2014 Personality Lecture 10: Carl Rogers (Phenomenological Humanism)

[@eternalmind8634]

00:00 phenomenology and existentialism introduction , 11:31 all of you is '' not '' just in your head, 15:33 carl rogers "listening", 28:53 unconditional pose of regard , 38:00 peace between order and innovation, 41:22 understanding, 47:27 your brain trying to figure things out, 1:09:10 Carl rogers frame,

[@HassnShahir]

you are a tob lobster. i've been taking your timestamps since the beginning of the series.

[@lcsullafelix5357]

I have become such a groupie that i find these lectures much better and useful than any lecture offered at my own uni.

[@SadPanda94]

I consider this lesson as one of the best of Dr. Peterson's classes. It is so significant to understand how to listen, communicate and understand and its done in 1 hour. So amazing that I will always keep it in my must re-watch folder and will re-watch it in years to come.

[@michaelivy118]

Words escape me in trying to tell you just how much your presentation helped me. I am in the process of doing my PhD and you have in so many ways opened my consciousness. Thank you so much.

[@michaelivy118]

+Jordan B Peterson Thank you so much. I have been systematically busy with my problem for roughly 10 years. I am a senior lecturer teaching the styling design of characters dress through costume, make-up, styling & photography at AFDA. I am looking into psychoanalysis of a human being through the styling design of their dress. I am essentially looking at a certain variety of 'dragons' as evident in their styling. I think you would love it. Thank you again. Your passion is addictive.

[@mrtambourineman6107]

🥩you're welcome🥩

[@samuelghioto7622]

How did it turn out for ya?

[@HelloThere.....]

@@samuelghioto7622 wow 7 years ago... so long. I bet he got it.

[@LLindo]

There's nothing wrong with the video guys, this lecture was held under water.

[@ashleyisachild]

And here I thought we were watching it projected on a sheet that was blowing in the wind...!

[@aidanr4158]

Lol thats a good one😂😂 I was doing some breath work while watching and I honestly thought I was busy passing out or tripping.

[@somewhataboveaverageguy9053]

@@aidanr4158 “these breath routines really work some wonders” 😭😭😭

[@OmarDelawar]

Jordan's lecture is so deep he has opened some type of wormhole the camera is picking up on lol (mostly toward the end of the lecture)

[@qthirteen13]

camera guy was on shrooms mode 😉

[@mezidvemastromy5546]

His prana is so radiant that he bends the reality, time and matter to the exact pattern he needs to coexist with.

[@migueldeguzmandev]

😂😂😂

[@kellietemes]

I was hoping somebody would come in on that lol I know it was a long time ago but it adds to the whole tripiness 👍😎

[@Dikiy_oduvan]

Ahahah for real

[@strato5135]

I feel understood when I listen to these lectures.

[@manitdhir90]

Best lecture.U r incredible. U help visualize psychological concepts which books almost never do. From text to context... Brilliant. Thanks 4 uploading

[@mrtambourineman6107]

He sure has those suckers eating out of his hand! Ha

[@ToLWaM]

I appreciate your use of language

[@giftbredevaldov.jr.2881]

He have A LOT of "best lecture" he is a genius, in so many areas that is amasing. i gess i already watch more of he talking than my teacher talking.

[@jeffcarr6853]

Rogers is a unigue genius. He stands for the quality of human relations as the quailty of living and showed the therapeutic value to any willing to experiment with his phenomenology.

[@PaullHutchh]

Truly amazing lecture possibly my favorite. Trying to understand the arguments of people you disagree with. The fear that we have of our opinions changing. Incredible.

[@MarcDufresneosorusrex]

wow it's nice to actually ..get something out of a lecture like this one...

[@Joe_174]

Profound lecture with various hints at how to live a better life!

[@matiasloisa3949]

I started watching the 2017 version of this lecture and found it so interesting (also watched the Rogers and Gloria session videos), then I move to this lecture looking for more. You´ve helped me understand many things that happen during phychoteraphy sessions that I wasn´t able to articulate, it´s so cool... Muchas gracias Doctor Peterson.

[@mattayoubi9829]

So profound, masterful, glorious. I return to these every so often.

[@autumnleaves2766]

"Assume the person you are listening to might know something that you don't" is one of Dr Peterson's 24 Rules For Life. I always try to be a good listener, and will ask the other person plenty of questions. I remember what they tell me, although I can often later forget the person's name if it is someone I only see occasionally. However, so few questions ever come back in the opposite direction, if we think of the conversation as being like a gentle game of tennis. I do think that communication between people is in danger of breaking down entirely, far too many people are glued to their smartphones and tablets for hours on end, instead of talking to each other. I've noticed plenty of younger people with poor communication skills, they appear to have grown up in families where there are no discussions round the dinner table and the education system has not left them with a good command of their native language. These old lectures from Dr Peterson's Toronto University days are superb.

[@cathyglascock1370]

At around 52 minute mark he talks about listening to clients fear about” Russia and bombs” among other fears of a client. Jordan says casually “ you can tell how old this is” referring to outdated material from Rogers. Now here in 2024 this doesn’t sound so outdated.

[@drchtct]

Same with I think the lecture before this one where he says you can see how people lean towards authoritarian regimes once an infectous disease hits, and well yeah that happened in 2020

[@meesh35]

I thought the exact same thing!!

[@nfeyel9591]

One of your best lectures. Please keep it in mind while having the debate :)

[@jdoyle800]

The gift of listening - appreciate the many paths being exposed, frameworks to reframe. Receiving affirmation on risking, strengthens my character by the way, I'll take it, thanks!

[@ElderFreeman413]

It's really interesting listening to his lectures And commentary from 10 years ago and seeing its relevance in the world today

[@mgm6076]

After finishing philosophy, this guy is the first person I heard talking about performative contradiction... I graduated philosophy a long time ago

[@rabbit507]

i needed this on such a level i cant begin to express. JP is continually making me a better person , now if i could only turn method into practice

[@alial-jassim2504]

55:14 Something(a memory or experience) that makes you emotional is a signal of something you haven't fully delt with yet.

[@jerryh1937]

As an admirer of Rogers I appreciate your elucidations of his position, especailly in your interpretation of his Unconditional Positive Regard, and the need to be realistic. Jerry

[@Wegster64]

Love this series! Don’t know why I didn’t watch it in the past EDIT :this is my favourite lecture so far!

[@gooddoingo]

In French, 'understand' = 'comprendre'. Which also means include, contain, encompass. Same etymology than comprehend (latin comprehendere, from com- ‘together’ + prehendere ‘grasp’).

[@readthebibleonamountain934]

Together grasp, brilliant.

[@justexpressingmyself397]

He is my inspiration

[@kylevids3951]

Thank God for JBP

[@djjohnnypl]

Question "what causes poverty" is really the wrong question. Poverty was the default state of the human conditions for hundreds of thousands of years. The proper question is "what causes wealth" since it is completely different from the natural state and is only with us for about century.

[@ToLWaM]

Yeah. People who dismiss the results of the industrial revolution as being bad for poor people because it greatly increased wealth disparity aren’t taking this into account. After the 1800s, EVERYONE became wealthier, just some more than others.

[@drawingmomentum]

@@ToLWaM a middle class pays taxes

[@david12159]

Sounds like you've been reading sowell

[@peternolan2415]

Yo the Man Jordan, tells it as it is.

[@mrtambourineman6107]

🥩🥩thanks boyo!🥩🥩

[@eqapo]

11:31 being as such versus subject/object. I'd label it this way. This is an important section.

[@eduardomonteiro6863]

I think I understood it! Finally hahhaha!

[@gigachad94]

What I loved most about jbp's lecture is that he doesn't play with those certain topis everytime and get stucked there and use stuffing words he goes from one topic to another within the same theme mann this man was teaching about personality and I thoughts he would only teach about 5 big traits of personality and describe them but nah he just thought me whole life mannn this guy❤

[@patrickdiederich9331]

Worth listening to though, so good.

[@GrubKiller436]

If you have ads, click on 1:13:22, then replay.

[@lucashoww]

This is digital gold!

[@Rags2Roses]

This was filmed through the eyes of a student who was HIGH AS HELL!

[@fauxguyfawkes6156]

I think the wonky video is a side effect of a stabilisation technique from video editing software...

[@earthwormjim9229]

That's a very polite assumption... Thank you x

[@mrtambourineman6107]

Feel like I'm tripping out! (Although I did eat a couple of grams of Moroccan hashish)

[@sethchristofer4769]

Yeah, it specifically looks like rolling shutter stabilization

[@janskeet1382]

I’m a bit late to the party but it’s making me feel sea sick.

[@danielamishkovska2833]

Thank you professor Peterson.

[@ThatReplicant]

COM Studies grad student here. Been studying phenomenology from hegel for a while now but it didnt really click for me until this lecture. Thank you.

[@scotti23q81]

great lecture. very inspiring.

[@waasaydaniyal4100]

Most interesting video.

[@misssurreal2602]

I wish I could show this lecture to everyone ❤😊

[@HelloThere.....]

If only I had known that these lectures existed during 2014... During that time and the years afterward I could've really used it.

[@thevoiceofchance]

Just had an argument with someone the other night and I wish I had gotten this far in the lecture series before hand. But I'm a much smarter man in the first 30 minutes of this video in the 28 years of my existence

[@danamorales2427]

This lecture was particularly good. Really, really fascinating. The hour flew by. Might need some Dramamine for a rewatch though. That camera stuff was weird and vertigo-inducing.

[@MiguelGarcia-sp4fb]

Apotropaic m

[@MiguelGarcia-sp4fb]

Apotropaic mnn

[@dash6999]

Walking down bloor listening to this.

[@dangood8839]

How is this content free? This is so good that it should be behind a pay-wall

[@dr.slowdeath1852]

Which of Rogers' books is Dr Peterson reading from?

[@One00632]

What's happening to the damn camera Jbp's aura lol

[@strato5135]

Laugh track or a classroom? Amazing!

[@Beederda]

This episode is a trip… literally 🍄

[@AnthonyL0401]

7:30 very interesting

[@kirs1091]

These lectures are what I wanted when I was in school for Psychology at ASU. Instead I got professors reading right out of the text book and giving presentations on the "gender bread man"

[@Hbmd3E]

51:00 that client is woman because they reduce stress by talking about their proplem. that why they can have many friends to tell all their proplems. Men reduces stress by forgetting the proplem and disconnecting drawing back doing something totally different. ..so to get rest and then can approach thing in fresh way and in new strength. Thats why women try to get their spouse to talk and he dont want. men talk if they have answer and goal but not just for talking. so man only have to listen without getting offended and their spouse is pleased or calming down if there was bad mood.

[@susanneanson7699]

Tecniques should be mandatory teachings for all politicians.

[@beegpink-johnson6344]

23:00

[@JeffMTX]

I wanted to comment, but decided I should just listen.

[@tm27field]

The amount of ads in this video is disruptive to the flow of listening. It’s very annoying.

[@tm27field]

@@hypolyxa7207 do you have a recommendation? that's free?

[@oUnfitNinjao]

I wish I could take this course.

[@Wegster64]

Goose mr. Peterson wants to open an online university

[@distrologic2925]

you are really close to taking that course.

[@Hbmd3E]

isnt it same when you watch them? who cares about examinations, you get same information.

[@elite_lurker7589]

This video really starts tripping out mid- way.

[@gigachad94]

Would be better if he posted every leftures here😢 such a great content man i can watch this for whole day

[@eliasdanielozuna]

Am I HIgth as a Kite? or is just the video edition?

[@cholakicha]

01:09:00

[@mikedavidson1970]

I understand the commercial,s but dam .

[@s2ertf]

Looks like your camera took some LSD before it left for class. Good call haha

[@epic6434]

Well they've explained the Chakra and Kabala the different stages of ascension and desensitization not sure who they were but they changed each stage they seemed to float and it was the airhead thing they couldn't fit a hat on anymore 😂

[@nancymohass4891]

You’re a good psychologist , helpful to people who “want” to be fixed .how about helping the one who is used to having negative emotion ,they feel “at home” when they are acting negatively ?! Don’t you think the root of our personality is in. The way. We have been treated by others ,mother father older sibling ...? Is there some helpful statistic work about this matter ?

[@gspolima]

15:34

[@mahonrimartins1767]

Clean up your room: the origin story

[@chrisrousell5744]

You're fucking phenomenal. Thank you for putting up these lectures, and all the rest of the material, you may well have impacted the entire course of my life, as I'm sure you have with many others.

[@TheFrankHuda]

blur?

[@forrestlee59]

Listen but don't look! The camera is having a hallucinogenic experience or something, I've honestly never seen anything like it. Very distracting!!!

[@ddemon4406]

Did you forget to mention Rogers's drinking problem?

[@calvinMcollins]

no, you visualize that through the camera work

[@janskeet1382]

I know now. I went and looked up Rogers’s drinking.

[@joshuatoms7664]

Is it just me, or was this recorded inside an acid trip?

[@joshuatoms7664]

If I'd looked at the comments first, I'd know that many other people realized this, lol.

[@SM-pv4sn]

I think it might be from the camera trying to focus with constant floating movement and zooming from whoever is hold the camera. Might be an auto-focus issue with it trying to change between Dr. Peterson and the background when the camera sways. There is a lot of value to be gained from simply using a triped fixed to the front of the room :)