3 BEST WAYS To Start A Conversation With A Beautiful Woman

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The Attractive Man

The Attractive Man

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@Theattractiveman
@Theattractiveman 5 жыл бұрын
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@مهردادباقری-ع4ط
@مهردادباقری-ع4ط 5 жыл бұрын
I don't care anymore I don't have no girlfriend no happiness and no hope to find once one of them while some of u guys have a thousand of gf but do u know what I have. I have cure for stupidity for sadness,for every single problem that every each one of you have in your miserable lives including death but it can be used to destroy freewill as well I have an idea why use it that way you are only years away before becoming my slaves I will have earth and every person walking on it at my command u were nothing and u will be nothing.
@nekomuffin8918
@nekomuffin8918 5 жыл бұрын
@@مهردادباقری-ع4ط well good luck with that 👍
@luckymarina4987
@luckymarina4987 5 жыл бұрын
Watch kzbin.info/www/bejne/pKPVm2qYiq10iq8 and plz pin for me
@emmarose1809
@emmarose1809 5 жыл бұрын
Hmmmmm... impressive😘
@avengersendthegame8817
@avengersendthegame8817 5 жыл бұрын
@@مهردادباقری-ع4ط or you will ask a girl and not say I don't like them anymore cause of a missed chance, you can still win in this version of life you know why cause youre like me, I never got to ask my crush but I moved on, because I saw chance in me, to have honesty,security and be humble to others,to ask some new girl out. Honesty and respect will guide you my brother.
@Mau2498
@Mau2498 5 жыл бұрын
1.- Talk to her within the first 3 seconds 2.- Open strong (good opening line) 3.- Don't get caught up in the opener
@theunconventionaldeal3879
@theunconventionaldeal3879 5 жыл бұрын
You got about 20 seconds.
@jorgefigueroa2406
@jorgefigueroa2406 5 жыл бұрын
3.0031 seconds... fvck!!
@KZwai
@KZwai 5 жыл бұрын
@@jorgefigueroa2406 Hehehehehehehehe...
@Superior9744
@Superior9744 5 жыл бұрын
Yea i lower my car window and ask how much?
@christopherloganwilson3992
@christopherloganwilson3992 5 жыл бұрын
LMFAO
@Sans-Undertale
@Sans-Undertale 5 жыл бұрын
1: *Sees girl from across the hallway* 2: *runs like a maniac to approach her in 3 seconds* 3: *girl freaks out and runs away* Me: This technique sucks!
@ahmirfaller3451
@ahmirfaller3451 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah me too they think im a hold upper lmfao
@abelchavez4053
@abelchavez4053 5 жыл бұрын
You look beautiful to me by Eric Clapton
@ryzedragon880
@ryzedragon880 5 жыл бұрын
Your scaring her
@thebeastofburden8770
@thebeastofburden8770 5 жыл бұрын
yeah, if you look like Homer Simpson
@keeganstark5634
@keeganstark5634 5 жыл бұрын
Bruh I can't stop laughin
@DerDudelino
@DerDudelino 5 жыл бұрын
The interesting part is - and this took me a long time to fundamentally understand: You can't lose in this interaction. Even if she is busy, has a boyfriend or whatnot, you will feel good about making that step.
@Theattractiveman
@Theattractiveman 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the comment!
@legendbtv
@legendbtv Жыл бұрын
Absolutely ! It’s way better than not doing it and hating yourself for it.
@NibberKSmooth
@NibberKSmooth 5 жыл бұрын
Attract women by not giving a care about what she thinks of you.
@irieeyes12
@irieeyes12 5 жыл бұрын
New Thought lol this actually works
@NibberKSmooth
@NibberKSmooth 5 жыл бұрын
@@irieeyes12 Women are odd. They want what they can't have, by not giving an F about them you have their attention.
@irieeyes12
@irieeyes12 5 жыл бұрын
New Thought lol exactly
@bencrosbie
@bencrosbie 5 жыл бұрын
Be narcissistic haha
@ahmed19ui
@ahmed19ui 5 жыл бұрын
New Thought I’ve been doing this all my life it doesn’t work
@fsdhvfuwyef10
@fsdhvfuwyef10 5 жыл бұрын
Why do I have the strong feeling that this guy has never had a girlfriend
@RTBRuhan
@RTBRuhan 5 жыл бұрын
Lol
@Crabernacker
@Crabernacker 5 жыл бұрын
Cause hes an ejaculate and evacuate kinda dude alpha mans dont need a serious relationship with all these girls falling all over them 🤣🤣🤣
@lopyeet4308
@lopyeet4308 5 жыл бұрын
You probably read the channel name
@9ilouniian935
@9ilouniian935 5 жыл бұрын
He's too skinny 👌👌
@fullelement4886
@fullelement4886 5 жыл бұрын
Hmm, the channel name, the way he talks, and his awful advice? Those may have been some small indicator.
@SuperKamiPandaReact
@SuperKamiPandaReact 5 жыл бұрын
3 rules 1) strike first 2) strike hard 3) no mercy Cobra Kia nevers dies
@Ricothefamouskidz1998
@Ricothefamouskidz1998 4 жыл бұрын
Niceeeeee
@ajbklion7223
@ajbklion7223 5 жыл бұрын
Never show fear that's how it is done
@Martin-vj7zx
@Martin-vj7zx 5 жыл бұрын
fear is an illusion. its just the mind that is afraid.
@K4HPredat0r
@K4HPredat0r 5 жыл бұрын
They can smell fear
@ajbklion7223
@ajbklion7223 5 жыл бұрын
They can sense it naw they can see it even though u don't notice it
@dwightfartschrute2807
@dwightfartschrute2807 5 жыл бұрын
They cause fear
@memeagain4106
@memeagain4106 5 жыл бұрын
@@dwightfartschrute2807 no they don't... your own mind causes fear!
@ikeeptime
@ikeeptime 5 жыл бұрын
Absolute best opener: Do you have change for a hundred?
@akawakasaka
@akawakasaka 5 жыл бұрын
What if she does?
@laverdadbuscador
@laverdadbuscador 5 жыл бұрын
@@akawakasaka then you just get change and continue to talk to her. It takes time to pull out money.
@halcioncocaine2096
@halcioncocaine2096 5 жыл бұрын
How about the classic,do you live around here🏡
@G-LukeJA
@G-LukeJA 5 жыл бұрын
Drop a like if Kurtis brought you here
@maureenmccormick4535
@maureenmccormick4535 5 жыл бұрын
G-Luke YEE YEE
@dikshamishra1957
@dikshamishra1957 5 жыл бұрын
Here lol
@inessa5923
@inessa5923 5 жыл бұрын
bust down
@Akaimayn
@Akaimayn 5 жыл бұрын
Kurtis who ?
@karenaapus4307
@karenaapus4307 5 жыл бұрын
@@Akaimayn kurtis Conner
@johnnycash7803
@johnnycash7803 5 жыл бұрын
All you need is confidence an don't worry about being rejected it gonna happen alot
@johnnycash7803
@johnnycash7803 5 жыл бұрын
@PrinceBerggyyy Singer listen walk up to her with the up most confidence an respect try to be funny even make fun of yourself a little if you're goof at that it kinda breaks the ice an shows you got a sense of humor. Own the moment! I'm not saying I'm pimp daddy but I've had my fun an failures an rejections. If you get rejected don't let it crush you everything happens for a reason she's just wasn't for you. Let me know how it goes.
@jermainejones1560
@jermainejones1560 5 жыл бұрын
That's right, healthy rejection builds attraction...👍
@johnnycash7803
@johnnycash7803 5 жыл бұрын
@vinay pant then just ask the next one an the next. I don't know why but I can be rejected all night an move onto the next girl bro. Maybe cause I had a job in sales when I was 18 where I got rejected a hundred times a day to get one yes. Law of negatives you will get a yes after so many no's.
@Matthew-cd8iv
@Matthew-cd8iv 5 жыл бұрын
Your like the uncle/good figure people need in their life. Just wanted ya to know that.
@johnnycash7803
@johnnycash7803 3 жыл бұрын
@KZbin Sucks so people who are considered unattractive or not funny never meet anyone? If those are not your strong points then find a strong point you have. Everyone has one. My wife thinks I'm funny but I bet alot of women I've met didn't think so an thats probably one of the reasons I'm not still with the. All I'm just saying there is someone out there for everyone. You just have to not be afraid to try to talk to somone an don't be afraid to be rejected.
@xwoken8893
@xwoken8893 5 жыл бұрын
The easiest way to start a conversation is to show her your fortnite stats.
@Theattractiveman
@Theattractiveman 5 жыл бұрын
Don't forget to show your fortnite dance moves as well! lol
@TreyGoose
@TreyGoose 5 жыл бұрын
Gay😂
@xwoken8893
@xwoken8893 5 жыл бұрын
@@TreyGoose straight😂
@welcome_to_macnelsonworld
@welcome_to_macnelsonworld 5 жыл бұрын
it work all the time
@bryanbowlin8657
@bryanbowlin8657 5 жыл бұрын
That's stupid
@israelweyesa1934
@israelweyesa1934 5 жыл бұрын
I always use the same opener at parties. you walk up to the girl and tell her "I think you owe me a drink". when she asks why you tell her "because I saw you and dropped mine"
@SamuraiAtlas
@SamuraiAtlas 5 жыл бұрын
I did this and she told me to fuck off
@abbyjoachim2678
@abbyjoachim2678 5 жыл бұрын
That's tough
@papavevo9166
@papavevo9166 5 жыл бұрын
@@SamuraiAtlas lmaooo
@lavans06
@lavans06 5 жыл бұрын
hahahahahah. damn...
@kanoelani6348
@kanoelani6348 5 жыл бұрын
I will give you advice as a female: oh my god ew don’t do that
@bestyav5529
@bestyav5529 5 жыл бұрын
When I was a teenager, I had no fear of girls, approaching a girl was just like a game. But after I had been with a lady for about 3 years, we broke up and I'm now scared and I don't know what to say again... Please you people should give me an antidote.
@anoushnasseri7922
@anoushnasseri7922 2 жыл бұрын
@Best Yav You should read "models : how to attract women with honesty" from mark Manson
@denebosano6944
@denebosano6944 5 жыл бұрын
me: approach a beautiful lady and says "uhm, you have a beautiful skin. I like how it holds your internal organs together."
@yo7930
@yo7930 2 жыл бұрын
Lmao 😂
@lopyeet4308
@lopyeet4308 5 жыл бұрын
Next time I see a girl I’m going to say “ I really like banter openers” he said it was the best conversation starter
@chucknorris9511
@chucknorris9511 3 жыл бұрын
The more you think about approaching a woman the worst it gets... You just have to approach her before you start making excuses in your head.
@Theattractiveman
@Theattractiveman 3 жыл бұрын
3 second rule.
@chucknorris9511
@chucknorris9511 3 жыл бұрын
@@Theattractiveman Yeah, just about finished approaching a beautiful woman... This is the woman I spoke of about a week ago where I chickened out. I had so much regret all week I had to go back and talk to her in which I did... Unfortunately, she had a boyfriend, but I was expecting it once I got closer to meeting her. Now that I know I can have peace within... I think so far this is the only woman who made me a little bum after finding out she had a boyfriend. I think when the anticipation increase before introducing yourself to a woman the after affect is worse...
@Theattractiveman
@Theattractiveman 3 жыл бұрын
Good job coming out of your comfort zone, man. It only gets better once you allow yourself to be confident and learn from your mistakes.
@rays7756
@rays7756 5 жыл бұрын
The best conversation starter.. "hey girl.. do you fart loud?" 🤣😂
@gudusahu3642
@gudusahu3642 5 жыл бұрын
What would happen if she really did 😂😂
@rays7756
@rays7756 5 жыл бұрын
gudu sahu she would confirm it with a loud one.. its official !! 😃🤣
@bryanbowlin8657
@bryanbowlin8657 5 жыл бұрын
Stupid
@filsolano5465
@filsolano5465 5 жыл бұрын
Ray S then she’s a keeper
@chizzyhuncho2283
@chizzyhuncho2283 5 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂🙌
@eddiethomasville3124
@eddiethomasville3124 5 жыл бұрын
I love this advice. Confidence. Funny. No looks MATTER. How to talk to women? I can't stop laughing.
@catarinobernardojoao1824
@catarinobernardojoao1824 5 жыл бұрын
I don't like to speak too much with people i meet during few hours.... Is very important to know very well each other.... To express what you really intent.... Of course is very important to introduce yourself!!!
@konsta9203
@konsta9203 5 жыл бұрын
Instructions unclear: girl now in my basement
@hypergogic3269
@hypergogic3269 5 жыл бұрын
You still got her though
@auGigaShaw
@auGigaShaw 5 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@cleopatrarsia3466
@cleopatrarsia3466 5 жыл бұрын
So funny
@elijahsulentic9410
@elijahsulentic9410 5 жыл бұрын
That may or may not be a win... Are you playing minecraft?
@LCTesla
@LCTesla 5 жыл бұрын
mission accomplished
@cherrykid161
@cherrykid161 5 жыл бұрын
Who came here from Kurtis Connor
@thiaraortiz2599
@thiaraortiz2599 4 жыл бұрын
Meee
@milosgrujic2619
@milosgrujic2619 4 жыл бұрын
I will never ever forget this video, thanks 😍😍😍
@LAila-qf4ww
@LAila-qf4ww 2 жыл бұрын
Points I thought of: 1. Smile 2. Approach semi calmly .. too slow may show lack of confidence, too strong comes of as intimidating. 3. Hi there, I saw you and thought I should tell you____ 4. Don’t face her completely… it may make us feel intimidated. Position your body in a way that she has room to see and leave… 5. Don’t be too clingy to stay. 6. Ask her what she does. You can ask her if she works in the area.
@rishi_uppal
@rishi_uppal 2 жыл бұрын
Very TRUE. 👌
@briankimondo1178
@briankimondo1178 5 жыл бұрын
hi Matt.. what if its a girl who you've been seeing a lot time, let's say we're neighbors or we're in the same school..how should you approach her?
@mustaphajaveed6394
@mustaphajaveed6394 4 жыл бұрын
Brian Kimondo start flirting with her
@batmanwayne7067
@batmanwayne7067 3 жыл бұрын
the big seggs
@akilaracing6738
@akilaracing6738 4 жыл бұрын
I don't know about other comments in my opinion this is it and it's gold.
@Theattractiveman
@Theattractiveman 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks I appreciate that!
@nekomuffin8918
@nekomuffin8918 5 жыл бұрын
Just yell "AAAAHHH!!!" And then calmly said hi with a smile. Trust me, it works every time
@frankxoxo8653
@frankxoxo8653 4 жыл бұрын
Lol rlly?
@thiaraortiz2599
@thiaraortiz2599 4 жыл бұрын
@@frankxoxo8653 no, that's so dumb
@fullmoonsociety7463
@fullmoonsociety7463 3 жыл бұрын
As Orson Welles would say: Mwaahahahaaa
@lacey782
@lacey782 5 жыл бұрын
The one where you walk up to the girl and are direct and say hi just thought you were really pretty and wanted to say hi. That is a good one. That one is nice and would work for some people.
@felixcornel4114
@felixcornel4114 3 жыл бұрын
Your so beautiful. Wish I could dm you somewhere privately. What do you think?
@andresvillenueve7755
@andresvillenueve7755 5 жыл бұрын
Your banter openers are terrible!!
@liamkopf4345
@liamkopf4345 5 жыл бұрын
Shya LaBeouf yeah I thought so too. Every real girl would say that you should go away
@Humblelion_876
@Humblelion_876 5 жыл бұрын
List some of yours 🏁🏁
@paddypits7733
@paddypits7733 5 жыл бұрын
So have you get any better ones? Let's here them then. Nob head.
@redwolf7929
@redwolf7929 5 жыл бұрын
The videos never show him being slapped in the face
@noahzunigasongs9955
@noahzunigasongs9955 5 жыл бұрын
Yes. Your banter starters are terrible. It's not confidence, it's annoyance.
@leepileseeco7099
@leepileseeco7099 5 жыл бұрын
I am a South African and i love these openers and they do work, I just hate having to translate it to my mother tongue Setswana, but then again it's worth it.
@Theattractiveman
@Theattractiveman 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the comment!
@alvinpiana3044
@alvinpiana3044 5 жыл бұрын
Just approach her tell her she's cute and introduce yourself.important thing is smile while you approach.
@TheLifeFormulaa
@TheLifeFormulaa 5 жыл бұрын
One opener I like is cold reading. If you get it right you seem like a psychic but even if you don't they will feel good
@Mr-ep2qi
@Mr-ep2qi 5 жыл бұрын
what do u mean?
@zipity2782
@zipity2782 4 жыл бұрын
Instructions unclear, ended up sprinting towards every girl I saw.
@paulybthealfaguy
@paulybthealfaguy 5 жыл бұрын
I think this guy had his face slapped a few times with those classic lines
@scarcity6016
@scarcity6016 5 жыл бұрын
you spit real value with no bull shit, bless your soul
@mathisnotforthefaintofheart
@mathisnotforthefaintofheart 2 жыл бұрын
The best way to start a conversation with a beautiful woman is pretending she is not beautiful, but just normal as everyone else. And that's how you treat her. Normal, respectfully, like you would treat any other woman. And whatever the outcome is of the conversation, take it as it is. Lots of attractive women want to be treated as "normal". And in my case it is even easier, I am not Mr Brad Pitt or Marlon Brando and I am not interested in a date anyway. So if by chance a woman doesn't want to talk to me (anymore), it doesn't bother me. I have thus zero issues talking to beautiful women...
@riverbankfisher
@riverbankfisher Жыл бұрын
My instincts are different for sure. I can banter and joke all day with women to whom I feel no attraction due to their being plain, overweight, or above 30 years old, but when unexpectedly confronted with a truly beautiful woman, my spontaneity just evaporates, and I struggle to string together a simple sentence.
@ezrapound7407
@ezrapound7407 Жыл бұрын
At this point women are such narcissists hoes all they going to do is hurt you
@jaysocial3663
@jaysocial3663 5 жыл бұрын
Matt is good at giving advice and some stuff is helpful but unfortunately this video is bad advice. One fundamental thing he ignores is that women are emotional and you have to adapt to how they are feeling at that time. *REASONS WHY GOING DIRECT IS BAD ADVICE * Here are 5 reasons why direct opener don't always work in daygame: 1. She maybe in a bad mood (recently broke up with her boyfriend, just had an argument with friend or family, got fired from her job, on her period - which sometimes can be painful etc etc), so you will get rejected if you always go direct 2. She maybe been approached by many guys before you or just scared, so you will get rejected by going direct. 3. She may have pre-judgments if you're a minority and may feel uncomfortable so you will get rejected by going direct (for example, my black friend approached this pretty white girl and she was shaking out of fear, he discovered that another black guy stole her phone the day before, so obviously he got rejected). 4. She will make an instant judgement whether to sleep with you or not (usually women decide within the first 10 seconds) and you have no time to BUILD attraction (remember women are like dimmer switches, they need to be slowly turned on, going direct is like just switching on the lights). So if your a minority or ugly, you will likely get rejected if you go direct. 5. She may be waiting for her boyfriend or husband and if he arrives, it maybe awkward or he may get violent because you went direct (happened to me few times). *CONCLUSION * Don't forget, Matt is a good-looking white man in a western country so has a positive stereotype, so going direct will work for him and getting the number won't take much skill or effort, but how about minorities (black or Asian etc) who may have negative stereotypes? You require a different approach. Use indirect or observational openers and transition into a conversation. Then escalate gradually to show interest. *RULES * 1. Tester (to test her mood) 2. Opener (indirect or observational - only go direct if she showed interest first, e.g, she smiled or winked at you). 3. Assumption *EXAMPLE * _"Hey, excuse me...real quick, I know it's completely random, I was walking past and I saw you have this very unique look, and I was curious to know where your from / what you do. "_ *RESULTS * This works 95% of the time and you wont get rejected since your not communicating any interest straight away, you now have time to build attraction and get her to change her mind about you with your fun vibe. If you go direct, it's game over.
@geo3543
@geo3543 5 жыл бұрын
"Minority" 👿👿uugghh DISGUSTINNG word
@onyebuchiemordi4852
@onyebuchiemordi4852 5 жыл бұрын
That's an amazing idea
@zakariaallah1729
@zakariaallah1729 5 жыл бұрын
Only black men stole phones!!you are insane
@rwmartinez1262
@rwmartinez1262 5 жыл бұрын
@my name is not FREDO sounds about white.
@rwmartinez1262
@rwmartinez1262 5 жыл бұрын
#3. Is the reason why that white female cop essentially got off with murder. 10 years with the ability to appeal sentencing.... black men have every reason to fear for their safety & livelihood around white women. PERIOD.
@mdjunior5197
@mdjunior5197 5 жыл бұрын
Success! Spiritual understanding caring clothing education stability simple. That's my meaning of success!
@bekkyAMV
@bekkyAMV 5 жыл бұрын
I took 5 secs suddenly i heard "pshhht" "Mission failed -respect"
@cartmanbrah8937
@cartmanbrah8937 5 жыл бұрын
I typically go for the direct approach the only modification I do is yell because the music is always loud in the club
@eddieboggs8306
@eddieboggs8306 5 жыл бұрын
How about saying I'm rich? Gets 99% of them to give you their attention anyway till they find you don't. Then you're history.
@chrisjfox8715
@chrisjfox8715 5 жыл бұрын
You could just not lie about it. Just a thought. If you honestly think girls only like rich guy then you’re shooting yourself in the foot with that mentality.
@Theattractiveman
@Theattractiveman 5 жыл бұрын
That will only attract gold diggers, man. Money isn't everything for women.
@yusufulumanija8522
@yusufulumanija8522 5 жыл бұрын
I like that trick, If you only wanna use her!
@eddieboggs8306
@eddieboggs8306 5 жыл бұрын
@Viva la Francia May be but I'm right. Women 99% love money.
@mitya6568
@mitya6568 5 жыл бұрын
Get your life together man...
@johnkimani5889
@johnkimani5889 5 жыл бұрын
How about if she has her boyfriend or father? 3seconds will equal black eye
@Theattractiveman
@Theattractiveman 5 жыл бұрын
I recommend sending me a DM on IG @mattartisan we can discuss there
@altafkhan7050
@altafkhan7050 4 жыл бұрын
@@Theattractiveman make a video for best excuses to approach girl and make her smile and her day
@ddaeguqt
@ddaeguqt 5 жыл бұрын
This ain't it.
@mercpindi5522
@mercpindi5522 5 жыл бұрын
Word Make the first move dont be shy. Free of charge advice
@timholland5752
@timholland5752 5 жыл бұрын
I guess there’s something wrong with me, I’ve never approached a woman, never. I don’t know, the best I can describe it is. I’ll just slink into a room normally a grocery or a Mall store with a purpose, but always moving a little slow, wearing a smirk-and here comes a woman..they’re are always approaching me. I admit a few are sales women, but regardless they always start the conversation. So I slowly lean forward, a little head tilt, still with a smirk, making eye contact and talk to them because they’re the most important person in the room in a low bedroom voice for a few seconds, at the peek of the conversation, I smile like I know something they don’t and move away slowly over to an article of clothing or whatever and here they come, they’re following behind me. This is the way it’s happened my entire life, well since junior high school. My buddies always ask about it and call me a dog. But I think they’re problem boils down to one thing, they don’t think they’re good enough. Not with just with women but life in general. They failed as a kid to make quarter back, They failed to get straight A’s, They failed this or that. Their dad was disappointed in them and so on...so they carried this with them into adulthood. So Here’s a shocker, you are good enough, you always have been, start acting like it. Sorry for the rambling...
@SmooshPlays
@SmooshPlays 5 жыл бұрын
Tim Holland Cool story bro. Its all bullshit tho
@timtim-hf3ut
@timtim-hf3ut 3 жыл бұрын
Thinking about causes anxiety. Go right in seems to flow better
@MikeHersnt
@MikeHersnt 5 жыл бұрын
Great tips bro, learned so much from this video. Thanks for sharing.🙏
@7lamp276
@7lamp276 4 жыл бұрын
thanks for telling us
@giauhuynhj263
@giauhuynhj263 5 жыл бұрын
See a beautiful woman and just GO 😁😁👍 is a good habit! LMAO
@cilantroleaves9862
@cilantroleaves9862 5 жыл бұрын
okay my men, you just got a new subscriber by that. that's really cool and it teaches me alot on what to do... mostly in this situation I chicken out 😂😂😂😂 I'll practice more often and thank you very much.
@Jsak28
@Jsak28 5 жыл бұрын
Bro these are cringe
@fitzarc5803
@fitzarc5803 5 жыл бұрын
Coming from you who's never talked to a girl before, okay...
@fullelement4886
@fullelement4886 5 жыл бұрын
From a guy who has talked to beautiful women, Clash is right. This is 95% awful advice. I can agree with SOME of it, like not giving yourself time to make excuses if you're shy like me and showing your interest, but the way he goes about them is more likely to come off as creepy, especially making a bee line for them as soon as you see them, or "HI! I just saw you here and I thought you were really pretty. I had to come say hi." I can't think of a more awkward and creepy way to start a conversation with a woman than with a super generic, means-nothing compliment after walking right at a woman pretty much as soon as you see her.
@fitzarc5803
@fitzarc5803 5 жыл бұрын
@@fullelement4886 just saying the GUY I replied to shouldn't say shit like that when he probably haven't talked to a girl before, and yes I agree the way he approached those women is not my style.
@namelessxhunxho4567
@namelessxhunxho4567 5 жыл бұрын
Hi everyone I’m Paul
@jaela3876
@jaela3876 5 жыл бұрын
Walter
@adamlee2282
@adamlee2282 4 жыл бұрын
Love how you related ideas from Models by Mark Manson in here👌. Very good video
@Quashaun23
@Quashaun23 5 жыл бұрын
The best 3 ways to start a conversation is to either open up with a compliment, introduce yourself or tell a funny joke simple as that.
@grengeg7373
@grengeg7373 5 жыл бұрын
Ok thanks for the advice player
@mariomccullum8087
@mariomccullum8087 5 жыл бұрын
Natural>Organic=Release and relaxed flow.
@LibrarBzd
@LibrarBzd 5 жыл бұрын
the best openers are those sparkling from the One's imagination, by taking deep breathings and using visualization to turn the environment where you and she are chilling out into vivid & attractive place. 🤠😎🏄⛷️🤾🏍️ you have anything within you to have the woman you want, just switch on
@andreas.9175
@andreas.9175 5 жыл бұрын
Let me sum up the whole video. Be confident, show confidence and talk to her. His confidence didn't convince me that he was saying anything more than that. This could have been a 5 sec video playing on a loop.
@elvisdaygame4686
@elvisdaygame4686 3 жыл бұрын
You have to be impressed by the way Matt gets in front & takes his sunglasses off.
@Nemisis007
@Nemisis007 5 жыл бұрын
I just watch these videos for the cringe I think of these videos like a try not to cringe challenge. 😂😂
@thiaraortiz2599
@thiaraortiz2599 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@jamesespinar2646
@jamesespinar2646 3 жыл бұрын
Hi I want to ask you a question what happen if you like a a woman but the problem is you don't drink alcohol or hang out in bars and nightclubs what do you do about it especially if you would have fixed income I like to know your feedback thank you
@unleashingpotential-psycho9433
@unleashingpotential-psycho9433 5 жыл бұрын
One easy way to start a conversation with a woman during cold pick up is to be blunt about your attraction for her. This prevents you from getting in the friend zone.
@duzyduz1
@duzyduz1 5 жыл бұрын
You’re coming of too needy again by commenting on everyone’s video, never will I subscribe to your channel
@chrisjfox8715
@chrisjfox8715 5 жыл бұрын
[inb4 some dude asks “what if that doesn’t work?”] Then it doesn’t work. Stop worrying about it.
@Sinister1113
@Sinister1113 5 жыл бұрын
You've become cringey seeing you post all the time.
@dogguyful
@dogguyful 3 жыл бұрын
One thing about 3 seconds rule is counting from 3 to 1,it acts a mental gear.
@kurtcobain3426
@kurtcobain3426 5 жыл бұрын
What if i cant do step 1, can i skip it?
@anon8206
@anon8206 5 жыл бұрын
No
@chrisjfox8715
@chrisjfox8715 5 жыл бұрын
Yes. At the end of the day, you have to play these things by ear to a degree. Ultimately, 3 seconds just means as soon as you can; if it’s obvious that you’ve been lingering for no apparent reason then that’s when it can be an issue.
@anon8206
@anon8206 5 жыл бұрын
@@chrisjfox8715 The point of the time limit is that it forces you to approach immediately. Without the time limit, these men would just linger forever and never approach.
@chrisjfox8715
@chrisjfox8715 5 жыл бұрын
Anon E Moose I know the point of the time limit. I said in my response not to linger. I’m specifically talking about situations where you literally cannot approach her right away, *not out of shyness or doubt* but quite literally being in the middle of something that you can’t step away from within 3 seconds. In *some* instances, approaching within exactly 3 seconds won’t be practical and it won’t be a big deal as long as it’s clearly for a legitimate reason and you follow through immediately afterwards. I’m telling you this as a guy that goes out a lot (at night at least) and actually gets girls. What I don’t want is guys using this rule as an excuse for why they didn’t approach a girl...like “Damn, I’d approach her but it’s been 10 seconds,” etc. Do it ASAP but fellas, but don’t get hit by a car (one example) all for the sake of some girl you haven’t met yet; eye contact confidently and warmingly from a distance in the meantime and then follow through ASAP. Three seconds is not a hard rule; don’t come up with lame excuses for taking longer but don’t hurt yourself trying to make it in exactly three either.
@gunnerysgthartman6124
@gunnerysgthartman6124 5 жыл бұрын
Gay
@AG-fo8jo
@AG-fo8jo 2 жыл бұрын
I know I’m a good looking guy and look like I can get any girl but just suck at starting a conversation or talking to them. I may have something going at the moment, let’s just hope I don’t mess it up 🙏
@lacey782
@lacey782 5 жыл бұрын
Only 50 seconds in. First of all, you can't group women into a category. What works for one woman may not work for another. We are human beings with different character traits, life stories, and aspirations.
@henry1298
@henry1298 5 жыл бұрын
Go back to the kitchen
@lacey782
@lacey782 5 жыл бұрын
Wow you sure got me.
@dr.mikelitoris
@dr.mikelitoris 5 жыл бұрын
go back to area 51
@moumen687
@moumen687 5 жыл бұрын
piano_panda007 sur
@teabag1165
@teabag1165 3 жыл бұрын
You can't talk to a chicken, on how to make the best chicken nuggets......though
@laughtherapey
@laughtherapey 3 жыл бұрын
This is the best video. I have seen on pick up!
@nerveexplains1323
@nerveexplains1323 5 жыл бұрын
“Strong eye contact Me: 👁 👁 👄
@markbarrios1998
@markbarrios1998 5 жыл бұрын
Bruh
@adnanzahir
@adnanzahir 5 жыл бұрын
Regarding point number one she first either has to look down after seeing you (twice) or look at you for 3-5 seconds or sideways after looking down , her body has to be ope n and both or one foot pointing towards you. How could miss these clusters Matt?
@danielpachepskiy6645
@danielpachepskiy6645 5 жыл бұрын
Dude like I'm 14 and I see one girl on the beach for about four days that even gave me a smile and I'm just not that brave to meet her and start a conversation. My inside is afraid of a fail and that everything will go wrong. I have 2 days left and I don't know what to do.
@divinassalonspa5304
@divinassalonspa5304 5 жыл бұрын
También depende de la cultura y el país creeme ...
@neils4501
@neils4501 5 жыл бұрын
It’s a numbers game, learned that from king of the hills boomhauer. 1/100 is better than 0/0
@badara242
@badara242 5 жыл бұрын
First impressions goes a long way!
@Theattractiveman
@Theattractiveman 5 жыл бұрын
Yes, yes!
@Demaugrado
@Demaugrado 5 жыл бұрын
Plot twist: he prefers males 🤔
@Demaugrado
@Demaugrado 5 жыл бұрын
B Nutz well seen xD
@tamarakiss5943
@tamarakiss5943 4 жыл бұрын
I was supicious about that one :D
@Len_J_
@Len_J_ 5 жыл бұрын
What do you say after the opener? What are the best ‘go to’ topics to keep it going well, and which ones do you avoid? For example, apparently you shouldn’t then say ‘so what do you do?’
@aidangittings
@aidangittings 5 жыл бұрын
Literally just got a gf bruv
@Theattractiveman
@Theattractiveman 5 жыл бұрын
Good job, man!
@aidangittings
@aidangittings 5 жыл бұрын
The Attractive Man all thanks to you
@aidangittings
@aidangittings 5 жыл бұрын
I’ve made it 5 days so far Quite the milestone
@VamsiKrishnavamsshy
@VamsiKrishnavamsshy 5 жыл бұрын
@@aidangittings keep updating us, mate
@blueshanks1
@blueshanks1 5 жыл бұрын
Day 10
@jeanyboyy4801
@jeanyboyy4801 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Matt
@christobiju4375
@christobiju4375 5 жыл бұрын
Man I wish I could have u as my brother if we have a second life, so that I can learn these stuff from u and be a master of this
@christobiju4375
@christobiju4375 5 жыл бұрын
Hey attractive man u r really master at this and I love ur vids, I saw almost every single of ur videos and I practice ur advices every day. So far, it's been 4 days since I first saw ur vid and after that I asked out exactly 13 girls using ur advice but still I got rejected by all of them. Man but still I wish u were my big brother so u will teach me these stuff. Can u tell me what to do to get accepted. U r a sensei at this (sorry if it sounds a bit hentai). I bet u won't reply to my comment
@mikereiss4216
@mikereiss4216 Жыл бұрын
I'd say the biggest thing (or at least one of them) is to not care about the outcome. If she is responsive then you can continue to tallk to her. If she isn't then that's ok too and you just don't continue to waste each other's time and you move on.
@MrTheshadiest
@MrTheshadiest 5 жыл бұрын
I love you man keep up the good work
@Theattractiveman
@Theattractiveman 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks man!
@bandabanderos
@bandabanderos 3 жыл бұрын
Does the order matter? What if you directly open her, start strong, come in 3 seconds? Asking for a friend.....
@avrahamgabriel1019
@avrahamgabriel1019 5 жыл бұрын
I like this guy
@udaykaushik7161
@udaykaushik7161 5 жыл бұрын
Hey, brother keep going , your tips are really.. powerful!!
@johnbar6628
@johnbar6628 4 жыл бұрын
That's where I met my wife we met in the church then we got married we have kids we are a family
@catarinobernardojoao1824
@catarinobernardojoao1824 5 жыл бұрын
For example can you tell me where did you knew your husband or wife for the first time?on the street? Discothèque? Cinema? Beach... You saw her on him... Very much cool because he it was hearing your favorite music or your favorite channel? Or because the you both have gotten some in common?
@shayl1535
@shayl1535 5 жыл бұрын
I’m confident when someone dares me 👵🏻
@straathyenas2186
@straathyenas2186 5 жыл бұрын
Same
@brijsharma7479
@brijsharma7479 5 жыл бұрын
So positive clear more wildly
@FishHeadBiologist
@FishHeadBiologist 5 жыл бұрын
A real Alpha doesn't approach women. They approach him....
@andaazveer7856
@andaazveer7856 5 жыл бұрын
Then real alpha faps forever
@edwardvalley8831
@edwardvalley8831 5 жыл бұрын
That fool is wrong
@abbyjoachim2678
@abbyjoachim2678 5 жыл бұрын
I take it ur single?🤨
@seanbrown4786
@seanbrown4786 5 жыл бұрын
Says the beta
@prakalpupadhyaya
@prakalpupadhyaya 5 жыл бұрын
Please make special video for India as condition is more tuff...
@moe.nasser166
@moe.nasser166 5 жыл бұрын
"Damn,my AP go psycho" That's how u take their attention...
@zakowen7812
@zakowen7812 5 жыл бұрын
Just me or when I talk to a girl that’s a friend it’s so easy but when I like her I freeze and I can’t think of fuck all to say
@maureenmccormick4535
@maureenmccormick4535 5 жыл бұрын
Introducing yourself to random women in the middle of the night is literally the worst possible advice I’ve ever heard. If I’m walking alone to my car after I get off work at night and some random dude comes up to me and says “Hi, I’m Matt” ima be like “And I’m creeped out, get the fuck away from me :)”
@yousufali4241
@yousufali4241 5 жыл бұрын
Not even at day time I would like to do this ..... I don't waste my time
@johnrainsman6650
@johnrainsman6650 2 жыл бұрын
I hope I didn't go too far with two women recently. I was at a coffee shop, having a little teasing fun with a worker who used to work with me. When she said something to playfully diss me and I asked what she said, she said "nothing," and I replied "that's what teenagers always say. And yes, I'm comparing you to teenagers; that's how much I dislike you." I sounded pretty jocular and comedic, as far as I'm concerned, and she even laughed. But her coworker, whom the woman introduced me to, said, "Easy now, easy now." What's funny is I thought I had made a good, fun impression on her, to get her to like me already. I even complicated her artwork for the shop's sign. Did I already wreck the good impression? Did she really think I was going a little too far?
@mathisnotforthefaintofheart
@mathisnotforthefaintofheart 2 жыл бұрын
Who cares...just move on. They aren't worth the sweat.
@quentin8122
@quentin8122 5 жыл бұрын
I really like your pick up lines. The direct opener with calling Shawnee pretty was alright. It seems like you tried to drag that one out since it was direct and nothing really can be built off that. The girl didn't know how to offer any other response outside of thank you. Pretty good material that you have
@Theattractiveman
@Theattractiveman 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks! Glad you like our content!
@robertstrada2456
@robertstrada2456 2 жыл бұрын
Best advice I've seen
@younessvlog1843
@younessvlog1843 5 жыл бұрын
But arabic girls are complicated what i can do man
@jonathancrane952
@jonathancrane952 5 жыл бұрын
youness vlog brazilians too mate!😂😂😂
@richardrich1384
@richardrich1384 5 жыл бұрын
All woman are complicated When you understand woman phone me
@memeagain4106
@memeagain4106 5 жыл бұрын
don't tell her you eat bacon,
@Etwilder
@Etwilder 5 жыл бұрын
Totally understand you bro.Just don't settle for the easy interactions with ugly troll looking girls.Always go for the most attractive ones.Especially if they're super religious you need to move on and don't bother with those women.You'd really have to invest time in learning seduction,nlp,persuasion,and influence.Having a mentor or several mentors is key for success.Don't have any expectations when approaching women I'd suggest listening to this guys content,RSDfreetour youtube channel,RSDMax,RSDtyler,RSDluke,Jason Capital's old youtube channel content as he isn't in the dating scene anymore.Remember this part you want to fix in your life is a lifetime thing so always become a learning student.You will get a lot of rejection but that is just part of the game and don't really take it seriously. And most importantly don't have oneitis.There are plenty of other girls in the world than that one crush you have.HAve a abundance mentality.Work on becoming the best version of yourself.Hope this helps bro.
@ayubkeyjrman6285
@ayubkeyjrman6285 5 жыл бұрын
All Muslims... Glad love them
@elrodfromthe3539
@elrodfromthe3539 5 жыл бұрын
Solid video and techniques.
@kanoelani6348
@kanoelani6348 5 жыл бұрын
hey men we think ur pickup lines are trash. Introduce ur selves like normal human beings 😔🤙
@DERRI396
@DERRI396 5 жыл бұрын
Do you have any information on how to approach/attract a specific person who you love?
@josefina5364
@josefina5364 5 жыл бұрын
Its crazy cause I can talk to the girls that I’m freinds with like a god. but not the girls I’m into 😭plz help
@wonderfullyjay3490
@wonderfullyjay3490 5 жыл бұрын
Smoke Dreams Don’t come her boo
@josefina5364
@josefina5364 5 жыл бұрын
Jazzy Jay don’t come her?
@Pope301
@Pope301 5 жыл бұрын
At first I was like "ah man I cant do any of this" But then I saw 2:52 and I was like "okay, Im heading to the club"
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