20 THINGS WE WISH WE KNEW IN OUR EARLY 20S

[@ToriAndChad]

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[@ryushizu17]

1:34 1) Don't make decisions out of desperation 1:48 2) Those who are doing 'the best' are people taking action 2:32 3) Unforgiveness is only hurting you 2:58 4) Don't take everything personally 3:43 5) Feelings are not facts 4:53 6) Invest in yourself 7:53 7) Saying 'no' is okay and necessary 8:53 8) Ask yourself why you're doing something 9:56 9) Community doesn't just happen, it's cultivated 10:54 10) Be careful with loans 11:24 11) Enjoy your current season in life instead of wishing for the next one 12:15 12) Don't stick with something only because you 'already invested so much' in it 13:03 13) His Grace covers your sins 14:30 14) Life is hard for everyone 15:37 15) You don't owe anyone an explanation for your decisions 16:52 16) Don't pretend to be someone you're not to impress others 18:06 17) Learn to pick and choose your battles 19:39 18) Your health/body is not invincible 20:40 19) There is power in prayer 21:44 20) Your parents/loved ones aren't here forever, cherish them

[@nwanyibuifeobiako162]

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[@ToriAndChad]

Also, how about the random post date? haha we are finding freedom by not living bound by the YT algorithm and just posting the content we believe in!

[@mariamangion21]

Love surprise videos ❤

[@Vanessa._7]

❤️

[@angelavanoosten1]

Yessss you go 🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@allisonlucas018]

I love a Sunday video! None of my favourite subscribers post on Sunday and it's the one day of the week that I have a bit more time to watch lol

[@ToriAndChad]

aww that is nice to think about!!!

[@brasengrizelda4713]

I'm 17 , not sure I'm qualified enough to say this but I learnt this the hard way so I wanna share it , "Don't give up on something you want to do in life because it takes time , because time will pass anyway"

[@by159w]

Amen! We get better with practice, and practice takes time. Enjoy the waiting and the process 🌟

[@theedonn]

Can we have a part 2 pleaseeee🥺

[@ToriAndChad]

if you want one!!

[@vandaaltje]

@@ToriAndChad we all want it hehe

[@angelavanoosten1]

@@ToriAndChad def

[@austinwilliams1620]

yes!

[@theedonn]

"you can be pressed but you're not CRUSHED" This is so powerful!

[@ToriAndChad]

also another one of my favs haha

[@rodah6366]

Started to sing Changing by Pauline Zoe Park once they said that. The Word is powerful, took me to worship❤️

[@abstract1126]

Somethings I wish I had known sooner are that boundaries are healthy, Love is an action not an emotion, my body is a sacred vessel for the Holy Spirit - not a tool for manipulation, and most importantly that I AM FULLY KNOWN - CHOSEN AND LOVED BY GOD!!!

[@annahorvath3726]

I love it about unforgiveness ... In my mother tongue (Hungarian), the word angry means "full with poison", and that just expresses so well that I'm poisoned by anger...

[@emilyhousam7612]

Truth is truth even if few believe it!

[@ashleyhammond5333]

We just welcomed our little miracle boy into the world 2 weeks ago. I wish more than ever that there was a "slow down button". 💙

[@theedonn]

"it's okay to not stay in that unhealthy relationship, learn to let go" thank youu so much.

[@ToriAndChad]

that was one of my favs!

[@Baileypatt97]

Thank you guys so much! I’m 20 and these tips are so helpful. I’ve definitely fallen short with comparing my season with others, but God in His grace has been patient with me!

[@ToriAndChad]

Awww thank you for taking the time to watch and let us know!!

[@kisskiss6866]

I'm a "secular"/agnostic girl in her 20s but this one was actually sooo helpful and sooo good! I really needed this video haha! Thank you, Tori & Chad ❤️

[@racheloshaksmusic]

Jesus loves you❤️🙏🏾

[@jesusistheanswer6003]

hope you commit to God one day

[@hannahamelang3473]

Yes part 2 let’s gooooo!! I’m 21 and newly married, so I love these. I need all the wisdom I can get 🙏🏼

[@emiliapietrzyk9656]

As a 24 year old married woman for 6 months I encpurage you to read Debi Pearl book about being a wife, it really made a difference in my Look at marriage

[@hannahamelang3473]

@@emiliapietrzyk9656 I will look it up!! Thanks!

[@racheloshaksmusic]

Wow, congratulations ! 😇❤️

[@alaniswilliams1639]

as a 20 year old these were awesome things to hear and think about!

[@joiadoiron418]

I’m 21, and I wish I would’ve known that God is my sole provider, not my parents or my job or anyone/anything else. The only person I can depend on for everything 100% of the time is Jesus

[@samanthagraciam]

this was so much funn!! Thank you for sharing!💜🤩 I haven’t even reached 20 yet…but I hope I’ll keep in mind that life is just a sweet journey with God-I hope I’ll always enjoy the adventure with Him no matter the season!🥰

[@larryyoder5787]

So much truth! Thanks sooo much!!!

[@vandaaltje]

I definitely wanna see a part with all the funny ones!😂

[@ToriAndChad]

hahah that would be fun to make!!

[@gracesattelmaier5821]

Love y’all! I’ve been using the cash app for a few months and I’ve already made 40 bucks! Love it!!!

[@a.n.6935]

I would really love you to do a video about praying strategically! What it means, how you do it etc.

[@ToriAndChad]

What do you know now that you wish you knew sooner??

[@mariamangion21]

That you don’t need to be shy to ask for help

[@Hrmxerxes]

People's opinions are not facts

[@ToriAndChad]

amen!

[@ToriAndChad]

That is fire!

[@Writingsonthegirl]

Honestly that I'm not the main character in everyone's life

[@thokozani2496]

"There is power in prayer", Amen!! So true!

[@annekestander3677]

12, 18 & 19 are THE best** Don't hold on longer than you should to mistakes just because you've been holding on for long**

[@CodePremier2000]

Part 2 please!!!!! And maybe up to part 10

[@ToriAndChad]

hahaha

[@Miracleshappentv]

Bonus video for the win. Just got done preaching in NYC and now headed to the airport to get home. Love all 3 of you. Have a wonderful and blessed week.

[@ToriAndChad]

Fly safely my man! We love yall!

[@annasawczenko1294]

15 is the bestt 🤗I keep my fingers crossed for Yr family development!🤰🎉❤

[@mckennar2699]

This is so great! Thanks for sharing Tori and Chad!😊 I would say one of the things I wish I could've realized sooner is the truth that I can trust God's heart and leading completely in my life.❤He really does know what's best for me better than what I think is best for myself. His heart towards me is always for my good! When He asks me to trust him, it's because He has something good for me and He will always lead and guide me into the best things He has planned for me.✝

[@ChloeV.]

Next year I turn 20, it's so crazy to think about how fast life is going for me right now, almost done with college. It's been really great learning from you guys, you guys are encouraging me to restart my KZbin channel for Christian-based conversations for my generation. Thanks, ya'll :)

[@bishnya21]

I truly believe the Lord has blessed me with you guys in my life! Everything Tori says just hits home every time, I turned 25 this year and hope to take everything you guys said and implement that in my life! Thank you , blessings to you all💕

[@theedonn]

feelings are not fact!! This one hits.

[@ToriAndChad]

Let's gooooo

[@bequirivera8540]

PART 2 PLEASE 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@vandaaltje]

Yay! What a nice surprise this random video🙌🏼

[@ToriAndChad]

aww hey there WilJ!

[@ashleyp1512]

Listening to your podcast and watching your videos is one of the most calming things for me. So thankful that I found a big brother and sister in you guys💕. Love from Jamaica 🇯🇲

[@noelleditchfield9490]

Wow, SO good! Please do Round 2!

[@eleonoragrossen8083]

This are great points you're making. many of them i also had to learn the hard way during my late 20ies.

[@isabelmariano3764]

I love love loved this vid! I turned 20 this year ! a lesson I am learning at the moment is guarding my heart and finding boundaries within my personal life but also with my serving life in church. Would love a Pt2!!!!!!! love you guys and appreciate these vids ♡

[@jazzye_92]

Feelings can be great indicators but should never be dictators 👍

[@kyashabotejue9780]

So good to have people talk about this when your actually in your early 20’s! Thank you! 🥹🫶🏻

[@ebubeokoyeblogs]

I absolutely enjoyed this video and I love you guys so much. I'd love a part 2 to this please 😍

[@Mary26391]

Thanks guys for sharing your wisdom!! A lot that you said I wish I knew before. One thing that I've learned is don't let your past define who you are, because, things change all the time and you have the right to make the changes you want in your life.

[@racheloshaksmusic]

This is really good. Especially the people pleasing one

[@mayasquire4212]

I was so encouraged by this video, thanks so much you guys!!❤️ Something I wish I knew earlier was that God IS trustworthy and that I truly do not have to worry and be anxious about ANYTHING. It took me so many stressful days, too many to count, and tears to finally start understanding that and living that out in my life.

[@luanagonzalez5441]

This is such a nice surprise to have a video of you guys today!! Thank you, and i will be taking notes of the video! Sending love to all three of you, God bless💗

[@ToriAndChad]

love you, Luana!

[@michaelamikitova3359]

This video is sooo full of usefull information!! 💞💞 I just wanna take notes and erote everything down 🍀🍀

[@joanninsiima2529]

You guys!!!! I love this!!!! I love that you really went there and talked about what is REAL! You hit the nail on the head, you talked about real life and real life problems and situations! No one has a perfect life and no one should try to pretend like they do or expect one! We should just make the best of what the good Lord gives us! Praise be to God!

[@by159w]

Yes! ✨ I’m 26 and my husband 29, expecting our first baby March 1 ☁️ We have a good amount of money saved so we’ve been looking into purchasing our first home. Our apartment is a 2-bedroom townhome that is affordable and just fine. Why are we in a rush to move? 🤔 Houses are so expensive in this market! We’ve decided to wait until prices go down and when we actually need the extra space 💗

[@emmam3416]

So so so much wisdom!!! Please do part two so so good!!!

[@jenniferiwenofu1699]

ahhhh I've missed you guysss I feel like it's been forever. Loveeee thiss. What Tori said about how God sees me and what Chad said about being different to different people hitss hard. I struggled with feeling like I had to be someway to people for them to like me.

[@amandalovey8331]

Id love a part 2!!! Cause this video is very relatable & inspiring 😊

[@doogindarcy]

Love you guys!

[@hallegraceCHC]

I’m about to turn 20 next week so this was literally ✨perfect✨ timing

[@tanyadsouza1100]

This video took me by surprise. So good to see y'all upload

[@ToriAndChad]

awww we were just thankful to get a video out!

[@JMKrech]

LOVE this video!! One of my favs!

[@chevonnethompson7349]

so good!! would love a follow-up on how to do some of these...

[@princessreni3836]

Was here earlier, a few minutes ago and no new video, so imagine my joy at this pleasant surprise of a video. 😊❤️ Would definitely want a part 2 to this video.

[@ToriAndChad]

awww hi there!!

[@angelalumia3394]

So good!! Please do a part 2 🙌🏼

[@hRn77]

This was so good i love when people give specific examples about things and you guys crushed it so thanks and part 2 would be awesome!

[@angel-fk6rn]

you guys are like my internet Godparents. thank you for this 💕

[@rachel-ko]

Something I wish i knew was that in trying to please those around you, you only end up hurting yourself.

[@vimbai_elaine]

I think one thing I wish I knew sooner was I can't change people , only God can so trying to do so only frustrates me.

[@katherinebisono4994]

You both are always such a blessing. The wisdom you guys speak is truly the fruit of everything you both do behind closed doors. Thank you for your obedience in all of the content you guys post, truly!

[@saracmr6133]

Fam this is dripping in wisdom! Things that I have to keep in my mind forever. Thank you so much for the video. God bless you 🥰

[@vimbai_elaine]

I loved this!

[@clarahanson4942]

This was so great! I feel like writing each point out and journaling how I can apply them to my life. Thank you guys! ❤

[@ToriAndChad]

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[@marielpindar6312]

this was great! thanks for this! also yes part 2!!!

[@Songwritersbehindthecurtain]

The Masters Fam is an awesome 😎 KZbin channel name for sure.

[@ToriAndChad]

THank you!

[@Songwritersbehindthecurtain]

@@ToriAndChad np 😉 Tori and Chad.

[@andreaferis9260]

I loved this video. I’m in my late 20s and I feel like I learnt most of this lessons later than I would want to. Great job guys!

[@Songwritersbehindthecurtain]

Congratulations 🎈🎊🍾🎉 on 133k subscribers.

[@ToriAndChad]

Thank you!

[@belindadoh187]

Never been this early...excited for this random vlog

[@ToriAndChad]

hahah let's go!!!

[@AmishaChhabraMusic]

i took so many notes! love this and you guys. always learning so much and really needed to hear this Jesus knew!

[@Thandiwe_Philangezwi]

Part 2 please 😍😍😍

[@theauthenticart.]

Please do a part 2!! This was so helpful 😊❤️

[@makaylafriend]

I turn 20 in nine days so this is timed perfectly!

[@grace.l4632]

Thanks

[@ToriAndChad]

Thank you!

[@jennifercasado]

Can you please make a video about prayer strategies? ❤

[@taylormays8750]

This was so great friends! I'm 20 and this was so helpful :)

[@liviaanderson7020]

love upside!! told my sister about it and to use your code too! im in NC and they don't really have grocery stores near me on upside, but its great for gas.

[@ariairida]

Loved this video guys ❤❤❤❤ 😊 appreciate you both 😊

[@tanyaalice9710]

I NEEDED THIS YOU GUYS! Thanks so much for making this video! God bless y'all! 💜

[@blondiewithabook]

love all of these tips so much...I learn so much from you two! please do a part 2!

[@joelegusquizaacosta]

Thank you so much for sharing this with us, it was really helpful for me. We want part two pleaseee

[@vincentnotarianni8448]

Saying no is a credit of time Saying yes is a responsibility

[@Sarah-sr8zw]

loved this! would love to see the funny ones too😄

[@elzaan8257]

I wish I would've rather taken more time to decide what I wanted to study and even when I wanted to study. It would've saved a lot of money and now I am working full time and struggling to start doing what I actually want to do. Thanks for the video, I am still young though at least

[@sunelesterhuyse6103]

Love love loveddddd this

[@ToriAndChad]

aww that means the world!

[@sinovuyobusakwe1001]

Something I wish I knew sooner: a lot of the time, the way people treat you has got more to do with them than it does with you.

[@danahportlouis3776]

Tori is glowiiiiiiiiiinnnnnnng 😍

[@raissaumwali4939]

Yeyyyy! I love these surprise videos ❤

[@ToriAndChad]

aww yay! We hope to do more surprise videos as we get closer to having the baby!

[@Writingsonthegirl]

Long time my Masters famo!! 💐

[@ToriAndChad]

awww hi there!!!

[@jordandemps6235]

I really loved this! Would love a part 2🤍

[@tamaratekena5169]

still learning, but: control is such an illusion and striving for it all the time is a waste of time. instead spend that energy drawing close to the One who is actually in control of everything (God), and build your relationship with Him. In time, you will learn to trust Him and trust that His ways and His plan for you are actually better than anything you could've thought up for yourself. So rest in His own control, and build your confidence in Him.

[@MegaTelenovela]

Can you guys do a video about grieving and how to pray for the person we lost and how to cope according the bible. 🙏💗

[@michaelandgracie9622]

@Chad Can you do a video on how you go about leading and doing finances?

[@gabrielabalcercikova4033]

we definetlyyy want a part 2!

[@harleighstringer]

feelings are not facts is the one i gotta learn the most tbh ☹️

[@ToriAndChad]

hahah it's real!

[@isabellalacy9901]

Love this so much and I hope y'all are having an amazing day! Ilysm and thank you for always being so transparent and vulnerable with us!

[@yaninabotejue]

As a 19 year old, just finishing up in high school and about to enter the real world, Thankyou for this!🫶🏼🤍 I truly do value yalls advice!!

[@ToriAndChad]

awww thanks for letting us know!!

[@unaproblemalikemaria]

Part 2 please!!