29, single, broke & burnt out

Hi you guys, thank you for spending your time with me for another life update 🤍 this one is mostly about how I have been navigating recent changes in my life as a single girl in her late 20's, and finally facing myself after years of constant numbing and distracting me from me!
Speak soon x

[@k1ttymami]

so glad you are back 🤍 you are not alone in feeling the ways that you do. please continue posting what is heavy on your heart!

[@haddyjats]

Aw thank you 🥺🤍 I hope you have a good weekend x

[@agbaya1000]

I discovered your channel on my KZbin homepage and I am so happy I found this video. I am going through the exact same thing as well (31, out of full time unemployment since December 2023, struggling financially, struggling to find a job, lack of social life due to lack of money and slowly slipping in and out of situational depression). I have a side business that is keeping me busy and bringing in some money to keep me going and if I keep at it, it will keep growing. It really brings me joy and I wish I could do it full time. I was blown between 22:40 and 27:00 cause I am experiencing the same thing! Limerence is something we are prone to as an escape from our real lives btw. Today I had to force myself to get out of the bed and into the gym cause working out helps me feel better loads. Also my screen time on my phone some days is 14h!! Which is insane. I want to bring it down to 4h. Thanks a lot for sharing. I feel less alone ❤

[@ShannonAlexis96]

I went through almost the exact same identity crisis as you, it's crazy how many things you said resonated with me!

[@kubrahussain6458]

I feel exactly what you’re describing and i agree that we are so much more privileged right now for what is happening in the world but also u feel so lost in life where as everyone you know have done so much more in their lives

[@haddyjats]

Yes for sure! But knowing how blessed we are regardless is what we have to remember 🤗 hope you’re well ✨

[@p1x3Lm4z3-i4u]

i am the same. most of the situations you mention are direct parallels to things in my life. a lot of that same anxiety you described turned out to be OCD, for me. i'm interested in your update

[@haddyjats]

Oh really 😩 I was actually talking to my mum recently about OCD. Did you go to the doctor about it? Thank you 🤗

[@42rose]

Thanks so much for sharing. This so comforting as a fellow 29 year old woman (of color) in a very similar situation. Wish I had sister like you to go through this stuff together 😭❤ Would you ever consider doing a video on your uni/post-uni experience? Cheers x

[@haddyjats]

Aww that's so sweet, it would be so nice to have a sister to go through life with!! 🥺 I'm so glad you found this comforting & I hope you're doing okayy! 🤗 oo that's not really something I've thought about doing honestly, but I potentially could if I think I have anything worth saying haha xx

[@kubrahussain6458]

Am turning 29 in 20 days and this feels like your talking about me

[@L_N2145]

I love your videos. I wish you uploaded more often.

[@haddyjats]

@@L_N2145 aw thank you lovely! I wish I did too 😫

[@haileyywang]

So happy to find someone who can relate. I’m 29 & it’s like you are telling my life story with a few differences 🥹. I wish you all the best ❤️

[@haddyjats]

Aw I think there’s a lot of people in the same sort of situations but it’s just not really talked about! Thank you lovely, wish you all the best too 🤗🤍

[@alishafariyike3132]

I love the realness ❤️🙏

[@2moreminutes]

just in time for me to ruminate before my 28th

[@haddyjats]

😂 happy birthday for then!

[@tima1443]

I understand how hard it is too:( I have moderate adhd … and I had a hard time in my jobs . It lowered my self esteem & I’m not where I’d like to be sadly. I wished I had money so that I could feel free to travel , get a new phone, etc… but I don’t have a full time job just bc I get so burnt out & im scared that I won’t handle it…idk I’m tired

[@haddyjats]

Aw it's so hard isn't when you feel stuck in a cycle like that! :/ I just hope that you find a job that suits you & doesn't burn you out. Hopefully that will give you the freedome to do what you want. Wish you all the best xx

[@blessedtobealive]

Beautiful people do great in life. If you want a relationship you can get it, if you want money you can get it. Attractive people have no problems.

[@haddyjats]

I do understand what you're saying and thank you for grouping me in that haha. But I don't think it's as easy as that, and you have to know that you're beautiful and know how to use that to your advantage, or have the vim to do so!

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[@solomeayele]

I hope you do find God, maybe the curtains falling was a sign for you to really just think about that lol. Trust me you will never regret finding God, I never have. Just pray and ask him to show you who he is.

[@haddyjats]

Haha eek maybe! Thank you for your advice xx