ай бұрын
Why haven't you made another video? Already reached your FIRE goal?
@TheSuperGuitarGuy9 ай бұрын
This video is me except the only person telling me I can't do things is myself
@tonygreene11346 ай бұрын
Where have y’all been?
@Christopher-ms5ke6 ай бұрын
I feel like they were probably discouraged from everyone’s overreaction of using Andrew Tate as an example. You don’t have to be a great role model to learn from someone.