3 Hair Care Ingredients You Were Told To Avoid...And Why You Shouldn't

[@CurlyChemistry]

Hey! Quick note on preservatives, some believe that vitamin E and a number of “natural preservatives” are effective enough to kill bacteria and mold in water base products, this is not only false, but it is harmful to the consumer. I’m all about natural ingredients (which are still chemicals by the way), but if you decide to create at home or for your business please use an effective preservative like phenoxyethanol, need some advice on some others feel free to reach out to me at [e-mail]! (hugs!!!) :-)

[@keturahbethel6966]

I love you! I cannot tell ppl enough that everything is a chemical. Water is a chemical!

[@keturahbethel6966]

@Dr27B I am a chemical engineer, with extensive laboratory experience and experience in chemical product design. My senior thesis focused on the composition and market analysis of hair spray. I would to learn about opportunities available at your company.

[@daniellewinkelspecht8356]

YES!!!!! It is disturbing how many people are under the impression that vitamin e is a preservative. Same thing goes for essential oils. I hear it ALL THE TIME!! People just cant seem to wrap their heads around the fact that they are not in any way reliable preservatives. I also hear all the time that they put witch hazel in their product so its fine, or they put commercial aloe vera in their product and that has a preservative so its fine. People either cant, or wont, understand that you cant "borrow" preservatives from an already preserved product. I hear all the time "I do blah blah blah all the time and i have never had a problem" Thank you being a voice of reason out here on the world wide interwebs!

[@keturahbethel6966]

@@daniellewinkelspecht8356 I completely understand, science is not "evil." Society needs to stop the nonsense

[@Cieloazul85]

This is so true. I put vitamin E on my flaxseed gel and it still went bad like 2 days later. Thank you for debunking all of these myths.

[@GetGlamFam]

This is why we are best friends in my head! I love that you consistently give a scientific perspective with proper reasoning. I’m over some of these bandwagon videos, and then people look at me like I’m crazy when I’m telling them to clarify or saying that I don’t hop on hair growth trends

[@CurlyChemistry]

GlamFam you’re the best, you know that?! We gotta meet one of these days, love your entire family!! Thank you so much as always for your support and watching my videos! ((hugs!!!!) 🤗💕

[@GetGlamFam]

sharmaine369 my pleasure! Gotta support great creators! You are the bomb! 🙌🏽 We definitely gotta meet some day!

[@politereminder6284]

@@GetGlamFam I love your channel and all the pettiness. ☺. Keep at it!

[@jenniferazor9814]

@@CurlyChemistry is jojoba and peppermint stimulating growth oil good for your natural hair. can you look out this hair product called everything ebony?

[@malupet1142]

Finally a beauty vlogger with a background in chemistry.

[@Babyluv_]

Right! Someone who actually knows what they’re talking about lol

[@ellakay977]

Was just about to recommend GreenBeauty too . she's very good

[@CocoaCookies_]

People are so afraid of chemicals when absolutely everything is a damn chemical 😅. It’s frustrating to see companies that have no idea what the difference between preservatives and antioxidants are selling products and telling people to just put them in the fridge, as if things can’t spoil in the fridge. And they use their ignorance as a selling tactic that apparently works because so many people believe the misinformation.

[@maryapatterson]

It was the first thing we were told in my first chemistry class at the age of 11. I actually find it quite funny when non scientists are trying to inform you about this and that, quoting scientific papers and clearly knowing nothing about how to interpret the data. Not all papers are kosher!😜

[@malloryknox6802]

I love how people think "natural is better" when some of the most toxic substances in the world are natural 😂

[@Annemarie.swiftie]

Earlier today I was arguing with someone about products like this. And they ended up making me feel stupid bc I said they're fine in low amounts.

[@ThatGirlJD]

@@Annemarie.swiftie In Pharmacy/medicine there is a saying, "The dose makes the poison, and the cure." Drinking too much water will kill you, not drinking enough water will kill you. Everytime is a chemical some are natural, some are man-made. Some man-made chemicals take extract the chemical that is harmful in small doses and had little to no veggie to your body. We use arsenic to treat cancer. Too much arsenic can cause cancer. All that too say, you shouldn't feel stupid. You know what you're talking about. People fear what they don't understand. Especially when a little marketing propoganda is thrown in to make it sound scientifically sound.

[@stephody15]

Behentrimonium Methosulfate is one of my favorite ingredients too! When I say SLIP!!!!!! Baby my hair is always like butter. ALL of my favorite products have it

[@CurlyChemistry]

Yes!!! It's so amazing!! :-D

[@kapparhotau181]

I cant use coconut so this is a great alternative for slip for me

[@Nolanutt]

Hey! What sort of product MS have this? The ones I have haven't been good 😔

[@daisyflower1545]

Same girl. If a product doesn't have that in the first few ingredients, it usually doesn't work very well.

[@Stuffings00]

Curly Chemistry what is the difference between the ‘methosulfate’ and the ‘chloride’? Thank you!

[@FrankLeonRios]

1. Phenoxethanol 2. Bhentrimonium methosulfate 3. Dimethicone

[@lavellans]

I just use products that make my hair feel good and grow at this point. 😅 Going through everyone’s product lists are exhaustive.

[@xpresscolour9022]

Wrathe Lemon exactly

[@YTD07]

😫 fr though

[@helen9412]

Amen!

[@elizabeth-2213]

Plus it's mostly girls doing Google searches & making videos just repeating what some other girl said that she googled, lol.

[@rosamoralessimmons1619]

I am not all about natural products and safety (natural products are not inherently safe) but i will say ive noticed dry damage from products with significant amounts of behentrimonium methosulfate. My hair seems hate this product that leads with this and I know their always toxicity levels for everything, but i think that this is where trial is important. My hair has shown to love raw natural ingredients with a minimal amount of preservatives.

[@tiffanygantt2237]

I use grease and need sulfate to clarify and my hair is fine healthy thick and long

[@4knewt505]

Yes!!!

[@SEOshogun]

I kind of do the same thing for my fine type 4 strands. I don't use grease but I'm not afraid of cones in my deep conditioner and I use one of those cone filled silk serums on my ends after my leave in and right before my styler. Keeps me moisturized for days. No need to mist my hair daily with water or anything. After 3 days, I just use a sulfate free clarifying shampoo and start over. I love it.

[@tarjibroomfield8458]

Denise W Do you mind telling us what serum you use?

[@elizabeth-2213]

@@tarjibroomfield8458 I've never used a serum but I hear people rave about the Paul Mitchell Skinny serum. I bought a travel sized bottled & never used it, lol.

[@tarjibroomfield8458]

@@elizabeth-2213 I’ll have to check it out! Thanks!

[@donnettadaniels7926]

We need product recommendations. This will help us make better choices on hair products. As a naturalista , I spend so much money on products that are either harmful or just don't work in my hair. Every brand says that they are all natural until you read the ingredients. I am starting to spend an hour in the hair isle looking up ingredients, then I get frustrated and leave.

[@ShellyBlack8359]

Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge. So many of us are listening to women on KZbin who are NOT even licensed Cosmetologist, Chemist etc. Just passing on what they hear. You have to dig deep for knowledge! It would be nice if you had a hair care line😉💁‍♀️. God bless you

[@CurlyChemistry]

Thank you Shelly!!! :-)

[@sharnellc.lewison4419]

Great video 😄! I feel like preventing mold and bacteria growth definitely doesn't get enough attention in the natural hair community 👌

[@anaiyasmommy1]

Thank you for providing a sound, scientific perspective to demystify and debunk many common myths or beliefs about certain products and/or ingredients.

[@mcegypt20]

You know what's crazy? I stopped using one of my fav products cuz of the the craze to avoid silicones and I think I'm realizing that my hair actually likes it cuz I have high porosity. I just bought some more and am gonna give it another go! Thanks for your knowledge!

[@sumbdluvsme]

You know I love your videos and I just want to say thank you for what you do and how you share this information with us. I have made my own deep conditioners, leave in conditioners, and many more products because you gave me the knowledge to understand the products that I use. I haven't bought a commercial brand hair product in months. You are truly appreciated.

[@CurlyChemistry]

GO girl!!! I'm so excited for you! Keep creating! :-D

[@pebblesleak8214]

First of All... I love an intelligent sista....YESSSS Queen! Thank you for sharing! You should totally link up with the Green Beauty Channel...you Queens remind me a lot of each other....thank you for sharing...new subbie 😘😘

[@cvonmel7528]

Can you talk about DMDM hydantoin In hair products? I read it releases formaldehyde and now I’m wondering if I need to throw out all my hair products 😭

[@random_stuff8744]

BAHAH yes I'm also wondering litterly all my products have that idk what to do :(

[@warteashariley7271]

SAME !! Why I'm here

[@heatherettebabe]

There is a class-action lawsuit about it with Tresseme. I don’t have a chemistry background so it would be helpful if she would make a video on it. But I would say to probably find new products in the time being because it’s a little risky with the balding aspect. Plus there’s been a group of women claiming to permanently stop hair growth on their legs by shaving with Axe shampoo which has DMDM Hydantoin

[@carrothead6162]

Never use it

[@daisiesandpandas1218]

Just started using shine n jam because it was all over KZbin as braiding hair and this product is in it

[@lvncsr6166]

you are doing such amazing work educating those of us who have no knowledge/chemical background. Please keep on educating us!

[@Ashley_Lockett]

Girl I just had a stress trigger that I havent felt since college .... balancing chemical equations. Lol!!! Great info love these type of videos!!!!

[@CurlyChemistry]

Lol! Thank you!! :-D

[@tywanbrown3034]

I always appreciate you taking time out to inform us on what you know and learned

[@AfriPrincess411]

What about dmdm hydantoin?

[@reilley4268]

somewhat off topic but your hair looks super cute!! i love the shape of it so much!!!

[@CurlyChemistry]

Thank you! :-)

[@TamKam]

You taught me some things in this video😶. Feel like I was in a hair cooking class watching this. Gain a subbie from this beneficial video

[@CurlyChemistry]

Thanks Tam!! Glad you're here!! (hugs!!)

[@QWAsingz]

We meet again How many hair KZbinrs dyu follow🤣

[@TamKam]

@@QWAsingz how many do you follow🤔

[@klaydolph2624]

Thank you for this great education. I was afraid of sulfates, but now I know it is good for my hair. Thanks.

[@bjmorgan3092]

I use to follow the curly girl method when I first went natural and truly struggled with my hair. A friend gave me a bottle of Aussie 3 Minute Miracle and OMG it felt so good and that was the end of my G.G.M. My hair loves silicone and I do clarify now.

[@pinklobelia2389]

I’m pretty sure I’m allergic to phenoxyethanol as well as fragrances and environmental stuff. That ingredient and other preservatives in hair conditioners that I looked up are known allergens. It and some other preservatives make my scalp itch strongly and causes hair loss if I use a leave-in product that has it. It’s hard to avoid it so I’ll use it but won’t rub it into my scalp. I rinse it out if it starts itching before times up. I also stopped using deep and leave-in conditioners.

[@taast5157]

Finally someone reasonable! Thanks girl. I’m going back to my fancy Kérastase products ad they have dimethicone and it works!

[@Cieloazul85]

BTMS is absolute bae! I always look for it on my conditioners because it gives great slip.

[@aprilracine]

@Kira Sek Shea Moisture manuka honey and Madura oil hair masque. I’m high porosity, so I apply the conditioner throughout my hair and then spray my hair lightly with vinegar water. I leave it on for no longer than 30 minutes without heat.

[@audrariley3283]

Thanks for making these videos. You really are helping me if no one else.

[@CurlyChemistry]

Thanks Audra!! :-)

[@joycecollier6763]

TFS great info as usual. I truly look forward to all of your videos. The way you simplify the info and make it plain is very much appreciated.

[@CurlyChemistry]

Thanks Joyce! :-)

[@ashleyn4395]

I'm so glad you made this. I feel lowkey judged when I tell people that I use silicone based products as if I don't know what I'm doing. >_>

[@SEOshogun]

Found me a conditioner with some BTMS! I love it! Thanks for sharing with us the science of all these great chemicals and how they effect our hair!

[@CurlyChemistry]

You're so welcome!! :-)

[@Kate21200]

Can you explain DMDM hydanation plzzzz🥺

[@anitathompson3564]

Thanks for sharing and educating me I'm trying to get healthier hair and stronger hair I appreciate u, have a blessed day today in Jesus Christ our Lord GOD and savior Jesus Christ BY by

[@Listen2me400]

I feel like silicones may be what I’m missing to help keep my hair moisturized. It may be the missing link, but noooo, I did what the community said do, no silicones. I’m rethinking that now. I’ve always used shampoo so I clarify and maybe that’s why my hair is dry. I just started using cowashes but sparingly. I want my hair to be clean so I mostly use shampoo.

[@Asiahkye]

Okay I enjoyed this video way too much ! I was a pre-vet student and had to take a ton of microbio, chem, and organic chem courses. I’m glad I can kind of keep up with your explanations. Definitely just subscribed!

[@KLT828]

You are awesome letting ppl know about these ingredients. I have been telling ppl for yrs that dimethicone is not the devil😉

[@misspapo3444]

I love your videos. You back everything with science. Do you have a video discussing low and high porosity hair and what products should used for each?

[@jelenamiokovic5658]

Could you do a video on henna effect on hair? Lots of people say it binds to thw hair protein and strengthens it, what's your opinion on it?

[@debbiedebeaux]

Awesome! I'm relaxed again and high porosity. I now know that comes are not horrible as long as I clarify. Ty!

[@sakurat2452]

Thanks for this video ! So does that mean I can pre poo my hair with oils and they can still penetrate my hair shaft eventhough I used a silicon mask last week ?

[@shiphrahyasharahla7710]

⛔️ PLEASE DISCUSS DMDM HYDANTOIN there’s class action suit going on about it’s formaldehyde releasing properties. ⛔️

[@samettehayes7717]

Keep these vids coming!! I learnt sumthin today!!! Thanks

[@karacee5481]

I actually purchased phenoxyethanol to keeps my tea rinses mold free. It really works! One problem I have though: how much to put in a 8 or 16 fluid oz batch. Can you explain how to measure out or calculate the right amount? I don’t want to use too much or too little. Love your videos. You and Greenbeauty Channel would make a 🔥 🔥 🔥 collab!

[@iamkshanel4295]

I actually think it needs to be around 1 to 5% or something like that... but it should definitely be father maybe within the 3 at the bottom of your ingredient list.

[@iamkshanel4295]

You may have to do more research I use to know but forgot lol

[@pavwlik]

Hi, i am using shampoo with DIMETHICONE, but its medicaly for my sebhoreic dermatitis, i am using this shampoo only 2 per week, and after i use this shampoo i use second 100% bar shampoo to wash off the silicone is that ok? even olaplex uses dimethicone!.

[@Ava-xo1tp]

Hi I am wondering if I should try dove anti dandruff shampoo is it good or not? I won’t use it everyday just to get rid of shampoo build up and stuff

[@jeiivyandjeiivina3576]

Can we talk about dimethiconol is it really bad? Is the same has dimethicone?

[@Essence_90sBaby]

so if i use a deep conditioner that has dimethicone which is the only cone in it after using a cleansing/clarifying shampoo like shea moisture jamaican black castor oil shampoo would it be okay to use them consistently? i wash every two weeks btw

[@lizzieclay6774]

I love looking at your videos. Thanks so much.

[@CurlyChemistry]

Thanks Lizzie! :-D

[@kassiascipio8795]

thats why Aussie moist so bomb

[@user-rd9it6qm4t]

what about Triethanolamine

[@s.a.6326]

What about peg? For example peg-15? And quaternium-87?

[@dstale1]

I love your videos! I’ve been following you since you were in college.

[@bubblegummers84]

Informative and scientific - the best videos! Thank you. Can you do a video about the best clarifying ingredients please, possibly touching on seborrheic dermatitis/psoriasis if possible? Thank you!

[@CurlyChemistry]

I can add this topic to a future video on clarifying shampoos, for sure! :-)

[@sapphirehaircare]

This was goooooood info, I'm relaxed, but L❤ve the info you bring, tfs God bless you🙏❤

[@CurlyChemistry]

Thank you beautiful! God bless you tooo!! (hugs!!)

[@barbkelly9604]

What about safety of diazolidinyl urea in hair products?

[@valevb826]

what is your opinion on is alcohol denat bad for hair?

[@dakotakee1]

My stylist uses Wella Color mask temporary color on my hair. It has sodium hydroxide near the bottom of the ingredient list. Will this damage my curls or be toxic to my body over time? Usage is about 1/month. Thank you! Luv your channel 🥰

[@francinemaultsby6013]

Omgosh I use products that hve cones in it I use most of Aussie moist and I'm low porosity hair is that bad thing do u think that y my hair not growing it won't go passed my shoulder it just stop rt there lol

[@CurlyChemistry]

Hey! I don't think dimethicone is causing you hair to remain at SL lol, but I would recommend you check out this video I made on "Why Your Hair Hasn't Grown Pass Shoulder Length"? kzbin.info/www/bejne/jprdaIZobMpqo6s This will answer a lot of your questions! :-D

[@madamejb4057]

Thank you for posting! I love your channel and your personality! What so you think about Cold Process shampoo bars? Are they effective shampoos? What ingredients should we put in them to make them effective?

[@breem7864]

But silicones and sulfates are very drying to the hair and gives you a false sense of moisture because of the slip caused by silicone and then when you wash it out your hair feels stripped and dry and silicones and sulfates can cause build up and a lot of company use non water soluble and water soluble in the same products

[@carolharper4401]

So good to hear about this. Thank you for sharing. ♥️

[@malikaanderson1885]

Thanks for for the video if my hair likes it then it is for me. Glad I came across this video you gained a new subscriber thank you.

[@AAAReview]

I gave up dimeticone and jumped on curly girl method bandwagon. It ruined my hair, turned onto a Brillo pad riddled with single strand knots. Went back to silicones within months. Thank God they still make products with sulfates, silicons and preservatives.

[@CurlyChemistry]

Wow, I'm actually about to make a video on this topic. Thank you for sharing!

[@AAAReview]

@@CurlyChemistry please do! I'd love to see your scientific thoughts on the CGM. It definitely did does not work for everyone.

[@toriwillis8340]

so i have low porosity hair and i have purchased i product that i later realized had dimethicone in it, but i believe it was 14th on the ingredient list. since it’s not at a very high concentration, would it be very impactful on my hair?

[@zecare]

You are a gift 💝 love your channel and everything you stand for!

[@sopekookie7]

My hair love Dimethicone

[@zakirafreeland5569]

So once I clarify my hair with the shampoo and wash it out with a conditioner... I can go back to using cyclopentasiloxane after I'm finished washing my hair?

[@uberhaute_naturalz84]

Yes because it's volatile which means it evaporates within a few hours.

[@silverkarina]

Do I use clarifier when using oils and how often? Still every month?

[@user-sk9qk8ut5b]

Yeah once a month is enough or whenever ur hair looks weighed down and feels unnaturally greasy

[@slyfy3421]

Gosh,what about parabens?

[@ashleyaloud]

I'm googling all the ingredients in my conditioner to see if it's why my hair is frizzing and you are a wealth of knowledge. Thanks so much for making so much free content that is SO helpful!! 🥰

[@catzkc5488]

My concern with behentrimonium methosulfate and other quaternary compounds is about the potential for build-up. From what I have been able to determine from internet searching, anionic surfactants are unable to remove them from hair. Is this concern unfounded? I'd love to learn more from someone like you, who actually knows what they're talking about!

[@lilydawn3145]

Do you have a clarifying shampoo you recommend (my hair is 1A dead straight lol)

[@sherilynstephens4180]

I love your knowledge. My hair is chemical treated

[@mariaspeirs9725]

Thanks for this informative video that is based in scientific facts. Ive been paniking about the cgm & u have helped me loads. Thankyou so much.xxxx

[@goddessvibez5293]

Short, sweet, and to the point 👌🏽

[@africanprincessrams]

Informative post my dear. Thank you

[@CurlyChemistry]

Thank you! :-)

[@africanprincessrams]

sharmaine369 you are welcome my dear

[@khadijaomer1261]

There's a debate on dimothicone can you please solve it? People are arguing if it's water soluble or not, the argument goes for to use it or not. So, according to your video, it isn't water soluble yes?

[@niomismith6952]

People always are telling me to avoid dimicone they said it was bad for my hair. Then I watch you and I hear the opposite. So confusing. What is your opinion on dmdm?

[@alanaashley574]

Do you offer one on one classes?!

[@beaubeauknows3620]

Idk if you have a video on isopropyl alcohol but ppl go crazy when they see it in their products but its really just used to dissolve other products and by the time it hits the shelf its evaporated... what are your thoughts on this craze?

[@beaubeauknows3620]

@epit tan I asked her this because she has a chem background and since that post I graduated w/ my degree in Bio😂😂 From my research there isnt enough of the alcohol left in the product to be drying...when I see products that contain it it doesnt bother me and I am very particular about ingredients.

[@dominique4432]

Love BTMS. I personally try to avoid those other ingredients if I can. But Phenoxythanol really is in just about everything😩 Cannot wait for your time saver video. I'll take all the help I can get cause I take forever and I also procrastinate at points and that makes things even longer😂

[@CurlyChemistry]

Hey Dominique! Thanks for watching and yes I can't wait to share my next videooo, you're going to love it! :-)

[@TheChouketteGirl]

Hi, thanks for this video, very instructive but I have a few questions if you don't mind. What do you think of the preservatives made from Benzyl alcohol and Dehydroacetic acid (Cosgard/Geogard 221) are they really effective ? I'm making some homemade cosmetics and I don't think phenoxyethanol is sold for these kind of uses. About the BTMS, the concerns I have heard were more about the fact that it is bad for the environment and coating the hair in a silicon-like way which I might want to avoid since I have low porosity. Is this true ?

[@francinemaultsby6013]

Ok thanks so cones or not bad good to here I'm thinking that was the reason but I'm watch your video to see y it dnt go passed SL do u hve tips what I can use from remain length or growth

[@zhjn4038]

So .. What if i have low porosity hair and use products with dimethicone? Will it damage my hair or stop hair growth?

[@stef9656]

Just make sure you are clarifying your hair at least once a month🙂

[@Mrs_Canary]

I've been using "unnatural " cheap products for over a yr now. There shud b no rules 2 our hair. We r all learning together.

[@ericwilliams5518]

Strongly disagree on the phenoxyethanol. It's an irritant and causes sensitization. Don't want that on my scalp even in a small amount. Especially when there are safer preservatives. Love BTMS 50 and I have just decided recently that I'm ok with cones.

[@CurlyChemistry]

Eric Williams I strongly disagree with you as well, phenoxyethanol at 1% or less in hair care formulations are not irritants or sensitizers. By the time phenoxy gets to the hair it’s so diluted in the formula it has no effect on the hair. Not to mention the fact that’s it’s water soluble and easily washes off the hair as soon as someone washes their hair. Like I mentioned in a previous video, everything even water is toxic at a certain amount. Let’s not single out phenoxy and ignore everything else.

[@Beezyteegraphics]

But what if you use 3 or more products at one time containing this ingredient then the 1% increases because of the various products used. That is when it can become problematic. Also, if you use moisturizers, you won’t be washing it out immediately, so where does the toxin go. It’s absorbed the secreted in the urine, but it lives in the body until excreted?

[@1976kookiemama]

Hi there, it's me again. I just the silicone question just a few minutes ago on another video that this video just answered for me. You said that we would want to clarify at least monthly. So once I have clarified it, can I go back in with my silicone filled conditioner right after?

[@seve1886]

Daaaang sold! Subscribed!💕

[@soniaharewood4012]

I wanted to know if petrolatum is harmful.

[@kanagaraj9837]

Thanks for such an informational video. Can sodium gluconate act as chelator in handmade soap in place of edta and will it act as preservative against the rancidity of oils. Kindly do share ur views on the same .

[@stephyclaws]

Thank you so so so much for this video!! I subscribed! You are beautiful by the way xx

[@CurlyChemistry]

Thank you! 💜

[@stephyclaws]

@@CurlyChemistry very welcome xx

[@jonelle2911]

I love this hair style😍

[@ladym2398]

Good information thanks

[@batgirlp5561]

Haven't seen you in a while...looks like someone had a baby! Congratulations!

[@CurlyChemistry]

LMBO! Uhh...no ma'am, just been busy. Uploading this week! ;-)

[@sharonmabson7868]

LOVE IT, thanks!!!

[@bebrezzy1744]

What do you clarify your hair with?

[@ladynessa]

A shampoo that's clarify. Clarifting shampoo

[@donnettadaniels7926]

Why is it that natural hair products are not federally regulated?

[@FrauMase]

Magnificent content!

[@kiki1573]

If you're a product junkie like me you definitely want something that has safe preservatives besides parabens. As much as natural hair care products cost.... Shiiiiddd I definitely want my stash to LAST FOR A GOOD WHILE✌🏾🤷🏾‍♀️