Stalker Ex-Boyfriend Murders her in the middle of her shift | Hollie Gazzard |

[@chriskelly9476]

A 21 year old arrested 23 times for violent offences, including domestic violence? People like that - if they're not going to be locked up- need to be put on a public register so that anyone who gets close to them knows what potential risks they're taking. Screw the privacy of the perpetrator. They brought it on themselves. Public safety is more important.

[@Roc-Righteous]

Ah that's today's bleeding heart libs. Criminal lovers.

[@0momma]

@@Roc-Righteous because conservatives never beat or kill their spouses, right? Aren't they the ones that advocate keeping guns in the hands of men with prior DV charges?

[@desertgirl3374]

@@0momma this country in this video is known to everyone as being run by what Americans know as far left government. It is widely known that leftists are easier on criminals. See all of the catch and release happening with these offenders. Nobody ever said that conservatives can’t be violent, but the catch and release is happening under liberal government and that’s a fact that cannot be disputed. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@ClanToreador]

@@0momma criminals don’t abide by rules anyways 🤷🏽‍♀️. I wouldn’t compare libs to cons. It’s just evil and evil who decide to hurt people.

[@kina18]

@@desertgirl3374 The PM is a conservative.

[@DwayneAPurple]

His previous girlfriend actually predicted that he would kill his next one. And she was right. Later, when he tried to appeal his sentence, his mother threatened to disown him if he went through wit it. Didn't faze him one bit. He lost the appeal however and now his mother is supporting the Hollie Gazzard trust, having cut off all ties with her son. Serves him right!

[@genevabecker8441]

WOW

[@Asha-TheBarefootMuse]

@@genevabecker8441Right?!

[@mikailanolanxoxo]

​@@Asha-TheBarefootMuseGO MAMA 👏 AS SHE SHOULD QUEEN 👑

[@de341f6]

She is an ally to women. I'm sure it's heartbreaking that her son ended up being such an awful person but she has dedicated herself to atonement.

[@jlondono7]

As if he cares, if he did he wouldn’t have appealed

[@margochanning6868]

"Loving someone so much you can't let them go" is NOT love. It's possessiveness and hateful. It's controlling and abusive.

[@larajones175]

Yes, when a human is treated as a belonging , The entitlement of ownership leads to the lack if respect for that individual . Obsession over takes reality. Its truly disturbing.

[@Whips383]

Yea she's pathetic dug her own grave

[@lorenad5782]

@@Whips383 well I wouldn't say pathetic for something that she was scared to get away from.

[@NinePiecesOfEight]

Obsession not possessiveness

[@cosmicreef5858]

Indeed. Love NEVER hurts.

[@milly-moo9056]

My heart goes out to all the women, men and children who have endured this.. I know what it's like having been stalked by an ex for 3 years until he was sent to prison for sta*bing me whilst walking to work. That was 12 years ago now, and am 8 years happily married with the Police Officer who saved my life all them years ago.

[@kewsiyehboah6058]

Wow.. Bitter Sweet.. All da Best..

[@vlw4165]

Wow, that's an amazing story. So thankful you survived and turned the situation around with a positive!

[@tracyross5831]

👍👍👍❤️. YOU'RE SAFE Now!! Wishing you BOTH, ALL the BEST 👍👍❤️

[@milly-moo9056]

@@tracyross5831 thank you 😇😇🥰🥰

[@Brook_Nichelle]

Anen God has blessed you.

[@trishcross7900]

Serial perpetrator, escalating violence, 23 arrests. WHY was he out in society to be able to do this. He should have been in prison. Makes me sick!

[@karaW10]

Exactly this!!!!

[@rahuldahoob4513]

Racial political correctness

[@erinbedard6374]

I so agree with you makes me sick too he should be in prison.

[@skurinski]

He has black privilege. Labour loves protecting criminals

[@cosmicreef5858]

@@skurinski Maybe yes maybe no. All we know is that he got unfair privileges.

[@funnyshtuff7428]

So important for all young people to be taught about toxic relationships and narcissists. This happens far too often.

[@kewsiyehboah6058]

Agreed.. But with Feelings and Sweet talking ' Monsters '.. Not easy to make Right - Positive Decisions.. Once again I agree..

[@emmm_4465]

It's like once you've experienced it *and* learnt about it you can see the red flags immediately: - persistent, cannot take no as an answer (from asking her on a date to her trying to break up with him) - possessive and suffocating, constant communication and surveillance...showing up to her work and home unannounced - isolating her from family and friends by convincing her to move to london - emotionally ab usive (e.g. belittling her career, insults) and the physically abu sive - history of Domestic Ab use (which is obvious now but she didn't know) towards ex partners, if they call *all* their exs crazy 🚩🚩 - quick to anger - coercive and threatening behaviour - Hollie obviously changes to family and friends but hides true extent of his behaviour and defends him - has difficulty pulling away from abu ser (trauma bond) - always having to apologize to your ab user, feeling like it's always ur fault Ands Off thats top of my head, but please if *any thing* I've said or you see in this resonates with you research about a bu sive relationships and how to escape from them. The most dang erou s time for a woman in an abu sive relationship is when she is trying to leave her a bu ser! Don't think it starts with a smack, it starts way sooner. RIP Hollie, you weren't to know xx

[@kulaniwarner7262]

You’re right, everyone needs to be taught about abusive behavior, how to recognize it, and how to handle it, etc. This is only a small part of the education that is lacking all over the world unfortunately.

[@rikailayabbir]

More of this will happen. The generation is lost.

[@rikailayabbir]

@@kewsiyehboah6058 You know Jinnkid?

[@mael2039]

how is it right that someone is arrested 23 times for domestic violence and grievous bodily harm and walk the streets a free man? someone who is arrested 23 times isn't gonna stop suddenly and never be violent to someone again. who thinks that someone like that wakes up after 23 arrests (and we need to assume that just because he was arrested 23 times doesn't mean he _offended_ 23 times, cause we know that usually victims don't call the police every single time) and that will be the last time he ever gets violent with someone ever again? we _know_ he does it over and over and over without any sign of getting better, we know that. Someone like that needs to be in prison. We need to change the laws to create long prison sentences for violent offenders like this. Cause the laws don't protect victims right now, they don't step in until someone ends up dead. People who get arrested for grievous bodily harm 23 times walk free. That's not an exception, that's the norm. That's what's happening right now with countless violent abusers. It's incredibly difficult for a victim to come forward, and even if they manage, and they manage to go through trial, nothing really happens. There's no real consequences for violent offenders. And we need to demand a change for that.

[@melaniemunro6696]

Couldn’t agree more. It is the same story over and over. Escalating violent offenders cannot keep going ignored they are a danger to society and it’s well past time we start acknowledging it and taking steps towards mitigation

[@cgggg5988]

Wouldn't be surprised if he's released soon...

[@oliviamartini9700]

Horrific. And as you pointed out, many assaults go unreported - in fact *more than 80%*. Which means he assaulted probably hundreds of women, and police should keep this statistic at the forefront of their minds. To think dogs are put down after one bite, and savage animals like this are released over and over, completely unable to be rehabilitated, while the public remains oblivious.

[@Chris_34]

Because, British 'justice'😒

[@RawOlympia]

It's completely perverse!!!

[@Yaya88007]

Raised by a gentleman with so much love, care and respect ....Killed by a monster without any remorse and guilt. I am praying for Hollie and for her strong family and friends. Its very heartbreaking.

[@ariesafiri]

Heartbreaking indeed 😭😭😭

[@dzenitacuric2777]

Raised by a snowflake 😔

[@strawbawrri249]

@@dzenitacuric2777 ok snowflake

[@reggaefan2700]

He was the top dog.

[@chuck-jy7mz]

@@dzenitacuric2777 the daddy was PC and feminized . . . Holly paid the price . . .

[@goose9756]

This is exactly why my father looked every name up of every dude I ever went out with. I love you Dad and I miss you so much. I know you were looking over me last time and helped me leave as safely as possible and kept me safe.

[@ascensionvaldes1412]

he was very intelligent👌

[@chionun1028]

Lucky u 👍

[@nowey2251]

The father saw how he mistreated her and his response was “are you ok daughter ?” Daughter : “yes dad it’s fine” Dad : “ok 🤷🏽‍♂️ “ seriously you have a good dad because I can’t believe they saw him treat her like that and did nothing about it

[@heide-raquelfuss5580]

Not many dads and moms would do that for their kids. I am also a detective. But i realize you can not protect a child in love. They will not listen. They will just hide things more and drift away. You had a real father and detective.

[@xoxobeauty_by_lynne2895]

Sadly even that isn’t enough to properly provide protection from men like this. They are masters at manipulating people.

[@the-finn]

I heard many psychiatrists, and LE say, " If someone tells you they will hurt you, believe them; they mean it."

[@gigi9301]

Agreed; by this time, they are Very Much thinking this and have been for quite some time before they will say it and then do it

[@CossandraCastle]

I’ve seen a hundred stories like this and the most frustrating thing is whether the victim does everything wrong or right the outcome is always the same. My heart goes out to any person who finds themselves in this situation. RIP beautiful Hollie.

[@user-lk8bz7hg2b]

Absolutely your so right. The victim always pays, no justice. I have survived different types of abuse, it sucks.

[@azazello1784]

That's what happens when women fall for arrogant, narcissistic jocks. One look at this guy and you could see he is full of himself.

[@mrsmerily]

yeah... it is scary... I just saw a story where the murderer was in relationship only 3 weeks and still stalked and killed the girl. She run soon, when the first red flags were there and still got killed... and again same thing, he had long history of violance she did not know.

[@LLBlackhawk-mc3sq]

You are so right!

[@HopeFilledchats]

I'm an abuse stalking survivor. Off and on over 4 years. I'm glad I woke up and got away. I had a cell phone but changed my number and mailed him an 11 page letter detailing everything he'd ever done to me and ended it for good. Then I also put in my 30 day apt move out notice. I think where most of us go wrong we try to end it nicely yet keep talking to him and trying to smooth over the rejection. People like this you have to end it and just go missing!!! Smh 😔🤦🏽‍♀️

[@lucys1288]

This Dad is a gorgeous man. My heart breaks for him. Sending you and your family big hugs if you happen to read this comment. Hollie was so blessed to have such a great Dad. ❤️

[@AC-ze1nh]

Never underestimate how difficult it is for a family to support a loved one in an abusive relationship. It's an impossible position because you can see all the warning signs and still be powerless to help. If you push too hard they may pull away and become even more isolated, which is what the abuser wants. Knowing a situation is dangerous and being able to stop it are very two different things. The laws need to be way tougher on domestic abusers, especially repeat offenders!!

[@OisO8]

So true. Love sickness is like an addiction and loved ones are helpless and forced to watch the love addict suffer while they make excuses for their abuser 😢

[@tresekiara4086]

🎯‼️

[@mausilw]

@@OisO8 it’s not “love addiction”, you have a completely fundamental misunderstanding of how trauma bonding, gaslighting, physical and mental abuse, and manipulation works in relationships like this. Calling it a “love sickness” is ridiculous and gross, it implies you’re putting blame on the victims without understanding the psychological aspects of how people end up in these relationships.

[@OisO8]

@@mausilw uhhhh, calm down and stop getting angry with people you don't know. Nobody is blaming her. I think you're the one who doesn't understand these terms. Love addiction is a sickness that clouds the victims judgement. It puts them in dangerous situations where trauma bonding can occur more easily and makes it hard for them to leave. Did you even read the comment I was responding to? NVM, here's your chair🪑.

[@reggaefan2700]

He was the top dog.

[@Frazzled_Chameleon]

Ladies, any guy who wants to know where you are and who you're with at every second, and makes you leave your friends to be with him...is a HUGE warning sign. It's not "cute" that he's being "possessive". He's outright trying to control you.

[@larrycoleman9513]

as a guy I could have told you that. Stuff women think is cute is really crazy.

[@bonnielee7559]

My friend is in this situation at the moment but she doesn’t want to leave I’m concerned for her. Maybe she thinks she can’t leave.

[@icequeen491]

Please say it Louder cause it’s erking to see grown women covered in smiles when their bfs or husbands are monitoring them and they think “oh he’s just missing me ☺️” Yeah I bet…

[@ErickaKayy]

I know this all too well.

[@joshuahoffman6798]

it's not just men who do this.... I was with a female who did this.

[@rebeccaboner9114]

As someone who’s been in a relationship as this. The dad was just trying to be supportive. These situations can be very tricky and if you try to force the person who is being abused if they aren’t ready to leave yet you can end up pushing them away. He did what he felt was best ❤️ don’t blame the father for how he reacted to the situations blame the monster who took his daughter

[@ChanelNJ]

🎯🎯🎯 Well said & 100% correct!

[@Tardisbabe92]

So true!

[@humanbeing2420]

Thats true, but it seems as though he missed or ignored some serious red flags in the early stages of the relationship.

[@waynepolo6193]

@@humanbeing2420what could he have done different?

[@wendyHew]

oh did you go out with a foreigner too?

[@simoneolivero5322]

Man the dad really held his own while explaining his side of the story. I feel so bad for him. And his whole family and her friends of course

[@evelina787]

Yes i ws completely surprised to not see her Mum spe@k Might be much too painful for her, God bless them It's just unbelievable what can happen & in this day n age where theres so mny c@mer@s around, just why & how? 🙏

[@Vixinaful]

Why? He had ONE job which was to protect her and he didnt even do that. Hes not a man but a mouse.

[@larrycoleman9513]

Why didnt you protect her. The dad probably should have been did something about it though. Only women think stuff can play out atleast men know ppl dont change

[@kina18]

@@Vixinaful My dad would have beat the hell out of him.

[@kina18]

@@larrycoleman9513 Plenty of men stay with awful women hoping they will change.

[@roblockhart8410]

Ladies!! If your on a girls night and your boyfriend shows up you need to run! It’s something that all these guys do and it’s not normal at all….

[@gillianstapleton8566]

The thing is the other girls think it’s so cute he cares so much about you he is picking u up to take you home … in every incidents I’ve either personally had or or seen a friend go through it … it turns out toxic … there is nothing cute or nice about it … nor or millions of texts asking where you are & if your ok …

[@dmimz7691]

All these guys do? Most of my friends would beg their girls/wives to go out! they don’t ever do anything besides sit in the house.

[@Michelle-pc6gp]

As soon as I heard my daughters boyfriend say “don’t let them take you away from me” I would have known my daughter was in serious serious trouble.

[@cookie_dough_hangover]

Usually there's not much you can do if your daughter is an adult. There are many many cases like this, it so heartbreaking.

[@emiliyah8890]

That's the thing I Think these days there's a lot more to know to make you an adult.... The legal age for adult should be 31 nowadays! Twenties can be still like teenagers for some people. They still need major guidance from their parents I think or maybe that'd just me....

[@OisO8]

@@emiliyah8890 agreed

[@kina18]

@Matthew Feldvari My dad would have broken the creep's fingers right then and there.

[@nowey2251]

Not only that but they literally saw him be abusive towards her at the bar and did nothing about it !!! The dad didn’t even confront the guy while doing it !! They just continue to let them have a relationship. I’m honestly floored

[@Ray-dv3nz]

I am a father of 5 daughters of my own and it’s only been over these last couple of years that the youngest 3 have got their own boyfriends. I seem to find myself being Mr Detective, firing questions off left right and centre in the hope that none of them end up with a monster like Hollie did. Just the thought of it brings a tear to my eye. I couldn’t imagine getting the news that Nick the father would have got. I say to you Nick that the face you put on for the world makes you an absolute Gem because inside I know you are gutted. The pain you have might ease a little over time but we both know it’s there for life. I know this because my younger brother was murdered.

[@calgal7828]

As the mother of two daughters I sympathize with you. It’s not easy, is it?

[@Ray-dv3nz]

@@calgal7828 No ma’am. I don’t think we are ever allowed to let our guard down. Once you know your kids are happy and safe. It’s time to start worrying about the granddaughters. So far I have 3. Haha 🔄😁

[@beasworld5155]

@@Ray-dv3nz so true

[@alinam5092]

As harsh as it may seem, if I were you, I would show the girls the videos from this series, I think it's extremely important for them to recognize the signs, to understand that such things can happen to anyone, and that parents who intervene in children's relationships only want the best for them (because sometimes those involved in relationships like this can't recognize the danger).

[@larrycoleman9513]

@@Ray-dv3nz what do you think these women and girls see in the men? Maybe the men are putting on a perfect mask?

[@CJLOVE23]

Always look into your new partners past, ladies! This was so scary. This guy shouldn’t have even been walking the streets let alone be able to find a new victim

[@heatherwilliams2565]

Yes I agree with you but where was the justice with letting this man walk the streets with the background he had ?

[@genevabecker8441]

Unfortunately, you can't always find out about their past...

[@chloesmith7504]

Is there a website where can search up peoples past partners or something?

[@samantham8696]

@@genevabecker8441 In the US any arrests are public record.

[@neongirluk]

@@samantham8696 Not in the UK sadly

[@PaperMario64]

Narcissists are always charming and good with the gab, until the mask comes off and you see the demon underneath. ALL WOMEN need to learn the red flags of a malignant narcissist. No one is immune to these predators. It doesn’t matter how smart, successful or tough you are. Predators learn their prey and they adapt to become whatever gets their foot in the door.

[@SunnyDeee]

Perfectly said, this is exactly what they do... And they look for people with kind hearts and who believe in other people, unfortunately. They always look to destroy good people, SOBs.

[@candycanes7581]

Insidious creatures, the grandiose ones are obvious, the ones with the covert behaviors are harder to detect.

[@HellBelle666]

Thing is as an ex survivor of a very abusive relationship, you really dont realise its happening. As it will start off as 1 slap or 1 hurtful sentence that you forgive, which then snowball over time into some sort of abusive everyday. Even if you do know about the red flags, you still dont think they apply to your relationship. I think raising awareness of CLARE'S LAW, so potential partners can check every on, early on in a relationship would be a good start. That way there are no mixed up thoughts of is it? or isn't it? an abusive relationship involved, its there in black & white and you cant dispute those facts!

[@candycanes7581]

@@HellBelle666 - it’s the old adage of you being the frog in the pot of water. The heat is turned up ever so slightly and before you know it, you’re boiled and dead. Awful experience with narcissists too! Keep progressing in your journey! We do heal, but they won’t ever change. More people need to become aware of that.

[@starlingswallow]

Exactly. Was married to one for 14 years and got out and safe. Moved far away. Now I believe one of my bosses is one 🤦🏻‍♀️😱 Equipping myself with boundaries is good and I don't see him a lot, but the other day he pretty much explained to me how he can read people, their strengths and weaknesses....and how it's how he can know how to get them to do what he wants. Said his wife asked him if he does that to her and he responded with an, "no pumpkin....not at all." 🤯🤯🤯🤯 Oh boy. When people show/tell you who they are: believe them.

[@deepsouthNZ]

These people who commit these hideous crimes should never be released and they should be working in quarries breaking rocks

[@wizzardofpaws2420]

LOL that's actually a great idea.

[@reggaefan2700]

He was the top dog.

[@lkanzenbach]

It used to be that way until it was considered inhumane punishment. It seems the criminals nowadays have more rights than the law abiding citizens.

[@JupiterJamie]

This is a great series and brings light to the subject. Stalking needs to be taken more seriously.

[@guavaB52]

Watching this made me realise what a lucky escape I made. I dated someone who wouldn't let me leave the room without him worrying I was cheating. I had to leave my phone with him when I went to the kitchen, the bathroom, etc. It was a nightmare. So often, these types of monsters will tell you how beautiful you are and how much they love you.

[@Happyhippy70]

I didnt even have a bathroom door. He took it off. I had to sneak out while he was napping. The only thing not bruised on me was the bottom of my feet. I wanted to kill him, jail is not worth it. He went blind in the end. Gods good, I have a great life.

[@JD_Partner_LawOfficesOfHnG]

Did he leave you alone eventually? How long did it take for him to stop contacting you or reaching out?

[@guavaB52]

@@JD_Partner_LawOfficesOfHnG I was so impressed that he was a soldier who had fought in Afganistan twice, as my family was military too. I trusted him. But I soon realized he was a raging alcoholic and had severe PTSD. As an empath, I figured I could help, and being a medical professional, I did try, but to no avail. He was so paranoid, and eventually it turned violent. Once it became physical, I finally called 911, and they arrested him. I felt so bad calling, even though I was the victim. No, he never forgave me for calling the cops. I haven't heard from him. Heaven help the next woman who tries to help him.

[@starb0rn]

How does one get arrested 23 TIMES and NOT go to jail for like 10 years?!?!

[@bridgetgress]

Being arrested and convicted are two different things

[@FrederickTheGrt]

The bad boy. I'm starting to get butterflies too.

[@Monk-eee]

I will never understand what makes someone think that they have the right to end someones life for ANY reason...... ever

[@naui_diver9290]

Well then youve never been in a life and death situation..EVER

[@abyysswalkerr]

Well there are reasonable reasons to kill someone like in self defense but of course otherwise I get your point.

[@thepowerman8952]

@@naui_diver9290 Obviously not what she meant.

[@regionalrange3052]

You lived a priveliged shelted life....

[@CJLOVE23]

They just can’t handle rejection. So scary

[@oliviamartini9700]

Being a hairstylist on a cruise liner sounds like a dream job! I can't believe she "jumped ship" to be with that demon. Wish I could advise all young women that a man isn't worth giving up an opportunity to see the world on a terrific adventure - but they probably wouldn't listen.

[@IwasBlueb4]

it depends on the man

[@oliviamartini9700]

@@IwasBlueb4 As tired as this cliche is: if he's worthwhile, he'll wait.

[@savprimus8429]

Did she met him on a cruiseship?

[@saraliburd7752]

She was trauma bonded-he already had groomed and conditioned her😭😭😭

[@saraliburd7752]

He didn’t love her -he’s a narcissist -they don’t love-they just want to control-people are just objects to them

[@Brind-amour]

I can only imagine what Holly's parents and sister are going through, they raised such a sweet person. Watching that father's pain broke my heart.

[@jenniehudson5742]

So so sad:-(

[@jenniehudson5742]

He looks like an aggressive bully

[@thepowerman8952]

@@jenniehudson5742 Just the kind of guy women go for, basically. Look at these stalking videos! It's all good-looking bad boys!

[@IwasBlueb4]

@@thepowerman8952 id NEVER like a creep like him....and u call him good looking? Hes vile

[@jenniferlehman326]

Having been a Paramedic, I've seen this scene too many times to count. But to her family and friends, Holly is not gone. Her Love for you, and your love for her lives on in your hearts. Wherever you go, she is. The lives she touched, be it for the few minutes while she was cutting their hair, or the friendships and love of family carry on. So her love lives on. She is Always Remembered, Never Forgotten with Dignity, Integrity, Respect and Honour. Love from a former Paramedic in Ontario, Canada, Jenn. 💖 💖 🇨🇦

[@dem.windsor93]

I'm from Ontario Canada 🇨🇦 happy to see another Canadian! 😀

[@maddydow1217]

What a lovely message. I'm also from Ontario 🇨🇦❤

[@catman8670]

Sorry, she’s gone

[@samanthagormley6481]

Beautiful message from wales 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿 uk ❤️

[@alex_x_x_6]

Unfortunately once you get involved with one of these guys its already too late. They dont just go away quietly

[@Mws556]

That's where your "cleaner" comes in😏

[@FrederickTheGrt]

So lucky to have another bad boy. I'm starting to get butterflies too.

[@Taki_Rad]

RIP Holly ❤️🙏 these men always seem to go for those of us women who are so loving & giving. Pure souls. My ex was emotionally abusive but the day he punched me in the face & left me unconscious on the tiles, is the day all my love for him died & I felt dead inside. It’s the most demoralising situation to be in, a vicious cycle. I’m so glad I survived but many don’t. Thoughts with Hollys family & friends xxx

[@chereeharder3871]

Exactly, abuse does that, & one should never forget that. Be strong so that you never ever experience that again! I was fortunate as well!

[@geminijohnson4019]

I'm so sorry you went thru that.

[@berenisemendez5223]

My own brother punched me in the face and knocked me to the floor when I was 15. Now he’s 31 and abuses his girlfriend physically and mentally every other week to where she needs medical attention but she refuses. My niece gets whooped and yelled at a lot by him to were she shows signs of PTSD at 3 years old. The girlfriend allows him to do that and is just as manipulative and toxic as he is because she gets physical too and controlling. They both need to loose custody of my niece and both go to jail. I have a younger brother 21 that is going through the same thing but this time, ironically he is the one getting abused by his girlfriend. She tried to run him over with a vehicle and now she sits in jail pregnant by who knows. On New Years 2022, me and my mom tried taking the time to get him help and talk to him about his decisions being in an abusive relationship but all it did was him still defending his girlfriend and eventually he started insulting me and my mother. He ended calling the cops on me for harassing him, cops knew it wasn’t serious because he ran inside the house to hide. The next day I woke up with bruises all over my body and black eye don’t know what happened. Make it make sense. I’m done dealing with people that don’t want too seek help in abusive relationships. I decided to cut my only 2 brothers out of my life this year 2022. My condolences to the family of Ms. Holly. Jelena Im glad you were able to realize sooner than later.

[@cookiesnmilk9200]

my two ex's were abusive, my husband would stab me, rape me, beat me for 13 years before I left. Then my second ex kicked me in the back with steel toe shoes and I was knocked unconscious . When I woke up lying on the bathroom floor he was stomping on my head repeatedly. I'm now with a good man who treats my like a queen for the past 12 years. I'm lucky to have survived. We are warriors and I'm happy you survived it as well. Yes R.I.P Holly xxx

[@trentcruise3084]

Mixed relationships never work.

[@TheLadycountry]

So sad, for Hollie, the family. That man who killed her, who professes to love her, only wanted to control her, just terrible

[@jesystar]

Her dad in this situation was too nice! My dad would've stepped in as soon as he saw he was being abusive towards me in front of my family.

[@Pirike74]

I agree. If not her dad, then her friends or someone should have/could have stopped this, and she would be still alive. People in this video seem to be very relaxed, even after her death, describing what happened. Surreal.

[@Pureevilhotsauce]

He came across as a total pu$$y

[@shanghaichica]

The dad may also have been afraid. The scumbags own family and friend’s did nothing when he was violent to her at the carnival.

[@humanbeing2420]

I think he was far too passive in the face of clear red flags. Yes, his daughter was an "adult" - but those of us who are his age know that a 20-year old is still basically a clueless kid. He could have done more to try to exert influence over the situation.

[@Lady.Fern.]

@@Pirike74 blaming the wrong person

[@cateb.l5343]

It's so important to share these stories. Friends and family need to call the police on their behave if necessary. This happens far too often. What a wonderful father.

[@candice_ecidnac]

FYI you mean "on their behalf" but you wrote "on their behave"

[@garnettebrown9254]

It saddens me and angers me how the stalker has all the rights and the victim has to just fend for themselves. Such a beautiful light murder way to soon without realizing her full potential. I pray her family and friends can always remember how she was before this horrible tragedy.

[@DaniHMcV]

I was in a very abusive relationship when I was in my late teens. I’m lucky to have survived it, no exaggeration. I want to help anyone I can avoid the physical and mental torture I did, and save a life if it gets to that point. If you meet someone you like, don’t assume they’re a good person. Look into their past and present. Ask people you know if they know anything about this person. Check them out on social media and the internet. If they’ve been charged with a crime, there should be a mention somewhere online. Ask about their family. If someone knows they’ve been raised in an abusive home, be careful. The abused can, and often do become abusers themselves. Do your research into this person. We almost always do more research on a second-hand car we’re interested in than we do on people who we invite into our homes or who invite us into theirs. It’s no different than placing your faith in almost complete strangers. We would never do that, right? We’re very wary of things like hitch-hiking these days but what’s the real difference with getting into the vehicle of someone we may have met a few days earlier? I know it’s hard when emotions are involved but this is your life. Please, find out everything you can about someone before you ever enter their homes or their vehicles and be alone with them. It very well could mean the difference between your life or your tragic death. ((hugs))

[@faystalker5711]

I am the same was in abusive relationship you end not trusti ng a man also you don't believe them that s the way feel they are gd men to they are also violent anyone getting abuse get out dont stay for kids say if you keep going back your just hurting yourself get for you and your kids sake they are woman aid they help you well and my advice its dont go back keep yourself safe and your kids bruises can go away but your mental state stays for while and its hard trust i hope me and your advice might help someone gets out of abuse

[@cocanut6446]

🙏🏾❤️

[@jamiekensington1155]

I mean that's not really fair though you can't assume that because someone was raised in an abusive home that they will be an abuser themselves... I was raised in an abusive home and I have vowed not to put my son through that as well. I will admit i have stayed single the whole time however, and he's now 16, bc I'm so scared of letting someone into our lives that will cause chaos and turmoil.

[@faystalker5711]

@@jamiekensington1155 i never meant way but its not fair to let see that women or men make on decisions to stay or go thats thier choice my opinion is if you stay in it yourself inflicting your self but women or men shouldnt let their kids go thru it we all make gd and bad choices i myself dont really trust but we all different they are good men and good women out thier its just learning trust again i only giving opinion might not right for someone else we all have different opinions i hope it helps someone even just person to help them get out of abuse then my opinion helped someone they dont listened or take advice that thier choice

[@jamiekensington1155]

@@faystalker5711 I hear you and I see your point. I want trying to be argumentative ... I guess it just struck a nerve with me because I already feel labeled in so many ways and it's like just because I grew up a certain way doesn't mean I'm going to be that same person as my parents are/were. Just a lot of tough stuff going on right now

[@tamt5846]

This story breaks my heart. She was sooo beautiful and charismatic. I am so sorry for everyone’s loss and pain. 😢💔

[@michaelmichael1225]

💔💔💔💔 I feel very sorry for the family. He was evil but I don’t understand UK laws at all. In my opinion UK most change few laws for criminals and make sure they don’t see the light at the end of the tunnel like America.

[@marjorjorietillman856]

These men come with ALL their hidden dysfunctional ways, and then let loose on these women. They hold them hostage by threatening them if they no longer accept their dysfunctions. We expect it in countries where women have no rights, but now it’s at epidemic levels in the western countries. My heart goes out to this beautiful woman and family. The US has the same problem. Even men who cheat are murdering women that tries to leave them.

[@morgan8274]

Ladies NEVER give up your dreams for these men. I wish she had stayed on that ship 💔

[@Saleigh]

How can someone with a record sheet of 22 pages get a security Guard job

[@ThePrincessnady1]

Incompetence

[@emmm_4465]

Seeing the tears in her dad's eyes was heartbreaking. RIP x

[@intentionallyqueen.478]

Hollie was simply adorable! She looked just like her dad!

[@harpsailorharp6716gg]

slightly creepy comment ...

[@intentionallyqueen.478]

@@harpsailorharp6716gg Wow! As a mother with a daughter, I assure you, that the creepiness was the narrative you created in your mind.

[@evelina787]

@@intentionallyqueen.478 rest @ssured i don't think theres anything at all creepy re what you st@ted God bless you Mny folk sy their d@ghters are the im@ge of their father s Nothing weird re this whtsoever God bless you 🙏

[@ry.butterfly]

@@harpsailorharp6716gg not creepy at all... only creepy thing is you

[@Peacefully-Happy-86]

I agree she was such a lovely soul 💖

[@quietsouls7461]

You can see the amount of picture frames in the dads background. Can’t imagine the pain and loss he went through.

[@nowey2251]

The dad is awful . He did nothing to protect his daughter. He had so many chances to help her and showed her abuser he did not care to get involved. Her killer abused her in front of the dad and he did nothing about it

[@cherrytraveller5915]

@@nowey2251 typical keyboard warrior. Blame the murderer and only the murderer. Leave her father alone.

[@nowey2251]

@@cherrytraveller5915 yes typical of you loser

[@prachi5899]

I love the the entire presentation of this story, background score , narration and enactment. Sad for the loss of such a promising girl..

[@anjou6497]

Very well narrated and put together, with great respect to Hollie and her family. 💖

[@alliecakes9925]

This is embarrassing to say, as I look back, but do u know it took me to have my jaw broken by my "boyfriend" to finally get up the courage to leave? To this day I have a metal plate in my face and I'll be the first to say that it's HARD to leave an abuser.

[@nickbriwamsley1608]

You are amazing. Never go back. You deserve to be cherished, safe, and happy. Take care of yourself.

[@alliecakes9925]

@@nickbriwamsley1608 tysm, that means a lot

[@keymareese5074]

I respect your strength and courage it is hard people are so quick to judge I use to watch my mother as a little boy getting beat up on a regular basis from my father and my sister would run in the bedroom and cry I would stand there and watch and when he was finished beating her I would wipe the blood away from her mouth and tell her it will end soon and it did when I was 13 years old I came close to taking his life but god had a different path for me. But I can imagine as a woman what you was going through keep being that strong beautiful woman that you are.

[@DiabolikalFollikles]

Do NOT be embarrassed. Quite the opposite. You are a VICTOR, not a victim. You are courageous. Tenacious. Brave. You might have been suffering from Battered Womens Syndrome. The abused find it hard to leave their abusers because of one or more reasons: she may feel as if she can’t find another partner, she may be economically dependent on him and/or with children, psychologically co-dependent, she may have been abandoned and don’t want to abandon HIM, terrified of striking out on her own, afraid of being BLAMED for the abuse, etc. Battered Womens Syndrome is a CLINICAL psychological and emotional illness. So please. NEVER feel embarrassed. You did NOTHING wrong. All fault lies with your abuser. You are nothing less than phenomenal. 🦋 ✊🏻✊🏼✊🏽✊🏾✊🏿 👑

[@alliecakes9925]

@@DiabolikalFollikles tysm for your kind words. I took every word you said to heart. You made a difference. 💜💜

[@Maxy_9090]

Im crying for Hollie & her family😥💔..This creep was a pure evil monster!! These killed by my stalker videos are heartbreaking and horrible..Hollie was a beautiful female with her whole life ahead of her, she seemed so awesome and amazing, always having different hair styles & colors shows me just how amazing & beautiful she was..Her father is very strong hearted & willed, to turn the most painful thing in his life into something so positive and memorable is truly special ❤

[@NaomiGold]

Seeing her dad do the skydive in honor of her broke me! :( rest in peace sweet Hollie! xo

[@Peacefully-Happy-86]

Yes i know what you mean, very heartbreaking knowing the pain the family has went through but he could still get the strength in his heart and be strong to do such a lovely thing in honour of hollie 💖

[@anjou6497]

What a lovely Dad. The hell he went through. I hope with all my heart he and his family don't blame themselves. It really is a sad, horrific sign of the times that too many nutters with violent records are allowed to prowl. Shocking. May Hollie rest in peace. ⚘️💖

[@owen8510]

My ex stalked me mercilessly for over 11 years, it wasn't until the law changed did the police finally give him restraining order. Some of the incidents was as followed; Hiding in brushes, following me home, hiding in my garden, climbing through my bathroom window, going to my friends and family. Following me in his car, following me around the shops, finding out my location if I was out with my friends, hiding in the collage bathrooms (he didn't attend collage) smashing the window on my doors. Every time I called the police they would move him on and many would even tell me, "he just fancys you." It changed my life, and even after years of it finally stopping I suffer with anxiety, when the front door is knocked I have a panic attack and think I need to hide.

[@rahuldahoob4513]

Shocking! The police in the UK (assuming you are in the UK) are useless when it comes to dealing with stalkers

[@owen8510]

@@rahuldahoob4513 yes, I'm in the UK, west midlands. A woman died from her ex stalking her and the law changed and the police had a lot of pressure to change things. He had been in my garden again when the neighbors called the police and then finally they agreed he needed a restraining order. But honestly it had already changed my life.

[@icequeen491]

Oh my! The UK Police are Sh***. I honestly wanna move back to Canada, you can’t be messed with there. You feel so safe as a woman

[@browneyez7500]

I’ll never understand why someone gets so obsessed so quickly. 3 months & he showed his true colors. RIP Hollie. Too bad the man in the salon didn’t try to intervene

[@leoroberts3974]

@Brown Eyez it's because of the fear of losing their partner , its rooted in an insecure attachment style.

[@petepeterson8]

A guy with a 12 inch knife is in a rampage and your saying why didn't the customer intervene ? Am I clear 🤔

[@ivydickson7596]

Coercive control. Nothing to do with love. Don't want to lose the control they think they have over this person.

[@peaceofmindofpeace1650]

​@@leoroberts3974in this case it was also pure hate and envy from this creep towards any girl he crossed roads with.

[@markbaz]

Arrested 20+ times by the time he was 21 years old⁉️HOW WAS HE NOT IN PRISON OR ON PROBATION! If he was in the states he would have definitely had a probation officer with a quarter of that amount of charges!!!

[@michaelmichael1225]

Indeed 💯 UK 🇬🇧 politicians needs fix the law before anyone innocent girls get killed by a monster again.

[@andrewphillips470]

Doesn’t say how many times he was convicted

[@CJLOVE23]

@@andrewphillips470 Umm.. yes it does

[@skurinski]

Liberal laws protect criminals, especially if they're a minority

[@einienj3281]

I'm going to do a background check, if I ever feel like dating again..

[@Rypatriot]

Right…😬

[@donnagpalk912]

I'm done...

[@einienj3281]

@@donnagpalk912 I thought so too, when I got married, but he died 2 years ago.. at the moment I am not considering about dating at all, but You never know, I'm only 40..

[@Rypatriot]

@@einienj3281 My last relationship was short and horrible.

[@einienj3281]

@@Rypatriot I'm sorry to hear that.. mine was 22 years and loving..

[@nikkicollins4315]

Such a beautiful, beautiful soul! I'm also a hairdresser, and to see the work she created at her young age, is impeccable! May Hollie rest in the sweetest peace, and may her family and friends forever keep their precious memories going! ❤

[@chrisspearline767]

I'm a security guard and I'm wondering how he got hired at security being arrested 23 times

[@borleyboo5613]

I was in an abusive ‘relationship’ and he used to humiliate me in front of my family, his family and friends. He was a horrible drunkard as well. Thank God I got out and now live very happily alone with my two beloved cats. Animals are much better than people.

[@apusapus9375]

Exactly ! I'm a happy Single since 7 ys now. And my 2 tomcats.

[@ebonyrose4511]

Love how the father has dealt with his tragic loss.

[@kenmoumin9372]

A father would have taken the guy out, not run to a safe house.

[@Valentina-Steinway]

He’s amazing. I couldn’t …..;(

[@TraceyMariexx]

@@kenmoumin9372 As I watched I thought 'How sweet are her family' My Dad would have gave him his last rights. Though I doubt any dad reacting with violence would have stopped him, the law can't even stop scum like this. RIP Holly 💜

[@kenmoumin9372]

@@TraceyMariexx I don't know but it just infuriates me when I see it and no one took charge and helped her.

[@TraceyMariexx]

@@kenmoumin9372 i can imagine the dad and anyone who knew and loved her feels the same way at times. I truly believe that no one nor anything was going to stop this freak from taking her life :(

[@showmevids1984]

The people blaming the father for apparently not protecting his daughter are callous and beyond classless, seriously put yourselves in his shoes he tried doing whatever he could to help, I’m sure he felt helpless, he clearly loved his daughter and to question that is beyond trashy. Not all men are protectors in a physical way, he did what he did to protect his daughter and put yourself in shoes and imagine how he feels knowing his daughter was killed that way . . Seriously to attack a clearly decent man who’s lost his daughter in that way is so so so low

[@Rosieroze97]

I have SO many guys that are after me and wanting to meet up and I ABSOLUTELY DO NOT meet them. I’m overly paranoid because ANYTHING is possible no matter how much you think you know the person.

[@BlytheWorld1972]

Her friend with the long dark hair is a lovely soul i would be so happy if i had a friend like her .

[@HellBelle666]

Living in a physically and mentally abusive relationship for 16 years, which I didnt know was so toxic until I finally left in 2000, even though everyone else around me could see it. As I knew his threats of killing would eventually become reality and I left (when he was in work) for the sake of my children. It Makes me so, so SAD that this keeps happening over and over again!!!!!!!!! With all the technology we have today, we definitely need some sort of register that partners (men and women), can check to see if their potential partner has ever been involved in abusive relationships in the past. IVE JUST CHECKED: and there is CLARE'S LAW (SEE BELOW), this needs to become more widely known about.

[@angelking5836]

Horrible! He was a demon posesed sicko! I'm so sorry for the families and friends loss.

[@moanahughes3593]

CHARMING...big red flag 🚩, seems to be major tool in the bag of these predators!

[@mightymouse1005]

Covert narcissist are not charming, they're usually quiet and shy acting. They are the most insidious

[@bpford]

Damn man Hollie was such a beautiful girl who was taken away because a dude couldn't accept NO, and walk away like a man

[@VicTheFigGuy]

Arrested 23 times at his age?! How long were each of those sentencing? How was he out and about? That is crazy.

[@Muaythai.19]

Being arrested and convicted are two different things

[@lorim2000]

😢 For every unfortunate girl this has happened to, there’s 100 more who have been so close to a similar fate. Tragic. 😞

[@Jammo1978]

Got 2 daughters myself and nothing on earth would be more devastating thankfully they're with decent lads RIP GIRL. 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@davieboy666]

Just a complete nutcase.. Makes you feel sick to do that to such an obviously humble lovely girl and you can tell she never even wanted to get anyone in trouble by reporting it.. Heartbreaking

[@sarcasticallyrearranged]

That’s one of the reasons why the abusers escalate. The victim doesn’t want to report them and it shows the abuser they can do whatever they want without consequences.

[@AMultipolarWorldIsEmerging]

This is the second episode in a row where a security guard ends up being a violent stalker. Ironic a bit isn’t it ? People who end up as security guards are clearly highly controlling with a violent or impulse for violence - tragic case!

[@DodongoManoof]

Mama mia, papa pia!

[@itwasagoodideaatthetime7980]

Not all security guards are complete psychopaths. I dated a security guard & he was (& still is) a complete & utter gentleman. Even my Nanna, who is more critical of my boyfriends than my Mum is, loves him. We dated for 4 years & it ended on very good terms. He is still a good friend & when a former ex of mine. Started getting rough & hitting/abusing, me he stepped in to protect me. He & his fellow security co-workers helped protect my family & I from my ex until his trial. & when he (my ex) was deported they made sure. That the police put him on the plane out of the country. That was 10 years ago & he (my security guard ex) still checks in on/with me once a week to make sure I'm safe & ok. He says I'm like a little sister to him & he doesn't want to see me hurt ever again. My ex the (security guard) has said if my abusive ex *EVER* shows up or threatens me or my family again. That he'll step up & take care of things make sure that we're all ok.

[@temporarilyimmortal795]

Wow, 2 confirmed crazy security guards!!! As compelling as your evidence is, security guards come in 3rd for most killed on the job.

[@lapinchechismosa]

Cops yes, security guards are usually pretty chill; women: never date a cop

[@denisescudder6940]

Not true

[@maddiehasyoutube]

What an amazing father, family, and friends she had. Such a shame he was arrested 23 times and was able to live freely. It makes me so sick that most of the time someone has to lose their life for the scum bags of society to be put away for good.

[@theembersinside1420]

Classic Narcissistic abuse, obvious physical & mental abuse. It's so hard to recognize or do anything about when you're blindsided & manipulated like that. So sad. Be safe everyone. ☮

[@leeyaferguson9019]

RIP HOLLIE AND PRAYERS TO HER PRECIOUS FAMILY!!!!

[@Newport8187]

They should start a new agency you can call when a stalker get to crazy and they go out and render the staler e mobile by breaking there legs or citing they tendon so they can’t kill these poor woman.

[@bogdananderson1472]

Hopefully the big strong men in prison are obsessed about him. Especially when he gets into the shower.

[@almia5659]

So many cases like this. It’s quite depressing.

[@vexu7366]

"You just never think someone would do something like that" and that's the problem. People are capable of evil beyond our imagination. Unfortunately we can't control other people, unfortunately the laws and police don't take stalking seriously enough - it doesn't seem like anyone truly took this seriously enough. Leaving is the most dangerous time for a domestic abuse victim. Wish she'd never met him at all tbh. Most importantly I wish the police would have kept this animal behind bars where he clearly belonged. She seemed like such a wonderful, hardworking individual, with so much promise, who definitely would have gone places in life.

[@donnaturner4795]

Over possessiveness is not about love..its about control, which isn't about u, its about them...

[@jamesr1703]

I'll remember that the most dangerous person with a violent criminal record is the "security guard" in the room.

[@Chozenfew73]

seems that way, this is the second one i watched and both was security guards, it must make them feel in control too having that job.

[@johnindo6771]

I agree with you.

[@paigesattler4106]

Gosh I can feel the heartache that her friends and family have. So extremely sad

[@tobyihli9470]

Oh wow, their relationship had experienced such trauma in only 6-8 months? Sounds……EXHAUSTING!

[@ambarocuud9622]

l feel so bad for the dad. Imagine someone just taking your child's life just like that. I cant imagine the parents pain

[@marg233]

Court system failed Holly & family for allowing that killer too walk the streets 25 counts later & now this beautiful vibrant young girls life taken. Bless the Gazzard family 🙏 what a beautiful spirit has Mr Gazzard, bless him family & Holly's friends

[@rennigaderedd9483]

I did everything that I knew how to do,to get myself away from my abuser,and rescue myself, and my daughter, and I was 22. Here I am now, with extreme PTSD with anxiety, and I saw his picture, and I froze 30 something years later. I'm thinking about changing my name, and everything, because in my mind, I'm still running from him, and I'll always be running from him. I'm in therapy, but the nightmares are still there. I'm still afraid of closets, because I hid in one, to protect myself, and my daughter. Abusers don't care, and after you leave them, they still continue to abuse you, because I'm going to always be looking over my shoulder, making sure that I'm packing, that I have something on me to take care of myself with, that I'm not in a closed off area, etc... that's my life now. I had a terrific police officer and friends who helped me, and my parents helped me, and my therapist is the greatest, but the memories are to deep.

[@rennigaderedd9483]

@Jackfrost Thank you.

[@Zara-f7u]

I’m glad you and your daughter are safe take care ❤️

[@rennigaderedd9483]

@@Zara-f7u Thank you.

[@lnteIIigence]

I'm so, so grateful my sister found her husband. He's a lovely, caring, kind man and the whole family loves him too. Things could easily have been so different. It's all just down to chance really.

[@AISWIMING]

Unfortunately the parents were too naive and had a soft approach. Police usually don't take domestic seriously and they don't really go hunting to catch a person that have committed domestic violence until in this case is too late. Trust your gut feeling as a parent and as a teenager Don't be complacent and if something is wrong and you had a repeat behaviour then it is up to us parents to protect our children We can't rely on our children sorting out problems when you see fear in their eyes Very tragic 😥 😔 I wish he rots in jail and in after life

[@kewsiyehboah6058]

In some cases you have 2 take da Law into your Own Hands.. Restraining Orders. Just Won't Do.. All da Best MT..

[@larrycoleman9513]

we were all thinking that. you just flat out said it.

[@ThePrincessnady1]

And do what, idiot? Tie her up?

[@lilianhaggland2031]

@@larrycoleman9513 so true...

[@icequeen491]

Very Trueee, way too lenient

[@LucyRW14]

So upsetting. No one has any right to take someone’s life like this EVER. If someone doesn’t want to be with you, GET OVER IT. So so so upsetting rest in peace hollie I’m so sorry that this happened to you

[@donnagpalk912]

Love these...thank you💞 She looks beautiful in any color hair..Amazing RIP.🙏BABY GIRL😥 CONDOLENCES TO THE FAMILY AND FRIENDS 🙏💞🙏

[@petuniab.222]

I would have kicked him out of the dinner party and convinced my daughter to stay home

[@ThePrincessnady1]

What should they do, fool? Kidnap her?

[@drunkdadchronicles]

"i wanna take you out" context is everything....

[@heatherwilliams2565]

I can't believe all those people in the salon and no-one came to get aid

[@misskeirstin6355]

I’ve recently this year had to cut off a toxic years long relationship with help from the police. Constant threats, whenever I would beg for him to just leave me be he wouldn’t take no. I honestly felt stuck for a long time because he scared me. I finally had enough, he was arrested and I haven’t seen him since. I still find myself looking out my blinds, I work in a public place and I’m forever scared he’ll show. I’m so grateful though to at least have him out of my life.

[@kevphillips02]

He is a beast. He will probably be out by 2030. That is the value British justice puts on a life.

[@suzeelewis718]

When a true beauty meets the monstrous beast. Just evil.

[@sameerolail]

The sad thing about this, the stalker killer keeps happening. I mean there's a whole show about it.

[@EllenHughes-o5i]

This is such a sad story Ive been there more than a few times and luckily escaped but still overcoming it to this day the predators can sense our vulnerability from a mile away once you sense youre unsafe you need to get out of there whatever it takes rest in peace beautiful Hollie ❤

[@sharonharding3478]

Parents can warn their kids all they want ,but if they fall in love it's very hard to keep them apart no matter how much you try. Rest in peace holly 💔

[@pndgetsmewetter]

They didn’t try hard enough sorry

[@cherrytraveller5915]

@@pndgetsmewetter typical keyboard warrior passing judgement on someone you don’t know. Even worse you blame the father for what that horrible man did to his daughter. Victim blaming at its finest

[@pndgetsmewetter]

@@cherrytraveller5915 this video is proof that they didn’t try hard enough. Also I’m not a keyboard worry, I say it how it is..the truth hurts.

[@cherrytraveller5915]

@@pndgetsmewetter unless you have actually been in that situation you can’t actually judge. There is NO manual when it comes to stuff like this.

[@pndgetsmewetter]

@@cherrytraveller5915 you don’t have to be in a situation to judge it, common sense.

[@chandanederostek6206]

Such a beautiful woman inside and out. So sorry for her family and friends and also the community as well. He makes me sick!!!

[@faykouri1162]

Oh my gosh so tragic , such a lovely young girl who unfortunately got involved with a psycho!

[@AnimeShinigami13]

I hate when people make it the other person's fault that they got arrested or abused their partners. It makes me sick. I'm terrified of people like that.

[@sarcasticallyrearranged]

They’re perpetual victims and can’t blame themselves for their actions. It’s easier for them to blame the other person for the consequences.

[@AnimeShinigami13]

@@sarcasticallyrearranged I know that. I just find it repugnant and enraging.

[@rebeccaandrubyjohnston6657]

Hollie’s dad is telling her story so well but you can see the utter devastation in his eyes, trying to hold back the tears In order to tell his little girl’s story. ❤the part when he said he found out she had been killed and his first thought how do I tell her mother and sister? Truly heartbreaking x

[@angelswalking3839]

The most dangerous time is just when u leave your abuser…l remember my first two weeks after l left my abusive husband and how scared l was …luckily he was arrested for DUI..not far from my house and was put in jail…don’t know what might have happened that night if the police didn’t pull him over…RIP..Hollie ..