WHAT WE WISH WE KNEW BEFORE MARRIAGE PT. 2 // juicy Q&A

[@chelsealeigh4891]

WOW! Praise, praise, praise God for how He used my letter! It’s a testimony to His perfect timing :)

[@sashagalemcfarlane3320]

Yaaaayyyyyyyy. Glory!

[@faith-td7xi]

amen!!! wooo

[@zacharywilliams9647]

Amen!! Amazing the way He operates!!

[@Emily-rh2lm]

Amen

[@shannonscully1203]

“do you want advice or a hug?” LITERALLY BOMB ADVICE 🙌🏻🤍🥳

[@mccalllanman8413]

“whenever you accept your own insecurities, no one can hold them against you.” Zammmnnn bring it chadayy

[@andreealupoaie]

The longer the video, the better hehe🔥have a blessed day🤗

[@ToriAndChad]

hahah we know you like them! So that makes us happy!

[@destineyhopkins7097]

Yessss

[@leahsmithtravel]

Agree!

[@jessbrown24]

Chad is patient Chad is kind Chaddy's little hands help express whatever is on his mind

[@maikendao]

Chad’s examples/analogies are really helping me understanding the messages you guys are expressing! I think that is one of his gifts from God. Dont feel bad for keeping them coming!

[@moniqueaglibut4840]

What i love about this is that you guys talk about these stuff with maturity. Like it is always on point and you talk it based on your understanding and experience. So much worth the watch and love the interaction with your viewers through q and a. Also appreciate how tori and chad are so smart with how they give their opinions like youll just sit and know that they know what they say. Love this video. Highly recommended as i recommend chicken nuggets. 🐢🐨

[@ToriAndChad]

Aww thanks for saying that, sweet baby Yoda! Thanks for being here like always and being one of our favs!

[@moniqueaglibut4840]

@@ToriAndChad thanks that you two exist. Your two are touching a lot of lives in such a way that you bring changes to them in more positive and Godly ways. *munches lays sour cream chips🐢🐨

[@ToriAndChad]

HAHAH I HAD SOME YESTERDAY!!!

[@moniqueaglibut4840]

@@ToriAndChad haha yeah i saw you eating a big bag of lays on Tori’s story (lol they rhyme well lol) and that was a must see footage of a hooman silently giving justice to baked potato chips lol 😂

[@ToriAndChad]

hahah YOU love food so much haha

[@andreealupoaie]

Love the description! Surround yourself with people who draw you closer to God and who have a good impact on you, who influence you to do good things👏🏻🤍

[@ToriAndChad]

YES! EXACTLY!

[@angelavanoosten1]

"Insecurity is internally lacking security" 🤯 it makes sense now why it's spelled like that 😂

[@janetsdrawstation]

Lol

[@lezanrieksteen2459]

So funny, laying on the bed in South Africa watching part 1 and part 2 just appears ... happiness:)

[@ToriAndChad]

hahahah crushed it!!! Hope you have an amazing evening!

[@melanikhoza7225]

🤣🤣 I’m always excited to know more people from my country are interested in the content I watch❤️. I just feel like everyone needs to see this. Great content right here❤️

[@leahsmithtravel]

The goal is not to win the argument but to have grace and move forward in reconciliation 🙌

[@darellchong4354]

That testimony is so amazing!!

[@ToriAndChad]

right?!?! I thought so too!

[@nataliyatsipan4164]

When you said.. “another analogy”... I actually really enjoy the analogies because it put the situations in perspective in way you don’t think about. Thank you 😀 love the videos! ❤️

[@ToriAndChad]

Aww that means a lot to hear! Sometimes I feel like my examples get annoying hahah

[@nataliyatsipan4164]

@@ToriAndChad no I love examples. I love to learn new things so keep it up lol :)

[@annaandacamera]

so much wisdom in this video, thank you for being so bold. you guys are helping so many individuals and couples chasing after jesus, including me 🥰❤️

[@gracemueller9124]

These videos never fail to entertain and inform!! ❤❤

[@ToriAndChad]

Awww that makes us happy!!

[@vanessaperez8363]

I’m so glad you guys did a part 2!!!

[@ToriAndChad]

We are 2 hahah

[@misssud8440]

yayyy !!! part 2 🎉 I'm here for it !!

[@ToriAndChad]

WOOOO! If this does well enough we will do a part 3

[@angelavanoosten1]

@@ToriAndChad letsgooo

[@olivianickell3035]

Chad with all these different analogies, he’s on a different level today lol. Amazing video, super thankful for you two people ❤️❤️❤️

[@hopeolivia590]

So good - you don't need to put all the pressure on your spouse you can maintain valuable relationships with friends!!!

[@ToriAndChad]

YES!

[@sarahd.8080]

Can you guys do a video on anxiety (specifically being anxious when talking to guys and in social settings)? Love y’all!

[@ducgiangho9807]

You guys being productive again, love it 😍

[@ToriAndChad]

WORKING HARRRRDDDDD

[@estherreyes4461]

I love the set up of your thumbnails. Its either both of you really happy/playful or one of you looks troubled and the other is consoling them. Thats one of the things about your channels that never fails to crack me up.

[@ToriAndChad]

hahah awww I'll make sure tori sees this so she feels encouraged!

[@jocelynperea9776]

i love how chad ALWAYS uses analogies!! it is sooo helpful. he does it in the prompt us podcast too. it’s awesome! tori, i love how you explain the grace concept it’s truly inspiring and convicting. ❤️❤️ i love you both!

[@gianniassa5208]

5 MINUTES! love your relationships videos guys! God bless🙏🏻

[@ToriAndChad]

awww thanks so much Gianni! You are super kind!

[@noelie2399]

Probably your best video so far! So much wisdom! Literally felt some weights being lifted off my shoulders while watching

[@ToriAndChad]

aww dang that means a lot to us!!! Thanks for saying that!!

[@shwetav]

Thank you for continuing the series. Each question was so relevant and I truly love how you answer it with as much clarity and insight as possible. It requires an exorbitant dose of strength and resilience to maintain all kinds of relationships but the feeling of contentment to have an inner circle who understand us is so beautiful. Thank you for being guiding angels to so many of us and this goodness shall only blossom further! 🙂 Also its so important to not let loyalty become a slavery. If people do not appreciate what we get to the table, its better to let them eat alone. A quote I read recently - It is impossible to love without failing at something unless you live so cautiously that you might as well not have lived at all,in which case you fail by default. Looking forward to the podcast as always!! ♥ ♥

[@ToriAndChad]

Gosh I want to just hear you narrate our lives lol Love what you added as well... So good regarding the failing by not living at all!

[@ToriAndChad]

We love you!

[@shwetav]

@@ToriAndChad Lots of lovveee in return!! You two sound so good auditorily! I doubt il stand a chance :)

[@ToriAndChad]

please I bet you sound amazing!

[@shwetav]

@@ToriAndChadAww..:)) A little less than you two .. hahaha

[@sierraclark6129]

Jesus Christ gave up everything for you, so live for Him.

[@travis6694]

This, this is truth.

[@logantyndall989]

Amen. He is our everything

[@CamdynHarris]

yay! can’t wait to watch! y’all’s videos are literally the best!!

[@ToriAndChad]

You're the best Camdyn!

[@anmolnayak6533]

One minute!! Waaoh! God is amazing!🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@ToriAndChad]

hahah right?!?!

[@leahfry13]

Wow I started watching y'all halfway through 2022 and my husband and I have been listening to your daily devotionals since then, never knew it used to be called the Messy Masterpiece podcast! Cute!

[@jasmine5133]

I'm so grateful for you guys and your videos!! 🤗💛

[@ToriAndChad]

We are grateful for you too!

[@trandom2083]

You guys are such genuine Christ followers. Thanks for the encouragement and example

[@andream6531]

I never get over how Chad looks at her ❤❤❤ you two are the best. Love your channel

[@ToriAndChad]

awww that's so sweet! We love you!

[@kellypadilla1026]

Y’all are such a blessing! I love what the description says about making sure you bring out the best in others and that they make you the best you! So encouraging!

[@ToriAndChad]

You are a continued blessing to us sweet Kelly!

[@bethnichols2875]

That with the boundaries, and the fence reference, also ties in with your part 1 video, where the question was asked about traveling together before marriage, and your mention about staying in separate rooms, so as to lesson the temptation of boundaries being crossed.

[@elanakotze6092]

Life and death is in the power of the tongue. When we speak the Word we are speaking life, and when we speak against what the Word says, destruction happens.

[@ToriAndChad]

YESSSSS So true!

[@angelavanoosten1]

So excited for this! Love the little testimony in the beginning, God is good :)

[@ToriAndChad]

SO GOOD!

[@angelavanoosten1]

@@ToriAndChad yes!!! So many wisdommm, I'll have 200 pages of notes about relationships before I even start dating 😂

[@sophiabonanno3828]

So early!! Recently started watching you guys religiously. You've really helped me in my own personal faith journey. I really look up to you guys and Jess and Gabe! XOXO

[@ToriAndChad]

Awwww that's so sweet, Sophia!! Thanks for sharing that with us!!! We appreciate you and are thankful that you are in our lives!

[@christinejanmaat5088]

Thank you sooo much for part 2 you did it I love you so much. You both are the greatest and cutest couple I ever seen ❤️❤️ your best friend Christine 😘😘

[@ToriAndChad]

You're so sweet! Thanks BF Christine! lol

[@christinejanmaat5088]

Love you ❤️

[@ToriAndChad]

Love you back!

[@iuliaturcas4348]

Thank you for taking time to answer our questions and always doing literally all you can to serve us best!!! 💛 Your dedication to the Masters fam is remarkable and I can truly say I feel we are all a blessed family! 🤗 Thank you for always being here for us!

[@ToriAndChad]

Aww that is what we want you all to feel! So thanks for being here with us... We love you!

[@iuliaturcas4348]

@@ToriAndChad 💛🤗💛

[@elanakotze6092]

Yayyyy!! Love these relationship stuff. Truly blesses me to just patiently wait. God bless you guys!

[@ToriAndChad]

Aww thanks! We love that you love these! Thanks for being here!

[@nitapanther8833]

Thank you so much for sharing! I really needed to hear how to handle trust issues after having been hurt so many times. Your honesty and sincerity really touched my heart.

[@davidandkatharineolah2547]

“You would say that, Jesus.” Hilarious 😂 but so true! 🤍 Even when I cringe at what He says, I can’t get over the fact that he DOES speak to us. Love the real mess we see in you too! 🤗

[@violaizkool123]

Yayyy! Been waiting for this😄

[@ToriAndChad]

Awww that makes us happy!!

[@angelinas.4052]

Just want to say thank you so much for being so open and honest about the topic of relationships because this type of information is so looked down upon on if aske. All your videos on dating and boundaries have encouraged me so much!🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@ToriAndChad]

We are really happy to dedicate our time to doing so! Thanks for tuning in! We appreciate it!

[@abstract1126]

Oh!! Praying for the sole ties to be broken! TORI!!! 💥🔥🔥🔥💥 I needed that!

[@vivianampoveda5140]

Love you guys so much, thank you for everything❤️

[@ToriAndChad]

Thank you for being here with us! We love you!

[@theagoartstudio2333]

i just realize, I'm watching your videos wholeday since I saw you on KZbin this morning. It's amazing I don't feel distracted while listening to you, painting, and taking care of my two babies... heheh

[@tashdorr2882]

Thankyou guys for these videos!! I love your perspective and points you make and how you answer the questions. Many other Christian online influencers talk about dating which is great but you guys have really good relationship advice and I’m getting so much out of your channel and your videos, which are better for couples that are past the initial dating stage. Thankyou!

[@Marie_Garwood]

Wow!! I LOOOVE the friendzone question at the end! 🤯 And I think you answered it so well! That’s a question I believe a ton of people have: when to keep hoping in prayer vs. when to let go. Thank you for addressing that! Those of us who have been friendzoned would love to assume our story will play out like yours-and maybe it will! But regardless, God is the perfect Author, He loves us, and He’s got us!

[@luanagonzalez5441]

I CAN'T WAIT TO HEAR THE CONTINUED VERSION ON THE PODCAST!!! LOVE IT, I AM OBSESSED

[@miriamfodoreanu2626]

you guys and your videos really mean a lot to me. thank you so much :')

[@ToriAndChad]

Aww this means a lot to us, Miriam!

[@cailynhoneycutt6364]

So awesome! Really heard some things that I needed today. Love you guys!

[@ToriAndChad]

That makes us happy!!!

[@rajulmehta1917]

13:27 i laughed soo hard🤣🤣 I love how all of your videos are full of wisdom.. Would love a part 3 4 5 6 7.....😂

[@ToriAndChad]

that makes us happy hahah also glad you are enjoying these!!

[@CiciSu]

Thank you for your wisdom! I really appreciate your vulnerability to open up this conversation about marriage

[@mikey803]

I can relate with Chad about being introverted. I like my alone time, but also, which is weird, I am a big hugger at my church.

[@kalanim9426]

I love taking notes when I listen to you guys. Thank you for freely sharing your wisdom.

[@renf5246]

Another day, another INCREDIBLE video! Constant gratitude for you guys’ love & light. God bless y’all and THANK YOU for using your purpose and this platform in such a helpful way 🙏🏼🥲

[@catherinemockler]

The "I do boundaries" book I can confirm is AMAZING! love ye guys, ye are a breath of fresh air :D

[@shaughnsmit2076]

Great video thanks guys!! Excited for the podcast Saturday!!

[@Jesscalmvision]

Weekly check in is such a good idea!!

[@kayleefaithblair7367]

love these q&a videos!

[@ToriAndChad]

Glad you like them sweet kaylee!

[@heatherschraedel8390]

I love y’all so much!! Ahhh I’m filled with so much love and gratitude for your channel, podcast, and wisdom today❤️

[@allisonlucas018]

So good! Looking forward to the podcast 😊 I can never get enough!

[@KS-YAS]

This is awesome! Thank you guys for sharing and being open!

[@allisonsegalini4452]

It’s always so nice to listen to your advice🥰so encouraging every time

[@sallypena6917]

love all the content you guys are putting out! i listen to the podcast daily. you guys are such an inspiration to me :))

[@ToriAndChad]

Aww thanks for saying that and enjoying our content! We appreciate it!

[@jeannemarie5334]

ok y’all...ok! y’all are bringing the 🔥 so good, can’t wait for the podcast🤗

[@tealinesophiia5805]

Ahaha, the tiny hands!! This series is so helpful, thank you!!

[@ToriAndChad]

hahah I had to make people wait for them!

[@tealinesophiia5805]

@@ToriAndChad haha 😂it was worth the wait!

[@ToriAndChad]

;)

[@WhisperingJaneASMR]

I personally can't find absolutely nothing negative about coming closer to someone you genuinely love. A marriage is not necessary and is up to every person. You can be perfectly and in the sweetest way be connected on a spiritual level with a person without having that ring on your finger and needing others to approve of that. If I had waited with sex til my marriage I would be still a virgin with 35. I really don't like the guilt complex the church is spreading (you felt that guilt for having had others before as well as you mentioned in this video). We are humans and as humans we want to make experiences and try "things" out - we neither eat the same food for the rest of our lives nor do we live in the same apartment till the end of our days nor do we have the exact same friendships throughout our lives. It really doesn't make any sense for me and it's rather sad for me to see when people feel unneccessary guilt for being a human and having loved others before. Sex is not dirty, it's connection and intimacy with a loved one or yourself, and on top of it all, it's helping with the release of blockages in your body/ energy.

[@DarkSynax]

For me, it's hard to be someone who can't wait until marriage. It's suppose to be about coming together as one with God. So you not able to wait is a sign to me that you/ social norms are more important to you then your relationship with God and the final outcome of being the perfect "you" with someone to spend the rest of your life with God

[@kimberlymawi]

Yes amen bro! I totally agree with you. Pray for your desires and trust God will bring you the best for you 🙏🏼

[@AndresPrez]

You are not going to find a girl who waited..... Not nowadays. Get used to not being the only man she's been with. Or forget about relationships and focus on your purpose.

[@kimberlymawi]

@@AndresPrez I’m waiting and so are many of my Christian girlfriends. That’s why we trust in Jesus and pray to Him. It may seem almost impossible but that’s why we have God bc He is the possible and He brings rare gems into our lives

[@DarkSynax]

@@AndresPrez I can hope and pray

[@AndresPrez]

@@kimberlymawi Very unlikely that you are going to find someone who waited. It's a very small percentage ....and to find someone for you in that small group it's even harder. You have more chances to find someone the way they did. Sleep around and then find someone who slept around too. It's a bigger pool.

[@kaylanfomby7506]

I have LOVED this series!!! Such good advice here; my soul feels encouraged ^-^

[@havannahkauffman2477]

You guys have so much wisdom! Thank you for always being as open and honest as KZbin allows and speaking truth to your listeners. I'm praying over your ministry and your marriage. Definitely checking out your podcast today! God bless y'all

[@ToriAndChad]

Aww thanks for being here with us! Hope you like the podcast and thank you for praying for us!

[@mwilalombe24]

love seeing your videos on relationships :) Looking forward to using this knowledge and to even pass it on to my own children some day! ♥️

[@Thandiwe_Philangezwi]

Stephanie Ike once said "its not about winning the argument but its about winning the person, winning the relationship and winning peace".....PS :love y'all so much❤

[@brendaknapp3704]

I love these question answer videos! They are so helpful! I just really admire your wisdom. Tori, could I ask where do you get your necklaces? Lol this girl loves jewelry 😍

[@ginacompton7750]

I love the analogies 😂 keep ‘em comin’. I love the hurdling one. I once was a hurdler in high school.

[@leahsmithtravel]

Dang that was sooo good! We need other friendships to fulfill certain purposes in our lives and we can’t look to our spouse to fulfill all those needs. SO TRUE!

[@kaitlynoldford5534]

Love seeing yalls faces!

[@ToriAndChad]

We love talking with you in the comments!!

[@kaitlynoldford5534]

@@ToriAndChad I just got some overwhelming news so your video came at the perfect time :)

[@ToriAndChad]

Well we hope it helps!

[@maciemiller4389]

Heyyy Can y’all do a video on how to walk in your singleness when all your friends are in relationships and how to not envy them but be supportive?

[@darellchong4354]

Woww we get yet another one back to back!!!

[@ToriAndChad]

hahah happy you're here!

[@darellchong4354]

@@ToriAndChad :)

[@ToriAndChad]

Be ready for the continued version of this video to be live on our podcast this Saturday!!! toriandchad.buzzsprout.com

[@SamuelJayakumar]

Do it bro ... haven't even seen part 2 yet but do it !!!😂😂😂

[@ToriAndChad]

HAHAH Let me know after you see this one!

[@moniqueaglibut4840]

whispers part 3 hooman

[@SamuelJayakumar]

@@ToriAndChad sure thing !

[@ToriAndChad]

hahah I thought you said part 3 honeymoon lol

[@elanakotze6092]

Dang, this is blessing me, wow!🔥❤

[@ToriAndChad]

hahah you are blessing us!

[@rebekahkann1599]

Hey!! sorry, i haven't been on youtube much, watching it now. Love u guys!

[@carissa9196]

love y’all so much!!!!

[@ToriAndChad]

We love you!

[@bareheartpod]

I'm not even in a relationship or ever have been or planning on being in one anytime soon but I love these vids😅😍🥰

[@lilab.9361]

Where’s the dress from? Love It! 😍

[@ToriAndChad]

Carly Jean Los Angeles! :)

[@carryg580]

Love language question: how do you feel Gods love when your main love language is physical touch?

[@IdaraJoy]

I just love yall!

[@o-leg]

I asked my wife if she wants advice or a hug? she said “neither” haha😆

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[@chukwudicharles7916]

God coming in clutch as usual🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@joanna4740]

Love the energy on that video! I had a good laugh 😆

[@Smiles410]

Your hair is soo lovely Tori😍

[@gretaforsline8989]

yayyy! cant wait to watch!!

[@ToriAndChad]

Awww yay! Hope you enjoy it!

[@beatriceanca1340]

Yaay!! Such a good video!

[@ToriAndChad]

Thanks for taking the time to watch!

[@BethanyRuby]

Looking forward to the podcast too! 🥰

[@ToriAndChad]

Excited to share it with you!

[@franz5714]

I could honestly listen to you guys talk all day every day. I learn so much and it’s so relaxing, entertaining and hilarious at the same time haha 😝✌🏼❤️ p.s. Does Chad have his tiny hands ready 24/7 😂😂

[@ToriAndChad]

Aww I think you would get tired of us! hahahand yes My hands are always ready!

[@franz5714]

@@ToriAndChad I’m pretty sure I pay more attention to what y’all are talking about than my zoom lectures hahaha! shhhh don’t tell my lecturer lol

[@ToriAndChad]

awww I won't say anything if you wont lolol

[@franz5714]

@@ToriAndChad agreed hahah

[@franz5714]

@@ToriAndChad whoa whoa whoa hold up. I just saw y’alls stories and Chad with NO BEARDD!! 😱😱 Whaaattt?! All I can say is.... ✨👶🏼✨

[@kirstygracee]

this was SO good, binge-watching all the videos I haven't watched of yours tonight! Do you guys have a Patreon?? as I'd love to support you through that!!

[@sophiam8034]

its not you against your partner, its you & your partner against the problem :)

[@karadanvers42]

I needed this :)