#21 A S*x Starved Marriage || Relationship Goals

[@RighteousnRich]

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[@bilqiskashem3207]

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[@bilqiskashem3207]

Seriously!!!

[@bilqiskashem3207]

Is that supposed to be funny!

[@medeehax]

Maybe u can make a friendly family pg channel because kids may watch this :)

[@bilqiskashem3207]

@@medeehax in sha Allah ta'ala

[@hadiabintmuhammad9135]

When you are watching this and not married 😭😭😭😭

[@Ocean_38]

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[@morris6399]

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[@adamibnadam2162]

@@Ocean_38 I don’t know about these apps man most of the people are not serious and treat it like tinder to talk to the opposite sex 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@kingkatiin2658]

@@adamibnadam2162 It's their application. And it's has like no images and stuff

[@onlyallahisworthyofworship5599]

@@adamibnadam2162 that's why people should only use the apps which don't allow any sinning such as talking to the opposite gender. The interaction should only be between the man and the wali of the woman.

[@biba3025]

Im sick and tired seeing men in comment section saying we need polygamy, what if im.far from my wife, what if a man... DID U KNOW THAT MAJORITY OF SISTERS IVE MET (and i work with them) ARENT BEING HAPPY WITH INTHIMACY? And here comes all these men thinking they r so macho and such a quality. Just stop really! God gave us all desires not just men!

[@gizmanyonis3560]

fr its wayyy too many tbh that whole agenda is what leads to men negleting the womens needs in intimacy and then get mad when they start to refuse most likely Theres a underlying cause as to why

[@umar9174]

@Polygamy is Halal Wifey Side Chicks yo again shut up get out of hear u are so toxic.

[@umar9174]

@Polygamy is Halal Wifey Side Chicks bad men ruin it in Islam if the man were to do polygyny all the wives are treated with respect unlike in the west. Sidechick and mistress are treated badly

[@grizzlybear2702]

Men have sexual desire. A woman’s desire tends to be material gifts hence the reason women do 80% of consumer spending. Men and women have different desires. If the man has a good income lets say £500K per year and is extremely handsome then what would be his problem with satisfying 4 wives.

[@umar9174]

@@grizzlybear2702 nothing the feminist bring retarted arguments. I was talking with a muslim feminist and she basically said that i plan my life and then Allah swt agrees. The amount of arrogance she had was insane. She also said alhumdillah i am a muslim feminist.

[@Ocean_38]

Islam is so beautiful, the more you learn the more you understand, that Allah is our Creator and that He exactly knows how we function and should behave privately and socially. He also knows what we need and want & gives us a clear path to follow. Allahu akbar.

[@bilqiskashem3207]

Sexual unawareness is a huge problem in our communities

[@97hv79lnvc]

Was there also sexual unawareness in the time of sahaba?. have they been able to understand sexual intimacy before with or did they figure it out.

[@umar9174]

@@97hv79lnvc Parents informed before puberty

[@Account-md8tu]

​@@97hv79lnvcThe prophet sallallahu alayhi wassalam was with them to teach them about this

[@abdullaha9906]

Unmarried me: 👁👄👁

[@abdullaha9906]

@sister Hafsa It do be like that

[@abdullaha9906]

@sister Hafsa 🙁

[@abdullaha9906]

@@umar9174 I'm a guy

[@abdullaha9906]

@@umar9174 😂

[@abdullaha9906]

@@umar9174 You don't know her

[@siddiqah89]

Excellent video. So many of us going through this... really opens the eyes. Easy to brush under the carpet...but it does affect the marriage and slowly becomes a huge elephant in the room. May Allah reward you guys aameen

[@priusa8113]

I am in a sexless marriage, my husband has no interest and I want to divorce and get a better one

[@IbnSharif]

Why my mans Imran sound like Abu Bakr for a second. 23:06

[@amatullahsu]

Omggggg he did sound like him 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@amnaakram2424]

LOL

[@umar9174]

Omg yes exactly like him

[@bilqiskashem3207]

It's a very underspoken but very much needed topic to discuss and understand in our communities bi'idhnillahi ta'ala

[@amatul7ayy]

Brother Imran, should a woman that is working out of necessity, in order to provide for her family be compared with a woman having bread in the oven? A working woman is already in a position where she has to take on the chores of her husband. Thats not to compare and I would appreciate it if you could talk about, whether the scholars differenciate here. I think many sisters are (unwillingly) in a situation like this and I fear that lumping all of this together could lead to injustice.

[@ziasmailbox]

A sister who is working out of necessity or to serve Islam and fellow womenfolk (like being a woman doctor, tailor ,nurse, teacher, physiotherapist, security personnel for frisking) are exempted, and there's leniency for them regarded specific women laws in Islam. If you're one may Allah bless you my sister in Deen. May Allah ease your life and forgive your sins and admit you to Jannah. Ameen

[@aatif7518]

@@ziasmailbox what if she is working just because of passion?

[@umar9174]

@@aatif7518 if that makes her obligations bad then it is haram

[@aatif7518]

@@ziasmailbox proof?? They can serve fellow WOMEN (only) but they still have to take care of the home and stuff and obey him when he wishes that thing (except with valid reason) So give me proof that second category is exempted!

[@aatif7518]

@@umar9174 correct Because most women today work because of passion

[@bilqiskashem3207]

I love when you read from classical scholarly texts and bring forth strong evidences. So proud of you. Allahumma barik. Let the Sunnah go forth And don't stap it! Lol

[@old5554]

Keep the dawah up❤️

[@Sarah-pw9bb]

I like the way the main speaker speaks. Very eloquent & explains everything very well mashAllah. The way he refers to the Holy Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him ,with reverence is very heartening too

[@Lenahoney24]

Jazakallahu khairan well needed talk. May Allah Azawajal reward you brothers. Ameen.

[@bilqiskashem3207]

This is a much awaited podcast barakAllahu feekh for your much time and efforts

[@xSunnyDaysx]

Great video. But the topic of female circumcision should also be touched upon. That also plays a big roll in marriages. That's why in communities where the females are circumcised the men searche for more wives because the wife has no appetite for intercourse. So if the woman is deprived from her sexuality, how does that work with pleasing the husband or just doing it from an Islamic point of view. It's also a contradiction because there are those who say they that it is sunnah to circumcise the female to lower her sexual drive and such.

[@muslimah42]

​@@Abunaza-as-seylaniis this true ? Im a revert and i always thought was an islamophobic attack the one about female circumcition..... is it really islamic ? Is it really sunnah ?

[@alghurraba]

​@@muslimah42yes it is Sunnah, but you need to understand the difference between the Islamic circumsion and the mutilation which they do in Africa. The African mutilation of organs is totally Haram and it is a torture and absolutely bestial practice. In Islam, women have different circumsion and it is healthy and help to feel more pleasure. Look up the term "hoodetomy"

[@r.b7979]

​@@Abunaza-as-seylanithere is 0 ways to circumcise a female that has benefits or improves sexual intercourse . You are misinformed

[@nimmynoo]

​@@muslimah42FGM is not sunnah or islamic. Its a cultural practice that predates Islam in some African and some south asian cultures. Unfortunately people mix old cultural practices with religion. Main point is its abuse and should not happen.

[@AllaahuAkbar60]

Islam is the future of North America and Europe Alhamdulila hee rabil aalameen

[@tashalachacha]

With holding sex is a ugly twisted power play.

[@sharifahahmed7402]

Assalam Walaikam, next time can you do a talk on the reasons for intimacy starved marriages and the ways to overcome it

[@dee6159]

I'm in a sexless marriage for over a year and it's horrible. Absolute torture! He injured his lower back in 2021 but I feel as if he uses that as an excuse because he's been to multiple drs and all have told him to see a physical therapist and do at home stretches and he's done nothing to better himself.

[@user-kd2kd1jr9s]

Divorce babes. Divorce.

[@huncho5877]

That’s a difficult situation. Remember to stay away from haram tho, if you think this might open a door to haram. My advice is to Divorce.

[@MohamedMohamed-br1xv]

@@user-kd2kd1jr9s fear Allah! Do not be a Satan that gets in between a marriage! Make dua for them and give her better advice!

[@easymathematics5398]

​@@huncho5877 what if she is forced to continue the marriage...and cannot escape from it...bcz if she could ...she woula have done it..

[@TheSnazzytv]

Me as a virgin girl suffering

[@aatif7518]

@@max20817 ask your mom? Lol He should find himself

[@Urbro_meast]

@Umar you don’t even know if the person behind this account is even a woman

[@umar9174]

@@Urbro_meast ik i was joking

[@Urbro_meast]

@@umar9174 I don’t think that could be taken as a joke

[@umar9174]

@@max20817 it was a joke max boy

[@TrainingTips09]

A lot of men are interested in watching tick tok rather then getting involved in your spouse.

[@nxbill]

Abbas: later down the line you can do whatever it says in the title (of the video) Me: 🥸

[@bilqiskashem3207]

Excuse me

[@fatimaheyabu8968]

Look to be honest, I feel like they didn’t mention really why the wife refuses her husband. If the couple is currently fighting or she feels neglected and un- heard of course the wife is not going to have intimacy with her husband🤦🏾‍♀️. Women’s like to be cherish and loved, so if they don’t get that then they really can’t love. I’m a women by the way

[@arabic-englishhadith4828]

Start Memorizing Hadith Today!!! Insha Allah

[@XpunkroyaltyX]

What is your opinion on this? I hold myself off from intimacy when my husband treats me bad. Such desires go away from me and i feel empty and hurt so i cant bring myself to do those things. It’s not once or twice that he does it, it’s a constant cycle, so i feel i have a right to withdraw myself in that way (as in i wont force myself to be intimate).

[@sophiesumleen7872]

Marital counselling?

[@أبوشغل]

"so i feel i have a right to withdraw myself in that way" Can we use the same logic to say a son doesn't have to obey his mother if she treats him badly? The husband should be advised and be reminded to fear الله in how he treats his women.

[@poonum737]

If you’re going to deprive him of his rights then just ask for a divorce all together seeking as he doesn’t seem ideal and you say you won’t force yourself to be intimate so save yourself the punishment for depriving him. Tomorrow if he cheats, it’ll be you who’ll be crying

[@gizmanyonis3560]

@@poonum737 what's with this whole if he cheats yall are married bro what do u do when she's menstrating or in postpartum bleeding or sick men aren't animals if u went all those years before marriage a virgin u can handle not doing it for a day

[@poonum737]

@@gizmanyonis3560 I don’t know what you’re talking about but okay

[@TrainingTips09]

Im texting on behalf of my friend . Her husband starves her from intimacy and it’s alway done when he wants it. He’s always on his phone either TikTok or Facebook but she’s found out that he’s been master- bating while watching stuff on his phone, while she is out or when he’s angry with her and he will do it so he won’t have to approach his wife. And let’s her suffer.. She’s heart broken and doesn’t want to live with him anymore and wants a divorce is she still sinful for asking for it. Please reply as she is such pain after she knows of it

[@huncho5877]

That’s not sinful as intimacy is her right. She can divorce him if he starves her. I would advice her to divorce depending on the severity. If it’s minor and he doesn’t really starve her, divorce is not necessary. So assess the severity

[@jacktayloor]

7:45 it starts

[@LugarLatore]

No one asked you for a time stamp. The beginning was included for a reason to add context to the subject

[@sadatkhan2012]

😄 You both brother revert?

[@Lion_Tawheed]

wa-ʿalaikumu s-salām wa-raḥmatu ʾllāhi wa-barakātuhu

[@Maijidda]

When you keep hearing of sunnah match but you can’t do anything about it cuz you are far away in Africa

[@samboy1406]

Dawah Man Aka Love Doctor

[@beinghuman4725]

Hhhh gun shy the name tho

[@hamzaahmed5436]

First comment alhamdillah

[@zayed8339]

me a real guy who doesn’t want to marry ☝🏻

[@sophiesumleen7872]

What do u advise to someone on a long distance marriage? Like smn is away from their wife for about six months after getting married and consummation of marriage?

[@stariehearts2366]

Video call

[@zubairraza2003]

Video call and get freaky

[@stariehearts2366]

@@zubairraza2003 not a good idea because pleasuring yourself is haram and that's what will happen if they get freaky

[@zubairraza2003]

@@stariehearts2366 I was joking

[@trickystuff5972]

@@zubairraza2003Don't joke when it comes to matters relating to the religion. He asked a valid question, don't answer if you are not serious.

[@bashir675]

Love you brothers for the sake off Allah

[@adamesmail]

وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته

[@عبدالله-ع8ج3ل]

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته I understand the brothers want to get straight to the point and not brush around these types of subjects. But please brothers try keep the content as censored as possible and the title is a bit much akhi. So please take this into consideration and take it as sincere advice. بارك الله فيكم

[@hehehheheheheh2765]

Without sounding rude, ofc the title is explicit but it is not inappropriate tbh. It's straight to the point. It would be be inappropriate if they used slang or misused the words but they didn't.

[@Amina-yl7im]

I also think this is not right .....one can say it diffrently this tooo much i would be ashamed of adressing this topic so directly

[@hehehheheheheh2765]

@@Amina-yl7im yh but it's a topic needs to be adressed because at the end of the day intimacy is a huge part of marriage.

[@Amina-yl7im]

@@hehehheheheheh2765 i am just not okay with that title .....as u said its a important topic but he could change it how he approach us with that ...

[@onlyallahisworthyofworship5599]

What is the evidence that the title is too much?

[@tashalachacha]

Haven't checked you for a long time.

[@farhiyaa4880]

@49 minutes also post partum - for 6 weeks after giving birth..no intimacy.

[@safeerasindhi7070]

Is this a week Hadith ... the one bowing down ?

[@aatif7518]

@Polygamy is Halal Wifey Side Chicks first learn what it says If prostrating to other than Allah was not haram, then women would have been ordered to do sujood to husbands

[@aatif7518]

@Polygamy is Halal Wifey Side Chicks it's halal provided equal rights You can't make it haram

[@MH-bf4uu]

@@aatif7518it’s a weak Hadith

[@safeerasindhi7070]

By the way I agree with everything. Even the Hadith. Just asking

[@sayefshah7632]

Roasting?

[@KANUsAlpha]

sexually frustrated, hormones rushing, blood rush to the intimate organs.

[@tsgrapiidz6970]

sexually turned on

[@grizzlybear2702]

I guess a asexual or gay man would make perfect marriage material. If he is never demanding sex then the woman would view that as one less chore.

[@tsgrapiidz6970]

@@grizzlybear2702 why would u even bring up LGBT ppl on an Islamic channel

[@grizzlybear2702]

@@tsgrapiidz6970 asexual people aren’t part of IGBT

[@user-bc2ik]

43:30 ended

[@TrainingTips09]

Salam I want some advice please how can I reach you

[@Amiraa12348]

Single lives matter 😂

[@khadizamrs6048]

38:00 where is this hadith ?

[@sarahjaguard6314]

Really need to change the titles of your videos…

[@grizzlybear2702]

What would happen if there was only one male Grizzly bear and 7.8 billion female polar bears. What if you parachute dropped the bear into the North Pole

[@cupcake3215]

It won't survive. Grizzly Bear 🐻 is not adapted to the temperature.

[@ziasmailbox]

@@cupcake3215 loool...

[@ziasmailbox]

Animals are not bound to any religious legislation. Only jinn and insan are , so then no what no if no but for animals, they do what their natural disposition makes them do by the Will of Allah

[@moezrashid2031]

please don’t mock the deen it’s very dangerous. Allah warns us in the Quran. If you ask them (about this), they declare: ‘We were only talking idly and joking.’ Say: ‘Was it at Allah, and His Ayat (proofs, evidences, verses, lessons, signs, revelations, etc.) and His Messenger (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) that you were mocking?’ Make no excuse; you have disbelieved after you had believed. If We pardon some of you, We will punish others amongst you because they were Mujrimoon (disbelievers, polytheists, sinners, criminals, etc.)” [at-Tawbah 9:64-66].

[@t-kidgaming340]

Some ppl are being forced married … so don’t talk you know what ur on - about bro

[@princemalireacts5932]

First

[@razer0072073]

16:40 24:45 38:29 51:26 58:20 1:10:39

[@princessdaphne444]

sujood to husband??? omg what

[@mountainguy8940]

Its not that the wife should do sujood to her husband but for example its out of respect like when Allah commanded the angels to make sujood to Adam عليه السلام out of respect and obedience to Allah now in the context of the husband the prophet ﷺ sed if he were to command any1 to make sujood to someone else it would b the wife to the husband so he isnt commanding but its to show the status of the husband wallahu ‘alam

[@princessdaphne444]

@@mountainguy8940 yes but men of today are not in the same league as Adam alaihi salam. he is the first man ever and first our prophet. so bowing down to Adam alaihi salam could not compare to any any woman today bowing down to her husband. bowing down to ones husband is inappropriate and there are other ways to show respect. Adam alaihi salam was praised for being the first human being so that was required for the angels to show reverance, but any man today? i can show my respect to my husband in a plethora of ways. how can the same sujood that i go into for Allah azzawajal, be the same sujood i go into for a man?? no way.

[@princessdaphne444]

@@mountainguy8940 yes but men of today are not in the same league as Adam alaihi salam. he is the first man ever and first our prophet. so bowing down to Adam alaihi salam could not compare to any any woman today bowing down to her husband. bowing down to ones husband is inappropriate and there are other ways to show respect. Adam alaihi salam was praised for being the first human being so that was required for the angels to show reverance, but any man today? i can show my respect to my husband in a plethora of ways. how can the same sujood that i go into for Allah azzawajal, be the same sujood i go into for a man?? no way.

[@mountainguy8940]

@@princessdaphne444 the hadith is showing the status of the husband this is becuz he provides he protects he looks after the wife also theres no point trying to point at a few ppl who dont treat their wives well nd disregard the hadith many men work all day and night to provide as well as being good to their wifes so i dont think its fair to pick out the men who dont give the right of their wifes

[@princessdaphne444]

@@mountainguy8940 my point is weather he fulfulls the rights or not, i would never go into sujood for any being other than ALLAH. thats it. idc if its the best man. sujood is a symbol of WORSHIP, why would i do it for any other than my creator???

[@ymyasar]

First. Hehe.

[@h.m3215]

😣🙃

[@AllaahuAkbar60]

Saudi Arabia and Pakistan best friends forever

[@southside6245]

Seems like polygamy is the answer

[@biba3025]

Really? As if women dont suffer in marriages from not being satisfied! Infact as a woman MAJORITY of sisters ive met have these pbs. U aint that of men. Fly back to earth.

[@Minamomy1]

Not

[@poonum737]

@@biba3025 literally lol. Majority of men can’t satisfy the one wife they have but want to fetch others... that’s fine but fulfil your obligations with the first one lol don’t burden multiple people with your tired self

[@poonum737]

@Boga Destroyer lol you’re opposing the sunnah of the prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم

[@aatif7518]

@@poonum737 what's the sunnah?

[@fufumistro5743]

what does sex starved mean

[@Enacaus]

not having sex for too long

[@wesleysnipes2758]

Modern day slavery bro.

[@adamesmail]

وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته