3 Common Mistakes That Destroy Your Dating Life

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[@Dom_2008]

Hamza. Thank you for changing my life bro. I’ve lost 10 kgs, started KZbin on the side of school, and meditating etc. my life is better than ever. Thank you and merry Christmas everyone

[@david-kl8yz]

yep

[@SNIPEY_]

Merry Christmas

[@david-kl8yz]

hi

[@Syntax_Error943]

Merry Christmas

[@kenkola3208]

Great to hear man! Remember you did that yourself he just guided you in the right path! Merry Christmas ☦️

[@Thedeepwastaken]

1: BEING TOO NEEDY 2: NOT "DOING IT" RIGHT 3: DEPOLARIZATION

[@destinytheunfortunate]

Thank you I don't have to watch the video now

[@GenericRandom]

@@destinytheunfortunate and this is why you may not be getting the results you want

[@drzedd5212]

@@GenericRandomI think he was being sarcastic

[@GenericRandom]

@@drzedd5212 i thought about it too but its really hard to understand from a text comment

[@sweetdurt2143]

@@GenericRandom I think he was joking

[@damienberry4445]

Merry Christmas

[@narayasuiryoku1397]

Not there yet.

[@Urmom-ts6dy]

Merry Christmas man

[@aronlopeztorres]

Merry christmass

[@omarabbas18]

too late but merry chrismas bro

[@damienberry4445]

@@omarabbas18 bruv it's to late becuase I posted this 3 weeks ago

[@aycali5964]

I felt the polarization with my girlfriend a couple months ago. I was slacking in the gym and I was seeing her several days a week. Our “love” was boring and unemotional. I got grinding in the gym again and saw her once a week and our sexual chemistry sky rocketed again. Hamza for sure knows what he is talking about.

[@emrefifty5281]

Bruh, haven’t texted her for 3 days and it was killing me until I realized how fucking needy I was. Damn. Hits Hard

[@AyudhDhupar]

Some of the shit with depolarization i think just personally should be changed to each is their own. A relationship can’t just be sex but yeah it makes sense that it will increase sexual drive

[@tyredmechanic290]

I agree, relationships founded on sex aren't as viable, you have to spend some time with your partner where you're not doing that stuff.

[@innocentrage1]

I hate this needy texting shit. Everyone is on their phone surfing reddit and Facebook and shit. Everyone sees the texts within 10 min but you need to wait 2 days till u text or you are seen as needy

[@Rexxtothekay]

Real

[@Unknown-sw8po]

Do the hard work especially when u dont feel like it

[@gibrilsi]

That's right there are days I don't feel like making a vid but we must persist!

[@Ριτσαμυλωση]

Hamza im a 14 year old boy, your advice literally changed my life in every way. Thank you so much Hamza❤️ Merry Christmas everyone brothers 💪💪💪

[@Znegva777]

A boy whos about to be a man 👑🔱

[@sotirisl9388]

Και συ πατριώτης; Σου εύχομαι καλά Χριστούγεννα και τα λέμε στο μέτωπο.

[@Ριτσαμυλωση]

@@sotirisl9388 Και εγώ Έλληνας αδερφέ, καλά Χριστούγεννα και σε εσένα!

[@Basedlocation]

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[@жанклодвандамм-д7д]

bravo bro greetings

[@faheemmuhammad4649]

Thank you Hamza, for everything.

[@gibrilsi]

I appreciate him he inspired my channel merry Christmas btw

[@hellobez]

i cant say i agree with what youre saying for point 3. yes a woman wants a man who is focused primarily on his work and whose purpose comes first, but I don't believe watching a movie or playing a video game with your girlfriend every once in a while is going to dimish your relationship with her or her sexual desire for you. In my experience if you enjoy similar interests together it actually INCREASES her attraction towards you because she gets to see a different side of you and feels more security knowing she can enjoy her favorite hobbies with the man she loves the most. Ive never seen a woman be happy that her man dislikes every hobby and activity shes into. Its really not about avoiding these "similar activities" such as liking the same movies, and only having sexually charged interactions with your girl lmao. The goal should be about prioritizing where you focus your time and energy. When those fun activities become the norm and you lose focus of your priorities is when it becomes an issue

[@adamsnow8275]

My thoughts exactly

[@james__games183]

He means commonly like if you play together for like 2 hours each day it gets too much like a general friendship and not a relationship

[@hekmatyar6621]

Exactly

[@Ash1nerTV]

@@james__games183 Yes

[@thedehunter.]

But how should you be able to stop depolarization if you move together with ur girl? Like it’s literally implicating that you spend „non love“ time together. Tell me Adonis

[@mvalthegamer2450]

8hrs working, 10 hours in bed sleeping, 2 hours in the gym. That leaves 4 hours. You can maintain polarization for 4 hours right?

[@tranium67]

@@mvalthegamer2450 10 hours SLEEPING💀 that isnt even healthy and is a huge waste of time.

[@TotallyNotMaiko]

@@tranium67 did u even watch hamza? Its perfectly healthy, especially if you are a teenager and lift. Get educated before you comment smth like that

[@kathith3660]

@@tranium67 you dont sleep for 10 hrs efficiently. Most people are 85- 90% efficient while sleeping so u have to calculate that aspect aswell so if you sleep for 10 hrs u will only efficiently sleep for 8-9 hrs

[@invertedparadox8440]

@@tranium67 Look up sleep efficiency. Normally, you only spend about 90% of the time in bed actually sleeping (unless you're sleep deprived), so out of 10 hours laying down you'll always get the healthy 9 of sleep

[@MinecraftAdventurer1]

I don’t see many people commenting on depolarization but wow I have NEVER thought of this concept before and its blowing my mind. The biological need to have a family with a girl is what drives us men, and centering a relationship around that perspective is a good way to look at it. However, I have a slightly different take - to me, making love is better when I know a decent amount about the girl - so I’d say that to me: 80% of the relationship should be centered around intimacy, and 20% around being friends/knowing each other

[@realonraze]

hamza saved my life, a brazilian guy who can barely speak english i am very grateful for him.

[@PawsomePranksParade]

I think what he is trying to say about depolarization is to stay genuinely busy with your goals as a man. (My takeaway)

[@SSS-rd3wr]

You know, the reason I respect you as a man is because you forgave your parents for their past actions and also made their life better along with yours. I'm so grateful that I found this channel

[@jacobmate1537]

Loving the name bro

[@P0150Ngmod]

based name

[@v3ryr4re55]

how is the name based you lot are retarded

[@born2ded16]

Nice username bto

[@Mynamejeff666]

Jeffery doesn’t Believe in Santa Claus “Santa can’t be real, there’s no proof of his existence” He runs around telling all his friends and what do they do? (Oh no jeffery, they’re laughing in your face) Why be ridiculed when you can be like…. ADONIS Adonis loves Santa Claus. Every year he writes in his gratitude journal all the gifts he wants from Santa. He meditates and prays for Santa to bring him gifts. Santa knows Adonis has been a good boy, so Adonis always gets all the gifts he desires Merry Christmas 🎉

[@petrosxan9220]

What a comment

[@chodibarakuda4840]

This filled me with joy

[@david-kl8yz]

adonissssssssssss now like the video

[@idioticmonkey]

Hamza i 15 years age and pakistani like you, but in pakistan we r always fed stupid garbage media, have terrible education system and not taught/encouraged proper like in west (i think u can relate) but when i find ur videos, i become more good and have a strive and desire to become more good. i did and became a lot in only 1 year from only ur videos. thx to u alot mr Hamza

[@idioticmonkey]

soon i will get girlfriend. mein pyaar kar sakun ga

[@flyingaero747]

Hey Hamza I want to say thank you for what you're doing, you helped me a lot in my journey and I don't think I would've come so far without your content. I agree with what you said in this video, but I think your 3rd point is a little too extreme. I also think that we shouldn't spend 24/7 with the one we love, but at the same time 2-3 hrs seems too little as well. Why should we, yourself included, fight what we really want, our desire to spend time with the one we love? Just so that we'll have a 4 billion net worth instead of 3.5 and 500 more times that we had sex with her? I think that on our death bed we would cherish more the time spent with our wives watching a movie or playing a board game or something, instead of a a bigger number in our bank accounts and more sex.

[@Howleyy13]

Wow… the part on depolarising is EXACTLY what has happened with my girlfriend. I hope it’s not too late for me to put in the ground work and turn it around.

[@Moreabestuff]

We must keep working hard and self Improve brothers

[@willjefferson4298]

Just started no fap and becoming way more disciplined I have lost 10 kg in a month life’s good thanks

[@toau408]

Sometimes spend time making a cake or play video games with your girlfriend is good. She will never say something like "oh I didnt know you are this feminine". I understand that you are now in an extreme phase. But things will settle and you cannot forever act strong, mascular, and distant to her. What if someday you slip and fall? Will she stay with you when she knows nothing about you or have any bond with you other than the fact that you are a strong, masculine man? Just like a mother to her son. If that mother only loves her son with a condition, she will not be able to raise him, therefore, being Adonis is not enough. I suggest that, when you are happy, and relaxing, try to be by her side and do whatever silly things that both can enjoy.

[@Yggdrasill8]

Everything has to be productive, everything has to be work, everything has to be gain

[@superswordman039]

Wesołych Świąt!

[@xza5687]

O, siema mordo 💪

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Zdrowia szczęścia pomarańczy!

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wzajemnie💪🏼

[@MichalWi3cek]

Wesołych świąt mordoo

[@fordoniak]

Wzajemnie

[@Pbcvl]

bro got the lightskin stare in the thumbnail

[@abhijitb8908]

fr tho, most guys don't understand how cringy neediness becomes because they've never experienced it, but trust me when I say when a girl does this, you'd lose all the interest

[@Basedlocation]

I stopped playing video games because of you, Instead of exploring ancient Greece In games Im reading about it and watching documentaries

[@chrishansen859]

Based

[@Basedlocation]

@@chrishansen859 Indeed

[@nguyennguyenkhang5800]

@@Basedlocation dude, you want to be my friend in learning computer and workout? It is hard to find men that interest in workout and learn about computer.

[@Basedlocation]

@@nguyennguyenkhang5800 sure I’ll be your fren rn lol

[@mbici6969]

Oddly enough, Assassin's Creed Odyssey was the last videogame I played before embarking on this epic journey. Your comment resonates with me deeply.

[@Daxus.]

Answered no to all the questions im chilling. Make yourself your first priority boys.

[@A.mr01]

A Jeffrey is an average man in 2022 Adonis is these uinque men who a rare to find

[@benhubler2700]

Hamza you are changing my life, keep up the work!! We all appreciate what you do man.

[@labolina9554]

The "Watch out for the 3 mistakes when you're taking a girl to your bedroom" thing does not work for me. I click the link get get into the website and write my email and name but after that i dont get any email. Is there a way to fix this?

[@Toro563]

hamza i just wanted to say that your advice has helped me greatly i have always been lonely and sad and insecure and lacked confident but i started watching your content 2 months ago and my life has completly changed i have more friends now and more confidence i even got asked out by a girl 2 weeks ago and now she is my girlfriend i would never have reached this moment if it wasn't for you, i thank you from the bottom of my heart.

[@rxbbdoesmusicsometimes]

Thank you for the help you have given me and so many guys my age.

[@ANTI-CONSUMERIST]

Happy Christmas, Brethren😁✝️

[@Plugbabyent]

Quit watching Andrew and came to Hamza I believe he’s truly good and isn’t disrespecting peoples believes in anyway he’s just helping the world

[@RandomEmperor]

Whoever is reading this, fun fact, your testosterone levels is 1 digit😳😳 Jk or maybe not, don't take it seriously lul😳

[@zivamayne]

5:40 can recommend. Put your phone on silent and do not disturb. Do you really need a notification when someone says "😂"?

[@Machinophile]

@Hamza Here's my take on depolarization. A man often has the basic love requirements unfulfilled when living with his parents. And as we very well know, people want those things in a relationship which they never got as a child, or with their parents. My solution to this was to work on my relationship with my parents. This way, I do not become a little child with my girl. Now I may very well be wrong therefore I suggest that you do give it a thought Hamza...

[@LouisVille772]

Idk now if my girlfriend likes me for my personality or my looks bc I feel like it's my looks idk why or when I talk girls I don't gotta do much bc my looks is that bad

[@lillostwastaken]

Hamza, thank you for helping me improve my dating life and my own life in general. You were definitely right with all of the content you have been producing. I have become the guy that she doesn't leave on delivered, it's funny how other guys texted her like chumps while I was with her play wrestling and having a pillow fight. You have changed my life entirely and showed me the ways of Adonis. This tribe will flourish in the near future and I know it.

[@RandomEmperor]

Disabled people watching this video: 😳what... they doin in our toilet?😳

[@khalil-si]

It's been over a month of her not replying to me. I haven't yet messaged her again.

[@teekaywyd]

Imagine a kid named Jeffrey goes on self improvement and stumbles across your videos

[@HistoryForNut]

Me after no fab for 3 weeks and my girlfriend walks in the room:😚

[@peanut6008]

How am i supposed to have a good sex life with just 4 inches?

[@Aehan_khan]

Hi Hamza, Nothing ever changed things for me like your videos did.... thanks 👍

[@OlivesAnimation]

Hamza, could you pls make a video for woman aswell like, what are we in a healthy self-improvnent jurney suppose to do? What habits ate we suppose to develop or some advice on how to get a bf...? Or can we follow the same advice that you give guys? Or what if a woman is masculine herself, and what can she do about it, like when she hates dresses and most of the girly stuf? Btw, thanks for all your videoes, they really helped me to improve my mental health! Keep going bro!

[@maxtheawesome4255]

Honestly, you will need different advice and _honestly_ I don't know where you can find it. First place would be the women in your life, Mothers, Cousins, Grandmas, Teachers. Online, the Pink Pill is toxic so avoid that. Though, a lot of the general principles here you can apply to your own life, Hamza has always said this is advice for men. We arn't the same, this isn't one size fits all. Good luck!

[@maxtheawesome4255]

And 2. Being masculine. If that is how you are, be that way. Don't pretend to be someone you are not. Tomboys are a fetish for a reason. Girls have a lot more freedom when it comes to expression and dating so use that. Truth is, guys like women, in general, of all kinds, shapes and sizes. Though, certian typesnare more commonly prefered, all have a chance. I personally HATE generic basic girls, so that's why I suggest this. A lot of girls kill their induviduality to get men. On me, this has the opposite effect.

[@OlivesAnimation]

@@maxtheawesome4255 Thanks bro, I appreciate :)

[@cashronnie3552]

Hamza please make one for younger people I mean like I’mma freshman in highscool I’m sure there’s many people at this age trying to do self improvement I’ve been at it for a year but there’s not alot of good advice for people my age besides people like 18+

[@italianmarket3486]

These videos are for everyone mate, not only 18+

[@zachmitrakas]

"A man's life is ruined the moment he chooses to prioritize a woman over his own mission and purpose."

[@santigraziano]

You're a messiah in this modern times. Thank you Hamza. Greetings from Argentina 💪

[@omarkalaf]

bro didn't you just make a video on quran and why dating is bad😭😭😭

[@maxtheawesome4255]

Yes, he also said texting was bad and would never give advice on it, yet here he is. Basically, dude's a hypocritic sell out.

[@omarkalaf]

@@maxtheawesome4255 fr i used to respect him but no more he uploads way too much bs anyways

[@victorgarciajr245]

Hey brother, I'm older and thanks to you we can keep learning and improving 👍🏻👍🏻

[@nikostoss1199]

Someone's been reading Models by Mark Manson

[@kumarpatel9325]

Im a 30 year old virgin how tf am i supposed to act like an abundant man

[@maxtheawesome4255]

Pretty much, you don't. Hamza is very out of touch. This mindset only comes from prior success. I'd say, make everything you can control as good as you can to counteract the bad you can't control. Make your solo life as fufilling as possible so a woman is only an addition. In this situation, you could have enough going on to feel like you don't need her approval to live well. There's also the idea of indulging in hookup culture so at least you can make the process less unknown and intimidating, but not sure if the mental damage would be worth it. Honestly, Hamza a lot of the time doesn't even know why he is successful. His advice is him hypothesising post-mortem. Hang in there, brother.

[@kumarpatel9325]

​@@maxtheawesome4255 thanks for your kind words brother. I will reflect on them. The only realistic chance I see for myself not ending up shooting myself in 5 years or so, when everyone I know is starting to build a family is to find a girl who falls in love with me.

[@sniperammow4865]

As a 21 yo Virgin, I would say body build, learn martial arts, work hard and pulling women will be easier, at least it worked for me

[@benke958]

First two points might work for some really lonely guys. The 3rd point gave me a laugh though:D

[@jordanfromtool]

The editors are stealing our kisses!!!!!

[@zairalaraib]

hi, if you are an indian/brown guy and feel insecure and stuff about not being attractive to girls, i jus wanna let you know, from an indian female perspective, we are waiting for u guys to pursue us. so gather some confidence and please start asking us out or just talk to us even tho we got strict parents :)

[@KaneKeller9983]

Thanks for the consistent posting! I always got something to look forward to!

[@laimonaslb]

I’ve never had a problem getting a girls and I’m currently in a near 2 year relationship but I still watch these videos because you’re taking the words out of every successful guys mouths, you got to make the girl needy, you just have to have the options.

[@Afonso.Goncalves]

Merry christmas Hamza and everyone, 2023 is our year❤

[@suesokanji7832]

hamza. thank you so much, you’ve changed my life for the better and you’ve taught me how to keep focus and discipline. merry christmas and happy new years to you sir.

[@nivinnambiar9796]

I said yes to all 6 of those qns 😶

[@shokhdelavega]

Hi bro, i really appreciate your videos. Any of your video is full of information and helps me to lose my bad sides. But the problem is i can't move to another video but your next videos. All of your titles appealing.🤣

[@bigoof1507]

Doesn't being friends and having a good time with your partner make you fall more in love? Isn't love what makes a relationship successful? Everything you said before the depolarization point I mostly agree with. But if a man is not a fucking simp, and they know how to be a man, why the fuck not spend a good time with your partner?

[@ixins5352]

Hamza i just want to thank you for being part of my journey . Because of you I've started my journey , since watching you I've managed to get in the best shape of my life , got my mindset set and things can only go up from here . Merry Christmas everyone

[@zillionradzy]

BRO THAT ADONIS SAMURAI IS DAMN EPICC

[@kovo7]

That face in the thumbnail though 🗿

[@tahaattari4015]

I appreciate that you take the time to inspire young men (including me).

[@theonoredone]

Hamza you're litterally saving these generations of young men, thank you!

[@inoX-36]

Hi Hamza (or actually anyone who can give me advice :D), I have a girlfriend who I love with all my heart, I want to have kids with her and marry her. When I followed the advice about not being with her so much, my relationship almost fell apart. I started to be with her more, but after a short time it started to bother me, I wanted to see less of her because then I didn't look forward to seeing her anymore, but took it more as an annoying activity. It happened about a month ago and I still have a problem with it. (By the way, now that I'm with her more, our sex life is going to shit) Please advise, thank you

[@h8rshp]

Jeffrey to chad transformation journey 💪💪

[@damianvoglarus]

Chad to Adonis?

[@david-kl8yz]

its a loophole

[@CRValtierra]

Merry Christmas to all the Adonis in making in the comments. We all gonna make it brahs.

[@motivzz]

Adoniss

[@MD_119]

MISTAKES, TIME STAMPS 1. Being Too Needy (it shows you get no hoes), 1:07 2. Not "Plowing Her Field" Correctly 😉, 6:53 3. Being Too Feminine (beta-male), 9:27

[@TheGioverse]

💯💯💯

[@cowfe]

Hamza, I don't know that's a good idea, but you can make a video "How to be a good son"? Like, I think my parents do not respect so much me, I do somethings trying to change this, but it looks like "instant respect" 😅 I do know, I think it would be cool for teenagers that want to be a good son. Thanks, I like your videos 👍🏿👍🏿👊🏿

[@kylesinclair5015]

THE thing is when i work out i always have music on and then the girl texts me and then i feel like i have to reply.

[@eyalhadad6502]

Hamza, you made my life so much better and helped me improve myself, thank you.

[@Playboy_Z]

Hamza I am a skinny 12 yr should I worry about working out or gaining weight before working out?

[@trgaming3266]

Do both u need to bulk which basically means to train and eat a lot more than u do then after you've gained about 10kg 20kg u need to cut which means to train and eat less than you'll lose weight if ur serious about this look up bulk on KZbin and research it do the hard work and you'll get there

[@selfimprovement5442]

I'm 12 and about to turn 13 . I cutted first a I lost some kilos then I bulked and i think i have the best body for a 12 yo in the world nos

[@godismysavior6428]

Do both . You want to gain muscle weight for the most part and not fat weight .

[@cibri_]

He is only 12, he can't really bulk, he is at his parent place, his mother probably cook for him ! I'm 15 and i know what working out is when u r at ur parents place. Start with some bodyweight exercice like push up squat and ab exercice. Then, when ur parents will see that you gain weight, they will be more into your workout journey and they will accept to buy you some whey / weight. (Sry im a french kid so i didnt write english well)

[@journaldeborddaymeric]

You re 12, you should not even watch his videos. Have fun with your friends, be a child, you ll miss it later. You will focus later.

[@tomvlogs8463]

Mistake 1: be ugly

[@dubalito]

Thanks Hamza! I make videos too and I’ve been grinding and focusing on me. The Info in your video is great to me bc I’ve been working on bettering myself, but ur sleep advice has really been helping me a lot. Thank you and merry Christmas!

[@shadmhmd9278]

#bring_the_kiss_back

[@terminator_x.24]

I admit i'm not good in anything but with the help of hamza i'll improve

[@marcus716]

1:40 well i thought i was 'feminine' and 'needy' but i realised my problem is much deeper than that, namely that i got an avoidant attachment. So no it's not neediness but i'm just daydreaming because i am supressing my emotions.

[@bergsg2348]

During those 10 mins while I'm not replying I'm wathcing your videos, should be important enough.

[@darkmoon7422]

I believe you don't really understand why paying for dates is considered bad these days. You would be surprised how many girls from "good house", ones you'd call the quality women, feel like it's perfectly normal to go on a date with someone, playing dumb, only to get free meal/drinks/etc. Im not saying she goes there and connection isn't there AFTER the meeting, im talking about a girl that literally hates the guy beforehand and still goes there. Many women recently became entitled to the point it's easier to clear minefield with no prior experience than finding a girl that is actually somewhat normal. And precisely that created the "why should we risk it like that". Although I do agree that man should pay for the meal, i can understand the other stand on the matter aswell - some people just had to adapt to the environment they're in.

[@yaqubebased1961]

If the apparent role model of 1.41M mostly comprised of westerners is an arab, and that tater going muslim to support r@pe and polygamy at the same is not a PSYOP by saudis then idk what is

[@WabaAnimations]

Im never going to be a chad but I always like to listen Hamza and learn some stuff from him

[@danielstatler954]

I'm starting to dislike the Jeffrey Adonas comparisons. Both are too unrelatable. Jeffrey's younger brother trying not to end up like him maybe?

[@Los_HermanitosCruz]

Huh so that's what they do 💀🧐

[@aksheev]

Hey bros I just wanted to Ask something from you all that is it possible to get six pack abs without going to gym or without lifting weights means doing every exercise consistently everyday like 4 or 5 time in 1 day and then doing everyday exercise and doing all exercise but not going to gym and don't have weights so is it possible that I can have six pack abs ??

[@gora602]

Bro, I'm very emotional because both my father's side and my mother's side are very emotional people. How do I become unemotional?

[@gabbibboga8736]

First of all, I really love your channel, I whatch a lot of your vids, but I have a question You say that a real man is not on the side of the women watching netflix, and I'm totally whit you, but in the last period we see lots of women cheating on their man that provide for them and are busy working just for some fun in bed. I know you're aware of this, and I think you'll say "if she's like this, she isn't meant to stay whit a man because..." all the things that you already said in other videos, but is there a method to not end up like this other than break up whit the girl?

[@ilia2000]

Great video, you kinda inspired me to start my own channel. Thank you. One day I will overtake you.

[@mastercode6628]

OMG your so misogynistic . My son called jeffrey listen to you and he is gonna get beaten up by me because i am masculine (my name is jessica) SLAYYYYY

[@valkyrieseventeenseventysi7884]

I'm married but my husband have is supper needy usually gets super defensive like I rejected him are the same time but im just not into him being needy for his "needs" instead of warming Me up to want to fulfill his needs like be romantic or treating me well that's why I don't sleep with him rarely in the same room I feel bad for him but I don't want to have sex with him out of pitty because thin I feel worst I want to be treated like a woman not a roommate or and clean work ect. But im pretty hot and in my 20s ...and in just feel like I'm be wasted

[@abdalrahmanbader7088]

Bro i swear my father told me about the you have to be 100% different from your wife when I was really young I was propply like 11&12 and he referred it as + / -

[@emlu9525]

Looking back I noticed that I fucked up my relationship by depolarizing it after 2 years

[@leonardotemple4875]

I feel like these advices only apply at the start of a relationship, like in 3 years. But definitely not once you are you married