Woman Discovers Husband is Murderer Weeks After Marrying | Handsome Devils

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Paul Mack sweeps Margie Danielsen off of her feet in a shower of flowers and chocolates. Margie thinks he’s the one. But when she sees his picture on America’s Most Wanted, she realises her husband is actually a fugitive wanted for murder.
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[@bunnyfoofoo9695]

She sees that he's on America's Most Wanted, she has feelings of evil vibes coming from him, finds out that he is using a false identity..... But she decides to confront him and needs more evidence. Uh, what's wrong with this picture?

[@bunnyfoofoo9695]

@Julia Borisik Right.

[@elizabethparsons1071]

She's not very bright

[@frogluck]

She's in denial because she doesn't want it to be true

[@TTellin]

@@elizabethparsons1071 this story has so many ridiculous twists, I’m not even sure I believe it

[@chicagogyrl4846]

What’s wrong is that she is stupider than hell!!

[@Sdrawkcab_mi]

As soon as he refused to tell her where her kids were, that should've been it. Over. Right there

[@judijohnson5555]

Exactly!!!

[@taratimblin5150]

It was! She sent her kids away and got him!

[@DR-mq1vn]

Yep! I would have called the police as soon as he wouldn't tell me where my children were.

[@PinkyGirlstyle23]

Absolutely!

[@PinkyGirlstyle23]

she knew it was time to be strong for her kids?????

[@davidbarber9663]

There is a good book called The Gift of Fear which tells of listening to your instincts re these kind of men. I wish more women would read it.

[@timmojennings]

I wish I had sympathy for this lady she’s driving me nuts I think she’s as bad as he has used to be locked up for allowing a murderer around her daughters

[@shihsgiggles1948]

It is amazing to me that she did not get murdered. I never yelled at the tv so much.

[@paulinewangombe10]

Yep. I wanted to put my hands through the screen and give her a good, good, loving shaking.

[@districtnerfco.8390]

😂😂😂 seriously! This woman wanted to be killed stg!

[@ddonlee]

Me too ! I kept shouting: why are u so dumb af?

[@shihsgiggles1948]

@@Campfire30 see that’s what my biggest problem was. U can b a dumb ass on your own time but when you have kids.., you’re responsible for their welfare. I wouldn’t even let that man near my dogs (bc he’s sketch and I’m not that big of an idiot and don’t play helpless victim) But yeah she’s definitely lucky nothing happened to her kiddos! She gave that man every ample opportunity to kill them all.

[@shihsgiggles1948]

@@districtnerfco.8390 fr ! Or she’s literally the dumbest most gullible person I’ve ever seen. Hopefully she’s wisened up over the years…. Hopefully…

[@mom_of_2]

She saw evil in him afraid of him ... yet she married him 😵‍💫

[@AntoinetteJones-q9w]

YES😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

[@mia795]

Women are freaking delusional

[@joanodom2104]

No way would I merge my bank account with someone who had to pawn a freaking necklace.

[@tracyshaffer4510]

Most will agree with you, there’s always a few desperate women that do anything for a man. Hell No, not me!

[@glenw-xm5zf]

You would if you had the survival instincts of a DoDo bird. I believe God actually protected this woman

[@robogreek3157]

😆 😆 😆 😆 sometime I love hearing women's thoughts. 😆 🤣 😂

[@robogreek3157]

@@tracyshaffer4510 don't lie tracy

[@bamazing2731]

Thanks for the laugh….lolololol

[@sandbach7195]

Her intuition is actually really strong, she just wasn't good at listening to it.

[@annahappen7036]

Nailed it! That's why I actually really like stories like these being told because it helps people, women in particular, to realize how important it is to listen to your gut the FIRST time it tells you somethings off.

[@amanita1964]

Lack of knowledge. It was in the 80' when everybody was partying.

[@MaaThaRainbowGoddess]

I disagree wholeheartedly. She's as dumb as a box of rocks.

[@Andy-xx3tt]

It’s not even intuition, there was so much literally in front of her and she was just choosing to ignore it.

[@thisisme3238]

She was very naive and believed everything he said to her. Ignorance is bliss...

[@pamelaliegh]

She’s very lucky her daughters survived her time playing detective instead of calling Americas Most Wanted when it aired.

[@m1586]

@pamelaleigh Yes! You are absolutely correct! I still don't get her reasoning putting those kids in danger that way. 😎

[@anglofrancaiseyvonne9349]

And who knows, there might have a big reward for him, that she would have received if she called immediately

[@m1586]

@@anglofrancaiseyvonne9349 Great point!

[@laurawirtjes7225]

EXACTLY!

[@AbolitionistSocietyofTampa]

That was my FIRST thought, too! It was like DING DONG! Give the 2 social security numbers to America's most wanted and she would have had a confirmation if he was the killer!

[@ClassicCarCustodians]

Call me Sean Paul should be the main red flag right off the bat. Lol.

[@Coco-chrispy]

😂😂😂 right? Cuz Why he got two first names?

[@mv0921_]

Yeah lol

[@rosalyntillery6164]

Honestly 😂

[@mskerrykemp]

Its very common in Scotland and Ireland.. usually but not exclusively of catholic heritage ​@Coco-chrispy

[@Argeaux2]

Some people do have two first names. Sometimes they have a first name passed down from both sides of their family.

[@vivienhowe5028]

Seriously cannot believe the police wanted to wait until the following morning before making an arrest when there was NOTHING stopping them from doing so the second he came home from work. That is complete lunacy

[@bd6994]

I know !!! 😳

[@janedunnell2354]

😊08 Rl0

[@bernitacenteno1326]

A judge might the reason the police had to wait until morning. I don't know.

[@feanorian21maglor38]

That's what I was thinking. It's madness. What a risk to take with 4 innocent lives.

[@Doplar]

Agree. Surely there must be an emergency procedure for acquiring a warrant. If not there should be, like now. Letting this woman walk back into harms way, and leave her daughters in danger as well, was beyond irresponsible. Very lucky for them and of course for everyone concerned that they survived it. All of that drama caused by the police having to chase the guy down was beyond ridiculous. Could they not park their cars out of sight, ring the doorbell or knock normally on the door so as not to raise an alarm. Hopefully the police were willing to admit this to themselves after the fact.

[@annettecantu3826]

So she stayed with a man who wouldn't tell her where her children were Disgusting

[@Sigma2HisAlpha]

BIG FACTS

[@deliafredericks7578]

My thoughts exactly Very observant woman

[@HayleysComet3]

And made the comment, that’s what happens when you ask too many questions.

[@digitalwasabi2]

This woman has the IQ of a doorknob.

[@Campfire30]

@@sirmadam8183 You nailed it, she was attracted to danger and drama and victimhood. She deserved everything bad that happened to her, but I'm so angry on behalf of those innocent kids.

[@molliwilson5639]

I’d be really suspicious of his “ my whole family died” story. This woman is infuriating…YIKES

[@natalies4375]

It’s nice to have never been a victim isn’t it?

[@molliwilson5639]

@@natalies4375 I have been a victim you have no idea…. Be careful who you are talking to because you never know who you are speaking to . I will leave it at that.

[@robogreek3157]

@@molliwilson5639 only one way to solve this. WET 👕 CONTEST!!!

[@schrisdellopoulos9244]

@@natalies4375 that is pathetic.

[@victrola2007]

@@natalies4375 THIS is not a case of victim-shaming. Your comment is irrational. I'm a woman who had been through hell and know very well how evil partners (men and women for others) behave and there are many red flags that victims miss. This unsympathetic "Lifetime for Television" woman's decisions are ludicrous. Playing amateur sleuth and confronting him? 🤦‍♀️ All she had to do was send some discarded tissues, a used glass, ANYTHING to the authorities with a note that a friend thought that her new husband had a resemblance so here are some fingerprints on a glass he used. That's it! He was caught by fingerprints, FFS! If I was that woman's friend and thought that she couldn't, I would have paid a visit while he was out and picked those up. She could have snuck a peak/taken a picture of his driver's license, gotten info from HER bank about her own account co-signer. Putting him on her bank account at her age and with children is incomprehensible. Taking her to task for very specific decisions past a specific point is more than fair. The only extent of playing sleuth should have been just grabbing quick fingerprint and DNA. She didn't need a private investigator with a retainer with FBI/police at her disposal.

[@bjt81366]

She's a lucky fool. Three daughters, he's on America's Most Wanted for murder and she's literally playing games. If she wanted to know who he was, ask the police, they seem to know. She was really playing games.

[@lorrie9462]

The fingerprints thing is exactly what she should have done when she saw him on the most wanted list on tv. She could have spared herself all the things she put herself through for those weeks. She's alive out of sheer dumb luck

[@Ta_bella]

Spot on! The Sherlock Holmes arc was an idiotic thing to do. YOU run!

[@lilredscout]

what an idiot

[@MaznahItam]

Love is blind?

[@chefstravels8429]

And saved money on a private investigator.

[@honeyg3589]

This lady kind of frustrates me!

[@abusednomoresilence]

I never would have shown him the document! I would have turned him into America Most Wanted.

[@LATERZA00]

Kinda?

[@Mws556]

Not the words I'd use, but ya!😮

[@grangrampa832]

How frigin naive is she

[@marilynhendry2061]

Desperate for a husband and so needy

[@LifesPeachy321]

*UPDATE:* During his interview with "Charmed To Death," Sgt. Tim Bailey gave producers a shocking update: “I received a call from Paul Mack’s attorney, who represented him in California,” said Bailey. “And he told me that he wanted me, and he wanted, particularly, the family to know, that Paul Mack confessed to killing Annette Huddle before he died.” *Paul Mack died in prison in 2018. He was 75 years old.* Yay

[@tanyabrown9839]

thank God he died in prison. Someone like that should never be out.

[@user-cy4vw1qj9m]

Thank you for update.

[@VivianeVanTuyckom]

Good

[@robynnbryar1977]

Thank You for this update it should be pinned to the top of the comments.

[@queendevi2492]

Y'all don't know how many times i rolles my eyes in this episode.

[@RoseyTucker]

@queendevi2492 PLEASE: Use "You" NOT "Y'all", when talking, especially when writing. You is sufficient. Although it is commonly used online, the contraction of you + all, makes the speaker sound uneducated.

[@TheCeciD]

@@RoseyTuckerI’m sure they would consider that if writing an essay. This is just the internet so no big deal.

[@slosauss]

😂 me too! She just kept saying “I was so confused” 🙄

[@slosauss]

@@TheCeciD exactly! Why is anyone so concerned with someone you don’t know vocabulary!😂 I think y’all is cute!🥰

[@dinawink6818]

I do believe this woman is totally out of her mind if what she said is true. No sound person would risk their life, much less her childrens in this situation!

[@elainevarian8341]

There’s something seriously wrong with this mother! Who takes chances like that with young Children in the home??

[@ohioguy215]

YOU.

[@Karan-th8td]

Exactly right . Seriously wrong!

[@shirleymurphy1958]

Far too many now days. Blind too desire.

[@katbar6066]

Not only that I got sick of her trying to wipe away invisible tears like this was so upsetting recounting the story.

[@tarisotzendera6758]

Nothing wrong with her, love can blind you, marriage being the eye opener

[@zoundstreetop]

These were the red flags: Charming. Tragic background story. Lovebombing. “Missing family.” Moving too fast. Too many gifts. Refusing to take no for an answer. Entered house and breaking boundaries made to seem innocent. Hoovering after initial breakups. Daughter “killed.” According to sister, he was “perfect.” Planting the pawn ticket (yes that was a planned manipulation, he guessed correctly that she would snoop in his wallet). Takes over finances-financial abuse. Don’t confront psychopaths. So glad she survived.

[@MayThereBeWorldPeace]

Most who love bomb are not devious/murderers. It's not taking no for an answer🚩, calling her after she said it was over🚩, and all the rest that are huge red flags.

[@astrialindah2773]

And for God's sake once you find out he is the murderer you go back to that house for the night? At the very very least invite a friend over and say that they had nowhere else to go so they were going to spend the night.. my goodness sakes.

[@zoundstreetop]

@@MayThereBeWorldPeace everyone who love bombs is devious. It is in fact a manipulation tactic used by psychopaths and narcissists, which are both cluster b disorders. There is no love in lovebombing.

[@tangerinefizz11]

I once read a book called The Sociopath Next Door, which was written by a psychologist. She said that it was hard to tell early on whether someone was sociopathic, but she said that if someone tries to gain your sympathy or pity early on, you should take notice.

[@missmaggie2620]

Absolutely nailed every red flag that could be nailed.

[@WeAreN1nja]

@29:18... She took the pill. I am done. DONE, I tell you.

[@judelyons]

lol! I commented on the same thing… she’s nuts!

[@GeminiPrincess92]

Right! Talking about she was tired of hearing him tell her to take the pill. You're going to be TIRED, alright!!

[@beckygibney3762]

She leaves her girls’ daddy because they “got married too young,” but would not leave a man she sees on America’s Most Wanted? Curious

[@Authorised-q5s]

Females like her don't get many chances with males like that. She deluded herself out of desperation. You don't even have to watch it in full to see she is "ditzy" in ways.

[@Tweetycew1]

I know right??!!! Unbelievable!!! Not understanding this woman at all. She had 3 daughters. What was she thinking.

[@wev3860]

I thought it’s as you get older you become wiser but in this situation it’s as you get older your standard gets lower 😂

[@djg5950]

@@Tweetycew1 I looked this guy up and this story isn't how it really happened. Paul Mack was caught because a woman in Ohio recognized him on America's Most Wanted and then had seen the TV show about him being a chef at the restaurant. She called the tip line and told them he was in Salt Lake City. I'm sure this story is for her to "save face" about how naive she was. She was his 8th wife. The whole part about his capture is made up. She had nothing to do with it. Paul Mack died in prison in 2018 at the age of 75 so he never did get out.

[@Zippythewondersquirrel]

@@djg5950so this story is completely made up about how he got caught. She is pathetic enough that she tried to save face and be the one that saved herself and her girls. So sad.

[@gaslitworldf.melissab2897]

She repeatedly ignored her own suspicions. She let her desperation take over her decision-making. She's lucky to be alive and her girls are lucky also. It will never end, no matter how many stories are told, some predators will find an easy mark.

[@Lmlm8168]

It’s always the desperation. These women get so desperate that they let their own kids get victimized . She’s lucky THAT didn’t happen smh 🤦‍♀️

[@tuialak8754]

@@Lmlm8168 smh. Very gullible

[@bgtsy]

Naive AND smart. How many times do we all ignore the gut instinct?!

[@Lmlm8168]

@@bgtsy this is true . I don’t ignore anything anymore . Same with my husband, bc I’ve been right so many times. I say I feel weird about something or something is off or I think something might happen: we go with it lol.

[@lakegeneva1068]

The things he did initially that kept making her feel good kept causing a feel good chemical release in her brain and body, then the big letdowns, just like addictions do, which is why people often do get back together with someone like this, just like an addict slipping with an addiction, it may take many attempts to break free or it just might end their lives.

[@ladypoplollibug]

I'm sorry, but she is the most infuriating victim ever. She is ridiculously lucky that her and her daughters are alive. GO TO THE POLICE OH MY GOD.

[@ninap6893]

Agree hard to listen to her voice. Breaks into her house then she meets up with him?

[@chriskelly9476]

I'm sitting here shaking my head in disbelief. Red flag after red flag, alarm bells ringing and she still confronts him instead of going to the police. Swallows a pill he gives her, goes back home after learning he's a murderer... god almighty.

[@m1586]

@Tilly. Infuriating is correct! I don't know why she insisted on being a detective! Maybe she had a death wish 😎

[@m1586]

@@chriskelly9476 For sure! Maybe love really is blind 😎

[@GrandmaGrannyLuvs.....]

EXACTLY! And now wanna be victim.

[@bs-hl2ir]

Divorces a man she was 20 years married to because she got bored. Sees new husband on America's Most Wanted, learns he's a killer, but instead of calling the police and making sure her kids stay safe she plays detective for weeks, acts as if this killer wouldn't hurt them. What an idiot. She's blessed to be alive and that her kids were not harmed.

[@lyndseyfifield]

Back then we didn't have ANY technology like we do now - if you saw something on a *not remotely HD* tv you couldn't rewind or watch it again you had to hope for a re-run the next week. She said it DID NOT look like him on the show. So yes, she played detective. She also never once said she "got bored" of her first marriage, just that they married too young.

[@MummaMia5]

@@lyndseyfifield Thank you. I thought the same but didn’t know how to articulate it. Times were very different.

[@brigittaaebersold419]

I'm speechless...how many clues did this women need?

[@JohnCappel-bt9mx]

Ik

[@eslaubachel]

Exactly

[@thisisme3238]

My thoughts too... he's too pushy and controlling.

[@rubidiamond6921]

Clues dont work with no brain

[@chefstravels8429]

I think she couldn’t believe it.

[@hangoutwithme346]

Cops ‘Take your girls and leave, we will arrest him in the morning’ Wife ‘No, let me put myself in danger one more time, its kinda my thing’ 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@1fan689]

😂😂😂

[@errorace1420]

😂😂😂

[@lesliearno]

😂

[@flenzy]

Fantastic!

[@hollyyoung649]

right? get a hotel room somewhere and put a false name on the room for one night

[@QueenofZamunda2023]

Am I the only one who wants the $1500 deposit back from the investigator?

[@katedaphne4495]

😂

[@reneeallen9269]

This woman is crazier than the murderer!

[@deenman23]

ikr....it was painful hearing her talk

[@MoMotivation0304]

She's just slow 😂

[@pamelacorbett8774]

How many times can you be ‘confused’ and ‘shocked’ before you get it??

[@taylorpresley4604]

Many might think this lady is empathic but the reality is this is what codependency looks like. Codependency kills, sometimes slowly (putting up with an abuser and then u get heart disease or cancer from the stress) or it kills through a psychopath. This lady and her daughters are blessed to be alive, she ignored countless red flags. A good saying is "doubt your doubts." Blessings to all the single ladies out there trying to find "love." Love yourself first.

[@G.G.8GG]

Yes! Somebody gets it. When you are raised with the ingrained idea that your job is to please everyone else and rate everyone else's opinion above your own, you teach yourself to override your instincts. Your feelings can't be right because you can't possibly be right. That would be betraying your built in pattern. So - it takes repeated and high level red flags to make you act. And even then you feel guilty for going against him. Abusers know one the moment they see one.

[@susansmolen9741]

You mean don’t doubt your doubts.

[@ilse3887]

@@G.G.8GG yep! a predator knows its prey!!

[@RoseyTucker]

@taylorpresley4604 You said: "A good saying is: doubts your doubts". I really have to disagree. I'd say: "A good saying is: never doubt your doubts". Your doubts are your intuition. As women, we need to honour our intuition. It is there to protect us, not always from marrying a killer, but perhaps from getting involved with him in the first place.

[@ultimateoptimist5217]

It's severe codependency

[@jeanchampion671]

I feel if you think you need to hire a private investigator, you already know the answer

[@dianahill5116]

I was denied a restraining order, this year (2022). Very upset and scared.

[@laurastuart3814]

Not true. Emotions are not enough, there has to be evidence.

[@dianahill5116]

I agree.

[@Authorised-q5s]

😂

[@myusername3773]

I'm confused as to why she kept things going after he broke in and left workout attire in her home. Then she looks into his eyes and "all she saw was evil" and "felt more fear than ever"...and still married this man?! WTF? Was she THAT lonely? My god.

[@carolinemcgovern8059]

Also, it sounds like she was under pressure to be in a relationship?

[@bethoneybee]

Sadly a lot of people seem to need a relationship to be happy

[@jaquelinegonzalez3841]

I thought the same thing!!! He kept giving her red flags and she KEPT ON IGNORING THEM. My God, trust your instinct. Why would you keep putting yourself and your daughters in danger? Silly.

[@raphaellavictoria01]

She didn't trust her own feelings, is what the problem is, above all. Made her prone to believing him. Also, way too much empathy: empathy gone awry. The perfect victim.

[@casewojo6186]

She’s not smart.

[@sheilasmith7779]

She is a perfect example of dismissing her intuition in favor of what she wanted....to be with a man.

[@gregv79]

Sometimes it's better to be alone.

[@DorothyMNeddermeyerPhD]

Interesting commentary that women are held 100% for being in the wrong relationship or that she picked the 'wrong' guy. The lies and romancing the guy does isn't considered inappropriate or entrapment.

[@80sKitty]

It's hard to find the good ones when the evil ones are so many and manipulative.

[@mikemccormick9667]

​@@DorothyMNeddermeyerPhDWhen you have custody of minor children it IS 100% on you to ensure their safety.

[@ClaireKennedy06]

@@DorothyMNeddermeyerPhD the "LiEs AnD rOmAnCiNg" WHILE he showed those red flags were more than enough reasons for her NOT to go back to him. How many times did she say in this interview alone that she was scared of him? She KNEW! She had more than enough clues that she shouldn't have been with that guy but she KEPT choosing to ignore those signs & still went back to him. Not to mention she had minor children in her custody while she was dating the red flag. THAT alone should've been enough reason for her not to see him anymore. It's one thing to endanger yourself coz you kept ignoring your intuitions but having kids involved??? That's an entirely different matter. The fact that he BROKE INTO her house after refusing to receive gifts from her should've been the first & last straw. How can you still welcome someone into your life after that person broke into your house? That's not on the guy anymore, that's totally on the woman.

[@ellarazumi9508]

He was on the America Most wanted but the Police wanted to wait until the next day to get him?????

[@Mws556]

Strategy😂

[@ellarazumi9508]

@@Mws556😅

[@laurabernard2094]

That IS SCARY… The police are more disturbing than she is any day!!!!👎

[@peacheswilliams4539]

That's right, instead of HER sitting in that chair waiting for him to come home it should have been the police or FBI waiting for him to step in.

[@tj-8422]

As women, we need to *stop* ignoring red flags. Edit: before commenting "men too," check out the thread-- it's been addressed many times & I meant what I said.

[@TS-rd7oy]

Women ned to stop believing in the BS that is Prince Charming. A large percentage of males are, at heart, not very nice people who easily put on masks, especially in front of women. After 7 decades on this earth, this is what I have seen, and at times experienced. I worked in a male dominated field back in the 80s while in my 20s. What an eye opener! Male partners overwhelmingly unalive their female partner, or to a lesser extent abuse them once they get that ring on her finger. It seems to be getting worse, every single day, there is at least one story of a male killing a female, whether his partner or a stranger. Better to just have a child or adopt a pet if you need to love something.

[@synewparadigm]

Only woman?

[@whosaidthat9265]

@@synewparadigm seriously! Plenty of men are victimized by women who are the living embodiment of red flags just like this dude was.

[@jacksonogwindi1653]

Everyone, not just women .

[@synewparadigm]

@@whosaidthat9265 Exactly.

[@vivistoller]

As a mom I couldn’t fathom ignoring so much and letting this go on for so long before doing something. This woman is delusional she should have called the police as soon as she saw him on AMW. Honestly there’s no rationalizing her behavior that’s bad parenting. She’s lucky he didn’t harm the girls.

[@Quackzine]

Love is blind

[@KatieKat3]

@@QuackzineAnd dumb apparently. 😂

[@MariaHernandez-wh1qx]

I agree 100 %.

[@MariaHernandez-wh1qx]

Blind and dumb

[@MariaHernandez-wh1qx]

No one to Blame but your dumb self. I cannot continue to watch this.

[@marcidunfee6063]

This woman was not a victim! She willingly ignored every sign and then willingly married him. Well, I guess she’s a victim of her own stupidity. 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@DiAnaPadill]

For real though. The amount of red flags he gave her was unbelievable. Still she married him and brought him to live with her and her girls. Like she is so lucky after everything nothing happened to her or her girls. But lady how do you function in everyday life???

[@jayjoy331]

Haha! I completely agree.. people like this woman are willing to be ignorant. They actually make it extremely easy for predatorial men to take advantage of them.

[@allysonbricknall8808]

When you are involved in relationships with a con man. They are very convinsing in making you doubt yourself.

[@DiAnaPadill]

@@allysonbricknall8808 there's one thing about making you doubt but having a whole briefcase you locked from your spouse it's a big read flag!!

[@allysonbricknall8808]

@@DiAnaPadill I can't believe I was a victim of this kind of abuse. You have no idea how calculating and convincing these men are. My daughter has recently escaped a 14yr relationship with a guy like this, obvs not a killer. All her family could see it. He convinced her to stay away from us. They destroy you.

[@cwall3308]

He broke into her house and she still married him!!?? Incredible! Shame on her for putting her own wants above protecting her daughters.

[@madsdee7803]

true. And even when she knew who he was, she went around "investigating" knowing she'd write a book later and sell her story to TV networks...rather than calling the police. It's a more exciting story to sell.

[@cyndylynch5758]

This story sounds fake. I can’t imagine a woman being this naive.

[@jaydenp4975]

Some women are just lonely and will marry any man that shows interest. She should have called police after seeing him in tv but she chose not to.

[@josephinesosingot-raisanen6743]

at the very least breaking into my house is stalking....at maybe a teenage you could be dumb enough to see it as romantic but as an adult you should see it as it is ...dangerous boundary crossing...

[@differenttakethanmost]

Insanity

[@inquiringmind2852]

Can't believe she kept living in this situation with her children in order to investigate further. How much information do you need to know that this guy is dangerously toxic?!?

[@Nizhonibearcreek]

Well her first clue was him breaking into her home

[@shototodoroki4816]

Sometimes u play fool toget to the bottom if I show signs u Cld be next and gone

[@yahniqueedwards231]

And why did she continue to alert him if her findings?😑

[@victrola2007]

@@yahniqueedwards231 Because she has absolutely NO common sense. Her daughter's description of her bravery is really a sad case of cognitive dissonance. Her mother made countless terrible decisions that just escalated with severity of situation. It was all too mindboggling to hear.

[@nicoladavis580]

I am mad as hell with her for keeping her kids in that much danger.

[@wynterbreeze1202]

This woman has rocks for brains.

[@adventuresinlifemka1762]

If she has that much.

[@RonaldEarlWilsher]

Rock for brains? Nope. She’s insane, I think. But I could be wrong and you may be right.

[@jdstep97]

I still say she was desperate. And maybe he was that good a lover.

[@alanaadams7440]

Lol 🤣

[@sandrapisani9225]

@@jdstep97 I agree with you. This woman was lonely and desperate for a relationship - a man. She was very attracted to him. She did not want to believe he was a murderer but I think deep down, she knew he was. She played with fire there; it could have all gone very wrong - for her and her daughters. She did get him arrested though. Was he out of jail in 2015?

[@chuckwhitson654]

Shes lucky her Scooby doo detective work didn't get em all killed

[@phenomenalwife5380]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767]

😅😅😅😂😂😂😂

[@jenniferconley1192]

wow her daughters was young and she didn't even think to call the police when her friend said guy looks like husband and you find 2 social security cards. what more evidence? She took to many chances!!!!

[@twatts1523]

And why didn’t her so called friend call the hotline?

[@Marsand100]

She has doubts and fears but gives him full access to her accounts

[@jakeplonk888]

She’s pathetic

[@hislittlemrs.9235]

She saw evil in his eyes and married him with 3 daughters ? WTH lady?

[@DarlingWheresthecoffee]

He broke into her house and lied about having pawned a necklace.

[@JohnCappel-bt9mx]

Lol

[@JohnCappel-bt9mx]

This woman was hungry

[@sadebrown8129]

She kept a murderer in her house with her kids because she needed more proof as to who he really was?????????????????????????????

[@katedaphne4495]

Makes you wonder if this story is even real They love selling the fear you know

[@ninamenon]

​@@katedaphne4495The melodramatic dialog was hysterical 😂😂

[@KYONGEAGAN]

How desperate can women be to ignore truth right in your face?

[@lesiemehle1901]

The thing is you never notice when inlove

[@chefstravels8429]

Exactly.

[@l.w.paradis2108]

​@lesiemehle1901 Or maybe she believed men should lord over women, that men are superior to women. If it's between her suspicions and his words, his words come first.

[@ClaireKennedy06]

@@lesiemehle1901 i don't think she was even really in love. She just wanted to be with a guy. She got attracted to her own perception of him that she built in her mind.

[@Lmlm8168]

If you don’t meet ONE SINGLE FAMILY member, a friend, ANYTHING…🚩🚩. If they want to marry you after a few weeks ? 🚩🚩If they BREAK INTO YOUR HOUSE WHILE YOU ARE DATING 🚩🚩 This woman is lucky her daughters survived. And weren’t victimized. Ladies & gentlemen. Please . Learn from these situations .

[@carolynhearn7087]

What the hell she went to the jail…there is something seriously wrong with that woman…why didn’t the police hide in her house that last night??

[@ivetteguada600]

I am so impatient with this victim. Doesn’t she have any common sense? Didn’t she have a gut feeling about this situation? How desperate can women be to ignore truth right in your face?

[@olgaliza]

Victim my @$$. She's an idiot desperate 4 🐓🍆🥒🥖 pathetic and disgusting !!

[@practicalone2]

Many of us watching friends neighbors, relatives worship a conman. are asking "Don't they have any common sense?"

[@charitylouisa]

she's so ignorant she sleeps with him when she knows he's a serial killler. Why not make an excuse to go to your mother's house for the night or SOMETHING. She's probably the dumbest woman I've seen on any crime show. She's not a victim, that's for sure

[@lilliansperlingmadsen4662]

walking a mile in somoes shooes.. we dont really understand it before it happens to ourselfs.

[@staceyw.6608]

​@lilliansperlingmadsen4662 especially when it involves a master manipulator. They're very good at what they do and they always target vulnerable women.

[@SweetUniverse]

Breaking into someone's house is actually against the law. It's not just "weird," "something you don't do," or "something that makes me uncomfortable."

[@adrianeelise3849]

Lol

[@m1586]

@Sugar Spring. Yes and what else might he have done whilst he was in the house. Put cameras, snoop through her, underwear drawer, photocopy documents and so on 😎 yikes!!!

[@IsraelWillBeFree]

I'm a lil uncomfortable with you breaking into my house.. let's go watch a movie in the dark so I can deal with what you didn't mean to do

[@m1586]

@@IsraelWillBeFree Hilarious and correct!

[@MsLinda165]

I'm surprised she kept seeing him after he's broken into her house. A woman with three girls, and she marries a guy who breaks into her house? Um...Her kids don't seem to hate her, which is the real miracle here. She sure put them in harms way.

[@Amanda.Ray02]

A guy buys you gym membership is a clear sign that he wants to control you even your body image. Then he breaks into your house to leave clothes…. And you take him back! she’s addicted to drama of being a victim and will continue to attract toxic men unless she addresses the issues. She needs to take responsibility for her actions and behaviour of allowing herself to become a victim. IMO as a survivor of DV.

[@HelynHughes]

To be fair, she believed his daughter had been killed and had compassion for him as you might for anyone you know.

[@acooksla]

Oh yeah, I had a relationship once when I was very young where he gave me tons of gifts, always brought me flowers, bought me expensive leather jackets. It was all very seductive and I fell for it. After a year of being together I found out he was a pathological liar and cheat. Always remember, if it seems to be good to be true, it is.

[@lisas8244]

It's called Love Bombing. That's what Scott Peterson did to every girl he dated.

[@madsdee7803]

@@lisas8244 it's also called expecting to be spoilt. That's why they get away with it. I've taught my kids differently.

[@robogreek3157]

Not always.

[@charmaynebruce6215]

​@@robogreek3157 True. Manhaters; the lot of 'em.

[@youtube_chaplain]

Heaven and Hell are real..... Is your heart right with God? We can not hide our sins from God. Jesus Christ loves you and He died for our sins. Repent of your sins and put your faith in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior and you will be saved. MARK 1:15 “ the kingdom of God is at hand; repent and believe in the gospel.” "Salvation Prayer" Dear Heavenly Father, I come to you, to confess that I am a sinner. I have done some things in my life that I am not proud of and I repent of my sins. I believe that Jesus died on the cross for my sins and that He arose from the grave and that He is alive today. I ask that you forgive me of my sins and come into my heart.... I proclaim that Jesus Christ is my Lord and Savior. AMEN.....

[@happytrails699]

This woman's desperation to have a man literally put her children in jeopardy. So many red flags. MAN

[@michaelarchangel1163]

She's desperation personified. Disgusting and an unfit parent.

[@schrisdellopoulos9244]

Yep. Desperate and naive.

[@2nd_of_3]

Extremely poor judgment 😮

[@pollypockets508]

The power of the D

[@celestek.4140]

Absolutely 💯

[@vatricegeorge]

She's so desperate that it's hard to feel sympathetic for her. When he broke into the house she should have been done. It's her responsibility to protect her daughters.

[@ridinwithjake]

But he didn’t steal anything. He just left gifts. It’s kinda romantic!

[@leisagold9392]

I thought STALKER immediately, alarm system ASAP OPEN yr 👀

[@christinamorales1475]

Wow

[@christinamorales1475]

For you to even just reply this as if she was looking for ur sympathy is just so... Idk.. if u able to run after the first red flag... I wish I had ur strength dayum

[@junieedwards]

So true

[@Kangarooleathershoe.]

Thank you for making me feel so wise and stable!

[@ninamenon]

Seriously. What a dim bulb, with THREE daughters??

[@theresarossi6306]

Her instincts were telling her all along that there was something wrong with that guy, she is very lucky she didn't get caught by him while investigating him and is alive

[@cwavt8849]

Instincts are everything! They are why we are alive. Those of our predecessors whose instincts were wrong didn't make it. When your antenna goes up, start paying attention!!!

[@lindavanocker1841]

I thought he wld grab her for hostage when the cops came for sure. It blows my mind that they wldnt just go to work and arrest him ! They put her life in danger sure enough !

[@Dustandfuzz]

@@lindavanocker1841 yes, I agree. The cops didn’t want to cut their bait. That’s terrible. They should have said get out of there! She could have been a statistic.

[@liliivanova2920]

@@lindavanocker1841 exactly, having everything on hand, all evidence, the police decided to wait and put in danger one more woman. Why? Why they could not ask her to call him have a lunch,meeting etc and arrest him right away?

[@loralieisa]

@@lindavanocker1841 They told her not to go home, but she didn't listen.

[@jjkatz]

The police tell her he’s wanted for 2 murders and she goes back to spend the night with him at home with her 3 daughters? Unbelievable 😳

[@Buchyvon1]

She got the daughters out of the house

[@LibertyStation92106]

The cops dropped the ball bigtime.

[@genakirkland5528]

She's so dumb! Unbelievable!!

[@WayCoolNurse]

She sent the daughters away but still. I think she knew he would run and maybe come back!

[@djg5950]

Didn't happen that way. She was surprised as he was when he was arrested. She wasn't the reason for it so she didn't sleep with him knowing that he was going to be arrested the next morning.

[@salinnthind5848]

She knew something was wrong but she went ahead and married him and put herself and her kids in danger. Awesome insight. This is some special kind of intelligence.

[@TTellin]

She even took “some strange pill” he gave her, AFTER it was clear she didn’t trust him😅

[@twatts1523]

Yep, and let him control her finances.

[@tundrawomansays694]

Her Super Power is Stupidity.

[@ninak1352]

Insight ?? awesome?? Nahhh....more stupidity and .... I can't believe how you and your children live still...sorry honey but this is the truth

[@michelleadams474]

Oh completely agree and I stated something similar in my comment.... she was wearing blinders and should have known better.

[@brandon779]

This lady isn’t the brightest crayon in the box. That’s for sure! How many signs do you need? Especially watching you husband on America Most Wanted. Like. Hello?!?!

[@phenomenalwife5380]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@steel072]

If my kids come up missing and you say “I’m not telling you.” I would have been at his job with that steel in my purse. What you’re not going to do is play with me and my babies.

[@blackdiamond9455]

Exactly... No way I would've stayed home and waited

[@dorindadouglas2847]

Exactly!! I don't have kids, but in my head I was like, dude, I'll put a bullet between your eyes so fast!

[@oliviaedralin1436]

Nope. She was waiting to get her or her kids get killed first!

[@youtube_chaplain]

Heaven and Hell are real..... Is your heart right with God? We can not hide our sins from God. Jesus Christ loves you and He died for our sins. Repent of your sins and put your faith in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior and you will be saved. MARK 1:15 “ the kingdom of God is at hand; repent and believe in the gospel.” "Salvation Prayer" Dear Heavenly Father, I come to you, to confess that I am a sinner. I have done some things in my life that I am not proud of and I repent of my sins. I believe that Jesus died on the cross for my sins and that He arose from the grave and that He is alive today. I ask that you forgive me of my sins and come into my heart.... I proclaim that Jesus Christ is my Lord and Savior. AMEN.....

[@MMP1116]

@@youtube_chaplain shut up troll

[@wolfesound]

One massive red flag after another and this kind lovely lady needs more evidence? Call the police!

[@athena8729]

She didn't want to believe it

[@jenniferconley1192]

Exactly! What was she waiting for? the dead women to say he killed us? one comment said what a brave woman! I kept saying what a dumba$$ she risked all their lives or at best risked her daughters not having a mom. Too many chances!

[@rissthebee]

@@athena8729 you're so right

[@nellasultann]

@@athena8729 And that is so sad. She put her life at huge risk. I'll have to police clear your name before getting back with you

[@gracewoodard9134]

She needed to order some IQ points for herself.

[@smoothmicra]

Lol, the actor who plays the murderer in this documentary does a very good job of looking very creepy and sinister!

[@StaceyJoy14]

He looks just like the real killer too

[@nancyfleming8038]

it was 1988 when they did not have the internet to check on people BUT she did not listen to her inner voice AT ALL.

[@buttercup9903]

The unnecessary risks that this lady took makes me think that she’s the luckiest person in this planet

[@Authorised-q5s]

It must have been the s*x.

[@Unborn-Stillborn]

And the dumbest ...

[@DaRkHoRsE-_-]

Sometimes if you are at peace and have a good life you just need to be satisfied. Especially when it involves bringing in a non bio person to parent your babies. 😢That being said … listen to your gut 😮

[@maryduffney8131]

When you are married, and the grass LOOKS greener on the other side of the fence, MOST LIKELY IT IS OVER A SEPTIC TANK, keep what you got if all possible.

[@lorimav]

Yes, be extremely careful who you marry. Search out and marry someone with a good character and then stay with that person even with all their quirks and any interests you might not share. Marrying a decent human being leads to a reasonably content life for you and your children.

[@aircastles1013]

😂😂😂

[@hustlermum9325]

The most ridiculous "victim" ever. She's sharing her story thinking she's some kind of hero? Wow.

[@joancarrino890]

She's selling her story, I've seen this one before, she's stoopid

[@sherlyr.]

Right, I can't stand watching the rest of the story.

[@CherriClark]

God looks after babies and FOOLS!

[@judywinterbottom6600]

How many believe that its their imagination rather than believe such evil of someone you love? Thats what manipulative , evil people do to their victims!

[@JesusChristismySavior-Julie]

@@judywinterbottom6600fake story, look it up. A woman in Ohio got him Arrested

[@jeannineroberton4019]

Beauty Fades, Dumb Is Forever.Judge Judy.

[@odrice1586]

👏

[@Dee-z6l]

Well done.

[@Weiss696]

learn not to be this woman who would put her children in jeopardy. As a parent your foremost priority is the safety of your children.

[@RebeccaAdcock-rl6xl]

You never sign anything without reading it completely. If you question it find someone to explain it to you. NEVER

[@pamelacorbett8774]

Classic move on the part of a con man.

[@a_basic_beach]

This woman made every poor decision she could possibly make. She put her children in danger so she could go play detective.

[@Karan-th8td]

Stupidity at best 😮

[@bethoneybee]

So she could have a man

[@moskie325]

I’m on her side, but lawdy. Once you are in the territory of ‘2 dead peoples security cards’, ‘ hired p.i.’ , ’questioning where daughters are at’ this is the rule and I cannot stress this one enough: DO NOT EAT ANY OFFERED PILLS. PRETEND. SPIT THEM OUT. PRETEND TO PUKE AND FLUSH THEM. WHATEVER. DO NOT EAT THE PILLS. And get their name off of your bank accounts

[@helianabanes4875]

It's pretty easy to forget that we have not been in a position like hers. I always HOPE that I would react in a way that is in keeping with how I view myself, but the bottom line is, I just have no idea what I would do or how I would behave unless I am in that exact situation with that exact history and back story.

[@moskie325]

@@helianabanes4875 I’ve been in a position like hers. Even when you are in this alternate sphere of crazy thoughts and shifting reality responses, do not eat the pills. If you listened to her keystones of personality- being strong for her daughters, hoping for a lovely life, being a good person, they reflect points of her self autonomy, and definitely her naïveté, which contributed to how far this situation got. Letting that autonomy go will create permanent damage in the harm we do to ourselves in the future, looking back on retrospection. Her justification of ‘I just wanted him to stop asking’ having already set up the cover of not feeling well should have made a very large flag of self preservation come up and she should have just gone with that. If she was concerned enough to play sick, do not take the offered unknown pills. This lady had strength I bet even she didn’t know she had, and that shone through after that horrific incident. In all the crazy, she would have shrunk back to her keystones, but ignored them. Sure maybe you can’t say what you would do, but from my personal experience, when everything was not right and upside down, being extremely vulnerable (I was underage) I didn’t know everything and made a ton of mistakes, but when the coercion to take something physically into myself that didn’t want to take, I found a way not to. This lady was grown. Even with extreme gullibility, do not eat the pills.

[@helianabanes4875]

@@moskie325 hate that you have been through something similar, happy you made it through!

[@m1586]

@Moskie. I agree with you! I'm astounded when people tell me they have joint bank accounts! It's just craziness and I'd never do it!😎

[@Dustandfuzz]

The thing with the daughters would have been enough to send me running. Maybe she should work for the police as an undercover agent. As for the pill, I was thinking it could be cyanide. It could have been anything. I would have spit that out.

[@butterbeanqueen8148]

I’m having a hard time feeling sorry for her. Humans are given the ability to sense something is wrong and they are in danger. Wild animals don’t ignore these instincts. There is a book called The Gift of Fear. I would suggest everyone reading it.

[@keryljensen978]

The Gift of Fear , by Gavin DeBecker is a fantastic book. I highly recommend it.

[@butterbeanqueen8148]

@@keryljensen978 it really is. I recommend it for everyone. It should be required reading!

[@beltigussin81]

People call her naive. That's such a kind way of putting it.

[@JessBlake2]

I think she thought if she was a good person, she would be fine. It's common to think "like attracts like" and other myths. Also she seemed to uncritically feel like role definitions themselves define reality. Like when she said, I didn't want to lie to my husband, or he's my husband, so that's not him on the television. People do this about the word "family" also.

[@JessBlake2]

@butterbeanqueen8148, it's not really true that we can just feel when something is wrong. Our instincts can be wrong and we are not actually that good at detecting deception. You need more than just the fear response when a cunning manipulator is operating. It's best to investigate and get concrete, objective evidence. But she did ignore concrete evidence and she left herself and her kids open and vulnerable before she knew if she was safe.

[@rachnaamu26]

This woman ignored all the red flags ( whole family died story , only daughter dies ,breaks into her house to put the workout clothes , him telling her "call me wid my full name Sean Paul", all the intuitions when his face showed evilness , when he kept the docs in brief case locked , etc) and continued being dumb !! What a foolish victim !!

[@melissavolcy317]

Why are some women so in love with the idea of marriage?

[@bamazing2731]

Many codependent people out there..

[@erinhall1310]

She lived in Utah... nuff said.

[@albanissi]

It’s how women have survived for millennia. 🫤

[@jeanmitchell5834]

Brainwashed

[@jjkatz]

Desperate

[@Nanticoke]

That’s not bravery. That’s just stupidity! Can’t believe she’s on here telling it as if she was a hero. Omg!

[@BB-dk3fd]

Putting all her children in danger 😢

[@Victoria-dh3wl]

Seriously I seen no bravery just stupidity

[@priscillatamir8258]

I agree with you

[@Loveourfreedom]

I'd be embarrassed to let people know I was that gullible

[@inezbryant6186]

Desperate woman She would take him back Ugh

[@johnallegra7667]

Another example of the sickness of codependency....

[@Smorss2011]

Codependency is actually a myth. There is no science behind it. None.

[@verukasault9065]

Divorces her 1st husband after having 3 children because "we were too young." Proceeds to ignore all red flags and marries a sociopath murderer. Stays with him after seeing him on America's Most Wanted. 😑😐🙄🤦🏼‍♀️

[@Nizhonibearcreek]

I’m sorry but there is a fine line between I feel bad for her and wtf is wrong with you , I’m glad her kids are safe .

[@LenaLuthorWife]

I get what you meant. She is brave but also the first signs are so obvious. I am like, are you destined to meet this guy so you will be the hero to get him caught. maybe it is destined so you can also save other women. and also part of me was like, hmmm he breaks into her house!

[@sadlad2005]

Wow.. playing with fire is an under statement. Risked her and her children's lives. Clearly Margie doesn't watch crime/murder documentaries, but all the red flags were there. Our ' instincts' are there for a reason, to warn us of impending danger etc, take heed of these instincts they've saved many people's lives. Margie and her daughters are lucky to be alive. Be safe.

[@madsdee7803]

Margie was focused on making money out of selling her story. Still blinded by money.

[@lindajack7969]

Woman!! I can’t believe you went through all that instead of going to the police! I’m glad you and the girls are safe. Don’t ever take that kind of chance again! You’ll end up like his past individuals!🙏

[@sheilasmith7779]

It is astounding this woman is not embarrassed to present her story. Weak.

[@christinesimpson6529]

What a load of BS you put your girls in danger What do you think would have happened if he'd caught you spying on him, you were told he's on America's most wanted wtf the police would have taken it from there !!! At the same time why couldn't the police go and arrest him straight away at his work? Why wouldn't you have checked your own bank accounts???? Glad you're all safe hope you and your girls have a great future

[@PaulineLee-ty2fw]

I thought I was gullible but this lovely lady wins hands down!

[@Rick-vy1zq]

I’m happy her and her children survived this. Some don’t live to tell the tell. My condolences to all those innocent peoples families. I’m sorry that in this world we have monsters living amongst us.

[@robogreek3157]

Tha stepfather

[@TheNewMailLady]

@@robogreek3157 huh?

[@ErinnEarth]

She's unbelievably delusional. She actually took the pill 🥴

[@Shebbie68]

This woman's decision making process can be seen in the first victim of every horror movie who simply has to investigate the situation even further. Why she did not call the cops the moment her daughters were missing and he would not tell her where they were and stop this silliness is beyond me. She is lucky she is alive.

[@lucyclark1301]

I hope her daughter's father got FULL custody of the girls after finding out what danger she put his children through. Living with a murderer and trying to "figure it out on her own". Just when you think she can't get any dumber. She goes back for more? She has to thrive on this danger.

[@Campfire30]

My thoughts exactly. I'm thinking the dad of these children has no idea what their sick mother is putting them through. He could have lost his kids in a heartbeat. I hope he got custody after this. (But we both know he didn't, don't we?)

[@gregmaggielipscomb9246]

@@Campfire30 Absolutely!

[@queenashantee1957]

IN MY OPINION, I THINK SHE WAS PLAYING THE LONG GAME... I BELIEVE COPPERS WERE OUTSIDE ALL NIGHT, JUST IN CASE (THIS IS DRAMA). TO ENSURE HE DOES NOT RETURN, LIKE HE KEEPS PROMISING HER TO HOLD HER IN THE FEAR ZONE... SHE HAD TO PLAY IT OUT... SHE WAS SO DAMN LUCKY. THANK GOD...

[@BellaLeoLicorice]

He must have been good in bed LOL

[@hugotyarn]

She waited..shes lucky shes still alive

[@angelam886]

It’s women like this that give the rest of us a bad name. As the daughter said ‘ my mums a hopeless romantic’.

[@astarryeyedgirl]

That daughter misspelled "an idiot desperate for a relationship."

[@adrii6147]

I can't imagine the kind of regret and humiliation she has likely wrestled with in the years following. It can be so hard to listen to your gut when you 1)lack confidence 2) desire to be desired & 3)THINK you can bring out the best in people. It is quite literally miraculous that she and all her children made it out of this situation alive!

[@ThatOnePieceKid]

This is the most intelligent and compassionate comment on this thread.

[@ThatOnePieceKid]

She is infuriating but she is human and all humans are irrational. Literally, anyone can be seduced by a skilled con artist. She knew from the getgo that he was evil but the mind plays tricks. It is truly the gut that we have to trust. Never talk yourself out of your gut feelings. They are REAL.

[@mrfrosty4425]

She said she can't believe she had evil in her house!! she brought him there , should have been more careful who she picks up in bar's having children 🙄

[@lh2988]

I have 5 kids 2 girls and 3 boys if I ever get divorced God forbid I would never bring a man into my home. I am glad she survived this!

[@TheMaryAnn75]

I’m divorced with once kid. No way I’m dating until he is on his own. Taking my age to the account, I’ll die alone , but I rather be lonely than risk safety of my kid. This story is extreme but they’re a freaks out there. Good guys are married….

[@Fedeleness]

@@TheMaryAnn75 As a parent, your one of the Number 1's.

[@manda.watching.YouTube]

@@Fedeleness thank God my mom remarried. I love my mom more than anyone in the world, but my stepdad was a better parent to me than anyone else could have been. Even if I didn’t really like him at first lol.

[@catalinacurio]

It’s about using your head over your heart, taking it slow, listening to feedback from friends and family and your own gut.

[@marylynnkotis7246]

I had 2 wonderful Step Dads, there are some good ones out there.

[@SnowWhite717_]

Oh my goodness thank goodness she’s alive to tell the tale but she drove me absolutely bat 💩 crazy when she kept snooping and didn’t call the police. That’s THEIR JOB. They’d find out all the details and figure out who he was. She was not only endangering herself but her 3 girls too. As they say, curiosity killed the cat… and she was one nosy kitty

[@missmays4933]

Exactly how I felt. I know she’s a survivor. And I’m trying not to victim blame but come on lady, a person with 2 social security cards from 2 dead people and you thought it probably wasn’t serious!? Geezus lady.

[@SarahParker-bo9uz]

Gotta be denial.

[@m1586]

@Naomi D. On the light side Naomi have you heard the other version? Curiosity killed the cat, information brought it back! 😊🌻😎

[@m1586]

@@missmays4933 There must be something in her background that causes her to be extra gullible. Going forward she needs to be extra vigilant. 😎

[@m1586]

@@SarahParker-bo9uz Excellent reason but how can one deny something that's right in their face? Was she really that desperate for a man's company? I don't get it! 😎

[@Katiee0592]

I’m glad she shared her story. Millions of women think and do what she did, and stay. Most women don’t survive or help catch a man they think they love, they end up dead. I’m glad her family is safe and he’s in prison. He needs to stay there until his last breath.

[@gdavis2020]

After my divorce, I ventured out to meet people( at the insistence of friends) . I met a guy one night who told me he was a widower, and I asked what his dead wife’s name and the date of car accident. He did, I didn’t give him my number, he gave me his , said I would call, went home and immediately research his story. I didn’t find anything on the “ accident” where he said his wife died, so I never called him . A few month later , a coworker met him at the same nightclub and she started dating him. Turns out he was married , no job , and had several girlfriends who would give him money. My coworker stopped seeing him after a few months abd $$$ , and supposedly she exposed him on Facebook. Btw.. I don’t have any social media. Idk what happen to him, but I dodged that bullet.

[@raymondlong1848]

She hired a private eye for nothing as she did all the work

[@madsdee7803]

She should have just called the police since her sister told her he was wanted. No need for any of it other than to make her story more exciting to sell around to book publishers and TV networks.

[@schrisdellopoulos9244]

@@madsdee7803 again, good call. She really likes this attention, doesn't she? A normal person would be too ashamed to go public with it.

[@tetyanalisovska-mx8vt]

@schrisdellopoulos9244 A normal person doesn’t do victim blaming.

[@vanessathieu6205]

She made a HUGE mistake when deciding to confront him with the Social security, if you know someone could be dangerous, you don't want to confront them, you should pass them to the police

[@abusednomoresilence]

💯 Agree

[@user-mb9yl5bl9r]

When she walks up to him like “Hey so I spent the day snooping through your stuff…” GIRL

[@rockergirl2489]

God yeah how naive

[@cmcmahon8551]

She is supremely and stupidly naive! How can anyone be that clueless?!?

[@Nanaof3.]

She took way too many risks... she's fortunate to be alive

[@HUYI1]

Very lucky to be Alive, how could she sleep next to a monster like this?

[@aussie1868]

Aussie here, is she for real??? .

[@clifffowler2581]

this lady shouldn't date for multiple reasons.....🤦

[@lnteIIigence]

He's the problem!

[@kirananderson8320]

Right! Ever. Again.

[@LadyAngela678]

Why, because she’s a lamb??

[@brycecrousore1985]

@@lnteIIigence Oh. So he brought himself around three young daughters? Okay.

[@lnteIIigence]

@@brycecrousore1985 Oh okay yeah sure fine whatever.

[@lyndaauwi1815]

She's a terrible mother, putting herself above her children.

[@sandywagner9154]

Creep, married a fool