27 is the Most Important/Dangerous Age for Men

[@zakyman123]

Michael Jordan won his first nba championship at 27

[@1STMAN]

And you were 47 when you took office. No I'm kidding, 27 is so late for a sportsman, tells you so much about legacy above talent

[@zakyman123]

If youve been starting to progress from the time you were 16-20 lets say, by the time your 27-30 your full of the energy, drive, muscle mass and the brain power you speak of, now its your time to kill it. Your 30's might be your prime, however only if youve worked thru your 20's to get to it Also Tom Brady is 43

[@kez887]

@@zakyman123 love it

[@WavvyPrince]

MJ was actually 28. LeBron won his at 27 tho.

[@roudie]

Kendrick released TPAB at 27

[@nuttyjunior]

I am turning 27 in 2 months and I am just beginning my journey. Wasted my early 20s smoking weed, drinking, & being around losers. I am beginning now to set myself up for 30.

[@denzilshabazz]

Goodluck! Im in the same fight w/ you bro. Ain’t 💩 to be ashamed of just grow & take each day 1 @ a time. Compartmentalize each week & results/Improvement will show. If no one’s told you yet I’m proud of you & keep up the Good fight 💯

[@lilbroomstick7914]

smoking weed isnt bad, even khris smokes, its just about not doing it habitually so you form healthier habits. Khris probs smokes every week or month or so id imagine

[@vickiwithers8563]

Married young 23. 3 kids. 3 houses Financially independent. Tradesman.

[@oscarqu4346]

Thank you brother. I'm 26 and I almost gave up on working on who I always wanted to become in the future and gave in on settling down. Your video saved me from that.

[@jessejameslatimer8686]

I could have gotten married at 27 but said no. Now that I am 29, I feel like I made the right decision.

[@polrobinson1515]

It's a trap

[@UncrownedAsura]

It's ironic you say this, I was literally in the same boat today but I decided against it, and as soon as I decided that I come on YT and came across this video. And I believe I made the right choice.

[@noldi123]

I'm 26 and I'm glad I came across your channel. I make about $67K salary per year and have been saving up. Settling down later might be a good strategy in this day and age.

[@1STMAN]

Thank you man. 100% stay single. You're on great money for someome your age. Rack that money up. Spend the next 6 months getting your bills down and putting that spare money into an idea, an investment, a business. By 36 (the male advantage) you'll be millionaire level set. Glad I could catch you before 27

[@maximhollandnederlandthene7640]

Share your love but not your money! If you get married at least do prenuptual agreement, cold exclusion. Save yourself on future problems and Lawyers and go to a Notary !

[@maximhollandnederlandthene7640]

Wimen love your money the most, believe me 😂😂😂

[@Alxei23456]

@@maximhollandnederlandthene7640 prenups get thrown out all the time. Best not to get married at all

[@haselbasil2488]

@@1STMAN This is terrible advice, by 36 the only women who will want him are women who are also in their 30s ( nothing wrong with that ) or gold diggers. Most women in their 20s do not want men that old.

[@S93H794]

Im almost 28, and i feel like i have matured more in this past year than whole 26 years before that

[@didierraoult4123]

what did you discover?

[@jawlig]

compound effect. how is life looking now? 2 years later

[@NikMorales6]

Turning 27 in July, Im so grateful Im stumbled across these mens channels and educated myself. Dont want marriage or kids, working on getting myself in the Navy and save up a bunch of money while serving

[@1STMAN]

Nice man, It'll be the best decision you ever made. Take care of yourself first, it's the most forgotten rule in the modern era

[@davidodimayo9265]

Well done mate, I am 31 and growing every day. Same situation as you, working on interior design to make my pad the place to be :)

[@HonDrLuckykaluba]

Am also turning 27 in July

[@AndersonWave17]

Educate yourself financially. I financially literate. Tip, storing that money in the bank or a mattress is not the best idea

[@raemondkim]

I’ve followed your journey the past few years and made me into a great man. I’m currently 25, making over 300k a year, never have been in the best body shape, and have a woman that I am in love and peace with. Thank you for showing the good paths to becoming a man!

[@christianfinance1231]

What line of work do you do, Friend?

[@ZippyG]

@@christianfinance1231prolly sales or something

[@351831Bauce]

27 was a hellish and confusing age for me personally. At least I didn't make any large and irreparable mistakes so there's that.

[@Zlist1994]

I got one more month before I turn 28 in June but I feel exactly the same as you said most of the time. I moved to California to make music and films but then I let the pandemic keep me in a depressed unhappy way and kept thinking there’s no point anymore in trying to be creative. Im slowly getting better again and making better choices each day and don’t feel like shit most of the day anymore. I hope 28 is the year I actually chase my dreams 😁👌🏾

[@joshp.4127]

In what ways specifically if you don’t mind asking?

[@didierraoult4123]

Bro can you update please ? I'm 28, been in the army for 4 years now and I'm starting to hating it....Problem is, I don't have anything else to do. I don't even have hobbies

[@kucanusa3750]

Just turned 27 and needed to hear this. Thank you.

[@userx9822]

I'm 17, very happy I stumbled upon this channel at such an early age. Been watching you for around a month now and I've learnt alot, just wanted to say thank you.

[@Will_4560]

16 yr here with same thoughts

[@ChrisSmith-rh1xi]

18

[@ibrahsawool165]

15 here

[@ramahramy]

This man is dumb, ask him if he’s a millionaire himself, do you, as we all do have different routes in life, he’s here for view and money. Do not let these motivational speakers deceive you. Be your master, focus on reaching to you higher level

[@Leclaudservices]

I remember watching this in 2020 and here I am 2 years later and it completely changed my life .Thank You

[@michaeldaniels2278]

And don't forget the 27 club. All the musicians and actors who died at 27 is crazy.

[@1STMAN]

Yeah that one's weird, has to have something to do with 27 being a kind of meaningless age, a crossroads if you would which leads to depression

[@tibetan.music.universe]

@@1STMAN 23 was that for me

[@lorenzosteele2531]

@@1STMAN yeah man like mac miller died near thar age. he died at 26. RIP MAC MILLER

[@laxxai]

I just turned 27, I have a morgage, workout 6 times a week and make $200K in my design agency. I can`t wait to see where my actions take me as my wins continue to compound.

[@tyreemoreland2942]

this is a like a different take on the 27 Club theory. by the way, you are spot on about this. I came really close to marriage, kids, and a mortgage at around 28. glad i walked away.

[@Thedon9697]

I’m almost 27. You are spot on. I’m waiting longer to settle down. My Dad told me many years ago to live my bachelor life as a man first before settling down.

[@utkarshjha564]

I am 27 next month i needed this thanks.

[@Brother_Lew]

Been listening to this video regularly from age 25-28. The amount of attraction from females and the clarity of my brain Vs when I was in the first half of my 20's was unexpected

[@BuffaloWings713]

I just turned 27 a few hrs ago and search 27 years old on youtube and this video was the first result.Glad I watched.I have accepted my mistakes I have made throughout my 20s. I am paying the price now having to spend the rest of my 20s fixing it.

[@tyrillcelestine7049]

Damn I’m 27 and I thought I was ready to jump the gun but I do see a lot of incentives to wait till I’m 30

[@ConmanRajat]

Am 27 and I accept it, my all dreams are shattered and now I am just trying to earn just to live

[@drillingig2368]

That’s sad, bro, but whose fault is it?

[@Sam-vn9jm]

I got married at 27, I'm happy with a beautiful loyal women but now at 32 I'm so much more established and feel like the sense of urgency I had was completely unfounded.

[@haselbasil2488]

Had you waited you would not have the wife you now have, and despite what this guy says most women in their 20s do not want men in their thirties.

[@Sam-vn9jm]

@@haselbasil2488 appreciate that bro

[@haselbasil2488]

@@Sam-vn9jm Your welcome, never second guess the good things you have right now, enjoy your happiness.

[@Cousinbiddy1]

@@haselbasil2488no they do

[@Cousinbiddy1]

@@Sam-vn9jmnah u should of waited

[@antnovs]

25 here. Each year more and more women are noticing me/approaching me, and I'm afraif of setting down with the first one while my potential goes to waste. Your video helped me to see things from another perspective.

[@VNRPro]

Just keep hooking up

[@ShivanS]

"This is probably one of the best ever videos I have made on 1stMAN". Ha! such is hindsight. You've had many bangers since this video.

[@Quincy82AAC]

I am a childfree man at 41 with 2 business degrees with zero debts.

[@ssjr3604]

Bro u deserve an award for this video I am 30 an dnt have any kids am concentrating on nothing but myself for a while I will meet a woman wen am ready.

[@michaelkariuki5350]

How's it going?

[@callumraza5046]

By some miracle I made it to 38 single and child free, you are insanely wise and intelligent at 28 fair play

[@1STMAN]

Appreciate it man. You're set up perfectly

[@ForeignChopper]

I have this mindset at 18

[@michaelkariuki5350]

How's it going? Looking to learn something from you?

[@Quincy82AAC]

I am a childfree man at 41 with 3 business degrees with zero debts.

[@59DGO59]

But do you still get young hot women at 38-40 ?

[@jamesmoranthefascinatingyo1764]

When I was younger I always thought that I would be living in the states by the time I was 25, and I am now 27 and still living in the UK.

[@OTadashi162]

I'm so grateful for stumble into this video... I have 27 years with 6 months of regular workouts and I already can feel this peek rising up. After a good period of mental health improvement, I can sense that a lot of potential is about to explode and take me so far that will be unbelievable for a kid who grew in poverty. Life is so good when you know where you are going.

[@greenkidd529]

30 year old, virgin, no skills. no college education. ADHD, possible autism. soo...wtf do i do?

[@trejure93yrs23]

Learn a skill

[@ndlugani2008]

Chill out figure out what you want to do in life and get started. Hit the gym get some hobbies and everything else will fall into place.

[@lilbroomstick7914]

Turning 26 today. Been a sub to your channel for over a year now and it’s been a great constant reminder to keep my head on straight keep grinding. This is my fourth time going through this video. Thanks for what you do Khris. Can’t say enough about how you gave young men a future when much of their lives up to this point they’ve been treated as more than disposable

[@SmithyWesson]

About to turn 27 in 5 hrs !!! I was a teenager like yday tfkk

[@SavageSanto]

This is so true, when I was 27 last year, I thought about settling down and marrying this 28 year woman. It didn’t work out and I’m glad, I’m 28 now and just working focusing on myself and career !

[@jaimernandez94]

My fckn god you scared me a lot, I have a black cloud in front of my eyes and this is helping me a lot to make it more clear

[@getnorgetout9425]

I was exactly the opposite at age 27. I was a virgin. I was broke. I had no career path, and was very depressed because of all these things. However, the good thing about being in a bad spot is how it gives you motivation to change. My life started getting good in my 30s and I'm really good on money. I paid cash for both my cars, don't have a mortgage and still don't mess with women. Women are expensive no matter what you do. It's better to stay a virgin and focus on making money instead of making babies. It doesn't matter if you're a virgin when you have more money than everyone else. I think poverty is far worse than virginity. I'd rather die a virgin than die poor.

[@adityanishad4985]

Bro Go To Amesterdam

[@ΑλέξανδροςΚατριτσης]

So you never consider the experience of being with a woman?

[@randodude5845]

You haven't missed out on anything man, that's a good mindset to have.

[@v1ct0ro40]

Sounds like cope to me. Like I am a virgin as well, but I still want to touch a girl, kiss a girl, experience sex, be desired, etc

[@Dizzy808]

just go to south America you will find a plenty of 10's willing to be wives

[@josephadeshokan5545]

This video is amazing for mental health.. life isn’t a race

[@lucascoelho1995]

True

[@michaeldost8155]

It is if you’re looking for kids/marriage. Now that doesn’t mean you have to settle down early, but if you want an ideal woman, you’ve got to reach the finish line (become higher value than most men) before any other man. There will be ones lagging in the back that will try to pull you backwards with them but you’ve got to ignore them and keep your eyes up front.

[@jaydoubleli]

Family lawyers, marriage counsellors, and the blood diamond industry wouldnt be happy if most men went mgtow

[@1STMAN]

Exactly, I can't believe people don't find a marriage tax break sus - like the goverment actually want to help you, why? Because the economy benefits so much more from marriage and divorce - your money drains either end

[@ryanarchuleta6231]

The funny thing is I used to think my window was closing and I was running out of time. Lately it's more like the window was only slightly open and as I actually need more time to pass for the window to be fully open. My physique is much better, my money is going up, etc.

[@Titanicdork133]

I settled down at 28, no regrets.

[@Jdb63]

Kris if you see this, look at how different you looked just 4 years ago. Absolutely wild change you made

[@garingalaochristanpaulcpus4185]

Thank you for this information bro, I love your content, I'm 22 right now and I'm planning for my future. Big help!

[@1STMAN]

22 is perfectly placed. 8 years to focus on gym, success and improving as a man. If you do this right, it's perfect 30's, 40's and 50's

[@henryrivera47]

There’s nothing wrong with finding a partner and having someone by your side. I agree that it might be costly, but I find it scary to be 35 with no kids. We should become the best version of ourselves for ourselves, but I feel like many want to live that playboy lifestyle. There’s nothing wrong with that but I wouldn’t want to be 36 and still sleeping around regardless if they’re 10’s. I’m doing this for my future partner and my kids. My goal by 30 is to be making well over 6 figures and it seems like I’m on track. I would love to run my own business as well sometime in the future, maybe by 35 but I would also love to have a wife.

[@notquitehim]

Well shit I just turned 28 a couple months ago and 27 was an absolute dry spell year lmao No regrets I started my company

[@A_View_From_The_Shire]

I generally agree with the argument. Mortgages though - Western currencies are debasing year after year. Manipulated CPI numbers puts inflation at 7%, when it’s actually more like 15%. Most mortgages are fixed at 3%. Even if you’re buying a house to live in and not renting it, the house is still an asset by default and the debt you owe on it is eroding overtime.

[@Sharmanixs]

Turned 26 this year- looking to see where I get to when I hit 27.

[@VNRPro]

How was it?!

[@sleeper9638]

The problem with this is when left to their own devices, women do not work on themselves or improve in anyway, they just throw themselves further down the gutter. If you're waiting until you're older, you're never going to have those times of building up a relationship when you're both young and fresh or experiencing new things together. The older you get, the less you'll have in common with a younger chick, you're not going to want to do the same things. And all the women around your age will just have been wrecking themselves for all those years that you've been building up

[@BadWolfSilence]

What an incel thing to say.

[@eyevenear]

i've been wondering what was happening to me this year and in this exact video i'm finding the confirmations of my answers. this is a beautiful age if you realize that your life is finally starting to peak, all the way to the ultimate potential. don't waste your life now that things are finally starting to go extraordinary well.

[@VNRPro]

Damn you’re almost 30 years old now

[@brownhuntr]

i believe that maybe men do everything earlier in life to find the perfect partner, and ideally when they’re 27 or so they found them and settle to form a family

[@jwwashere888]

26 going on 27, kind of excited and motivated after watchinh this

[@1STMAN]

You watch how quickly things come together in the next 3 years, it's actually mental. When you avoid these things, you start overtaking everyone who didn't and reach levels very few can

[@jwwashere888]

@@1STMAN Even listening to people complain about theyre kids and responsibilities is cringe to hear now, its like, they chose that. Im not even thinking about kids until i have at least a few million saved up first, and even then, i still might not lol

[@nighteyes360]

Well shit man, I never thought of it that way. I'm 28 and my soon to be 27 girlfriend already thinks about having kids. Maybe waiting my mid 30's is smarter.

[@shah1776]

Your girl will struggle to have kids in her mid thirties. I’m in a similar predicament but my girl is 4.5 years younger so has more time. Chances of things going wrong are exponentially higher as women age

[@marechalleblond1932]

At 27 your girlfriend has to have children now, her mid thirties will be quite late, either have kids with her or dump her like that she has the time to find a new boyfriend who wants kids

[@nighteyes360]

Guys, when you love someone, it's really not that easy to dump them. I perfectly understand your points nonetheless, and I almost feel guilty for her. But I think the fact my mother got me at 34 didn't make me think about it so much about it. But yeah; I got myself into a rather tricky situation there.

[@shah1776]

@@nighteyes360 yes 100% not an easy decision, sorry to make light of it, just my view from a logical third party perspective. It just highlights the importance of knowing this sorta information young to avoid these tough situations. Best of luck with everything friend.

[@greghollywood4322]

@@nighteyes360 follow your heart! How you getting on mate?

[@eliarbaiza]

The thing that sucks is aging can be tough. I've been balding and graying since then and women don't seem interested at this point. I wish I would've met someone at 27 now I'm 34 and losing hair.

[@AuTenTikZz]

Thanks you for sharing this knowledge. I’m only 21

[@1STMAN]

No worries, keep an eye on it. Many, many men have said they'd NEVER do X or Y, but they meet an 8 at 27 and everything changes

[@joshsmithSci-Tech]

@@1STMAN How would stop yourself from doing that?

[@1STMAN]

@@joshsmithSci-Tech Yeah it's tough because until a 10 approaches you it's hard to know how you'd react. Trick is to become aware that she is one of many. If you attract 1 hot girl the same system will continue to work. Too many guys have a scarcity mindset and take the first good offer

[@angusharley5947]

As a 28 year old I have watched this and I am ready to be selfish. I have been thinking about how I am going to maximise this massively. Save at least 1K a month, have a side job even if it is just delivering pizzas or something, and when I do buy my house let a room out. Let the money build up and eventually invest in assets. Most people, adults included scoff at me when I talk about this. Fuck them, this is the way forward. This is how you become a beast. All you need is a good 9 to 5, a decent side hustle and some degree of financial literacy.

[@halfdoc97]

Turned 27 this year and recently graduated with a degree in medicine. Can't relate with some points mentioned in the video as many doctors start their career late in life unless someone joined medical university at a young age. Nevertheless a good video as some points were useful.

[@darealshenal1452]

My 27th birthday is tomorrow. Thanks for this video 😍😍

[@halfreeman2989]

This is great shit man, so many other guys need to watch this.

[@Uax101]

Needed to hear this. I'm a new college grad (25 yo) and I'm going to be making really, really good money at my big tech job as a software engineer in a new city where there are a lot of options. Relatives have hinted that I should search for a partner now, but I don't think I will. I have dreams and goals that I want to achieve. It does get lonely though, even right now at home and at this age where it seems like everyone is getting hitched. I think I will get a dog instead.

[@1STMAN]

Exactly, just focus on you until it's cemented success. A dog is hit or miss, takes up a lot of your time and freedom

[@juanzavala9023]

Go make that silicon valley unicorn start up big dawg!

[@alpha5614]

Awesome content. Waiting till late 30s or early 40s for getting married doesn't seem to have any drawbacks for men. More life experience, stability in career/business and finances, peak of physical attractiveness (if diligently worked on) etc. Just wondering what makes majority of men to marry and settle down by the age of 30!

[@1STMAN]

I think a lot of people just get bored and look for direction. If your life is; 9 to 5 job, weekends at the pub and sports, you need something to cling onto that gives the impression of momentum. For a lot of people that's marriage, mortgage and babies

[@bcoburn6827]

Better yet. Just remain single... When you've built that up by 30s why waste it? I can understand the desire for kids though. The one thing I don't regret

[@1STMAN]

@@bcoburn6827 Yeah stay single, invest your money rather than get a mortgage, once you're settled around 40 consider kids if that's something you want

[@bluelagoon5]

Thank you for this video man, so important for men to hear!

[@ssjr3604]

Am looking 4 a personal trainer now Am 30 been working out all my life an a personal trainer myself but Am in my last year of university in engineering I hope life gets better from here on coz been young was hard but always had patience to know my time will come.

[@ChrisWalker-pd2xn]

im 27 but feel 21 shit is weird.

[@juanzavala9023]

Your brain doesn't develop around 26. You're fine bro.

[@ninohehe4877]

Same here. I'm 25 btw, but feels like 17 or 18.

[@roadrunnabeats]

Same bro, physically I feel similar to a kid still I still get the urge to take off running but I'd look stupid as a grown man randomly taking off running 😂

[@trekkingtomahawk921]

30s will be the new 20s

[@carsonjwill]

“Still going to be the same price” *inflation be like yeeeah bout that.

[@kelvinmaina4357]

I got fired at 27 .....started my business at 27 .....its very successful am 31

[@amlaanbhattacharjee8001]

Absolute class video as always, watching at 27

[@straightforward4775]

Broo Me 2

[@prod.gerero]

This type of content women don’t want you to know. 🍻

[@ayoubarcus]

What is this genre called. I came here by searching "quarterlife crisis" alot

[@prod.gerero]

@@ayoubarcus "intersexual dynamics" "modern women" "modern dating"

[@haselbasil2488]

This is dumb. In the past and even today, the marriages that are most successful are the ones with men and women who got married in their 20s and who had little to no sexual experience. Did you ever think that those men who got married in their 20s are still happy and don't regret it, I know a lot of those men but according to you they did something wrong even tho they are still happy. Also having children is hard work, it's a young person's game.

[@kazenriq]

28yo rn and I dont even touched my possible prime yet

[@1STMAN]

Agreed - 29 and feel like I only began last year

[@50-Stylez]

Thank you for this insight

[@1STMAN]

No worries Jay

[@maximhollandnederlandthene7640]

Just don't get married. Life ends with marriage or a vew years later isn't it.

[@1STMAN]

Yeah marriage goes one of two ways - 1. Stuck with a woman you no longer find attractive 2. Lose half your money - One of those is a certainty

[@AndersonWave17]

@@1STMAN Kevin Samuels mentioned the unwritten rule unmarried men are viewed as untrustworthy or unstable. I do believe I don’t need a contract with the state to be faithful, and it incentivizes women to break it. But I do desire kids and a wife eventually when I’m established.

[@DoctorRapper]

28 in a 6 yr relationship… shit lol you’ve got me thinking…

[@ConmanRajat]

Am 27 and trust me this video just blow me, am just now thinking should I really marry or not,

[@clarity8296]

Most important video of my life

[@daigomasculinidade]

I have 20 years old. Wished I saw you channel earlier.

[@izphoe]

Hella informative thank you bro

[@1STMAN]

No worries, thanks for watching, hope it helps

[@theprinceofbabylonia]

Only get married if you are religious. After all a wedding day is a religious ceremony. It still baffles me that atheists still get married, even tho they don't truly believe in it. Loving someone should be enough, you don't need to declare your love infront of a god that you don't believe in! Save the wedding money and do something fun with it.

[@westq2]

27 right now, l am getting nothing.

[@1STMAN]

Did you put in the work?

[@ironkinggaming_]

@@1STMAN I'm almost 27 and I've put so much work and got fuk all luck a big factor unfortunately but I 30s are the peak so we'll see then

[@cassidy318]

Real stuff subscribed!

[@TrulyFave]

My question now for you all would be, are there things that having a committed relationship with a girl and/or having a kid (or maybe not yet until later) stops a man from achieving all these things that he would if he “waited” longer to settle down? I never understood the idea that settling down holds a man back in his life. I’m genuinely curious.

[@Brand-of6eo]

Subscribing to this channel off this video. Great content!

[@thenightrider95]

Just going to turn 27 years old. This helps

[@luisjoselopezdev]

All true, 28 yrs old over here

[@LiLPAnCOoKie]

Well February turning 27 intresting that I found here, but I will never giving up on my goals and dreams until I reach it.. I don’t care if I don’t have lot of money or no children’s. But I’m still scared to end up with nothing and being mental burned. Most pressure would come from Asian parents telling when u have babies or how the career going? They don’t understand my drive for my goals hm

[@1STMAN]

The thing is, if you give in to others, in 10 years time you'll realise they were wrong and you're not happy

[@destinypius-zw1lv]

Great financial advice 😅

[@B_Man_13]

Being a Hispanic man; my Hispanic culture has always been like this; Hispanic people have kids first and then get “married” years later after having like 10 kids by the time they are 25-30 😂 I can make fun of my culture for that cuz I’m Hispanic myself and witnessed that. I’m not the average 30 year old Hispanic man cuz I don’t have kids and never been “married”. After seeing my friends and family getting divorces and fighting custody of their kids, that greatly discouraged me from having kids and getting “married” in my 20s. The reason I put these “ “ in the word “marriage” cuz I see it as a joke and scam for men. It only benefits the woman and never the man. So I don’t believe in “marriage”. I only believe in being with a woman and having kids with her without ever getting the government involved. But I don’t plan on having kids now and I’ll choose to start settling down until probably like 38-43. I don’t care if people think that’s too old cuz I’m in control my life and nobody else is. I’m in the process of starting my own business and I don’t have time for unnecessary distractions in my 30s. Also, a lot of men get “married” with women that they don’t even like or don’t see her as attractive cuz that’s the one woman they had for the moment. That shit is sad and depressing to me. But that’s not gonna be me. Eventually I will want to be with a woman but it will be with a woman that I desire to be with. I refuse to settle for less.

[@timirichards8111]

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[@sebastiancorrales]

Would a man of value message in comment section ? Anyways about me , Im 25 , 5ft 5 don't have much assets, friends or gf but I feel like my life is just beginning. I totally agree with first man about most man at age 27 because we are seeing this with millennial men being unhappy & I know we gen z men can & will do way better - like Gary vee said "you got so much time" I live by it & it's not always fun/pretty because what stinks about 'working on yourself' is that you see fam & friends get ( "more temporary success") leaving you felt left behind, however you will eventually top them out and probably live a better life as long as you don't settle early . For me it's been hard because I haven't done anything with a women in 6 years, still finding my mission, improving on social skills due to Asperger syndrome & trying to do more instead of thinking so much on my journey of lifetime growth. I think HS is a demo to real life , felt at my peak the last semester but freshman- junior - I was nobody & felt life did me wrong being the last on everything. I think a man should have multiple peaks in life because neither do I want to look back at my 20s and see how rough it was just to live' good in my 30+ life. Hope this made sense and it helped out for anyone ,-pls DM for any questions or advice peace.

[@MauriceLeviejr]

I see the situation very differently: the age men can find women to marry depends wholly on the WOMEN. Men have the pair bonding urge from the moment their testosterone peaks, women are simply reacting to the drop in testosterone around 28 that causes an exponential decline in interest- aka women are timing the market. Earlier female cohorts attempting to push the age of marriage out as far as age 43 did very poorly, the current max age givers around 32. I don’t see a way out. It is what it is

[@zb6581]

Some of this advice clearly comes from never forming a true emotional relationship/bond with somebody. Whether it's your inability from your character or from the way you grew up, it's sad to me that all you view of women is as "Oh you could've waited 3 years and gotten with a girl 2 points hotter". I can't say there's anything to be jealous of if this your view of the world.

[@reke9942]

I can understand why you feel that way. But I think the main take away he is making is not just settling the moment the life starts opening more opportunities to you. A person can be vain and say I’m waiting just so I can date a hotter girl, which I don’t think is his whole argument, but let’s honestly question what most women are looking for in men. I can bet most women are willing to not settle for a guy that doesn’t have a job compared to one who has. Extreme example but I hope it gets my point across.

[@zb6581]

@@reke9942 I think that's a pretty healthy way of looking at it. Completely agree that nobody should settle and many men shouldn't be distracted by relationships anyway if they're grinding. I've just noticed a trend lately of self-improvement KZbinrs looking at women purely from the what's external and not considering that people have substance on the inside too. I just wanted to warn people that having a girl '2 points hotter' or whatever isn't always what it's cracked up to be. My happiest relationship was with somebody that I left (who I still considered attractive) because I thought that being with somebody even more attractive was what I needed, but I regret it. I was foolish and hope that others can do better.

[@channel3socialandmindset571]

It's not -just- that the girls you can get are hotter. There are a lot of hot girls who are an absolute nightmare and would make your life miserable. It's that when you are at your peak as a man (a mixture of things, but yes it includes looks and finance, as well as emotional maturity), you are now in a place where you have the most possible options with women, so you can now be selective for the kind of woman that you really want.

[@MFKST]

Ohhhhh damn I'm 27 😱

[@3hristopher]

For some reason I feel like 27 is father /grandpa age idk why

[@viviansingh8522]

I'm 26 and still a virgin 😔

[@greenkidd529]

you have about 2 years to change things radically. 1 year to kill your bad habbits and the next year to absolutely figure out what you want to do . after that. it just aint gonna happen. you might be able to get a hobby , find community through the hobby etc. but you wont learn any new meaningful skills or have many opportunities to have a really successful career.

[@top510s4]

Are there no daily diuretics supplements available to purchase ?

[@mavshorts1076]

Men are most physically attractive around 24-28, not 32-36, again with the BS lol.

[@manosijroy8282]

Sadly I am 22 and never had a girlfriend and no girl really seems romantically interested in me. I feel FOMO all the time

[@Yasir-uf4gv]

Bro iam from India and here we have no option when we are over 28

[@amlaanbhattacharjee8001]

Let's not confine ourselves to india

[@amlaanbhattacharjee8001]

And that is changing fast, what you're saying btw

[@ukaszwrobel1145]

In my country mens have a babe at 22-25 and married in this same age xd

[@minthihanaing2995]

Thanks

[@expertguy101]

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[@mannmitstandmentoring]

open eyes

[@davidodimayo9265]

So I am 3, I should be waiting till 35-37 before cashing out. How do you know when to cash out?

[@1STMAN]

It's all about life setup. Female attention is 1 good gauge, do you have beautiful women wanting to be with you/secondly could you retire tomorrow and be relatively okay?